You cant make up for missing your wedding. Block them. You sent them an invitation. The wedding was just the latest incidence. Throw out the trash including your mom's family. Get a restraining order and never speak to them. They are only upset because of social repercussions

I wouldn't be sad about it, you just saved yourself the grief of your Mom/Bro trying to make your brother the center of attention. And your parents aren't sad, they're just mad at the crap they're getting. I'd also block the rest of the family who insist on reconciliation, they don't know crap!

@IzzyPR2010

6 күн бұрын

Mom only wants OP to kiss and make things up in order to avoid getting divorced. The mother couldn't even bothered to be nice when calling her, instead being insulting. Never do a favor for someone who starts off by being disrespectful, you never do that with someone you need something from. Mom can go pound sand, all she wants is to save her marriage and her reputation, she still doesn't give a crap about OP.

NTA Deadbeat parents would have destroyed your wedding day

Clearly NTA, but the whole missing school events thing brings up a serious peeve that the schools in my area do. They schedule all the events in the district at the same day and time. I see a lot of kids with hurt feelings when a parent is stuck picking if they should goto the middle school or the grade school. If they have two parents it's not so bad because each can take an event, but if it's a single parent they get stuck picking one or the other. Even rotating which kid even you go to one of them is gonna get hurt.

Things were going so well then they slammed another unneeded story right at the end with no break or header.

Mom, I'm organizing an event. That's nice honey. Do you want to know more? That's nice honey. If all attempts by OP to inform mom about the wedding went like thos, OP dodged a lot of bullets. Better the a-holes never attended. 😂😂

The second I heard boy mom I cringe internally

just go no contact with your mom and brother ... possibly reconnect with your dad

@andrewbest-zr9qe

6 күн бұрын

There's no point. He was there as a willing participant

Mom, dad, I AM GETTING MARRIED. All the rest I find passive aggressive.

@greyscaleanon7551

6 күн бұрын

According to the update/clarification, OP only didn't mention it was a wedding when talking face-to-face directly to her parents and brother. She talked about it openly at family reunions/events with them in the room and they all received the same paper invites and follow-up text every one else did, but they didn't respond to either and may have never read them in the first place.

Thank goodness I have an addon to increase video speed past 2x. Voice is slow as f. As for the story, even if she downright banned her family on her wedding she still wouldn't be the a-hole. That amount of neglect and deprivation is downright criminal.

@stirrednotshaken4837

6 күн бұрын

You don’t need an add on for that. It’s under the settings icon at the top of the screen

Story 1: OP is NTA. The maternal side can go pound sand. The egg and sperm donor and their golden-child didn’t give a damn.