I Don't Care About A Woman's Body Count!
Discover the controversial topic of body count and whether it matters in relationships. Join the debate as we explore different opinions on the subject and try to uncover the truth. Don't forget to subscribe to stay updated on all the latest discussions!
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Agreed. A man's body count matters to me. I'm not trying to marry a man who slept with a bunch of women. That is just gross and I do not understand how any man can find that to be a "flex." It's embarrassing for both men and women.
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
And it’s a cause of why women have so many infection issues. Men won’t get treated or go to drs , and there actually aren’t many treatments or even diagnosis tools for them either . So they reinfect their wife/gf with the same yeast/bacteria over and over again because they thought it was cute to catch bacteria from women they claim they don’t care about just to make their wife sick later .
@clarkkent2005
9 ай бұрын
It’s often seen as a flex because men actually have to work and self improve to get sex, let alone attention from women. Women don’t
@cl8wnm5n
8 ай бұрын
BINGO
@AmynChe
7 ай бұрын
AMEN!!! It’s trashy and capable of bringing me disease and embarrassment as well.
I regret every s3xual encounter with every man in my past. If i knew everything i knew now i would have remained a virgin.
@Bri-nc8yp
10 ай бұрын
Same I slept with 7 and regret all 7. They were all races my 7. However, men will be men. I’m celibate for almost two years now. Next person I sleep with is my husband.
@christopherm202dcfinest2
10 ай бұрын
@@Bri-nc8ypyou got passed around by the UN lol shyt crazy
@lillady1770
10 ай бұрын
Say it louder 😂😂
@LetGoStressFree
10 ай бұрын
@@christopherm202dcfinest2Shaming tactics smh
@christopherm202dcfinest2
10 ай бұрын
@@LetGoStressFree how that’s shaming lol I love ho3s but it’s just the truth
Things are so out of proportion in our culture. Women are shamed too much for their past sexual history (even if their count is low, or they were young at the time and are now celibate) and men aren’t shamed enough.
@zenobiathedream3103
10 ай бұрын
💯
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
Wholeheartedly agree!
@adaliantsiki
10 ай бұрын
Men are not shamed at all
@Raphaeltheslayer
10 ай бұрын
@@adaliantsikiwe are our society people talk about it like the population of people don’t make up society because nobody shames men about it they don’t get shamed and that becomes the social norm be the change you want to see
@3mi3mi
10 ай бұрын
@@adaliantsiki Sadly yes, it’s a man’s world.
And when it’s time to settle, they look for a virgin…smh.
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
To infect her with everything they’ve been catching all along.
@SweetPhantom
10 ай бұрын
I know a man that did this! He actually broke her virginity, got her pregnant, tried to convince her to get an abortion, but due to her religious beliefs didn’t want to do it, so he decided to marry her. He refers to her as “ol girl” not his girlfriend/fiancé/wife, but “ol girl”!! When I asked him how he feels about being a husband and having a baby soon, he said “like another day. Better now then later”. Homie really doesn’t care about the woman he is with, he is using her because she was a virgin. He still parties, drink, smoke, stay out all night, etc. She is going to wake up one day and all hell is going to break loose.
@Emptytopfloor
10 ай бұрын
@@SweetPhantom wish all women were born aware of this. Women’s naivety is their biggest weakness.
The same people talking of body count, such as the passport bros, are traveling the world to engage in relations with women in other countries. The irony and hypocrisy is mind boggling. There is also the issue of them demeaning black women and using that to justify their travels. When does this madness end?
@Wonderwoman79G
10 ай бұрын
What is even worse is that the majority of these women are s%x workers- smh.Yet these same paossport bros shame BW for their body count.
@tessw9744
10 ай бұрын
And nothing changes for them because they are still THEM in another country. They take the same mindset with them.....and women in other countries know it and don't want it ether.
@4Waridi
10 ай бұрын
@@tessw9744 true
@18QueenHearts
10 ай бұрын
This right here!!!! It's like them shaming women for being single mothers as if they became single mothers without a man who most times decided to abandon them being an active and willing participant. When does it end?? All I know is that wise women are exhausted and choosing peace and I guess to be single because the madness and degeneracy is too much and even that they're trying to attack lol...Lord alone can help at this stage.
@Ms9mmBeretta
10 ай бұрын
Literally stamping their passports to knock foreign chicks down overseas, acting like their intentions are purely to "find a wife." FOH
Guys who sleep around seem irresponsible.
@Trailblazers323
10 ай бұрын
seem?
@RahYisrael99
8 ай бұрын
Irresponsible and dangerous!
Folks don’t realize that when you can’t say no to something, you’re a slave to it. Sex is such a serious thing. It really should be treated as sacred and only between a man and his wife. The breakdown in society were seeing in real time has a lot to do with this. I have a very low body count, but I regret each and every one of them, including my ex-husband. He didn’t deserve to be married. I was young, immature, and we were unevenly yoked. When you are free from the slavery of immorality it’s a much better feeling.
@Sky-yh3ml
8 ай бұрын
Agree w most of this tbt, relationships are lifelong just not the same person ppl change jobs and partners all the time!
@bd10232003
8 ай бұрын
@@Sky-yh3ml Breakdowns in relationships do happen. That’s why we have to be emotionally mature before we even enter into one, (romantic relationships) and we have to be honest when our feelings begin to change.
@sha-tiahsampson3074
8 ай бұрын
Agreed I don’t have a lot of bodies either but I don’t even want nobody to touch me atp. They were undeserving
He's lying about over 100.... sorry.
@rogers5622
10 ай бұрын
Definitely a drunk answer 😂
@johnconelly9139
10 ай бұрын
100 mammoths and brontosaurus
😂😂😂 The crazy standards modern society puts on men to sleep around, yet if I don’t live by those standards, I’m foolish? It most definitely does matter, this is exactly why I’m proud of myself REMAINING a virgin until I get married to my wife, and if I get judged for doing the right thing, so be it. 😊
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
That's wonderful 😊🥰😇🙏 Hopefully that self control will carry over in many aspects of your life, and decent women adorn men of decent caliber, integrity , and honor.
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
It will definitely come into play if you and future spouse decide to have a family! Recovery from pregnancy is essential for healing and wellbeing.
@charlesolivierdorcent
10 ай бұрын
@@leaellas8400 Absolutely, even before I found this channel, I always thought differently about sex than other young men did. I looked at sex as something with an incredible amount of responsibility, and being careful with who I do it with. While some of my former friends had sex in middle school and high school, I stayed out of it simply because my gut instinct told me “Don’t do it, you don’t know what you getting into, save yourself”. Even to this day, people still laugh about me being a virgin, and I’m not ashamed of it at all.
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
@@charlesolivierdorcent They may laugh fist but you get the last laugh. They are dealing with the hidden or potential consequence of various issues, including but not limited to STDs, pregnancy scares or unplanned children, aborted/miscarried fetuses, secret heartache, disappointment, drama, unnecessary expenses that could go towards something more fruitful, etc. It's temporary gratification which yields ultimate consequences that are still detrimental in both short and long term cases, for both men and women. A sense of responsibility and integrity distinguishes a boy from a man. The path of least resistance is often a trap, especially for those who don't desire accountability. Double standards may exist to appease men, but what appears as a benefit now will ultimately be a curse of future generations and haunt during old age. Men bear the burden of being leaders of households (family) and their wives during their adult and marriage, so they ought to act accordingly by leading by example 😊. You are not owed anything from anyone (especially not a woman), but you are doing exactly what you ought to according to God's design, so may you maintain your strength/shield and your blessings multiply with time, 🙏😇🥰🌻✨
@jarrodgoforth1257
10 ай бұрын
Don’t let anyone shame you man it’s your life and how you live it
I’m disgusted. Men body count matter as well. I don’t want to be with no man that been with a whole lot of women. Then he’s a liar. He look drunk in the video lord help him.
@realtalk6720
7 ай бұрын
Would you marry a virgin man, most women won't. However on the flip side most men would do anything to marry a virgin woman. 🤷♀️
@yhiontop
6 ай бұрын
why won't a woman marry a virgin man? Who told you that most wont? Men?@@realtalk6720
@Pomagranite167
4 ай бұрын
Lol @realtalk6720 HOES dont wanna marry virgin men. HOES. Traditional, good, faithful, loyal virgin women? They want to marry a man of the same caliber. You don't wanna share a good woman? A good woman don't wanna share a good man 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ a lot of men would do anything to MARRY a virgin. But that dont mean they wanna make her happy or be faithful to her. Don't mean shit. Good women are not looking to be with a man who has no self discipline when she saved the best parts of herself for her husband. Get a grip. Women who sleep around want a man who has been around. Find god.
Yes it matters because it means you’re not disciplined. It doesn’t matter the gender. I don’t even like everybody and anybody. That’s just way too much touching.
@yourstruly1984
10 ай бұрын
Yes... this!! The idea of a whole bunch of ppl private area bumping against mine is just ridiculous🤮 I can't do it !
@cakesinthecity
8 ай бұрын
For real 😂
That’s over 100 soul ties 😷😷😷😱😱😱🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️
@adaliantsiki
10 ай бұрын
There is no way he has no STDs and STIs
@VixxKong2
10 ай бұрын
@@adaliantsiki If he used protection all the time then he's very possibly clean
@adaliantsiki
10 ай бұрын
@@VixxKong2 you can still contract STDs and STIs using condoms through skin contact on the genitalia area and oral sex, some like HPV can remain undetectable for years before symptoms show up. The only 100% protection against STDs and STIs is abstinence
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
@@VixxKong2There are viruses that don't care about condoms. HPV & herpes are two such ones. Skin or other membranes are sufficient for transfer. And worse if he did oral; let's be real ... maybe less than 5% of sexually active people - whether or not they use condoms - are using a dental-dam ("oral-comdom") because they don't think they have to use a condom unless it's penetrative intercourse or they don't care to know these options exist. And males are the carriers of HPV virus due to the design of their anatomy, especially when not circumcized.
@ariaryayy7314
10 ай бұрын
@@VixxKong2not likely. Condoms don’t protect against every infection. herpes, genital warts, syphilis and mpox aren’t protected against condoms.
High body counts mean infidelity.
@sha-tiahsampson3074
8 ай бұрын
So true , what you practice in single hood you carry into relationships
@lmn1516
3 ай бұрын
Or coercion
It’s the “Get your hand off of me!” for me 😂😂😂 but I agree….you can tell he has absolutely no shame on who he sleeps with either…I mean no shame.
@LedePat
8 ай бұрын
He's gross
@cakesinthecity
8 ай бұрын
Lol right 😂😂😂
Thank you for always calling out men and speaking against the double standards. I actually just posted a video yesterday about reasons for waiting till marriage and shouted you out (as well as a couple of other brothers) and referred to you all as real men because y’all love your wives, children, and your communities. I hope more people will pursue abstinence. Your voice is really important in this hookup culture . Men like y’all are changing people’s lives for the better - I know these videos are aimed at growing men, but women (especially some of us who don’t have positive male role models in our own lives) benefit a lot from these messages. I thank God for channels like this.
@babyg7796
10 ай бұрын
I’m currently in my second abstinent journey after a 5 year monogamous(only on my part) relationship. It’s been 4 months. Last abstinent journey was 1.5years. It’s sooo much more peaceful & clear.
@moneyman8777
6 ай бұрын
what double standards do you speak out against that women have? I already know the answer lol
See this why I’m single 😭 whole generation has lost the plot
@90ejb
7 ай бұрын
I agree. Dating and marriage seems so miserable. Especially the people talking about it.
It matters to me but not in the basic way most people think. If a man has a large body count it tells me he doesn't value having a connection with others. They are just a number to him. Men like that don't turn down nothing but their collar, they will sleep with ANYONE AT ANYTIME IF THEY GET THE OPPERTUNITY.
There is nothing casual about sex, and we need to stop fooling ourselves. I knew I was not going to wait until marriage t have sex, because, I always knew that there was the likelihood that I would not marry, and even if I did I did want that awkward first night to be the beginning of what should be forever, but never was I interested in sex just to "scratch the itch" as the term says.
The only people who don't care about body count are those who has had a lot of sex with a lot of partners. If you are 28+ years old and had less than 5 sexual partners, why would you want someone of that same age range who has had 10+ sexual partners? People think that everyone is living a wild, sex filled life in their teens and 20s but that is not the case at all. There are quite a few men and women who choose to reserve their bodies for future spouses or people who they truly have an emotional connection with.
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
5-10 are similar numbers. The person at 5 is a few breakups, ghostings, away from being number 10. Cause if that relates doesn’t work out, she’s at 6 which rounds to 10 anyway and if that isn’t her soulmate she’s at 7 unless she gives up sex forever . Let’s tell the truth because in reality people are closer 50-100+. One girl said she had 2000.
@kuraikoitoe
8 ай бұрын
There is no reserving anything for anyone when it is brutally taken from you by people that don't care. For a lot of people it is not a choice.
@eve3363
8 ай бұрын
@@kuraikoitoeHow are you comparing sexual assault to someone voluntarily having sex?
@kuraikoitoe
8 ай бұрын
@@eve3363 i am not. I am saying that not everyone has a bodycount that they chose and not everyone has the choice to wait until marriage. Still people are quick to judge. Bodycount and sleeping around are not the same.
@eve3363
8 ай бұрын
@@kuraikoitoe Your comment does not relate anything impure talking about or the video is talking about. No one is discussing people who have been sexually abused so you need to stop with your New Age, demonic thinking.
People with high body counts must be real friendly. How can they connect to so many people in that way?
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
Connect? They aren’t doing any connecting lol girls give it up easy. Men told me all they have to do is be alone with most women and they will give it up immediately.
@mablem.9094
10 ай бұрын
Clubs, strip clubs, and orgies
@djidjine5082
9 ай бұрын
They don’t connect with them lol.
@cakesinthecity
8 ай бұрын
Alcohol and drugs
@mablem.9094
8 ай бұрын
@@djidjine5082 People with high body counts doesn’t connect with anyone, to say the least.
In our community, women are held to way too high standards and the men are held to way too low standards. Balance is God plz.
All this talk about body count, and no one talks about sexual health at all, and protecting yourself if you intend to do that. Yet the STI/STD rates are the highest in our community. Especially among black women. Everyone isn't necessarily sleeping around either. There are married women, men too, whom spouses were out there cheating and brought them something back. Aside from the spiritual soul ties, it's the dangers of the reckless behavior that scares me. Because all it takes is one person to mess it up for you.
@yourstruly1984
10 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
The sad part is because stds aren’t why they care about body count. That’s when I realized they had ulterior motives. No stds are fine with them, they just don’t want the sexual competition
It does matter and goes both ways; for women and men
Mannn I always love when you back your videos up with scripture 🙌🏽 praying that God continue to bless you & your channel! Keep going up for Jesus! I pray that more young people like myself run across your videos because we need the truth to set us free🗣️🙏🏽
If you love the person, body count won't matter. It's also none of anyone's business when first meeting.
How can men pair bond with high body counts?
This conversation is so exhausting 🤦🏽♀️
I’m gone write a list when I get home, “The devils playground” and I’m gone write down the names of people and places where I need to stay away from! I have 3 bodies and I’m embarrassed and don’t want anymore until my husband honestly
@MR-cr7yc
10 ай бұрын
I found my people! 4 and So embarrassed 😣 If I knew what I know now!
@hellothere8347
10 ай бұрын
@@MR-cr7ycI feel you!
@Bri-nc8yp
10 ай бұрын
I have 7 and regret them all.
@hellothere8347
10 ай бұрын
@@Bri-nc8ypyou live & you learn 🩷
@Brandiisbeloved
10 ай бұрын
Me too. I have only one and he was my high school sweetheart. We broke up almost two years ago. And awaiting marriage this time around. Why would I want a promiscuous man who likely won't be satisfied with anything? That's like mixing clean laundry with dirty laundry
My God. People need to wake up. ⏰️
I don't have a high body count but I never really cared about anyone else's because we all have a past. Plus I'm older so the longer you live, I expect a man's number to be higher. PLUS just because we're dating doesn't mean I'm having sex with you. You may have 100, doesn't mean I'm about to be 101. But that was an interesting point about them being more likely to cheat. I may reconsider my stance lol
@RahYisrael99
8 ай бұрын
And the spiritual residue left behind from all the bad spirits will transfer to you.
First guy is chuffed about having 100+ body count but has likely never experienced true love, a strong connection and a long lasting, trusting relationship. Rich with no wealth
Everyone deserves grace when they realize their mistake. God is most forgiving.❤
@samantharcregan23
8 ай бұрын
Thank you
Only niggas that care about the body count ain’t in the count..💎
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
Keep lying to yourself. Men who care are also in the count because of their double-minded view on women's standards. Men ought to practice the standards they expect in a partner, but that's the ideal, not the reality.
"Conquered" is a crazy word to use for "slept with".
Did he said over 100??? WTF. A regular woman is not even close to a fraction of that.
Crazy how so many males have slept with so many women and it seems to not matter most of them women that are terrible at fishing for men start out real young no experience and proper guidence
Not if she is a preference. Self-hate is real. What is required from his own women is not required of his preference.
@VixxKong2
10 ай бұрын
These same men would get in Kim Kardashian's panties if they had access to her, but they'd shame an ordinary woman for having 3 ex-boyfriends
@justinebailey5333
10 ай бұрын
That part
Straight up facts, brother in Christ! Happy birthday to your son!
ALL PRAISES TO THE MOST HIGH POWER YAH!!!! Great balanced video!!!! I love that ur doing the will of The MOST HIGH POWER YAH my he bless u & ur family!!!
Thank you for sharing this perspective!
I went to high school with the guy doing the interview (host) real cool guy very down to earth. I’m glad to see him doing something productive
I don’t care about body count. Yes it shows you lack sexual discipline BUT if you’ve changed, and started treating your body like a temple & recommitted yourself to a higher power then we can move forward. And without saying…you NEED to have a clean bill of health-PERIOD!! Like he said, I don’t care who came before, I’m the the next(and hopefully the last). I have no desire to know intricate details of your past sexcapades & please don’t ask me about mine b/c some of those men are major mistakes I wish I could take back.
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
Men can’t get tested for everything yet can still give it to a woman, so a “clean bill” means absolutely nothing for a man. For example yeast, bv, hpv are all infections men can give but can’t really be tested for .
This was gold!!!😂❤
NO PAIR BONDING I GUESS
@PrimeNPC
10 ай бұрын
"What's bonding?"
The pandering is off the charts. Ladies don't let men like this set you up for failure. MOST men care about bodycount. Run it up if you want.
Great message here 👑 Just subbed!
Congratulations on 100,000 subscribers ❤❤❤❤❤
@TheShumakeWay
10 ай бұрын
Thank you
Well done, keep up the great work.❤❤
@TheShumakeWay
10 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
He's A LIARS TOO.
This whole body count conversation that is being had online is sooo bad for relationships. Pitting women & men against each other. It's *_inherently adversarial_* . And then people wonder why dating is so difficult.
@hellothere8347
10 ай бұрын
Dating is difficult due to the fact majority of everybody doing everything backwards! It has nothing to do with body counts. But that’s just another thing that’s terrible
@ec6621
10 ай бұрын
@@hellothere8347 yeah, the body count rhetoric is a symptom of an dysfunctional dating perspective
@K_M.G
10 ай бұрын
Dating is difficult because people today think it's okay to sleep with everyone. That is why he is covering this video. Body count matters for long term relationships. The stats even shows that relationships are much more successful between partners who have lower body counts.
@ec6621
10 ай бұрын
@@K_M.G my issue with body count rhetoric is the slut shaming of women. Further the ho heartening of men. That's what is so *_inherently adversarial_* . But merely asking about one's sexual history isn't the problem. The problem is the snap judgment and write off of an individuals character and values. While statistics may say that (for both men & women), a _group_ will have higher or lower chances of success in relationships, it doesn't mean the _individual_ will have those same chances. The snap write off of an individuals character is itself something that could be judged.
@BrothaJohn-br2hd
3 ай бұрын
Well its hard for men to find low bodycount women
This whole interview was hilarious 😂
It doesn’t matter because people don’t tell the truth or don’t even really know the actual numbers! Real Talk
@K_M.G
10 ай бұрын
The marriage statistics disagrees with you.
@trisha1989
10 ай бұрын
@@K_M.G please tell me about what the marriage statistics are saying about men and women lying about body counts. Did you see how quickly the young man who was drunk af but was able to change from 100-50 sexual interactions without hesitation ? He switched because he wanted her to be the next conquest! That’s why STD/STI rates are high….too many lies!
@Brandiisbeloved
10 ай бұрын
People with a lot don't tell the truth. Virgins and people who can count how many people they've slept with on one hand will tell the truth. People lie because they are ashamed and know it's wrong.
@raecoleman-wf2cp
8 ай бұрын
@@K_M.Gplease 🙄 I JUST left a dude over a year ago because he tried to keep his MARRIAGE a secret from me. Now he's dating another woman IN MY APARTMENT BUILDING., and he's not even from my City, let alone my building 😂 he ALSO slept with 2 of my friends, too. That man ain't SHIT.
@K_M.G
8 ай бұрын
@raecoleman-wf2cp What does that have to do with my comment? The marriage statistic shows that couples with a high body count are far more likely to divorce. Those are facts.
Amen...Amen...💕💕
You didn’t lie one bit💯
It only matters if it shows up in your character, responsibilities, empathy, and trauma (from a person's past). For a person's current, it does matter because you can't respect anybody, if you don't care about yourself.
@snatched.4513
10 ай бұрын
It matters always
Love this conversation. I think it’s less of an addiction more so lack of love or self love from their upbringing. It takes fully loving yourself and being selective for your benefit. So I agree. Great video.
This whole interview is wild man, it's like a perfectly acted comedy skit, just punchline after punchline. Someone needs to start overlaying these types of videos with audience laughter every time they drop a line
I would not be interested in a man with that much sex history… no thanks… honestly it’s actually impressive when I met men that have never had sex outside of his race… even though I’ve been with men that have had this.
Anddddd he sounds completely intoxicated while sharing this👀
Sure it matters. It speaks to peoples character and morals.
Thy Art loosed
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is gold!!!!!
He’s just looking for clout. He ain’t serious.
Alcohol is a truth serum.
30 year old female with a 5 body count. I was told my a few man that they were turned off by that because I didnt have supposely alot of sexual experience when these men I was in long term relationships. I guess everyone is different and has different preverances
@haahmayan9637
3 ай бұрын
He’s a fool he should’ve been grateful you could pair bond sexually with him what an absolute idiot 😂 don’t be ashamed by that you still have experience that’s a blessing to move differently now
Wow...just wow! Whatever happened to being selective?
If someone loves you it doesn't matter if you had 0 or 100.
It matters
1 Corinthians 6 … I feel that
I'm so glad I'm married
Wow. I did not know she was married.
People can have spirit spouses and sex demons because of that
Is it possible do you think to have a lasting positive relationship with somebody. If you have a past like that and have changed?
@90ejb
7 ай бұрын
Yes. Trust in God and devote your mind and body to Him. He is the only one who can make you pure. Promiscuous/fornication is a major sin and we all know that. Jesus is the forgiver of all things if we come to Him. Don't let them guilt you into thinking you'll never be worthy of love. The truth is none of us are worthy. And Jesus Christ first loved us. 🙏🏾
Plus I'm not saying this is the case for everyone, but some of us have a high body count due to early sexual abuse that influenced our choices until maturation. I'm DUMB picky now but HS/early 20s? Phew
@Bb-jm6wx
10 ай бұрын
70% of bw were abused, what you chose to do is your choice. Take accountability. That “phew” is really gross
It’s funny because I’m a firm believer that women set the tone in relationships and interactions. I’m happy she did that. S.n: the interviewer walking about interviewing drunk college kids is so predatory to me.
This is hilarious. A dude last year told me his number and I intantly lost interest.
Lessons
He really sounds intoxicated.
The whole conversation is a shaming tactic to keep women from gaining "experience" and figuring out what they like and don't like so when these guys who have been undesirables most of their life finally make enough money to buy a woman's attention, she will not(at least they think this is how it works...) be able to discern whether or not they are any good sexually or that they will be able to define pleasure for her around their capabilities. Its flawed logic...
@FightsRightsAlways
10 ай бұрын
Lol ALL OF THIS👏👏👏👏👏
@VixxKong2
10 ай бұрын
I didn't think about all that. You're thinking 20 steps ahead 👀
@K_M.G
10 ай бұрын
You sound like one of those 1000 body count girls trying to justify being a thot. 🤣
@kayjeffs3741
10 ай бұрын
Exactly! I've been saying this on a lot of posts...its about sexual competition...they don't want the woman to have possibly already experienced better than them...
@Ivan-xk4uy
10 ай бұрын
I don’t think you need experience sexually either a man or woman to know what a healthy happy and kind relationship looks like. Sex outside of marriage is only for pleasure not for building connection and pleasure. Having sex with people you’re not a n a committed relationship with can lead to much pain and unnecessary suffering and stress, if you have a tendency to bond correctly with people. It’s a reason why majority of women fall for men they have sex with, and contrary to popular belief many Men also fall in love with sex it’s just not talked about because it makes Men seem “weak”.
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I mean at least he's fair. Too many men sleep with anything but get grossed out when a woman sleeps with more than 2 men.
It kinda gives sexual deviant but at the same time I actually don’t believe he was able to pull that many women. I especially don’t believe that if he was actually able to get that many women that all those experiences were consensual. Idk though thankfully I don’t get together with men like this
Unberleaveable . Loose. 😳👍😇🙏
A woman's past is her past. It has nothing to do with a new man or relationship.
Don’t forget, you can’t have a high body count just maybe “1 or 2” for “experience” nobody likes clean virgins 😩
@K_M.G
10 ай бұрын
A lot of men like virgins though. I was a virgin when I first met my fiancé. It really just depends on the guy.
@DeematheFashionDesigner
10 ай бұрын
@@K_M.G yeah it’s hard out here.
@leaellas8400
10 ай бұрын
@@K_M.G Men who "like virgins" should be virgins themselves. Any other way, and he is also a part of the problem.
@DeematheFashionDesigner
10 ай бұрын
@@leaellas8400 I think that is a 0.02 % of the population. It sucks that we are frowned upon!
@dennisg7709
9 ай бұрын
Most women hate vigin men...
So many double standards
The game he gave is son is common sense but you know common sense ain’t common ..
Women must respect our bodies and be very protective of our mental and physical health bc we do not want to be a walking mentally ill zombie and be a laboratory of stds. 1 Corinthians 6:18. First and foremost God told us the proper use of our bodies. Romams 12:1
I don’t know. I had sex for the first time when I was 36. I went through college and have a career now and know who I am. I had some fun after that because I enjoyed sex with different men and even tried a woman. This is how I found my long term commitment I have now. We have been together for eight years now. Neither of us had sex with anyone else once we clicked and enjoyed each other. I agree you must use condoms.
He's Blacky Chan the Sluring Drunken master of fornication 😂😂😂
I've only been with 2 guys, first guy we never went all the way but my husband is th one I lost my virginity to.
this topic is getting severely old if I see one more video of any person that looks older than 25 doing interviews(past collage age) and asking annoying degenerate brain rot questions that is just sensationalized I’m blocking and deleting their content. These street interview just like podcast bro need to be fine $5k fee for public nuisance. Microphone and cam equipment need to me $3k a piece; it’s to accessible to these men that have nothing to tech, nothing to educate the public but spread at propaganda that keep the controversy speeding along.
All ima say is spiritually…that means you’ve had sex with all of those other ppl he or had as well. And you will take a piece of all those people with you. And people wonder why they are depressed, mental health crazy, and everything else. To me it almost feels disgusting. It’s scary. Folks say thats judgement but idc it’s gross.
If everyone can theoretically can be saved by Jesus does it really matter if you change your ways and do the right thing. If we expect everyone to give criminals, addicts, gang members, etc... a second chance why do we turn our backs on people who have casual sex especially women? It seems really backwards to forgive people that sell poison to our community, but not the woman who has had a lot of sex. These men have an actual body count of people that died from drugs. I am not saying that second chances shouldn't be given, but I side eye anyone who thinks women who have premarital sex are bad, but thinks the guy who's shot a bunch of people are worthy of a second chance.
I pray he finds Jesus because…😳 🆘
First off I think he’s lying about the 100 bodies. Average men don’t get laid as often as women think. Second the more bodies a woman has the bigger the chance she will leave. Not because she’s evil but she can no longer parabond and also probably has a lot of childhood drama. It’s known that promiscuous women have had some form of SA when they were younger (NOT ALL) but a lot. And also daddy issues. But I think it’s normal for men that have more bodies. If he’s attractive I already know he’s been around. It’s just different for men and women ..
Sexually Immoral, point blank
No matter where Jesus finds you just start walking with him and you will be saved
What a body count don’t determine loyalty Wow y’all crazy I don’t agree with that you shouldn’t say everybody.
@Heat_Rush
8 ай бұрын
Sometimes it does. Like he said some people with a high body count aren't satisfied with one person.
Like Mam… you like boys and girls? Ummm grown up. Smh this is embarrassing !! Lord what is this world getting too