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@angelstarr5509

Жыл бұрын

I have been through the same situations and it's something that never leaves u. It traumatic and no matter how much u try to forget and forgive it never comes.

@gloriarobinson3697

Жыл бұрын

@@angelstarr5509 😅😅😅😅😅

@chazahnaah3696

Жыл бұрын

My moms brother was touching friends of the family and it was never talked about but years later he married a woman with a lil girl and we think he may have touched her. My mom ran from her home town knowing this and I always wondered why we never moved back home

@kali3553

Жыл бұрын

​@@gloriarobinson3697 what's so funny⁉️

@kali3553

10 ай бұрын

@PrettyKayla74 right! Ppl are so insensitive these days. Pitiful!

Ugh, this is why I don’t let anyone near my kids. My auntie son (my cousin brother) begged to watch my son. He said to me “drop your son off with me so you don’t have to worry about babysitters.” I knew something wasn’t right with him while asking me to watch my son. Then my husband noticed and asked me what he wanted and I told him “he wants M (our son) to stay with him for a week.” My husband immediately said “hell no.” Then about three years ago we found out he SA three other relatives in our family.

@rachelfarmer8563

Жыл бұрын

Smh sick, thank God your husband said no.

@Cobe1976

Жыл бұрын

@@rachelfarmer8563 3?? so what happened to the piece of shit?

@AshleyMagnolia_

Жыл бұрын

Jesus. Thank God for your discernment!

@mel...s

Жыл бұрын

Did anybody call the police or have him arrested? A lot of times families are fully aware of the child molesters yet they do nothing and allow countless children to become victims.

@phoenixgarcia-martin8203

Жыл бұрын

@@mel...s I don’t think so bc he was never arrested. My family are disgusting they enabled this BS. Why I’m the black sheep of the family. If anything happened I don’t know about it. I haven’t been in my maternal family for awhile now.

Dear Parents: PLEASE check in with your kids and keep an open line of communication from an early age. Victims: Don’t wait while decades go by and then your OWN child may suffer.

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. 💕 Thank you very much ❤️

@angelaholmes8888

Жыл бұрын

You are right

@elaibesummers906

Жыл бұрын

@Deirdre Kirk Raeside what do you mean in regards to Victims: ?

@estopesto2647

Жыл бұрын

Let them know you will always believe them and they will never be on trouble for telling things. Also NO SECRETS ever at all with anyone.

@deirdrekirkraeside

Жыл бұрын

@@elaibesummers906 I should have written SURVIVORS 💜

My 👧🏽 children 👦🏽 never 👎🏾 met the monsters 👹 of my past. We flew ✈️ our kids to another country & never looked back. My daughter will be 18 in 6 weeks, and trauma free. The demons couldn’t have my babies 👶🏽, and believe me I paid a price for protecting them. They now know what I sacrificed to break generational curses and chains ⛓️ & said “Thank You”.

@catherinegrace2366

Жыл бұрын

Glory to God! I thank you as well as a survivor. Good job Mama.

@tamiko_8369

Жыл бұрын

Well said!!! So proud of you for running from them demons! Keeping your kids safe! Worth the sacrifice. What a good mom!

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

You are an hero ❤️ God will still bless you and your family. You're such an inspiring and brave woman! You are a real momma! 💖💖💖💖

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

@@catherinegrace2366 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

@@tamiko_8369 💕💕💕💕💕

I am watching this with all 5 of my children. They will be aware. I am sending the most heartfelt hugs.

@yvonneyvonne8317

Жыл бұрын

I’m going to watch this with my daughters as well. My daughters and I talk all the time and this shows you never know what happens

@Excellence149

Жыл бұрын

Thats good to make them aware

@CurlyCrowie

Жыл бұрын

Its important that our kids whether family or not, know that we will be there and will believe them. If I had kids I would totally watch this with them

@SydniAnnBaker

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful parent

@velettadaviswilliams5517

Жыл бұрын

That's good....watch it with your children so they will know and you can explain as they watch. Protect them at all costs!

Being a sexually assaulted myself as a child I never let nobody watch my kids. Now I'm a momma I am over protected of my kids, please keep your kids close to you, can't trust anyone

As a child I had a big mouth, A few male relatives and family friend tried and learned I tell everythin, I had a big mouth And they were confronted and was dealt with by my uncles.

@lzumm

Жыл бұрын

That’s GOOD wish more children was like this

@BriaBarrows

Жыл бұрын

I was very intuitive as a child. This never happened to me, but even as a baby or young child, I was very distrusting of people. I’m the same way now.

@nenala7684

Жыл бұрын

This comment is EVERYTHING 😂

@cassandrawashington1401

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, so many women turn a blind eye to that type of behavior from a husband, step father, boyfriend, brothers, grandfather's, cousins, neighbor's whoever! Is our female/male children really being set up for generational rape and molestation, just because it may have happened to them, it automatically becomes the norm, for male's to violate our children and tell the children to shut up and what goes on in our house is our business, a lot of women will let a lot of 💩 continue to keep a man and maybe a income, I haven't met a man alive and never will, to sacrifice any of my children and grandchildren's innocent's. Gtfoh!

@i.anthony1247

10 ай бұрын

@lzumm more children would be, especially girls, if our moms weren’t so anxious to shut us up so we can sit quietly and look pretty.

This is disheartening. It’s hard to believe her grandmother didn’t know though. Women have intuitive discernment and don’t have the luxury to not know. Turning a blind eye is one thing but someone else ALWAYS knows 😢

@xoxobeauty_by_lynne2895

Жыл бұрын

That isn’t always true. I was in a situation like hers and yes nobody knew and didn’t know until I had my nervous breakdown at the age of 23.

@ChakraZulu1

Жыл бұрын

@@xoxobeauty_by_lynne2895 you think no one knew but more than likely someone did. Much like all the women who deny it when their children confess…. Those women knew and know as well. Anyhow it’s fortunate you have survived and hopefully you have found your healing ❤️‍🩹

@janen9393

Жыл бұрын

I agree because it happened for years this wasnt a ‘few times’ kind of thing so how does that go undetected under ones roof, i dont believe there was no intuition or blind to patterns of her husband. Why not just check on those girls after he would go upstairs i bet she was outside that door at one point. Maybe im wrong but as a mother its hard to believe that grandmother had no clue.

@annikadaluz6576

Жыл бұрын

I think I’m her situation her uncle knew and that’s why he did it also.

@sistrenyogigal3813

Жыл бұрын

She knew. She chose to ignore. She knew her husband was leaving the bed she was in

People PLEASE have the talk with your children. Let them know it doesn’t matter WHO it is. From a pastor, parent, relative, etc. This world is hell and it’s cruel. Educate them. Thank you for writing this book for the children.😢 #metoo

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

💯💯

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

Never happened to me, but I 💯 agree w/ you! More parents need to talk to their kids EARLY on.

@LG-jv3th

Жыл бұрын

I did from the time they could understand. They are now turning into & adults are realizing how much I protected them.

@ModernPeopleAreEvil

Жыл бұрын

I had this talk with my mom and when her boyfriend touched me I still couldn’t tell my mom. I don’t know what that is 😢😢

Ma’am, thank you so much. I was abused by my step father that my mom was married to from the age of 3-14. I told my mom about the abuse at the age of 26- I was suicidal and it RIPPED my heart out to tell my Momma. She had no idea and I didn’t want to burden her or make her feel like she did something wrong because she DIDN’T. She was a victim of his narcissistic/physical /mental and emotional abuse as well. My abuser also slowed as I got older. My thoughts are because he was a pedo and as I got older no longer attracted. My older sister was 10 when they got married and he physically abused her but she swears never sexually like me. She is a drug addict and in prison. I wonder what our lives could have been had this demon not come into it. I saw my sister go through drug addiction and swore that this monster would not have that control over me. There is a piece of me that was robbed. But I refuse to let it throw me into addiction. I ended up marrying a very abusive man and by the grace of God got out with my life.

@powderandpaint14

Жыл бұрын

Men who are abusive to their wives/partners are much more likely to also abuse the kids. If any abuse is going on a woman needs to find a way to leave!

@stephaniemarie4303

Жыл бұрын

I was sexually abused multiple times by my father and older brother when I was like 6. I have been in several abusive relationships. I struggle with mental illness, alcohol dependency,& very low self esteem.

@angiecarver3999

Жыл бұрын

@@stephaniemarie4303 I am so sorry for what was done to you. You are amazing and strong. You don’t give those pieces of shit power over your mind or spirit. You rise like the Phoenix and take your life back. Praying for you sister. 🙏🏻📿❤️

@kell-yh4ec

Жыл бұрын

I look 12-15 at 21 so pedo older men still bother me including ones in my family.

@mypointofview3868

Жыл бұрын

@@stephaniemarie4303 Soso sorry to her that 😭😰 . So sad to see people who suppose to love and care for you do you like that. That’s insane when you think you are in a sad situation you hear worst than yours and you feel humble 😢May God give you the strength to move forward stronger than ever.

She’s such a beautiful strong woman. Sending her lots of love and healing x

You are such a strong woman. I too had been molested by my grandfather and two of my uncle’s. Then to top it off, I had a mom who wasn’t ready to be a mom and made me to be her helper. My mom had me at a young tender age of 15, she then had four children. I was the latch key kid who had to cook, clean, help my sisters with their homework, bathe them and then get myself together. I ended staying back in the third grade because of all the demands placed on me. I never told my mom or sisters what happened to me. My relationship with my mom is nonexistent because she’s still that 15 years old girl, she never grew up. I rose above all of my fears and started trusting in God. God allowed me to live a positive lifestyle and have a loving husband and kids of my own.

@SipandSay

Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad that you didn’t allow what happen to u destroy you. God bless u

@har_monique

Жыл бұрын

If your grand father did that to you who knows what he did to her. 😞😞😞😞 just wow. She’s probably battling her own traumas fr.

@wensimm6006

Жыл бұрын

@@SipandSay thank you.

@wensimm6006

Жыл бұрын

@@har_monique so true.

I will never understand how your own dad,grandad, and uncle, we want to abuse their own family girl children. I will never understand it. It's so sick.. Thank you for sharing your story...

@SipandSay

Жыл бұрын

@annmariefuller9020 my father NEVER touched me. I had the best dad ever. Good rest his soul

@Faithfullfertilitytv

4 ай бұрын

Demons

I was molested by my mom's boyfriend when I was 8 years. I didn't tell my mom until I was older because I was scared that I would get in trouble.. I remember being sexually abused and physically abused when I was a little girl.. what I remember the most is what happens to me when I was 8 years old.. by telling our stories I hope that it will inspire others to come forward until someone so they're monster doesn't hurt anyone else.

@julsc2106

8 ай бұрын

I was molested by a family member as well. I told my siblings right away my mom actually had my back I didn't think she would. Youre very beautiful Briana ❤❤ don't let anyone ever say you're not❤

@jerrymcdougle4461

4 ай бұрын

Not to make you feel a certain way but I'm so glad the 3 times is almost happened to me I told! I'm so glad The Most High blessed me with enough sense to know I wouldn't be the one and trouble and to know that the men were wrong. I told right away.

I am SO SORRY that you had to go through this like so many hundreds of thousands of us out there who were not PROTECTED by our own mothers. Your Grandmother likely SENSED his PERVERSE BEHAVIOR but like most of us as women she IGNORED her 6th sense. It's really depressing HOW these DISGUSTING PEDOPHILES get away with this abuse. Again I am sorry for your lifetime of SUFFERING AND DEPRESSION because of this and I completely emphasize. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

This is common in Black America. We're expected to not say anything because we might embarrass the family. It happened to me too, but unlike her, I told and it was swept under the rug for years.🙏🏽💖🙏🏽

@Koffa03

Жыл бұрын

It is not a black American thing. The believe of not allowing outsider to hear about the family secret exists in every race/culture. It's only in the modern times that people are starting to speak up more and even at that, some would rather keep it quiet if they can get away with it.

@home4life505

Жыл бұрын

​@@Koffa03 she didnt say it's a black thing. She said it's common which is b/c too many black children dont have dads.

@sistrenyogigal3813

Жыл бұрын

It’s common in all cultures. We are talking 1 in 3 Children it’s awful

@jmatthews5685

Жыл бұрын

​@@home4life505 she had a whole dad, a granddad and an Uncle & it STILL happened sooo

@corablah9809

Жыл бұрын

It's common in all of America. Associating black men with rxping and mxlesting kids is so inaccurate, me, as a white girl was molested and raped multiple times, never once was it a man of color. Same thing for my friends.

I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again DO NOT TRUST EVEN FAMILY ! it’s sad but oh well do Wtvr it takes to protect your children

@janen9393

Жыл бұрын

My mother told her pastor (who didn’t believe her) about her step father and then got a brutal beating at home.

@MSSHARIII

3 ай бұрын

​@@janen9393😮😢😢😢 I hope that your mum is doing well.💖

You really can’t leave your kids home alone with anyone. Can’t trust anyone unfortunately. The world is a cruel place with too much evil.

How the hell can a fam member visit another fam member in jail for molesting a child, that's kInda screwed up!!

@angelaholmes8888

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it is

@eddalea

Жыл бұрын

Possibly trying to find out about any more children he assaulted who's not come forward and may need help.

@janen9393

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think out of the goodness of his heart he wanted to see his brother to save other victims thats magical thinking, he went to see his brother plain and simple, maybe to support him as family or ask why.

@truthhappiness8874

Жыл бұрын

​ probably, but most likely believed brothers lies that he did not do it. I don't believe her grandmother or parents didn't know about their relative's behavior but I am glad she made it thru the trauma and thriving.

@teegreen3909

Жыл бұрын

The father already knew what was happening

When you're sexually abused it can turn you into a sex addict. You don't necessarily want tour abuser but you do want to start exploring with people that you do like.

@SydniAnnBaker

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely sexually abused twice this past month and I have been feral

@jernisharichard5032

11 ай бұрын

​@@SydniAnnBakerSoo sorry 😔

@murdahmammiez

10 ай бұрын

Its a feeling of thinking that being oversexualised Will bring back the control we lost when choice was taken away from us...but in the end it doesnt fill the void , in my case it made it worse

@murdahmammiez

10 ай бұрын

Its also believing that because this happened to us, its all we are worth

@ajwriter5699

10 ай бұрын

@@SydniAnnBakerMy, God. Sydni, are you safe now? Is everything okay today? Have you been to the police? Please 🙏🏽 call a hotline.

Taneisha. I am so sorry. Same thing happened to me when I was 5 years old by my father. I never told anyone until I was like early thirties. Long story short I was called a liar by my mom. Why would I claim this at 32 years old. My siblings turned their back on me also. They rallied around my perp and ostracized me . I went into an intensive recovery process. At least I stopped the cycle but I have a hard time in any relationship so I just have stopped all relationships. I went no contact from my family of origin over 20 years ago. I only married once and it only lasted 4 years. Pretty much effed up my life. I have Christ in my life and that is the best decision I’ve ever made. God bless you. It sounds like u have ppl who love and support you which is wonderful. I just have never had that. Ur fortunate that you have ur husband and ppl who love you. Ty for sharing.

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

None of this is your fault! smh. Your "family" is horrible to do that to you, and will get their karma. Hopefully u have some friends that u trust & can confide in-many times friends will treat u better than your own blood. Damn shame.

@UnfilteredStoriesYT

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! Sending a lot of love your way 💕

@bon5436

Жыл бұрын

heavenly father will keep & protect 🙏🏾 you..he will surround you with God fearing wholesome loving people ❤️ ..that was the best decision ever made..take a step to the most high 🌺 & he'll take a step to you.

Now i understand why my grandmother would never let me go to sleep overs . Or even to play at friends house's she totally kept mr sheltered. I used to think she was mean but now im older hearing these stories i totally understand. ❤

When as a child you don't share the abuse with your parents, it opens the window for the molester to target other kids even your siblings. Scream and speak out about it. Don't assume how your parents will respond. Silence is protecting the molester. Speak out, shout it to the whole world. Someone will believe and protect you. Blessings!

@Obatala_Vibez

Жыл бұрын

Children/adults are often silent because nobody wants to believe, listen or they are threatened.

@divinelyannointed3401

Жыл бұрын

@@Obatala_Vibez well in this case she clearly said she wasn't threatened plus that her parents would have believed her and listened. The narrative of abuse for centuries, especially among the black culture is one where the victim should be silent and the abuser is protected. That must change and it begins with spreading the word and letting victims know their voice matters and they need to speak up and shout it out. Someone will believe!

@divinelyannointed3401

Жыл бұрын

@Badussy we as parents, family, friends and communities have to change the cycle of silence and empower our children to speak up. Just as how we teach them to express their sexuality and so much more, we have to do the same for this because silence only empowers the wicked culprits. We have to do something different or this will continue to plaque our society for many centuries. Blessings!

@alliyahbrinson9859

Жыл бұрын

In every case we’re still children most not thinking straight or like a adult would .. for years I was terrified of my abusers who lived under the same roof (half siblings twins 4 years older) my mother always told me I could tell her anything.. however I was also being threatened and told naive lies but because I was a child I believed them . I always hid it after that even as I got older out of fear not just of him but of judgement.. telling doesn’t always do anything I told after he SA me again at age 19 .. I pressed charges and was literally told they couldn’t do anything and wouldn’t pursue the case .. this is why most of us still have hard times coming forward it doesn’t always mean justice.. the man who assaulted me still walks free to this day.

@lashaylaanderson1623

Жыл бұрын

I can't stand sick people like that...I don't deal with half of my family til this day. Back in the days...things like this were swept underneath the rug. I was threatened & scared to speak up. It took years for me to tell it

People who have been abused do get involved in toxic abusive relationships

It's hard to spit out. I was raped with our neighbors and my half-brother when I was 7 years old. My parents found out when I got sick with STD 😢,but still, now I don't trust men. I'm 47 years old, and it's not easy for me to be honest. I ended up finding out I'm HIV because of that 😢

@shamyagainey7397

Жыл бұрын

Im so sorry im gonna keep you in paryer🙏 stay strong

@MegaDede25

Жыл бұрын

Omg. I'm so very sorry to hear that. You didn't deserve that at all. A brighter day is coming my love.

@shamyagainey7397

Жыл бұрын

@@MegaDede25 amen

@kaseyforestine4692

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear of such.....😢 God is great ❤

@childofyah7687

Жыл бұрын

I hold on to my kids and I pray that God keep me and my husband safe to be able to watch our kids grow without going through this. People think am crazy for being overly protective over my kids but I do not care because this world is full of wick people

I suffered from sexual abuse as a child which resulted in me being diagnosed with bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, severe anxiety and a list of other mental illnesses. I relate to her experiencing hypersexual behaviors as well as other self destructive behaviors. Luckily through years and years of therapy and medication I am in a better place. I also had my fair share of severely abusive relationships and even made several attempts on my life.

@UnfilteredStoriesYT

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. Sending love and healing your way 💚

@cutekittycat521

Жыл бұрын

Wow your so strong and a survivor do u ever wish u can start your life over ? That’s how I feel sometimes

I told my father about his friend of 30+ years. Well, my brother helped me to tell him because (I can't believe I'm gonna say this), but I didn't want to be responsible for a 30+ friendship ending because I thought my father loved me enough to end the friendship. Well, he did end the friendship, only to rekindle it years later. When I found out they started talking again 2 years ago. It took me months to confront my dad and he told me, *"Well he said he didn't do it and why did you wait to tell me what happened!"* I was stunned and I couldn't even respond. Mind you, I'm in my 40's. The incident happened in my 20's and I haven't seen my father the same. The sense of betrayal is unreal. I don't know but I think it hurts even more for my father to go back to the friendship and believ his friend over me. It was hard to tell my dad 20+ years ago. I couldn't stop crying or get the words out. My brother had to help me. And this male years later basically said I should have said something sooner. It took me a few months after the incident, not years and he blames me for not saying it at the time it happened when I was in shock!

@nevertoomuchshoesever5532

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry this happened to you and appalled your father can be so unloving and unkind to you. He doesn’t deserve to be called “dad” by you anymore. Distance yourself and continue your healing. Concentrate on yourself because YOU are worthy!!❤

@ntitus3025

Жыл бұрын

@nevertoomuchshoesever5532 Thank you, I actually have another name but dad for him. And I have distanced myself eventhough it wasn't immediately, but so much disrespect happened since then, that it was necessary. He's let me down all my life, but I thought for once I had his support. 🙏🏽

@itsthe8409

Жыл бұрын

Do you think their friendship could be intimacy?

@carmelwine7610

Жыл бұрын

A grown man choosing another grown man over his child is highly suspect. You did the right thing by leaving him behind. And I’m sorry this happened to you.

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

Wow he is triflin'! I'm glad u distanced yourself. He should've never went back to being "friends" w/ him!! Many times your friends treat u better than family. Hopefully you have some friends u can confide in if need be.

Hearing stories like this makes me want to unalive some of these people. How can someone do this to sweet innocent children? It makes me so angry and sick to my stomach. I’m so sorry so many have to go through this.

@morrisonscott702

Жыл бұрын

Hello how are you doing?

I used to sleep with my grandfather, and not once he ever tried to touch me. I'm so sorry your grandfather did this to you. I can't imagine 😢

The grandma knew and the women of the family knew. She's naive to think they didn't. I hope she has the strength to have nothing to do with her family. This is ridiculous.

@UdjaAnnsGem555

Жыл бұрын

For sure the GM knew. All that time, no way she didn't know.

Please don't hold back. Please go tell someone immediately if it happens to you.

Wow, I can’t imagine my grandfather attacking me. My grandfather was my biggest ally and protector. So sorry this happened to you.

@UdjaAnnsGem555

Жыл бұрын

That's what I was thinking. My Granddaddy was the first Man I loved.

She's right, secrets will cripple you mentally. It will come out, you've got to get a hold of it.

I love how she is a complete mixture of both her parents literally!! ❤

This is so painful to hear. How do blood relatives even dare think of doing things like this to kids they should be protecting??? Things like this just brings generational curses on the children and downlines of such filthy men. I really don't know what to say about the pain and anger a woman like this might still have deep down. I pray you heal totally and find peace.

That silent generation pisses me off!

Your soul becomes wounded. You need inner healing. You need to release forgiveness . So proud of you to bring this out to help others. God bless you ❤

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

What a beautiful words!!! I totally agree with you. Thank you very much 💖

Telling is healing! Keep telling someone will care and help😢

Such a gorgeous woman who was strong and did what she needed to do to survive!

Little girls, left alone with a pack of wolves. One in three little girls, usually uncles , father's, grandfather's. Men and their sick minds and behaviours.

When one person names the crimes against them despite the undeserved shame, fear and false responsibility for the perpetrator, it frees other people to do the same. No more "BLAME-THE-VICTIM."

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

Wow!! I totally agree with you!!! Thank you very much for your inspiring words!! 👏❤️❤️

It is so heartbreaking to read the comments and realize how much more common sexual abuse is. So much goes unreported because of shame and embarrassment and other feelings that make the survivor feel like they can’t speak out.

This is terrifying. There are so many molesters out there who want sex, and realize they can attack a child. No one would believe a child, especially in the recent past. I only hope that more children are believed when the child makes an accusation. I wish more parents would take it seriously instead of pretending this doesn't happen. It's truly sad that this is rampant. I've heard stories over the years from friends, coworkers, etc. It's really an epidemic!

This is a very sad story. I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank God I was never molested as a child. My mother protected my brother and I and never had anyone babysit us. My uncles never tried to bother any of us our cousins etc. Also, we never spend the night at anyone's house other than my grandmother and she lived alone.

@morrisonscott702

Жыл бұрын

HELLO how are you doing?

@MegaDede25

Жыл бұрын

So happy for you.

God bless you. I’m over here sobbing because it hit me so deep. Thank you for being so strong

@UnfilteredStoriesYT

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support ❤

She is so amazing for coming out of that situation and helping others like her. I wish her the absolute best. I love that she made the kids' book and journal ❤

Thanks for sharing something so difficult. You are a strong, women. Your story is definitely helping others, me included. There is only one thing that for me, I cannot understand, is if I know someone committed such a heinous crime against a child and was sent to prison, I categorically would not be visiting them in prison, family or not. I pray continuous healing over your life🙏🏾

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. 💕

Same happened to me with my grandfather.... I felt her pain

@damamen1

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry this happened to you. Report him because what he did is WRONG and he deserves what comes with what he did to you. May you heal ❤. Stay strong.

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

@@damamen1 Absolutely!

To anyone that has ever gone through this, talk to someone, tell someone! Do not be scared! People please protect your children keep an open communication with your children!

Grandparents should be safe spaces, happy spaces, joyful memories! I’m sorry this happened to you.

You were incongruent with you. You weren’t a child, nor an adult. You had to just find a way to survive the incongruities you were having to live with. It’s so amazing that you are alive to tell your story, thank you for your strength, courage and bravery. I hope you are becoming more congruent within yourself by sharing what happen to you by individuals you should have been able to trust, but they took advantage of your innocence. I am so, so sorry this happened to you. You are not alone, there are many.

Parents must tell their children from a very young age that people must not touch them .And if someone does they must tell their parents.people who do this are sick , especially relatives.She should have spoken up earlier and let her grandmother know.

@har_monique

Жыл бұрын

Thank god I remember my mom having this convo with me at 6/7 years old of course I had no idea what she was talking about but she said if anyone ever tires to touch you you make sure you tell me. I’m just glad that all my grand mothers sons are amazing respectful upstanding men that I never had to amen sure a claim and I never had a man in my life to call grand father. But I never had to come to my mother and tell her anything hallelujah but I know she woulda gone to bat for me and my sisters and that’s exactly the way I want to be with raising my own kids.

You should consider writing a book from your perspective. There are so many girls and boys experiencing sexual abuse from family members that goes with them through😮out life to the grave. Thank you for your transparency and boldness to tell your story. May God bless you all the days of your life. 🙏🏽❤️

Prayers for healing for you. I'm so sorry this happened to you ❤

why do I feel like her grandpa stopped when she hit puberty because he was sexually interested in girls? this is so scary, I'm so sorry.

@morrisonscott702

Жыл бұрын

Hi how're you doing?

@SRBOMBONICA86

Жыл бұрын

Yup he is pedophile for sure

@guleet75

Жыл бұрын

No ! Once you hit puberty you are turning into a woman !! There is the risk of you getting pregnant and you are more aware you are being sexually abused so it's very risky for the abuser to continue the abuse !!!

My heart hurts for what she went through. This is just so creepy that a grown man would see a child in this way.

You are a very strong woman ❤ sorry you had to endure this! Praying for you❤

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

Amén ❤️ 🙌

My gosh that is horrible, how can someone who is supposed to protect you do something so evil, makes me so angry

Omg just awful! 😣 their karma is waiting for them on the other side! 😡

@angelaholmes8888

Жыл бұрын

Yeah

How dare they do that to such a little girl. This is so heartbreaking.

I just don’t understand why these ladies don’t bring up charges on these creeps!!!!

how on earth can there be soooo many men that are so sick and F’d up. this story make me want to puke , and makes me want to move to a different planet

@chocolatebunny6084

Жыл бұрын

Seriously, it always makes me wonder how so many sick men are in close proximity. Like what are the odds? I just seen a story where friends took part in molesting a young girl, how do they all know each other? makes me not trust anyone anymore 😢

@louern123

Жыл бұрын

@@chocolatebunny6084 it’s Sooo scary 😞😞

This is why I don't want kids or trust anyone. I am happy with God and myself only🙏

What a courageous and brave Queen. I salute her for speaking out.

Girl u are strong; what u went through could hv push u off the edge, but thanks to the Lord for giving u the strength each day to fight. Making awareness to children out there with ur books is wonderful. Keep fighting; don't give up.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Hopefully this can help someone because you always hear how they were scared to tell. ❤️ you lady your testimony

It saddens me how so many men in families commit these hideous horrible crimes but never are prosecuted for their actions.

New follower. Thanks to this brave woman for sharing her inspiring testimony. ❤️❤️❤️

Thanks for sharing your story. I am glad that you didn't let this horror destroy you. God bless you

Love you auntie ❤ glad you got this out

@SipandSay

Жыл бұрын

I love you too and thank u

Thank you sharing. That peace of it brewing inside of you, the desire to be touched, I felt that so strongly I'm my older teen years, I made a lot of crazy decisions and always thought about how my childhood SA played a role in it. My assultors are gone, 1 in jail *I put him there 20 years later* the other passed. I let my kids be free enjoy their lives. My mom tried to keep me from spending the night or habing friends not knowing the man she married in our house every night was my worse nightmare. I was over protected in all the wrong areas. With my kids we have really open conversations about being touched, hugged, kissed etc. I always tell them if anyone ever tells you not to tell your mom that means you need to tell me. Only bad people and bad decisions require lying.

@caligirl2779

Жыл бұрын

Wow. Glad u put 1 in jail!!!! kudos to you! They both have reserved seats in HELL.

When teens especially girls and people assume theyre being promiscuous when it could be something deeper. And also confusing for when they finally do tell because adults then assume theyre just lying or being "grown".

I know you. Your pain. It was my father. It was my uncle. It was my stepfather and my mother’s friend, who was also a cop. I am so happy for you that you were able to get through the turmoil of, “getting it out.” God bless you, your strength.

@lashondacarter9617

Жыл бұрын

Omg . I'm praying for strength and healing from all this trauma

@MV-ew6ty

Жыл бұрын

Wow that’s horrifying. May prayers of healing bless and protect you. So sorry you went through this. 😩🙏🏻

@jayeb4494

Жыл бұрын

🫂

Thank you for sharing your story!! This is exactly my life it’s just my cousin is the one that did things to me, she is absolutely right when she says it makes you crave thing that you shouldn’t as a child and you can’t control it !

Nobody knows my story or cares too but when I die my daughter will find some of the court documents from when I was a child and she will know. I can't even consciously remember everything myself. It feels like anytime I start to have flashbacks my mind screams and it shuts off. I will never be ready its too horrific and vast. Bravo to those who are brave enough to talk about it

Sometimes even being an over protective parent still isn’t enough for this sick world. My youngest daughter used to spend a lot of time with her grandmother (dads mom). Once my daughter hit her teen years I noticed she went from being a extroverted girly girl to an introverted tomboy. Then came a drastic change in her grades and then school avoidance. After seeing multiple therapist I finally got her to answer my question if anyone had ever touched her. She broke down and told me that when she was about 6 and while with the grandmother on her dads side a relative (who was also a child)touched on her when the grandmother was out of the room! She had just taken a bath and was wrapped up in a towel waiting for her grandmother to get her pajamas to get her dressed when this happened. I was devastated and can tell my daughter is still affected by what happened til this day.

Why would you not want to break a bond with the Father and your Grandfather. If they had a bond he would never have molested his own Granddaughter. He was evil and you should have let your Dad know that. Sorry you went through that Hell on Earth 🌎.

I was molested and raped as a child. I feel you sister.🙏😇 Filthy men. 👹 Justice will be served in the day of judgement. They will burn in Hades. 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you. ❤️

@angela-fl4gs

Жыл бұрын

@@Isabel88510 thank you.🥰

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

@@angela-fl4gs 💕💕💕💕

@angela-fl4gs

Жыл бұрын

@@Isabel88510 thank you. ❤️

@Isabel88510

Жыл бұрын

@@angela-fl4gs Thanks for your inspiring words. One kiss from Spain. ❤️

This ish is sick. The one thing I’m thankful for is that non of the men in my family every touched me or anything like that. My mother and father both have brothers whom I’m very close to even right now to this day and they’ve always been protectors alongside my father. I love the men in my family even more now after seeing all of these videos like this. I’m so sorry you had to deal with this. A little girl or boy should never feel unsafe around her grandfather and uncles, cousins or father etc.

I know this feeling too well and I admire your strength! 💯

Ur story resonates with me so much, they say time heals all wounds, but mine have not healed

We need to be careful with our kids at all the time.

I know she probably wouldn't want to consider the possibility that her father may also be capable of such evil. It was one thing for it to be just the grandfather, but to also be the uncle too. I would be cautious of her father with other children. That scene in The Color Purple, when Sophia said a girl child ain't safe in a house full of men. Even sadder part of it all there's never just one victim, her grandfather and Uncle definitely did that to other children.

@SipandSay

Жыл бұрын

My father was NEVER one of those people

I cried while listening to this whole thing..

😢 SO SICK I FEEL SO SORRY FOR HER

I talk to my 10year old daughter about molestation all the time so scary 😢.

Oh Lord I’m in tears. This is disturbing and disgusting. I leave my child with no one. And I let her know what’s inappropriate or not. I ask her multiple questions and I tell her to tell me everything and that there’s no secret between us. And I mean everyone uncle,cousin , dad, friend. Tell me.

This is so sad! I know how you feel. I was raped by my dad. That monster. When i told my mom she felt really embarrassed? And she said she didn't want to be apart of a circus. My family didn't believe me and my family wanted to disown me. My dad went to jail for 10 years. But when people found out. They started to use my past trauma against me. I never thought my dad would touch me . He never did it before. Did kiss me when I was young. But i thought nothing of it. Now i seek therapy and take medication. Now i am celibate and not really looking for a relationship. But i do long for love some day. Thanks for your story .

@nkreseknowledge2241

Жыл бұрын

She felt embarrassed? Did she blame you?

@MandyandJulietteduo

Жыл бұрын

🫂 😢

@oholm09

Жыл бұрын

Some people seeking help for doing wrong things in the past

well told, well explained Tahneisha Jordan. the idea of providing a detatcheable template for the reader to record his/her own experiences is brilliant

But why didn’t her father ask her if his brother had abused her if he knew he had done it to another little girl??!! Ugh 😢

I love you cousin and praying for total healing.

Thank you for sharing. It means sooo much😊

You are one brave, & courageous woman who will be remembered for saving countless young lives. I am so sorry that your pain had to be the catalyst for such wonderful work - please know that you are admired and loved for being YOU‼️

@SipandSay

Жыл бұрын

❤ thank you so much

Thank for sharing your story it takes a lot to be brave enough to talk about this on social media, but thank God you finally feel relief ❤

Bless you and I admire your courage. It takes guts to speak out! 🌼

Trust no one with your kids!

Thank you for sharing your story! I've been hurt by many people.

@morrisonscott702

Жыл бұрын

Hi how're you doing?

Your grandpa looks like I've seen him before. God bless you. You should tell your kids if it did or not happen to you.

Parents need to observe their child's behavior....Stay having random Convo about anything. Talk to young children about inappropriate touching. Make your child of any age feel comfortable to come to you about anything. Most importantly, don't get comfortable leaving your child with any/all family members or their friends family. Again talk to your child

I know this pain as well my father and older cousin molested and physically abused me i was 9 years old when my cousine did this to me and the physical abuse started at 12 for years and 11 when my father did his evil toward me thanks to my aunt for helping reveal what was happening to me but i have been caring the other dark secret still to this day this kind of evil can destroy a child no one will believe you they will always blame the child im still today at 48 battling with this hurt im so grateful that i was able to reveal my pain to this family on this page who have been thru this kind of evil and hurting abuse😔

@somethingspecial1415

Жыл бұрын

Be strong, I'm so sorry to hear what you have been trough-I have a pain of my own as well ,I am trying to cope with it the best that I can .