I Am Still Here - My Health Anxiety Story

This is my story about health anxiety and how I overcame it and are still struggling sometimes.
Mental health issues can be very scary and untreated can ruin your life. Please go get help, talk about it and know, you are not alone.
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  • @WolfgangKern
    @WolfgangKern16 күн бұрын

    After two years of making this video, I'm beyond grateful for the response, the comments and messages. Thank you. I am thinking of doing a follow up to this video. Is that something you would be interested in?

  • @emmarowan9197

    @emmarowan9197

    13 күн бұрын

    I for one would love for you to do a follow up. I also have health anxiety and have dealt with bouts of it since the age of 16, I'm 39 now and still continue to deal with it. I'm currently going through a terrible bout which has been going on some three months now, it never normally lasts this long and it's pure hell to say the least! Watching your video helped me see that I can learn better ways of dealing with the anxiety and that I'm not alone (Even though I wish you didn't have to go through it) I'm hoping to start therapy soon myself again but this time I want to continue with it long-term and hopefully learn how to not let the anxiety control me and my everyday life in such a profound way anymore. I hope and pray that things have continued to improve for you and would love an update. "I'm still here and so are you!"

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    13 күн бұрын

    @@emmarowan9197 thank you for your kind words. Sorry to hear that you are dealing with it again. I hope therapy helps and will provide you with the tools you need. You will master this 😊

  • @ImprovementPath

    @ImprovementPath

    12 күн бұрын

    This was such a great watch - would love to see a follow up video to this one :)

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    12 күн бұрын

    @@ImprovementPath thank you 🙏😊 already working on the script

  • @imsibgha

    @imsibgha

    11 күн бұрын

    Your story is relatable. I hope you're doing well now. Stay healthy, Stay Safe and Blessed, May Almighty heal you so there's no disease/anxiety left behind! :)

  • @hellonewbeginnings9659
    @hellonewbeginnings96593 ай бұрын

    I truly don’t believe anyone can fully understand unless they have suffered with health anxiety disorder. I have struggled off and on pretty much my whole life. I am 41 and have studied this subject amongst many others for years. I can manage mine but I still have my days.❤️

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    3 ай бұрын

    I fully agree. It's sometimes a great thing to experience since I can draw a lot of my inspiration from it. But a lot of the times I would trade it immediately. I am very good with managing it these days but it creeps up on me once in a while. I wish you the best 😊 and thanks for watching 🙏

  • @bigvanvader3122

    @bigvanvader3122

    Ай бұрын

    ​@WolfgangKern if you still struggle with this disorder try SSRIs. I have GAD and OCD suffering with hypochondria especially. The SSRI has worked wonders for me. It's not a cure by any means but I have faith it will help you deal with your mental health.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@bigvanvader3122 thanks for that suggestions. I'm doing pretty well these days. I never took SSRI but I got some common anti-depressansts from my doc. They helped a little but made me numb for other feelings as well. But good to know there are other things 😊

  • @Dominik40301

    @Dominik40301

    Ай бұрын

    The problem is, you go to doctor, get even a scan, then you are at peace for few months, then after some time new symptom on other part of body comes, you reverse to old self. Therapist who also suffers this Cherellethinks, also has channel, also said than next time she thinks she gets symptom she will know is only HA, but still her mind cant deal with it. When you get scan and see its all ok you think- i dont care what other symptom ill get, i will know its HA, but then you go on google and pull yourself into it again.

  • @jlnioannou

    @jlnioannou

    Ай бұрын

    Same here...

  • @amandahalley5531
    @amandahalley5531 Жыл бұрын

    Want to leave a comment..to encourage you all going through this Hell...for over a month I was going through severe severe anxiety..was very bad to the point I wasn't even eating...as soon as started to not concéntrate on negativity and my symptoms...they slowly decreased..I mean I still feel things here and there bit not half as bad as before...as soon as I restarted eating again and said enough is enough and I regained back my strength my diahrea disappeared..am back to having normal bowel movement...I was lacking food badly...I still feel pains here and there but like I said not half as bad..am not concentrating on them...but I know healing takes time I'm not gonna feel 100 percent over night..after all the stress I put on my body..but am getting there.. thanks for this video..God bless u

  • @xero7077
    @xero7077 Жыл бұрын

    The cinematography was therapeutic, I have health anxiety as well and I don't want to sound so religous but ever since I reconnected myself to God--To Jesus--I started to realize that there is something better waiting for me after this life, so my constant fear of suddenly dying slowly disappear. Let's keep on fighting, we are not alone. God bless everyone.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Life is beautiful and too short to dwell in fear. Bless you and may your life be filled with joy, health and happiness 🙏🙂

  • @nishatbhuiyan9541
    @nishatbhuiyan9541 Жыл бұрын

    May Allah remove all our health anxiety ameen,may Allah bless us with good health and peaceful mind,ameen 🤲

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you my friend 🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-wu4uy3nc4u

    @user-wu4uy3nc4u

    5 күн бұрын

    Allahuma ameen

  • @catq6864
    @catq686412 күн бұрын

    “Fear of life changing from one moment to the other” - I’ve never heard a better explanation of health anxiety.. Currently convinced of having a genetic disease that runs in my family after having anxiety over 100 other diseases over the last 27 years. 🙈 It’s tough.. but we’re not alone. Thank you for this video. 💛🙏🏻🫶

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    12 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry that you are going through this. I wish you the best. And I see that you are strong, overcoming anxiety before. Thank you for watching 🙏

  • @catq6864

    @catq6864

    12 күн бұрын

    ⁠@@WolfgangKern Thank you, I wish you the best too. 🫶 And I’m here for the follow-up. 🤗

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    12 күн бұрын

    @@catq6864 thank you. I'm already writing on it. It's crazy to put on paper what happened in two full years.

  • @catq6864

    @catq6864

    12 күн бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern I bet. Take your time and we’ll be here for it when it’s ready. 😁😊🫶

  • @jessicaabragg
    @jessicaabragg2 ай бұрын

    It is actual torture...struggling so bad right now.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. I can tell you it's worth staying strong. Accepting it as part of you and enforcing tools that help you rewire your brain will help. You can and will do it. There are a lot of great books out there. Joshua Fletcher helped me a lot with his books. And keep being open about it. A lot of people suffer in silence and way more people do suffer.

  • @jessicaabragg

    @jessicaabragg

    2 ай бұрын

    @WolfgangKern thank you! I have some CT scans and re-do blood work next week..possibly MRI. Feels hard to function in the anxiety. Praying they all come back clear than I will meet with a therapist and try to heal from this. Thanks again and I agree we need to speak more about it!

  • @np1324

    @np1324

    2 ай бұрын

    What are you struggling with? If there's anything I can reassure you with I'd be happy to help I'm currently in a manic episode due to all of the covid vaccine symptoms. It's crippling me.

  • @np1324

    @np1324

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@jessicaabraggwhat are your symptoms? Sorry if that reply wasn't meant for my comment

  • @jessicaabragg

    @jessicaabragg

    2 ай бұрын

    @np1324 what started as a sinus infection taking 2 round of antibiotics to clear turned into thinking the infection spread in my body turned into thinking I had some sort of obstruction in my sinuses. Now I have tingling in my arms and I know from anxiety and panic attacks from the sinus infection situation I have SO much neck and shoulder tension. But I saw a chiro today who said she didn't lile the way my neck felt and wanted me to get an MRI. I told her I just had xrays and I have straightening of my neck curve form tension likely. My fingers also hurt, headaches. But her words "I don't lile the way your neck feels and I've felt many necks" and requesting and MRI making it sound like it's a tumor. She doesnt know what ive been going thru with health anxiety and such, so i keep reminding myself of that too. I keep telling myself it's all from stress and tension from the anxiety. I'm consumed by fear and my mind is so loud with all the what ifs. I also carry my 22 lbs one year old which I'm sure doesn't help my tension.

  • @mantisjdg
    @mantisjdgАй бұрын

    I started having intensely painful pelvic floor dysfunction several years ago and it caused me to develop severe health anxiety. I was having soul-crushing panic attacks daily as I endured constant burning and stabbing physical agony in my groin and pelvic region over which I had NO control. My doctors found not one single issue. I wasn’t convinced and I’d often lie in bed contemplating suicide because I couldn’t continue enduring so much every waking moment. With tons of help I’ve overcome the pain and the majority of my health anxiety. Life will never be the same but I’m still so grateful and happy to be here. Stay strong!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story. I'm glad you are still here. You are very strong for not only going through this but for keeping your head up even when life isn't easy at all. Keep on going. And I hope this story will help someone else who feels lost and alone.

  • @ashleek4481

    @ashleek4481

    Ай бұрын

    This is exactly what set my already existing health anxiety over the edge. I’m so grateful there’s some else out there who gets it. It’s absolutely terrifying but I am hoping to be where you are in my health anxiety journey one day.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@ashleek4481 sorry to hear that. Yes, you are not alone. And you will also manage it and overcome anxiety. The fact that you came this far proves how strong you are.

  • @cgroyg
    @cgroygАй бұрын

    Thank you for this video 😢 needed to hear this

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching. I'm sorry you are struggling. But you are strong. You can overcome this.

  • @WolfgangKern
    @WolfgangKern Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching this video. It's very personal and I am very happy that people feel less alone, myself included. My wife and I are also talking about Health Anxiety in our podcast "Hello I'm Listening" 😊🙏

  • @laurienaverheezen2859

    @laurienaverheezen2859

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. It's so valuable that people know.they are not.alone

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@laurienaverheezen2859 I'm very grateful for any person watching this and knowing they are not alone. I needed to hear it, multiple times. And it helped me so much.

  • @MalaIzagreba

    @MalaIzagreba

    Ай бұрын

    Its a terrible mental condition, i got some stomach issues year ago, and i went to gastroenterologist, and i think in that period something serious has happened to me, i got acid reflux and duodenitis. And also some symptom that i question now year later if its something serious. I think what if doctor didnt diagnose that symptom good. But i also think he is older doctor he knows what he does, but still question his skill. Before i thought something is bad with my lungs, and after scan it showed all is well. But that also does not make me calm, neither that last 5 times i thought i got something serious it was nothing, same as when i think food got stuck in my esophagus but doctor said it was fine. I simply cant go againts my brain.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@MalaIzagreba thank you for sharing. I can totally relate. The fact you came this far, shows the strength you've got. You need to remind yourself, that it is JUST anxiety and it can't hurt you. Try to understand it, how it works and what it does in your body. It is a trained cycle of brain, hormones that you need to break. And you can and will. The books by Joshua Fletcher are great. Exposure therapy and CBT are probably also the best things you can try. I wish you the best. You are not alone. And reach out, be open, talk about it.

  • @MalaIzagreba

    @MalaIzagreba

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for listening me. Every time i had problem i made this conclusion -'this is it', this time is serious, like with lungs-i told my parents that this time i knew i got something because i felt i got physical evidence of it. Even when you are out with friends you cant enjoy time, it sucks joy out of your life. Sometimes i feel like i would just want to end up in some institution and take many pills to make me dull so i dont worry. I thinked -ok, after this scan if all is well, ill never again think that i got something serious no matter the next symptom i get, but it ends up same, i self diagnose based on internet and it ruins my day@@WolfgangKern

  • @Wyjadaczogorkow
    @Wyjadaczogorkow Жыл бұрын

    Bro I feel You. I had my first and the strongest panic attack when I was 18yo reading some article in a newspaper about the symptoms of a heart attack. I started to feel every of those symptoms. Chest tightness, overwhelming doom, shortness of breath. I thought I'm dying. I told about it my mom and we went to the ER. With every single second while in a road to the hospital I was feeling worse. I was sure that this is my last minutes here...when I reached the doctor she immediately recognised that as a panic attack, she told me that I can't have a heart attack and when she said that every emotion I felt just disappeared in a second. They made some blood test, ECG, Blood pressure and everything came fine. Now After a ten years I'm 30yo I had few more panic attacks, I had a lot of ER visits, had tons of a heart tests, scans, bloodworks, holters, stress tests and every of those was repeated many times but different cardiologists. Every always came back normal and some doctor told me that my heart is so strong, that I can run marathons. Still after tons of tests and even If I finally accepted that this is just an anxiety sometimes I feel that something is not ok... that's the anxiety cycle and we have to breakt that cycle...Now I started to think that I have a carcinoid tumor because I can become flushy in my face and neck and of course it has to be a cancer... hypersensitivity, carastrophising it's the biggest issue...we always Google and we always recognise every little body ache or sensation like a deadly condition which is slowly killing us... But I know we're going to be fine, so stay strong mate, I wish U all the best in Your journey. Best wishes from Poland! ❤️

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story. Thanks for watching and I wish you the best on your journey :)

  • @jet4610

    @jet4610

    Жыл бұрын

    story of my life until now , the difference is that i had my first panic attack when i was 24 ! im 30 now , no one can understand us bro its really hard sometimes ! what you have been going through only i know how you really felt in those moments! Wish you all the best from Albania

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jet4610 sorry to hear that. You are strong and I wish you strength, resilience and the best for your future 😊

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way had test done but something just doesn't seem right

  • @harrywinter154
    @harrywinter154 Жыл бұрын

    thank you for this video its comforting to know im not the only one who experiences it in waves

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear you are living with Anxiety as well. Waves are always a good sign. They show you are doing things that help you reduce Anxiety. I wish you the best for your journey. And thank you for watching 🙏😊

  • @royceanne7986
    @royceanne79862 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Health anxiety as you call it can definitely be debilitating and beyond. May you continue to be strong through your journey.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏 it's a challenge but I will power through it

  • @bransamcooper540
    @bransamcooper5406 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. ive been going through this for a few years now and it can be so hard when no one around you has it, so they dont understand how bad it can be. good to see im not the only one 🙏

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching and for being open. Yes indeed, Anxiety can take away all of the fun and happiness by simply preoccupying us with those horrible "What If"-thoughts and physical symptoms. I highly recommend Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and/or self-help workbooks on that matter. Also, books like Anxiety: Panicking About Panic by Joshua Fletcher. Being open and talking about it can also take away some pain. Lot of people suffer in silence which can lead to acohol/drug abuse or even worse things. I wish you the best and feel free to reach out anytime. You can find me here or on social media.

  • @bransamcooper540

    @bransamcooper540

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern thank you for the advice! I will check those books out 🙏

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    @@bransamcooper540 You are welcome. Joshua Fletcher breaks down Anxiety so well in his books. Simply understanding the physical things in our bodies can take away some of the weight. Hope it will help 😊

  • @JasperMakesFilms
    @JasperMakesFilms2 жыл бұрын

    Impressive video, thank you for sharing!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙏 thank you

  • @stuford
    @stuford2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your video. It really helps me to know how much this affected you. I am going tbrough this too. Thanks my friend, Stu 🙏

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching. You are strong and you will learn to let go of fear and live a normal life. Trust in your strength and your body. And talk about. Share it and you will see, a lot of people go through the same stuff.

  • @johnhalas6084
    @johnhalas6084 Жыл бұрын

    You’re not alone man! I have it too. Same thing. I’m working hard as well and making progress!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you the best in your journey. We are still here 😊

  • @billy7657
    @billy765728 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this video. Your story is very similar to mine. And the fact that your t-shirt says Billy really hit home since that’s my name… it’s like this video was made for me

  • @stuartbrown2249
    @stuartbrown2249 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this. I go back and forth with health anxiety and it’s comforting to know there are others battling this too. I hope you are loving your life to the fullest and we will all get through this together

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope at least see progress. And acknowledge the fact that you being still here is a massive accomplishment. Health anxiety doesn't kill us, it can kill happiness though. I wish you the best in your journey. And thank you for watching 😊

  • @Dominik40301

    @Dominik40301

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, you go to doctor, he says its all ok, you are at peace for some time, but then you detect another new symptom and its same story again. Ive seen videos where people say they went to ER for 10 times in short period of time, so there are cases that are much severe than others. One therapist also say that people often think what if doctor missed something, so they go for addition checkup but different doctor. It can really suck all joy from you life like channel owner says.

  • @lscpjc
    @lscpjc Жыл бұрын

    It’s the same for me…thank you for sharing this heartfelt video….you too are not alone 😘

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I very much appreciate that. I wish you the best 😊

  • @pathogge2707
    @pathogge2707 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. This is my life every day. I am trying so hard to relax about my health anxiety. Videos like yours are a huge help

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for taking time and watching my video. I hope you will find peace and can finally start enjoying life again. 😊 It's all in you!

  • @mizraimoliveira
    @mizraimoliveira6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video, it's so relatable... I think what hurts the most for me is the feeling you get when you keep thinking about those days, years ago, when you didn't even think about what health anxiety or anxiety in general was, you just used to live your life stressing about other things. The thing about anxiety coming in waves is really hard because even when you are doing fine you fear when that wave will hit you again and take away your joy or will to live. Idk how or when, but I hope we can all "heal" from this. But it's great to hear stories of others and feel less lonely.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    I agree. There are so many people out there suffering silently or numbing their pain just to live a normal life. Because addressing Anxiety can suck a lot. But it's so worth it. Being able to manage it and overcome symptoms and those intrusive thoughts, is truly life changing. Thank you for watching and for commenting. I know people will read this and again, feel less alone 😊

  • @kevinrodriguez210
    @kevinrodriguez2102 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing let's me know I can get through this! I'm going through the storm now and I talk to my family about everything but I need cbt help. Thanks again and God Bless you!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear. You can and will get through this. Don't forget, you are not alone. And you can always reach out and talk to people who went through the same shit. I wish you the best.

  • @malps7028
    @malps7028 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate you talking about this. At the beginning of 2022, I started suffering from health anxiety. At first, I didn’t know what it was at first, but the more I talked about this, and going to therapy, I finally realized that it was health anxiety. I was constantly getting convinced that I was going to get sick all because of sensations. Like, I would be so hyper focused on my stomach and what it does, like the gurgles, aches, etc. And I would get scared to eat, and stuff like that. But listening to stories like yours, makes me feel more confident about going through this. I have high respect for you, and you got this!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being open and sharing your story. Therapy is so crucially important to overcome anxiety. I wish you the best and thank you for watching 🙏

  • @angel.heart007
    @angel.heart007 Жыл бұрын

    You aren’t alone. My nights and early mornings was everything you described. It’s truly debilitating. Tools can help but not always and I’m still struggling. I hope you’re doing well today. All the waves of health anxiety are horrible, but we can make it through and get better🙏🏼

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you the best. Anxiety gets a lot of people but it's important to tell yourself that it can't harm you. I wish you the best and stay strong 😊

  • @angel.heart007

    @angel.heart007

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern that means a lot. Thank you for giving us all hope! And I’m just now learnings to sort of go with the anxiety flow and at the same time convincing my stubborn brain that I’m safe. Whewww it’s tough but I can see it working in the long run👍🏼

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@angel.heart007 you are welcome! Opening up and talking about it, is already a big step that can help a lot. For me, talking about it even just over the internet, helped me not to feel alone and also gain confidence to tackle anxiety. 😊

  • @camharrison400
    @camharrison400 Жыл бұрын

    You’re not alone brother, I struggle with this, stay strong.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I wish you the best and I hope you can master this thing as well.

  • @ANGIE9595
    @ANGIE95954 ай бұрын

    I went down the google rabbit hole today. I’ve been doing so well with my anxiety, but I feel like today I let it take over me. I do have an appointment with a ENT doctor to make sure everything with my sinuses is ok. But of course I’m thinking the worst. Any way thank you for sharing your experience with us.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    4 ай бұрын

    So sorry to hear. It's totally normal to do that once in a while and learning to live with Anxiety is a Roller Coaster of ups and downs. Sometimes the downs feel especially heavy after a few good weeks or months. But that just shows how far you have come. You are strong. You are healthy. Just keep pushing :)

  • @angelalowe6549
    @angelalowe6549 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. It’s heart felt and so true. I can relate to everything you mentioned in this video. Everything single things. Sending you much love and peace. I struggle with health anxiety too. It’s a beast. But we got this♥️ much love

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words. Wish you the best on your journey with anxiety. And yes, you are right, we got this 😊 thanks for taking time and watching my video ❤️

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    Can l ask what are u dealing with and how are u dealing with it

  • @angelalowe6549

    @angelalowe6549

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasonb7870 yes. Just like the physical symptoms of stress and anxiety. Numbness in my fingers feeling like impending doom irritability shaky and nervous weak muscles and muscle tension basically for the whole month of November. It hasn’t been this bad in a long time. I try to slow my breathing down I write in my gratitude journal I go for walks eating healthy long baths but this time I didn’t get that much relief from all of my self care methods

  • @angelalowe6549

    @angelalowe6549

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasonb7870 also when the physical symptoms of stress come on my mind tells me I’m suffering from a disease or something terrible it’s a horrible cycle with health anxiety it’s always one perceived health scare after another

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    @@angelalowe6549 same here l had test done they say I'm OK but its hard to trust when u feel what you feel chest muscle tension and shallow breathing also

  • @DianaGoytia03
    @DianaGoytia03 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. You are the first person who actually described your health anxiety exactly like mine. I've been this way since I was a kid. It was bad during my teens, it would come and go in waves. In my twenties, thirties you name it I have sworn I had every illness. But now I'm 50 and it's worse because I'm at the age when illnesses can crop up, but what's even worse is all those years that I wasted thinking I was dying that I could have enjoyed and "I'm still here." It is a miserable way to live especially when doctors and nurses have literally rolled their eyes and even made little jokes when they see my extreme anxiety. And you're so right about how mornings are the worst. Again thank you for sharing. I wish you health and happiness you are so young and you deserve to live your life to the fullest.🕊️

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. I am sorry that you had to struggle with this for so long. But you are still here, you are strong and you are living your life. I wish you the best for your future and lot's of happiness and health as well. 🙏😊

  • @DianaGoytia03

    @DianaGoytia03

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Thank you so much for your reply, you're very kind😊

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@odainewalcott sure. @woifi_film

  • @christiancrover8065
    @christiancrover8065 Жыл бұрын

    Echt starkes Video. Leider brachte mich der YT Algorhytmus zu spät her, aber es ist schön, dass ich es dennoch gefunden hab. Ich struggel seit langer Zeit mit der Angst. Mehr hab ich auch nicht zu sagen. Wünsche dir alles liebe und hoffe keiner von uns muss nochmal eine Episode durchmachen.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Danke für dein Kommentar. Wünsch dir das Beste und viel Gesundheit 😊 und danke dafür, dass du dir mein Video angesehen hast.

  • @odin4261
    @odin42616 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. I feel so hopeless sometimes. Seeing a great therapist now, hoping I can see light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral therapy can make a huge difference. But also talking about it being open can help. And sometimes just hearing that other people went through something similar, can make a huge difference. I wish you the best and I know you can manage whatever you are going through. You can always reach out if you like.

  • @odin4261

    @odin4261

    6 ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Thank you. You dont know how much that means to me. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    @@odin4261 you are welcome. 😊

  • @hailierodgers4896
    @hailierodgers4896 Жыл бұрын

    thank you sm for making this video. i’m only 16 years old and i’ve been dealing with health anxiety my whole life since i was little, i’m not sure what it’s from but it’s so hard to live with. i’m unhappy all the time, i jus want to feel anything other than anxiousness. hopefully everyone along w myself starts to feel better soon. it sucks. thinking about dying everyday all day and only being 16 really makes life and everyday activities so hard.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry to hear that. I highly recommend Cognitive behavioral therapy if you haven't tried it yet. You are still so young and you've got so much to live for. You can always contact me in my social media if you feel the need to talk or need any advice. I wish you the best.

  • @SaifSiddiqui-kn5cf

    @SaifSiddiqui-kn5cf

    6 ай бұрын

    Hey can we talk? Please I'm 16 too dealing with the same

  • @siri-st5xz

    @siri-st5xz

    3 ай бұрын

    @@SaifSiddiqui-kn5cf same (Im 20 though) I also want to talk

  • @beausmom8863
    @beausmom8863 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. I have been struggling with health anxiety for two years now. I like when you said….”I am still here….” Good reminder….we are still here so I try to keep going cause even when I feel sick life keeps moving and since I’m still here I may as well try to enjoy it, feeling sick, or not.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. Have you ever tried CBT or even some books on the subject with exercise to rewire the brain?

  • @beausmom8863

    @beausmom8863

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern yes, thank you I am working with a therapist that uses CBT. It’s been a long road, my brain has been resistant but I keep working at it. Watching videos like yours has been helpful too. When you know someone else is working through their own battle too, it reminds you you’re not the o my one and to keep going. Thank you!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@beausmom8863 i agree. Sometimes feeling a little bit less alone, can make a big difference 😊

  • @donermann6617
    @donermann661719 күн бұрын

    thank you. i believe i have had health anxiety for a while now, always had these unexplainable headaches and was convinced that something must be terribly wrong. i guess anxiety can produce a lot of actual symptoms if it goes unrecognized. still learning, but the video helped me in that there is hope.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    19 күн бұрын

    It's crazy what the body can do. And with anxiety you can literally have any symptoms. And they can change. So it's initially really hard to keep track of it. I wish you the best and thank you for watching my video 🙏

  • @Mulleboyen
    @Mulleboyen Жыл бұрын

    The first video I have seen that could be me describing my struggle.. I wish you the best! Keep on fighting! I am myself down in the hole right now and having panic due to nausea and lack of apetite. Have recently done an ruptured appendix removal due to inflammation so I have been on heavy antibiotics. Done 2 x ct scans of the stomach area and my doctor says it takes time to get back to normal and on top of that my health anxiety but I am so afraid of not liking food anymore so I cry all day thinking its something worse… its a horrible condition… My doctor is concerned for my mental health she said.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry to hear that. I've been in a very similar situation. Our brain can completely alter out imagination and brain chemistry. Definitely talk to a therapist or try some self help CBT books if therapy is not possible. It helped me a lot. I'm still struggling but it gotten so much better and manageable. Also feel free to reach out anytime. Talking about it helps a lot. Feeling understood and hearing it from someone who went through the same shit, makes a difference.

  • @Mulleboyen

    @Mulleboyen

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Thank you! Yes I am going to a psychologist doing KBT and will try new antidepressant medication. But it feels much better listening and talking with someone like you who really understands how health anxiety feels, the darkness and hopeless feeling. None of my friends understands how horrible it is, they just think I should go on living and not worry when the doctor say I am alright. This year I have done lung x-ray, 2 ct x-ray on the whole belly, 1 coloscopy, 1 camera down the throat, several urine and blood tests, several ekg, several prostate checks, testicle checks etc. People think I am nuts. And for you, feel free to reach out if you want to talk!

  • @candycewindels1337
    @candycewindels1337Ай бұрын

    That's one of the most frustrating things. You think you are getting better and eventually things derail you for periods of time. I have ptsd and panic disorder. Way to be brave and put this put there.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. Yes. It definitely comes in waves but that's usually also a sign that you are doing something that helps you get better. Especially after a longer period of time of being good, It sucks to feel like you are back where you've started. But that's not the case. Therapy and so many books can help. I wish you the best and hang in there. It's worth it

  • @candycewindels1337

    @candycewindels1337

    Ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Oh yes. I've tried it all. Books, many different types of therapy, medication, meditation etc etc. It's been over 15 years. I've just kind of come to the conclusion that this is just always something I will deal with to some extent.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@candycewindels1337 I agree. You can't get rid of it but it can be manageable

  • @daniellesteiner3100
    @daniellesteiner31002 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful, sweet husband of mine 🥰 I love you so much and I’m so so proud of you ❤️

  • @ronaldbirb9431
    @ronaldbirb9431Ай бұрын

    I normally don't comment on videos, but I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. It is crazy how much I can relate to you. The constant body-checks, non-existent self-care, being scared of the feeling of joy.. On top of that, being a lonely international university student dealing with various sources of stress (economic worries about my family, constant self-loathing, desperately trying to improve, and pushing my abilities to their limits) just cracked my brain this week. The idea of slowly dying without achieving anything that I want to achieve started filling up my mind (I am getting irritated just by writing this sentence)... Being able to put myself in your shoes and learning how this can be treated and managed and the fact that it is all in my anxious brain brought an unfathomable moment of relief. Thank you for making this video.. You deserve every good thing coming your way (even though you may not feel like it).

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Your comment just made me tear up. Thank you for sharing part of your story and being open. Also thank you for watching and your very sweet words. I promise you if you keep pushing, you will overcome this. And you will learn how to handle it in the future. The fact that you are dealing with so many things AND anxiety, shows how strong you are. Just remember, Anxiety doesn't define you. It can't hurt you. It is JUST anxiety. There are things in life we can't control. And coming to terms with that, is a big step towards accepting anxiety as part of us. It's a normal bodily function and you will rewire your brain again. I can recommend the books of Joshua Fletcher, his two books helped me a lot in understanding anxiety and in making the first changes towards overcoming it. I wish you the best and feel free to reach out anytime. Here, on Insta or wherever

  • @childofgodtwo7869
    @childofgodtwo7869 Жыл бұрын

    Praise Jesus ,even though He said be anxious for nothing because the Father knows what we need ,anxiety still attacks it had me too just as it has you brother, its awful very awful ,we will endure ,thankyou for this video,

  • @MrsGarrison1028
    @MrsGarrison1028 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. Nobody knows what I go through everyday except for my husband. I realize I need therapy. I can no longer do this on my own.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching. Yes, get help. Cognitive behavioral therapy helped me a lot and changed my life. You are strong 😊

  • @lumabi25
    @lumabi2521 күн бұрын

    Thank you. This is all quite familiar. It comes and goes, and when it comes it does so by sneaking up on you and it takes a while till you realise what's going on. Since about 2010 I've experienced some of the craziest and most confusing situations and they have driven doctors, my family and myself mad. My impression is that OCD is connected (in my case anyway), and I need to get some help with CBT. In the meantime I mostly now use a dumb phone to restrict Google searches. On other devices I am careful to avoid searching for anything that might trigger me, or if I make a wrong move I quickly back out.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    21 күн бұрын

    Sorry to hear that you are struggling as well. I tried to limit myself as well for some time but I quickly saw that avoiding it, didn't help me in the long run. For example I didn't watch movies anymore with a certain subject. But I found exposure to a certain degree (my therapist was a great help) was very helpful and slowly got me back. CBT i can highly recommend. And for me, understanding what's happening in the body in terms of hormones also helped a lot. I could then name it and just call it what it was: just anxiety :) I wish you the best. Stay strong.

  • @lisadelange5223
    @lisadelange52234 күн бұрын

    Thank you for video 100% relate its horrible no one understands

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    4 күн бұрын

    Sorry to hear. I'm working on a new video. It's been some time now. But I've gained some new knowledge. I wish you the best. Keeping working on it.

  • @lisadelange5223

    @lisadelange5223

    4 күн бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern thank you been walking around with symptoms 24/7 and I’ve been looking for reassurance ever since because I’m so terrified. GAD is no joke and acceptance is even harder

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    4 күн бұрын

    @@lisadelange5223 It's the worst because it feels real. Breaking out of this cycle is hard but possible. And knowing you are still here, standing against it, shows your strength

  • @LoganScott1117
    @LoganScott1117 Жыл бұрын

    I had cardiophobia and got viral myocarditis. Doctor says I handled it well because my heart is so healthy. I had an ultrasound, heart catheter, blood work, and a Holter monitor on for my entire visit. I still struggle with PVCs roughly every other week. It’s usually one or two but it hits my anxiety hard. I just got on meds and am trying to get into therapy but this is so hard. It’s so hard to just sit there and accept that it’s normal and not a red flag that I need to run to the hospital for.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. The mind can play crazy tricks on us and with symptoms it's even harder to escape those thoughts. I really hope you will find your way in dealing with it. Try to understand your anxiety and also how anxiety works. Made it easier for me at least. 😊

  • @samanthapaclibar5079
    @samanthapaclibar5079 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, i am exactly like this. I constantly checking my body, skin. Went to many doctor! I can't go to psychiatrist, sad that it is so expensive. 😭

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. There are a lot of books out there which can help. Everything with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is great. Also books like Anxiety: Panicking About Panic by Joshua Fletcher are great to understand how Health Anxiety work. I wish you the best.

  • @amandahalley5531

    @amandahalley5531

    Жыл бұрын

    Body checking is very normal for an anxiety sufferer...I did the same every time...

  • @MalaIzagreba

    @MalaIzagreba

    Ай бұрын

    People who dont have health anxiety also check their body, its normal and natural thing, difference is that people who suffer HA do it more often and they always think of worst@@amandahalley5531

  • @cory5525
    @cory55256 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your'e story. I have been dealing with anxiety for 25 years now. Between my 90 year old mother decclining and me getting bit by a tick, my anxiety started escalating. Started having chest pain heart palpitations dizziness. Many tests ER visits and cardiac CT scan was fine. However holtor monitor found 2 SVT episodes which validated my catastrophiving. Waiting for a echocardiagram now. I am definitely at the point now starting meds and therapy. I feel lost.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope going forward that you can regain trust in your body and that the meds and therapy will help. Definitely try to do the same for your mind via therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy or some selfhelp workbooks. And keep talking about it, being open and just knowing other people go through similar things, can help a lot as well

  • @cory5525

    @cory5525

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you. I started my first therapy session last week and hope it works because I am missing out on life. Like you, I suffer with IBS as well which causes dehydration which makes things worse. Just hope to get sleep and calm soon. Thank you for sharing your story very brave! 😊

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 ай бұрын

    @@cory5525 the fact that you are open in sharing your story here, makes you very strong. It's a fight and it can be very exhausting. Keep up the fight. It will get easier. I promise you. 😊

  • @michaelbradley2702
    @michaelbradley27022 ай бұрын

    I get ectopics every day.. it's a low quality of life sitting waiting for your heart to stop, but 5 years later I'm still here. So we both go on. All it is, is your thoughts. Our thoughts. Just remember that.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. I hope you can still find enjoyment in your life. I wish you the best and thanks for your kind words.

  • @Roxana-bn1gr
    @Roxana-bn1gr Жыл бұрын

    Anxiety is Hell! I suffered from cardio phobia for a while. I was able to get through it and was fine for about a year. And then October of this year out of nowhere it came back full force. Extreme body aches, joint pain, fatigue and now it’s stomach issues. I hate this so much and it’s causing me bad depression. But I pray all of us suffering from this can overcome and get better. That we can go back to enjoying life.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear you are going through this. I know it will get better for you. Keep going and I wish you the best.

  • @amandahalley5531

    @amandahalley5531

    Жыл бұрын

    I have the same..it's so worrisome and frustrating body and join ache and pain all over and diahhrea

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandahalley5531 I'm sorry to hear that. I assume you've been to the doctor as well multiple times. Anxiety can be hellish but it's a great source for creativity and being a better human. You can and will grow so much from it 😊 I wish you the best.

  • @amandahalley5531

    @amandahalley5531

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern thank u for the reply anxiety is he'll and make you think something is seriously wrong..

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amandahalley5531 I agree. It can destroy lives. But we have to remind ourselves over and over again that it can't kill or harm us ☺️

  • @healingwithangelica
    @healingwithangelica Жыл бұрын

    All praises be to Allah, thank you for sharing your story. I have been able to deal with anxiety for over 6 years and it got worse during the pandemic. I have now learned to take my life back by doing things to cope with it. Thank you for sharing you have inspired me to do the same.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! 😊 And i wish you the best in your journey! 😊

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    Really how do u deal with it lm trying hard to also

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasonb7870 step by step. You'll gather some tools to master anxiety. Definitely read about, try to understand the scientific side of it. There are many good books about it. Josh Fletcher has some really good ones.

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern ok I'll try that

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasonb7870 and try talking about it. It helps to not feel so alone with it. A lot of people silently sit with it.

  • @Rhianna2023
    @Rhianna2023Ай бұрын

    I am sorry it came back for u please be strong remember it’s just fear it sucks it’s hard just remember we can do this I Tell some people they shut me up don’t want to hear it it’s sad

  • @theamalgamatedtheory
    @theamalgamatedtheory Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this. I had a similar situation happen to me last year with thinking i had something serious with my digestive system. Convnced i was dying With strange bowel movements sonetimes with what i thought was blood. Then i became constipated, and gave myself a hernia trying to go. I never got checked but symptoms subsided. Now im struggling something else non health related but the same sort of feelings are back. It is terrible. Other than cbt did any medication help you

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. I tried a lot of things. I was on anti anxiety medication which helped but made me feel numb and not myself. I also tried CBD oil and CBD tea which are amazing to slow down your mind. I am also always taking probiotics which helps my digestive system 😊

  • @RegwooH
    @RegwooHАй бұрын

    Ive struggled with health anxiety for years. I've been through some of the most dark times. Havent been able to be a good father or a good husband. Only recently, I've plucked up the courage to actually watch other peoples experiences, and it made me feel like im not alone. I honestly pray for anyone who suffers from this. Being a 28 yesr old male, i struggled to accept that i suffer with this, but once you realise your not alone, accepting is a way forward.

  • @RegwooH

    @RegwooH

    Ай бұрын

    Also, thank you for making the video. You'll be glad to know that there's people out there like me who really appreciate it. We are not alone

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@RegwooH I'm sorry you are struggling. I can tell you that you are on a good way. Every path is different but in the end it pays off. It's worth it. You are strong. Keep being open about it. If you have not tried CBT, I can only recommend it. Also the books by Joshua Fletcher are amazing.

  • @karanpandit2023
    @karanpandit2023 Жыл бұрын

    I also have heart related anxiety Had panics, ectopics, palpitations, chest pains(tonnes of categories), Ibs, derealization, so much more i have suffered But i love to hear that I'm not alone here We are normal I pray to God every day not to cure this because i know I'm normal i just pray to give me strength 🌺🌺💞💞💞

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    You are still here. You are a fighter. You are strong. And each day you proof that again and again 😊 I wish you the best and thank you for taking your time to watch my video 😊

  • @karanpandit2023

    @karanpandit2023

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern my pleasure 💕 Thanks a lot for sharing your experience ☺️

  • @tullyogallaghan
    @tullyogallaghan6 күн бұрын

    Stress and rushing tighten up my mind like a coiled up snake. We have to learn to frequently monitor our stress/emotional level. I like to use biofeedback devices such as Inner Balance and Heart Math. Open mouth breathing is very bad but it’s a hard habit to break. I put a bit of tape on the corner of my mouth to remind me. That and physically and mentally, slowing down are two tools I am trying to utilize every day. Good, sound sleep plus healthy diet and daily outdoor exercise help me, too. I just have to be disciplined. Good luck,

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    6 күн бұрын

    Yes. You are so right. Ultimately everyone has to find their own way but those tools you've mentioned are great to be more aware of anxiety building up. I wish you the best. And thank you for sharing and for watching 🙏

  • @jazmaj6417
    @jazmaj64172 ай бұрын

    Yes i am still here i have some seatbacks but i found it helps with self confidence that i belive in myself so anxiety never ends i just kind off used to live with monster and regulary laugh to him to face.As Marcus Aurelis said,Death smile to all of us only thing man can do is smile back so i stick to that and live my life whatever happens it will hapens.All the best

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    That's a great attitude 😊 totally agree, there are things we can't control. And anxiety makes us worry about exactly those things. I wish you the best and thank you for watching 😊

  • @jazmaj6417

    @jazmaj6417

    2 ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern we can only influence inner things but outside happenings is something to accept and that's about it.I wish you everything best my anxiety brother

  • @Mawo3pg
    @Mawo3pgАй бұрын

    With you brother. I've had it for over 10 years.. actually 14 years acutely. It's awful 😖

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear. Hope you are doing better now. Any tips on what helped you the most?

  • @piotrkrezelewski7455
    @piotrkrezelewski7455Ай бұрын

    dude. im 39.never in my life had problem with health anxiety.what happen was ( i think ) that triggered this in me- for last 5 years me and my Gf had a quite rough time.a lot of events like- my GF knee surgery/ my son 2 surgerys over 2 years/ death in familly / Covid/ i had a Boil on back of my head ,size of the half of apple,and finally my ex girlfriend /mother of my son got diagnosed with cancer.... soo ive started to convince myself that i will probably die soon/ something bad gonna happen to me. i had problerms with depresion /anxiety in the past ( not health related ) so i now could figure out the symptoms.Baiscally rn i have conctant IBS , twisted gut feeling. but withh vieos like Yours help me to remember that this is only my anxiety ta;king.thanks dude!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear. We all got so much shit thrown at us but that is just a testament for your strength. I wish you the best. Keep up the spirit. It’s worth it. Check out Joshua fletchers books on anxiety. Helped me tremendously

  • @kahtic7166
    @kahtic7166 Жыл бұрын

    10:20 - 10:31. I felt that so deep. It does come in waves. Sometimes you're fine for a length of time then bam! Something sets you off. I've dealt with it since I was a child but as I got older it became more pervasive. The themes change. Right now I'm dealing with breathing issues. I get tense and struggle to breathe trying to do anything standing/walking longer than 10-15 minutes. It's draining as hell.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing that. It does come in waves and it hits so out of nowhere sometimes. I hope you will continue to just fight and keep going 😊 And thank you for watching 🙏

  • @JonnyCigar407
    @JonnyCigar407Ай бұрын

    We convince ourselves of being sick, dying etc.... Why can't we convince ourselves to be happy and fulfilled?

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Good point and let me tell you, you actually can :) You can transform the negative thoughts. In CBT you basically just do that.

  • @dawiddawid4257
    @dawiddawid425720 күн бұрын

    I know what you feel… everything just back to me after 3 years of being fine. On Monday I am back on therapy and already back to medication 😥 I have cancerophohia

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    20 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear. But you have already come this far. Anxiety comes in waves and unfortunately sometimes hits you out of nowhere. You are.on a good path. I wish you the best

  • @dawiddawid4257

    @dawiddawid4257

    20 күн бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern thank you mate! I started reading again great book - “How To Stop Worrying And Start Living” Carnegie Dale. Maybe it will help here somebody else too

  • @Rhianna2023
    @Rhianna2023Ай бұрын

    Psychologist explained how anxiety works I know but after number of specialists Doctors visits I know but I don’t believe them. We have to believe and accept the symptoms instead of fighting makes it worse. I never knew I would have a fear activated I was scared but doing exposure and symptoms get strong

  • @grumblekin
    @grumblekin Жыл бұрын

    IBS can cooperate with the vagus nerve to make you think you have heart issues (stomach is close to the heart). That's always fun. I pray that all of us who suffer will heal.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes indeed. It's all connected and the mind plays some cruel games with us. I wish you the best.

  • @rabiaashfaq4205
    @rabiaashfaq4205Ай бұрын

    I'm feeling really sorry for you ... I too struggled the same ...but alhamdulillah now coping with it by considering it as a blessing as when ever I get my self rushed around the world Allah gives me this anxiety so I slow down a bit and get nearer to Allah , secondly I don't rush to the Dr anymore I give my every symptom whether a stomach ache, nausea , body ache or anything atleast 3 days if it doesn't go away thn I go to the Dr , moreover I don't google anything anymore as it never gives you the whole picture as I remember having high esinophils counts google shows it cancer and I panicked whole month with out considering tht my platelets, haemoglobin, RBCs were all fine and it was body's natural defense system against allergic particles, moreover I changed my perspective about illness if you are to get some disease you will get it if Allah wills it for you so all I can do is to pray and having faith on my prayers being accepted as I ask Allah Im too weak to bear this test never get me in this test and trail please....and I believe on the acceptance of my prayers , moreover disease is not synonymous to game over , human body is a machine wear tears are so acceptable, so just don't panic , we can't control everything about our body ... Allah made it in the best of moulds , Allah gives disease and he cures and for every single pain there is reward , so it's a blessing... Being close to the creator is the ultimate solace , none can give you hope except Allah ... I feel myself way to calmer now alhamdulillah my prayers for everyone...❤️

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. Yes. We have to learn to trust. And accept to let go of things we can't control. Well put, my friend.

  • @xchocoberri
    @xchocoberri Жыл бұрын

    hi just wanted to make you aware of the “new IBS” which is called SIBO or IMO. if you didn’t know! i think it’s something like 60% or 80%?? have this who have IBS. once i got my breath test and it was positive, i took specific antibiotics and it helped my bowel symptoms majorly. now i’m working on the trauma and the anxiety. you can look up dr mark pimentel’s research on youtube !just wanted to throw that out juuuuust in case! im sorry about the health anxiety. i have it too. i started to develop agoraphobia and it’s hard. shannon jackson’s podcasts have been very helpful to me. you’re not alone. also!! despite bringing awareness to sibo, anxiety TRULY can cause these symptoms too. 100000% but we can still live life with anxiety. we CAN get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable. it’s just…. work! but it’s possible.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the information! 😊 I ruled all of those things out of course with my.doctor. But I think it's very important to know, that it can be something else as well. I very much appreciate that. And thank you for taking time and watching my video 😊

  • @sdichampion8631
    @sdichampion86312 ай бұрын

    ❤💙 to all who suffer through this. God please touch and bless us all, and replace this with your perfect peace as we work toward fully trusting you. In Jesus name.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @dellwendybrown2713
    @dellwendybrown27133 ай бұрын

    Oh boy I really needed to hear this. First of all you are so brave. I was diagnosed with cancer 14 years ago. I am clear now. I had NO health anxiety prior to that time. Since then however my life has been consumed by it. That seems to have been the trigger for me. People poke fun and say oh your just a hypochondriac! They think it's a joke but this really does ruin your life. You become consumed by worry. I get some twinge or ache and suddenly it's ALL bad. Thinking about it makes it worse as symptoms escalate! You think yes it must be something very serious because I feel so bad. My body seems to manifest what ever illness or condition that I fear. The mind is so powerful. I am sorry you struggle with this because it is hell. I feel so hopeless at times because I haven't been strong enough to overcome this. It robs you of joy. THANKS FOR BEING BRAVE . YOU ARE HELPING OTHERS BY SHARING YOUR STRUGGLE.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    3 ай бұрын

    You are very strong. You not only beat something very serious but now you are managing health anxiety. Trauma comes in many forms and manifests itself years later. Recognizing it and actually start dealing with it, is the first step to keep living a "normal" life. But yes, it's hard especially when all the sensations feel real. And going against what you believe is hard. But you are on a good way. There are books, CBT and other forms of therapy that help with anxiety. Thank you for your kind words. Reading them, makes me feel heard and not alone. We are not alone 😊 and reaching out to others is something that can help as well. You know where to find me. I wish you the best for now. 😊

  • @dellwendybrown2713

    @dellwendybrown2713

    3 ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Thanks for your kind response. Is there one book that has really helped you that you can recommend?

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    3 ай бұрын

    @@dellwendybrown2713 you are welcome. Yes, I love the two books by Joshua Fletcher, Anxiety: Panicking About Panic and his newer one Untangle Your Anxiety: A Guide To Overcoming An Anxiety Disorder By Two People Who Have Been Through It

  • @dellwendybrown2713

    @dellwendybrown2713

    3 ай бұрын

    Oh that's awesome. I will look for these two books. I am glad you have found them helpful in your struggles. Thanks so very much. 😊 👍

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    3 ай бұрын

    @@dellwendybrown2713 those books helped me understand what anxiety is and what it can do to my body. Which helped me in managing it 😊 you are welcome

  • @PadmaMehendale-ge9zj
    @PadmaMehendale-ge9zj2 ай бұрын

    It’s such a hard journey to live with anxiety disorder . Today Iam feeling like I cannot breathe .. Iam doing my chores so Iam breathing well but the thought is still going on .. makes me feel anxious and soo ashamed too

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    It is a tough journey at times. I hope you will learn to overcome your fears and let go of the things you can't control. Trusting in ones body, in life itself can be relearned. I wish you the best. You are strong. You are still here. Keep going, it's worth it

  • @alrayyan4234
    @alrayyan4234 Жыл бұрын

    new sub here bro

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks man!

  • @Spiff22364
    @Spiff223642 ай бұрын

    Only way u can get over anxiety is by truly accepting it. Instead of fighting it when it comes on u accept it all. It’s called expose therapy . All anxiety is is false alarms telling your brain there’s danger when really there’s no danger at all, when u learn it accept it everytime instead of fighting it your brain eventually learns that these are false alarms and they stop. I used to have it for years so bad I couldn’t even leave the house. And now I have currently been anxiety free for 3 years, all it took was me reading “Claire weekes” book and learning this method another good book that describes this method is the book “Dare” trust me from someone who knows the worse thing u can do with anxiety it fight it or cope with it.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this. And I 100% agree. The brain can be rewired pretty fast but it can be hard work. But it's totally worth it

  • @Spiff22364

    @Spiff22364

    2 ай бұрын

    No problem. If I did it anyone can. I did it with out any medicine at all, went from not even being able to leave the house without having a panic attack to completely overcoming it. I would really encourage people to read or listen to Claire weekes and I hope it changes their life the way it did mine.

  • @kovski8310
    @kovski83108 ай бұрын

    Ich verstehe dich nur zu gut. :/ Bei mir war der Auslöser eine schwere Herzerkrankung mit 19, die mich das erste Mal mit dem Thema Sterblichkeit und Tod konfrontiert hat. Zeitgleich erkrankte meine Mutter an Krebs. Daraus resultierten über die Jahre eine äußerst schwerwiegende Angststörung, wobei auch bei mir die Krankheitsangst ein großer Antreiber ist. Gerade anfangs beförderte mich die Angst sogar mehrfach in die Notaufnahme. Mittlerweile (30) habe ich sie etwas besser unter Kontrolle, dennoch kommt es regelmäßig zu teils großen Rückschlägen. Sehr nervig und ich hab meine berufliche Karriere bei weitem nicht so im Griff wie du. Du kannst massiv stolz sein, wie du das alles handhabst und mit welchen kontinuierlichen Ehrgeiz du an dir arbeitest. Liebe Grüße, ebenfalls aus Oberösterreich. :D

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    8 ай бұрын

    Tut mir leid zu hören. Ich weiß wie schwer es sein kann. Danke für deine Offenheit. Und drüber reden hilft immer. Hab auch immer ein offenes Ohr. LG ebenso aus OÖ 😁

  • @vanessarenda1393
    @vanessarenda13932 ай бұрын

    I am living a nightmare. I am scared and living it with just me knowing.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear. Did you ever talk to a therapist? There are also a lot of online groups and forums for that kinda stuff. I also like to read books about it to understand it as much as possible.

  • @np1324

    @np1324

    2 ай бұрын

    What are you struggling with? I have suffered for nearly 10 years now. If I can help reassure you I'd be happy to help

  • @Rhianna2023
    @Rhianna2023Ай бұрын

    Health Anxiety started a year now I had no idea when Dr said u have anxiety I said no something is wrong I feel sick I had so many symptoms changing now main problem is headaches and dizziness I have fear that I am going to die. I went to so many doctors specialists Osteo Chiro Physio Acupuncture Neurologist nothing worked I spend Thousands of dollars asking for help and nothing. It’s a nightmare

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear... Unfortunately not many doctors are familiar with anxiety. Ruling out other problems is important. But then the hard work begins. Cognitive Behavioral therapy is probably the best way to treat anxiety. It's all about rewiring the brain, accepting the fact that some things are out of our control. Anxiety can't hurt us, but it can definitely change our lives. You are strong. You will overcome this. And talking about it, is super important as well. So many people suffer in silence. And there are so many of us.

  • @Rhianna2023

    @Rhianna2023

    Ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern I do hope it’s just anxiety as I find it hard to believe. The Intrusive Thoughts r not fun I ask God to help us get thru this It’s our brain playing tricks on us my Psychologist Told Me it’s all from some Trauma and one day activates and then physical symptoms. She believes I will get thru this so I ask God to help me

  • @Rhianna2023

    @Rhianna2023

    Ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern How r u now since it’s been a while since u posted this video? Do you see a Psychologist?

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@Rhianna2023 I'm doing well. I went to therapy for a few years. And I did a lot of CBT work at home with books. But I learned that anxiety won't really go away. It's part of me but I can live with that 😊

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@Rhianna2023 you will get through this. Your body can work in both directions. It can make you feel sick but it can also heal you from this. I know, the doc can tell you all of fine but after a few days you get those what if feelings again and you question everything they said. Trusting in your body that it is healthy and you just got anxiety Is a massive step towards getting better

  • @nmash6835
    @nmash68354 ай бұрын

    Hi how can I contact you?

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    4 ай бұрын

    Via Instagram @woifi_film or my website. 😊

  • @Shambuls
    @Shambuls2 ай бұрын

    Jesus!

  • @Shambuls

    @Shambuls

    2 ай бұрын

    No, Jesus is the answer.

  • @saadsohail2906
    @saadsohail2906Ай бұрын

    I m in the loop stuck

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. Already tried therapy, CBT or something else?

  • @saadsohail2906

    @saadsohail2906

    Ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Yes ,have tried CBT but i am getting symptoms every other day and my test are coming negative,dont know what to do ,surfed google alot and getting more anxiety cause many saying it is the symptom of the health issue which you are scared of

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Ай бұрын

    @@saadsohail2906 yeah, try to really stay away from Google. Also if you got tested and your doctor tells you, you are fine, keep telling yourself exactly that. It is just anxiety and it can't hurt you. I can recommend the books by Joshua Fletcher. He provides great insights into anxiety, how it works in your body and tips in how to manage it.

  • @saadsohail2906

    @saadsohail2906

    Ай бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Yes please do recommend

  • @chickadee317
    @chickadee317 Жыл бұрын

    Hang in there man. You know stress and anxiety eat up magnesium, magnesium glycinate is good for anxiety full stop. Something to think about.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the tipp 😊 i very much appreciate that

  • @theamalgamatedtheory

    @theamalgamatedtheory

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello there friend i am currently taking magnesium but looking at bottle says magnesium oxide do you think its a big difference? Im having a lot of trouble relaxing at night and insomnia dealing with an issue. Best wishes.

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theamalgamatedtheory I think either is fine. CBD oil is also something to look into for insomnia.

  • @theamalgamatedtheory

    @theamalgamatedtheory

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern thanks for the info another problem i have is isolation and your video and reply made me feel a little less so. _😌

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theamalgamatedtheory it always helps me tremendously to talk to people in similar positions. There also great groups on Facebook and reddit about health anxiety. Always helps to just share how you feel.

  • @jasonb7870
    @jasonb7870 Жыл бұрын

    I be thinking everyday lm going to die cause doctors missing something light chest tightness fast heart beats they done ekgs blood work stress test just to say lm ok but it's hard to trust doctors

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally get where you are coming from. It's a vicious cycle of what ifs, running to the doctor on repeat. Try to slowly step outside of your comfort zone. If you get the urge to see the doc again, try to withstand it. Maybe do something, that you stopped doing because of anxiety. Go for a walk, maybe try yoga or meditation. And keep telling yourself, it's just anxiety. And anxiety can't hurt you. You'll be fine. I promise.

  • @jasonb7870

    @jasonb7870

    Жыл бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern l went over 8 times to doctor they tired of seeing me at this point 😂 l try to keep positive but it is hard

  • @huniverso
    @huniverso23 күн бұрын

    this is worse when you actually have a illness or not ? lol It hard to tell , what is reality ? Are my thoughts real at all ?

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    23 күн бұрын

    I don't know what's worse. Yeah, the thoughts are scary and they become reality. That's the part where it can ruin your life or make it very miserable

  • @shelleymends2751
    @shelleymends2751 Жыл бұрын

    Get on medication we dont have to suffer🥰its so draining and consumes us x

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    Жыл бұрын

    I have been but I felt numb and not myself. But I totally agree, medication should always be an option 😊

  • @lilianblack3953
    @lilianblack39532 жыл бұрын

    p͎r͎o͎m͎o͎s͎m͎

  • @billy7657
    @billy765728 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this video. Your story is very similar to mine. And the fact that your t-shirt says Billy really hit home since that’s my name… it’s like this video was made for me

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    28 күн бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. One of my favorite shirts 😊 I hope you know that you are strong. You can and will master this. Be open about it. Talk about it. Reach out if you need to talk. And also, thanks for watching this video. It means a lot 🙏

  • @billy7657

    @billy7657

    28 күн бұрын

    @@WolfgangKern Thanks for the reply so soon! I have engaged in CBT but I didn't find that extremely helpful, but it was nice to be able to try it anyway. I tend not to be as worried as I used to be, but just yesterday I had a bad anxiety attack which caused me to come across your video. It just goes to show how health anxiety can come and go so randomly. By the way, your youtube channel is so underrated, I've subscribed on all my accounts!

  • @WolfgangKern

    @WolfgangKern

    28 күн бұрын

    @@billy7657 Joshua Fletcher has some great books on anxiety. Helped me to understand it more and learn what it does in your body. Anxiety comes in waves. But if you got good days and then a bad one again, it's a sign of progress. You are doing something right. Thank you so much 🙏😊