Husband Cheats, Leaves Me When I'm Mourning My Parents' Death, Now Wants to Get Back Together...
Husband Cheats, Leaves Me When I'm Mourning My Parents' Death, Now Wants to Get Back Together After Finding Out I'm Inheriting $7 Million.
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SHE wasn’t able to give HIM a child? are they forgetting that he’s also got fertility issues?
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
He didn't mention that part
@Zeromegas
4 ай бұрын
The Inlaws want to shift the blame to OP. Is a shame to the parents that their son is infertile.
@roselockheart4346
4 ай бұрын
0:28….12:28
@morganablackwater2017
4 ай бұрын
Women been blamed for men fertility issues since ages... So dunno what you suprise about
@morganablackwater2017
4 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig selective hearing?
Jeff 's friends and family want in on that inheritance money
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
Given they will excuse cheating for money, I feel like there is a special term for them, like a combo of leech and 304
A wise man once said: „If he/she doesn’t love you at your worst, he does not deserve you at your best“ EDIT: To clarify: with this saying I meant that when OP was down at her worst, her husband left her and now wants to return when he hears about the 7 million inheritance.
@palamedes4740
4 ай бұрын
Obviously. So why are you so obtuse and using the most left field example?@@mr.halfright
@TripleBarbacoa
4 ай бұрын
It’s unfortunate so many people use this quote as an excuse for toxic behavior when that’s not the “worst” it’s referring to.
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
@@TripleBarbacoa true. One's worse is not something self-inflicted, but times like OP had, where life kicks you where it hurts and keeps kicking you.
@ahkosorsomesaykosby9999
4 ай бұрын
I think it's better said "if they don't have your back in tough times they don't deserve you when your doing well" but that isn't as catchy
@_juju_jojo_
4 ай бұрын
Dunno it the saying fits given the circumstances
this broke my heart for the op and made me angery as well what a gold digger he’s not entitled to op’s inheritance
@ElleD308
4 ай бұрын
Ommmgg.... OP is insufferable 🙄
@bakedandbeaded
Ай бұрын
@@ElleD308And rich! 😊
@bryn1063
Ай бұрын
@ElleD308 Ex husband you're not slick. You're still not getting the money. Give it up 🤭
Don't brag about money unless you're ready to deal with mooches. I get being petty but OP should have waited until AFTER the divorce at least..
@dragula131
4 ай бұрын
Inheritance like those usually are DQ'd from divorce proceedings. Especially since a lot of places you can apply for "at fault" divorces which is helpful for the wronged party
@thesheerwoodcrow5465
4 ай бұрын
Inherited stuff is usually off the table in divorce. Plus why should she be to blame for her husband being an unfaithful prick?
@lazallewillemse3617
4 ай бұрын
She should kept her mouth shut until after the divorce then she could have started bragging once she freed herself from him
@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona
4 ай бұрын
@@dragula131what's dq?
@dragula131
4 ай бұрын
@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona disqualified
The in-laws blamed the op only when their son was out there shooting blanks?! Wtf
It's always about the money.
@Darkspark06
4 ай бұрын
Honestly cheating is one issue Leaving in a stressful case is another Coming back for money is another 💀
@EmperorOHI
2 ай бұрын
@@Darkspark06yeah that guy is a menace…
"You wasn't able to give him a child, so that's why he cheated" That parents horrible just like there son
OPs boss is an angel that saw a wounded person and helped her
Op got their sh!t together like a stone cold boss.
Oh, I wish this woman to meet a wonderful man and have a child together, not just for her own happiness, but to also rub it in his ex's and his family's face.😂
The fact that he acted as a victim?? Just disgusting
I would sue him for emotional distress
Thankfully inherited assets are normally pretty well protected in divorces.
This is what cheating actually does to people like. Oh good amount of times People will say oh, you're gonna get better. You don't get above this well. Sometimes some people kill themselves after they find out their partner who they love left them because they couldn't give birth
@serpilkaddy1609
4 ай бұрын
I didn't understand a word of this.
@bakedandbeaded
Ай бұрын
@@serpilkaddy1609 Then go back to elementary school and relearn English.
@ImNotaRussianBot
Ай бұрын
@@serpilkaddy1609 Yeah, word soup.
The Gaslight family lol
@ImNotaRussianBot
Ай бұрын
Jeff Gaslight & Family.
Why would he ask about what theyre separating for divorce then afterwards ask about inheritance? how much are we getting? wtf that makes no sense
@AmethystEyes
Ай бұрын
Because he is the main character in his mind.
Did the ex husbands family not known or forgot he also had infertility problems? The audacity to say its ops fault she couldn't give him a child
The best revenge is living a good life. Glad you came through this and are happy now .
She didn't even tell us the results of the divorce!!
@LadyWolvie82
2 ай бұрын
I think a future update will have that for us to enjoy.
All that tragedy and then "life's good and i'm fine" just months later ???? 😂 The nile is a river in egypt
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
Or he was checked out of the relationship years before
@STAYATINYARMYSIN
4 ай бұрын
I don’t think she’s saying “life’s good and I’m fine” after the tragedy of her parents passing , I think that was in reference to her divorce and the “life’s good” is probably because she’s getting help and working through her grief/depression.
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
@@STAYATINYARMYSIN pretty sure EmilyHoot was talking about the ex-husband
Ops ex couldn’t even have kids of his own either!!!!! He cheated because he is a trash bag of a human being. He bragged about how his life was great. Knew how ops life was spiraling out of control. I bet if op died (thankfully she’s still with us) he wouldn’t have even cared. But by all means when she gets millions of dollars, now SHES the bad guy.
the AUDACITY of jeff and his family... sweet baby jesus
Op went through hell and back bro. I don’t think I could handle all of this at all
I swear if you let him-
OP’s parents had a true love story 💙 probably had ups and downs like everyone and still stuck by each other , literally the definition of “until the wheels fall off” Mom passed in her sleep on her way to her husband 😭. She was strong and a fighter she might have stumbled a bit after loosing her parents back to back but she didn’t give up and off herself. Poor girl was in a deep hole and clawed her way out of it by herself , I don’t how she was able to sit there and hear “how much are we going to inherit” cause I would have made a whole scene 💀 might even spend the night in jail because that shii would have sent me over the edge. And I’d DEFINITELY throw some hands with his mom and friends for shifting the blame as if he wasn’t out there not able to have kids his damn self.
I would have pretended I had lost all the money, even if he still stayed I wouldn’t let him in
No one deserves the way that man treated her. Good for her for realizing her worth as a person and leaving. 🙂 I hope she finds someone better who treats her like the queen that she truly is!
im on Op's side of course, but she seems a lil slow.
@bryn1063
Ай бұрын
That's not slow. That's grief. She's not only grieving her relationship but her two parents. One after the other. People do crazy things when they're grieving. Doesn't make her slow. It makes her a person. Besides she wised up immediately after hearing him.
@youreright9178
Ай бұрын
@@bryn1063 when i said slow, im talking about the part where she was suprised & hurt to find out she'd been fired. (even tho she didnt talk to her work boss & was simply not taking calls) aside from that part, yes she was grieving and could barely keep herself alive. she did well.
@bryn1063
Ай бұрын
@@youreright9178 I feel like that's also still grief. She basically shut down.
@youreright9178
Ай бұрын
@@bryn1063 yes i guess so. it was indeed a very emotional response.
I was just fed up with op , the crying for days , the wallowing in misery, and when her loser husband called she ran to him like a puppy wagging his tail. I wanted her to stand up straighten her backbone .She finally snapped out of it thankfully, ask all his greedy relatives where was he when you needed support when both your parents died ,never mind the infidelity. He didn’t even have the decency to go to your parent funeral to pay his respects,but he wants their money.
The audacity of the damn in laws!
Boo hoo how sad he stressed about not getting money what a gold digger disgusting man he was bragging about having fun now he upset and sad that things were not going well for him poor thing
The fact she had to add the word 'legally' says alot about people, doesn't it? 😅😅😜😥😢
Just one sentence to wrap it up? 'went to court, getting a divorce, seeya folks.' Thats it?
me: We?! Who's we?! You got a turd in your pocket?
Have a prenup for next marriage
In her shoes I would've said okay I'll give you a share and sent him $2.75.
@AmethystEyes
Ай бұрын
Why that amount?
@danielgoodrich264
Ай бұрын
@@AmethystEyes just pulling numbers out my ass
Bro someone tell me why I started tearing up hearing this 😭😭
Supported her? HE not only was also infertile but the didn't support her, cheated, didn't ask how she was, left, didn't give condolences. Nothing. The ex and his parents are trash
The op is hard her husband cheated her dad died and mom in the same week thats horrifying to suffer or think abt i feel bad for her
12:39 I beg your fattest pardon? Her ex husband SUPPORTED WHO‽ bc it wasn’t OP
Dayum....one blow after another.
Should not have said anything about the money since technically op and the pos are still married. Anything gained during the marriage can be split.
This is so sad man😢😞
His lost
say ok we can get back together if you sigh this stating that you will have no access to my inheritance and if you touch any of that money you will pay back double
I hate the term extra marital affair. Its like it implies that theres an ok number of affairs and this one just happened to be “”extra””. No,.. none are allowed, its just,.. affair.
If I was op I wouldve rubbed it in the ex face and if the in-laws and the exs friends called me to cry over the phone I would've rubbed it in their face as well or just laughed right on the phone then hung up .. Update : yes op sue everyone.. Jeff/ jeffs friends family everyone.... Update 2 : his change of heart is " I want 4 of the 7 million just cause".. If im op I would lie and just say I sold the inheritance to the homeless to get him to sign the divorce papers..
these story's are all the same
@GeezSus
4 ай бұрын
*stories
@woofwuf
4 ай бұрын
@@GeezSusum actually 🤓🤓
@GeezSus
4 ай бұрын
@@woofwuf *😎
Haw haw live your best life with out your worst there!
its about the money i feel so sorry for her 😢
id tell him i was taking him back, go to a fancy restaurant to celebrate, run up a MASSIVE bill in the thousands and tell him its ok because you're rich now, then sneak out and go ghost lol
I hope you enjoy the best time of your life and every day get on your knees and thank God that he cheated on you so you can see his true colors, enjoy every second of it and the right person will come to you at the right time he’s going to love you for you not for what you have and can provide
So firstly op is an idiot. I get she's going through hell, but the idea of constantly making excuses and waiting for the human pile of trash to come back is ridiculous. But happy when she said all the lonely stuff she knew he had no claim at least. Step parents are idiots. Fun fact, their son couldn't give her a kid either. The issue was both of them. Also if you support your partner, then the bare minimum is not cheating on them...
@LODintheshadows
Ай бұрын
Also, bragging about it was the right move to a degree. Now you have to brag about it to the friends and family. Go vacation in top tier hawaii resort, take ton of pics on the beach with the resort in background or ocean in front. Whenever they say something, just send them one of those pics. Live your best life knowing they don't have it
You could have at least kept your job of you let them know
what’s the story when the husband leaving his wife and kids but came back because if he didn’t get back with her ,he was going to loose his Inheritance. It’s similar to this
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
What?
@ThatguyKC206
4 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig my bad. I don't know how I messed that up .but this channel had a story like this one.the husband left but came back for Inherits. I was asking where I can find it.
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
@@ThatguyKC206 ah OK. Yeah, there are a few of those. I think the one you are referring to is a middle-aged man who left his wife and 3 kids to shack up with a gambler, let her blow his half of the 401k, and tried crawling back after his dad died because there was a stipulation in the will where he could only Inherit the beachside cabin if he returned to his wife and co-signed the transfer papers.
@ThatguyKC206
4 ай бұрын
@@Maninawig that’s the one .didn’t know about the gambler? But I forgot a lot about the story.
@Maninawig
4 ай бұрын
@@ThatguyKC206 going back to his family, he complained how he was miserable because she turned out to have a gambling addiction and already spent his 401k. Truth or not, it was his excuse to stroke his ex-wife's ego
No he a fool
The definition of ain’t sh*t
He's and family are just looking for the $$$$
how naive
Inheritance isn’t part of marriage assets right?
@AmethystEyes
Ай бұрын
In her state she said it wasn’t
If this is real, OP is way too emotional. The hell you mean by you are ready to start anew with a cheating husband ? Get yourself a hell of a therapist and get some self respect back baby
The boss ❤❤
Probably fake, but still entertaining
Hell naw
I found the OP annoying in the first half ngl. Mopping over a cheating husband so much she almost misses the news about her father's passing if it wasn't for her stubborn cousin confronting her. And just going apparently 4 months so depressed that she neglected everything. Like, if she was poor, she wouldn't've been able to just skip work for that whole time. And then thinking about getting back together with her cheating husband just because he called. Like, if he hadn't fucked it up he could've easily slide back to the marriage and taken a helping of the $7M. Smh
This story sounds fake.
@totitelevisionshow
4 ай бұрын
okay.. cry abt it
@woofwuf
4 ай бұрын
Probably is, but being real doesn’t make them good. Being plausible and entertaining does.
@CandidKendi
4 ай бұрын
Lol I thought so too.
Cease and Desist
Hell of a job OP lost that didn't fire her for like a month or more of no call no show. She just ghosted them and may have still been getting a paycheck since there's no mention of bills being unpaid or struggling to scrape together money for groceries.
@STAYATINYARMYSIN
4 ай бұрын
Were you even listening? Her job pays well , while her and her ex were trying for a baby she was saving money she had enough money to get by and her job had been fired her and only after she reached out for references and explaining what she went through did she get a second chance.
For me listening to this its just fucking insane how mentally weak people are these days. Husband leaves and you so fucked up you cant fucking take a call from your employer for days. Just crying and watching TV like life just stopped, he said he fucked someone and your first words are please dont leave. Even after months, "even after months i was not ready to leave this marriage". Depression problems are 1 thing (i know have it too), but i really think people who cant help themselves and cant be alone are on next level of misery, fucking themselves over being with insanely shitty partners just not be alone is another level of misery.
this is obviously fake but still it’s entertaining
@wooshydog
2 ай бұрын
What makes it obvious??
@jgbs8710
2 ай бұрын
@@wooshydog the way the story is narrated and also just the content: it’s waaaay too melodramatic (cheating husband, both parents dying over the span of three days, the overemphasizing of how important the whole “my boss’s son is an advocate for mental health” - it’s like a bad soap opera, and it’s written with too much detail where it isn’t needed; world building, if you will)
@wooshydog
2 ай бұрын
@@jgbs8710 ohh ok, I'd like to believe that their is some real stories but this one, yeahhhhhh
I’m 13 turned 13 September 20 only a few months ago and a few weeks before Christmas this year aka a few months ago my mom died I have a brother and my dad woke us up at 12 am at night and said he took her to the hospital but she didn’t pull through I am at one of my most prestigious middle schools in my area so I had no time to mourn really I did go back to school immediately but everywhere I went there was reminders it felt like people said mom more than ever and I had a mental breakdown in the bathroom that’s when my friend Aj. Who had been consoling me throughout the weekend because it happened Friday finally told everyone and my life has spiraled out of control since then depression I would miss school work simply breakdown crying stay in my room throughout the entirety of the weekend I know how you felt I buried so many family members in such short notice it felt like I buried myself as well the old me the one who would smile joke laugh that me is gone I rarely smile I only do it around my 2 year old baby cousin I had to reconnect with my mothers parents well her mother and stepfather who are terrible people but I survived I still text her but honestly this is to vent but I honestly don’t think I will ever go back to the person I was people said they were scared because I hadn’t smiled at school since December and I rarely have at all even outside of school.
Yeah, it your fault he cheated because you where infertile (something you can’t control, not to mention he had fertility issues 🙄) and deserves some money for supporting you during those painful months after your parents died in which he was “soul searching”. Absolute bullshit.
Yes she is the jerk why did you in the video without telling us the rest of the story we need details I’m for the store right now she is she didn’t do anything wrong but why did you leave us on a cliffhanger you. Menace to society
I feel the need to comment this but at 3:23 I farted so loudly that I started laughing not at the situation they is in but because I farted so loudly
Another fake a ss story XD get lost
The disgusting part is he's acting like a cheating woman...
@cocothedino_2901
4 ай бұрын
cheaters of any gender usually act like this, all their justification comes from a similar place of apathy and self centeredness
@jamarr27
4 ай бұрын
@@cocothedino_2901 agreed.
@insertfunnyname9763
4 ай бұрын
@@jamarr27 Then why did you say cheating woman 💀 The dude is just acting like a cheater because he is one
@curator9024
4 ай бұрын
@@jamarr27fckn sexist
poor jeff
Op is a doormat. This man cheated on you n you wanted him back? Smh why would want a man back to knowingly cheated on you.
These videos give me a headache.