She should tell her that if she has such a strong personal belief in women submitting to their husbands, then she should submit to her husband when he's telling her to quit her shit. Hypocrite much?

@WeavileLady

3 ай бұрын

Rules for thee but not for me~

@giuliagabriela9729

3 ай бұрын

At the end of the day, it's about control. It's always about control

@smokinggnu6584

3 ай бұрын

With the controlling and dominating type of person this MIL is, hypocricy is just another way to demonstrate their domination. 'Do as i SAY, not as i DO!"

@LappelduVide013

3 ай бұрын

@smokinggnu6584 You're probably right. That's pretty common for these types of people.

@lolmfs

3 ай бұрын

Fr😂

Finally!!! A couple and a family in law on the same page against a crazy MIL!! Love this, rooting for them all ❤

@f687sNFM

3 ай бұрын

Crazy and racist

@darkhorse7142

2 ай бұрын

It's such a rare thing. It needs to become a movie.

Love how she wants a traditional arrangement right up until they ask her to pay for the wedding, then suddenly a dual-income household is dandy

@BaeBunni

2 ай бұрын

Yea these people are always the same big talk till they gotta take out their billfold. "I want you t have a traditional wife and suddenly triple your income to match what you both make together right now."

@canineatnight6026

2 ай бұрын

Reality can be the biggest server or irony

I hate this. I'm a homemaker at the moment and it's because my husband and I decided it was best since we only have one car, and my husband wants to provide for me. I hate women like this who put down women for working, because that's the beauty of being a woman in the 21st century. You have the right to chose to work or to not.

@rebeccaernette1749

2 ай бұрын

@xZampx I know and it's terrible. I support both sides. I'm so happy for you! I hope you have your dream of being a mother soon! ❤️

@ItsKadelyn

2 ай бұрын

whats SAHM?​@@zamp_gaming

@janerecluse4344

2 ай бұрын

Right? I hate that, "feminists will hate me, but I want to be a stay-at-home-mom!" crap. I am one of the biggest feminists you'll ever meet, and what I hate is women being considered lesser, and pushed around. If you want to stay home and raise a passel of babies, I love that for you! Babies are great, some of my best friends used to be babies! That's important work you're doing, there.

@janerecluse4344

2 ай бұрын

​@@ItsKadelynStay At Home Mom

@rebeccaernette1749

2 ай бұрын

@janerecluse4344 I just women would stand up for each other no matter what they chose to do with their lives. Just like when men decide to be stay at home dads. I love when I hear someone is a stay at home dad, and the mom works. That's wonderful, and I hope they are living their best life. I want everyone to be able to chose what to do with their individual life without being put down for it. Sorry for the rant I just always get people who don't understand what I'm saying in responding to my comments on things

wth would mother in law insist on being in the delivery room?? it's not a spectators sport. and she was already there twice when she had her own kids.

@AVDB95

3 ай бұрын

Especially since it was an emercency delivery. Did she want the doctors to wait for her to arrive and endanger the live off the mother and the child.

@Conorstallionownsxhixstate

3 ай бұрын

She's a perv..

@LaughThruLife

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. My MIL did the same & had 5 of her own kids. She could be there for her 3 daughters birthing if they wanted her there. She was not allowed in mine, just my mom & husband. It's gd this couple (& SIL) cut MIL off. She would be controlling over their children, compare their parenting just like the pregnancies, and overall overbearing.

@Conorstallionownsxhixstate

3 ай бұрын

She's a pervert..

@piratekit3941

3 ай бұрын

I tried to rush to the hospital to be there for my sister during her emergency C-section, and I got there right when it was done when my sister was at her most panicked since the baby was whisked off to the NICU. THAT is the kind of situation you want someone there for, not for natural births with no issues. Giving comfort when things look grim is pretty critical. I know my mom was angry she wasn't there for my sister's second birth... that also happened during covid. My own mom is the monster-in-law. Honestly, Covid did my sis a favor keeping her away.

Do you know how HARD it would be to become a marine biologist??! The amount of dedication and hard work- anyone else would be proud to have a scientist in the family!! My god, what an awful woman, what CENTURY is she from??!

@ThatCzechMapper

2 ай бұрын

6th century BC

@Moravian_Mf

Ай бұрын

​@@ThatCzechMappermore like 29th century BC 😒

@stxrriiixoxo_

Ай бұрын

19th century or 14th century

@froggy8714

Ай бұрын

The wrong one

@Sheryl4

25 күн бұрын

This comment is perfect with your profile picture haha

3:06. The husband should have said, "Well, since your beliefs about men and women are from the economically stable 1950's, then women should be seen, not heard. I won't tolerate ANOTHER word from you."

FIL needs to divorce MIL.

@cooldude7285

3 ай бұрын

no you have gone too far with that

@raphaeld4313

3 ай бұрын

Gotta respect the man's patience that he hasn't proceeded yet

@thunderpants3500

3 ай бұрын

@@cooldude7285 but the woman's mind is gone...

@VenusVee__

3 ай бұрын

@@cooldude7285 She is clearly a narcissist or has some sort of similar mental problem

@yamairad1

3 ай бұрын

​@cooldude7285 He could easily lose his family by being with that woman. Not to mention she is, literally, crazy now he is going to feel her wrath. Divorce is a likely ending for them.

8:43 "Control your women" well FIL cant control her either. MIL is no good women either (by her own standards)

I'm just over here pleased as punch about two cousins just a few months apart in age. Those two are going to be besties for life.

@aspenture1087

3 ай бұрын

and thankfully their parents aren't toxic so hopefully they stay together and hopefully the MIL doesn't end up interfering. My Mum is a lot like this MIL and me and my cousin that were born a few months apart practically never talk and don't really have a relationship :(

@Jel-Low

2 ай бұрын

Me and my cousin are 15 days apart lol

@theo6840

2 ай бұрын

10 days difference for me and my cousin (though it was supposed to be even closer), but we barely know each other at all. Haven't seen her since I was a kid and only were around each other maybe a half dozen times

@drummerrck

2 ай бұрын

My son and nephew are like 9 months apart and they are adorable when they play together.

is it not exhausting to be this entitled and angry all the time? people like this mil should look for other hobbies than being a bitter, angry person 24/7

@alyzu4755

3 ай бұрын

THIS!!!!⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

@lorendaemon7945

2 ай бұрын

My ex-still-friend's father is like this and everything she ever tells me about him is just the most exhausting nonsense I've ever heard. Like, dude, your child can order tacos on the same night you decided you wanted to cook stew without asking anyone what they wanted for dinner without them hating you and thinking you're a bad cook and not respecting the family.

Interesting how MIL wanted her sons to "control" their wife's yet her husband couldn't/didn't control her🙄 MIL is too over the top, demanding & definitely needed to be cut off.

Should have told her "I wish dad controlled his wife better".

This woman had countless chances to watch her freaking attitude. In the end, it cost her a relationship with her children and grandchildren

@jessieridgeway8334

2 күн бұрын

And almost her marriage

Just want to say props to OP and SIL for not competing for attention while pregnant and instead going through the journey together and getting closer. They seem like nice people

I love that the whole family flipped on her even her own husband and she still thinks she is in the right. 😂

It's so nice finally hearing about in-laws (excluding the mother of course) that are actually kind people.

If this was my MIL I would laugh at her about how outdated her views were

@DougieG7130

3 ай бұрын

This MIL may be a bad person but these views are the future because they are rooted in biological reality. When our society collapses (which by all measurements we will) this will become the new norm again.

@f687sNFM

3 ай бұрын

And how racist she is

I'm impressed hiw good the son/OPs husband turned out when he has a mother like that

I’m glad that the father and law and sister in law aren’t toxic like the mother in law

that 'make me the god mom!' thing had me thinking mil would try to unalive op. wouldnt put it past her

I refuse to believe this person exists while everyone around her recognises time after time that she's insane. Who would stick by her after all these meltdowns?

@izzywolflover

3 ай бұрын

You’d be surprised. I knew a woman like this and everyone just acted like it was normal

@EternalLight111

3 ай бұрын

You must be speaking of my own mother. I don't talk to her anymore.

@runningfromabear8354

3 ай бұрын

This was just like the mother of a friend of mine from high school. She's lost contact with her kids and posts a lot of shit on fb about her "awful" daughter. 😅

@vegaskullkid4503

3 ай бұрын

Sadly, there are in fact people like this. I’ve had the displeasure of meeting some in my life and from what I could tell, they’re very lonely yet don’t see how it’s their own fault that things in their life transpired the way they did

@lildozen42069

3 ай бұрын

She’s a conservative small town Christian. There’s millions of these people like her unfortunately.

Find it funny that I’m studying to be a marine biologist.

@Thedarkeststar03

3 ай бұрын

Not related to the story but i just wanted to say that you are so lucky! I think marine biology is so cool and i hope it works out for you!

@woodside4life

3 ай бұрын

Tsk tsk… 😂

OH MY GOD, a Karen as a MIL is such a nightmare

I have this personal thing where I say "if you respect my beliefs, I'll respect yours. If you try to push your beliefs onto me, we're gonna have a problem." This MIL is one i would stay away from.

@JessicaRussianSifontes

Ай бұрын

Oh, this MIL would be close to my special apple and cherry seeds tea

Correct choice from both these too and SIL they seem like good people.

I could never understand how some people think that trying to control other people's lives is okay.

MIL, do you ever set foot outside to see how the world is? Do you think it’s funny to see how many more dads can no longer sustain a family and a house alone with a common job? Hell not even a well-accommodated couple can without getting into years or even a decade of debt and feeling uneasy in the meanwhile, and you think you can insist on inserting tv values from the 1950’s??

Every pregnancy is different! The mother-in-law failed to respect that!

SIL's baby went from girl to boy. Lol!

MIL sounds like those type of people that are so miserable in their lives, that to them the only smidge of happiness they can feel is by trying to put others down.

Its actually so cute how op and sil did the pregnancy stuff together, like that is so adorable

I am stuck when she said went into labour at 33 but gave birth at 34 after trying everything else, here in India doctors won't even wait a day before going for c section. That's such a horrible money grabbing technique which is harming so many women.

@JessicaRussianSifontes

Ай бұрын

Waiting for so long can put the baby in distress so a lot of obgyns around the world prefer to go for an emergency C-section

My mother considered someone who was opening my eyes to my mothers toxic behaviour said that she was destroying our relationship... yeah, the relationship between my mother and myself was her abusive narcissism where both my brother and myself were suicidal...

So MIL hates op for not being “traditional enough” but doesn’t want her to breastfeed???

So The mil complained about the old days value yet she keept yapping at her husband instead of being " the proper quiet wife" Hippocracy at it's finest

MIL is a hypocrite by her own definition

If I ever met someone like that, I'd just ask them if they really thought so little of their child that they thought they were incapable of taking care of themselves. Watch them fumble.

I'm happy you have your sister in law to comfort you.

The mil and fil are because the fil is weak willed and lets his wife get away with acting like a brat... if she truly was into tradtional roles, maybe she should be quiet and speak when spoken to as a woman to the men of the household, as the son would be of higher status than her...

The woman was looking for anything to be mad about for no good reason.

How in the world did someone as sweet as FIL end up with someone like MIL…

@Sac-chan

2 ай бұрын

boy you'd be surprised, i have an aunt that got pregnant when she was like 16-17, so her bf would always be with her, she did everything in order to end up with him and succeeded, my uncle is a very good man, but a very passive one too, he's cheerful and a happy guy most of the time, but the c*nt of a wife my aunt is on the other hand....they're already 55+ and she's still the jealous type, everything has to be in control of her bc if not, she has a meltdown. I don't stand her and idc about politeness either, whenever she tries to control anything i just insult her and curse at her, what is she gonna do anyways? I'm the type of person who's very calm and polite to everyone except to people i dislike, and it just so happens that she's the only one i dislike. My uncle doesn't really mind when i tell her to gtfo, he doesn't love her anymore but he won't leave her either, idk why, but at least he doesn't mind me fighting her

@joellalutu5970

Ай бұрын

I think how society is now she can take like EVERYTHING from him

I would propbably have said to that MIL "Ridicula" and never talk to her again even in her company

Off comment... real or fake. Op has earned my favor for the marine biology comment

Glad FIL wised up and stopped acting like a flying monkey for MIL. And I bet she IS genuinely sorry. Sorry she can't act however she likes and still have people in her corner.

Very sweet that the sisters in law had their babies together ❤️

I feel bad for the FIL, his wife is an overbearing control freak. Glad he's so chill but at point will she take up her frustration out on him now that both her son and her daughter cut her off entirely.

9:59 the reason why moms breastfeed their child is because it has nutrients to help boost the immune system for the baby smh

@rasellewolf

2 ай бұрын

I'd bet that if OP didn't breastfeed and instead used formula, the MIL would take issue with that too and say she's a bad mother for depriving the baby 🙄

I don't know why, but MIL is giving me toxic Molly Weasley vibes. Good on the husband for going no contact.

If she wanted to be a 1920 female then she should have no problem doing exactly what her husband says no questions asked (explain that to me huh) also there is a significant difference between a name and a nickname NTA

W husband, W SIL. That Monster-in-Law is insane.

Poor FIL sounds like a decent guy that got stuck with a Karen. I hope for the best for OP, her hubby and SIL

The MIL’s behavior is definitely not because of the religious thing. Like why would she not want OP to breastfeed? She seems to view her kids as dolls that the can control every aspect of and that’s where her problem lies.

@lastphantom4243

2 ай бұрын

I agree, she seemed to use ‘religion’ when it fit her narrative. But conveniently forgot that Jesus died for all because of how much He loves all humans. Also, breastfeeding has been shown to be very healthy for mom and baby. (Unless there’s some type of health concern)

@janerecluse4344

2 ай бұрын

I think MIL wanted to be something besides a wife and mother, and seeing her son in an egalitarian marriage with a fulfilled career scientist had her #TRIGGERED on top of racism and internalized misogyny. Restricted to reproductive, family, and "feminine" life, she has become hypercontrolling of these areas.

"Who's gonna take care of my son?" Girl, your son is 4 years old? I'm sure ge can take care of himself and he don't need another "mom". Poor FIL, he must deal with such a toxic woman😢 Also, I love hiw warm and trustworthy relationship between OP and SIL, it's so nice that there's children will grow up in such healthy atmosphere❤

The dad getting sick of her too made me cackle

"Emergency C-section" I absolutely hate that I know where that is going

If the husband had a brother with the sister, I wouldn’t entertain our mother

We've cut my MIL off for periods of time for way less than this. The only thing that truly surprises me is that it took them so LONG to do it. Years upon years of abuse? No thanks!

Im just surprised that despite the awful mother, both son and daughter seem to have turned out well adjusted persons. ..

That mil should have been told to stop acting like a petulant child.

The amount of people that believe this is real is hilarious.

@savestate6360

3 ай бұрын

The only way this could be more fake is if the story went, "MIL had a business, and it didn't do well after MIL's breakdown with the baby. She had to close up shop 1 week later. UPDATE. MIL has been arrested for trying to kill me and my husband because she said I was mean and was crying all the way to the police station. Karma has got her in the end, and baby and husband are fine."

I always do feel bad in these situations that it always comes to having to cut someone off. Yes, they bring it on themselves, but I pity people like the MIL, that she was so mean and cold and she'll likely confide in her "friends" that she's the victim. Makes it even more pitiful.

"You should quit your job," versus "But you earn enough money to feed my friends!" MIL sucks.

This sounds exactly like my MIL and my every single person on my husbands side except his sister

This MIL is all about how her daughter in law is not equipped to be a good wife or mom, yet when she breastfeeds her son, which you would think she would be on board with that but has a stronger urge to complain about her daughter in law. How much do you want to bet if she did formula the MIL would complain about her not breastfeeding.

NTA, not too cruel. She was cruel toward you, now you get to return the favor. I'm so happy that you guys cut her off. She was an entitled jerk who blames everyone one else (and sounds like a racist without saying anything outright).

I would barely want my man in the room. I dont even want a doctor there to see a baby fall out of me. 😂

I honestly feel bad for the MIL. Before anyone attacks me, I know and believe that she is completely in the wrong and that OP's actions and SIL's actions were the right way to go for themselves and their babies. I feel bad for the MIL because she is just so delusional that she can't see the fault in her our actions and that she's the problem. I hope I never become that person, because those are the people I pity the most.

I like the guitar in the background.

I would hate to be a housewife/homemaker. It sounds so boring

Her behavior scared her own daughter because it's so blatantly displayed 💀

if she's not already that way.. id look into dementia and Fox News. Something is so loudly off here.

The MIL demanding to be the babies godparent and trying to get him on formula immediately stinks to high heaven. It sounds like she is hoping something will happen to OP and husband / she is planning on doing something to them so she can get her hands on the baby and raise him as her own 'do - over' baby. NC is definitely the right move. MIL is creepy as all get out and i would be on high alert for the rest of my days if i was OP. I wouldn't put it past her to try and kidnap the baby

My family doesn't usually restrict who can marry who, but when they do, you'd better listen. My aunt learnt this the hard way, actually I'm not even sure she learnt it. She married twice, both disapproved by family, the 1st one was physically abusive the other was a fraud who stole from her. Both times the family had to come together to rescue her and the kids. Before we were married, I also brought my husband to meet my family. I was so much in love but didn't want to be fooled with rose colored lenses. The only thing they complained about was that he was too tanned. Happily married now and great relationship with in-laws

As a snake owner if your snake doesn't shed easily you are at fault because you keeping the poor thing wrong and no go check the humidity, look up the humidity your scaly friend needs and change it accordingly!

Nta, the family is trying to force a relationship between the sisters even after what happened!? Thats crazy, and to add to it they went on a beach trip with the sister after everything went down and Op was still in the hospital, the family really raised a monster and are standing up for it instead of punishment and helping Op. Good on the bro for helping out Op after the family ditched her.

Why do you need to be a child's godmother when you're already their grandmother? That makes no sense.

Mil :I miss the time when women stayed home taking care of children when the husband worked 1800s-early 1900s fathers: so ya missed us smacking ya around? (Sorry if it sounds rude )

@rachaeladams61

12 күн бұрын

Good Lord, I bet she does 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hmm but mil can’t control herself wow funny how she’s mad about the daughter in law but can’t do the same for herself

Gotta love the crazy hypocrisy she has. Especially when it came to breast feed. Like literally the most motherly and feminine thing she should be doing "No stop that just feed him formula" Like really? One of the things she should be approving of she doesn't because she loses precious minutes away from a baby..

This woman has a problem with everything wtf

"I told them I was a marine biologist" stop right there. 10/10 story, do not care if its fake (I'm being playful, I just really like marine biology)

So MIL is a Karen 😒 God bless you ...sorry you have to deal with this.

13:49 when you get an ad at this timestamp 😭💀

OMG the Op's Husband and the SIL Are nice and good and so supportive ❤❤❤😊

1:27 FIL's action is suspicious, like why will you call him if you have no problem with Op.There is no need to speak on behalf of his wife. Is he held under gunpoint or what?

So how far back in time does she wanna go? Does she still wanna be able to vote?

I will never understand what is so exciting about being first/early. Also, what is wrong with the mother in law? Edit: fixed a spelling mistake (I putted ao instead of so)

No hate is greater than Christian love

4:02 Had to actually pause the video 4 minutes in because the mil is driving me up the wall 😂 I mean come on, it's the 21st century, adults are allowed to make their own decisions! If one wants to be a housespouse let them, if they both want to work, let them do that too!

I wanna know where they keep the time travel machine because clearly this woman is from the 1950s

We need an update for the SIL wedding and rude MIL!!!!

I don't get it. If she is really that traditional, why would ahe not shut up when her husband tells he so?

Still feels illegal

@PMMcIntyre

3 ай бұрын

How so?

She claims she's a conservative woman, yet she doesn't want to obey to her husband and didn't even think about organising and paying half of the wedding for 300+ guests as all traditional parents in law do.

Bro go rest

This is kinda how I feel with my MIL. My MIL has always loved babies, always tries to persuade me and my other SILs to have children, always saying that if we didn't want our babies that she would take them and always offers to babysit. However, she isn't mentally well, and has threatened her own physical harm whenever my SIL has put her foot down about how MIL act when she watched her kid. She has a nasty habit of drinking and taking medication while watching children, but then when the parents get understandable angry, MIL turns it around saying that she only does that when she was not allowed to watch the kids. It's made me nervous about having kids, like she would try to take them away or something. But I can't necessary go no-contact because my fiancé's family is Hispanic and are really big on family, regardless of how toxic some members can be.

Good lord the mother-in-law is actually insane

I wish things like ' no contact' also existed in our country

My aunt and cousins are Indonesian. Ive loved them all my life. It wasnt until recently i was told that my grabdmother and father had been exceptionally racist to my aunt and i started to notice how even though my cousins were more involved in my grandmother's life, she still soent more money and had better things to say anout my sister and I. I was so furious to find this out. My cousins had made peace with it but i couldnt help but feel furious on their behalf. If you have a family member that is racist or sexist, you cant let those people around your children. You cant allow them to hurt your child. Good on SIL and OP for cutting contact. That kind if trauma is not a teachable moment, its just unneccessary pain. If you think for a second that MIL wouldnt show blatant favoritism towards her white grandchildren then youre delusional.