"Self-sabotage is when we say we want something, then go about making sure it doesn't happen" - DeeDee

@Just_learning_some_stuff

2 жыл бұрын

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@predragmandusic

Жыл бұрын

💯 😅

@Asmi_jv

11 ай бұрын

So accurate

@RidhiAgarwal13

8 ай бұрын

so true. But why do we do we so?

@arronabs

7 ай бұрын

Who is deedee

1. reframe your state of mind 2. work on your self worth 3. find a strong support network 4. break down your goals and celebrate small victories 5. talk it out also, remember: you’re human, you’re going to make mistakes. that screw up feeling? that’s called youth, and youth is eternal so we’ll always have our downs, but you got this ❤️

@kcthefrogusedyt8319

2 жыл бұрын

thx :D

@quackkwak2008

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤️

@sambamnoham9946

2 жыл бұрын

I'm ready to celebrate my new environment

@Illette

2 жыл бұрын

*..that skrew up feeling, like you betrayed yourself... Embarrassed everyone.. including you *It fills you with confidence to do better.... But you did worse...

@jvolc

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”* Love from a small KZreadr💙

@conflictedtm

2 жыл бұрын

thanks man, i needed to hear this

@Criieam

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, this gave me a different perspective ❤️

@snehalsaju3085

2 жыл бұрын

Wow. That's a really good thought!

@CRAZY-M6641

2 жыл бұрын

Never thought of it that way.... Thanks 😊👍

@Rose-gy1cc

2 жыл бұрын

So true

Me: looks in mirror Also me: Finally a worthy opponent our battle shall be legendary

@wsg1330

2 жыл бұрын

if this doesn't get over 1000 likes i will cry

@aeaea4053

2 жыл бұрын

@@wsg1330 Just like Wilbur Oh btw same

@mrfluffybeehive

2 жыл бұрын

@@wsg1330 thanks but the most I’ve gotten recently is is 1.7k

@arthurdias6860

2 жыл бұрын

Me: OH? Are you approaching me? Instead of running away you are approaching me? Also me, approaching myself: I can't beat the shit out of you without getting closer. Also also me: HO Ho! Then come closer was you like! my sister: Mom! Dad! He is talking alone to his reflex again!

@MonsieurSwag

2 жыл бұрын

Haha this comment was funny thanks

Having the mindset of "Ah i don't deserve it" is the worst thing you can ever do to yourself.. Because in the end anything you achieve will be the result of unimaginable amounts of hard work and patience.. Your own hard work and your very own patience.. So stop having this mindset

@anepicperson920

2 жыл бұрын

But I didn’t do any hard work I’m also really impatient

@Dm3qXY

2 жыл бұрын

it's the worst thing you can ever do to yourself, and potentially to the one(s) around you.

@ju999X

2 жыл бұрын

But what if we really don’t deserve it Do i just have to lie to myself n say i deserve it ?

@Dm3qXY

2 жыл бұрын

@@ju999X look, you might even be a big ahole, and be right for stating it, maybe you'll fix that, maybe you don't, but in order to tackle it in the future you have to take care of your over all mental state, physical state and your environment; consider it part of an incremental problem isolation strategy. in order to fix X maybe it's ok to pretend Z is not happening. don't be your own prosecution if there's no defence counterpart to counter it. and if you're struggling for your health, that's a good excuse to be selfish / egotistical against ideologic concepts, like "guilt" and others. -- i gave this advice to my brother about a relationship he broke out of his own fault, but he had to move over it, that's why the "woke" movement is looked down upon for holding people accountable for far in the past sins they have moved away from already...

Self-sabotage often stems from self-hate , this is a problem nobody seems to mention . Many of us have turned our minds into dark and scary places so we seek peace outside but true peace comes from inside and momentary reliefs soon turn into destructive habits.

I have heard that self-sabotage is your body trying to protect you even if you aren’t in any danger. For example I am making a big move in the next month and I have gone through waves of my brain literally trying to convince me it’s a horrible idea and try to come up with excuses not to do it. The way I get through it is being aware that that is just my body wanting to stay in my comfort zone. As I’m experiencing this I don’t think it’s a self worth thing it’s a natural instinct from the body to try and protect you. I am not a scientist or anything but I’m in the middle of wanting to sabotage an awesome opportunity for myself and that is the only conclusion that makes any sense to me and what I’m feeling. I’m sure there are other reasons too but I think the main one is your body wanting to stay where it’s comfortable even if that comfort zone is terrible for you.

3 Quotes to Live By: 1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self." 2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending” 3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart." Love from a small channel💙

@imknownforstartingafire

2 жыл бұрын

I love this🥺 thank you

@saramariasdotter3681

2 жыл бұрын

3 golden advices. Thanks a lot Taabish Khan! ♥️♥️♥️

@warrenbradford2597

Жыл бұрын

Number 3 is new to me. Thank you

3:07 CAN WE PRETEND THAT AIRPLANES IN THE NIGHT SKY ARE LIKE SHOOTING STARS-

@stupidos2495

2 жыл бұрын

And I could wish right now wish right now wish right now

THANKYOU UNIVERSE for reminding me that I’m not useless and that blessings and celebrations will come when the time is right. In the meantime, I need to stop beating myself up and just let go of all of this pressure I’m putting on myself! 🙏🏽🌍✨☺️💖

@keiron.4612

2 жыл бұрын

Your never useless your amazing

@keiron.4612

2 жыл бұрын

Your channel s awesome I subscribed

@shirleyrougely427

2 жыл бұрын

Same, we need to cut ourselves some slack once in a while, cause none of us are perfect, and mistakes will be made no matter how hard we try to avoid them. We should remind ourselves that's just part of life.

@sabrinabutton3970

Жыл бұрын

Giving ourselves grace for our imperfect, mortal state and being willing to move forward the best we can is all we can do :). 💖

Wait I actually need this tyyy!! Such a lovely channel you have here ♥️

@DrJustininJapan

2 жыл бұрын

YES, I need this too!!

@quackkwak2008

2 жыл бұрын

IKR, i really needed this too! ive been procrastinating a lot lately and desperately wanted to get out of it. couldve not asked for a better time for this vid to be uploaded!

@pinkiepurplez

2 жыл бұрын

Wassup checkmark

@awee8942

2 жыл бұрын

Subscribe!

@awesomebloxyofficial

2 жыл бұрын

What does ty mean :////

Once I started a martial arts class I started to feel more calm.

@saigotheanimator1098

2 жыл бұрын

Same It makes you feel fearless as well

@prathameshponkshe4556

2 жыл бұрын

Try killing people really calms your nerves ✌️

@Sggggggggggg

2 жыл бұрын

@@prathameshponkshe4556 Hol up

@Sggggggggggg

2 жыл бұрын

@@prathameshponkshe4556 Wha-

@Sggggggggggg

2 жыл бұрын

@@prathameshponkshe4556 Wai-

Psy - How To Stop Sabotaging Yourself My Brain - Jokes on you, I'm into that sh*t

Definitely something I need to stop doing, but it's easier to blame myself for everything going wrong.

@mooncosmicpower2956

2 жыл бұрын

I used to self sabotage, but not anymore. I agree it’s definitely easier to take the blame for everything going wrong, but also everything right. That way no one can say you don’t hold yourself accountable for your actions even when something wasn’t your fault and you blamed someone else.

I'm currently sabotaging myself by not working on my studies and not showing up for class, they gonna kick me out if i don't but im too scared to show up. I just hate myself so goddamn much.

YES, I always give myself 3 months at least to adjust to living in a new place. I've learned that these times can be some of the funnest and freest in my life!! Instead of doing too much . . . I give myself time to adjust and get acclimated

I was literally thinking about how to stop sabotaging myself at the same moment I got the notification 😭❤️

I really needed to hear this today.

@moonbyul2180

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@valeriaparedes2497

2 жыл бұрын

same

@GreasySenpai

2 жыл бұрын

3 weeks ago? How tf...

@abidingline4

2 жыл бұрын

@@GreasySenpai ikr I thought the same thing

@bagelnocat

2 жыл бұрын

Yt starts to show bugs..lol

This video is literally me, I’m always off track of what's important and telling myself I have time for it later when I actually don't. I really wanna get good at art but I can’t if I keep stalling, Thank you Psych2Go for another wonderful video 😊!!!

@GiftyOke

2 жыл бұрын

Relatable 😔

@shirleyrougely427

2 жыл бұрын

My issue is that I'm too hard on myself when I get or do something wrong; recently, I've started trying to learn German so I can study abroad, and whenever I forget how to spell or pronounce something, I'll berate myself and say stuff like "I should have known that!" or "of course I got that wrong..." Thankfully I'm working on not being so harsh on myself, and instead will say something like "oh that's how you spelled it!" or " I'll remind myself to practice more on that pronunciation later." I guess just expect better of myself, but need to remember that learning anything let alone a new language is tough , and I won't be fluent overnight. "Rome wasn't built in a day" as the old saying goes.

@cracked-tygamesmitchell325

2 жыл бұрын

😔we are all the same here

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

You can do it! Don't give up!

* Be your own kind of beautiful. ... * Admire someone else's beauty without questioning your own.✨✨✨

@samuelhere41

2 жыл бұрын

Nah I'm good

@EduardoSalamanca1960

2 жыл бұрын

Nah I’m good

@keiron.4612

2 жыл бұрын

I never question my own I'm absolutely gorgeous 🤭

@thethree60five

2 жыл бұрын

Well said. Self acceptance is key.

I can only relate to this when relationships are concerned. Sometimes I'd meet someone truly amazing & when things get a little intimate, I'd start pushing them away by being unnecessarily mean and rude bcoz I believe they're wasting time with a nobody.

@No_Iceee

2 жыл бұрын

Now that's toxic af, it looks like you're only using them for shits and giggles.

@anepicperson920

2 жыл бұрын

What’s the link?

@hatefulhate2287

2 жыл бұрын

You dislike yourself therefore you start hating on someone for liking you because why on earth would they like the whole disgusting you...? Try falling in love with yourself again. May i suggest listening to alan watts because he helped me." Love yourself deeply- alan watts"

@dakodablack922

2 жыл бұрын

Seems to me you pushed them away Bc you were scared they’d do it if you didn’t

I am going through a really rough and confusing time right now so this is really helpful, thank you

@LunaMoon70

2 жыл бұрын

i hope things get much better for you soon, and i'll listen if you would like to talk about it :)

@hostileenvironment6107

2 жыл бұрын

W.would you loike a virtual hug :3?

@Daphne1758

2 жыл бұрын

Y'all are so supportive thank you !

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Snowy Wolf (nice name btw), we hope you'll be okay. You're not alone

@Daphne1758

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

I'm from India. Your channel actually impressed me. Today is 5th September and our country celebrating Teachers day. And I'm thankful to what you are teaching. And nice voice and Happy teacher's day. 💛

These videos always makes our days better

Timestamps for people in a rush Watch the full video for more tips 5 ways to stop sabotaging yourself 0:21 DISCLAIMER 0:37 - 1. Re frame your state of mind 1:23 - 2. Work on your *self worth* 2:10 - 3. Find a strong support system 2:43 - 4. Breakdown your goals and celebrate small victories ^^ 3:41 - 5. Talk it out

Thank you so much I needed this I have become my worst enemy and it took me one second to stop myself from getting worse and hurting others

I needed this thanks 💜 celebrating small victories does help a lot!!!

3:07 "can we pretend that airplaines in the night skies are like shooting stars"

@polinanix

2 жыл бұрын

HA I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT

I really need this since I got 13 worksheets I haven't answered yet because once I see it I always thought it'd be kind of exhausting to finish it (I hate myself), but thanks to you I can at least answer 5 or more worksheets rn... Kinda want to answer it till morning tho, Thanks!

@melodytam1348

2 жыл бұрын

U got this :)

I call myself mistress of procrastinating. I know where my mistakes are and how to avoid them, I tried to make small goals. And finally turned to a friend for support. She wants to be my push to get me to do it, my pillar for frustration, my help for when I need it. And here I am. I'd never lie to my friends. Yet I lied to her, saying I'd work on it while I was again procrastinating. And I'm so mad at myself about it. She didn't deserve me lying to her. All I can do now is to make up for it by catching up with the load of work I should have finished by now.... (but alas, I didn't do anything again today and the vicious circle keeps turning)

Happy birthday Amanda 🎂 I wish you receive even more love and peace than what you give to us 💖😚 Your voice is like honey to my waffles 😍💖

I feel like I really deserve things whenever I work hard for them. So, even if someone wants to offer me something I just can't help myself by saying: "no thanks, I got money"

What if you're a complete recluse who only leaves the house once a week? I find every therapist I've ever talked with is pretty clueless

@_imdope

2 жыл бұрын

This is not a right way to live. This is not even a wrong way to live. Nobody knows the perfect way to live, you just do it. Who cares if you don't want to live the house? Is someone even forcing you? Just keep your head right and keep on living pal, there's nothing you can do.

I'm saving this, because I need to watch this multiple times. Thank you 💚

i swear they always come up with the exact video u need. literally before this i was having a complex about my self sabotaging

I am more than aware that I self sabotage and am working towards fixing those behaviors 😓 procrastination and “what-ifs” always slow me down or keep me from doing what I want/need to do

Totally loved It! Thank you for time invested, will share It!!

Hey, you that is reading the comment, yes you Have you drink water? Have you eat? Have you take care of yourself and taking some breaks after work? If you don't go do it new, remember...self care isnt selfish, its needed

@saigotheanimator1098

2 жыл бұрын

🥰😘

Your voice is really calming thank you for making these

Reminder 💗the fact that you noticed you are sabotaging yourself and trying to fix it is a huge step in healing 💗✨wishing a good happy life for u all 💗💗💗💋

@YarnsDeluxe

16 күн бұрын

Thank you 🥺💕

Thanks I really need this, I have been feeling like a major failure lately. I keep self criticizing negatively and putting myself down.

You guys really are the best , thank you for all the things you've done for us by creating these videos

Had no idea this would be so informative; thanks for the amazing content!

The video I’ve been waiting for. Ty for the vid.

100/100!! Thank you Psych2Go I will apply these Steps to my everyday life.

Definitely needed this thank you so much❤

Bro i swear everybody needs to see this💖

i dont know why but this voice made me watch everything in psy2go... calm and easy to hear and understand... whoever this is ... thankyou🎉❤

Definitely needed this, thanks

For all the other people doing exams this year, I wish you good luck and hopefully you achieve your best. 🥰💯

I developed a bad habit of raising my middle finger or saying curse words whenever I feel sabotaging myself, idk if thats good LOL but it helps me to f*** it off my problems and just do what I feel.

@greatwavefan397

2 жыл бұрын

I think science has proven health benefits of cursing. I prefer to curse in secret or with anyone I feel extremely comfortable with.

I want to address the making mistakes. It's one thing to forgive yourself. But it's another thing to try and drown out and not internalise the negative messages from others who chastise you (boss, parent etc) for not being perfect or getting it right. Self acceptance is very important. But you also might have to cut ties with the person doing the shaming or even minimizing time spent with them

I really struggle with this. I hate failure and have experienced it this year. Hoping to work on a growth mindset

@isa-lk4lj

Жыл бұрын

After one year did your mindset change? :) I'm really struggling to change my negative mindset

Psych2go has no idea how much they're really helping us right now.

Thx 💗 and again praising the new art style :D

THANK YOU SOO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I REALLYY NEEDED THIS! TuT

This video is great! I really needed this!

I needed this

This was so helpful!

Oh I know I need this. Thank you guys.

You Really help so much people, Never stop!

the drawings for this video was so adorable and entertaining to watch!!! i loved it alot!!!

Hoiiiii I’m here an hour after the video was posted! Love your content so much, my friends do too, Tysm for all the help

almost made me cry.... man i needed to see that today.

Thank you for this 😊💖🌸

"Do you deserve success?" Re whatever is valuable to you. This can be part of self-worth. Do you deserve to be happy? I have ideas for novels but I never write. I always put it off. I might exit this life without writing anything. This is self-sabotage.

@_imdope

2 жыл бұрын

Success is such a difficult word to express. What even is "success"? How do people value it? Why is it called "success" and not "living"? Also, who cares if you're being "successful" at the end of the day? Does it even matter if everyone knows you? I tell you what: no, no it isn't. Success is personal, meaning that you defy what "success" is, not others. It has standards, yes, but the society decided it. But who cares? Not me for sure. You're the one defying success. The closest to being "successful" is following your dreams, but even if you don't, what tells you that you're not being "successful"? If you want to be an astronaut, but end up being a mechanic, but you're feeling great with yourself, why shouldn't this be a "success"? I mean, you're happy with your life, aren't you?

@greatwavefan397

2 жыл бұрын

@@_imdope Yes, thank you!

Your videos are always so helpful

I really like the leaf on the head, it reminds me of the Final Fantasy game as a newbie, ready to learn the ropes of the game.

This really is something I needed to hear today. Recommendations did something right for once

I accidentally read the title as "How to stop stabbing yourself"

@Ch3zzIts

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@ozzzzy7206

2 жыл бұрын

yuri????

@keiron.4612

2 жыл бұрын

I might continue doing it anyway

@soobinsolos

2 жыл бұрын

@@keiron.4612 stop.. get some help.

@keiron.4612

2 жыл бұрын

@@soobinsolos there is no help I was joking but I have cut before

Thank you, these videos are so helpful. I've been feeling depressed and crappy lately.

@patrickpoulsen1

2 жыл бұрын

Don't worry. I have felt like that for 10 years. We will find a solution one day though. Keep doing the inner work. Go within and through the pain. There you will find your answers to what ails you.

yoo I’m crying right now and just hearing your voice makes me feel safer 🤧

@zeemaria3544

2 жыл бұрын

I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time ..

@zeemaria3544

2 жыл бұрын

➕13477690056⏯️⏯️

I really needed this, thanks

thank u for this

Thank you so much for your awesome work, you help me to get better day by day~

This channel helps me more than anyone

the main reason why is that i used to freak out over small mistakes and i would feel like a total failure. that's why i don't try hard or have expectations on me anymore, i'm scared that the old thoughts would come back..

You post so much lately I barely have time to watch all of your videos!!XD

Yes this video is very useful since I have been self sabotaging myself since day 1.

This will help a lot thank you so so much 😊

I needed this🥺

psych2go is my comfort channel 💗

Happy Birthday Amanda!

You're voice is very soothing.

Thankyou ! 💫

I'm relatable to this just a minute ago. I'm so speechless that you uploaded this, it's wow I don't know what to say. You uploaded this video in a correct timing.

@kcthefrogusedyt8319

2 жыл бұрын

same tbh

This was helpful 😌

This was great💜

Thank you!

Ty! ❤️

I swear to god from the very very ver bottom of my SOUL…… thank you Recommened vids today were exactly what I was looking for my whole 17 years of life

Completely agree.

you have a lovely calming voice😊😊😊

Thanks a bunch

😭 I needed this video thank you

@jordanhaynes9728

2 жыл бұрын

stay well and strong xx

@rtyertrt7876

2 жыл бұрын

@@jordanhaynes9728 thank you

Just loved the Animation style how can this be soo cute OMG..♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

gracias por sus videos me han ayudado mucho a orientarme y sentir una calma que la verdad no sabia que podía tener, de nuevo gracias

I have a really hard time with the growth mindset. I consistantly run away from my responsibilities and it's so bad that I have spent 3 years failing high school, I don't see any hope of passing or having a decent future. I probably can change my mindset to become better, but after so long of dreaming and not acting I just don't want to go through the pain of finding hope and then losing it again. I want to stop doing this to myself but I don't think I ever can.

I can relate to this with my work. I have a hard time saying no to others so I accept every work request. Only after later realizing that I hate doing to thing or I didn't have the time to commit (which I knew I would) , I get mad at myself for taking it and I feel like I'm stuck. So I self sabotage my work and my relationship. I'm trying to work on saying no and closing work I didn't want to do. It's not easy though. 😕

I have to study daily so that I can reach my goals, thank you for this it helped me feel better