Who else found Psych2Go one day and just cant stop watching their videos?

@user-yt5fh9dm2j

5 күн бұрын

Me

@PixelSkkytzer

5 күн бұрын

Me

@hinozall2040

5 күн бұрын

Me

@lizzZoO0

5 күн бұрын

me (im gon die alone fr)

@user-kg1bq8rc9c

5 күн бұрын

Me

Me waiting for the "attracts no one" section:

@thatrandomcrit5823

5 күн бұрын

You're just like me fr fr

@Jouro_chan

5 күн бұрын

I can be your friend :D

@pekkagenesis4802

5 күн бұрын

@Jouro_chan Ayy a friend let's go

@infochandev

5 күн бұрын

That means we just don't exist 👁👄👁

@martimfreecss8311

5 күн бұрын

Yeah, exactly like me!

Bad people find you in peace, and leave you in pieces. Good people find you in pieces, and leave you in peace.

@StarDustMoonFairyGirl

2 күн бұрын

But in the end people will always leave you.

@Saffron-sugar

2 күн бұрын

Can’t good people find you in peace? Does being happy mean that you don’t have a chance of meeting kind of people?

@screm5514

Күн бұрын

Iam14andthisisdeep kind of shit

@undefault2

13 сағат бұрын

@@screm5514 Damn just let people have fun

1. Emotionally troubled drama queens 0:37 2. People in need of saving 1:37 3. People who want to help you 2:34 4. Emotionally unavailable and hot & cold partners 3:11 5. Manipulators, controllers and abusers 4:31

@empress_enchantress

5 күн бұрын

TYSM xoxo ❤❤

@TanalieKris

5 күн бұрын

thx

@MysticMoth_277

4 күн бұрын

Shutup

@Hannah_Banana371

4 күн бұрын

Thanks

@vinayghalsasi5092

Күн бұрын

😢

Literally I'm addicted to these types of videos 💀

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Hope this video helps you learn more about yourself and others!

@_ZO73M_

5 күн бұрын

@@Psych2go Well it does!!

@FDCGaming2010

5 күн бұрын

Me to and I don't know why

In the past, I found that I attracted toxic people, but now I find that I am attracting people who want to help me! 😊

@nanamuskuri6630

4 күн бұрын

Happy for you! I recognised a change too, but I progressed from narcissistic manipulator to kind but avoidant 🙃 baby steps for me I guess

@MoodyBluesRequiem80

4 күн бұрын

​@@nanamuskuri6630 baby steps are still a progress! I'm proud of you! 🖤🖤

@johannacarnet8790

3 күн бұрын

​​@@nanamuskuri6630OOooOOf fell you 😅 Don't be so harsh, if you were a narcissist you wouldn't even care for the consequences you have in others. It's nice to check but don't destroy yourself and your confidence in the process :)

@jessicahernandez3090

2 күн бұрын

Same! But they also open up their feelings and seek for advice, so at least I feel like I’m supporting them back❤️

@lindyk6366

2 күн бұрын

I'm genuinely curious as to how you managed that. Did you just become more vulnerable and open to others about your emotions? I can't help but feel like that would attract narcissists as well who would use that to their advantage.

I used to attract people that would either abuse/manipulate me and chase after people that had little interest in me. (i have a disorganized attachment style.) But recently I've found myself attracting really good people. I think what helped the most was setting boundaries and knowing my worth. Be confident in yourself!

This is so on point. I tend to befriend people who are emotionally needy, as I always like to be of service.

@a_1973_love_yourself

5 күн бұрын

Just watchout to not burn youself out. I say for experiencie and It the worst and you can't help other as good as before

@scoots291

4 күн бұрын

Wait you befriend people?

@loyal_dogs

2 күн бұрын

​@@a_1973_love_yourself I can 100% confirm plus it makes you hate yourself so much

@ede2362

Күн бұрын

Same but Im slowly getting out of it and I met people who age very similiar to me so we can create a balance because I know I can also share with them just like they can share with me.

This makes a lot of sense. I noticed a relationship pattern of attracting narcissistic men. Or men who were manipulative so I stopped dating to heal an figure out why. I realized I lacked having firm boundaries. Once I started to establish and stick to them. It became repellent. It honestly felt odd for me at first, but I took an HR approach to it. Being direct and tactfu. Some tried to push my boundaries, but when I stood my ground, they scattered like roaches in daylight.

@asiyakaoir7927

4 күн бұрын

This post just inspired me. I know the boundaries is what I have to get better with.

@asiyakaoir7927

4 күн бұрын

Great job❤

@Psych2go

3 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing and we hope that the video resonated and gave you some insights. That's a good strategy to keep toxic people at bay. :)

@cbrown4293

2 күн бұрын

Hey, just need to say thanks,your comment was like my heart being spoken out loud . Boundaries are non existent in my world and I know that's where my issues are rooted. Wegotdis

I have all of them somehow, #3 being my current partner.. sadly a lot of other people I know tend to fall into all of these other categories and it's made me a lot more jaded and unwell since I haven't taken a break between my day job and constantly trying to help other people, ofc a few of my close friends are genuinely very loving and supportive of me Tldr, even if you want to help others it's always best to take time to yourself once in a while to heal, even if it means saying no sometimes. Sorry for my yappathon, and thank you for reading this far lol, great video as always^^

Each category describes me. I have a hard time saying no, which I tend to people please others and prioritize their needs above my own. I want to be in a relationship, but at the same time.. I don’t think I’ll ever be in a committed relationship, unless I truly heal from all of the pain, trauma, and hurt that I’ve endured in my childhood, adolescent years, and young adulthood on the verge to adulthood.

Me who attracts no-one:

@fudgeboy2165

5 күн бұрын

Same here! 😔

@ShinjiInui91

5 күн бұрын

Be glad. They usually just want what you've got, and when it runs out, they tell you to cease living.

@fudgeboy2165

5 күн бұрын

@@ShinjiInui91 that depends on if they are a good person to begin with.

@proXevo

5 күн бұрын

@ShinjiInui91 Oh I've been there. Used to be sociable when I was younger (because I was forced to, I'm socially introverted) Quite a handful of times where things seems to be going well for me, then all of a sudden I'm like the next big Hollywood Celebrity with everyone chasing me all over the place. When everything flips then only like 2-3 people help me hold my ground and we roll. Through that, I just cut off so many people from my life entirely, and reverted back to my lone wolf self.

@user-ko9yx3sy7w

5 күн бұрын

Me, who's asexual:

The saiki k and todoroki artttttttttt🥺🥺🥺🥺

@aFruitDealer

5 күн бұрын

Yare Yare

Your voice is so soothing

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Thanks for the compliment!

@jaydenfaulkner4955

5 күн бұрын

@@Psych2go w

@garusfan

5 күн бұрын

I aspire to channel her voice/energy

I lost my left headphone, and only had my right. Turned on the video with full volume and HOLY ASMR!!! 🥰

@eduardoherrera2368

3 күн бұрын

Wow cool rhyme.

I feel soooo called out right now

The whole "anxious attachment style"-part explained my last relationship thank you!

There are no set patterns! Everything and everyone is so unpredictable, and that makes things so frightening, confusing and mega challenging! I still value your advice and opinions, for they are very valid as always! I just wanted to input my opinion and perspective! Thanks Amanda & Psych2Go! Take care!

@samanthakim5035

3 күн бұрын

At the end, it depends how you perceive the way you live. This video will help people that have trouble in recognizing toxic situations due to complex/buried trauma they have.

Just wanted to say psychology helped me in my life to move forward to understand my emotions and understand others. Since I tend to ask a lot of “why why” It just answers me a lot of these questions.

@Psych2go

3 күн бұрын

We hope this video resonated. Did you relate to any of these points?

DAMN. Omg, seriously, my instincts literally brought me to watch this video. I was curious if I was going to fit into any of the topics, and for my surprise... I PERFECTLY FIT IN THE FIRST ONE. Fr, it feels like all the friends I get end up throwing their dramas on me (except for my best friend, who almost doesn't talk about his problems with me, ironically. I actually wish he'd open up to me more. But he's an exception.), it's almost like that's a rule for being my friend!!! All of them open up to me, tell me about their problems... Okay, it's not like that's totally a bad thing. I like to help my friends and make them feel safe, and even give 'em advice! Seriously, I love to help! But sometimes, it's just too much for me... Sometimes, people even seem to forget that I have my own issues as well. And just to be clear, not all times they do that for selfishness. It's just that it looks like they've already stablished me as their "confort person". On the one hand I feel awesome for having such a role, but on the other it's exhausting for me, since sometimes it feels like they want to talk about their emotional dramas 24/7, and I don't even have the time to deal with my own dramas. That happens exactly because of my behavior towards friends (and even people that I'm still getting to know), just like it's said in the video. Let's say I'm a very... Conforting (?) person. Not like "mother-friend personality", no, I'm far away from that. Actually, I'm very playful, I make a lot of jokes (but never jokes about people, I just play with things that don't cause disconfort), I always do my best to bring a relaxed and casual energy to the conversation, so the person doesn't have to feel intimidated or shy (I even connected with a lot of shy people, thanks to that). I can say that I have kind of a "talent" in making people confortable with me, in general. This capability of mine came probably because I was bullied a lot in my childhood and first teen years (in different ways, depending of the period). So I do know PRETTY DAMN WELL how it sucks to feel unconfortable around people, and constantly intimidated and unsafe. Plus, I lived a lot of this without having the courage to open up about it with anyone. That's why I have such ease at bringing safety to people. It's a thing I'm really proud about me, actually. But it caused me some trouble with some toxic friends (not all of them though, but some. Even my non-toxic friends have this tendency of opening up a lot with me). I had specially a terrible one, a girl of my age who would always talk about her dramas like it's the end of the world (spoiler: it wasn't), over-criticizing her parents (they were toxic, but she exaggerated a lot), and having a lot of questionable attitudes in her relationships, but always trying to make it looks like the guys were the ones to blame in the situations (spoiler: it was never the guys's fault. She is the toxic one). I tried to give her advice, help her at improving her relationships (At start, I took it easy with her, always tried to understand her side... But after some time, I was a bit more direct about her wrong behaviors). Problem is: She didn't give an f about MY problems, when I tried to open up. She was basically a narcissist, or at least got some PRETTY STRONG narcissistic traits. Thank God I got rid of this friendship. Anyways, sorry for the big comment, but I really needed to open up, and this video helped me a lot in seeing patterns in my relationships. Loved it as always! I really love this channel

@thamashadevindi

4 күн бұрын

Felt like u're like me when it comes to opening up and writing comments 😊

@BelleLaBelle

18 сағат бұрын

I feel you, used to hang out with that kind too, when it comes to your feelings they just dismissed them and call you crazy 😂 The worst feeling is that I really thought they're real friends bc we're hanging out like 5+ years but yeah I never feel emotionally supported😢 I raised my bar now, only choose to be with mature and realistically positive people, I have to, in the end you're the average of 5 people around you right? So I have to choose wisely 😂❤ Hope you do too😊

#2 is definitely relatable. It was a hard lesson for me to learn not to try to save everyone else.

@Psych2go

3 күн бұрын

We hope this video helps! How have you changed ever since the incident happened?

I don't even know who my true self is... my family always influences my decision and what I do 😢

@strawberrich777

4 күн бұрын

it's so hard to choose which one is relatable for you, isn't it?

@TheChainTV

4 күн бұрын

@strawberrich777 yea.. stinks when family thinks you can't trust your own self they have to take matters in their own hands.. I try so hard, I got so far. But at the end it really doesn't matter 😞

When Psych2Go posts my day gets a whole lot better

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Your comment made our day! Thanks for the love and support!

FRUITS BASKET! One of my favourite animé! 🤩 But the people you described here---> SPOT ON!

Thank you guys. Your vids really boot up my healing process. Truly informative

I LOVE THE FRUITS BASKET THUMBNAIL ❤️😂

I pull in self centered people. I am empathetic and engaged in their lives. Those started with my parents, and I’ve been this way since toddlerhood. I’ve learned, starting with dad then mom, to prioritize myself when I need to. All these close people have flipped out when I do that - so I’ve lost my parents, husband, my best friend, and now my son is heading that way. I would really like to have a partner who cares about me and want to help me. Some of my self centered friends are like that - and I truly appreciate them.

If you help someone in trouble, they will remember you when they are in trouble again

Most of my friends that I get close too tell a lot of their problems to me and i still remember each and every one of their problems.

Thank you for helping so much! When i feel like I have no idea what to do, there’s one of your videos on it ❤

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Happy to help! What's your fave topic so far?

@Made-by-maddie-

5 күн бұрын

@@Psych2go probably the ones about coming out among other lgbtqia+ and attraction ones, I’ve never been good at talking to people about that kind of thing so that’s helped a lot ❤️

As someone who attracts no one I can confidently say this video has helped me discover my lack of existence and know the problem behind my loneliness. I shall now endeavor to create a tangible self to link to this physical plane of existence. Thank you!

These are the kind of videos that people should watch and learn ❤️

Rescuer syndrome is my situation. I was pushed into this role and am kept in this role due to poverty. I do not intend to help others once I get out of this. I spent most of my life helping people and it left me worse off. All my future relationships must be mutually benefical and not dependent on me giving.

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

K. Be careful that it doesn't go Narcissist.

What if I attract nobody?

@davedor7759

5 күн бұрын

I'd like to know too

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

... They will come.

@skullkurr5724

4 күн бұрын

if you attract nobody then you are the attracted person in one or more of these situations

@By-ram

2 күн бұрын

Then maybe you are nobody

Congratulations on reaching an incredible milestone of 5,000 followers!

Thank you for making this video! It actually helped me❤

This is one video I didn’t think I needed! It put things into perspective for me☀️

Yup, this video just accurately defined my dating life or what was supposed to be it🤧

Love this type of video, with your voice, and the cute little characters. Good quality video! Really enjoyed it and very helpful! I have an avoidant attachment style and my ex had an anxious attachment style, and I only just learned that those two apparently attract each other, but, well, DONT typically work out, as I learned the hard way.

I think I WAS the superhero type but I feel like I am not one anymore. What bothers me is 'why I am not like that now?' No one betrayed me. I didn't feel like others seeing me as a pushover. The only thing happened was I ended my school years and entered to university. My new friends are also good and supportive, but I feel a distance between me and they. And I feel that they can be judgmental (so do I). So I only want to be a superhero for only my old friends. That thought make me feel guilty but I can't help it. I think I will talk about this matter with a friend who listen to my drama.

For me it's nerdy and specific people, and that's okay! 😊

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

🤔 ...sounds like me.

@OceanicPearlz1

Күн бұрын

lol same😅

Amanda, you have a beautiful voice! We're so blessed to have you narrate in this channel😀🤙

Okay, now good news. Im also type number 2,omggg!Actually, I was working on myself a lot these last years:opening up, being okay with being vulnerable and Just ignoring negative minded people. It helped me to have supportive teachers, some bosses would always understand me and my problems, haha. So many workers and waiters would give me some discounts or be so friendly with me! Its so sute of them Actually😭✨💖I truly appreciate their little acts of kindness

I am in middle school and I always attract the kids with divorced parents 💀 doesn’t even matter the age, I was volunteering at this vacation bible school as a leader, and I made friends with this 3rd grader, and at the end of the week I learned that his parents were divorced, like, that’s my 6th one it’s like I’m collecting them 😭😭😭

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

^lol, been there

@Shapoufiiie

2 күн бұрын

Mine is more like people with a troubled home life and dynamics with their family and are kinda LGBTQ+ which is funny and kinda scary how eerily similar they are to me. Maybe because I can't stand idle gossip and want deep conversations and hanging our with them over movies and cartoons and games and sharing stories and deep intimate topics... is my criteria for friends..

@thereturnofglenhaven721

Күн бұрын

@@Shapoufiiie LITERALLY. IDK HOW I FIT IN EVERY SINGLE FRIEND GROUP OR CLIQUE I KNOW BUT IF SOME OF MY FRIENDS OUTSIDE OF OTHER GROUPS TRY TO HANG OUT IN OTHER GROUPS THEY DONT FIT AT ALL 💀

Best voice ever❤

Thank you very much. I'll be careful in living life. ❤

within the first minuet, always love the content.

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Thank you so much! This means a lot to us!

This is incredible

I saw Fruit Basket so I stay to watch, this is insightful though 😍

I know I sound like the hot at cold tipe at times, though that's due to a collection of neurological things. That's why I stick to being 100% honest and forward when asked question by those I care about.

@BelleLaBelle

18 сағат бұрын

That's a good thing! I do hope people are more honest, honesty = respect to me😊

Спасибо что помогаете лучше понять себя. Всегда немного стеснялась того, что все близкие мне люди постоянно предлагают свою помощь. А получается что и в этом есть хорошее.....

Yeah getting rid of abusers and manipulators when they keep showing up at your doorstep is hard, especially when you struggle to say no. No wonder a lot of people in my life are unhappy with me now that I am starting to set boundaries and choose for myself.

The first and last one hit close to home

the skip and loafer reference 😭💗

Oh, yeah, mmmmhhh, mosquitos😍

Wonderful video!

Omg i love the anime reference especially the Tohru-Kyo couple at the beginning 😍😍😍

Hearing how help is available and that breaking those cycles is possible feels so good. Hell yeah it's possible to gtfo!!

I love the Saiki K and MHA reference for emotionally unavailable and hot and cold people :) smart use

Hmm, can we say no. 1 (emotionally troubled drama queens) and no. 2 (people in need of saving) can also fall under no. 5 (manipulators, controllers and abusers)?

number 4 is my partner and i 💀 and i wish i could do more to make it better, to her credit she is aware of this dynamic and knows it’s not good, and we’re working on it but i just can’t help feeling insecure on this sometimes still

I’ve known all kinds of people in my life with hardly a notable pattern. This is gonna be a tough job to narrow down.

Thanks a lot I feel good

The kind of person described in the "emotionally troubled drama queens" section fits me to a T. Luckily, i learned how to make boundaries... (This channel was one of the reasons why that happened tbh). My mom, on the other hand, is Rescuer Syndrome personified.

What if I don't attract anyone

@IneedCoffe-ei5sk

5 күн бұрын

Then you are lonely

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

​@@IneedCoffe-ei5sknot precisely.

@IneedCoffe-ei5sk

4 күн бұрын

@@E4439Qv5 if you don’t attract any human on this planet you can be lonely

@annara686

4 күн бұрын

Then it means people think that there's nothing to gain from you

As the avoidant partner, that's exactly how it happened. Ended within a week

Yes: that is me. Now I do take care of my self. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be able to help people that need help to help themselves. 😅

I think I’m the emotionally unavailable person, it describes my relationship with my ex. I regret being that person, because I really loved them. During the end I tried my hardest to change, but they already had enough.

Ad ơi ra nhìu nhaa❤❤

I mean yes. Is like what pictures we post like , etc

😅fork 75% of this hits the nail on the head for me My inability to set boundaries (thanks rents) has led to me landing in the wrong company alot

Yes, I deserve safe and stable love 🥰

the part 4th 😭😭 is so me omg omg

Omg Ccinee as the animator?? Nice!!

I'd say I attract a bit of all these kinds except the abusers one- depending on which circle I'm in- my university, my home, or my online friends who essentially make up my most intimate group of friends online and irl altogether. It's the persona you put on subconsciously, or rather the side of you that comes out automatically depending on the type of group of people.

Oh my gosh skip and loafer 💙💙💛💛

This is very helpful. What does it mean if I commonly attract the weirdos who are obvious about liking me? I can never tell if people who I'm or would be interested in are interested in me

omg fruitbasket and skipnloafer,my favssss

I’m usually surrounded by like minded people who r kind and supportive :))

This would explain a few things about me ngl.

The SuperMan picture on the thumbnail is awesome.

I attract people that are way too touchy [like hugs and stuff, nothing bad] and won’t stop when I say stop. It’s frustrating. I also attract people that are way too loud or annoying, as I’m quiet and need my space 😅

0:05 Nice to see a fruits basket reference:)

I am outsider, always loner, always on the side social.

Darn i really hope I'm not leaching away at my friends patience. They are my emotional support person but now i feel like a ashole. So much for opening up to others. I'm just making myself a burden to a person that cares enough to listen

@bleachedout805

5 күн бұрын

I mean you can learn to be a bit more self reliant with this realization instead of self pitying.

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

Moreover, you can also be _their_ support, or use what you learn and find another friend as well.

I am a caring person. I offer a shoulder to cry on but the people who need it shy away from me. I see a person who's fallen and I lend a helping hand and that person yells "Go away! Leave me alone!" I hear someone run towards me while another yells "Stop him. I turn and see the man running and I put my foot out and trip him and I get yelled at by bystanders "You shouldn't do that! You could get arrested for assault!" and cops would say "Don't interfere! We'll handle this! Stay there! I need to talk to you! "GULP" The way they say that makes me feel like I'm the one in trouble.

What if I repel people even though i'm being nice? It certainly feels that way 😑

Being through tough times. Yup. Emotional tampon, check But people looking to tske advantage too. Ive let it happen too often

Two people have a crush on me : one boy who hates physical touch but loves being around me and one girl who loves physical touch but is more introverted 😭

@E4439Qv5

5 күн бұрын

^cool pfp

I attract 1st and 2nd type of person :)

@Sorchia56

Күн бұрын

I get the drama queens! It’s a bloody nightmare. They seem phenomenal fun at first then it spirals out of control. Constant texts, ringing me up, whinging on and on. I set boundaries but they don’t care. Just told my best friend of 8+ years to kick rocks. I am not attached to my phone, I can barely find it most of the time 😂. The friendship was on its last leg but what did it for me was her coming into my husband’s hospital room angry with me for not answering my phone or texts for the day! He had suffered two TIA’s! I was a bit preoccupied and concerned. She was very controlling as well. No thank you. I’ve a life to live and I only do positivity. I’m done with this “friend” rubbish. I’ll stick to close acquaintances who are positive and will go the cinema with me, thanks every so much. At 53, I’m just fine with a good book or telly programme! And my brilliant hubby!

Thank you for this video ❤ I just realized I was almost all of these at some time of my life but now I’m attracting ppl who just want the best for me while respecting my boundaries. It makes me realize that I’m healing ❤️‍🩹

Bold of you to assume I can attract people, let alone a single fly.

i was waiting for "Absolutely unhinged" section

I am on the side of like attract like obviously.

💛

What about a mix of all of it , depending on which friend and /or friendgroup!?

❤

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Thanks for being here early!

First one here ❤

@Psych2go

5 күн бұрын

Thanks for being here!

In intro to psyc class, we learned that opposites actually dont attract. Similar ppl attract each other

So! I'm attracted to no one and no one is attracted to me. What does that say about me? I think we need a part two of this video that explores that more. Otherwise I will remain a mystery...

@socramzetroc1535

5 күн бұрын

If you're a man... Then you should be aware of what's the reason behind it.