I've liked my crush for almost 4 years and they have known I liked them since last year. Today he asked this girl out and I had to witness it and I went into the hallways to cried :')

@supremexeditz253

5 жыл бұрын

Crybaby Hamilton Dawson why is this what happened to me yesterday😭😭

@crybabyhamiltondawson3456

5 жыл бұрын

Aw I'm so sorry😭😭

@lillysmith8091

5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that... But don't worry you're gonna get over it eventually. You're gonna find someone better 😀

@taylorloland4605

4 жыл бұрын

awe baby I’m sorry but it always get better

@mischaseychelle_kittycorn6026

4 жыл бұрын

My crush has dated like 10 girls.. ALL MY BEST FRIENDS

"If two people are meant to be together, eventually they'll find their way back"

@TabithasChannel

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly.. that’s not how it works. :( But it’s about when 2 people commit to each other, for better or for worse and lay down their pride, that’s when they stay together not when they are meant to be. Sadly, that’s just Disney. I wish it was true, it’d make it seem easier!

@akari350

3 жыл бұрын

To backstab each other one last timr

@tanishkajadhav.0009

3 жыл бұрын

This is how it works in kdramas only

@camerongray7767

3 жыл бұрын

Don’t worry everyone I no longer like her. And I have finally met someone who I like very much and who likes me back :)

@JaCk-vh7yv

3 жыл бұрын

@@camerongray7767 I also don't like my crush like you but unlike u I haven't got anyone to love me back

I can’t cry I can’t feel anything I haven’t ate in like 2 days and I can’t sleep it’s 4 in the morning he likes another girl

@musicaddict8470

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, me too. It's very unhealthy.

@SUSU-xm2co

4 жыл бұрын

@@musicaddict8470 please go get something to eat🥺🥺🥺

@musicaddict8470

4 жыл бұрын

@@SUSU-xm2co Don't worry! I have recently talked to my friend and I have agreed to move on! When I posted that comment I was talking about the past. I'm hoping to get better soon. Thanks for the concern anyways! ^^

@SUSU-xm2co

4 жыл бұрын

@@musicaddict8470 it's ok I just don't want u to starve hun

@musicaddict8470

4 жыл бұрын

@@SUSU-xm2co Awe! Thanks! I actually have never had someone be so kind like that! I'm surprised people online can actually be that caring! ÓwÒ ♡

For some reason I CAN’T LET GO like my soul is literally attached to him I DON’T know what to do

@honkknoah

4 жыл бұрын

J THANG same:/

@shellyvlogs1182

4 жыл бұрын

Me too , i just cant let go of him , i feel like me and him have a connection

@springtrap4557

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way for my crush, we just have to find a way to work it out with him.

@marijaboskovska2469

4 жыл бұрын

zenab amin same

@gracie.p.2792

4 жыл бұрын

Same and it hurts when they don’t like you it really does.

*Catch another fish in the sea* Me: Yeah, why would i stay loyal to someone when he doesn't even like me? 😂

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

YAAAAAS. PREAAAAAACH! 🙌

omg this is like the sweetest video ever😭😭 i really really like this girl who is also by best friend lol this helped

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

Goodness.. that sounds hard.. but you know what? You are strong, and you've got this! :) This will be one of those life turning points in your life! That's super exciting.

@s4yorii586

4 жыл бұрын

Tabitha lol im bi and i like a taken girl- she likes me back but were trying to be friends

@Sofia-gl1nb

3 жыл бұрын

@@s4yorii586 I've got a similar problem lol

I want to uncrush my crush not bc they breaks my heart, I just want to see them as my friend bc it's uncomfortable to think about them 24/7

Funny story. So I actually did get over my crush, and it's all good. The only reason I'm watching this is because I know going back to school and seeing him again in January is going to bring all those feelings back and I don't want that.

@sofiael7350

2 жыл бұрын

What happened ?

@vilmatryphena5389

2 жыл бұрын

omg same condition , i had crush on this guy 2 yr back and now here we go again ,repeating the history break my heart twice

@skylark4736

2 жыл бұрын

This is the worst part

@orangToast

Жыл бұрын

@@vilmatryphena5389 ikr sameeeeee

@kathryn4823

Жыл бұрын

@@sofiael7350 i started liking him again and eventually he rejected me and said i was "kind of weird" hella understatement and his loss oh well

Its so bad for me... I get anxious around him, i try to avoid him but i always end up failing..I can't even focus on my life. I just can't stop thinking about him..

@abigailnorri408

3 жыл бұрын

Ik😭😭😭

@itsracc2871

3 жыл бұрын

sounds like you are a sump. lol. couldn't be me

@jayyvibs

2 жыл бұрын

ik that feeling and it’s horrible it’s even worse cuz I see him with other girls and it breaks me😭

@sarahxvamp

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayyvibs he talks with them jokes with them ...

@coolkirby456._9

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you....

JESUS CHRIST ❤️❤️❤️can change people for the better. ☀️

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

AMEN, PREACH IT. ❤️

@springtrap4557

4 жыл бұрын

He really can change people for the better.

@sierraperez4025

3 жыл бұрын

She sounds like a Woman who loves Jesus! ❤️

@lizburpee2079

3 жыл бұрын

Amen sister

@whereisggoing

3 жыл бұрын

AMENNNNNNNN

The feeling when you know its wrong but you still want it

Me:looks up video on how to get over a crush Also me:exits out of KZread to stalk his Instagram 😭😭

@conversationswithadrianne

4 жыл бұрын

Brandy Triplet 😂😂❤️🤗

@sweetlikechocolate437

3 жыл бұрын

I'm guilty of doing that too. One needs to do a hobby or aim to achieve anything that you want to do in your life, work towards it, work hard so you don't have any time to think about your crush. I know it sounds harsh but I hope it helps with the comment. God bless.

@mariahhart1087

3 жыл бұрын

Exposed me😭

@foxxlol

3 жыл бұрын

Same...but with Snapchat lol(also the fact that she’s a girl but nvm

I tried letting go but I cant because it's hard when I see his face in the hallways and he have almost every class with me plus he sits at my lunch table 😭

@springtrap4557

4 жыл бұрын

Right

@abigailnorri408

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you😭😭

he flirts with me and makes me belive he has feelings for me and then says he likes my friend and kind of likes some others but he's confused with his feelings so I get so confused??? i don't get upset knowing he probably doesn't like me like that it's the fact that he made me believe he had feelings for me and completely led me on that makes me angry.. only problem is that i can't say mad at people for long enough so I always end up forgiving him when he fucks up.. If he wasn't a friend it would be so much easier

@veraque331

4 жыл бұрын

idk bro you have literally explained my situation, I’m so confused but how’s things for you now?

@karate_k1d

3 жыл бұрын

@@veraque331 lolol same

@cherryyy_0004

3 жыл бұрын

omg literally all same...

@hannah8850

2 жыл бұрын

same bro

@madelineasmr926

2 жыл бұрын

Player’s gonna play, the only solution is to walk away

i remember last year i had the words "Mixed Emotions" and it was about my crush becaus i hated him sometimes but sometimes i liked him...and he would make a song out of it and he would always ask me what it meant but its still a mystery to him...

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

Awe.. I love writing, I understand how hard it is to, to let someone go who's just so special to you and inspires you in the most beautiful ways. But just imagine, if he isn't the one for you and he makes you feel this way, imagine how AMAZING it'll be when you do find the one :))

@fezziouiwissal7942

3 жыл бұрын

I relate xxd

@samanthabailey3889

2 жыл бұрын

Okg same

I watched 16 Candles and was convinced m crush liked me. So my friend asked him and he was like "PFFFF NOOO" and ive liked him for like 2 years so that kinda sucked

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

AWE... I'm so sorry.. I can't imagine how hard that is. But sooner than later, you'll be able to look back and be thankful for all that you learned. Cheesy, but it's true and it'll be worth it. I promise ♥️. (the 2 years weren't wasted time)

@phoebescott2290

4 жыл бұрын

Omg same !

@springtrap4557

4 жыл бұрын

I know how you feel, it happened to me today.😔😔😔

@capy100

4 жыл бұрын

Its the same story with me.

Thanks!!! Now I'm gonna be alone forever!!😊❤️

@table928

6 жыл бұрын

Samantha Leis yay!

@fredbmurphy

5 жыл бұрын

Just know that you're not alone in that category. Crushes on people are evil, because you don't choose them, your crushing chooses before you know it's even happening. Too bad the process of compatibility/ forming relationships didn't have this biological attribute. Crushes don't discriminate against incompatibility. To make it even worse on a completely different level, imagine the only stretch of time in your life, where you were ostracized into lonership, and could accept noone, is the only time anyone ever crushed on you.

@tabi6245

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@springtrap4557

4 жыл бұрын

There are plenty of others. (Trust me on it, because it happened to me.)

Rejection does not = unworthiness Performance does not = worth Outward appearance does not = value Striving does not = success Very well said 👏

I’m so shy when I’m around my crush that I just run away

Now you need to make a video on how to get your crush to like you lol

@TabithasChannel

6 жыл бұрын

HAHA. You right! 😂

Thank you so much for this video, good to know that there’s people out there like you that want to help people out of care and expect nothing else in return x

you are the first person who is giving actual tips of real live situations. i love how you haven’t bad talked about the opposite person .... like this is so genuine and I can sense the love you have the want you have to help us feelings broken ... than you ♥️

I literally can’t understand how you hit all the points I wasn’t clear about in my own head. Thank you so much for making this video!

I really didn't want you to stop. You really explain everything so clearly and sweetly . Lots of wishes. Love you!

The positive energy is encouraging and addictive

I got over mine because I’ve been obsessed with them until quarantine I came into my senses my friends would be like he is ugly inside out and which was so true... even people in school would be like oooh not a good choice for a guy to like etc..fall for someone that’ll give into you, sometimes chasing that “one” person obsessing over them is a waste of time. I don’t think about them anymore at all and IT FEELS SO GOOD TRUST ME

you are so motivating! thanks for cheering us up, you're fire! ♡🔥😊

Thank you so much for sharing this advice! I finally realized that I actually like a guy I knew for so long but I know that it won’t work, at least not right now (how you rephrased that letting go quote really made perfect sense to me btw) but like I said: hearing and watching this video has made me step back and see what I’m going through! You’re the best!

You have no idea how much I loved your vibe💫

I love her happiness.... it’s so contagious and I felt so much better after watching this video💖

You are so kind and humorous. I really enjoyed watching you, wish I have friends more like you, thanks for sharing this, I'm feeling better already

I love how cheerful and happy you are such good vibes.

This vdo deserves a lot more. Wholesome af

I don't have a crush but I clicked on this because the thumbnail...it's cute😅 I need you in my life. I love your energy and the way you think. Keep doing what your doing❤️

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

Awwww!! Thank you for leaving this comment, it made me smile ☺️♥️

This is like the first video that has actually helped me!! Thank you!! 💯

Y'all I know this was made 5years ago but wise advice does not have an expiry date. You are the only person who has given realistic advice and I love you! Hope you continue to prosper. Like really, you have been really helpful. Thank you

I just love her energy ❤️by the way this literally changed what I think and feel about my crush 😔💔

You are making me feel so much better!!! Such a ray of sunshine! Thank you!!!!!!!!

This literally helped me so much. I just got rejected by a guy who told me he liked me. And I’m glad I watched this instead of doing something else

I really love how cheerful you are throughout the video and it uplifted my mood. Now I feels like 'Okay girl you got this!' Thank you so much.

I've liked a guy named Bryce for about 5 months in 6th grade and I did still like him now as a 7th grader (still am a 7th grader), but I've always known that he didn't like me back as a girlfriend or anything beyond as a friend. so I've been searching up about how to stop liking a guy, And then I stumbled across this video and I've been watching this almost every day now and trying all these bits of advice and It has really helped me a lot and now I'm slowly starting to only see Bryce as a friend and not as a Boyfriend/crush. And I just wanted to thank you for helping me to stop liking Bryce and I Love your positive attitude :)

YOU ARE SO SWEET🥺 you radiate such a positive energy and it made me smile so much on how you keep a positive attitude. It made me think of how I want to be this way too. Thank you I really needed this💖

i liked him he called me today asked me what i was doing and talked for a bit i started texting him and he told me he liked another girl and just liked me as a friend and i cried for 4 hours

@nishanthafernando7169

3 жыл бұрын

You know he tell me,a girl proposed him and he too like her ,I tell oh wow you find your queen finally, But everyday he talks to me ,he tell everything to me ,now I realise that I have feelings for him, But it's too late ,now too he's massaging me ,I know it's not good to like anyone person guy I hope I can move on easily 😣

You're such a pure soul girllll.Thank you will try all these tip🥺❤️

Tabitha you're a breath of sunshine.

i love your energy 🥺🥺 thankyou for the video

Okay you deserve so much more subscribers

This is honestly so so amazing and helpful! Thank u so much♡

@TabithasChannel

6 жыл бұрын

This makes my full day! I'm so glad love. :)

This video is so sweet omg

thankuu so much for that!! you were jus like my old self .... I'm so happy that i found your video🥺

I don't care how old this video is and the fact that this is the first video of yours that I'm watching. I just want to tell you (even though ik there are maximum chances you won't be able to read this) that you did a really amazing job here! You listed everything in the description even though you have mentioned it all in the video too. That's just so cool- I mean. There are many like me who like to read more than they like to hear. You're so amazing, love you for doing this.❤️ PS- sorry if the English seems odd, it isn't my first language.

You’re very wise for a young kid. You have a positive future I feel!

This is exactly what I needed. Thank you!

You’re amazing, thank you for this❤️

Omg I love how cheerful you are!! 💕

This video made me feel so much better

Wow, I really thank you for this video. I am really heartbroken right know and feel empty but I am definitely going to try out your tipps. Your positive mood helps me to accepts the situation way better so again thank you💙

her energy n way of talking is so natural n impressive 😁✨

You're awesome! I feel much better watching your video. Thank you for this video 💖

you legit just opened my eyes thank you so much :)

Say me if your crush is like 3-6 yrs older than u

@ermloveskz8587

6 жыл бұрын

Me 4/5

@TabithasChannel

6 жыл бұрын

I don’t believe age is to big of a deal. It appears to be a problem when you’re younger and may cause some problems, but I know of lovely grandparent(s) who are still married today and are 10 years apart. :)

@ermloveskz8587

6 жыл бұрын

Tabitha Leis oh ok good to know

@ermloveskz8587

6 жыл бұрын

What if your friend talk about u being obsessed. My friend keeps saying that im obsessed and i need to get over him but everytime i try to she keeps bringing him back up. Doesnt that mean that shes more obsessed than i am and the she LOVES him and not like him

@TabithasChannel

6 жыл бұрын

Well beautiful, I don’t think she loves him, loves a-little bit different. :) Liking someone’s totally normal and when you like someone, you think or talk about them. A LOT. That’s not a bad thing. It doesn’t mean your obsessed. You’re friend probably just wants you more to herself cause she loves you. Maybe ask your friend to not talk about him around you because you’re trying to move on or just ask her if you can talk about something else! Cause I’m sure she loves you only wants to help! :)

HELPED ME UR THE BESTTTT

needed this video right now. your soul is beautiful 💓

@TabithasChannel

4 жыл бұрын

Oh darling, I’m so glad I was able to help. ♥️. Praying for you!!

This helped so much. Honestly thank you

@TabithasChannel

4 жыл бұрын

YOU ARE SO WELCOME. I’m SO happy it helped. 🥰

Wow this video really spoke to me, this is the best how to get over your crush video I've seen! (and I've seen a lot) so inspirational, thank you. I came to this video feeling crushed and now I feel empowered :) Edit: I’m over him now! (It took 3 months lol)

you are so sweet your energy made me smile all along :) i love your video, i think its really helpful and it gave me inspiration... thank uu

@TabithasChannel

4 жыл бұрын

Awwww. 🥰. Thank you!! You’ve got this!

this video was so helpfull thank you for important message

Thank you so much ❤️ your energy and everything you said just helped me so much ❤️

She is amazing

@TabithasChannel

5 жыл бұрын

AWE.. thank you so much for encouraging me ❤️

@TrinityG.

5 жыл бұрын

Tabitha Leis no problem 🤗

i loved this video im watching it in 2019 and in love wit your personality !!!!!

Thanks Tabitha. A really great video. You are very motivational and have great tips and wisdom. God bless you heaps for helping people

This is so helpful! You are so sweet and energetic! I'm subscribing :)

You are awesome! This video helped me out a lot! Thank you!

Thank you for this very helpful video 💯.

I'm not okay Really needed this type of vibe and motivation

You deserve a subscriber girl 💖 thankyou ×1000

This is everything. ❤️ Thank you so much.

Yeah, it's tough when you're friends. And they're taken already, but sometimes they seem like they feel something too. But I want to respect what already is. And I wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone to begin with (still healing, and figuring out what I even want in a relationship/who I want to be). But feelings just sorta happened. :/ It is however, at least in my perspective, helping heal and strengthen boundaries, self love, unconditional love, and respect. It's just hard to fight or let go of feeling sad for what isn't. But I also have to keep reminding myself that my thoughts are not reality/it won't be like my thoughts. I do wish to stay friends, but I hope this back and forth pain & love feeling gets better over time. Thnx for the video. :) good reminders & tips.

Just find your channel... And wow! Your personality is awesome💜

This aready made me feel GREATTTT I FEEL SO GOOD

The first one didn't help me, it just made me like him even more! So for my list, I put cute, kind, funny, loyal and smart. And my crush is all of those things!!! I need help...

It helped me, amazing video thank you and so much wonderful way of your talking ..loved the way you are ❤️

Aww you’re so cute ! Thanks for the video .will try to use these tips 😭😫😌💔

I love this video. It actually is helping me and it's so cute and amazing. Thank you

Thank you so much for this. I love you💫💗

Thank you this helped me so much :)

I love you so much!! This really helped me

Thank you liked it so much , exactly what I needed❤️

i think this helps me a lot.thank youuu

Thank you for this video, it's beautiful

I do my best to impress him... But the best thing to do is IGNORE him... I LOVE him but I HATE him in the same time... (My crush cheated on me... Sooooo yeah I have support from my BFF's like this KZreadr who helps me in times like this... Thx 4 making this video!! Tysm!!)

You are super cool! I feel positive after watching this video... Keep up buddy! Thankyou.😉

i love youu ! Thank you for helping me

The one tip that was to talk to your friend and vent everything is true. I had no one to talk to so I hold all these emotions and literally broke down 2 days ago and started to push people away for awhile. That's why I'm trying to change my mind set so I can move on! Ty for ur tips

@phoebescott2290

4 жыл бұрын

I pushed most of my friends away but im getting better to I feel like my bestie wont listen to me she just wants to tell her stories ,so I needed some tips about crushes to and ive learned to FOCUS ON YOURSELF and be the best you as possible ,now I have loads of friends and I dont try to fit in I try to be myself and ive gotten closer to my crush that way anways ,I really understand where you're coming from :)

omg thank you so much it worked ❤🙋🏽‍♀️

I’ve liked my crush for 5 years and now that I’ve found out that he likes my bff... I’m... idk sometimes I’m mad at my bff, but then I’m mad at myself? It’s cuz I’ve told her I like him and now she acts like I’ve let him go forever but I NEVER told her I stopped and she just makes me get jealous so it gets in my nerves and now I just wanna cry oof

@itsracc2871

3 жыл бұрын

its not her fault he likes her. man up.

@rosewalls8776

3 жыл бұрын

my best friend flirts with him and then claims she doesn't like anyone. She always tries to talk to him.. aren't true friends supposed to tread carefully around that one and only boy you like?

i’m confused about how someone wouldn’t like you you’re literally so fun and sweet ily

You really have a nice personality... ur behavior feels so comfortable ❤

You’re the sweetest person ever thank you so much for making me smile and helping me through this 💖 I have a crush on one of my closest friends, but I know I’m not ready for a boyfriend, and I know he’s really not what I want, or who I think I deserve if that makes sense - like, he’s not deep, he’s not thoughtful - he’s just a fun friend, so this video really helped me bc of all of your AMAZING POSITIVITY 💖 thank you!!!!

@TabithasChannel

3 жыл бұрын

Awww I’m so glad. :) praying for you today!!

@beomgyusmcnugget1055

3 жыл бұрын

Tabitha thank you sm 💖🙏🏻

I appreciate your suggestions. I've done everything you've mention except the letting him go part which is why I'm searching for advice. I don't know how to stop thinking about him. I've been away from him for two years and I still think about him.😢 This is a miserable way to be but I guess I'll keep praying and hopefully it will come to an end. Thank you for your advice. 😊