How to Read Body Language to Get What You Want: 6 Simple Psychological Tricks to Be More Confident
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Do you want to know how to talk to anyone with ease and confidence?
In this episode, you will learn science-backed psychological tricks to be more successful, charismatic, and influential today.
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of The Science of People (@ScienceOfPeople), a behavior lab that studies high achievers and the science of confidence and body language.
Her research proves that anyone can learn these practical skills and become a more successful person by using the same simple habits that almost every high achiever has.
Whether you want to be a better leader, land your dream job, achieve big goals, or align your life with what you want, this is the episode for you.
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In this episode:
00:00 Intro
04:47: The shortcuts high achievers take to communicate effectively.
05:32: The mistake most people make when working on their goals.
08:08: These relationships are the most toxic ones.
13:34: What makes some kids more popular than others will surprise you.
15:41:How to make your friendships stronger.
20:29: People who make mistakes are more likable.
24:47: How your toes give you away when you’re in a group.
26:13: Do this when you walk into a room to appear more confident.
34:23: Why your office chair should have arm rests and swivel.
39:12: Here’s why you are more likely to believe gestures than words.
42:21: How to stop using vocal fry or get someone else to stop doing it.
44:07: Use these words to set your team up for success.
49:11: What to add to your calendar every day to keep you motivated.
51:08: What are the best conversation starters?
56:53: How other people’s fear is contagious.
1:01:12: The worst place to stand in a room when you’re at a party.
1:04:53: How to figure out what you’re really good at.
1:14:41: What do highly effective people do at the end of the day?
#confidence #confident #bodylanguage
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I live alone and work remotely. I get no social interaction during the week and do more on the weekends. ANY social interaction is good for me. I like it when I take a walk and someone waves at me.
This is my favorite pod cast. It’s an extremely a valuable addition to life’s tool belt.
Introverts can be very assertive. Introversion isn't shyness; it's an inward focus of energy and attention.
Wow, I needed this confidence tip- for years!!!!!!!!!!
Damn. This was a great edition! So much actionable goodness! Introvert here….reporting my actions taken as an immediate result of listening to this podcast. Thank you, thank you!!! 1) updated the names of my calendar meetings to prime my day 2) bought Vanessa’s latest book 3) took copious notes to help me be better equipped for social settings
I heard Vanessa speak at the Global Leadership summit in 2022 to over 200K people around the world. She is even more impactful in person. She demonstrates everything she shares. Great job!
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Hi Alyssa! Oh thank you for your kind words! That means a lot to me! 🥺🥰
Love this. Shes adorable and could listen to these two all day!
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@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
That's amazing!!! Thank you so much!! 😍🥰🥰🥰
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@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh yas!!! I love this collab Mel! Super enjoyed it! 😍
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❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for making me feel more normal and comfortable crying and then laughing while watching this beautiful episode 😂
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Mel! You have helped me so much! Much love to you! Thank you for being YOU!
Thia was an amazing podcast!! One of my favorite !! Thanks Mel!!
Thank you Mel! Thank you Vanessa! I admire Vanessa she is very well at explaining things. Looking back at how she was before her career change it is inspiring 💕
Fantastic interview!! Loved this episode!!
Mel, you have such a great speaking style. I love your energy and compassion!
Amazing episode loved it🔥 Thanks! 🙌🏼
Loved this episode so much!!!
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Glad you did! Thank you for listening! 🙌
Vanessa is powerfully, passionately and positively contagious! ✨✨✨Thank you Mel for spreading such GOOD stuff!
Thank you for this.
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Too good! Love this episode a lot. Learned a lot!
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@DeepakMeena-tq4ri
20 күн бұрын
R u jullie rodrix
You are amazing Mel and Vanessa! Oh my Goodness… I’m impressed with your empowerment and knowledge. Thank you girls ! ❤❤
Mel you used perfect word for her. she is adorable❤
Two great ladies together.... can't wait to watch this....thank you in advance ❤❤❤
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
You are more than welcome!!! Hope you'll enjoy the whole podcast! 😍
@mrsa1453
16 күн бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeopleI'm sure i will....if it's possible consider doing a podcast with Brene Brown... another great lady!
Wonderful podcast. Now about likeability. I like people and I'm nice to everyone all the time! I do things to elevate them. but I don't get anything in return. I know love and like unconditionally but... Seriously it's jaded and one-sided now that I prefer to be alone and like myself. Idk honestly dunno. I wish I can find my kinda people maybe. Would love to hear someone's take on this matter. All in all a fab podcast. Thanks so much Mel and Vanessa❤
@asdf7711
19 күн бұрын
It's disappointing if it isn't reciprocated. There needs to be give and take. You seem like a good person but maybe don't try so hard. If someone mistreats you, stand up for yourself: they will respect you more. Good luck!
@akm17178
17 күн бұрын
You could be sending a subconscious message of neediness, too. People pick up on it even when we aren’t aware and it pushes them away. I have had to do a lot of work in this area because of trauma wounding causing me to seek acceptance and approval. I’ve read both her books and they are outstanding, but the tools work best when combined with deep work on our subconscious programming.
@vickibazter3446
12 күн бұрын
Come from the heart and total authenticity.
@riyasaah
12 күн бұрын
@@asdf7711 thankyou I'd definitely stand up for myself and I'm not a people pleaser. So these people i mentioned are my close friends and family. So yeah it sucks a bit but... Okay. I'm practising self love and trying to just let them be as Mel says. Thank you for your kind words. I hope you have a wonderful week
@riyasaah
12 күн бұрын
@@akm17178 Dunno about that. It would be nice to be appreciated back. These are my people. My friends and family to begin with. But yeah. Maybe not. Maybe they only wanna put in meagre effort and I'm overly zealous and loving. I've been told I'm too kind/compassionate by strangers. Maybe it's just my nature now.
Another great video! I learned so much thank you Mel and Vanessa!
Great podcast. Love you both, Mel and Vanessa
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!! 😍
Love this episode ❤
Wish I'd taken notes! What an amazing guest ❤
Fabulous Mel One of the best!!!! 5 pages of notes!!!! Lol Hilarious re excel sheet- SAME!!!🎉🎉 ABCD love it!!!! You guys rock Love you Mel❤
wow wow wow i learned sooooo much 🌸🌸 great video and im gonna share it with people who want to level up🙏🙏
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Awesome segment. Keep them coming
❤ it is so true. Work energy is drowning me, thank you! This Pod Cast just pin point and answer the question I ask myself . What am I doing wrong?❤🙏
Love this episode. Have just reserved one of Vanessa’s book from my library can’t wait for it to come!!
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!! That's exciting! Hope you'll enjoy the book too! Share it with us via instagram! we'd love to hear from you! 😍
This is the BEST episode I’ve ever heard! Thank you Mel, thank you Vanessa I needed to hear some of this not only to remind myself how well I’m doing but to know what more I CAN do
Lovely interview. Thank you so much for this one.
Fantastic interview!!!! Life changing. Love your channel Mel. Thanks for sharing all this knowledge 🖤
Love this!, thanks Mel and Vannesa!!
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
You're more than welcome!!! 🥰
I love it. And I would like to hear about how to embrace imperfections in order to be happier, specially when you have a physical disability.
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@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!!
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This was such a beautiful conversation. I took away an incredible amount of inspiration.
❤ Vanessa is wonderful 😀 Great podcast 😁
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!! 🥰
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@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!!
I do the steeple with my hands when I am in my extended staff meetings and it feels great!
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@learningenglishwithclaudia
20 күн бұрын
You said the right thing @weronikakunka! 🥰 In one room! Lucky us… It was fantastic!!
@DeepakMeena-tq4ri
20 күн бұрын
U r my motivation😅
@ninakis9995
17 күн бұрын
I love them!!
@DeepakMeena-tq4ri
17 күн бұрын
Me too
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Thank you Mel, I enjoyed the podcast with you and Vanessa, and I don’t just like you both I also Love you Mel and Vanessa and I mean it 💋👍🏻❤️🙏🌹
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This was really good. Made some mental notes to myself
Such a valuable podcast. I am going to actively like people from now on.
Oooo I love the body language eps!! 🎉
My two idols ❤❤ Thank you Mel! I love this episode so much! 😍
PSA: Introversion and shyness are not the same thing! Love, An extremely outgoing & friendly person who simply needs to be alone to recharge. 💛
❤at the end I think I like you both I can feel the positivity of both grateful to you ❤
I love this podcast!!!!❤
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Yes ❤ I love to tell people I like them
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@DeepakMeena-tq4ri
20 күн бұрын
Marry don't be silly
Her closing comments made me emotional ❤
love how you hooked us with the pod snippet
Vanessa!!!! Omfg!!!! You just confirmed something I observed in patients for 20 years!!! Our mindset and world orientation is contagious!!!! I have watched this occur in patients at the hospital and nursing home 💯 and I have observed this in my spouse and my children!!! Really excellent tips today!!!! I need to figure out what my A work is....
Fantastic video i've ever seen
Amazing episode!
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!!
I Love You Two, Too! ❤
Yes!! I have designated open and closed door hours in my office. Some of my colleagues snub their nose at the idea. However, I can get work actual work done without feeling drained!
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Motivation
Great information! Introvert IT geek that is now in Tech Pre-sales. Holy Guac! Thanks ladies!! 😆
This is soo good! Thx
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!!
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2 amazing women together....our life toolkit ❤❤
Love love Vanessa 🫶💯🌞
@ScienceOfPeople
16 күн бұрын
Oh thank you so much!!! 🥰
Blown away!👏👏👏
HAHAHA I rolled my eyes when she asked the question “what’s your story?” HAHAHA 🤣
Thanks!
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Fav. 😊
So mean to listen to learn from this