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@xrpspaceforce1697

11 ай бұрын

Does this also work if you have kids with your ex?

@warmouthkennels7373

9 ай бұрын

I’m unsure if I even want her. I mean if she cheated then of course I don’t want or respect her. But I think she’s just wanting me to go away so she’s making it up?

@Mr.Lorenzo_Rhino

7 ай бұрын

Need more videos when there is baby's/kids involved!

I just want the satisfaction of her knowing how bad she screwed up. The streets can have her 😅

4 month's now no contact I'm free no stress anymore. Thank you coach blac

@oluwadamilolaoriade5426

Жыл бұрын

My no contact is 4 months as yours!! But I still love him

@nolackin60617

Жыл бұрын

4 months for me too. I still miss her but I ain’t crawling back. I got caught messin with my BM. I didn’t think the girl cared but she obviously did. I texted her and apologized. She said she had a lot to say but would rather not. I told her maybe we can talk one day. Haven’t heard from her since. It’s easier when you level up and start talking to other girls

@anasukarto6404

Жыл бұрын

2months now,,you right no stress anymore

@takishasmith1080

10 ай бұрын

One month after the breakup and I still have pain in my stomach from the hurt.😢

@josephbelonio7408

7 ай бұрын

​@@takishasmith1080It's my 1 month and I feel better when you Focus yourself

PLEASE READ!! THANK YOU SO MUCH COACH No contact is mandatory, trust me we all know what you’re going through but stay the course, we know you care about them but in this moment you need to put you first and trust that god already has a plan for your life and has that perfect person hand picked for you ex or someone new, you’re a good person who actually cares about someone and that’s rare in this crazy world but all that effort you’re pouring into this situation put back into yourself and in a couple months you’ll look back and see what a amazing person you’ve become and that’s all we want from you my situation didn’t work out but it made me into a better man one that I’m finally proud of if you would like me to pray over you and your situation just leave a “pray for me” comment and I’ll most definitely will keep returning to this video even so often and send one up for you as for me this is my last video I’m finally moving on to find my wife I LOVE YOU

@exildahsakala7284

Жыл бұрын

Pray for me

@leticiat24465

Жыл бұрын

Pray for me. Thank you

@megaJITTERZ

Жыл бұрын

Pray for me as well, Ron

@Honcho99

Жыл бұрын

Pray for me 🙏🏾

@arthurfleck5365

Жыл бұрын

Please pray for me

No contact is all about working on yourself .. finding back what you lost about you in the relationship! First few months its all about being heartbroken but if you go through the process you are starting 2 find out if the person who dumped you really is your SP❤ Find peace inside and than life starts smiling at you again 💫🙏

@Thefishingcaddy

Жыл бұрын

If you don’t go no contact your going to blow it by your emotions over ruling the fact they will use any mistake as justification to flea.

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

@mywa8314

8 ай бұрын

What the hello is sp?

@Coolgerl123

6 ай бұрын

​@@mywa8314Significant Partner

I think it's important 4 people not to mask the pain! Sometimes people don't heal because they pretend like they're not hurt. The truth of the matter is you love this person, you have memories with this person, a lot of times your families are intertwined. You don't want to see your best friend with someone else and it's not that easy to let go! Most of all you hope that they come back, and sometimes you wait and it hurts until one day it just doesn't!

@badhabit4548

11 ай бұрын

That was very well spoken! Thank you.

@SEwrightification

7 ай бұрын

Well said.

@lynahines7366

7 ай бұрын

Well said!❤

I thought I wanted my ex back. I thought wrong! Never again. He abandoned me when I was at my most helpless and vulnerable. I was legally blind,, since having my surgery I have 20/25 vision. I will not be going back to that insanity!!

I will never get attached to a man that I am not married to. Even then, I will not make decisions based on feelings or emotions, logic only!

yes he doesnt value the relationship. I was too much. I gave too much and was head over heels for him. I was literally buying stuff, texting him, calling him, told him he was everything for me. he met my family, my family supported us. He told me he was going to marry me and then he was sick and broke up with me and i didnt know he was going to do that to be honest. he broke up with me two days after christmas . I am still hurting he told me to leave him a lone and i pleading so much he said he would do a legal order, so then I stopped contacted him and still trying to heal from this

@valyuen915

Жыл бұрын

Aye dios mio I'm sorry. I feel the same way. How long has it been for you?

@Meyouletsgo

Жыл бұрын

Same girl ! But get over him ! He left me for someone else Remember guys only leave for another Chick !

@cebisaxolilesith

Жыл бұрын

He also left for someone else he said he fallen out of love week he wa inlove with me then boom he fell inlove with tht umaba

@Liavx77

Жыл бұрын

Feel the same, but with a girl…

@jeannievail

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry he hurt you so deeply! That’s devastating. I know after you shower yourself with all the love you wanted to give to him, there will be better men who will be far better for you. Soon, you will be grateful you didn’t settle for less than you deserve. ❤ I’m in a very similar boat. Mine didn’t officially propose or break up. Just when I expected him to propose, he ghosted me two days before Christmas. A month later all he really said was that his personal life was, “broken in many ways.” I still don’t know what that means but it seems to matter to me a little bit less each day. We can do this by loving ourselves and putting our own needs and wants first. Self-Love meditations are helping me. I wish you a speedy recovery and an abundance of love. 💐♥️

I feel no contact establish boundaries including blocking a person on all social media and detached yourself will help with many things in the healing process. In this situation show yourself how strong you are in a time that might seem like it your lowest

@daveyber3564

Жыл бұрын

The no contact tatic is really for the one who normally the dumpee as it tricks them into being OK with out the dumper....... As in the dumpee does it because they think its winning the dumper back but after so long being used to not contacting the dumper they find other things to do instead of obsessing on the dumper and by the time they are past the "30" day time frame or when the dumper does reach out (if no children involved it's rare they do reach out) the dumpee is over it anyway....... Its great technique but none of the channels actually tell the viewers this as they could in 1 clip, but then their channel can't keep bringing in the revenues these channels do it for...... Yes it helps people but the channel creators don't really care and only do it for self gain and no easier target then a heart broken vulnerable person that will try anything to ease their pain........ Not hating the channels and this channel ain't bad at all and that's why I've kept subbed as this guy is great compared to the rest...... But no contact is for you and will help the one dumped in the long run as I say you find it easier to get on with your life even to start with its under false promise but the ones heart broken won't listen if they knew the true reason....... I don't know your situation as to why you're here but I wish you the best in life and you will be glad one day you didn't get back the one who didn't value you, as by then you find someone better suited or happy with life even if you are single

@lawrenceterrell8471

Жыл бұрын

@@daveyber3564 when I say no contact to be more specific I think it appropriate depending on the kind of relationship you had with a person, like if the person is a narcissist etc I think to protect your peace going through the stages of starting over, as I said to establish boundaries to protect your well being you gotta put yourself first. Not everyone relationship needs to go no contact but it depends if it was toxic etc.

@Pinkflo363

Жыл бұрын

I was the one dumped. But i had to delete him even from social media. It was entirely too tempting to check in on him. I needed the space. He was going to my stories and even liking my stuff. Made things confusing.

@lawrenceterrell8471

Жыл бұрын

@@Pinkflo363 you did right you gotta heal and create that space which isn't easy but the fact a person has an inability to appreciate what they had isn't your lost it their I encourage you to heal continue to establish your boundaries despite how tempting it will be in the end value yourself in this moment

When you stop caring and giving a fuck you automatically are the winner. It all comes down to psychological endurance, but at the same time an ex is an ex for a reason. You don’t go back to where you was on the candyland board.

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

It's only been not even a month for me I'm going to say almost a month and I already feel a lot better when you learn who you are put all your energy into yourself after a breakup the best thing to do

Some relationships were too toxic most of the time and no contact may not work .....some were never real relationships, some were too short lived so the bond was never strong .....please lets consider these things

You have such a great understanding of human psychology and brain function...one of the very best coaches I've found. I'm so grateful for your contribution

Thanks so much. This made sense. I'm so glad I see clearly now that I don't want anything from them, but I love these videos.

45 days, I hurt. But I realize that i will find love again.

My wife of 18 years left about 8 months ago and is already getting her back blown out by an ex. I told her I would take her back, gave her money when she needed it, listened to her complain about her life in hopes she would open her eyes and come home but that shit ain’t happening. I can’t go a few hours without remembering the past 18 years. I don’t know if this advice will work to get her back but either way I need to stop being there for her because it’s helping her and hurting me.

@jamaicanworld4598

8 ай бұрын

Stop all contact brother.

@joev7014

3 ай бұрын

Sorry for the trauma… she will do the same to the next guy, believe me. Stay strong and stay no contact

@EButta71

2 ай бұрын

How are things going now? I hope you've found your self respect and value. I'm married 10 years and it's tricky. People say you shouldn't cheat and then get upset when you want a divorce because you want a different sexual experience. It sounds dumb saying it but unless you're in it you don't get it. Well I pray things are going well for you 🙏🏾

Great info Coach, No contact stradegy is king! ✔✔✔

This is one of the Best videos i have ever seen on KZread❤ you are so clear, your voice is has a Calming Effect, and your message is soooo good. Toy teach maturity and how to mature

Best advice I ever got. ❤️ helping me see my value. Not contacting him. ...staying strong , working on me .

I like how you say the aim is to increase your value higher than it was even at the start. I needed to hear that. Just got dumped by a girl I loved so much but recognised so much disrespect over the last year and we argued a lot. Like you say the goal is not to go back to that, but to either get her back and be in s better place or just move on and be in a better place. Both scenarios is about increasing your value higher than it's even been. Even then she might not come back but I hope to value myself for me more.

You are wonderful, Coach!

You're making changes in our lives. Thank you so much ❤

I think he is happy whereever he is actually not talking to me is the best thing for him.

@cebisaxolilesith

Жыл бұрын

Hi thandeka let's dm

Coach Black knows whats up. In all honesty dont go back with ur exes. Become a FREE AGENT & sign with the winning team. M.O.E. Money Over Everything.

Coach, you are always on it. My wife and I are divorcing, but lately she been very angry with me! I have been very calm, like hey, I am giving what you want so if you have questions from now on, call your attorney. If you just want to talk, then I will talk to you, but not be a door mat

I always get so much strength from you, if i have a bad time you get me through it!!!

Thank you this really helps my anxiety right now😢

Thank you for your time and videos!!! Appreciate you! ❤💯🙏🏼

Keep it coming! I’m getting so stronger. Thanks

love your every content coach..thank you it helps me a lot

This was GOLD 💛💛💛💛

This is your best video yet Coach thank you for being you❤❤❤

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

Yay coach is back🎉

I honestly don't even want her back she's broken the trust between us. I just like to know what she's thinking and how she's feeling.

@jdsjds7935

Жыл бұрын

Same thing this girl I met broke my trust. I was pretty down for a good week still am haven't talked for a week. But I mean the trust will not be there.. after sitting alone all these emotions are just a soul tie and don't wanna lose sex.

@michaelcollins2399

Жыл бұрын

I'm 3 weeks in mate I have a rotation of 3 women already there's plenty of women out there to help you forget ha good luck

@shimammymammy5298

Жыл бұрын

Then come to meee😂

@michaelcollins2399

Жыл бұрын

@@shimammymammy5298 ok 😂😂

@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115

Жыл бұрын

@@michaelcollins2399 as a real woman god fearing woman why not focus on your goals and purpose

I do really appreciate you ✌🏼 Sending you much love frm Pakistan ❤

I really wish I could have seen these videos when I was going through my fresh breakup years ago

I rate u the best coach ever

Never take & ex- back. Most likely they were skeezed during the breakup🐣

Man, you are so good at what you do... I can’t tell you how much you have meant to me on my journey to re-establish my confidence and value. Keep doing you man, you are helping a lot of people and extremely grateful for who you are and what you do for others. 🐝🐝

@seragifty5175

Жыл бұрын

Wow beautiful videos

amazing analogy

i messed up , i had so much goin on in life and i was frustrated with some of her action s and my circumstances so i ended up breaking up , i instantly regretted my decision i ve been wantong her back for many days begging her even but no avail

I appreciate every word you have said .. does that comes with delete and blocking him from my contact

2 months no contact, she gave me some signs like liking my insta photo, viewing my story, listened songs that misses me, and stuff like that, was wearing the ring that I gave her, but I will just continue my life, and ignore all these signs

Man this lesson is hard with kiddos. Breaking away is a good lesson thats hard to do.

@ADayInTheLifeOfJames

7 ай бұрын

💯 how are you going?

My husband has moved on to a new woman and our relationship had conflict. No contact won’t work as he has nothing to come back to as far as he is concerned. The grass seems greener.

I never thought i would be here gosh!!! It hurts so bad😭

Love you analogies

Day 2, going strong

I liked & subscribe once I listened to the entire teaching it was funny because while you were teaching I knew what you were gonna say next. But very inspiring..

@denisehouston7805

Жыл бұрын

Just enjoying the show

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

This is spot on ✅✅✅

I work with at the same job as my ex. It’s a big work area so we aren’t together but at the end of the day, she is in area when talking with friends. I went through a phase of sadness, anger, realization of her wrong actions and how I deserve better and a bit of numbness. It’s been 8 months. I’m tired of being extremely avoidant. I feel at this point it’s unnecessary. My anger has extremely dimmed knowing I don’t want anything to do with her physically or emotionally. Would it be bad to try and be comfortable in a “forgiving” mindset so I can socialize with the groups at work properly regardless of her presence and acknowledgement?

Day 1 of trying NC. I miss him a lot, although he started using dating app and say " ready for a relationship", i was still begged for him to stay, called him many times but he ignored me that's stupid i know, but i couldn't help myself. Thank you for your video. It's so painful right now, i even lost weight and can't eat anything. But i will try my best to walk away!

Love your value and appreciate others knowledge in the situation… u want them back when yall talk set something up.. or when u talk on the phone .. state ur wrongs as well as theres .. stay calm.. dont lose ur cool .. where all adults and can respect maturity as well💯

It's hard when you have a child together and you hv to see each other

Thank u 🙏🏻

It been a month now and I'm proud of myself don't get me wrong sometimes I want to call or text but I'm telling myself no we was together for 10 years but I'll be okay

You are so amazing everything you talk about all your videos they have been my biggest inspiration and help

When are you coming on live next coach?

thankyou bro❣

#Q. What if you have kids with that person? How do you go No Contact?

@bgossowable

8 ай бұрын

Only contact about the kids with no personal questions and giving information about your private life.

Going through a painful break up I have cried nd begged not anymore.

Does this work on the dumper as well ? Who shortly reached out a few hours later after breaking up wanting them back. Was a rash impulsive decision

If you have to hold yourself back so that u can keep your partner. That doesn't feel like love to me. If they want to leave let them leave you do you

I need a different out look on my situation besides mine , a girl I slept with had a kid and she told me it’s mine , I moved to a different state when she had the kid . I got a 2 home dna test kit and she used the mouth swap on herself instead of the child(the dna people said the child was a girl and she had a boy) . During her pregnancy I told her to abort it and that I didn’t want to be w her we’d be only coparenting so idk if she salty or what . Should I try to get the paternity issue solved or just leave it alone an hope it works out itself ? I haven’t contacted her since I got the results

My BM and I broke up, I moved out , no cheating , no abuse , just life (work , kids, money , stress ) got in the way and we grew apart. I want her back but she said she wants space and time to work on her self… we still talk and see For the kids but idk if we’ll ever get back together …. Is there hope coach blac???

Please make a video about narcissist ex

No contact is working so far found your page two days ago after she broke up with me guys she is snapping me and having convos like never before

@super_street_racer5094

Жыл бұрын

How long did no contact last with you and your ex?

@JMoney2k

Жыл бұрын

@@super_street_racer5094 three weeks realized she wasn’t what I wanted and moved on

I’ve been the only one trying to make it work last one year. It got worse last 3 months. I went extremely low, begged, pleaded, it’s a LDR. N he on the other side of the screen, either zone out or totally brush my emotions away. If I said, I will break up and will block him, he was like ok, block n go! Done it before but I ended up begging him. He is so confident that I love him more, he means a lot for me, n I will go back to him begging. But this time I really don’t want to unblock him. I want him to miss me, realise what he lost. I need strength to do it. I have PTSD, I’m anxious attached. 😢😢

Thank You

Thank you sir

I appreciate your videos.. me my ex broke up..I try to work it out but she said I stayed away to long she don’t feel the same it hurt but I backed off but she gets mad when women like my pic on social media and she send me things I think she confused but don’t want to try that weird

All break up are pain,,,like i just had amonth ago,my ex going to match making by their family it was so hurt,he didn’t even tell me that he decided w no discussion w me,,,so much pain n trauma,I should’ve not give him all of mu heart,,,hufh

Im on 90 days already, Doing better he did reach out month 2. but his ego said he wants us back together but I need to change lol when he was the actual problem gas lighting me. Now bk to no contact if he wants me out his life, il show him what life is like with out me. I have the power now not him. I think another 2 months and my emotions for him will die 💔 and I will no longer love him with my mind or my heart.😌 ☺

Hi guys, I have a quick question. My ex broke up with me since he realized we wanted diff things in the relationship and I asked him what it was and how we could meet middle ground. A week later after the break up, he changed his IG profile pic to a pic of us that we took on vday. He hasn’t reached out since the break up but idk why he changed it. I’m trying not to overthink it, but why would he do that? I thought we were over and he was the one who initiated the break up.

SUBCRIBED 😊😊😊

What is some examples of what he should be doing to earn you back in his life the right way?

Hello coach, i just discovered your channel 2 data’s ago, I’m Going through a break up with my fiancé of 6?years, we live together since 4 years, but it’s kind of difficult make no contact and make them miss you more when we still live together. Any suggestions in this case? ❤

@LucasAveyard

10 ай бұрын

Get dressed up nice and hang out with your friends make sure he sees you before you go looking 🔥 that use t get me every time when my ex did this good luck hope you work it out

I distanced myself after my ex broke up with me. After about two weeks she text me. I kept the conversation brief and noticed she always reached out to me first, always telling me what she is up to etc. I then fell and started to contact her a lot. I now deleted her number and trying my hardest to focus on myself. It hurts a lot and some days I just think what is the point. Other days I am able to plough through.

Willl this help for baby momma losing feelings for me? I’ve tried so hard but she told me “you know how my feelings are rn” and kinda sad I can’t fix it, and she wanted to sleep with me again but said she don’t wanna confuse me.. give me advice on wat to do?

Coach, can you do a deep video if she left me for someone else. He’s a lowlife and I’m pretty successful. We had a beautiful thing 5 years together, her friends loved me, her family loved me and she just left me for someone that’s unemployed and gets drunk weekly. I think she started liking him 2 months before breaking up with me. And started dating him a week after our breakup. Everyone is mad at her and no one accepts the new relationship she’s in, not even her family or fiends. They are also doing long distance now. What are my chances and best things to do at this point. I’ve been in no contact 4 weeks and got a few breadcrumbs from her

@frankiemonato583

Жыл бұрын

Don't get her back as she dumped you

@FearNvl

Жыл бұрын

Let go, heal, and find a new girl. If she left you once she’ll leave ya again! Respect yourself man!!

@bordobereli6690

Жыл бұрын

Forget about her. She will do it again and again. Also with him, she will do it to him also.

@keitshepilechauke3183

5 ай бұрын

Update

There out there meeting other people this day and age

@skyfall1481

Жыл бұрын

You do the same!!! They don’t know what you’re doing. It’s about you, not what they’re doing. Replace them!

coach you good

Adding to that coach he has also hurt me badly in the past but y do i still love him or even care is it because i was loyal to him that's y am still hurting but he blocked me on everything but though he did that am grateful coz am trying to move on but i also blocked him on everything n even deleted his numbers n am planning to go no contact for a year advise me

What about if I’ve done no contact twice for only 2 weeks each time. If I want to do no contact again won’t he feel like I’ll text him just like other times. He’s cool when I text

What if the ex that you want is the baby daddy and you can't go with no contact as they will constantly be contacting you to want to see the baby then how does one put this into perspective?

Went no contact for a few weeks, she somehow sucked me back in. Im now back to square 1..

Hi Coach😅

How can i go no contact when hes moving overeas and i want to be in his company before he leaves???

Is that to say that if I wasn't present/ supportive enough for what my ex needs, I should now 'show up' for him (by letting him know I now realize I wasn't stepping up to the plate)?

@blacademic

Жыл бұрын

No. The opposite generally speaking if you got dumped.

@denisehouston7805

Жыл бұрын

​@@blacademic I have a question

What do you do if you have a buisness together. We do not see each other but we must every now and then talk to each other. I want to give her space.

So you’re saying if they have you on social media and didn’t block your # yet anything is possible? Even if you’re the dumper and reached out a few hours after the breakup apologized asking for a second chance and got ignored in return?

Does it work for short situation ships as well?

Hey coach blac I'm in the situation where my ex n I broke up on wed but she got into another relationship that same day but didn't post about it till the next day I'm serious when I say I'm done with her bc she was talking to him behind my back n I had to find out from my close friend so am I in the wrong for not wanting her in my life anymore.

@MariaMartinez_07

9 ай бұрын

Absolutely not, you’re choosing yourself over the idea that things could work. You’re doing the right thing. Think long term, this person doesn’t serve you now and isn’t showing you they could be any different. Stay strong and listen to your brain not your heart. Wishing you the best ❤

What do you do when they want to be friends? You work in the same building and have to see one another just about everyday because of your job.

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

@sasorah6414

Жыл бұрын

Don’t accept to be friends. You’ll only be making things easy for him. He wants you as an option. Cut all contact with him. When you see him at work. Treat him like you’ll treat a dude you don’t fancy.

@Eilmgh

Жыл бұрын

How do you want me to help you now

What do I do if we have no kids? We been together 8 1/2 years. We've bills together? An his stuff is still in the home we shared? He told me he doesn't want a relationship again he just want to be single? Am in no contact stage.

My boyfriend and I were very close, but then he started doing controlling things and I said some hurtful things to him, he broke up with me and changed his phone number. Three days later he called me from a random number for closure and said he loved me but we had to move on. I am terribly hurt and don't understand, because we have talked about getting engaged and building a life together. We literally talked about this a week before he broke up with me. I'm just so confused. I have no way to get in contact with him. I wonder if he misses me or he has just really moved on😢

@S7nh444

Жыл бұрын

He will miss u, but u have to move on. Dont take him back. My x girl left me too 2 month ago. I thought she Was the one, but through me away, like ur boyfriend u - stay strong, build your own value again, dont hate and go on for an adventures life of succes

My girl told me she wants a break up and she said she doesn't love anymore but she's still holding on to the things I used to give what can I really do to get her to realize her love for me

Ok 1 question... you say picc yourself being a high end brand. Ok.. done. And to make ex work and i vest.. i get the part where you say not 2 make myself readily available but what else can i do....? This really sucks because i also work with him. Not wveryday thank goodness... but he works where i work

I promised my ex that I would never do social media again and lately I’ve been wanting to get back up there. Do I go back up there or just stay in no contact and stay off there?

@macdazzy5776

Жыл бұрын

Your a free man do as you want