Take care of yourself, build the empire and invite them to complement your life.key is to build something to invite them to first -for you

@kosmik_9253

3 жыл бұрын

Or you can build it with them

@SOUSOU_82

3 жыл бұрын

@@kosmik_9253 Im with you on that thought

@LeDebutDeLaSuite

3 жыл бұрын

Yas

@javicontreras8022

3 жыл бұрын

“I’m building this thing over here… wanna help?”

@alonzor.2912

3 жыл бұрын

@@kosmik_9253 its guys like you that end up having everything the “both of you built” taken away from you when she divorces you lol. Men build it yourselves and avoid marriage. It benefits her not you in the long run and the honest ones will tell you that 💪

In german confidence translated is selbstbewusstsein, which directly translated means self awareness

@jakethasnake3524

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Charlie! I love this.

@milandidymus

3 жыл бұрын

Uhm isnt it Vertrauen, I am dutch btw, we say zelfvertrouwen

@zerodragon3096

3 жыл бұрын

@@milandidymus No, Vertrauen means trust

@milandidymus

3 жыл бұрын

@@zerodragon3096 if you get on google translate and translate it, you get my answer, google might be off but if you look at the rest that’s recommended you can’t find it either, but yhea I might be wrong

Very interesting that it's about acting "with trust." I used to be quite anxious and unconfident when I was younger and even though I became more confident through game and self improvement in the red pill sphere, I didn't truly become more confident until I surrendered to and trusted in God. Submitting to God resulted in 80% of my anxiety disappearing and being able to act and be in a way where I had real faith in God and in who I am in His plan.

@io-rj6sk

3 жыл бұрын

how does one go from unsure to fully submitting to god? i think im in the transitioning phase but unsure how to truly surrender to god? i havent been baptized yet or anything. is that the first step? and if so what about after?

@breatheeasily4013

3 жыл бұрын

@@io-rj6sk Be still, and know He is God.

@DPham1

3 жыл бұрын

@@io-rj6sk I myself haven't been baptized because I view it as a serious step, an all chips on the betting table step. I feel like I'm almost ready but not quite there yet. It's all about intention. Do you *really* want to submit, or are you just saying that. Consciously, you may want to surrender, but what about subconsciously? You have to be real with yourself. If you are honest with yourself, and you truly do want to change, then God will present an opportunity for you to surrender. If you're not ready yet, God will help you along. However, you must be *receptive* to God's signs and help. Set your intention, and God will lead the way. Trust in Him. Have faith. :)

@matej9255

3 жыл бұрын

well said sir, same here! APTTMH!

@malcolm24568

3 жыл бұрын

@@breatheeasily4013 Amen

You really have to be honest with yourself would you date you and if you wouldn’t then you must install self improvement

@breatheeasily4013

3 жыл бұрын

I would approve dating me

@geebee8989

3 жыл бұрын

How do you self-improve DNA??

@Sleazydz

3 жыл бұрын

@@geebee8989 LMAO it’s over bro

@yo-ma7701

3 жыл бұрын

Great way of looking at it

@sublimechimp

3 жыл бұрын

I found if I'm in a space where I wouldn't date/bang myself, even if I find a girl who's willing to, I sabotage the relationship. It's the self-belief that comes first.

I feel that we are not learning our spiritual lessons, deep karmic stuff. And that's why we got problems with mating because we feel that the other person is incomplete somehow and we are not attracted to that. Once we become whole, we are naturally attractive

@Dualities

3 жыл бұрын

always 2 sides to a story. I suggest practicing the horse stance exercise to be more rooted. also watch Kenichi or idk Hinomaru Sumo or The Kings avatar many good animations out there.

@sleepyblack960

3 жыл бұрын

How to become whole.?

@Dualities

3 жыл бұрын

@@sleepyblack960 find balance in things. your body and your mind. be as much as you are in your head be as much in your body. you know as a tree. have strong roots so you can have a high crown :) I suggest the horse stance exercise and watch Kenichi

@sleepyblack960

3 жыл бұрын

@@Dualities interesting, i'm always in my head but never in my body....i feel detached from it, always feel like something is missing there

@Dualities

3 жыл бұрын

@@sleepyblack960 yeah u are not the only one. I am especially like that because I'm libra sun Gemini moon zodiac. double air element. trying to stop smoking and do more trianing.also, restlness. sleep problems.

For anyone interested, I think the book Elliot was referring to was 'The Mindful attraction plan' by Athol Kay

NOW this sure does bring a smile on my face

Love you Elliot! Ur a beast 💪

Thank you Elliott 🙏🏽

Thanks to Elliott and to this awesome community. Im so glad I found this in my young years.

@Jordy_NL

3 жыл бұрын

Good to hear, Odin! I was in my 30's when I found it, but still grateful :) Do you know RSD?

@odin4232

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jordy_NL You are still young in your 30's !! No, what's RSD?

@Jordy_NL

3 жыл бұрын

@@odin4232 Yes thx mate. RSD (Real Social Dynamics) is a company that teaches men to date women. Started off as pick-up artists and evolved to life coaches. Very powerful and they helped me a lot when I became single after a 12 year long relationship. I am not sure if they still operate under the RSD name but you search for Owen Cook (RSDTyler), Julien Blanc, RSD Jeffy, RSD Max etc.

@Jordy_NL

3 жыл бұрын

@@odin4232 And Elliott worked with them back in the day. kzread.info/dash/bejne/gpWaxtFqgM_UZaw.html

@odin4232

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jordy_NL Ahh ok, didn't know about them, awesome Video!! Thanks for showing me!

1 Shave your head and take a shower daily.. 2 Eat clean and work out often and you'll feel great about yourself 3 Practice talking to barist at a coffee shop and at some point just tell them a complement it's their job to be nice to you anyway.. You already have the most difficult thing for a high value man to have and that is economic independence.. you're already ahead of most man

1:13-1:15. I've said that same thing. The Dynamic is changing

Check out Richard Cooper for this. He's saying you shouldn't get married before 30 and practice with multipe women in your 20s while also working on yourself. I know that this is contra to what elliott says, but it's another perspective some might consider

Facts

Elliot, I couldn’t find the book you’re referencing at 9:05. There are a couple other people inquiring for the same thing. Thank you

@malibongwemsomi9126

3 жыл бұрын

The mindful attraction plan - Athol Kay

Dont trust men, trust God

@edoardoronconi6328

3 жыл бұрын

Kobe❤ he taught me so much man

@breatheeasily4013

3 жыл бұрын

@@edoardoronconi6328 Im not Kobe

@edoardoronconi6328

3 жыл бұрын

@@breatheeasily4013 well, that would be great

Didn’t expect to hear about Derek from MPMD here hahha

What books do you guys recommend?

We are the biggest enemies of ourselves.

bro where is the Intro and the short snippet of the best part of the video?

Hey Elliot I've been watching videos since 2012 I'm trying to quit cigarettes and get into working out I have anxiety depression but I want to work out with you're people and I would like to do you're king seminars

Best video

Elliott for president

Bro I just rock a bold head haha, own it brother

How do I submit to you a Q and A? I have a simple question I think some people would benefit from

what's this book that Elliott speaks of at 8:55? tried searching for it, couldn't find it.

Yo Elliott, this time stay on this videos.

Women wanting you is one thing, but why would you want the 2021 women? I know more guys my age that can cook well than girls

@TheHarisBotic

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahah this comment actually made me laugh😂 very true and i will use this in talks 😂👌🏼

@Rangerfan-gz1rx

3 жыл бұрын

There’s still some good ones, most guys just don’t know how to find them or don’t even know what to look for in the first place

@hooligan2588

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rangerfan-gz1rx yeah, i believe in unicorns too

@patreeky5975

3 жыл бұрын

There are literally millions of hot women who are wife material. If you believe otherwise then you’re a victim of some kinda incel-based psyop. Snap out of it

@hooligan2588

3 жыл бұрын

@@patreeky5975 i'm sorry, i live under a rock at the bottom of the ocean, where're those "millions of hot women who are wife material" please, haven't seen one in a while and i talk to a lot of women day by day

💯

Anyone know the book he recommended at 9:05?

@aaaaaa-iw2yj

3 жыл бұрын

The Mindful Attraction Plan: Your Practical Roadmap to Creating the Life, Love and Success You Want by Athol Kay

@ColonialT7

3 жыл бұрын

@@aaaaaa-iw2yj Thanks

More plates more dates!!!!

12.5

Brothers, please hook me up w some books/ resources to better understand male/ female psychology, specifically in terms of entering the dating market. Thank you!

@jdvturbo

3 жыл бұрын

Way of the Superior Man by David Dieda. Should be required reading for every man.

@patreeky5975

3 жыл бұрын

You don’t need a book to enter the dating market. It’s a very bad idea to overcomplicate this topic. Just talk to girls often and everything will be fine

@devonlucero2113

3 жыл бұрын

@@patreeky5975 Thanks, but I never said I needed a book to enter the dating market. I dont have issues speaking with people. I just want to better understand male/ female psychology so I'm not wasting my time looking for a suitable woman. You're words are encouraging, if I were younger I'd be taking it to heart more. But I'm past that chapter in my life. Wish you the best man.

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

That depends on what country you live in

@shanev011

3 жыл бұрын

The Rational Male, explains the reality of intersexual dynamics. There are plenty of books and you tubers on "how to" interact with woman but without the understanding of what's really going on you'll still be lost. They seem like mysterious beings but once you understand their inate psychology, as tough as it can be to swallow, you can at least avoid a lot of pain.

learn how to not be afraid to fail, that way you won't be insecure because you realize that if you didn't manage to pick up this lady you are in the same position you are in now so it didn't get worse, nothing was lost. however you learned from what went wrong when you reflect on it afterwards while getting more used to talking to women and thus more comfortable with it. now if you are insecure women will sense that and it gives them an impression that you are weak which is a major turn off for them. so don't fall in love before you try to pick her up and be cool with both success and rejection because you ether win by succeeding or by the experience you gained. be funny and good at conversations, practice makes perftect and read the book elliot mentioned. about the hair loss, look at some of the people that were/is considered as sexy that had shaved heads. Vin Diesel, Dwayne Johnson etc... you could be one of those aswell. im just about to turn 33, no hair loss but i have a shaved head and i get more looks from girls now than when i had hair so don't worry about that. you got this!

I can’t find the book. Does anybody know what’s it’s called?

@malibongwemsomi9126

3 жыл бұрын

The mindful attraction plan - Athol Kay

Focus on the hobbies you like , there’s more to life than sex

@thenature4785

9 ай бұрын

Sex is just a bonus. A very small bonus to a relationship.

All I have to say is MAGISTER MILITUM

@PugFitNation

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder what Elliot thinks of the covi-19 shot? Take or not to take? Me I say Don't take that agenda 2030 bull shit. Georgia guide stones. Shit is real be war ready.

he is like my nonexistig arabic father

Im 5 ft tall, bald and a janitor. I’m only 25. Do I have any hope?

@hooligan2588

3 жыл бұрын

only if you're indian

@patreeky5975

3 жыл бұрын

To get girls you only really need swag. Even if you were good looking, it’s pretty hard to have swag and be a janitor. Get highly skilled at something valuable, and you’ll have swag

@hooligan2588

3 жыл бұрын

@@patreeky5975 good looks IS the swag bro

@ThePhoenix109

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@yungMajin909

3 жыл бұрын

Same 26 and thining hair

No way Elliot knows MPMP…this is legendary

@misstrunchbull3953

3 жыл бұрын

It's sweet

I think they wore those shirts sarcastically, I don’t think they actually wanted him to do that 😂, I think the liberal girls were wearing those

@inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905

3 жыл бұрын

You're right but he could afford any of them lol

Shoot your shot. Trust things would work out. Eventually crack the code then repeat every time.

what happened to skinny healthy fasting elliot

Does he not get that girls wore this hey Donald shirt as a joke?

Is it too late to start building yourself and business in your 30s. I pretty much wasted my 20s with depression and avoiding the world

@billcom7066

3 жыл бұрын

It’s never to late brother. Would you rather suffer the pain of discipline or regret? Start now and you will thank yourself in 10 years.

@Pedro-ci8gi

3 жыл бұрын

Go for it brother, im in the same spot as you.

@semaj4324

3 жыл бұрын

It a never to late!!! In Jesus name

@semaj4324

3 жыл бұрын

It’s never too late!!! In Jesus name.

@muzzammilhoosain4747

3 жыл бұрын

You got this man dont give up wath his old videos

build yourself and practice talking to girls

Case in point, Benedict Cumberbatch is not good looking yet women love him

I’ve had straight teeth for my whole life, in my late teens my jaw shifted and now I have to get braces smh

@insanoibro6331

3 жыл бұрын

My jaw shifted too in my late teen yrs. Probably wisdom teeth

I thought it was up to women to be attractive.... Man have times changed.

Be tall and attractive , women will simp for you 😊😊😊

@Troyance

3 жыл бұрын

Black pill lol

@TheSalami

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 5 foot 4 and probably am not gonna get any taller lol

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheSalami I knew a boy growing up that had trouble hitting his growth spurt so when he was 16-17 he got prescribed human growth hormone and now he is 6 feet tall

@arashvincent1639

3 жыл бұрын

I'm tall and attractive and broke woman may want you but once they see no money and status in you they are gone

@soufianesekkay3297

3 жыл бұрын

@@arashvincent1639 you can't attract women with money many men done that plane and nothing comes with it , the only way that you can success with women is to have confidence to believe in yourself and what you have going on

Yo Elliott! How can I get back the control over my woman?

@winter4069

3 жыл бұрын

let her know that she´s replacable, but not with words.

@AndreyLashev

3 жыл бұрын

@Saint Hurb. I really love her..

@derekl8635

3 жыл бұрын

Find a new one

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

You seem really nice I like that you won’t let these guy’s comments discourage you. You probably don’t even need advice - maybe you already know that you shouldn’t try to control someone if you love them. You’re not her boss and you won’t fire her for not doing what you want. Is it a certain pattern of behavior that bothers you? Maybe you have a tendency to be controlling and she’s being rebellious to get through to you that she is pissed about it?

@AndreyLashev

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThingsILikke maybe controlling is not the correct word. I mean the respect on me.. I feel disrespected because she does whatever she wants whenever she want , even when she put a promise to me for something..

How can i reach out to you

@nomo4u886

3 жыл бұрын

Through the dark web

@mattneal4309

3 жыл бұрын

Watch till the end and he tells you how

@hooligan2588

3 жыл бұрын

it's literally in the video description dude, learn to read labels

@kingjames3192

3 жыл бұрын

you have to make a blood sacrifice and do a summersault

@kfjn0450

3 жыл бұрын

Hypnosis

🍊 got into trouble for telling the truth.

What about ppl? men and women who may not be wealthy but want to build a life together. Not all about money.

How do you prove you have status when you’ve quit social media? I’m completely off the radar

@patreeky5975

3 жыл бұрын

Women (and people in general) can literally just look at you and know if you’re high status or not

@MarkyV83

3 жыл бұрын

@@patreeky5975 I better hit the gym harder then lol

@dantheinternetman1

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of it is in the way you hold yourself. If you pay attention to what people say, how they sound, and how they hold themselves, you can get a rough idea of who the bullshitter is and who the real one is. One huge giveaway is someone's back & neck posture. Someone high in status will have a naturally more erect posture. People try to fake that posture, but someone with real status looks differently than someone trying to hold themselves erect in an attempt to appear high status. Clothing and the things you wear can signify you MAY have status.

@Nyeusi

3 жыл бұрын

Image, my friend. How you are perceived matters. How you walk, how you look, how you behave, if all of that is wrapped up your confidence, women will notice you without effort.

@MarkyV83

3 жыл бұрын

Great answers 🙌

Jack Nicolson is single

Pure contradiction

Make her laugh.

If you're balding shave your head

Build a stable and secure nest and bird(s) will find it.

Isn't it useful though to find somebody who also doesn't have it all figured out? Maybe sometimes you're able to grow and change together? I'm not saying you're a complete loser but like i'm not sure a relationship is always a tyrant and a slave

Tell him to get a man unit. Hi bro, if you are bald, try a Manunit.

So basically work hard, so that someday some lady will decide to hopefully choose you as her long-term victim to parasite and feed from.

@titosantana4713

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂Essentially.

No matter how nonsensically a man is formed, it's the wallet that matters.

@bernthalbabe313

3 жыл бұрын

No matter how nonsensically a women is formed it’s the body that matters. Yeah kinda sad how people don’t see others as individuals anymore just as something to use

@uncleh573

3 жыл бұрын

@@bernthalbabe313 People have only ever seen people as something to use. Disney lied to you bro. Nobody cares about you if you don’t provide value & nobody should. That’s communist thinking that everybody should be cared for regardless of what they do. No. Only those help add value to society should be respected unless they are physically or mentally impaired and unable to which is different.

@bernthalbabe313

3 жыл бұрын

@@uncleh573 wrong. You may think that way but I don’t. Family or friends for example, real family and friends don’t need to provide for me to love them. It’s unconditional. But have fun being used though, that mentality is wrong

@uncleh573

3 жыл бұрын

@@bernthalbabe313 Well family is a given, I didn’t mention that because that’s common sense. Friends, yes that can be the case. But most people outside of that will always require something of value from you. It’s the way the world is. Useless people don’t rewarded.

@bernthalbabe313

3 жыл бұрын

@@uncleh573 well if someone isn’t your family or your friend why would they love you unconditionally? You have to be useful in some type of way to them, doesn’t necessarily mean they’re “using” you

Who cares.

@ronbrown8611

2 жыл бұрын

Who cares what you say

Nah, it's because Donald trump is a meme

put $3000 and you will have your hairs back...poor guy living in a closet

@Business-gu9ey

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine valuing your hair at $3000 lmfao, what is he, a woman?

Poor guy, losing your hair is rough. Go to a qualified plastic surgeon or a highly recommended medical spa (I recommend a plastic surgeon, medical spas are not as skilled and they overcharge) and get platelet rich plasma injections. They work and are worth the several hundred dollars. You live in a time that you can reverse many things that cause you insecurity and the better you look the better you will feel. It's a waste of energy trying to psych yourself up to ignore something you can easily fix and your quality of life will improve from it.

@nicholashaert4816

3 жыл бұрын

Ignore that! Start eating healthy(nutrition) and go to the gym. This is a place where you can think peacefully and “fail” by one’s own means. One will gain mental fortitude and women will notice that someone is living a healthy life. Using Elliot as an example, if he did not lead a healthy life who would he be giving advice. Anyway, my point is to build value in yourself. Someone can pay for it but one does not gain the value from the work it took. Easier to end up on the same place.

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicholashaert4816 I disagree. The problem is this guy is sad that he is losing his hair. He doesn’t need a personality adjustment, he needs hair. So go buy some hair! Life is very hard and there will be many things beyond your control that happen that make you sad and depressed that you cannot do anything about. Save your energy and emotions for those things and fix the small problems easily. Losing hair is a small problem that has a detrimental effect on people - why go through that for no good reason?

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicholashaert4816 Your advice is literally like Patrick Star in the episode where Spongebob’s breath stinks and he scares everyone away. Patrick tells him to say “I’m ugly and I’m proud” and get used to it when all Spongebob had to do was brush his teeth.

@nicholashaert4816

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThingsILikke You’re right. I feel as though I did not fully spell out everything. This is my issue because I do have ADHD and I think everyone is already on board with my train of thought(I don’t believe in medication). If one is to work out and follow stricter nutrition, one will gain a better physique. While hair is something a woman can see, a better physique would cover that deficiency. A healthy physical lifestyle leads to a healthier mentality. The only thing I cannot say is helped is one’s spiritual health but your purpose can be found easier without these other obstacles standing in your way. I think Dr. Suess put it the best way. “Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not” -Dr. Seuss

@ThingsILikke

3 жыл бұрын

@@nicholashaert4816 I mean, someone’s appearance can be changed as they want - it’s like an actor. Vin Diesel always shaved his head because he played Italian men in all his roles and he’s actually not Italian- his hair is jerry curly because he’s half black. He could put on a rug like Colin Farrel has done in movies and play different characters that way. Colin Farrel has very beautiful hair and he gets the prp treatments too- he’s a lot older than he claims To be and the hair line and Botox keep him looking younger. He has shaved his head for Movies too when he played soldiers. If you feel really self-conscious about something or you are just curious about how your behavior would change if your appearance would change, then just go try out the new look until you find one that you like. I imagine going to the medical Spa and spending $2,000 for a new head of hair is easier than lifting a ton of weight to get giant. I have seen a lot of giant muscular bald guys and i never knew that get big to make up for the hair loss. That’s sad- I wonder how these guys would change if they just got some hair it’s certainly more productive