1. Women dont want you to solve their problems, they want you to connect to them on emotional level, feel how they feel or understand how they feel but without acting up on it. You need to stay strong, untouched, unshaken emotionally. 2. Women want to feel more positive emotions than negative. If she feels positive emotions around you she will love you. When she starts to feel too much negative emotions she will leave you. 3. Woman wants to date up. They want to be proud of their man. They want to bragg about him. 4. Women want to follow their man but only if he is sure about himself and where he is going and that it is a direction which will benefit them both in the future 5. Your relationship is a mirror of how you are doing in life. Have you noticed that whenever you are doing great in life, your woman is all over you, always wants your attention and loves you to bits. When you are not showing up in life, you are lazy and weak, your woman gets disinterested in you

@flamingomingo9810

8 ай бұрын

I love point #4 especially; I think there’s this misconception between women wanting to be imprinted upon and women not having brains at all which can choose who we want to be imprinted by. A lot of us are in denial of what we truly want/need, but in order to be in denial, one has to know what they want in the first place. Otherwise that’s just cluelessness, and we wouldn’t even get to the point of denial at all. We know that choosing to be imprinted by superficial things is wrong for our own well being, but we’re so deep into our denial that we lie to ourselves. Men have to show us how to get out of the lies we tell ourselves and reveal the truth we already know. That’s so much different from just thinking we’re babies that can’t decide for ourselves what will benefit us or who we want to follow. You guys have to tell us the truth, because we’ll know if you’re lying (since deep down in our subconscious, we know we’re lying to ourselves). We know we’re lying because if we didn’t, we’d all be happy in these delusions, but clearly we’re not.

You are not to FIND her a solution. You ARE her solution.

It's not that a woman just wants to wine and not solve problems. She wants to connect with you on an emotional level. Women are emotional

Elliot is back with the wisdom videos. Love it. I've started watching your videos as a single young man, and almost 10 years later, I'm married, 3 kids, a house, working hard, sure I'm still learning some stuffs, but overall I've accomplished what I thought was impossible as a youngling, because of your wisdom and mentorship Elliot. Thanks infinitely brother.

I love when he breaks it down in his poetic, esoteric fashion. It really just brings another dimension of understanding to it

Excellent analogies, the man’s job is to neutralise the negative state by their positive presence and that comes in different forms. With experience you’d come to appreciate it as a form of need you have fulfilled as a life partner. What you receive will be worthwhile in the long term.

@shailstube

2 жыл бұрын

The positive presence may come in different forms, but why invite negativity into your life in the first place. Sometimes, one negative trait ruins the whole experience - a negative attitude or general hatred toward the other gender. One must choose his/her struggles very carefully.

@monathinkworth2339

2 жыл бұрын

@@shailstube I agree the analogy is applicable after discernment of what constitutes a good spouse. Everyone has flaws, the question is if it is worth compromising given the positive outweighs the negative in the long term. It’s a growth process, nobody is flaw-less. Thank you for responding.

Solid insights, Elliott. Keeping it real as always, my bro. so glad to be a loyal subscriber of yours for like the past 6 years. I really need to join your private group. you are a massive inspiration.

You inspire us with every video that you do, Elliot. Thank you so much! I just got done listening to Eve in Exile and the Restoration of Femininity by Rebekah Merkle, narrated by Rebekah Merkle on my Audible app. I think you and the rest of your subscribers would really enjoy it! Here is the summary of the book: “The swooning Victorian ladies and the 1950s housewives genuinely needed to be liberated. That much is indisputable. So, First-Wave feminists held rallies for women's suffrage. Second-Wave feminists marched for Prohibition, jobs, and abortion. Today, Third-Wave feminists stand firmly for nobody's quite sure what. But modern women -- who use psychotherapeutic antidepressants at a rate never before seen in history -- need liberating now more than ever. The truth is, feminists don't know what liberation is. They have led us into a very boring dead end. “Eve in Exile sets aside all stereotypes of mid-century housewives, of China-doll femininity, of Victorians fainting, of women not allowed to think for themselves or talk to the men about anything interesting or important. It dismisses the pencil-skirted and stiletto-heeled executives of TV, the outspoken feminists freed from all that hinders them, the brave career women in charge of their own destinies. Once those fictionalized stereotypes are out of the way -- whether they're things that make you gag or things you think look pretty fun -- Christians can focus on real women. What did God make real women for?” Try Audible and get it here: www.audible.com/pd?asin=B07S75YL54&source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=player_overflow

I really have so much respect for this man! He always knows how to explain things very clearly without bullshit. I am watching this guy since his old videos and he always manages to talk about things from our time. Also notice that the world from 10 years ago isn't the same world we live in today(people change,new social media as tiktok other standards,new problems,..), but Elliot always has good information about all topics that are applicable for today's situations and for that i am very greatfull!

Golden content as always. Men come back to that seed and essence. Strengthen it always and when a woman comes you an imprint upon her as she helps build the vision 🙏💯

@isaiahdryg5010

2 жыл бұрын

Your channel is golden too. You and elliot are two of my favorites, keep it up🤙

@balasaravanan500

2 жыл бұрын

Why not you both do a collab ?

@MezbahRijvee

2 жыл бұрын

Both of you guys got that bracelet on 🙏

Been here since day 1 and now this channel is at almost 1 million 🙏

what a lucky guy imagine finding a woman like that in 2022

Really solid advice here, thanks Elliot! OUT!

Great info!

I’ve prayed for you for quite some time. I see that you are doing very well! Nice holy art. 🤐

Political views and religious views matter. A Catholic man should never marry a non-Catholic lady because not every woman will change. It'll also be harder on your kids because your views on God will be different. You wanna marry someone that'll help get you and your kids to Heaven. But if you don't wanna listen to my advice, that's your business.

Thank you for this, Elliott.

The knowledge of the laws of nature and natures God allow us all to be self-governing...if this knowledge is comprehended by a couple, naturally the female would be (submissive, low, negative). Elliot is a living example of this truth. Elliot demonstrates self governance and comprehension of the laws of nature and divinity through his entrepreneurship. ..... In short, an intentionally self governing man has the greatest opportunity to have a successful relationship and family.

One of the best videos

This makes perfect sense brother.

Thanks Elliot ☝🏼

Women: "Men are so difficult." "I don't know what men want." Men: "I want sex, silence, food and cooperation." It's definitely not the men who over complicate the situation.

respect for your work from ancient Greece, still holding some traditional values in Europe along with serbians, poles, and a few others..

I’m 22 and even though I’m a believer and actually want to live my life by principles of scripture the best way I can I find church guys to be socially awkward. I’ll admit I’m socially awkward and a little quiet and stand offish I rarely post on social media and if it is it’s only a face picture or I’m fully clothed if it’s a full picture. I feel like because I want a family like right now dating an older guy is what’s in my best interest because I never was promiscuous but socially I am awkward and stand offish but physically I’m on point and I’m quiet and I like to listen and I’m interested in what the other person is doing but I don’t like a lot of church guys because they are socially awkward and I want a guy who is maybe more worldly in the sense of he knows things and can show me things and have deep conversations about life. People tell me I’m young don’t worry about marriage but for me it’s urgent because I can’t survive out by myself being independent and it’s not because I don’t know anything but I am the weaker vessel who has cultivated and have worked on her feminine since graduating high school

@mrdanyo1223

2 жыл бұрын

church guys are awkward?

@lauramakin834

2 жыл бұрын

You're a decent girl and way to young to settle down with an older man. Please don't make that same mistake that I did (at age 23). I got pregnant and stuck with an older man who turned out to be a narcissist (and pedo). Looking back, I am now 53, I was too young and naive to realize what I was getting myself into. Older men take advantage and manipulate younger women. Some also dominate and abuse ! I wish my mother had talked me out of it, she did try but I thought I knew better. Big Mistake ! Much love from Brighton UK.

@lauramakin834

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrdanyo1223 Hopefully all the awkward girls and guys can grow together

@bodnarova05

2 жыл бұрын

@@lauramakin834 not always the case, although sorry this happened. She should go for someone at least 7-10 years her senior.

@bodnarova05

2 жыл бұрын

Men mature slower than women. Meet men who are 30-40 years old. A lot of men don’t mature until they’re Eliots age. Say you are looking for marriage on the first date. If you want kids, say so as well. A lot of men I went on a date with had a vasectomy or didn’t want kids, so it’s important to mention your stance. Try upscale lounges / nicer restaurants. Or nice areas of your town. Look up Shera Seven here on KZread , check her older videos. She speaks on this subject quite a lot. I definitely recommend marrying an older man who’s a provider and lets you stay at home. It’s a blessing !

Appreciate ya

Uncle Elliot❤️

I can attest this is so true

Big muscles Big status Confidence and competent.

Be a badass That pursues EXCELLENCE

The entire Universe is conspiring to give you everything you want. Think of all the good things in your life. And now realize that you brought them all into your life. Your thoughts and feelings moved the energies of the Universe to bring all those good things to you. You are a powerful being. Much Love from a Law Of Attraction KZreadr 💜

Preachin gospels out here 🙏🏼

4:30 😂 that was good

HAAAAA you played on st John's my godfather was your coach I made varsity football as a freshmen and he gave me a bunch of stjohns stuff including a yearbook you were a defense tackle AND fullback I thought that was so cool also was into working out benched 400 at 19 and could touch rim at 5'6

This man is true master or should i say king

I'm so happy I found your content during my first year of university. My highs cool girlfriend dumped my ass and left me wondering who I am and what my purpose is in life. Thinking about going into trading school or working for a labor intensive company. Thanks plenty Elliot

I njeeded this thank you

You should listen to Jonathan Pageau. A lot of how you say and view things reminds me of how he says and views things

Oh my gosh brother 🤦🏻‍♂️. Don’t lose this opportunity for yourself. Your brighter self won’t forgive yourself.

Yooo eliot! Men are like a blowtorch and women are like a oven .. Very wise words .. I had the privilege to talk to a friend much older than me the other day .. And he mentioned "Natural progression" he mentioned something to his wife and at first she was completely against it and slower over the years God worked it out into his favor .. Eventually she gave in to the idea .. The idea was to send their daughters to a boarding school .. Completely agree with the theory .. 🙌 Just mentioning .. I think to prevent a man from being "dictator" I feel a good way to look at it is that God is doing to work in the background not you .. So it doesn't matter what you say if it isn't his plan it won't come to light..

When it comes to women, while your words are important, your actions say way more. Let your actions speak for you. I learned that too late with this one woman that I grew to care for quite a bit, and now it's too late.

“Where have all the good men gone And where are all the Gods? Where’s a streetwise Hercules To fight to rising odds? Isn’t there a White Knight upon a fiery steed? Late at night, I toss and I turn, And I dream of what I need!” Give her what she needs 💪

@kannie_k8888

2 жыл бұрын

She need's a hero..ohh :D

@btf1287

2 жыл бұрын

The D?

@joedohn9727

2 жыл бұрын

@@btf1287 yes, but no.

Teach, tailor, take control. That's how you win women over. That simple. It's like with a business. Win over the client and the deal is set. Same with women. Teach, tailor, take control!

Yo elliot really love what you do and a lot of times when I been into darkness or lost I go get to your videos. But one thing I don't understand or not find a solution for Is my loneliness... Like for years now, been now 28 and I actually always felt lonely, never really any good friends maybe one... But then he don't like things to do.. But I try now to get into new groups going out alone and I can make a conversation but it still sucks, because I ask then how they know each other and mostly it's already from back into childhood or education and I feel I missed out so much because back into my school carrière trough extremely bullying I never even had any friends.. And that's maybe also why I can't so engage with people or how to really build meaningful friends. And I am really fucking scared I would end up alone :(

@jibrillndny9126

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZHeXytGOgaWXZqg.html

@jibrillndny9126

Жыл бұрын

He made a video about this

Wow.

Any books to understand this

He's a goose.

💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏🙏

This is why I’m done dating women are to confusing to understand. Just as you do all the rite things there’s something else or they change there ways cause of the corrupt world we live in.

@adfohukafoju5759

2 жыл бұрын

True. Dating is all competition. Focus your energy on yourself

@user-fp6rn2km4i

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, it seems impossible to impress. I'm willing to fix my weaknesses and grow into a mature man and play out my role as a man but it seems that I'm never enough. She's always got her eye on another man. So I'm not sure if I should just turn away from girls an go my own way

"I'm just doing it for me." Ha. Hahaha. As if that's an acceptable answer. If you cheated on your husband, who would you be doing that for? YOU! Etc. Y'all get the train of thought.

You don't. Stop seeking external validation.

I am 6 ft 5. 230 lean. And i make good money and have model like features + golden hair. I make music on a high level (not this account) , and have my own construction company. I recently joined instagram, and i have girls hitting me up daily on there.. We are real, Elliott. The 1%. I do not remember the last time someone told me they loved me though. This world is so fake.

@no8592

2 жыл бұрын

Good job! Make sure to keep your standards high so you'll have an positive impact on Women

@adfohukafoju5759

2 жыл бұрын

@@no8592 good comment and respect your sense

@kannie_k8888

2 жыл бұрын

Don't fall for those girls. Most of them are toxic and have "done their work" with a lot of men. They are after good looking men with successful careers because they want to compete with other woman, want to leach off a man because they have no money and depends on men to buy them expensive stuff for them to show off in social media and this types of woman will jump to the next guy after they have figured you out and got bored of your routines.

I'm a woman and this is spot on! Haha brilliant lol x

Vice versa. Men too.... get it together females... yall want and rush monogamy first

😭

I feel bad about all my friends cat-ladies. They are completely unattractive and turn me off 😂 and they be complaining they can't find a man

😂

Jessie Lee Peterson married? (Nope) (75+ Years old)

I READ THE BOOK HARD TIMES CREATE STRONG MEN IM ON PAGE 403 BEFORE MY MOM THREW MY BOOK AWAY! SIGH! BUT ILL BUY ANOTHER ONE AT TARGET I READ IT AS MUCH TO FIND MYSELF I AM 22 AND I AM IN COLLEGE!

@juniorvatukoula5957

2 жыл бұрын

Why would your Mum throw out that book??

6 inches?? Minimum for me is 8.5

6inch?? Hahahah I think a lot of us have that easy

Fight me in the chat you big fayut boomas! 💆📲😵

I'm like a blowtorch alright but my ex was like a ventilator. Not a good combination when I tried to turn her on.

1: Be attractive 2: don’t be not attractive 3: JuSt bE cOnFiDeNt 4: Have money and or status You’re welcome ☺️

@Milo19970

2 жыл бұрын

And also make sure she does not have a higher degree than you. Most of the time that will lead to issues when she makes more money. And if the girl claims that is not true its either she is very rare, has never dated someone with a lower degree or will be talked into dumping you by their friends and family because it became a toxic standard that man should make more money than woman. These are my reasons why i will never date a woman with a higher degree even though i personally don’t care if she makes more money. But society is society and we have to deal with it in a smart way.

@kinqzbitz

2 жыл бұрын

Lol bro just be confident is the worst advice ever

Man you've been with the same lady for 5 decades, what do you know about women ?

@rahulkulkarni536

9 ай бұрын

Everything

This guy aged

@Thulnar

2 жыл бұрын

So will you... and us all.

@Tahacolt

2 жыл бұрын

mean

@maateverywhere

2 жыл бұрын

Lets see how you look at his âge 😎

@2kchallengewith4video

2 жыл бұрын

Im not saying this in a negative way. Im just pointing it out because I havent seen him in a while

@e.h.1843

2 жыл бұрын

have a look at his 40 years old video, he looked 25 because he was super lean. he got a bit of fat in the face right now

Are ypu sure he found a woman, or isnt just keeping her locked in his basement?

666, 6 ft + 6 in + 6 figures Plus

@activatekruger446

2 жыл бұрын

How pig is your benis??

@jamesoconnor2990

2 жыл бұрын

Might actually dig into the stats and find out what percent of men in the us have these traits

Did I hear correctly? They're not married. Submitting is for spouses.

I just gotta come back to his videos from time to time just to see all the crazy. Makes for a good laugh. Man, what the fuck happened to the old badass Elliot who would give decent lifting advice? This dude use to be alpha, now he's just... fuckin' weird.

Clean your popfilter bro

hes def a man written by a man...jesus christ

Jesus is black and all those saints in the back should be black