This was fantastic! I'm finally putting myself out there as health coach, and it's scary, and exciting. The hardest thing for me, as a 5w4, is gaining clients. I'm being consistent in my writing on LinkedIn and Facebook, building that audience and having people remember me...

@mollieirvine1026

8 ай бұрын

Wishing you the best of luck with that!!!

@AbbeyHowe

8 ай бұрын

That's great! It can take a lot longer than we would like to build an audience. But the biggest thing is consistency... and putting out GOOD content. So whatever you can do to enhance your skills in that area can be really helpful! ♥️

Amazing! Beautiful journey - thank you for your authenticity!

@AbbeyHowe

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

I have been thinking about getting certified for several years, but am having trouble finding thorough secular certification programs. Do you have any to recommend?

@AbbeyHowe

8 ай бұрын

How amazing! So I don't have one-on-one experience taking a program other than Beth McCord's and one-off classes from other Enneagram teachers. However, I've heard good things about Enneagram University and Enneagram Institute!

@francesca.pellegrino

8 ай бұрын

@@AbbeyHowe Good to know thanks! I'd been heavily considering Enneagram University, but was hoping to find feedback off of their website, which isn't easy to find. XD

After some difficulty I've figured out I'm an 8w9 SX/SP. I've been through a bad situation where I was being controlled by an abusive sociopath so I've taken on the negative behavior of a 5. I have no energy, no drive, no desire, no long-term plan, no joy, n no desire to get up. I'm not depressed I just feel broken. Could you please list some ways of helping an 8w9 SX/SP to get back to their true self?

@AbbeyHowe

8 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through that... that's awful. First and foremost, I recommend speaking to a licensed therapist (and a lot of therapists are educated in the Enneagram too!). They will be able to offer personalized and professional wisdom and advice that I could never give through a KZread comment. But generally, when Eights are low, I always recommend moving their body. Eights need to be physically active. They've got SO MUCH passion and fight in them. Now, it sounds like all of that has been drained from you and you're leaning into your stress arrow - Type Five. However, this is why it's even more important for you to gift your body movement. It's the best way for Fives to connect with themselves outside of their brain, and it's a really good way for Eights to find their way back to themselves. I hope that helps. I'm sorry life has been hard. It will get better.

@mouserun8800

8 ай бұрын

@@AbbeyHowe thank you 🌺

I've never tried chick Fillet. I'm from UK. So all I have had was McDonald's and KFC.

@AbbeyHowe

8 ай бұрын

You have to try it next time you’re in the US!!

@sagieaesir13

8 ай бұрын

don't eat homophobic chicken plssss