How To Make Him Worry About Losing You - 5 Steps
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Make him worry about losing you...
Have you ever felt like you could "forget" to call your man - and he wouldn't even notice?
Do you feel like he's taking you for granted?
Wouldn't it be nice to make him worry for once about the relationship? And even better - make him worry that he might be losing YOU?
I'm pretty sure every woman has asked herself these questions at one time or another.
Knowing that someone misses you and is afraid of losing you is the ultimate power in relationships. And it's also a power you should be very careful of manipulating.
Look, I won't kid you - we all fantasize about this from time to time. Even guys.
It's easy to assume that the other person is always going to be there for you. Once a relationship starts, we all hope this means we don't have to worry about losing them, right?
I mean, we all want the peace and security of being in a stable relationship. The problem is when the guy doesn't tell you where he is, what he's doing, or who he's doing it with. Leaving you feeling unsure, and insecure.
Wouldn't it be great if you could make HIM worry about you for once...?
Well you can... And I'm going to show you 5 ways to make him worry about losing you...
And let me insert my little "Game Disclaimer" here:
I don't approve of game playing... but let's face it - ALL social interactions are a form of game playing. I show you how to do these things not to manipulate, but to leverage the power of healthy interactions to get the romantic results you want...
'Nuff said?
Good, let's get on with it:
TIP 1: Remind him of life without you...
A man will quickly forget how crappy it was without you. He'll forget in just a few days just how alone and sex-free his life was before you came into the picture.
So you should remind him on occasion. (Gratitude is forgotten quickly - but loss is felt right down the the bones.)
There are a ton of ways you can do this one:
- Make plans with your girlfriends on a night you usually spend with him. Be prepared for his best "sad little boy face." Let him pout it out. He needs a little incentive to remember what he's got.
- Be vague about plans you've got that don't include him. Let him wonder about where YOU are and what YOU are up to for once. Stop being so accountable for him.
- Stop answering his texts so quickly. Yeah, I know - he complains when YOU don't answer quickly, but when HE doesn't you get crickets.
Flirt with other guys. No, this does not constitute cheating on your part.
We all know women flirt. Flirting does not imply that you're a slut, either. What it does is remind him that you're not a possession - you're a subscription that is always up for renewal.
TIP 2: Stand up to him...
Here's something about guys you might not know:
The reason you don't get what you want from a man is usually because you're offering the OPTION to him.
Chances are, you've gotten used to communicating with women - where being firm and telling it like it is will get you thrown out of the group.
But this isn't how men work.
If you give a man an option, he'll take the one that works best for him. It's not selfishness, really. (Well, okay, it's a little bit selfish.) It's mostly about his convenience.
So in a relationship, it's very tempting to a woman to "go along to get along." Don't rock the boat, right?
Wrong...
Men respond to backbone in a woman.
We don't like pushy, annoying women. But we LOVE it when you challenge us.
Don't be so easygoing about your relationship. The nature of men is that we will simply take anything for granted that is handed to us.
Don't let things get TOO easy in your relationship.
Make your man worry about losing you for once - TIP 3: Make him wonder...
Our imaginations are a fertile playground... It's easy to make someone wonder what you're up to.
Sometimes we do this by mistake... We forget an important date or event - or the time of some friend's party. And our absence is noted.
So right now I'm telling you that you need to intentionally forget your man a little bit. And make him wonder what's going on with you. It reminds him that he's not the be all, end all of your life.
For example, texting. Yeah, you know you do it.
But why?
Because texting is to a woman what ESPN is to a guy...
A way to feel connected. In touch with the "score" - if you will - of your priorities.
For men, that might be his pro football or basketball team.
For women, it's your relationships.
And the score is ESSENTIAL.
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this is why i'm just giving up on relationships... "make him" this... "make her" that.... how about "MAKE" yourself a better person and go from there...
@joycebf2927
6 жыл бұрын
I love what you're saying. So awesome!
@thejaneeyre
6 жыл бұрын
True
@xianjosh623
6 жыл бұрын
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@aliabelil7795
6 жыл бұрын
mwarnken1234 I think the same .lol
@jbynum67
6 жыл бұрын
mwarnken1234 that's what I'm talking about! Sociology proves it over and over again that you must work on yourself first.
1) Remind him of life without you2) Stand up to him3) Make him wonder4) Keep your boundaries5) Make him fantasize about you Great tips!
I want him to treat me the way he did when we first met. He was more loving and attentive
@HelloKittyFreak96
6 жыл бұрын
latonya McKinney i am in this exact situation :/
@nadyasaid7087
6 жыл бұрын
latonya McKinney i know what the feeling.. i also feel the same right know.. n now i start to ignore him.. so he might realize what our value for them..
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6 жыл бұрын
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@fatimajarju6813
6 жыл бұрын
latonya McKinney same problem here😑
@dinawest9942
6 жыл бұрын
same
If a man loves you then you dont have to play any of these manipulative games! Its a two way street. Love comes naturally and when two people truly love each other things come naturally~ Lies and manipulation is never a healthy or normal frame of mind to apply!
This does not work if the guy is not interested lol
my focus is on God.
@sharonb.1470
6 жыл бұрын
Yvonne De-Souza ..im also a DSouza too! where are you?
@desertstar7199
6 жыл бұрын
Amen !
@EVA-ki5vw
6 жыл бұрын
God Bless You
@bellavida19
6 жыл бұрын
Yvonne De-Souza best way to be!!! May God keep you blessed!
@smartpoota9223
6 жыл бұрын
Then be a nun
If a man wants to walk away just let him. No one is forced to be with anyone and we all have the freedom of choice. I will spend all my energy on me and my journey and he cant do the same
I Wouldnt waste my energy !!!! Jst move on...NEXT!
@carriea.2467
6 жыл бұрын
egyptnz27 YOU GOT IT DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME THEY ARE NOT WORTH SHIT.
@sivemadikidikane6687
6 жыл бұрын
egyptnz27 hahaha, you my typa girl. I'd do the same too babe
@Alena-xoxo
6 жыл бұрын
egyptnz27 lmfaoo same all this back and forth bullshit is for little boys and girl's ain't no one got time for tht..... If he or she doesn't realise ur worth on their own and tht ur special, then they def aren't the one for u...shldnt waste time on proving ur worth it either. I always say work on urself and the right one will come along😊
@shubhangijepulkar9825
6 жыл бұрын
great.... but dear not everybody can move on.. and even if we, things changed a lot in next relationship because of past experiences..
I got a feeling my man has watched this video and was using these "techniques" on me. When I reminded him of life without me, he made sure I know how much he can enjoy himself without me. When I do not reply his texts as often, he slowed the pace even further and eventually just stopped texting. When I tried to play vague and made him wonder, he kind of stopped himself from wondering and instead went after another lady who was ready for his every beck and call. In other words, he likes what he can get easily.
@lilackey
6 жыл бұрын
I got you my dear! The sign of our times: what you can get easily - you go for it. Unless you've been raised with moral backbone where the honesty, love, honour are your priorities in life. Nobody's perfect, but there're some boundaries we shouldn't cross nor manipulate. Well, all in all - when there's Love there's compassion, understanding and forgiveness, rather than looking for an advantage.
@prahlee
6 жыл бұрын
oh man, your relationship sounds depressing. If I were you, I would just tell him what's on your mind and tell him what you want in a relationship and ask him if he sees any "lights at the end of the tunnel" for your relationship. If not, he's not worth it and just let him go. When I was in college, I knew quite a few who had such relationships as how you described yours. The ladies went back to college so not to focus on their breakusp. They are now glad they went back to college and better themselves and glad that heart brokens happened otherwise they would be stuck with those jerks... I kept in touch with one of them, the Jerk whose broke her heart and left her felt useless now really wants her back till this day and even willing to marry her, many times he asked the last few years but she's now the VP of a corporation. She has so many filthy hot rich guys who pursue her so why she does not even take the time to look at a useless person like him. Education and improving oneself are such sweet recipes and will open your opportunity in any regards and will especially make you more confident of yourself.
@namratabhattacharya9280
6 жыл бұрын
Lydia P. Mirror his actions
@melodyzonunmawii4330
6 жыл бұрын
Same goes to me
@tasyamilan1594
6 жыл бұрын
same here :(
I love that line about not being a possession but a subscription, that's awesome. I wish such simple steps would work in my situation. If I made plans unexpectedly, didn't call/text him, or simply disappeared for the night without warning or explanation, he wouldn't care at all.
@BARBIEJA4ANDI
6 жыл бұрын
Michaela Worley that seems to be my problem too. He’s asking for another time out. Lol. Like I can control that. It is what it is.
@xianjosh623
6 жыл бұрын
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@natachasmith8819
6 жыл бұрын
So you need to walk away
@bethanygee6939
6 жыл бұрын
You're too beautiful to let a man not care about you... hugs.
@ArabDude123
6 жыл бұрын
That line you loved so much is a reason not to invest in a long term relationship. You cannot envision a future with someone who's behaviour reminds you that they are willing to walk away any day.
LOVE IT! Also.....be prepared to WALK AWAY!
@BrandiEckert
6 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@saraholivia7639
6 жыл бұрын
Sherri Lynn why do you say that?
@taylor_love7431
6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@gregjohnson298
6 жыл бұрын
Be prepared for him to let you walk away.Men are fed up with womens mind games.Not worth the effort anymore.
@tammysalazar3929
6 жыл бұрын
Sherri Lynn exactly
I don't think this works. there are too many other options today and if your not available and answering your man he'll move on to the next option on social media.
@onangelwings462
6 жыл бұрын
and FYI I don't even pee if he can hear me from outside the door, lol.
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6 жыл бұрын
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@Lindathemightywitch
6 жыл бұрын
You have a lot of options too! Don't forget!
@solohmagazzy3734
6 жыл бұрын
True
doesn't apply to Narcissits
@neelyfortune7715
6 жыл бұрын
My last relationship....
@FreedomofSpeech865
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent point
@Lisa-me9iz
6 жыл бұрын
Mrs Koyote amen
@Heatherlily
6 жыл бұрын
Yup, I just ended my relationship last night with my boyfriend who’s a narcissist... I told him I was done, got no text back...
@joyful7650
6 жыл бұрын
True
Exactly true! If you're always just being there he won't show and feel value..
This advice is for couples who are not in love but live in disfunctional relationships. All those tips are about manipulation and have nothing to do with following your heart. They are coming from a place of insecurity, they are temporary fix. Definitely not long-term. Relationships are way more complicated than that, most of the people don't know who they are deep inside and they aren't aware that all the answers lay within them. Haha definitely do not listen to that bad advice.
Seriously, if it's not working and you want it to.. talk it through with him and if things don't feel like they're improving, or you're both completely different people at the end of the day, it's time to call it off. Don't be scared of being on your own.. we don't HAVE to be with someone. you all have full lives to live.. go out and make it an adventure. Don't rely on a partner to provide your happiness
the guy I was seeing for 2 and a half years dumped me almost 2 months ago and he got into a relationship with someone else a few days later he actually told me she makes him happy and she treats him good and that he doesn't want me in his life he even changed his number and deleted his whatsapp it hurt like hell still does but watching this video has opened my eyes I was quick to reply to his messages I even apologized if I took more then an hour I always available
If he needs that kind of manipulation to be involved, you might as well walk away before you get involved. That kind of guys should not build any family or have kids.
This guy keeps it real ! No bullshit and no batting around the bush just straight to the point
I think I would rather just discuss my issues with my sweetie. This advice makes my stomach turn.
I did these steps along time ago. It has worked. Love this tactic♥️
I could listen to you talk all day....you're wonderful. Thanks as always for the great advice. Hugs
What you said about how a woman feels and what she does for her relationship is all true. Thanks for the insight you provided.
Thank you Carlos great ideas, I will definitely use them!
I ALWAYS wondered how Come guys that we are not that interested always value us and chase us, but the ones we like don’t. It’s because we do all these tips (ignoring him etc) to the guy we don’t really like. Ps ur voice is sooooo soothing. I’m literally falling asleep listening 😴💤🛌🌙
Wow thank you soooo mich for this video, I really needed this one!!!!!
Please don't take this route people. When the foundation of the relationship is not build upon trust (everyone knows this- but few wants to believe it, no it's not a fairy tale) these techniques might seem to be working for a short time but it will ruin and do more harm than good. When the other person finds out you have been manipulating him, it will be hard for him or her to trust you again. Be careful with your words and actions, you can apologize but you can never undo the harm that was done.
@justinao5921
6 жыл бұрын
Dont base your relationship on rules. Just live life and enjoy your love.
@khushisharma4854
6 жыл бұрын
absolutely correct
@lisaroponei5819
6 жыл бұрын
Very true..I've experienced it my self
@clarissadavis7910
6 жыл бұрын
Sexxi Cee Cee👄 sounds very manipulating
@perniesweemmer51
6 жыл бұрын
Ano I'm confused...why can you see no reply messages even though it shows x number of replies available...but when you try to go into them they're blank 🤔
Yes he needs to feel that way
Thank you 😊😊❤️for sharing ❤️
Lol!!! If a man is really in love with you.. you will definitely know it and you will never have to play these silly games to get his attention.. you will already have it.
Thank You Carlos for the great advise
CARLOS YOU ARE THE MOST AMAZING HUMAN ON EARTH! I felt so sad and was asking myself "God, I wish someone could clear my mind...I need help" AND BOOM! HERE I AM! THANK YOU!
thank you for this... I will try this starting now
You know this video is good for self growth, thanks!
This helped so much. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Hey Carlos thanx dat was really helpful.
Excellent advice
I’m so tired of my boyfriend thinking I’m not able to get other guys but thinking his ex is Gods gift to men!!!!
Thank you! Very helpful
Wow that's brilliant 👍👍👍thanks Carlos
Thanks sir for the wonderful answer
Thank you!!!! I can finally worry him!
love this thank you
Awesome Tips " Thankyou !!
Awesome tip!
Great advice!!!
Everytime i walk away he comes running back
@Sharperthanu1
6 жыл бұрын
That's because he's too cheap to pay a hooker and you're cheaper and more convenient to use for sex than Taylor Swift.
@Femininelovevibes
6 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with because he couldn’t commit . It’s been five days... i my needs weren’t being met it was hurting me. Yet his last message was he loves me.
@khushisharma4854
6 жыл бұрын
the same situation is with me😇
@willpu
6 жыл бұрын
he's a weak ass bitch thats why !
@dimplezsprinklez6003
6 жыл бұрын
U let him in
Hi ty for sending this. But i guess its too late. Im fed up w/ this kind of relationship. I blocked her in any kind of communications. Goodluck. ✌
Good one
Thanks alot was fantastic
Just needed that
Thanks for advice
Thank's for the tips...
I left my Partner and two day's later he rode his Harley 6hours to make me come home. I am guessing that is love. ..
Excellent advices, but I call you love guru. Being a man, you gave most truthful thoughts about what a men feel about women and all your advices were really awesome. It will truly help a woman who read this article
You are so right about everything you said
BEST VIDEO EVER.. ;) GOING to your website right now. Thank you
great advices , thank you :)
thank you so much this advice has really help me
it really works I told him I will make my way home not him always picking me up.
Great!😎thnks for that!👌
I love your advice 👍👍👍 I will try all these pieces of advice you gave and I learned so much from it.👍
thanks lots for you advices
I want to be valued and a priority and not taken for granted . It would be nice if he was the guy I met a few years ago .
THANK YOU SOO MUCH .SUCH A GREAT TIP FOR SOMEONE WHOS ALWAYS TAKEN FOR GRANTED.
Everything that you say is true. I know that because I am a free soul so I do the same thing you send to do, I just do natural. I have to say that my boyfriend even wake up in the night feeling sad after having a bad dream about me abandon him lol, I laugh at him after. He is cute. This video is very nice.
Nice.. Very good tips.. Thank you for sharing
This is amazing I have to try this
Well said
Luckily I watched it.... It's really awesome! N beneficial too
Lmao @sleeping with the cellphone in your hand under the covers!! WHHEEEETTT??!!
I love this 😊Thank you
I'm glad i found your videos
I really like your vids cuz with words.Your advice is very nice.
I guess I'm a pro cuz I did all this today. he was looking and begging and hoping I wasn't leaving church for good, 😁😜
Subscribed! Love it!
Brilliant!!!
How to challenge him ? Thanks for your video
i honestly loved the vid
Same here. He doesn't hug me or kiss me like back then. But he swears he loves me.
Very good!
well done
I love his video xx
Amazing tips
I love the advice
i love ur advise thanks
I see something in here... Thanks so much!
you're good, thanks
Very interesting, my friend pisses me off to no end, he claims I am his life his air etc etc and he loves me so much but the min I message him he doesn't message me back at all that day, so now from listening to this video, I will not be texting or messaging him anymore.
@SusanH0129
6 жыл бұрын
lydia green ask him how he's gonna feel when you don't answer him. It will put an end to that non response nonsense. I promise.
@norekoescada3202
6 жыл бұрын
lydia green he’s a player
Wow its beautiful
ALWAYS love your shows, Carlos! GREAT WORK! EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS ON POINT! TY SO MUCH for confirming what I already know! You're helping me with my mission: Become the BEST WIFE EVER!
wow nice one thanks
Advisable. thanks.
wow.... thanks!!!!
Sooo goood! TY
Women do flirt and enjoy doing so. Thumbs up to all you shared. I am living with my partner and we misses each other alot because we both don't check up on each other often throughout the day. We hardly have time for phone at my job. Sometime when I called he would said "it's about time". Men loves women with backbone and love to be challenged. We have a secure loving great relationship. Thanks for sharing
@passadonut
6 жыл бұрын
Denise Williams I am in same situation and need backbone and not center my whole life around him
really Great Advice.
nice one
He is right.
Awesome video