How To Make A Good First Impression | Jamila Musayeva

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How To Make a Good First Impression: In this video, I will tell you all the important elements of making the very best first impression starting from the grooming finishing up with a perfect handshake. They say, it takes less than 7 seconds to make the first impression. Truth is, it is even less than that. A lot is told by the untold and that includes what you wear, how you carry yourself, the way you shake hands, the way you handle your business cards, etc. If you are going for an interview, meeting in-laws for the first time or trying to network, make sure to watch this video beforehand. The first impressions can make or break the deal. Be ready to impress!
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  • @miscuitsmarmelade
    @miscuitsmarmeladeАй бұрын

    We, women, need more role models like you in this day and age.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you 🤍

  • @logicalbeing1897
    @logicalbeing1897Ай бұрын

    1) Dress well, Grooming 2) Hold yourself, postire 3) Pace Yourself 4) Give Undivided Attention

  • @poonambagari
    @poonambagariАй бұрын

    1. Dress well and appropriately, groom well 2. Have a good posture 3. Pace yourself 4. Give a firm handshake 5. Know how to introduce yourself 6. Carry your business card with you 7. Give undivided attention 8. Master the small talk 9. Have good table manners 10. Maintain good impression throughout the event

  • @rawyamohamed3046

    @rawyamohamed3046

    6 күн бұрын

    Thank You!

  • @DanisDiamonds
    @DanisDiamondsАй бұрын

    this came out right before my job interview this morning! wish me luck!

  • @Sophiee0x0

    @Sophiee0x0

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck!!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck!!

  • @Phd366

    @Phd366

    Ай бұрын

    You will do great! 🎉❤

  • @MayAfo

    @MayAfo

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck

  • @mimansajena6508

    @mimansajena6508

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck!

  • @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955
    @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955Ай бұрын

    Jamila, you are the epitome of elegance!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @dimitrap2505
    @dimitrap2505Ай бұрын

    It's amazing how the small talk makes all the difference, no matter how good the hand-shake, eye contact and smile are. I am a shy, not very talkative person and I come out a little awkward in conversations, then I end up being the "sweet, naive girl". The small talk is a torture for me, unfortunately. I bought some books to improve my skills there. I have seen some improvement, it's clear that people feel better around me when I engage in the small talk and feel relaxed to open up more and have mature conversations with me. Your videos have helped me a lot with posture and etiquette and being more confident in social settings and the work environment so thank you very much!!

  • @thasneemriviera1048

    @thasneemriviera1048

    23 күн бұрын

    Can you please tell me which are the book you brought ..

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5ifАй бұрын

    Every person should watch this, Jamila! Extremely well done, and honest and true… I am somebody who, even at 60, has a lot of energy… Almost everybody loves it, but I do have to remember to slow down… I’m grateful that people can feel my energy, especially at my age!

  • @user-hp7qe3tg7p
    @user-hp7qe3tg7p19 күн бұрын

    Drinking my morning tea while watching your videos, what could be better!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    19 күн бұрын

    Sounds great!

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025Ай бұрын

    I read in the book, Vanity Fair recently that the world is a looking-glass, or a mirror 🪞 in today's world. What you give out is what you get back. I know personally people treat me well. The way you carry yourself and the way you dress definitely gets you noticed and people remember you because you've made a good impression. But what's worth more than that is the way you treat people, good manners and consideration for others, smiling more. Where I live in Spain I will smile at a perfect stranger. And those people that I pass regularly then start to speak to me as I pass and that leads to a conversation. It really is all the things that are free in life that matter. You don't need to be a millionaire to get noticed. 🌼🌷🌸

  • @UnPeuDeTourisme

    @UnPeuDeTourisme

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, that’s why when I smile to some men, they have the right to bother you. This is probably why when I was there some « friend », they wasn’t there for me. What a very good mirror.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Love this!

  • @marylou3995
    @marylou3995Ай бұрын

    As a woman ( Christian) I hate shaking hands - a man think he’s been polite, if you don’t shake, he look like he done something wrong...difficulty .

  • @lubnan3033
    @lubnan3033Ай бұрын

    I feel very comfortable when I watch your videos because your face is really peaceful and I loved it that you are learning Arabic 😍 good luck for you ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you! 😃

  • @user-ib3mh7su8h
    @user-ib3mh7su8hАй бұрын

    Your posture say who you are not only to others but also to yourself)) Or even dictate it))

  • @toybaworku7339
    @toybaworku7339Ай бұрын

    My role model ❤❤❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks ☺️

  • @toybaworku7339

    @toybaworku7339

    Ай бұрын

    I Love you 🥰🤴

  • @harleyz2643
    @harleyz2643Ай бұрын

    You are just awesome sister ❤️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926Ай бұрын

    Bye blazer looks sooooooo good,you should wear these type of these more often💕

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @kaisankamal
    @kaisankamalАй бұрын

    Hi jamila! Thanks for uploading valuable contents on KZread, I like your video about table manners and since then I started to see other of your videos. The reason for me to comment today is because I would like to request for a video about table manners/Dining etiquette for certain other cuisines. I have a doubt on how to eat some middle eastern meals, I have an issue with kebab breads (Turkish grill bread/pide) and how to dine them (I mean you usually don’t eat bread with knife and fork and also not sure is it the same way as eating bread roll with butter on a dinner). If you find it’s not enough for a video, You can teach how to eat rice, just imagine a scenario in dubai and there is biryani/pilau served in a buffet. There are people who struggle to eat rice with knife and fork (eating spoon is simple) with an etiquette. Chopstick is not really necessary unless needed. Thanks a lot in advance. If you uploaded a video, please reply me with a confirmation. If you can’t do it please let me know, I’m cool if there is an issue and infact you can suggest me somewhere else other than here.thanks in advance.

  • @Imad_bake
    @Imad_bakeАй бұрын

    Sending love from pakistan 🇵🇰 , freedom for Palestine 🇵🇰 ❤️ 🇵🇸

  • @elviradupcheva
    @elviradupchevaАй бұрын

    Always an amazing quality and content I will refer to and apply to my routine. Thank you, Jamila. I know so much about etiquette and manners from your videos only. You are precious.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You're so welcome!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159Ай бұрын

    Jamila Love Watching your Back to Back Videos so so much and your Back to Back Videos are really helpful to me✨✨

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    So happy to hear it 🤍

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926Ай бұрын

    Pure elegance❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks ☺️

  • @geethanjali7733
    @geethanjali7733Ай бұрын

    I'm gonna join in my first job in the next two days and this is the only video I ever needed. Thankyou so much Jamila.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @mariellegrant6248
    @mariellegrant6248Ай бұрын

    Thank you Jamila for such interesting and useful advice!🌹🙏❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @Anthophile03
    @Anthophile03Ай бұрын

    Mam your video are fabulous, thanks for helping ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    My pleasure 😊

  • @rachfayee
    @rachfayeeАй бұрын

    I love this coat and outfit

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5ifАй бұрын

    Oh, and the handshakes…I try to teach every woman and young woman I know how important a strong firm, just two pump handshake is… I think I do see more women getting better at this! It is almost the grossest thing when somebody gives you a ‘fish’ hand!

  • @Dashya.
    @Dashya.Ай бұрын

    Thankyou for this video.. Pls make one on smile.

  • @_.booktrovert._
    @_.booktrovert._Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video Jamila. 💖

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @user-sg5bm3xh9i
    @user-sg5bm3xh9iАй бұрын

    Very inspiring video. Thank you

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You are so welcome!

  • @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz
    @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gzАй бұрын

    Thank you ❤ Your videos help me a lot 😊

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    I'm so glad!

  • @lisatiptoes
    @lisatiptoes29 күн бұрын

    A great video. And a good reminder for me to actively listen. Also, business cards are still used. They are something tangible to give someone. Other than putting it in your phone. It also shows that you are are professional and prepared to meet people.

  • @sitbone3
    @sitbone3Ай бұрын

    Excelent video. Thank you once again.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    My pleasure ☺️

  • @Mariammia77
    @Mariammia77Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, your video are super informative as always🌸

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Marci82
    @Marci82Ай бұрын

    Excellent video as usual ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks again!

  • @equilibriumtorque577
    @equilibriumtorque577Ай бұрын

    Hi jamila can you make a video on how to be organizable in this fast world we women often lost our feminine trait which is been organizable.

  • @_BLUEZ_666
    @_BLUEZ_666Ай бұрын

    Grate video❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @pinkgreenmelon2209
    @pinkgreenmelon2209Ай бұрын

    Thank you for the advice. In my case, I have to do my first impressions in a language I’m not entirely fluent in so I sound really nervous and end up probably not giving off a good impression. 😂

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    It is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Always good to notify the person that it is not your first language in case what you say might be lost in translation.

  • @nur641
    @nur641Ай бұрын

    Please do a video how to pack and organise a suitcase for travel.

  • @xeilentynhiazekairva
    @xeilentynhiazekairva29 күн бұрын

    I love your OOTV 😍 Thank you again for this...❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    28 күн бұрын

    Glad you like them!

  • @jasppt
    @jaspptАй бұрын

    You are so elegant ❤️‍🔥

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @maroshka_
    @maroshka_Ай бұрын

    Hello Jamila! Your tip about business cards got me wondering, what makes an effective and visually appealing business card?

  • @clairenesubs
    @clairenesubsАй бұрын

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    You're welcome 😊

  • @evelin2019
    @evelin2019Ай бұрын

    Very nice video. So much information that I didn't thougt about. Would love to meet you at a meet&greet event. Maybe there is some space to come to Vienna | Austria - otherwise Germany, Italy, Switzerland would also be an option!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Hopefully soon ☺️

  • @MyLearningofQuran
    @MyLearningofQuranАй бұрын

    I like your every video. Your outfit is minimal and easy to carry.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @blqkhle
    @blqkhleАй бұрын

    جميلة حقاً ❤

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159Ай бұрын

    First I Love your videos Lots of love from India 🇮🇳♥️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @officialpurplejoy
    @officialpurplejoyАй бұрын

    How to network with clients? What are the business etiquette?

  • @AichaMaraf
    @AichaMarafАй бұрын

    Hello, I am Aisha, I followed you from Algeria. I really love you. Could you please make a video for us that talks about how I take care of my hygiene in the summer with simple things? Thank you

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the idea!

  • @Heidipoptime
    @Heidipoptime29 күн бұрын

    Hi Jamila! Thanks for always providing such great content. Could you create a video on etiquette for when a friend hosts another friend in their apartment, in a spare bedroom, for let's say 7 days? Should the guest clean their own bedroom before leaving? Should they participate in cleaning shared areas like the bathroom and living room? Should they pay 50% of the groceries if they eat together during meals? Etc. Many thanks!

  • @secretscarlet8249
    @secretscarlet824928 күн бұрын

    But how do you define the line between pacing yourself and stretching the silence until it becomes awkwardness? I’m not great at thinking on my feet so when I go too slow I think I’m going too slow.

  • @noname.1890
    @noname.1890Ай бұрын

    this came right before I am going to meet my boyfriend’s parents! Hope it goes well ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck 😉😉

  • @asiakhan5314

    @asiakhan5314

    Ай бұрын

    Good luck dear! ☺️

  • @noname.1890

    @noname.1890

    Ай бұрын

    @@asiakhan5314 thank you ☺️

  • @noname.1890

    @noname.1890

    Ай бұрын

    @@JamilaMusayeva thank you💕

  • @jiahjeon1111

    @jiahjeon1111

    29 күн бұрын

    hope it went well!

  • @danishbintemehmood7712
    @danishbintemehmood7712Ай бұрын

    hi thanks how to organize phone apps

  • @kellyroy7248
    @kellyroy724815 күн бұрын

    How do you feel about women not wearing nail polish in casual situations? If the nails are still groomed and clean, but not polished with color?

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330Ай бұрын

    You are angel my princess God bless you 🙏❤️🥰😇💋

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    🤍❤️

  • @sinchitaghosh
    @sinchitaghoshАй бұрын

    Ma'am, I try to follow every step you explain but I face a big problem with sneezing since I have really bad dust allergy. I tend to sneeze pretty loudly. I've tried to lower the volume but in the process my nose just itches and leads to more sneezes and it becomes really messy. Is it a bad thing to snneze loudly in a social setting? There's nothing I'm able to do about it. I know it's more of a medical issue but I also think sneezing is considered a manner?

  • @jishajain7341
    @jishajain7341Ай бұрын

    Time stamps? 👀

  • @antoinette4729
    @antoinette4729Ай бұрын

    Dear Jamila, having been a microbiologist over 40 years, I am a germaphobe. I believe handshakes should be banned as a social gesture. Retired to Thailand, the “ wai” is an accepted greeting and farewell. No touching of skin is involved. It is similar to a “ namaste” gesture. Again, a respectful greeting without skin touching skin. Many people have hand issues: arthritis, trigger finger, carpal tunnel etc. and a handshake can be somewhat painful. These reasons could explain a weak handshake. Thank you an excellent video.

  • @selyemperzsa1
    @selyemperzsa1Ай бұрын

    Great summary video, thank you! For the outfit, the jacket looked great on the street photos, however in sitting pose it seem to have swallowed you, also maybe improve the lighting in the room to bring more light to your face, overall mood, liveliness into the video, just like ont street photos, which looked full of live, dynamism, sexiness! :-)

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5ifАй бұрын

    PS, I have friends who have terrible posture, and I always have to hold myself back from pulling back their shoulders!😘🧐

  • @luxpursuits
    @luxpursuitsАй бұрын

    My two biggest issues: 1) Posture 2) Blabbering

  • @JezzTeo-de4wp
    @JezzTeo-de4wpАй бұрын

    Hi I am a college student and will be graduating with a business degree in 2 years. I belong to a professional business fraternity and will be interning with a company this summer. Will you suggest that I have a name card to give to potential companies in the social events? Also, as I am thinking of my internship this summer,what would be an appropriate tag in the new work place. Thank you

  • @user-hd4kl6jz9n
    @user-hd4kl6jz9nАй бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @ankitasharma1588
    @ankitasharma158826 күн бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    25 күн бұрын

    🤍

  • @denisbasirov
    @denisbasirovАй бұрын

    Спасибо что вы делитесь знаниями. Не хочу вас обидеть, но для меня ваш голос слишком тихий и приторно слащавый. Между прочем смотрю и слушаю вас через онлайн переводчик яндекса, где голос больше подошел бы для вас. Жду каждый ролик с нетерпением.

  • @scrap_donetsk
    @scrap_donetsk26 күн бұрын

    черпаем вдохновение для наших работ 🪡🧵👠на вашем замечательном канале 🌿 с уважением, от коллег по обувному ремеслу 🔨✂ Jamila, as always, we draw inspiration for our work 🪡🧵👠on your wonderful channel 🌿 respect from collegues shoemakers 🔨✂

  • @laurawolf9613
    @laurawolf9613Ай бұрын

    🥰

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