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@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

I'll see you all there!

@deecurrey7022

11 ай бұрын

I really truly wanted to do your High Conflict Resolution Negotiation Person. Unfortunately, I am being divorced by my narcissistic husband after being with him for 39.5 years. He keeps saying just work with me, and he's been throwing everything at me. I am in debt to my lawyer and my health program. All of my credit cards are now maxed out, and my narc stopped paying for the maintenance support. I am a 100% disabled veteran on a fixed income, so my narc not paying is why my cards are maxed, and I am barely afloat. I am wondering if you would please consider a pro-bono case or maybe take payments out of my earnings once I graduate?

@ninaborovsky9992

11 ай бұрын

Good point! 1 in 10 has no conscience?!

@ninaborovsky9992

11 ай бұрын

Sharks!*

@DJ-fh7xn

7 ай бұрын

Excellent

Yup. If moving on makes them think they “won” awesome. Let them think that. The real winner is whomever doesn’t have to be involved with them 😇

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Do you have a good support system in place?

@Alexandriaofchicago

6 ай бұрын

Agreed

@Encornelious

2 ай бұрын

Man i needed to see this❤❤😊

They stress us out so bad we lose our looks😢

The nightmare for them is being held accountable.

Narcissists are demonic. Seek the Lord, he is there for you! He can break the strongholds off of you. Pray 🙏🏼

@AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug

4 ай бұрын

💯

He can’t control me anymore!

@AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug

4 ай бұрын

Alhamdulillah 😍

Be aware narcissists can be an entire family. Family will support their loved one and will make you think they are on your side. After 46 years marriage, I realized after leaving 3 years ago. They are really on their family member side.

@deecurrey7022

11 ай бұрын

I'm there now. Going through an unexpected, very horrible divorce with a neglectful Narcissist. I am trusting no one!!

@paperroses7615

11 ай бұрын

Have a family moved in next door 🚪 I have been here 12+ years they did drugs first day banging on the walls turns out that they're into Santori witches put blood in my gate threatening me my dog that died 5 days later 💔 made false reports stalking tailgating me in my car very dangerous they think that they're better more entitled than everyone other than their decent I'm trying to move yes whole family is dangerous

@msjannd4

11 ай бұрын

Yep! My father, his sister and her children (my first cousins; one more than the other) *and* my brother. Lovely. 😅🤦‍♀️ p.s. My mother's sister too; nasty woman who everyone thinks is an angel.

@DaRyteJuan

9 ай бұрын

I only just realized very recently I grew up in a narcissistic household, but I was the scapegoated child. That’s why the stepfather always married a woman with children. So he could beat down on the stepchild and his own children would be the golden children automatically.

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807

6 ай бұрын

Usually, there's a primary narc, a covert narc, and the others are flying monkeys.

No contact has worked for me, these last 2 years.

I'm not giving that narc ANY opportunity to even be in my presence, much less to treat me with disgust or disregard.

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

@katielung6515

6 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

You're the bomb! 💣 Thank you for teaching people about this issue!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Glad I could help. You got this! ❤

So on point that’s exactly what I’m going through right now! We dated for six years and now I’m a stranger. I just thank god I didn’t marry this man and woke up and ran fast!!!!

Yes 💯 they always come back and all you can do is protect yourself and cut off there source of supply! It’s draining.🙏❤️❤️❤️

They don't live in my head rent free anymore but I'm tied to him for life with kids self care Def needed 💯 thanks girl love your channel these people are so sick soooo sick when he said you'll never find someone like me im like please promise me 😂

Amen Sister! If we make the narcissist so miserable why don’t they pack up and leave?

Self care when coping with a narcissist ✅

Facts!! 🤦‍♀️SHUT THEM DOWN!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Totally!!

Today, I had a major financial breakthrough that will greatly further my plan to break free. It was such an overwhelming lifting of a heavy burden off my shoulders. I'm actually seeing light at the end of this very long tunnel. More details after it all comes together.

@user-lt3mx8zy9u

9 ай бұрын

It all comes down to having financial support, otherwise there’s no escaping 😢

@lucybraun8969

9 ай бұрын

@@user-lt3mx8zy9u You have to search for support. It's out there. I get help with utilities and food. My house has potential for being a means of support in that I can rent out a room. The biggest challenge, by far, is finding a suitable housemate. I'm also building up my credit to take out a home equity loan so I can expand the square footage and make some money out of selling the house. Help isn't likely to just plop itself in your lap. You have to do your part to secure it.

@nicholecornes1915

6 ай бұрын

I'm happy for you

@user-lt3mx8zy9u

6 ай бұрын

I could only leave because my brother passed away and left me a little bit of money, I thank him everyday, and I know it’s exactly wot he would have wanted me to do. Unfortunately, most people can’t afford to leave, and that was me for 20 years . I live everyday so grateful for him helping me from above 😇

Seriously never ever going back what a game

Snakes in the grass. Wolf in sheep’s clothing, and yeah sharks.

1 out of 10 people on the planet is a narcissist, why do I keep meeting that 1 😫

@hopespringseternal7038

5 ай бұрын

because you are choosing the same type over and over. listen to your gut next time. it's not them, it's you.

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

I've truly never been so down in all my life. I do love him..but I love myself more!

@jimmoravec1326

3 ай бұрын

I know how you feel

@joannbates8037

2 ай бұрын

You'll come to a point where the love is gone although it may take some time. Over time you begin to realize that all of it was intentional. That they enjoyed inflicting all the confusion and pain. The truth is they are evil. It's hard for us to see this because it's so far from the way we think and operate. I mean, really, who would think and operate like this. In our wildest imagination we'd never come up with this kind of evil. So, yes, it's hard to see.

@jimmoravec1326

2 ай бұрын

@@joannbates8037 You are 100% correct I was fooled for almost 10 years because I didn’t know people could actually be this cruel. I thought I was the problem at least that’s what I was told but my heart told me otherwise. I hate to admit that I have been saddened by family loss but this pain of being betrayed saddens me more. That’s probably not normal so there must be something wrong with me also.

@joannbates8037

2 ай бұрын

@@jimmoravec1326 It's perfectly normal, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

@BUDbizWIZ

2 ай бұрын

@@joannbates8037 Yes! I second this comment! The betrayal of his attempt to get me arrested to lose my teaching career (license) after HE assaulted me because I didn't do as told, is one of the most painful experiences of my life. I literally feel pain in my heart over such egregious cruelty and evil towards me; words almost cannot describe the feelings.

😮😮😮😮😮😮 Right!No matter how much I was with him or on his side!! He acted like I was against him!! No matter how much or long I was ON HIS SIDE !!!! LIKE I WAS THE ENEMY !!!! I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND !!!!!

I've been severely abused by a Narcistic man for over 11 yrs!You get to a point that there's nothing left after abuses degrations devaluations punishments pains physically emotionally psychology that one day you get to the bottom and hit the bottom and you know nothing is left than you tell yourself,what else is left for me to lose, than you oet him go gladly and you cut the contacts with the narcist! You keep going back to him till nothing is left for you to go back anymore!!!

He made me so sick i couldn't get out of bad

Well I learned something new, you described where I’m at now. I think she toughened me up as the years passed. Every year she would say that I have a birthday coming up. And every year I would tell her that my birthday was 4 days ago. Still wouldn’t at least say happy belated birthday just a pretend I’m so sorry. It’s really no big deal but it does hurt when you’re significant other forgets your birthday every year.

@clintonnagy1662

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. That sucks. I had an ex partner that did that. She used the excuse she didn't know when my birthday was, when I told her many times. It took a month for her to buy my a b-day card and gift afterwards. It's pathetic. I was happy that relationship ended.

Shut them down!!!

I LOVE BEING ALONE NOW SO PEACE FUL

I live in the same building down the hall from this narc. I need to move somewhere else

No More Negativity!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

I listen to Rebecca few time a day to empower me to keep Going grey rock 😊

Mine is now engaged to his own brother's ex-wife who murdered her second husband, manipulates and uses people & is a habitual professional liar. I am hurt, saddened by the loss of my best friend and God-given Helpmate, Angry is all Hell, and I want to heal and be done & be passed all of this. At first, I was fighting for him and our marriage, now I just want to be free from him in all aspects(emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually).

@sherita4404

11 ай бұрын

Sorry you're having to go through this. Thank God that he showed who you were dealing with. After you're done being hurt and please do not put too much more energy into those negative emotions. Let those two narcissist fools cancel themselves out. Spend time healing and achieving your personal goals.

After all this time. All I had to do is set super strong boundaries. I tried no contact snd it made him worse. I become agreeable but then set super strong boundaries and he lost interest YAYYYY 13 years of hell

I'm sooo ready to SLAY!

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

Having a Narcistic clinical disorder is different than just having some self ego Narcistic characteristic! Narcistic disorder is a very serious disease like schizophrenia!

"SHARKS " Love that 😂 l would call them "VAMPIRES "... My mother sad but true.😢..l liked when you said, they pull you in their Black holes.. l would allways call it,"SWAMPS ".l love the words sharks and black holes to. Happy again...Thank you for sharing. l love your Videos watching from Germany.🇺🇸 Helpful words.. Blessings back too you my friend. 🍀🌈❤️

@joannbates8037

2 ай бұрын

The Bible calls them wolves in sheep's clothing. I picture a wolf sinking it's teeth into your flesh and tearing you to shreds. I think that's a perfect description of a narcissist.

Comment on number one red flag. every narcissist that says they had a crazy ex, has a string of ex’s that actually have a crazy ex

@clintonnagy1662

Ай бұрын

How ironic...I'm labeled the crazy one now after the break up. I admit, I am...but she drove me insane with her anxiety, germ issues, OCD, overthinking, gas lighting, blame shifting, and guilt trips. I have my issues but it shouldn't of ended on bad terms the way it did. I expected a phone call to smooth things over after the last disagreement but NOTHING. Go figure. It's been 3 weeks.

Bruce Lee said be like water 🌊💦 be silent be quiet it drove her crazy because she wasn't getting reaction anymore but she still recently said that she's going to get me she means the worst Im suffering from loosing my dog narcissist psychopaths can be animal murders and then it can progress to people a detective told me 😢 Narcissist are dangerous!

Another amazing video. Although I wonder if the stats are higher than 1/10 these days.

So delusional is right. After SO MANY wretched things he's done, he sent me a card saying he'd made this raisin cake mom used to make, and I could come to his house to get half of it! AS IF!!! He probably put something rancid in it, or would say I came to his house to stalk him. Hell, no, I didn't take that bait. I only very rarely even ate that cake when Mom made it, and only to please her, because it would be a huge crash off my diet. Just say no to narc cake!!! No doubt, he'll tell family members I am unforgiving, or some other sicko twist to his tale that I completely ignored. So long as he's gone, I'm good.

@staceystrukel1917

8 ай бұрын

Say no to narc cake! Hilarious!

SHARKS!!!! Thanks Rebecca 🏁🏁🏁

They never apologise twist everything.

I would so love to be discarded by that creep!!!

@melaniehudson8659

5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

Rebecca, you are so my BFF. That's right. So sorry, but you're stuck with me, because you are "simply the best! Better than all the rest!"

You are so spot on. I'm dealing with an enigma! It's almost over now thank God!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Glad I could help. You got this! ❤

Not only was my female doctor a full blown narcissist, but first she put me on antidepressants for two years before she went in for the kill by making me come in for a physical where she sexually assaulted me. Probably from doing it many times before, she gotten this process down to an almost perfect science. In my chart she put down that I wasn’t suicidal, so if I did end up committing suicide, she had plausible deniability it had been the Prozac, the manipulation and/or the sexual assault that was the cause of it. Like the perfect crime. Like that probably would have been the ultimate narcissistic high. Maybe that’s why some of these psychopaths have to kill again and again. What set me off though was when her flying monkeys called me back to the office “to go over the results.” WHAT results? I feel fine. So now I had the PTSD from the sexual assault, the love bombing from previous appointments and now this potentially _serious_ diagnosis looming up ahead. “WHAT the living F was going on?” I wondered.

@tehewhatthe

6 ай бұрын

Please report her even if you do not want to hire a lawyer or leave a bad review if you’ve registered with another medical practice.

Wow! This info is priceless! Thank you

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

You got this! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

This video is hitting home at 100%!!!! You have nailed it on the head while swinging the hammer blindfolded!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

@deecurrey7022

11 ай бұрын

@RebeccaZungEsq everything you said is 100% describing my soon-to-be ex-husband! I watched the entire podcast with my jaw hanging wide open. I have been struggling since Sept 2022 to figure out if him calling me narcissistic was true or not. I am certain he is projecting all the name calling onto me. This podcast was amazing for describing him to a Tee! I still doubt myself with his names, yet I am working through the hurt, loss, victimization, etc. You have been helping me through this whole 40 year mess!!

Narcissists won’t let you leave: after 10 yrs of stalking, when my envious narcissist had sabotaged my job and everyone of my further contracts, by hacking my cell and computer, I tried to leave town and contacted my former college sweetheart to move away with him and perhaps work with him, then my lifelong envious stalker contacted him behind my back, seduced him, lied to him to steal my job and married him. I must say that, although she is far from good looking, she has worked the streets in the past and has extensive experience manipulating men.

@joannbates8037

2 ай бұрын

I'm guessing your previous sweetheart will be one sorry fella soon enough. Hopefully the narc will be too busy with him to continue bothering you. I'm not making light of your pain and I wish you the best. Maybe this guy wasn't as good as you thought.

That black top with red & pink flowers is so you, Rebecca!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! ❤

They do not come back if you exposed them

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

@clintonnagy1662

Ай бұрын

I exposed her when she went on a date with new supply shortly after the discard. She tried to get me arrested but left before the police showed up. I was happy I exposed her to let her know I knew she was garbage. I broke her facade but I don't think she cares. It hurts knowing she doesn't but this isn't the first time I've dealt with this. I become more resilient everytime.

I love freedom from any negative people only in this temporary world actually,Aamiin Ya Robbal Alamiin

😢😢😢truth your speaking the truth word for word on what I’ve just experienced & am striving to overcome with your support & my Counselors & Therapist ❤ 😢😢😢😢

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - www.rebeccazung.com/cert-workshop

You have really helped me!!!¡

I think I'm in love 🥰. Wonderful strong attractive woman that you are. Thanks so much 🙏. Keep up with the good work. 💓. I'm sorry for what you have had to go through. Narcissists makes us careful from being deceived. Thanks for informing the truth!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Thank you! What part did you like the most?

@wizquinn8021

11 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq key phrases you spoke about. I must have a sign to narcissistic people saying " here I am "! I'm healing and in this process of recovering and rediscovering myself. I thank you so much for helping me and others that are suffering from the effects of narcissistic people. Someday, I can discuss my life story. Keep up the wonderful work!! I know now that my trauma began from my mother and I just grew up like that. I'm 60 years old and just started to figure this out. I was so blind. Lol.

@kat-75

11 ай бұрын

I think she's married & probably not looking

He’s soooo erógena & tried to hire me to be his housekeeper & said I’m just trying to help you to make money because he made me sooooo sick & undervalued that I got depressed & I couldn’t function to sustain a regular job because he started cheating on me & talk down on me! He went strong on entertaining a secret crowed by drinking hard alcohol, drugs such as hard core drugs, everything your saying here is on point to what I’ve experienced with this narcissist for the last 7 years 😢😢😢😢😢. Thank you for your videos

Poor evil people. So sad.

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

Best to run.

Thanks!

Definitely Sharks

Truth..

Thanks..

Oh, he's got lots of money. Money he manipulated out of others who bought into his scams.

He doesn't use gaslighting on me, because my written communications to him are far too educated and well written for him to have any shot at anyone buying into any scam that I'm crazy. I just have one more hosop to get through, and he is dead in the water for good.

They're Definitely Sharks!

TRUTH

SHUT THEM DOWN

My father told me in an email last September to " . . . so shut up and disappear." I think he's done with me! 😅🤦‍♀️

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤

Truth

Amen.

Shut them down

AMEN!!!!!.

Last Peanut Butter in the Jar analogy kicks ass I mean just rules I mean King. Anybody that's human can relate to that 1...

Yes, I agree his sister supported his cheating behawhile he was still living with his family

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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EXACT words

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

She won't leave me alone in court

@patjones4201

11 ай бұрын

She wants to control you

@melaniehudson8659

5 ай бұрын

They LOVE COURT.😢😢😢😢😢 GOD PROTECT YOU ❤

@melaniehudson8659

5 ай бұрын

Yep!CONTROL. COURT CONTROL. LORD ❤PROTECTION FOR YOU ❤

SHARKS!!!

Super sharks!!!

I'm curious if as a lawyer how many instances of Married men falling for a narcissist and losing a good wife and very quickly finding out for the first time what a true narcissist is . Asking for a friend 😢

❤I love that blouse 👚!!!🎉😊

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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AMEN 100 %

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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Sharks!!! And I’m still peanut butter. He owes me. Paid me back with a bad check. Supply is making me suffer financially one more day.

Rutting season ALL YEAR AROUND...OM SO MANY LEVELS.

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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It seems Sis will never be done with me till one of us are passed. Now she trying to target a grand nephew says she adores him ??????? 😢 Thank u so much for ur valuable information.

I have been suffering in narcissistic relation marriage Want to get rid of toxic partner Legally pleading my case

Amen...😢

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

Amen

Sharks!

They’re gone ! 💕✨💕🔥😎🔥🔥🔥

Amen..

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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SHARK ✨🔥🔥🔥

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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Ohh yeah

Amen..!.

MY KIDS ALL HAVE NARC

I do need the self care info I've been doing God for about two months I about go off when she starts at work tho

Sharks!!!!

I've been getting phone calls from unknown phone numbers where the caller says nothing. It has to be him. He's actually so stupid that he thinks he can make it seem like I am calling him. Like the phone service provider doesn't show it as an incoming call to me, and not me calling him. What an idiot! He just got his first cell phone in 2022!! And has no clue about how incoming vs. Outgoing shows up. He's going to look so damn bad if he tries that ploy.

Amen!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

You got this! 💪

I learned everything too late. I did everything for him for 18 years (minus about 3 months). He took my money and held onto it. I had no idea he had been running a smear campaign saying he’s “helping” me. He used it to “Help me out” but then when he found a new supply he ran away. He moved to another state to live with her at her address which is unlisted. Hiding from me behind her. He’s ‘Moving on’ with his new supply and using my money to do it. He is getting her the same way that he did me. Rapid fire Love bombing with elaborate gifts to get her excited and a mirror of her. He has to buy a new vehicle every year like changing dirty shirts, but “dates” always had to be the cheap seats from free tickets he won on the radio. One way he devalued me. Anytime I had a better car, or was happy he could not stand it until I lost it. “Nope” Nothing for me. His flying monkeys are the only people he has left. I’ve been feeling sorry for the new supply. I’m sure she is a really nice person.

Shut them down!

@RebeccaZungEsq

11 ай бұрын

Stay strong! ❤

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