My 14 year old grandson was looking at old pictures. In some of them I was about 26. He looked at the picture and looked at me and said “You used to be so beautiful what happened to you?” I just looked at him and said I’m 66 not 26 and I think I still look beautiful. I’ll be 67 tomorrow and survived lung cancer so I’m thankful for every year my Lord let’s me stay on this earth. 💁‍♀️💕

@bettyrichards9182

3 жыл бұрын

I am a lung cancer survivor also take care.

@blissbliss3531

3 жыл бұрын

this country is driven by youth in ads and more, its so shallow..there is a short window, congratulations, so happy for you

@pennyjjohnson908

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you used that as an opportunity to instruct him on needlessly blurting out hurtful things. He will not learn nor have the discernment if you do not guide him to be kind.

@walkingbyfaith5504

3 жыл бұрын

PLEASE have "THE TALK " with grandson, it's the Training, Raising up of boys to men , BLESSINGS

@lindadainard7629

3 жыл бұрын

Your son was very insensitive. He could not see the beautiful woman who was and is always there shame, shame.

Years ago I went on a cruise with my boyfriend and was so excited on our first trip together. I know I over packed. Going to the airport we both took our own luggage and he had one suitcase to my three. He didn't help me with a single bag, on the bus or loading the carry on. I didn't pay attention to that, anticipating a wonderful vacation. The cruise was fine, but the real disappointment was coming home. Again he bypassed my suitcases and I was young and strong enough to load them on the airport bus. I saw him sitting in a seat and he saved a spot for me, but as I entered the bus I saw a very pregnant woman standing and a old gentleman standing holding the poles because the bus was full. I offered my seat to the pregnant girl and she was relieved. I asked my young healthy boyfriend to give up his seat to the older man standing. He would not do it. When we got home he was already planning our next vacation. I broke up with him right after that trip. He just didn't have that kindness and was selfish. I just couldn't see spending another minute with him. That was my choice and I never regretted it.❤❤

@tribbles2955

3 жыл бұрын

Good. On. You. I bet he was cheap, too.

@valentina-pg4bj

3 жыл бұрын

YOU are a very wise & compassionate LADY! Whooo hooo for you! Love YOU!!!!!

@dawnstonerock4253

3 жыл бұрын

Wise choice!!!

@windswept8841

3 жыл бұрын

love that you saw his true colors

@nowandthennn

3 жыл бұрын

That trip and seeing him for the person he was saved you a lifetime of misery .

My lovely granny lived to 98. Put on her face cream every night and curled her hair. Walked everywhere. Made people laugh. Enjoyed life to the very end. I plan to be just like her. Every day is precious.🥳

@gigi1332

3 жыл бұрын

Loved this Thank you for sharing 🙏

@karendixon401

3 жыл бұрын

Mine also.. lived half way thru 100.. Always visited with people sitting up in the living room. She canned so much at age 99 that we got the gifts from her rather than the other way around. Of course she requested gifts go to Save the Children anyway. She expected to live to see some of the great great grandchildren.. and she did. She had 12 children at home.

@gigi1332

3 жыл бұрын

@@karendixon401 Wow Thank you for sharing this. Put a smile on my face 💞

@lo.p4089

3 жыл бұрын

My Nan was like that. Sat in hospital with her curled hair, pink fluffy slippers and mascara on.

@paisleygirl6642

3 жыл бұрын

I love your granny's attitude.

I’m so sorry nobody helped you on the plane with that overhead bag that is sorry as hell if I was there I would’ve grabbed it right up and put it up there for you and made you feel comfortable there’s no problem in asking for help Don’t let that one person ruined your outlook on younger people there still are good people in the world Patty I respect my elders to the fullest

A dear friend in her nineties told me that the mind doesn't age, only the body, and that she still felt mentally decades younger.

@conniemurphyover70stillgla47

3 жыл бұрын

and your friend is absolutly RIGHT :) "over70stillglamorous" :)

@etonly2277

3 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@charlottegreeson2503

3 жыл бұрын

My mom recently passes to her forever home at 102 and a half. She often said she was still 18 years old in her mind; her body just wasn’t cooperating. She then she laughed aloud. Miss her a lot. Heaven is sweeter with her presence!

@MsSottolia

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, I love that...and it's so true. I'm 78.

@TheBunky2008

3 жыл бұрын

@Petals I'm sure that gentleman wanted to save face. 😊 Don't stop being sweet and kind. 👍

When I turned 50, I felt like I was so old. Now, at nearly 68, 50 seems young. When I'm 85, I'm sure 68 will feel young. So, from now on, I'm going to always think of myself as young. ♥️

@brendabergeron3459

3 жыл бұрын

❤️🌹

@gailaspreen2520

3 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite b'day cards says: You may be older than you've ever been before, but you are younger than you'll ever be again, so celebrate!

@charwest9449

3 жыл бұрын

Good plan.

@janedelaney4327

3 жыл бұрын

Here Here

@bonnieshaw7324

3 жыл бұрын

I whined all day when I turned 40, that was 29 years ago. What a waste of time that was. Now 40 year olds seem rather young and so will 69 seem some day should I still be around in another decade. Lesson learned! If you cant embrace it, at least dont whine about it.

Hi Patti, well I wanted to respond to your question and it has taken me days to do so. Feeling old, when it hit me like a ton of bricks was when I was diagnosed with cognitive memory impairment a year ago. I can not explain how alone, scared, afraid of what my life would become. I worked as a professional and knew "I was changing" but to afraid to say anything for awhile. As a professional I worked in the court system, doctors, attorney's was a expert in my field. Today I am no longer able to do these tasks, I was heartbroken. However, I knew I am a fighter so I read more, play brain games, take IQ test and rest more. I have to see my brain specialist often who says I am doing well and some test are great others okay. But, today I have no dementia thank god. I am thankful for my blessings, enjoy fixing my hair and make up again. For me, today I need to take small steps into the abyss of the unknown and do not take anything for granted. Your a awesome lady Patti and I enjoy your channel. I try to be kind every day and wish the world was a kinder place.

This is the first time I have ever listen to you. I am in my 70's and i completely know what you mean. I am sitting here bawling my eyes out, because I have felt so alone at times. You have helped me a lot.

@elaineschildmeyer3877

8 ай бұрын

You are not alone. There are many of us out there. Blessings to you.

My husband whose 78 and has a bad heart helped a disabled woman get her food into her car and she says to him Chivalry isn’t dead. Brought me to tears. A little kindness to someone made me happy

@marilynkaplan625

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you’ve must have beautiful in you’re youth , but lady look at u know. With admiration, I’m 84 and think I’m 34. Yes, the body has changed but not my thoughts of going on. Thanks M

It really hit me when I turned 71 this past March. My daughter just had a baby girl 2 weeks after by birthday. When I met little Norah Grace, I realized I won't get to see her grow up, get married and have babies of her own. She probably won't remember me and how much I loved her. That was the first day I felt so very old. The reality of it all was so sobering and I am so grateful for one more day, one day at a time. Thank u Jesus for one more day!

@carolynlunel9382

3 жыл бұрын

Olivia, you might see her grow up and get married! My mother in law is 99 and has gone to the weddings of all 5 of her grandchildren! (She now has 4 GREAT grands!!) So stay strong and positive! You really may be here when your little granddaughter gets married. Infact.. one of the grandkids recently had a baby and my mother in law can still hold her and sing to her. My mother in law is an inspiration to all who know her..and has such a strong spirt. I was compelled to write you..just stay strong and laugh as much as you can. I swear the laughter keeps my mother in law healthy! Much joy to you❤and congratulations on your new little one!

@deena681

3 жыл бұрын

There are some people who never have had children or grandchildren

@deena681

3 жыл бұрын

@BlueHorseYellowCow Looool...it’s their bad luck I guess.

@aldarling6743

3 жыл бұрын

That just made me cry

@deena681

3 жыл бұрын

@@aldarling6743 I am so sorry. I don’t have any children or grandchildren but it’s 👌

I mail my things when I visit my daughter. The box gets there before me and all I carry is my purse. I've been doing this since I turned 70. We have to find ways to make life easier and to remember someone will not always be there to help. I think the world is filled with good people but the population is aging and there aren't enough available helpers.

@marieracal5393

2 жыл бұрын

So refreshing You are a realist

Hello Patti. I felt old when I turned 70. I was sore all over for three months. I found out I have a torn rotator cuff. After another month I was going to the chiropractor, didn't have surgery, started taking collagen (neocell liquid). I started feeling like my old self. My mother-in-law , 90 years old next month, came to stay with us for 2 weeks. She almost died with kidney failure in 2013. My father-in- law told the doctors she would be better, for them to do all they could to save her. So here she is now, spunky as ever. She keeps our house tidy, puts her makeup on, does her hair, etc. I tell her how she inspires me. She loves watching your videos. She even brought her bathing suit to get in the pool. Thank you for making me think.

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Annie

Somehow during the pandemic and long isolation, I have become obsessed with how old I am. I am 74, but have gone from feeling as if I could do anything, to feeling as if I can’t do anything. It is a terrible feeling. I truly enjoyed your video, and plan to practice choosing feeling strong and capable again. Thank you, Patty. You are beautiful inside and out.

@janedelaney4327

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with this. The pandemic has brought feelings of becoming old in such a depressing way. Let’s choose to be strong and capable.

@bonniepinto9788

3 жыл бұрын

You said exactly how I feel. I do believe being in isolation for a year didn’t help. I am 73.

@susanhenry4073

3 жыл бұрын

One of the serious difficulties this pandemic has created - for those of us who are fortunate enough to have survived it - is that we are, for the most part, far less physically capable than we were before the pandemic started. I am now 71 and have an autoimmune disease that causes my windpipe to be 25% blocked. Prior to the pandemic, I was working pretty hard to improve my overall fitness, and was making progress, slowly but surely. However, BOOM! COVID hit and eventually all my forms of exercise disappeared. (I'm the type that needs an in-person setting - someone to flog me in person). I've lost a good 50%, if not 75%, of the progress I made. I am MUCH weaker physically, which drives me crazy. I'm at least still functioning, however - my neighbour's husband, who is now 85 and has dementia but managed to function somewhat previously, has been housebound for over a year and is now very weak, frail and confused. Quite apart from all those poor souls who died, the pandemic has been a disaster for a lot of previously functioning seniors. (Sorry for the rant, but this unacknowledged health issue REALLY bothers me.) Anyway, things are getting better now, so it's back to work at making myself more fit - and less old.

@yodafannie

3 жыл бұрын

Being in isolation with Covid took a lot out of us all, young and old. It is hard to recover. I try just to be in the now moment, that's a good start. :)

@ursamagickmt672

3 жыл бұрын

@Petals You ladies are not alone. Tomorrow I have my first doctor appointment in forever and I don't want to leave the house. I'm 74 and I'm going to have to use the walker I have had to use after an injury. I have fibromyalgia, adrenal fatigue, problems from back surgery (years ago), I need both eye and throat surgery. All my friends are dead and this is the first time I've felt OLD. It stinks.

I remember that I actually cried the day I turned 35. How crazy was that? I never let another birthday bother me, I'm just glad to have them.. I'm now 74 and I am trying to keep the old lady out. Sometimes I feel that she's getting closer. What I got out of your video is that we shouldn't let baggage weigh us down. Whether it's actually baggage or the baggage that we accumulate as we live our lives. I'm going to Pennsylvania alone in June and I'll be checking my bag.

@justrose6978

3 жыл бұрын

What a spot on anology! So true💖

@charwest9449

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I also learned to check my bags when I travel from now on. Either that, or just bring a backpack that I can stow under the seat in front of me. Travel light.

@karensnailstudio7171

3 жыл бұрын

I got that message from this video too, don’t let any type of baggage weigh you down ❤️❤️❤️

@mayvis598

3 жыл бұрын

Have a safe and blessed trip in June. I can see no 'baggage' for you of any kind!! You will do just fine.

@denasharpe2393

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you!! Lol. Have a great time and be sure to check that bag!

So glad I watched you today! When I fly to MI next Monday from TX, I’m checking my bag! I am 77 also! Who needs the stress, even if the wheels aren’t broken!! Thanks, Patty!😘

I visit with my mother daily, who in her 90s still drives, still lives independently and wears HIGH HEELS with the legs of Betty Grable! She is an inspiration!

@annemccarron2281

3 жыл бұрын

She sound lovely! I want to be like her. I'm 70 and have relatives in their 90s.

I remember being in England when I was in my twenties and the escalator at the airport was broken. I was trying to carry one of those bags that was like a giant duffel bag up some stairs. My shoe fell off and I dropped my bag and I didn't feel too old at that moment, but I had one of those, "Who do I think I am?" moments. Here I was traveling through Great Britain with no idea how to travel. A young mother with four children came up the stairs behind me and said cheerfully, "Come along kids! Let's help the lady!" Those kids grabbed my bag and carried it upstairs like it was a big game. I still get tears in my eyes when I think of that woman's kindness. That woman with four children she was trying to manage, but still had time for me. That was 39 years ago and I will never forget her. Thank you for sharing your story, Patti. The only time I feel old now is in airports! I think most people over 40 do. So much love to you and those beautiful twins!

@susanhenry4073

3 жыл бұрын

I was in England a couple of years ago, at the age of 69. I was trying to navigate the London subway system, on my way to the airport, with a suitcase that was WAY too heavy (I had bought a whole bunch of books...kinda stupid). The London subway system is NOT set up for anyone who is not very mobile - there are all kinds of stairs. Everywhere I went, there was some wonderful young guy who immediately offered to help me. (One even commented "What have you got in here? A dead body?") I didn't feel old, though, so much as way over my head. But everyone was so helpful - it was lovely.

@Nan-59

3 жыл бұрын

What a LOVELY STORY! Thank-you so much for sharing it!!

@cordeliahamilton1061

3 жыл бұрын

@Susan Henry. I'm English, and feel so proud that you were helped by the English lady and her children. Take care.🙋🇬🇧

@Grushenke89

3 жыл бұрын

@@susanhenry4073 At least England is retaining it's civility! :) I say as an English person myself , though have spent most of my life in America- I'll never forget, as a young woman just off a flight from America, getting onto the tube, and dropping my huge duffel bag onto some young business man's feet as i was so tired and jet lagged , and he just said "pardon me miss" and stepped aside, rather than yelling at me for my clumsiness . seems a lot of us have the huge duffel bag whilst travelling stories.. lol -

@lynette599

2 жыл бұрын

I hope the lady with the 4 children read this and recognise herself and her children in this story...it will make her feel so special, which she IS.

The thing that struck me the most in your story was the woman at the airport that told you that you are beautiful! We all need to do that for each other more. 🥰 You just never know what people are going through at any moment, and telling them they are beautiful raises everyone's vibration and just makes the world a better place. Thanks for sharing your story!

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Diane, how are you doing?

@elsaalicea9769

Жыл бұрын

Patti Ive just found your chanel and I love it.I like to hear you talk and hear your experiences.yes you are beautiful.Elsa

Yes, I am experiencing it! I lost my husband of 47yrs, 4 years ago. I moved back to NC and have bought a home. I live with 2 fur babies who mean the world to me. But I’m an introvert and not terribly social. Also, I’m an illustrator but have trouble being inspired these days. I enjoy your talks and suggestions… I can certainly relate to what you say! Thanks for being there!

The light that emanates from your lovely eyes will keep you young forever!!! The "bag situation at the airport" is a universal thing. We have all been through it no matter our age. This situation restored our belief in kindness and doing the right thing. Your decision to "check your bag" brought you relief and confidence. Sometimes being decisive and seeking the simplest solution is best. Thank you for sharing!

I'm 73 and like you, I decided a few years ago not to bring roll-on bags with me on the plane anymore. I didn't want to be in the position of not being able to hoist it up into the bin and hoping someone would help. It made me feel old. Now, like you, I have my purse and maybe a small tote and I fly through the airport feeling free as a bird.

@lenoramorris5375

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 68, I walk daily. I fell on my walk and pinched my sciatic nerve...ouch I flew to see my daughter in New Orleans...I requested a wheelchair when I arrived in Atlanta. I too should have checked my luggage, I hated asking for help. I’m flying back down in July to welcome my 2nd grand baby. Yes, I’ll check my luggage this time and forever more...

@janewarrick4083

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree...if you can’t put your luggage in a bin then don’t expect someone else to do. I have always checked my bags b/c I don’t have much strength in my upper body. I also feel some women have pushed (especially the younger generations) women can do anything they want without a man until there are people who don’t teach their children manners anymore.

@dawnstonerock4253

3 жыл бұрын

I do the same!

@dawnstonerock4253

3 жыл бұрын

@@janewarrick4083 SO agree!!!

I have felt old on numerous occasions. I still think I'm super women and can do anything. Then, I find that I can not. Very humbling. Patti, you ARE a beautiful woman inside and out. BE KIND to yourself❤️

@liamroberts9047

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Becky, How are you doing?

I got that feeling at my local grocery store, H.E.B., just the other day. I was trying to pick up a case of drinking water & I absolutely could not. I was so embarrassed'. Lucky for me, a young man walking by, asked if he could help me. But I know EXACTLY the feeling you are referring to. For the first time in my life, I realized I'm not strong anymore and never will be again. That's WHEN I knew. I am now a weak, older woman. I'm not mad at turning 72, I'm mad at not having the physical strength I had just 10 yrs ago.

I'm just a little over 3 months away from turning 60 and it hit me so hard that I am now considered elderly. In my mind I'm still the carefree, vibrant woman I was when I was a young woman. I'm just trying to age as gracefully and joyously as I can. I'm ever conscious of my treatment and actions towards others, animals and our planet. Here's to aging beautifully and gracefully!🌹🥀🍷🍷 ❤️🙏❤️🕊️🕯️🌈. You are such a beautiful and vibrant soul, inside and out. May God bless you and anyone that reads this.

Loved this!! And you are beautiful!! And yes I feel old, I just turned 60 and my husband of 30 years has cheated and we're divorcing and now I feel old but yet I know I'm better off without him in my life and someday I will be with someone who is kind to me!! 💕😉🌼🌺

@Kiki-wi7px

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Cynthia Ann !!! I am "69." Won't Tell You My Story, but wanted to Say . . . Especially, since He was NOT "Kind" to You, Think of It AS A BLESSING. AGE, "Ain't Nothin' but a Number," as the Saying Goes. This is My "2nd" Marriage and We have been Together for "46" Yrs. Challenging at Time's however. When Going-Through My Divorce, and Before We Met, I "Prayed," that if it was Meant to Be, for GOD to Put the RIGHT Man In My LIFE. I Wish the BEST For YOU. It's Kinda' Like Grieving a Death in a Way. You Are Grieving a Death Of a Relationship. There will Be All Different Kind's of Feeling's that you'll Experience, but that's Part of the Process. It Will Pass though. KEEP "Positive" Thought's About Yourself and the Wonderful NEW LIFE Ahead Of You. Remember, You Are Never Alone. 🙏

@selena2709

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. You deserve better and he is not worth making your life miserable. Thank you for loving yourself enough to get out. Too many women stay and it destroys them.

@Kiki-wi7px

3 жыл бұрын

@@selena2709 AMEN TO THAT ! ! !

@lauriehominick9987

3 жыл бұрын

Now you can do things you have always wanted to do. Go places, change your decorating, maybe join a group etc. Think of it as an opportunity, the best is yet to be. 🥰

@cclarke9301

3 жыл бұрын

You will be so much better off. Once a cheater always a cheater. This is your time to be happy. I’ve been divorced twice and have had a few boyfriends along the way that I’ve loved. It seems I’ve always had a man in my life but since 2010 there hasn’t been anyone. I’m 68 now and don’t foresee any way to meet anyone. My last breakup was extremely painful. The good thing is I’ve not suffered that kind of pain since. I do what I want when I want. It’s kind of a freedom. I hope you stay happy and free💕

That young man who was rude to you wasn’t raised right. That father that helped you was raised by a good loving mother.

@carolynhamilton3316

3 жыл бұрын

That young man is a jerk .

@cherie6970

3 жыл бұрын

@@carolynhamilton3316 Agreed! That was unacceptable.I feel her pain.. It's quite humbling to ask for help. I've had similar experiences at diffrent locations.Not an airport.It's very embarrassing... now i wont ask anyone for help.

@sewgatormomm

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t blame the parents. Those men were adults. One chose to be rude. One chose to be kind.

@cherie6970

3 жыл бұрын

@@sewgatormomm 👍You're Right. Grown Adults make their own decisions regardless of their upbringing.🍀

@Earthomo

3 жыл бұрын

@Hayedeh Janansouz........ likely a father as his example to emulate.

I am 74 and I can’t tell you how happy I am to have found your channel. Recently I have experienced that old feeling. It is probably a result of COVID-19 and isolation. Not realizing what I was doing, I took up quilting after being away from it for 30 years. I can’t tell you how that lifted my frame of mind and I begin to realize that I am a skilled sewer and I can do things that I never thought I would do and hearing you talk about it has given me a new Hope. Cheers from Canada

What a heartwarming story Patty! I will be 72 in July and recently retired. Life is very different now for me. I feel like I am rediscovering myself and this new passage of my life. I thanks God for each day He gives me. He is my strength. Thank you for being so positive and sharing your experience. It has encouraged me to keep going. God bless!

I have never had that feeling of doom. I am past 80 now and that # is the birthday that allows me to recognize that yes I am old. However, like you I do appreciate kindnesses received and do my part like your favorite saying...You get back what you give out. I also am grateful to God for each day He gives me. My husband of 52 years has gone to his reward so my motto is to live each day to the fullest and enjoy all that the Lord puts in my pathway. Your warmth and smile will keep you young at heart forever. God bless

@liamroberts9047

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Eileen, How are you doing?

@peggycase9929

2 жыл бұрын

I have never let the fact that I am older bother me until I lost my husband three years ago. I felt alone, and old and did not know what to do about it. I have recently started trying to reach out to a few

Hi, Patti. I'm 73 and (I know I'm fortunate) will not allow the "old lady" in, ie: when I find myself "slouching" I sit up straight, when I find myself walking too slow I put a "skip in my step" and a "smile on my face" like I'm going somewhere special. No matter what, when I leave the house I comb my hair, put on my lipstick and give myself a "look once over". I could go on and on but you get "the drift." I got this idea from an article I read several years ago. Two golfers one in his 50"s and one in his 90"s. 50 year old asks 90 year old, "what keeps you so young" and he said, "I don't let the old man in." The story is true and a little longer but I thought I would share it. Thank you for sharing your grandbabies. God bless you. Susie P.S. You look fabulous.

@paulachristie7807

3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful thought, I am going to make it a mantra

@susier7766

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulachristie7807 Christie, that's exactly what I do every day and I instantly feel better.

@valentina-pg4bj

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulachristie7807 ME too!!!!!

@shayk.393

3 жыл бұрын

very pretty lady

I think the day I realized I had gotten "old" was the day I decided that I didn't want to live in a big house anymore, it seemed like a burden to take care of it all and the 12 little gardens I had planted and tenderly loved throughout my years on that property became torturous for my back, neck & shoulders. After we sold it, I felt like I unloaded a huge bundle of baggage weighing me down. I understand baggage, I've experienced enough of it in my lifetime. I want to down size again. Hopefully in 2 years I can make it happen. Moving is so difficult for us older folk, it really scares me.

@elizabethsytsema9773

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Patti, enjoyed video and was awed by your talk about feeling old. I just turned 80 and dreaded it. Thought I'd really feel so much older. Then, 2 days later had Gallbladder surgery. Thought that would really do me 😏 in. But I made it through both and I'm doing okay. Yes, there are many things I'm not able to do anymore and I try to accept those. Truth is I am old but still able to take care of myself for the most part. Live one day at a time for the most part and I look for kind and loving people to be around. Maybe that's tougher than anything else! Thanks so much for the inspiration you've given me. I will always remember your advise and thoughtful 💕 words. Beth/

I was beginning to feel old due to a lot of things going on right now in my life. I am pretty much doing all things alone due to my husband's illness and feeling overwhelmed, but I am bound and determine to stay strong, healthy, vibrant, and loving.....and kind. Thanks for sharing this. I was inspired by your words. Thank you Patty.

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Sharon

Hi Patti. Recently I turned 70. I have thought of the times I needed my husband to give me a hand doing things. It makes me sad because I use to have so much energy an I was always the one to help others. Last year we had my garden taken out and grass planted because it is way too much for me to take care of. I am starting to feel old but I focus on the things I can do. I get up every day and put my makeup on and fix my hair. I keep my house as clean as I can and set goals for myself each week. I’m not giving up. You are a great inspiration for us all. Thank you.

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Barbara,how are you doing?

Unfortunately in today's world some men have lost chivalry or haven't been taught how to be a gentleman. It's all about all for one and me for myself attitude. Some women can do it all by themselves but at a certain age we just can't do it anymore. God Bless you

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Maria,how are you doing?

@zsuzsuspetals

3 жыл бұрын

I agree but this is a direct result of a feminist culture. The younger generation of men have been told from the time they were children that men and women are equal and it's offensive to "help" a woman. So they don't even think of chivalry. Not even for older women. It just doesn't even cross their minds. These younger women who screech " I don't need a man" will be singing a different tune when they are seniors. (obviously this comment is not directed to rstrmom but to any younger women reading this)

@annemccarron2281

3 жыл бұрын

She shouldn't feel bad about asking that young man to help her and she should not feel bad because he was rude to her. That is a common experience for older people, but there are kind people as well, like the family man (they are just a little harder to come by)

I've shared this here before and I'm inspired to share it again. I live in Santa Monica and there is a public pool nearby where I swim that is shallow enough that if people so choose they can walk their laps as opposed to swim. Before Covid, I used to share a lane with a woman named Aida who is now 108 years old. The only time she can walk is when she is in the pool. Otherwise she is either in a wheel chair or laying down. She can't hear very well or see all that great, but the way she feels when she's in that pool is such that it drives her to get there every single day. She is so precious. She's very petite and tan and always wears red lipstick and I once found out that tucked up into her hat that says Aida, she has two long white braids. Whenever I ask her how she is doing which I have to yell so she can hear me, she always says, "I'm tired. We'll see how much longer this is going to go." and then she laughs. I retell the story of Aida here to simply say, you're not old. In Aida's world, you're just a baby. xo, Melanie

As a 40 year veteran of the airline that you flew💕and on the behalf of all of us, thank YOU for your kindness❤️. You’re an inspiration in so many areas of life. LUV you!

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Gina

If you have your health you have everything you need .....without good health it’s difficult to worry about getting old ! I pray for no pain ,I’lll take the aging ! Be blessed and favored always 💖🙏🏽

@BlingyBea

3 жыл бұрын

Amen❤️🙏🏻

I felt old the day I got an AARP card in the mail, unrequested. That was 16 years before I actually retired. These days, I sometimes feel old if I get mentally rattled. I have learned to take a few deep breaths and say "One thought at a time, one step at a time, one day at a time".

@bettyward7368

3 жыл бұрын

I handle things the same we you do. Thank you for your comment now I know there are at least 2 of us. Lol

@cclarke9301

3 жыл бұрын

There is three of us. I get mentally rattled and I’m not as strong as I use to be for for sure. My niece who I live with diagnosed me as having dementia a few days ago. It broke me. I’ve been in a funk ever since and self conscious about everything I say. I feel old.

@teresalovins3085

3 жыл бұрын

Haaaa, same thing happened to me , age 50 , open mail box and saw the AARP card. I was so angry, I sent it back to them. I'm 70 now

@barbararay5330

3 жыл бұрын

@@cclarke9301 Looks like you are about to give into someone writing your life script for you. Don't let them do it!!! Shake it off!! Square your shoulders and tell the idea of dementia to go back to hell from where it came. Reject it entirely and purpose to live your life in full control. There is so much joy in life to live. Even if it's only watching a beautiful bird fly away or enjoying the company of an old friend. Pray without ceasing. God bless.

I just read your story and it sounds like me. I’m 71 and I’m finding my limitations are like yours. I’m in tears now because I never considered myself old, but everything seems to get harder and harder for me.

A beautiful truth. "As a man thinks in his heart...SO IS HE"..Jesus .

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Gail

I find people to be much nicer to me. I feel like they all look at me like I am their Mother or Grandmother. I find it a perk of getting older!

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Patricia,how are you doing?

I felt old recently because I noticed my children planned the vacation right in front of me. Before I always planned family events. This time I noticed it was them and they didn't call me over to join them. It was a strange feeling. You are not old. You are one of the youngest people I know. Take care Patti! Melissa

@rxstrmom

3 жыл бұрын

Sweet Melissa. Thank you!. Hope you are at least going with them.

@maureenkohsh8777

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that, dear Melissa. Life is such and this is a reality in life. Our children are growing up everyday whether they are married or single. They choose to be whom they wanna be. Different generation gap. Best is never to expect our children to want to include us in their life. It is all about EXPECTATIONS. Have to lower our expectations from our children or else we will be very miserable. I have 3 growth ups. I have learnt to break away from them at times to enjoy trips n leisure with my other friends be it junior or senior friends. I'm a sociable being by nature. I will make a conscious effort to link up with people. I learnt from others to go to where I am celebrated bcs our loved ones may not do that for us. So do have your own circle of friends to chat n go trips with. If you already have them then it is good for you.

@brendaabide3182

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Melissa I know exactly what you mean. Suddenly we are invisible people it seems.

@lindacharlton1122

3 жыл бұрын

Awww Melissa I'm so sorry, but I'll bet they didn't realize they were doing it. I'm sure they didn't mean to hurt you.

@bronxgirltb

3 жыл бұрын

Well said Melissa..

Ok, half way through this and crying, I have to stop for a minute. You are so beautiful inside and out. I needed this so much. I make my own choices, mental adjustments is so true. I have to work on that. Thank you Love from Michigan ♥️

Thank you for a very inspirational video. I find the most difficult part of getting older is getting over other people's hang-ups of being older.

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Virginia

Thank God there are still gentlemen in the world! His mama taught him well❤️

@braveheart977

3 жыл бұрын

And kind gentleladies.

I’m 70 years young. I’m a mother of 3, grandmother of 14 and great grandmother of 20. I haven’t felt old but have noticed of slowing down a bit. What is old anyway. My children are still waiting for me to grow up. I’m single, still working and enjoying my life and family. I don’t know how to be old yet. Love ❤️ your videos and topics you discuss.

@marylynch951

3 жыл бұрын

Maria I agree with you 100 %

Amen! I always send out loving kindness. I feel that, for the most part, it is returned. I also take care of my body, exercise for strength and mobility, pray daily for all people, all nations. I try to remain grateful. Thank you for your uplifting message. 🥰

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Shelly

If they remake Golden Girls, they should cast you. You're beautiful, sweet and I love listening to you tell stories. ❤

Yes, I've had those thoughts too, and for a minute, I feel so depressed about it, but... No one in my family has been Martied 54 years to the same man! I've lived long enough to see this Pandemic come and go. Iam 74 this spring!! Iam thankful to be this age. I can still get up in the morning, walk to the bathroom, and make my coffee!! Just that alone is enough to thank God!!!!

@laurakerr3450

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Brenda , Our true beauty lives INSIDE of us ! We are beautiful when we show kindness to others , and ourself . We are known by the fruit we bear ! I always admired Mother Theresa . What a beautiful human being ! It wasn't always about her ,She had three outfits to wear . If someone is young or old in age , selfish , not kindhearted , always thinking about themselves , I don't care what they look like , That is not beautiful to me ! Have a cup of John Wayne coffee with me ! Be Blessed ! I am 78 ! I also needed watching this today !

@walkingbyfaith5504

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurakerr3450 Laura, what kind thoughtful words you have spoken, it is Definitely a Blessing to be able to get up, THANK GOD FOR ANOTHER DAY, shower, make coffee, I just feel like I don't want to do it alone anymore, Now that I Really know how to LOVE. I have no one to share it with, I came from a very Dysfunctional family, generational curses,

@laurakerr3450

3 жыл бұрын

@@walkingbyfaith5504 I am alone also ! I know what you mean ! I actually live a very lonely life . I feel like i am on another planet sometimes ! I am 1500 miles from my son , 1000 miles from brothers and sisters . I came from a family of eleven children . 7 of us left ! Due to covid , etc , I haven't seen them or my son far too long ! I plan to see them this summer tho ! I hope you can fill that lonely gap in your life ! Jesus Christ said I will never leave you or forsake you . Let us keep our faith strong in him , and we will be at peace and joy with him some day ! We will never be lonely again ! No more tears or heartache ! Are you depressed ? I like going to thrift stores , looking for unusual stuff. I can spend a couple of hours there sometimes ! I also like to cook . Try to do stuff you enjoy , but don't give up ! WE MUST ALWAYS WALK BY FAITH and never ever give up ! God be with you and protect you and guide your path ! Amen !

@marywhelan6366

3 жыл бұрын

My moods swing ..I do fine and then it comes down again. I am praying that entering into these conversations will help. I an 78 with many blessings but feel so much self loathing do to ingratitude.

This 2021 is the first year I felt old. I'm 69 years old. I came down with an autoimmune disease so painful I've cried for the first time and wanted to end things but I do have my children and granddaughters who keep me going. I actually got emotional with your story and I hope to have your attitude soon if I beat this thing I have now. Love your kindness and just love to hear you speak about anything, especially makeup!! Thank you!

@bonnieshaw7324

3 жыл бұрын

We are the same age Doris and I can so relate to your comment. I think I had Polymyalgia about a yr. ago. It came out of the blue, and caused every joint and muscle in my body extreme pain. It was the most misserable thing health wise I had ever experienced. I felt at least 100 years old. It took awhile with some steroid treatments to subside but I'm grateful to only have some pain in one knee now. I hope for the same kind of recovery for you. All my best, Bonnie

I just turned 26 years old, and I have no idea how, but I just came across your channel. I had always wondered if we have some sort of epiphany when we get old, or if we don't really notice. It was really nice to hear your perspective, and I am looking forward to all of life's stages and what they bring. :)

I wept, Patti. Your video made me cry and smile and, ultimately, feel good about myself and where I am at this stage in my life. I am 68...it's a process. I know I will have that "I am old" feeling altogether too soon. But, thanks to your words of enlightenment and courage, I refuse to feel it yet. Thank you so much for this video. Your message was exactly what I needed to hear today. :-)

For me your message was perfect timing. I am 83 and retired Friday from a wonderful, very longtime job where I was valued, felt youthful and needed. As co-workers wished me well in my next life chapter, my thoughts were that the next chapter will be getting old and preparing for leaving this life. Your inspirational video points out that I need a mental adjustment. I now have the gift of time to do what I want and have fun. Thank you.

@annanorth4584

3 жыл бұрын

Wow Julie! How wonderful to have had such a long productive career. Best wishes on the next chapter. I bet you would be a great mentor to other women.

Aw, Patty, it isn’t you that is old, it’s your carry-on that’s old. It was the old broken bag that was the culprit all along. What a gift you gave everyone that helped you. Receiving is a gift you give to another who wants to be of service. What a delightful story. Thank you for sharing.

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Aryana,how are you doing?

@Nan-59

3 жыл бұрын

I actually kept thinking that same thing! A good rolling bag is worth a mint!!

@WhitneyAbrina

3 жыл бұрын

You're so right!

I turned 70 this year, but I feel about 35. I feel wonderful, and you are so right! It is happiness that keeps us young. With that said, happiness comes from within.

I'm so glad I ran across your channel. Yes, I've had that feeling many times. I'm 81 now and I had the same "overhead" issue as you did, and a young man came forward to help me too. I know I have limitations, but I just keep on keeping on.

I am grateful to be here, but aging can be depressing, I am 63...feel like I was 30 yesterday.

@shayk.393

3 жыл бұрын

me too ! just turned 63 days ago. I’m in disbelief how quickly I got to 63

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

@@shayk.393 hello Shay, how are you doing?

Thank you to the kind people in our world. I turned 74 two days ago and I am so grateful for your kindness, Patti. I too feel the age and look much older since even 70 years old. You have made such a difference in my attitude and I really try to stay calm and kind. It’s an ongoing challenge isn’t it to stay kind . Your beautiful face and your wonderful kind words are such an inspiration in my life. Brings tears to my eyes as I listen to you. I deal with ageing by watching your videos in the hope I can learn some lessons from your positivity.🤩

@reikiwithcary2682

3 жыл бұрын

Happy belated birthday Pamela!

@jonnijohnson1006

3 жыл бұрын

I thank you for this video, this last year has slowed me down so much that I’m surprised to find energy sometimes and actually do what I want to when I want to (73 in August) and am very grateful I’ve found your channel.

Recently people made me feel old because they saw me as helpless. I told myself "muscles might be a little weaker but this 70 yr old was tough". It was so uplifting. You're right about it being in your mind. Thank you!

not "helping" someone who is obviously struggling is simply a lack of good manners.

@judywilson5775

2 жыл бұрын

Damned right is. Their parents didn't raise them right.

I wonder if this feeling is stronger when a person has been fiercely independent most of their life?

@christinaaugustine27

3 жыл бұрын

The answer is Yes ! I still struggle with asking for help because I feel I could do everything on my own and I’m only in my 60’s 😅

@celestineweathers5137

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I think that makes the feeling of being old so much worse. At least it does for me. Especially when my children and grandchildren tell me to just sit down and point and give them instructions on how I want something done. I'm 74. But I am so very grateful that they want to take care of me.

@lisamcdonald2877

3 жыл бұрын

@@celestineweathers5137 yes, you are fortunate to have good family members helping you. I'm 64 and hoping my son will become more like your people by the time i need routine assistance.

@gailjones9461

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is. We simply are not used to asking or being asked if we need help it comes as a sad shock.

Well you took this 62 year old to "church" this morning, watching your video. I was riveted to every piece of your story & absolutely loved the end where you talked about feeling hopeful & inspired again & not letting parts of that experience taint you. It's amazing what simple acts of kindness can do for someone....like the wonderful TSA lady who told you how beautiful you are & really changed so much about that trip. I try to life my life that way & always extend kindness whenever I can, and it is amazing how it comes back to you so often when you live like that. And age seems to be relative & "older" always seems to get pushed back as I get older. And yes, it can be a struggle sometimes coming to terms with that & going thru our different seasons of life. Thank you SO much for sharing this story & I will definitely remember this story. xo 💜😎

@kathiestephens9986

3 жыл бұрын

See

I'm 74, my spouse is 75. We are happy to have downsized our big home for condos in three different cities where our grandchildren live. We have the freedom and simplicity of life it affords. We are guests at family events, and no longer have the responsibilities of executing holiday celebrations and family activities, but we still find great joy in being a support to our Grand families. Being old is not something to fear. Every day and year I live is a gift with lessons to embrace and new skills to acquire. I hope to grow older every day with the same grace and humility my grandmother did. Let's quit having anxiety over wrinkles and do our best to manage the aches and pains. All we leave in this world when we depart are memories and the lessons learned by being in honest healthy relationships with those we love.

I sold my house and staying with my son until I can buy a condo and I am feeling so old without my own personal things. It is not easy getting old

Patti I really needed to hear this today. I’m 74 in July I work out and eat pretty well (this is a recent photo) and will be having a knee replacement soon. The other one was replaced 5 years ago. Feeling discouraged at times that my body is failing me but you’ve really helped.

@chantellucky4565

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Elaine, I am also turning 74 this July. I felt pretty old all of a sudden this pass year in this pandemic social-distancing phase. Lose weight unintentionally and not eating as much. But I know it is part of life and today, I decided to continually encourage myself to keep up Self Love and look at the situation with new eyes. I know I'll be ok. I will follow where life leads me in peace. Blessings to you.🌹

@RianShafer

3 жыл бұрын

Elaine, you are truly beautiful! I'll be 67 next month. With my health & medications, I've aged a lot in this past year alone, I look older than you for sure. My friend just had her knee done, she's a sissy when it comes to anything like surgery/pain etc BUT she came out doing fantastic just like my constant pep talks! Loved giving her a rare "I told you so." Things have changed a lot since just 5 years ago. I'm wishing you the same excellent experience & recovery my friend had. hugzzzzz

@avamiller2325

3 жыл бұрын

Girl you look Good!

@scooterpush

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Elaine, You are beautiful. Your 100 watt smile is beautiful and makes your face radiant. I need to smile more.

@lynneedwards3875

3 жыл бұрын

My goodness Elaine! You are lovely! Since you have been thru one knee replacement, you know the drill. The PT after is tough! That said, so are you! You got this! And w dependable knees you can keep moving forward. So grateful there are many of us supporting one another. Many blessings.

I felt old when my husband passed away and I realized all my children were so busy working one and a half or two jobs, raising their families. I decided to move to my hometown, but found out I had a slow terminal disease, plus other health issues. I ended up staying around my children, doctor's, hospital that I was familiar with. I try to stay feeling young in my heart and mind. Being around the kids helps alot! Enjoyed the video!

@kathybates508

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you continue to feel well. Thinking good thoughts for you.

@leewhite-graham753

3 жыл бұрын

@@kathybates508 Me too!

@irenedingey4083

3 жыл бұрын

Frank Sinatra said on his 50th birthday, that his body maybe 50 but my brain is only 28!! I love this quote, so every birthday I say This, I will be 77this August, however we just cannot do some home duty tasks anymore, either can my husband of 55ys and 62yrs together, even changing the bed, trying to lift the mattress to tuck in the sheets and blankets. I could go on but you get my drift. Yes be kind, and thank you for this video, PS. I am 4ft8in I get it Patty Stay safe. From Australia

Yes! I can relate to what you're saying: I am old! I am 79, and to think that I'm "pushing 80" has me almost overwhelmed! The airport and traveling thing has hit me, too! I really don't want to do it anymore! It's more of a hassle getting to the airport, getting IN the airport, getting to the gate, etc. that kills me... Not the flying! I could go on forever, but I've said enough. I am old. Whenever I start having a day of feeling overwhelmed by "what to do today" (I'm retired for the past year and 1/2... after working for the past 14 years at a part time job). Rambling on a lot also confirms that "I am old"! Thanks for sharing. I guess I'll just "Join The Club". I love your channel. Good job.

I’m still grumpy at Southwest. I checked my big bag because it is so much more convenient. My suitcase was “lost.” After waiting a couple weeks (at their request) to see if it turned up, I began the process of making a claim for my property. It was an ORDEAL. It took weeks of filing papers and getting receipts for everything I claimed, some going back several years. I had to grieve the loss of several things that were in that bag that were personal things my children had given me. I do not check bags now. I’m in my 7th decade. I love the things you say near the end of your video about who you are. I hope you continue to be independent (and a bit sassy) for many more years. For me personally, an invisible line has been crossed. I find I’m not as brave as I used to be. I don’t like the feeling. May God bless us every one!

Patti. Thank you. This was so helpful to me today. I was an RN for 44 years. I retired 5 years ago because I physically couldn’t handle the work anymore. Since I retired I have fallen 3 times. I have had 4 separate joint surgeries. Have had a hip fracture on 2 separate occasions and have had a knee replacement that went very wrong. I am in pain for 2 years from the knee. I was always the one helping others and now I know that sense of DOOM that you describe. What gets me through is leaning on the Everlasting Arms of God. Praying for healing in Jesus Name. Thankfully my husband has been a great support. I’m 71. Never thought it would be like this. Those grand babies are so adorable. Being with grandchildren keeps us young doesn’t it?

@lisamcdonald2877

3 жыл бұрын

I have a 9 year old grandson and I LOVE being a grandmother. I never gave that role much thought before my son announced the pregnancy. It wasn't until last year that I was able to spend a significant amount of time with him and we bonded. Now I understand.

@beckyrios4945

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 74 now and a retired RN and now I find myself on the other end of the stick. Whenever someone does something nice for me I really appeciate it and think back of how my patients felt when I did something out of the ordinary for them. God is good. I will from now on check my bag in. I thought it would be easier with a carry on but no. Just came back from Can Cun had a wonderful time but seeing my limitations cropping up. Thankful for each day I have.

You are right Patti. I`m 82 and had that feeling this weekend. The evil one likes to stir up doubts in our minds, but the Lord always lifts us up with a compliment, usually from a stranger, because He knows a compliment coming from a stranger is more appreciated and believable, when we need it most. Love your channel. Love and Blessings to you.

There are some people who are old at 45. I've worked with them and they are so depressing to be around. Yet I had a neighbour who, at 78, was the most uplifting, joyful person I'd ever known. Stay interested in the world of the young, keep active and make the best of whatever beauty you have. I was in my local craftshop recently and the girl behind the counter said I was the prettiest woman she's ever seen.....and I'm 71. I told her she needed to get out more!! But having a compliment like that is so encouraging. Stay happy and healthy Patti... the world needs you!!

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Kathy, how are you doing?

In March I had a ruptured aneurysm in my brain followed by a mild heart attack. I am 70. I have made a complete recovery. My doctors tell me I am a walking miracle. I know that this experience could have made me feel very old but I am determined that I will live my life with joy and thanksgiving for the blessing of still being alive. I will help others and give back as much as I possible can. I will enjoy my grands, husband and friends. Thank you for allowing me to share and for sharing your experience.

I love you Patti!!!! I remember when my Grandmother was visiting us and she fell. She started crying and my Mom and I thought she get herself. She said she wasn't hurt, she just hated getting old!!! That has always stuck with me. But I know it is all about attitude. My Mom is 90 and can't see well, has breast cancer and still lives on her own. She has a good attitude and sense of humor and that is what is needed when ageing!!!! Loved this story!!! Blessings to you and your family!!!!

@giovannamoro8564

3 жыл бұрын

My mom is 90 and like yours has breast cancer.she didn't want to intervene in any way. She caught pneumonia this past winter and her health went down the hill but after 3 months she's slowly recovering. She can't live by herself at the moment but she's still a fighter and her m8nd is still intact. Cancer doesn't seem to be a problem after 2 yrs

@ginalibrizzi5204

3 жыл бұрын

When I read your comment I started to cry. I’m only 53 years old, but feel much older due to very painful chronic illnesses that have forced me to “retire” early and go on disability. But nothing has been more painful than watching my 49 year old sister succumb to stomach cancer. She moved in with me. One day she tripped and fell. I was shocked and devastated. She tried to hide her tears as I asked if she was ok. My sister was the strongest woman I’ve ever known. I was so proud of her breaking barriers into “men’s work” yet always becoming the best. The pain from having stomach cancer was indescribable, but the worst pain she experienced was becoming weak and not being able to do things for herself. She had always been there at a moment’s notice to help others. Three weeks ago she went to her rest, so my pain is still raw. It struck me that we can all face these difficulties and choices even when we’re not yet considered “old”. I find these videos to be relevant and helpful to me already. Thank you for sharing 💞

Patti...I'm glad that you came to the correct conclusion. I'm soon to be 68 and my sister will be 78 and we both feel young and vibrant inside despite the aches and pains, but I just feel that "accomodation" is the word I live by. And deciding that you will check your bags when traveling alone...THAT'S great accomodation to make sure you live your best life. You are an inspiration!!!

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Teresa, how are you doing?

hate airports....started to laugh at your story when the escalator is not working....you have blessed me Patty...thank you!

I can relate to this and I’m just over 50. Was diagnosed with MS in late 40s so for a few years now, I’ve been weak. But I still have my mobility and I’ve lugged bags through the airport, buy now I listen to my body so can’t do what I used to do and that is okay.

Perfect timing Patti as ever. I am 71 and over the last year have lost a lot of confidence in the things I had always done. Living in London is fast and furious which I always took in my stride but now feel daunted by. So I will heed your words and ‘choose not to feel nervous or anxious’. They are just thoughts after all. Thank you for your wisdom. Xx

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Meg,how are you doing?

We all need help, and isn’t wonderful that we can help each other! Continue to help who you can and allow others to help you! By the way, you are beautiful!

My pastor told me about the first time he felt old . He said he was driving his car and must of been driving slowly because suddenly a car full of young men passed by him yelling " Move out of the way old man !" He said at first he was confused because he was like where's an old man ? He was in his 70's and he told me this was the first time he saw himself as older because he always felt so young inside. It's what you feel and retain inside your head space that matters. Like the bible says , even the young grow faint and weary but they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their stregnth . Embrace the wonder of this beautiful world and you will always be young .

Congratulations young lady! You go girl! We are only as old as we let ourself be. There is nothing wrong with needing a bit of help once in awhile, no matter what our age. Thankfully there are still nice people out there, in this crazy world we live in these days.

Shame on that young man who treated you so badly. I feel sorry for him and hope that he wakes up and catches the clue bus before his life implodes on him. I'm 72 and so far I've never let that feeling of being old invade my consciousness even though sometimes my joints and muscles try to tell me so!😄 Thanks for sharing your life experiences--you are an encourager!❤

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Linda,how are you doing?

Oh Patty, I know what you mean. I recently flew back from Palm Springs. There were a group of men (golfers), I knew this because I was behind them when they checked their golf clubs, on this flight. When we arrived in Denver they were standing together in a group at the baggage carousel while we waited for our luggage. There were a few bags from an earlier flight on the carousel. An older, quite heavyset woman came over and really was struggling to get her quite large suitcase off the conveyor. The men just ignored her and a couple of young girls ran over to help her. I’m sure if the woman was a young hottie they would have helped in a heartbeat. I just don’t know what has happened to chivalry. I would like to think my adult sons would have helped this lady.

@sabine3769

3 жыл бұрын

Feminism happened

@lisamcdonald2877

3 жыл бұрын

Feminism is the radical idea the females are as valuable as males. No one has to believe that, but I do. Those golfers should be ashamed of their lack of kindness toward another human being. Leave it to young women to step up.

Oh yes, I occasionally have that feeling, but usually when I’m out of my comfort zone. I spent a week cleaning and cooking for all my family to come over for a holiday meal. I felt really good about everything. Well, all my children and grandchildren got there, laughing and talking with each other, and I didn’t have a clue what they were all talking about or what was so hilariously funny. So, I smiled and laughed too, then went to sit by the other grandmother and we talked and had a good time.

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Carolyn

My dear friend, YES, I've felt it one day just like you!! At first, I was depressed & sad even though I just before that I had felt young & could do almost anything if I put my mind to it. But, the depression didn't last long, for God had a job for me, my friend needed help & I was there to help her & put all my energy into my caring for my friend. Feeling needed was what did the trick for me to get my balance of age. God's word tells us that we are to first, Love Him with all our heart and second, to Love our neighbor as ourselves. True happiness & Balance comes from the fact that we are not alone, God says that we should not be anxious about anything because he is with us & will help us through any trial that befalls us. You live by those standers, I feel your love for others every time I watch your videos! You truly are a blessing to us ladies & that love makes us beautiful....and guess what, the gal at the airport is right....YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, INSIDE & OUT!! I always enjoy spending time with you. You are exactly right, it's our choice to Love God or not because we are blessed with the free will to make that choice! There is soooo much hate & violence in the world today that the peaceful & loving people, those trying to live by Godly principals are the minority today. Well, I'm sorry if I said too much, I did not mean to preach, just saying that only because God loves us, can we love other... Have a Wonderful Day!! Your Friend

@fredwilliam575

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Pamela

I know how you felt I will be 69 soon and I look in the mirror and say who is that person and then I pull out the make up and say there I am. I was the one who could do it all. Now I find it is getting harder and harder to do things and I am alone a widow and kids different place in the country and England. I got so frustrated that it took me for ever to do something that normally would have been done in 2 seconds I said so this is what old is your old. You look old and you can’t do things that you could what a depressing feeling. I sat down and thought next will be a nursing home. I sat there and said the heck with a pity party I may be getting old that’s life but I will not give up I will adjust If I need to tweak the makeup so be it if I have wrinkles I earned them and where is that wrinkle cream it can help some. As far as doing physical things I do what I can and know my limitations. No sense trying to prove I can still do it and be stupid when I know I may hurt myself. It’s very hard for me to ask for help because i was always the one who did it. Before I was the doer but now it is time and it is hard to ask for help it was always I can do it myself or let me do it for you. Now I have to gracefully let go and let others help and you know I can still get things done just maybe not physically but in a smarter way by asking for help I now see that it’s not only be kind and. Ice to others but to yourself as well snd your state of mind will be less frustrated and a lot happier. I also have to thank you for after 43 years of marriage my husband dropped dead and I could not sleep at night and was a private mess. I found you one sleepless crying night and started watching you. You brought me out of depression to lesantly coping some nights I just watched you all night. Your sweet kind way and don’t give up attitude. You are truly one of Gods angels

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Susan,how are you doing?

@valorwoman8747

3 жыл бұрын

Hi I am 79 & counting. I just found you today and been so blessed. You are beautiful. I was widowed at 32 with 3 small children and it has been quite a journey. Having done motivational seminars and getting standing ovations I've been very strong and able to talk myself out of and into whatever needed. However recently I've felt exactly like you...and needed to hear you and read all the comments. Thank you beautiful one .. I'm always the one who helps too. Another thing is you're not needed any more with children and grandchildren. But WE ARE STRONG INWARD AND OUTWARD. Bless you.

@susanmcgrath74

3 жыл бұрын

paul ohlsson hi sorry it took so long to reply but I didn’t realize I had replied to what I had written. I am doing fine and looking forward to seeing friends again go places now that we are allowed. Hope this finds you doing well

@susanmcgrath74

3 жыл бұрын

Helen Jones Thank you for writing to me. You sound like a very strong woman to get you through raising three kids and being a widow. Your right the kids and grandkids don’t need you anymore. They love us but they are busy with there own life’s and families. I’ve decided this is my time and it doesn’t have to include the kids all the time I finally have time to do what I want to do and places I want to go and people I want to see again and I am going to enjoy doing it.

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

@@susanmcgrath74 it's nice to hear from you Susan, life is all about happiness and we must strive to give ourselves the best. How are you enjoying your spare time?

😢 right now. I 💜 this. The feelings are indescribable. It is grief and we must deal with it and process it, and learn from it, and go on, somehow. So grateful 🙏 for your videos!

@anitaprzygocki9350

3 жыл бұрын

Wow you described it perfectly a grief and yes it can be dealt with in time.

I’m 82, and my 13 yr old grandson always tells me I’m beautiful, or pretty. He always makes me feel that way, even though I don’t think I’m either! Bless his beautiful heart! 😻

I have enjoyed listening to you I’m 65 and getting older not to happy with getting old but I’m still alive and pretty healthy I broke my ankle back in June this year and it makes me feel like I’m old but I’m thankful to God I’m still on this world so I can have more time with my husband daughters and four grandchildren who I love so much

75 + and recently had a similar realization that things that were always easy have suddenly gotten difficult 😞

@Paulohlsson7

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Jane,how are you doing?

To tell you the truth, I don’t feel old. I just feel older. Yeah I’m so thankful each day of my life. Since I have been through so many different kinds of tragedies I am so very very very blessed to be on this earth. Their are such good people in this world. Sending you hugs, love, prayers and kindness. By the way, those twins are so precious. ❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼👍🏼👍🏼 ps My Grandmother lived to almost 102... she always loved life🙏🏼❤️👍🏼 remember you are not old...you are just older...

@conniemurphyover70stillgla47

3 жыл бұрын

thumbs up !! :) hug connie

@elizabethbirdallgreer2773

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah! True, just wiser!

I really enjoyed your story. I am near 79 and how I handle aging is to realize I am old in body but young in spirit. I find things to be grateful for each day. I never sit and dwell on what I CANT do but what I CAN do. I do what I am able to do-the rest I choose to leave it alone. When you have arthritis and back problems you realizes where your strength lies and you adjust accordingly. When you do this assessment you will not fight old age but be graceful for everyday God gives us. My motto is every day is “best day yet” that God gives me. Hopes this help someone else. You was smart for checking that bag and continue to check in the future (smile). Keep up the videos!

I’m 71 and fly alone a lot. I have been lucky to have helpful people assist me in airports. I always thank them profusely and tell them their momma raised them right

It is all of the mind! You see, I am 50 and have always been scared to go anywhere far by myself. Last year I drove 2 hours to pick up my daughter and grandson and thought that was big but my mind has made me old all my life. I admire you. Here you are, traveled all over with work and travel. I am proud of you. You are wise. ❤

@paulachristie7807

3 жыл бұрын

I have traveled by myself but mostly on planes with people waiting to meet me. A few years ago I had to drive by myself half way across the country. I was a bit nervous, took me two nights, three days to get home. For the most part I loved it, there were stretches of heavy traffic in unknown cities, but it didn’t last long and my trusty GPS was a huge help. Turns out it was a confidence building experience for me. I look back on that trip with fondness, I’d like to do something like that again.

@sandlappersue01

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulachristie7807 I love this! Congratulations on your experience. I do hope to experience the same, off the interstate, one day. I know it could build lots of confidence.

💚💛❤️💙💜 You are beautiful! 😍 The mountains are old!

This was such a touching video. I was almost in tears because I know how you feel. You are beautiful and kind. Shame on those rude people!

not helping anyone is nothing to do with chivalry, its just decency

You are a TIMELESS ICONIC QUEEN 👸 😍🥰

Thank you. I have tears running down my cheeks. I'm 59 and I've had that feeling of impending doom of aging since the beginning of this decade. I needed your words of wisdom more than I can tell you. ❤

for the record, flight attendants are not required to lift luggage, it is up to their discretion . You have encouraged me to keep strength training and packing light lol.

❤️🙏🏻 There are some Angels 😇 in this world.