I think our monthly cycle affects us deeply but no one in the corporate world seems to ever think about it , we’re just expected to keep pushing like machines

@manuuu1127

22 күн бұрын

They don’t care about it let alone think about it

@zonbella2014

21 күн бұрын

True I’m in my 30s and still need a few days of rest and reflection during my cycle

@Twozerofived

21 күн бұрын

Tell me about it lol work 9-5 as if nothing happened when bleeding 🩸 ughhhh

@candicepantin

21 күн бұрын

Nore do they factor in the life-changing effects of perimenopause and menopause which most women experience

@tinypwincesss

21 күн бұрын

literally, and we are drugged with birth control as 12 year olds because we are not allowed to stay home and rest on painful days

Tbh I agree. If you’re single and still at home with your parents, it may be a good idea to have a 9-5. Stack a big savings for you or invest it well. And don’t get in debt. Bc later when on your own, or married with kids, 9-5 don’t work for you.

@victoria.josephine

22 күн бұрын

I agree. In my early 20s this was a great arrangement but being a married mom it’s tougher now

@loveyhernandez5203

19 күн бұрын

@@victoria.josephineomg u look so good

@taylorhagler5959

14 күн бұрын

My parents were taking my money .

She's absolutely right. I did the 9-5 thing and it served me well. But then I had kids (3 to be exact) and I learned the really hard way that that life was not sustainable via chronic illness. My body spoke for me. So I've been in a deep mindbodyspirit healing/self-development journey the last few years, and everything she says in this video is correct. Women NEED to be creative. We need our own thing. I quit my 9-5 job that I thought I loved so much to be a SAHM and focus on my health. But that wasn't enough. I'm learning that I need to step into my true self and explore what *I* want. Me and me alone. This isn't being selfish. This is wellbeing.

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

You got this 🤎

I am 35 and I took a career break to re evaluate my life. I am still single and I am trying to figure out what I shld do next. I was wondering if I am wasting my time self reflecting and all that but this video brings me some relief. The world is already guilt tripping me for taking a break from stressful career and not getting married which affected my self esteem and increased my self doubt. Thank you for this video and I hope I take good decisions going forward :)

@LHydro

13 күн бұрын

Figure out what your “next right move is” and keep repeating that. You will find yourself further than you dreamed within one year ❤ God bless

@IFeelPositiveLife

20 сағат бұрын

We are same in this situation. I figured out what I want to do in my life. And now I'm following my soul purpose, also working from home. Now life feels amazing as I'm not allowing anyone to validate my existence.

You are born with value , its only your self esteem that lowers that value in your own self perception.

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

For sure!! 🤎

9-5 makes you loose patience that your family deserves. This goes for both male & female.

What is a high value women? 1. Self-image: How you see yourself and How You perceive yourself -- It all starts in the mind: You know you are Worth it -- Meditation and Reflection -- Make yourself happy 2. Know what kind of money you want to make and HOW will you make that money? -- What lifestyle do you want in your 40s? 3. Being FIRM and RUTHLESS in YOUR VISION -- Say No to bullshit opportunities 4. TAKING ACTION - IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING -- Outsource as much as you can --- it really helps (Hire a nanny) 5. If you thinking Long Term -- Everything Takes Time to Grow : Take Your Time , Pour your Love in your Career / Business -- You are Going to build a name for yourself in that community/ niche.

I have worked for myself for 10 years. Even though it has its ups and downs, it’s much more peaceful

We’re gonna need some corporate girlies to start building a different corporate life for us.

Million dollar weekend and millionaire Fastlane are my favourite business books ! Fastlane saved my life 🎉🥺

@Loveprevails1111

22 күн бұрын

Interesting 🤔 adding these to my booklist 💕

@Ari_diwan

22 күн бұрын

@@Loveprevails1111 you will love them I'm confident 🥹

@giannalomeli2216

22 күн бұрын

thank you for the recs! 🥰

I’ve never seen a KZread video where a women agrees with my values! I just graduated college with my bachelors degree and I’m not sure what I want to do yet but I’m a stay at home daughter. My ultimate dream is to be a stay at home wife and mom one day but I also want to put my passion into something which I think could be starting my own KZread channel. I’m so glad I found your video because everyone else’s opinion in today’s world thinks women need to work work work and that’s just not what I want to do. I want to do something I love and be in my femininity because even when I was in college I felt like I was in my masculinity due to all the deadlines. Maybe you could do another video on how to start your own business/passion? I’m not sure how to word that or just how to help younger girls that are not sure about their career? For me I feel like it’s a religious thing as well for men being the providers and I’m only 24 but I have a traditional mindset.

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

You’ll be living your dream I promise🫶

@kate_alexusa

10 күн бұрын

The system needs in single working women to pay taxes, bills, renting and other stuff to run economy (( but it’s need for system not for us ))

7.27 - yes being a mom means you have to be in your musculine - it's a hard job

@diaryofavirtuouswoman

20 күн бұрын

False . That is only the case if you are trying to be a mother ,father , protector , and provider…

@Artandnatureloveeee

18 күн бұрын

But women in our society are really expected to be all of that. Especially single moms

@Ari_diwan

18 күн бұрын

@@Artandnatureloveeee focus on finances and education , saving for retirement - useless opinions of society will not pay our bills or put food on the table

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

🫶

I was thinking the same way as you moths ago. I am glad someone as you put that on a video. We cant work like men. They should provide for us and women come as aid but the society has shift everything, make us work equally or even harder than men. I have a 9-5pm job and now I want to do a job I want, like possibly the one I create with less hours so I can be in my femine era and taking care of my family.

@Sarah-kv3qs

22 күн бұрын

Too many women doing just that and thriving as many won’t have the luxury of having men take care of them and bills need to paid. In the past they worked too. I do like that we are in place now that women can choose what works for them though

@diaryofavirtuouswoman

20 күн бұрын

I agree with your statement, but let’s speak facts and call out that women have been deceived by feminism and FOUGHT for this!! Women were used as pawns and pushed this nonsense/backwardness into society ..

@tulip811

9 күн бұрын

You wanna work late and night shift ???

I am out of a job right now for over a year and so depressed i feel like there's no hope for women like me wo aren't in a trade or nursing force it's exhausting ad depressing. 9-5s aren't hiring either

@laveesta55

21 күн бұрын

Or instacart

@CC-br9qg

19 күн бұрын

I am in the same boat, 24 years old woman been unemployed for 8 months. I have a degree as well.

@CC-br9qg

19 күн бұрын

24 year old woman, never got an entry level job out of college. I feel left behind and I want to give up. I’m lucky I haven’t been kicked out of my parent’s house. Restaurant let me go in October. 3.95 GPA/tons of extracurriculars business major. Had an accounting job rescinded right at graduation in 2022. Anyone else out there like me? 😞 i feel so alone. I've been rejected from a ton of call center jobs, Amazon, CVS, UHAUL, Delta, American Airlines, Dave & Buster's, AppleBee's (even w. 7 years of hospitality experience), the list goes on. Jobs I have been rejected for get reposted allllll the time. There's a HubSpot job I got rejected after 3 rounds over 4 months last year keeps getting reposted every 8 weeks. Rejected from $12-15 an hour jobs too. It's brutal. Over 2,400 jobs applied to

@bevq2246

19 күн бұрын

@@CC-br9qg the job market is in shambles rn but it’ll pick up at some point so don’t give up. I was literally working in McDonald’s until this year and just got my first tech job at 25

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Is there a skill you’re good at? Like it can be anything. Sewing, cleaning, makeup.. hair.. photography..? you can start offering that as your service.

My boss just told me that he wants me to work more than 9-5 🙈 and working less is nearly unacceptable and for him not understandable why people want more free time. HELP 🙏🏻

@saraashraf1703

24 күн бұрын

You need to know if your additional work hours will be paid as over-time if not then it is not acceptable to ask you that. Secondly it is not free time it is called private life and thankfully you have a lot to do other than work it is not our responsibility that he has no life 😊 & most importantly we work so we can live a quality life not living to work

@goddessglow6996

23 күн бұрын

Tell your boss he’s delirious

@caro.jahdis

23 күн бұрын

@@saraashraf1703 thank you that’s so true: it’s called „private life“ not „free time“. I’ll keep that in mind next time he talks with me about: how he doesn’t understand why people need that much free time and if I even want to work at all. Yes, Actually I have enough things to do beside my work and all the household 🧹 stuff. My boss just don’t see my todo’s for my everyday life. And I also have hobbies and want to become more financially independent as a woman. And yes we are working for a living and not living for work… so true! 🙏🏻 I‘m sure he would pay me more if he officially wants me to work more hours. But for me time is more precious than money. So we will see. Actually I’m planning to reduce my working hours so I have time to work on my own business. 📸 we will see how the conversation with my boss goes 😅🙈 PLEASE PRAY FOR ME

@caro.jahdis

23 күн бұрын

@@goddessglow6996 better not 😅

I’m so glad I took a week off next week to do give myself some mental breathing space. I knew I was doing something although I’m not sure if my choices are the most effective I’m trying to do something.. anything.

You dropped some GEMS in this video! Thank you so much for posting this.

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Amazing!! 🤎

Love coming across my community of like minded divine feminine women on youtube❤always supporting each other

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Same 🤎

One must see herself being worthy and achieving the things they desire in their mind in order to see it in their reality. 🖤

Hey, fariha, like your perspective.Sometimes it is not about enjoying but responsibilities.

Happy to align with someone who thinks this way!

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Yay! Same 🤎

I barely have any energy left after the day job to take care of myself. Working for horrible bosses has changed me from an artistic, beautiful, lively person into someone almost lifeless. Beauty, energy, dreams, opportunities...all gone.

@arundhatifit

13 күн бұрын

I feel you!!!

@Fariharri

10 күн бұрын

🥲

i really like your perspective on this!

@Fariharri

25 күн бұрын

Thank you!

U are amazing mam❤ I liked the way u think nobody talks about on this , we as a woman start loosing our feminine energy just by grinding ourselves. Love from india❤

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

For sure 🤎

Excellent perspective ❤

This was so needed ❤ God will make a way

Ooo love the timestamp design idea

You are an Angel for this 🙏🏽 thank you

I need to take action. I don’t have kids yet but I work full time from home. I still have to cook and clean. But I need socialization. I want a part time job or just an easier job.

Thanks for this video and reality check❤

Only 1:34 minutes in and it's already so good!

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

I’m so glad 🤎🤎

Thank you!

❤❤❤thanks this video came at the perfect time plus I was just thinking about finding something else to do

@Fariharri

25 күн бұрын

Awesome!!

Hey Fariha, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

Love this ❤

Please Make Advice Videos for Young Adults as well.

love this girl

Hmm I don’t think whether or not people join a random WhatsApp group should inform whether or not you make a pivot in your business or if your idea is good or not. It can take a long time to build trust with consumers and build an audience for your marketing. Sending cold text messages isn’t the way to do that. I just don’t want women to give up on their passions because WhatsApp messaging didn’t showcase their business properly and get people to join the group .

@Sungirl88

21 күн бұрын

I can’t believe she is telling women to jump into the scammer ville that is WhatsApp. I mean wow. Otherwise nice message she should have left that part out.

Good video

im like this everyday. im crying inside

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Praying for you 🫶

I think with informational interviews first to make sure it’s the right thing, STEM careers starting training at 18 before family planning becomes important can provide a way out of this

@flyfreewithme

19 күн бұрын

Some fields have a relative lack of highly technical people, and in general they can have unique things like part time work for doctors or flexible work for engineers and professors. Some tech companies have uniform leveling and pay scale with no negotiation to correct for underpayment bias. one caveat if you’re deciding but have the ability and inclination plus time to sit and grind until achieving mastery

@flyfreewithme

13 күн бұрын

The unfortunate part is there shouldn't be this kind of stigmatized (as in you can't openly discuss in person) bias in the workforce for most women, because the disadvantage for STEM is the training is long and arduous and once you're on the job as a technical person you have to be accurate and fast often (because there's a bias against women being good at STEM too, to avoid stereotype fueled bullying). Then there comes glorification of yourself and a superiority complex because of the grueling nature combined with being showered with attention after. Anything stereotypical for women is rife with competition and devaluement usually from my understanding. My theory is the people who don't feel misogyny tend to be extremely high performers in one way or the other, and shielded from reality by either some kind of attention or stereotype in the other direction, a different echo chambered peer group, they're misogynistic + indoctrinated by achievement culture back and set things up in a certain way. Often they don't believe it exists fully. Maybe more female leaders is the only thing that will change this

Please guide with some ideas of how to turn my skill to a service based buisnesss .I was a teacher and left my job for stahm and now I have started my youtube channel

So true

I agree

Anyone from Kenya here ❤ like this

I learned this a while ago and I’m still learning. It is so important for us as women to pick careers that honor our femininity. We do so much better it prevents us from being masculine. It prevents us for having such a tough guard not to say that having a guard is wrong but at times it just makes it very hard and I wanna be loving but assertive.

so truuuuue

We are so fragile as woman, we need to be in the house not outside working😢. Man should be providing a safe space for us to be comfortable but work is not for woman naturally, God created it that way. ❤

@tulip811

9 күн бұрын

Sure, that's why they leave after 3 kids

I want to be an online course creator and sell digital courses - info products

❤

Question. Does your nanny have children of her own? Is she able to have a high value woman career?

@Fariharri

10 күн бұрын

Great question! She has one adult son, and yes I make sure she has a high value woman career. I try to make her job as easy as possible by making her the boss of her role. I don’t tell her much what she needs to do. She does it by herself and decides everything.. makes life easier for her and me. The only work I did was to hire the RIGHT person. That was my job. I constantly tell her as well that I want her to enjoy coming to work and problem solve with her. I’m writing all of this so ladies who are employers can get an idea of how we can CREAT high value woman jobs! It’s possible by focusing on their mental health and needs.

Having children is harder than a 9-5 and that’s a lifetime job girl. That’s stupid

Hey! Do you want an intro, outro, banner, thumbnail?

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

Please send an email to Fariharriworri@gmail.com

9 to 5 is not for male either period! Very exhausting job. Male or female both loose energy bcz of their job

Raspberry leaf tea gets rid of cramps

@Fariharri

18 күн бұрын

That’s good to know 🫶

So y'all wanna work 3 shift ? One week early, next week late, third week night and 4th week early again ?? Is that what you want ?!?!?!?!?!?! Jk I know it would be easier if we could just work individually, like always coming in a different time and still be there for 8 hours 😂

You are so appealing

Do you eat meet? Eggs?

@Fariharri

10 күн бұрын

Yes!!

The real Goal of a woman, a HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS A MOTHER AND GOOD AND GODLY WIFE.. the reason why the world isn’t working is because of these false “high value women”. Stop it come on.

@tulip811

9 күн бұрын

Don't you have a relationship with your father to deal with

Meh most jobs will underpay women and at some point once you hit 35, jobs won’t really look to hire you due to ageism. It’s just pointless long term because women will find themselves in a rut at the later stage in life :)

@ak-47intelligence75

24 күн бұрын

Speak for yourself, there are many business ventures women can look into such as offering cooking class, teaching any subject , music lessons, sewing, singing lessons etc . Age is just a number.

@Handleitt1

24 күн бұрын

At 35 is when women are their own boss or becoming their own boss. Married or unmarried women are naturally a creator.

@Sarah-kv3qs

22 күн бұрын

At 35 in corporate they will work you there until you are 70 lol. They don’t care. The underpaying though may be something though

Wtf 😂

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