She made a good point that there is no one way to grow hair. I watch some other KZreadrs that swear by not doing anything at all and leaving your hair in protective styles for 4-6 weeks (like Seun Okimi), others that use different natural products consistently (Eugenia Kelcy), and others that heat stretch (Green Beauty). All have beautiful long hair. There's no one road to the magical long hair destination, but there some commonalities between most naturals with long hair, which I've found to be moisturizing consistently and protective styling/low manipulation styles.

@rb7007

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, I agree. Moisturising and low manipulation is key! Back in the day when jheri curl was a thing, I had mid back length hair. Previous, to that it was very short. All I did was spray Scurl in it, apply a little Scurl gel....pick it out a little with an Afro comb, left it and it grew like weeds. But I rarely shampooed my hair at that time! 🤷‍♀️

@onekeagboroj

2 жыл бұрын

This makes so much sense. Thank you sis

@moniquew3603

2 жыл бұрын

Very true. The biggest thing is learning what makes YOUR hair thrive.

@praiseythemmy618

2 жыл бұрын

💯

In my natural hair journey I've realized healthy hair comes to me when my diet is right, I'm not over stressed and I'm loving my hair and taking care of myself. Whether my hair is long or short it's most beautiful when I love it and take care of my body.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yes. Internal health care and a healthy diet are crucial to achieve flourishing natural hair.

I just love you so much! You inspire me! Your strong faith in God, values and tips on natural hair are amazing. God bless you immensely Charity!

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏽.

@Bayizy

2 жыл бұрын

Same here...God bless you two

Before I joined the journey I was gullible to think that growing long natural hair occurred in 3yrs. Clearly that wasn’t the case, I’ve learnt that I need to keep my routine simple to keep my hair healthy. But all these points are very valid.

Thanks, Sis Tips are really helpful. God has given us this gift and we ought to care for it. Nothing is as beautiful and natural that comes from above. Sometimes I pray about my hair too

This is a fantastic conversation and you are sharing golden advice!! Love it!!!

I’m so glad I found your channel! Thank you for all the helpful tips!!

Thank you Charity for sharing this wonderful 👌 hair tutorial video

Thank you sis for the sincere guide on achieving a healthy long hair...I appreciate your beauty too!😍

Thank you for sharing these tips. I will try the conditioner and oil together to condition my hair.

Great pointers. Thanks for sharing 👍

Hello, I am just coming across your channel. You have blessed me. I am an older woman and I have natural hair and now I want more length. I will be incorporating some things that you are saying, some I already do. God bless you. Keep going!

Woosh off topic but we're really growing ❤️❤️. 10k before Christmas like I'm super excited. Blessed be the Lord

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

😃 love your energy and support!

Absolutely like each steps to retain length

How you can grow your hair? Hair regiment is absolutely key!!! products do NOT GROW UR HAIR!!!! it takes serious dedication and desire to learn your hair took me the first 3 years beginning of my hair journey to completely understand that!

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, these tips must aid one to create a hair care regimen. I will be posting about hair care regimen soon. I’m glad that you have an understanding of your hair care.

Everything you said is very true!!

I'm happy for you dear sister watching your channel grow. Keep it up sis 💪💯😍❤️

AMEN MY SISTER THANKS

Every information is on point. Thanks for sharing God bless

Thank you for your lesson dear, God bless you 🙏😘

I’ve just come across your channel and I love your tips thank you so much. God bless.

Knowing what to do to my hair and doing it are 2 different things - especially with a hectic family life. It’s a struggle to find time, let alone energy.

Hi Charity! I really enjoyed this video. I'm subbing!

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for subscribing!

Thank you Ma...I will stay clue to your techniques.

First one here!! New subbie. I love your channel.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Yay!😃 you’re very welcome to my channel! Thank you for subscribing🙏🏽.

Thanks so much for this video

Thank you for sharing this wonderful video! God is really using you to do a great work! I still use coconut oil and I love ❤️ it. I have an oil blend that I mix up myself and I oil my hair with it.

You must create a personal relationship with your hair to get Ur hair to tell you what it needs to be long. Listen and learn from your hair n body.

So informative thanks❤️

I admire your hair so much, Thanks for information dear,?stay blessed always

I just subscribed. I just love your gentle spirit.

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for subscribing! You’re welcome to my channel 😊

Thank so much for the tips,I just subscribed now.😊❤

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for subscribing! You’re welcome to the channel 😊🙏🏽.

Thank you 👍

Princess Charity when you said do not comb your hair dry, I hit the subscribe button, you are the person I am looking for. 2 days ago I lost more tan 700 hair, 😭😭 I did a mistake as a beginner manipulation never again.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

😊 you’re welcome to the channel.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your hair. But it’s an experience not to be repeated I’m sure.

You are really right dear about keeping your hair style for about 1 or 2 months before taking care ,I just did it for a month and just unstyled it ,I nearly cried when I saw what hat break on the floor. Thank you for 4he tips it will help me 😍😍🥰

@jk9084

2 жыл бұрын

You need to moisturize and seal your hair in protective styles twice a week (loose ones or cornrows, I don't recommend weaves/crochet). If you do this consistently, your breakage will be minimal when you take it out.

Great video, I love your tips!❤ What is you hair porosity? Sorry if it was mentioned in your video.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Mavis. I consider my hair normal porosity.

Please share with us some ways to style our short hair. Some of us mostly add weaves because we find it difficult to style the 5-7 inches hair 😄

Hi Charity what deep conditioning do you use?

I just came across ur channel n really love your content, I really applaud u on dressing modest and stuff Are u from Ghana

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome to my channel😊. Yes, I am originally from Ghana.

@wendy4313

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar That’s so nice! Am from Ghana too…Keep up the good content and thank u for sharing with us God bless u 🙏🏾🤗🤗

I really admire your hair so much n I think my edges are responding to your recipe thanxs a lot

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Oh, great to hear!😊 you’re welcome.

@thebrandauthoritypublisher

2 жыл бұрын

What is the recipe? I'd love to try it

@nyendwohajulius8056

2 жыл бұрын

The recipe is keeping the edges moisturized then apply castor oil daily.

@nyendwohajulius8056

2 жыл бұрын

@@thebrandauthoritypublisher hi Akosua keep your edges moisturised and make sure to apply castor oil daily.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

@@thebrandauthoritypublisher this one I believe: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eJ6g2MyOm6SYh84.html

Thanks so much

Thank you so much may God bless you

I love how your routine is so simple yet effective!

You guys are lucky sis. My hair can’t take raw Shea butter or too much oil because am low porosity. But my hair love coconut oil. Oil normal dry my scale and itching scales. So I used Sulfur 8 and grease and so far it work for me.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Our hair is very unique. I am glad that you have found a product that works for you. Continue to pay attention to your hair and make adjustments when necessary.

New beeiiiiii happy to be here. Thank you so much for all the infor above all l thank God for your faith in God we are nothing without him💕. I have changed the way I handle my hair after watching your vedios and I believe consistency is the key.

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

Aw, you’re so welcome here!😊

Hi, happy new year sis. Please what do because after your braiding your twists looks nice and neat 👌. And do you use any twists cream.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Hey! Thank you😊. I use my home made Shea butter mix to twist. Here’s how I achieve the twists: kzread.info/dash/bejne/p6Jrw6OQnNqoqbA.html

Wawoo ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ thanks sharing nice tips beautiful 😍 🤩 👌 ❤️

Idk… I don’t touch my hair, don’t wash it for a month each time and it’s growing “well I’m retaining length” I find not touching my hair is just letting my hair grow and thrive. Each time I take down my braids I can feel more length and weight.

@chocolatediamonds5760

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯 me too👍🏾

@jk9084

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, but that is because I spray/oil my scalp and moisturize and seal my hair while in braids. Before I did not do that and lost a lot of hair when loosening my braids.

Hello Ma'am Please can you tell me products I can use to treat female pattern baldness?

you are beautiful. you ora is beautiful and you speak so gracefully. it gives me happiness to watch your videos

Oh wawoo what anice texture of the hair, thanks Jesus for the love you give to those who loves you, may you bless all of us with search a beautiful hair in Jesus's name

Everything is always about length retention but I've really done my best at that and my hair is strong, smooth and healthy but it's still short. Could you please do a video on hair growth. Like what will actually get this hair out of my scalp

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting topic - noted. Thank you 🙏🏽.

@BA-vv1gy

2 жыл бұрын

Strong, smooth, healthy, AND short hair is beautiful!! Short hair is also beautiful. While I understand the desire to grow longer hair, I feel like the constant emphasis by influencers on the concept of long = beautiful is a detrimental message and causes people to negate the value of hair that is shorter than the prized waist length or tailbone length. Just my humble two cents🤔✌️

@brittanymilgan

Жыл бұрын

You might be stunting your growth with improper water intake and diet. I noticed when I started drinking more water, taking a multivitamin and eating more Whole Foods an increase of my hair growth

Nice hair. Did you blow dry it.? You’re hair doesn’t look like it shrinks up. When I moisturise mine weekly it shrinks, particularly the roots.

Thank you! I suffer with fairy knots and dry hair.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Deep condition your hair often, moisturize hair and apply more products to ends of hair, style hair in a way that ends of hair are tucked away.

@cspann33

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar thank you!

@farishageorge6464

2 жыл бұрын

@@cspann33 I have e fairy knots as well

@jk9084

2 жыл бұрын

Those are the worst! But I have them when my hair is loose and the curls start to intertwine. For dry hair, start using (fresh) aloe vera combined with your leave in and seal. A GREAT leave in is Kinky Curly Knot Today, makes your hair super soft!

How do I deal with dangruff

Hi sis. I love you videos , I'm leaning alot, sis I saw a picture of a black and white dressI believe I saw something in the design please pray over this look closer at the design of the black and white dress 👗 in this video, I loved sideways at the design an it looked like I saw something , I'm careful with ver busy designs , hopefully you understand and see what I saw Bless you

Do you use a leave in lotion after your 4 things almond oil, coconut ,shea butter, fractionated coconut oil you do!

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

This is the leave-in conditioner that I currently use for my hair: payhip.com/b/nH6PS

Nice❤

Hi Mrs Umar, my natural hair fall out whenever am washing, please what can I do to prevent that. Thank u

@juniaosme2396

2 жыл бұрын

I use to have that problem also. When I would wash my hair I would get so much matted clumps of hair even after detangling. Thank God cause he saw my frustration. He lead me to a couple of youtubers that either braid or twist their hair loosely while washing it and the also finger comb their hair. That's what saved me. Of course tweak it to fit you. For me, for example, I wash and deep condition weekly. I keep my hair in protective styles. When I switch styles I keep my hair in the braids and wash and condition and moisturize. Once my hair dries I unbraid my hair and finger detangle and put back into braids or twist for a couple days until I decide what long-term protective style I'll do next. Let me know how that helps you 🙂

You have lovely hair😍. Do you do protein treatments? I already do everything you mentioned, but my ends are my biggest issue. I trim often, but they always get thin and stragely.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

🤔 do you tuck them away often in styles? Excessive exposure and contact with clothing can definitely lead to those effects of your ends. Also, apply more product on your ends.

@ayolovephat

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar 👍👍👍

❤❤❤❤❤

I dont know what to do with my hair,even if i use water or hair oil in the morning my hair gets dry by evening ehat should i do.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Okay, you may need to add a butter based hair cream. Cream will help to seal the hair further. Give it a try.

@michelleongoro5495

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar i sure will give it a try

@melove22265

2 жыл бұрын

My hair is the opposite it gets to oily I just wanna dry some of that out sometimes that’s why I use rice water everyday and that’s not even working it still oily i do moisturize it everyday I can go 2/3 weeks with moisture in my hair which I would never do I gotta moisuriz my hair everyday GOT TOO

@edriswilson2965

2 жыл бұрын

I add a small amount of honey or glycerin to home made rose water and spritz my hair when it feels dry.

Pls Can low porosity follow this step and also use coconut oil and shea butter on my hair

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Observe your hair after application to see how your hair reacts.

I have short hair, what do you recommend to protect the ends of my hair?

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

In this video I share practical tips for short natural hair, I hope it’s helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/n5poz7yhqszQkps.html

Thank you so much Pls can i use Cocoa butter for my hair

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, raw cocoa butter. You may create a hair butter like this one: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eJ6g2MyOm6SYh84.html

@RoseRose-rk3jt

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar thanks you so much sis❤️

Hi there new subbie here. Please could you advice me on oils to use for low porosity hair .

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Hello there, you’re very welcome to the channel!😊 You may try coconut oil, olive oil, avocado oil, almond oil or grape seed oil.

@anisiakithinji5153

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar Thank you so much .God bless you

@naturallyawesomefitness1738

2 жыл бұрын

Cocoa butter oil is also a good one to try :).

@anisiakithinji5153

2 жыл бұрын

@@naturallyawesomefitness1738 Thank i will give it a try

I hear you guys talking about preservative hair styles. What about the person who work and has to comb their every day? come on some of us comb our hair every day because of work.....

Why don't you use a leave in conditioner?

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

I am not against leave in conditioner. I have done without it over the years. But, I have recently included it in my hair care regimen due to its benefits to hair. I will share details on the channel soon 😊.

How long have you been natural

I would never survive not cleaning my hair for that long. I’d scratch my scalp out. Not sure how anyone is able to do that.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

How long?

Mrs Charity, I just wanted to ask, my hair is approximately the same texture as yours, so how often should I wash my hair for a clean scalp? Once a week, once every two weeks?

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

Minimum of once a week or at least once every 2 weeks.

@elizabethkarlton4615

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsCharityUmar Okay thank you!

@naturallylissa

2 жыл бұрын

Hi , just wanted to advise if you don't mind. Myself I usually wash my hair when it's dirty and it feels dry, that is no matter how much product you add it still feels dry-ish or if your scalp starts itching. Hope this helped😊

@elizabethkarlton4615

2 жыл бұрын

@@naturallylissa Thank you!

How should we wash our hair? How often should we oil and moisturize the hair? Should use just plain water only or add some natural herbs to hydrate the hair? Do you have pdf for this video? How long can one achieve long hair? How do I make my hair add full volume?

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

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@jk9084

2 жыл бұрын

In twists. 2-3 x a week. Both do but adding herbs accelerates hair growth and thickness. It can take years depending on your hair growth speed and consistent healthy hair practices. I am all for ayurveda! Hibiscus, fenegreek, neem, moringa and amla all are great for hair thickness/length/health.

Please can I use bar soap to wash my hair. Tanx

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

Unless it is specifically designed for washing hair, I wouldn’t recommend using any bar soap to wash hair

Please change your alarm battery it is beeping throughout this video--otherwise a really great video

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

😊 thanks. It was taken care of.

Pls can you make a video on how to grow edges? 😢

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

Sure, I have that on my list 😊.

Are you low or high porosity?

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

I consider my hair normal porosity

How long have you been growing your hair?

@MrsCharityUmar

Жыл бұрын

Current hair is 10+ years. Here’s my journey: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iXaTzJqeZqudYKQ.html

Spiritual component 🙄 I wouldnt go that far it's just hair.

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

This was what I meant: kzread.info/dash/bejne/e3aardFunpTNprw.html

I don't think there is any tips to make hair grow, hair grow regardless, in every race there are people who can't grow long hair no matter what they do and others effortlessly their hair grow. Otherwise with all these youtbes hair gurus, every black woman would have long hair by now

How long have you been natural

@MrsCharityUmar

2 жыл бұрын

10+ years. Here’s my journey: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iXaTzJqeZqudYKQ.html