How to Get A Girl Obsessed With You

This video may contradict everything you believe about what a good interaction is. If that's the case, good! It's hard to have successful interactions if the vision you have of success, is actually something that would be boring or un-arousing to a woman.
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  • @michaelpassmore7839
    @michaelpassmore78394 ай бұрын

    This goes back to the value vs comfort idea. She won’t desire your advances until you present a certain level of value. Giving her sh*t sub communicates that you are a man of value because it shows that you’re willing to take social risks in the conversation.

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    3 ай бұрын

    Only if you're ugly If you're attractive it just comes off as drama because you already have value to her

  • @michaelpassmore7839

    @michaelpassmore7839

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ashleybanks-wm4cg it’s a sliding scale. The more ugly you are, the more game you need. The more attractive you are, the less you need.

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    3 ай бұрын

    @@michaelpassmore7839 that's not true because fat and short dudes have stolen baddies from me Game is the great equalizer You need game regardless Game gets you anything you want and if anything more attractive guys have it harder than average guys because they think we're already successful with women no matter what we do

  • @deerickmo
    @deerickmo4 ай бұрын

    Can you make a video on some good push pull negative spikes you can incorporate that are subtle but work so that we can get the idea a frame around them? Thanks for the content 🎉

  • @ThatMexicanGuyLuis
    @ThatMexicanGuyLuis4 ай бұрын

    Tbh I use to have the nice guy syndrome, but the last couple months I’ve been doubling tripling down on like talking back as in like telling her what I think n it sounds like I’m mad but I’m not. It gets the attention soooo much, n tbh this sticking point for me is like a gift. It works. The fact I was pondering today about why I need to 5x is most people would consider disrespect or mad. It’s not it does a lot to her n for her n you.

  • @keys8885
    @keys88854 ай бұрын

    Exercises or goals to reach when going out and talking to women may be a good topic

  • @cuddlingcoachingwithkyle3673
    @cuddlingcoachingwithkyle36732 ай бұрын

    Genius metaphor about a movie where everything goes ‘perfectly’!

  • @Christopher-rt1jq
    @Christopher-rt1jq4 ай бұрын

    yes examples please

  • @Something-Waffle

    @Something-Waffle

    4 ай бұрын

    ?

  • @Beanskiiii

    @Beanskiiii

    4 ай бұрын

    Andrew Tate

  • @MaesterPD

    @MaesterPD

    4 ай бұрын

    Watch his old RSD vids... It's all there 😘

  • @Mooseboy240

    @Mooseboy240

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@MaesterPD haha easier said than done. Rsd was putting out gold back in the day they sold out or gave up either way they should just rerelease all their old vids.

  • @cakeboss1721

    @cakeboss1721

    4 ай бұрын

    Very true their old stuff was hardcore and very straight froward but unfortunately they would totally get cancled these days for saying the things they said back then .​@Mooseboy240

  • @taiyeoluwole2295
    @taiyeoluwole22954 ай бұрын

    Pls make a video on cold approach game online game and social circle game

  • @Starsteam1
    @Starsteam14 ай бұрын

    How do you avoid paralysis by analysis? With so much information online how do you practice the steps efficiently and proactively without distraction from other concepts? This may be the cause of my approach anxiety.

  • @RafaelGringo

    @RafaelGringo

    4 ай бұрын

    In which level do you consider yourself? If you're a beginner, I would set for smaller goals and advance step by step. Practice your openers only, don't mind about what to say next, make a compliment or whatever then leave. Then once you're comfortable with that, go to the next step: open and maintain a conversation for more than 5 minutes without necessarily showing intent. Once comfortable, start to show intent during your interactions but don't stress out about closing. Then, after all that is natural to you, try to number close. Again, once comfortable, you can try instant dates or hookups. Remember to in every step you take, to analyze yourself and the interaction, what you did right or wrong and fix it and keep improving in your next approaches.

  • @calmsimon

    @calmsimon

    4 ай бұрын

    @@RafaelGringo good advice

  • @Starsteam1

    @Starsteam1

    4 ай бұрын

    @@RafaelGringo I understand if your a beginner and I did implement that advice, the thing is I consider myself to be high intermediate at this point but struggle with the latter parts of doing dates and closing well. The complicated closing stuff is confusing because it's so nuanced with multiple layers to practice.

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    4 ай бұрын

    Just get out there and keep meeting people regardless. Best way to teach yourself what is and isnt working for you is to experience the ups and downs of it for yourself...but continuing to do so as you frame your thinking around what nuggets you learn from others.

  • @Paul-yk7ds

    @Paul-yk7ds

    4 ай бұрын

    Two things I've heard Todd teach before about this... 1. If you mean for cold approaching girls, he has a video here on YT called "Approaching Girls made Easy! (For Introverts & Beginners)." Try the advice in that, it's step-by-step. 2. If you're talking about dates or any other part of game, the idea is to do 90% of what is just your natural game so far, and just work on tweaking some small detail, like work on 1 technique you learned, 1 part of the process. At any time, you're being mostly natural, just trying to improve one little detail at a time.

  • @differentone_p
    @differentone_p4 ай бұрын

    bro my girl is already obsessed with me, maybe it's because of your videos i watched in the past💀 i didn't mean it...

  • @xcryptoterrestrialx
    @xcryptoterrestrialx4 ай бұрын

    Every single date i go on, they never feel a connection or just ghost me after. Even if im actually very flirty and make them laugh a lot. Several of them tell me to text them when i get home and one even let me kiss her and she really leaned into it. Am I just that bad and they're that good at putting on a show at the end cuz they just dont have the balls to tell me they arent interested?

  • @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    @ashleybanks-wm4cg

    3 ай бұрын

    As a man Thinketh so is he You're almost there bro just keep polishing your game and date even more

  • @rajatyadav2648
    @rajatyadav26484 ай бұрын

    Hey Todd does any of your programs teach Frame control cuz I'm looking for a program that teaches frame control totally I wanna buy it

  • @AskToddV

    @AskToddV

    4 ай бұрын

    Verbal Game Academy has a lot about frame control, reframing, passing shit tests etc... verbalgameacademy.com

  • @rajatyadav2648

    @rajatyadav2648

    4 ай бұрын

    @@AskToddV ok I wanna buy verbalgame academy so you teach full information and all concepts of frame control so I can shift other people perception and beliefs. Just checking. Thanx

  • @rajatyadav2648

    @rajatyadav2648

    4 ай бұрын

    Hey I tried to buy verbal game academy but the payment was declined. So do you have any secure website on which I can pay cuz my bank guy said that this website is not secure. So just put a video and give the site's link in the description. Thanx

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay4 ай бұрын

    Please give examples of negative spikes.

  • @LagartoChicloso

    @LagartoChicloso

    4 ай бұрын

    Tease,push pull

  • @Mmmmkaaay

    @Mmmmkaaay

    4 ай бұрын

    @@LagartoChicloso Right. But how? Give examples. Because there's a fine line between insults and teasing.

  • @McKCM405

    @McKCM405

    4 ай бұрын

    If you're watching this channel and don't know what a negative spike is you're not paying attention

  • @Mmmmkaaay

    @Mmmmkaaay

    4 ай бұрын

    @@McKCM405 In the time you spent leaving that comment, you could have just answered the question instead of being condescending. 🙄

  • @LagartoChicloso

    @LagartoChicloso

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Mmmmkaaay it depends 99% on situation, who is the girl, who are you, where you are, what happens on the conversations. The best tease is an improvised one. Just play with her avoiding to lose power being too needy or giving away your power. Positive and negative spikes. Push and pull.

  • @blacktortoise6812
    @blacktortoise68124 ай бұрын

    I must be obsessed with you since I just had a dream with you in it

  • @mauricioascencio788
    @mauricioascencio7884 ай бұрын

    Please make a video on how to be a wingman

  • @AskToddV

    @AskToddV

    4 ай бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/YoZ9rZeCiJTbkps.html

  • @mauricioascencio788

    @mauricioascencio788

    4 ай бұрын

    @@AskToddV good stuff. Dont know how i missed it.

  • @JMBM44
    @JMBM444 ай бұрын

    It a good video but it doesnt say much tbh,I ve been a subscriber for years so no hate here.