Todd V is very thorough and sophisticated🤙

@Jaa_morant

8 ай бұрын

very good with words, explaining these tricky concepts straight to the point!

6:15 one of the best ways to build connection with a girl is to find two unique non-sexual things that you like about her, and then mixed those two things and complement her. And when it comes from a guy who she already really likes it will make her like you a lot more and feel a lot closer and connected to you

Most importantly compliments only matter when they are delivered by the ones we like

Love you Todd!

Love this

Thank you 🙏🙂

Yes, and complements can be given in at least two ways. Complements can be given as a fan or as a judge. A complement given as a fan is without judgment, full of unquestioning adoration. A complement given as a judge is given with judgment, full of questioning her worth. A compliment given as a judge says that yes, she did okay on this thing, but is she good at other things. This kind of complement sets you up as her judge, not her fan. In all cases complements should be given in a off-handed manner, so they do not seem like a big deal, just a casual observation. Your demeanor should be that you are attracted to some of her qualities, but you don't know if you both are going to fit for the long term.

What is your take on the common argument that attraction is either there right away or it isn’t, and you shouldn’t try to win a her over?

@luciusnguyen2449

8 ай бұрын

I'm pretty sure he would say something in the middle like. There is a third option where a girl isn't interested in you yet but she allows you to build that attraction, in this case, you should still try. However, if the girl is really not interested at all then yeah, you shouldn't.

@21stcenturyexaminedlife45

8 ай бұрын

To answer your question, I would return to epistemology. It is better for you, the guy leading the interaction, to assume that every girl you are interested in is attracted to you, because simply through having confidence, you'll win over a higher percentage of girls than you would otherwise. It is true that a certain percentage of girls simply won't like you no matter what you do, for any number of reasons related to their life experience and threshhold for looks, money, status, game. BUT here is the key point: You don't know, and cannot know in advance, which girls will reject you when you approach. Therefore, it is better to assume they are all attracted to you and approach the ones you like. If you could know in advance which would reject you, you could avoid wasting time with those girls. But since you don't, you kind of have to put to the side this fact that you know about how a girl is either attracted to you or not no matter what you do, cuz if you focus on that fact in situation, it will psyche you out of approaching the girls who you would have been able to move things forward with, had you only acted in that moment.

@CorneliusMagnus

8 ай бұрын

This works for guys who are visual. For girls it looks like there are 3 phases of attraction: small absolutely not, some absolutely yes, and most of it is "maybe... show me what you got"

@joshspiker

8 ай бұрын

Girls won't admit it, but they will generally know within the first 15 seconds of meeting you, whether they want to sleep with you or not.

@iamnotafeline

16 күн бұрын

It sets your starting position. The higher the initial attraction, the greater your advantage and thus the more mistakes you will be allowed to make. If the initial attraction is below a 5, it's basically pointless without an insane amount of clout, you would be wasting your time.

Hey man. I've been learning from you for a while now. those things under your eyes... I don't know if that's make up or what but that looks like you need to focus on your health. and I just wanted to say that, that's not a good thing. You should look into it. Maybe it's the night life and work all the time.

@tiagoribeiro5832

8 ай бұрын

Any suggestions? I have even worse ones. The only thing that seems to temporarilly fix it is sleeping 9+hours a day for like a week or so, but can't realistically do it regularly

Can you please analyze Pierre Woodman's strategy during his interviews?

Hey Todd, how does one DELIVER a line that conveys premise/man to woman when one-on-one? I noticed some guys like to sneak it into the conversation (with the line sometimes not landing), and some like to deliver it with a bit of a smirk + pause and then continue with the convo. What is the better method? Thanks

critical

Question: why not just do ALL VALUE, since that's what makes everything ”go” anyway

these videos are way too much to think of all at once. overwhelming af. which leads to me just doing the same old shit. im also 38 and been single (and not looking) for around 11 years. I sure hope this old dog can learn some new tricks. cause holy shit do i feel like ive been wasting away. learning "game" recently sparked when a straight up dime approached me and we hung out a few times and i completely blew it. which has been tearing me apart. so instead of feeling sorry for myself im gunna springboard off the fact a chick that hot even considered me. If she did, then that means i likely have a chance with other cute chicks as well, even tho im COMPLETELY out of practice. And i mean completely. so bad its embarassing af. i absolutely hate that about myself. They say learn to be happy single first. well that rule dont apply once you have been single for a very long time. This is gunna be a long process and im gunna have to force myself out of my comfort zone. But, thanks Todd. Youre videos give me confidence that I can do it. Cheers bud

I got a question: Do men dont understand that talking to girls in a difficult situation (hard set in your language) is a huge plus and a show of value, competence and risk taking?

@harmonica212

6 ай бұрын

Yes, I do understand that. I talk to women all the time and other older women who work at the establishment I frequent and you may think that other women don't notice you talking to other women. They can see how you are towards women. I have got women talking to me and asking me questions. For example, a young woman asked me about how my Christmas went. What that was like so I spoke about that to her. I'm not attracted to her although she has a nice personality about her. Sometimes I think women think because I am approaching them that maybe I'm into them when I'm not necessarily attracted to them or trying to get with them. Based on what I say does not mean I'm attracted to you and hitting on you. Women do notice I'm Confident Charismatic and Social with women. If a woman is asking you questions that is a good sign but they may just want to know how your Christmas was over the Holiday etc. She may like the fact you were just trying to have a conversation and being yourself and not trying to hit on her or that you had the balls to approach her. When I go out I see a lot of very Stunning-Looking women and Cute women and not one guy is approaching these women even Average-Looking Women that are '7s in looks. I feel like approaching women is dead and I'm the only one approaching them. The women I have seen are single and some with their friends. I don't look at talking to women in difficult situations (hard set as being difficult. As a Harmonica player, I find that to be more challenging than talking to women because there is a lot more going on. I have to listen more than I'm playing/practicing so that may help with talking to women because you are more focused on listening. I don't really talk about what I'm passionate about because I feel I would be bragging but if I do mention it I can shift the conversation to that in a way Todd was talking about that is attractive to women because women love a man with a passion in life. I'm picky about the women I like. I can easily become uninterested and where I will lose attraction or I'm on the fence about a woman. I look for women who are about me have my attention and put their focus on me. I look for women who are not about their financial status and are about the soul of a man shows me you are not after his finances or what he has and you care more about the person. You can say I'm kind and caring but the question is do you have a heart. It makes you look shallow when you mention a man's financial status first thing in a conversation or on a dating site. I will know a woman has great intentions when she loves you for the soul you have and not about your money house car because you feel now you will be set in life. I care about the soul of a woman more than anything.

The rizz god himself

When and how should you get physical in an interaction? Most advise to do it asap, but in your videos you seem to be mostly hands off.

I have a question. I have a new coworker girl in company and we talked and it was ok. After some time I showed interest with intend in a way that I complimented her dress. She said thanks and went away. Day after I texted her stupid text like I meant only on dress not you and after that she started ignoring me. Is it ok to disqualify to lower needyness in that case?

@eror151

8 ай бұрын

haha, you just told her that she's ugly but you like her dress x)

@damirderek8827

8 ай бұрын

@@eror151 she is 9/10. I used only pull forgot push and made a wrong move to text push day after to lower neediness and make premise in panic lol. Now its somehow wierd she is ignoring me and I ignore her with few push pulls towards disqualify like I thought you are ok but now I am not sure and she always ignore. Havent asked why any time just push pulls one after every 2-3 weeks. Now I am thinking like disqualify her and wait for some period of time to see reaction and probably dont text her at all. This other new coworker girl Is like 7/10 and I started with her teasing negs push pulls and she is chasing me alot but this other girl is my type.p

@eror151

8 ай бұрын

@@damirderek8827 just imagine she's the 7/10 you've got chasing, you are over thinking it

@joshspiker

8 ай бұрын

Why are you hitting on girls at your job? C'mon, man. It's 2023. You're smarter than that. That's a quick way to get fired for harassment. She's ignoring you because she's smart enough to know not to "fish off the company pier."

@damirderek8827

8 ай бұрын

@@joshspiker Because I somehow manage to go through with it 🤣

Is it ok to game around children? I always feel like it might be inappropriate to be sexual in any way around kids and especially if they are the girl’s kids, she might feel extra defensive as well. How do you get around this obstacle?

@eror151

8 ай бұрын

the game you play on ladies with kids is by showing her how good you would be as a father if your intentions are long term, or simply ignoring the kids or giving them less atention if it is short term...