How to Gain ANY Cat´s Trust - Getting a Cat to Like You
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Learn how to Gain ANY Cat´s Trust or Love. While getting a dog to like you can be pretty easy, with cats as with people, gaining their trust it’s not going to happen immediately, you’ll have to earn it. Particularly a scary or feral cat will need a helping hand if they are to start trusting humans.
In this video I’m going to share with you 3 things you should not do and 3 things you should start doing to gain a cat’s trust!
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Gaining a cat's trust Do's and Don'ts:
00:00 Intro
0:38 Earning any cat's trust
0:54 Three Things to STOP Doing if You Want to Gain a Cat's Trust
4:51 Three Things to START Doing to Gain a Cat's Trust
6:45 What you should DO TODAY to Start Creating Trust with Your Cat
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Thank you for this!!! I have a kitten that I picked up from the streets. I've never had cats before so this video will help a lot. By the way she and I both learned how to click train her because of you. She now knows how to high 5, sit, come and jump. Thank you!!!
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
That's amazing! What do people comment when they see your cat doing tricks?
@darkskyforever
2 жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorBengal They say they've never seen a cat do tricks(obey) before!!!
@jibzzztm
Жыл бұрын
@@darkskyforever awh
This channel is improving the life of my feline friend. Thank you for all these wonderful and educational videos.
Another cat lost to the Bermuda triangle!😅 By the way, you made a lot of sense in what you were saying about control. I've always held my cat firmly enough to know she's safe but loosely enough to know she's not trapped. I find it lovely knowing my cat comes to sleep on my lap because she wants to, she trusts me and we've built a bond. I guess people think the cat's rejecting them, and we all hate rejection, but I don't want blind affection that doesn't mean anything either 🤷🏻♀️
I love this video. People who hate cats generally have a hard time understanding consent and respecting others boundaries. Cats do not respond to dominance and agression the way a dog will and be obediant. They will only become dominant and aggressive towards people.
You have the best videos on training cats on KZread! Love your backdrop too!😉
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
You are so kind! I love my backdrop! (Both of them :) )
Am adopting a cat next week {her mom was killed by a careless driver} . Have never had cats before as a pet, and your videos are helping to get an idea... thank you! Now need The Queen to arrive 😁
@shayjaco
Жыл бұрын
have you gotten her yet? how is it going??
@Enigma241000
Жыл бұрын
@@shayjaco yes she is home and going good...she's getting more confident too :)
Great video as always! I've also read online that people who don't like cats don't understand boundaries - makes so much sense. Luckily nobody I know has tried approaching Primrose (my kitten) like a dog yet.
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Another Mia friend was mentioning that they are just like cats. Don't make me do stuff, don't punish me and give me treats, particularly chocolate haha (I think it's a very accurate description of human needs as well) haha
My cats have always been very well socialized, so people coming over hasn’t been a problem. They’ll go up to anybody for a pet 😂
The purr Mia made is great!
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah... i wondered if I should include it or not... thought it was cute haha
Your cat is more obedient than my dog
I think you're not alone on this, my cat is timid around people so they don't usually see him unless he's used to them
I haven't seen one of your videos for a while and hadn't realized how much I miss you and Mia. This episode was really great.
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back! :) If you have the time, I would love to know what kept you away from the channel and what about this episode was great! I am trying to get 1% better with each video :)
@speederscout
2 жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorBengal What kept me away? Life! Haha, it's been on the hectic side. What about this episode was great? The content and presentation was clear and concise, informative, eye-opening, and practical. And the production value was really good! Plus, you are incredibly charming. Phil
Will try, my 6 month orange female kitty, 2 weeks in hasn’t bonded yet, my 2 senior much loved cats are complicating the process, I will try these tips and know to be patient, I definitely won’t force it , wish me luck!! Ty much
You and your act are absolutely adorable🥰💖
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
The sweetest Kitteh. ❤
You really are a great teacher - thank you for your wonderful videos.
@OutdoorBengal
Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome! I really appreciate you took the time to thank us!
Thanks for another great video Albert & Mia!! I have one kitty (named Kisa) who's quite skittish, likes to stay hidden, and only lets me pet her if I'm not standing over her and she's sleepy. I hope she'll eventually be comfortable enough to let me so much as sit next to her someday (T - T)
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Try to offer hiding spaces in the rooms where you hang out. Don' t make her choose between being with your or feeling safe! Check out this video, has some good info in it: kzread.info/dash/bejne/kZ-up6Siopmzaag.html
Thanks!
SOOOO true.
Youre 100% right
So true ... 100%
Loved it. It rings a bell.. My childhood friends and my family had come tu understand it because I have had cats since I was born, and altogether w/dogs! So everybody knows The rules, and how to play w/ cats and how to do it with dogs! But since I moved to Bcn, it’s been difficult. I can say that 1 out of 10 people I meet likes cats, and 1 out of 20 is a CAT PERSON. I’m seriously thinking about opening a Cat Yoga Studio! BTW: Cat lost in The Bermuda Triangle”😂😂😂 you should patent it.
I agree I love cats!
Where did you find the ‘Cat Dad Like a Regular Dad Only Cooler’ framed picture that is behind you? I love it!
Tks very much for the tip
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking a minute to share some love! 🥰🙂
Awesome content as always !
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!
I need to do this in 2 days before I leave mexico since there are two kittens on the street right now
Omg when she was eating the plant as you were talking about corrective behaviour lol
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
You can’t make that s**** up! Hahahaha
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
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Love your videos! Your relationship with Mia is so sweet! I am currently still working with my rescue cat to stop aggressive play behavior, and your clicker training videos have been so helpful. If anyone is dealing with a constant hand and foot scratcher, getting a cat to high five without using their claws creates a positive association with only using their paws. You’ll lose a lot of blood in the process 😅 but it works!
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
hahaha dang! You make it sound like an adrenaline sport!
@JustADancerOnFire
2 жыл бұрын
He was a bit of a rough customer when he got here! Maybe abusive owner, maybe someone who taught him to play with hands like toys…, it’s gotten SO much better since I started training him a few weeks ago. 😂😂
@jibzzztm
2 жыл бұрын
@@JustADancerOnFire How's it going?
Great video!!! Thank you!! I might as well be a cat, these guidelines also apply to me 😹 ppl I don't know -don't come at me all crazy, give me treats-preferably chocolate, and I want to go and come as I please 😹
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAA SERIOUSLY! Dogs are the weirdos, not cats! I also want chocolate and be let go when I feel like going. :p
@mariedi778
2 жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorBengal LOL! If I eat enough treats I might get nighttime zoomies too!
Yes
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
I hear you... How do you react when that happens?
So true!!! Macchiato my bengal is very cuddly to me as the primary caretaker, but my significant other even though he's a cat parent to our tabby doesn't like when he isn't as cuddly to him and just assumes that "hes an asshole". Is there a way that you can make a video about your nail trimming tips for Mia? Thanks!!!
2:28 That makes sense, but it's going to be a change in our routine...
@OutdoorBengal
9 ай бұрын
If you do it slowly, it can be done!
It was good 🥰🔥
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! :)
You are spot on! Get it!? Mia's Spots On🤣 No seriously this really is good advice 👏🏼
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
hahaha She's got spots on..! dang it's so bad it's good.
@miamoose9528
2 жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorBengal Dangali
Thanks for the videos - I used some tips with my 7 month bengal Kitten. He comes almost always when I call his name. He loves clicker training and leash.Hopefully we can go outside soon - can you give some tips for first walk outside?
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
I can do a lot more than that! I have a few videos teaching most of what you need to know. If you have doubts, feel free to write me! kzread.info/head/PLTrelbS1Z07R1ZRxZrO8udv1t8HaNZgjG
Hey Albert, Could you please make a video about spaying/neutering cats? like when is the right time? Post care details etc.,
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
This is actually a GREAT topic! Will do!
I was working abroad for 2 years while my preggananted cat was left with my parents and they make sure to neutered her once she gave birth. When I came back, the 3 kittens already a year old and to this day they still runs away when I get too close, even with food. I am this close to giving up because it's been 6 months and nothing have improved. Hopefully this trick will work
Hello, just wanted to leave a message. I just recently found your channel and the last few days I watched quite a few of your video's. I am a cat mom of Koen (ginger malecat) and Kira (tuxedo female cat) who are about 3 years old now. I adopted them a year ago now and we bonded a lot since then. I am thinking now to start clicker training them with your video's, especially Koen I think will love the engagement (he follows me around always) am wondering should separate them while clicker training or try training them at same time? is 3 years old to late to start them? I would so love to go with them walking in the parks eventually...
@OutdoorBengal
8 ай бұрын
There are a couple things you can do if you want to train your kittens together: 1) Use a different clicker sound (so that they don't confuse their "click" with their siblings) 2) Teach them different tricks (so they don't both do the trick at the same time) The other alternative, is locking one cat at a time. You can lock yourself with the cat you are training instead of the cat that it's not trained. That makes the experience for the cat that's alone nicer. Any cat can learn, regardless of age and breed, GO FOR IT!!
I've had my 2 cats since December and they were 7 months old at the time and super skittish and are still skittish but less so. I can tell they love me but they only semi-cuddle in bed. When they're relaxed I kiss the end of their tail and maybe one day they'll let me kiss their top of their heads without running away.
@OutdoorBengal
9 ай бұрын
I like using the moments when Mia is extra relaxed and in cuddle mood, that makes the interactions more positive for both of us!
rewarding for good behavior (god why do i suck at english at times like this) and not punishing for bad behavior isnt only the best thing to do for cats its for all animals (and yes that includes homo sapiens) also indeed body language is key. our last cat which we had to put down at the age of 19 because of age related complications actually learned us a specific body/vocal language for when she was about to throw up and i still dont know how but we also learned her to only throw up on the floor and not the bed or the carpet its weird how doing stuff out of love can teach even cats who should be expired (for a lack of better words) in a matter of weeks while im sure it would have never happend if we like sprayed her with water or something
You need to free feed kittens because they’re always hungry due to their growth rate. Once they become adults, you can feed twice a day.
I have one more to add to the todo's, if a cat is doing good behavior in an overly demonstrative way, it is a PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD KITTY ATTENTION plea, usually followed by one or more attempts for good kitty, before it goes to the behavior they KNOW will get them attention. For cats, they are hungry for attention, and Good Attention is Great, but Bad Attention will do. Ignore at your peril.
@OutdoorBengal
6 ай бұрын
hahahaha LOVE this advice. Use good attention when you have it and reward it if you wanna see it more often, or else they´ll find a way to get your attention that you might not like!
Really love your videos! My cat only follows my instruction when he sees me getting the treat and the clicker. Any advise on how to get him to follow without them?
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Cats react to our commands because there's an expectation of a treat. If you never reward a behavior outside a training session, the expectation of a treat outside the training session is non-existant and thus, there's no motivation to comply. My recommendation is to reward intermitently outside sessions. Not always, but sometimes. This will increase the expectation. Intermitent reinforcement is a very strong motivator (think about gambling and casinos) hope this helps!
YESSS, my family, haha.
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
:)
Hey Allbert SOOOO excited - I was a dog person but my kitten has meowed all way under my skin - lOVvve!! Do you groom Mia ~ ?
@OutdoorBengal
Жыл бұрын
I groom Mia! Particularly in shedding season, as I am allergic to cats!
I squirted my cat that is still pretty new to our home, and now he’s scared of me. My oldest cat that I’ve had for several years is now scared of me too, even though he wasn’t punished. Now, he’s super jumpy and will run and hide under the bed for hours if I walk in the room and my younger cat runs. What can I do to gain my cats trust back?
Just curious, where did you learn how to train cats?
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Hello!! I've read multiple books and reaplied dog training... It's mostly self taught :)
What's up
What cat breed do you got?
Guys any tips in how to help cat allergies this little problem can take my cat away from me my family members are struggling
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Hello! I used to have allergies. I started taking a pill every day for 2/3 months. Around month four my allergies were gone. Seriously, gone. I am not allergic to cats anymore. I don't know if this is something that's common or it's a sample of one kind of thing... I would consider going to an allergist and getting their POV... - Allergy Relief Pills I use the Amazon ones but there are available in every pharmacy amzn.to/3K95cw2 - HEPA Filters are a lifesaver, this is the one I use amzn.to/3pG2zKq - Banning the bedroom - Cleaning often - Washing their face and hands often Good luck... Allergies are a pain...
Hi! Albert and Mia i need help! My cat is Siamese named Luna and she bites me like crazy!! and i mean crazy, she bites me every time on the face, fingers, hand, arms, ankles, legs etc. and scratch my thighs, whenever she wants to climb up in my desk. There was one time where she gave me a scratch so huge it bled, me being short tempered became so mad that i slap her in the face and tost her (i know i know i didn't want to do it but it hurt a lot) and she sleeps on top of the router or on the side of it you know the wifi router isn't safe to become a bed, so i always grab her using my hand, ofcourse and she bites it, (i grab her to remove her from the router). I'm a new cat owner and Luna came at the start of the year (JAN 1) shes now been staying at our home for 2 montha almost 3 and shes 4 months old. I commented you this like in the middle of the night right now she just bit me a while ago. Like 5 minutes ago because i dont want her being scared or traumatized because of me i want to have a good relationship with her. SO WHERE SHOULD I START TO GET OUR RELATIONSHIP ON POINT. I DONT WANT HER TO HATE ME😩😭😭😭😫 ive also been watching you for sometime now, so as a result i have trained Luna a bit like come when called. THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH IN ADVANCE.HOPING FOR A REPLY😁
@aWomanFreed
2 жыл бұрын
Ok well the problem is not the cat. It is YOU. Cats like slow, calm and confident movements from you. That’s why they don’t like toddlers much , too unpredictable. So u cannot be unpredictable when dealing with your cat. If you’re interacting with the cat from a state of elevated negative emotion, the cat won’t trust you. You can’t be a moody, volatile jerk and expect the cat to be your buddy. Plus u need to provide the cat with ways to have positive energy releases. I know all this cuz I used to be very high strung and locked into my limited perceptions and thought the rest of the world was the problem….but my cats showed me how to calm down and disconnect from the unnatural world. If u realize that it’s YOU who’s acting unnaturally, not the cat, hopefully u can make some progress. Best to you and please don’t EVER act aggressively toward your cat again.
@kyleatayan6049
2 жыл бұрын
@@aWomanFreed Thanks. Now that i think of it...i know THANKS A LOT! I guess i just wasn't that respondibe earlier today she got attacked by stray cat ughhh im feeling really bad for being stupidly idiot and getting her cause now shes suffering but thanks this might just change things.
I have a friend like this and he hate my cats for this (my cats scared of him because he always take them)
@vivienangelinabux2525
Жыл бұрын
It's bengals too
Honestly that way of aproaching dogs is just as bad. We've just created this idea that dogs should like to be handled by even strangers and especially small dogs don't get a say when getting picked up or pulled around by the leach cause they forgive us and our lack of comunication on their terms
Why are u so good looking
I wonder, this guy has girlfriend or boyfriend :3
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
The answer is no :)
@anarsosoroo2891
2 жыл бұрын
@@OutdoorBengal omg, thanks for the respond :3
haha funny advices when u have expencive cat from a baby stage take a cat from streets and try to do anything of these you will fail hard.
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your opinion! :) I'll let you know how it goes!
You are cat this male are female
The purr Mia made is great!
@OutdoorBengal
2 жыл бұрын
Purrs are always welcome!