I so needed to hear this. Thank you. Sometimes it’s just easier to settle and we try to trick ourselves to believe we are “compromising”. I love you, girlie ❤️

@bubba283

Жыл бұрын

I've having the toughest time detaching from ex boyfriend, my girlfriends weren't so tough to detach from, but my ex bf, I've had the worst time doing it. Most people thought we were just friends because we hid that we were dating.

@nataliabennett8157

Жыл бұрын

Do you still do coaching?

@bubba283

Жыл бұрын

Some

@chy7168

11 ай бұрын

Mmm high a J B😗😗😙😗🍓

@andreachebet9747

2 ай бұрын

It's not the end of me

Man's rejection is God's protection! That's the truth!

@ItsTinaTimeXOXO

Жыл бұрын

Still learning to be ok with this 😮‍💨🙏🏽

@b.p.m.5136

Жыл бұрын

Wisdom

@amouriing2599

Жыл бұрын

Love this quote! Definitely has been very comforting 😌

@kefilwedilotsotlhe5154

Жыл бұрын

This is deep.. no greater truth than this

@beingkofoworola8833

Жыл бұрын

What if I was the one who left? I realised I keep apologizing to myself for everytime he disappoints me and I wanted better… but it’s still hard

1) block delete or rename the person 2) break the soul ties 3) keep journal of your progress 4) don’t focus on the positive of the relationship 5) self improvement !!

@dre22

Жыл бұрын

(6) Write down all the things you did wrong in the relationship and work on them (7) Try therapy

@andziagreen4922

Жыл бұрын

Amen 😊👏 this is exactly what I'm doing and it works well... Beginning was extremely hard

@kaylabrown7045

Жыл бұрын

How to break soul ties?

@thirteenwolfies

Жыл бұрын

8) work on your relationship with God 😊

@princess_xoxo1

Жыл бұрын

@@kaylabrown7045go to 22 mins in the video

I attach so deeply when I love someone that it feels like a death, like a divorce. My heart feels like it’s literally breaking. I was so depressed, I did not eat for 2 weeks. So it doesn’t matter how long you were with the person. Pain is pain.

I watched this for the first time back in February. I remember being so crushed I couldn’t stop crying because I just wanted to be with the man who left me. I cried all day long and suddenly this video popped up in my suggested. I remember I watched the video I stopped crying and I prayed the prayer in this video and it significantly helped me stop crying. 9 months later Im doing phenomenal and I never thought I’d get over it, yes sometimes I get triggered but I don’t cry anymore or feel depressed I’m grateful for the heartbreak and I know that prayer helped me tremendously too. If you’re in a rough situation with someone you love I promise you life will eventually be filled with joy again, this isn’t the end for you. Believe in God and he will provide you with peace again ! Sending my love and best wishes to you all❤️

@PreciousdaughterofChrist

3 ай бұрын

thank you so much for this. I’m currently going through the same thing. I can’t wait to look back on this months later & be truly healed & moved on💖🥹

@alexislee4768

3 ай бұрын

How long did it take to feel normal again ?

'Do not make permanent decisions on temporary feelings, trust me it ends in disaster' LOUDER sis thank you!

As someone that recently broke up with someone.. the person who leaves the relationship did see your worth, they did love you. They are not always bad and there often is no need for bad feelings. Sometimes you have to acknowledge that you're not meant for each other and you're better off seperate. When you're being left be happy that you can find someone who loves you even deeper.

@yzma6142

Жыл бұрын

this is exactly where I am

@asha4189

Жыл бұрын

I agree and going through the same. We’re both good people, just not our greatest together 💗

@NotANoob27x7

Жыл бұрын

THIS hurts even more. Because you can‘t villafy someone and blame nobody for your pain. But it‘s the truth.

@ladylivinglife

Жыл бұрын

Factsssss & perfectly said

@mwangikezia9364

Жыл бұрын

I believe so 😔

“There’s nothing like a break-up that sends you into the arms of the Lord” OKAY!! I legitimately could not talk to people about my feelings. God was the only thing that brought me ease and peace and wiped my tears. I thoroughly enjoyed your take on this topic!

I love you Breeny. Last night I saw my ex of 4 years after going no contact for about 3 months, he was with another girl and at the moment I was acting tough because I'd been praying, doing my journal work, etc., and had believed that I was very close to letting go. Seeing him in another relationship after getting out of ours broke my heart all over again. I cried to God and he listened because everything you said in this video was meant for me. I thank you Breeny, you're like a big sister to me.

@parishers6351

Жыл бұрын

Be strong sweet lady

@Shesestefany

Жыл бұрын

this happend to me

@everydaywithsarah2577

Жыл бұрын

@@Shesestefany 😪😔 i feel you, we’re in this together

@Teatea4L

Жыл бұрын

Awe💕😢but it should make you stronger cuz you had to see that he moved on with someone else and it was supposed to hurt for you to get a dose of reality that it’s over between you two. Stay strong, try not to text or call him. ⚠️

@Elsy124

Жыл бұрын

This happened to me too. We were together for 4 years, engaged and within a month and a half he was with someone else.

Don’t focus on rejection, focus on protection. Noted ✍🏾 You’re one of my favourite KZreadrs Breeny🤍

Why is it always the shortest relationship/situationships that are the hardest to get over, so so true. like we didnt even spend that much time together!!! 😂

@Bevllionaire

Жыл бұрын

💯😂😂😂

@Dekthagr8

Жыл бұрын

Facts! It makes you contemplate your whole existence!

@dejapearson9569

Жыл бұрын

I swear like wtffff 😭😭

@Travel_with_Ayah

Жыл бұрын

@@Dekthagr8 Literally like i spend no time with this man but my mind created a while world smh.

@Travel_with_Ayah

Жыл бұрын

@@dejapearson9569 literally wtf.

When you said “it’s ok to cry” I just started bawling. I really need this. Thank you.

@DeemMeBeautiful

Жыл бұрын

Me too I’m crying now while listening…the tears instantly started to flow when she said that

I like how gentle and graceful this video is. Sometimes when I watch “healing” “break up” and “relationship” content on social media, I feel attacked and leave the video feeling more hurt. Just a harsh reminder of how badly I was treated and how unloved I was. I actually felt healed watching this. Thanks Breeny

@lynnettekangethe3293

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you💯

@giltgirl1

Жыл бұрын

Awwww❤❤

I needed this… I had to set both of my parents free from my life & it’s one of the most excruciating things that I’ve ever had to deal with in my life but by the grace of God I’m doing it & I’m reinforcing some boundaries in my life.

@carlygreen2293

Жыл бұрын

I'm also on this journey. As grim as it's been, it's been the most liberating chapter of my life. I'm present and I'm happy. Healing is a journey. Wishing you the best❤

@Grace-tf2cy

Жыл бұрын

Ditto. 3 years now. Very hard but a decision I wish I made earlier in life. Wishing you the best too 🫶🏾

@mariannimoh9514

Жыл бұрын

I’m glad I’m not the only one going through this.

@zl3778

Жыл бұрын

Same situation - 😔 ( wish there could be a support group

@shanon8747

Жыл бұрын

I’m going through something similar and not really where you are now 😢

This!!! If it's over for real...then we just have to cut the communication and give our self time and space to heal. We must allow our heart to break in peace without fighting to hold back what needs to be release. In that broken state a lot will be revealed. You will move forward with the strength you've gained. You will become resilient. You will gain clarity. You will be more informed and equipped for what's next. As Breeny said 'Trust the process'...I did just that and I am amazed with everything that is unfolding.

@samottientertainment281

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this ❤

lol this has to be a sign. Two nights ago I cried asking God why my relationship with someone had to end the way it did, then i remembered I once prayed to God to take away every distraction between us (me and God) and boy was he a distraction😅 It hurts so bad but i'll get through it.

@shaniceaaliyahtah2594

Жыл бұрын

Same thing with me actually. The Lord will take away what’s not meant to be in our life but we have to trust him, even if you love that dude but God knows who is best for us.

@leahjohn7175

Жыл бұрын

Sending you a lot of love and hope you get through it with strength and the blessings of God over your life. You’re blessed and highly favored.

My boyfriend broke up with me and we live in the same compound I see him bring ladies home, it hurts so much but I believe I will get through this. Thanks for the video

@maceyr.6583

Жыл бұрын

You can do this. I love you. ❤

@nyahsnyder

Жыл бұрын

i am so sorry :( praying that things are at least a little better so far

I feel like I’m over the situation but him, I don’t think I’m quite over him yet. And I think it’s because I don’t think ima find somebody like him again. No matter what he did to me at the end of the day I truly loved him. And I miss the way he was constantly there for me. I’m not even gone lie I had my fair share of faults as well. And sometimes I truly feel like this was the true definition of right person wrong time.

@keyshiabergolla6836

3 ай бұрын

This!!

@PreciousdaughterofChrist

3 ай бұрын

yes same here

I think this may have tipped the scale... there's only so many times you can chase someone who doesn't want you. Thank you for this. Your empathy really shows we're not alone 💗💗

@TheLastEgg08

9 ай бұрын

What hurts the most is when you chased so much that you lost yourself and all you’ve got where “left on read” and “ghosting” and you’re like “Did they even care?”

I needed this today! I have been feeling so rejected and so anxious ! I keep wondering if I someday I will feel a real connection with anybody! It’s so hard! Specially as a black woman in Europe 🥺 Hope better days will come for all of us 🤎

@vickymoshi6038

Жыл бұрын

Better days are coming

@Mar-fl7cx

Жыл бұрын

I can relate 🥺

@uzo_wonderfullymade

Жыл бұрын

The right person for you is out there. Be patient in the process. That’s easier said than done. In hindsight you’ll realize the waiting was the best thing you could’ve done. When the heart that’s meant to love you eventually comes into your life it’ll be so beautiful. You are ENOUGH. You MATTER. You are LOVED. You are BEAUTIFUL. 🤍

@giltgirl1

Жыл бұрын

As a Black woman in America. Same!

I feel like the hardest part, is feeling like nobody understands how bad it feels. Breaking up with someone you really loved and have so many good memories with, because you know its not best for you, is one of the biggest mountains 😥😮‍💨😩😞

Needed to hear this so much! A few days ago I said to myself I've got to change. I've got to stop depending on other people to make me happy. It really hurts to cut someone loose and let go of the expectation of having a relationship. Sending you all my love. Thank you❤

@hayley5684

Жыл бұрын

Listen to Home by Najwa Zabian on audible xx

@MatheusOnuki

Жыл бұрын

How are u doing? Are you better?

As long as you trust yourself in wanting better for yourself, you got to learn to let go. And in the process of becoming a better version of yourself, you’ll attract the same energy you’re putting into your future self. You’re always going to attract authenticity if you’re being true with yourself and your intentions.

“We don’t see the world for how it is, we see the world for how we are” thanks girl ❤

Wow you’ve lost so much weight…Hope everything is good at your end 🙏🏽❤️

As a couples therapist myself who has just walked (well,crawled really) away from a 6 year relationship...I approve this message.Thankyou ❤

Going through this with a friend. Friendship breakups are hard too 😢 I’ve had to realize one of my best friends of six years hasn’t supported me in the last couple of them, and you cannot be the one carrying things.

don’t focus on the rejection, focus on the protection 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 that’s a word sis GOD bless you in Jesus name❤

Finally got out of my toxic relationship and it ain’t easy but it’s necessary 🙂❤️

@d.ashawnnaaa

Жыл бұрын

I swear, I’m trying to let go n not go bakk

@dbelle.

3 ай бұрын

Update ?

Funny this video just pops up after I bumped into my ex on the beach this morning. We said hello and it felt horrible. Like two strangers with memories and a massive wall between the two of us. And then going back home and your video appearing on my screen. Thank you.

@parishers6351

Жыл бұрын

“Two strangers with memories.” Take care of yourself babes

Look I’m a guy and this applies to girls breaking up as well! Girl‘s rejection is gods protection. I’m a very sensitive guy and all you say definitely is true for me as well. Thank you! This was really helpful! At the moment I’m still pretty hopeless but I hope that I’ll be able to improve and get better.

@denb9610

7 ай бұрын

I can relate as a man and I really hit rock bottom contemplated suicide at one point but I’m over that now and incredibly I’m feeling like I’m finally getting over her now and don’t want her back now. I’m thinking of the future and meeting someone else in the future who is much better than she ever was for me and I know she is out there and coming to me really soon in addition I feel better things in general are coming my way. So believe me after being in darkness for so long I can attest there is light at the end of the tunnel.

@samottientertainment281

3 ай бұрын

🤗

Can we take a moment for how good she looks!!!!!

You are a woman of integrity Breeny! I was watching a video you made 3 years ago about how to LOVE, you talked about loving without expecting anything in return and how love is all about giving. I love the fact that when your ex didn’t help you to move to your new apartment it’s only then a friend made you to realise that you are on your own in your relationship. I love that fact that you shared your story and didn’t pretend that giving, giving and not getting anything back doesn’t work. Much love

@melisakaersenhout370

11 ай бұрын

Needed this..wonder about the title of the video..

I needed to hear this as someone recently walked out of my life without explanation and it's kind of my first rodeo so of course it hurt me a lot and I am hurting. But I needed this, it was comforting. Thank you. I pray that this passes and I can detach over time. I'll always remember that the universe is here to protect you, and what leaves is meant to leave! Especially if it was on it's own. Let it. What's meant for you will stay.

When you said “God cares about you” I was on my prayer rug.. I felt like God spoke to me through you 😢

I just want to say I have never commented on a video before but today I opened up youtube and the first thing I saw was "its time to let go" and I knew that God was leading me to let go of that someone in my life, it wasn't going anywhere but I kept trying to force something that just wasn't. I want to say thank you for carrying Gods message, I was able to message him and call it quits and I'm feeling okay, cried a bit but God has settled my heart and emotions. I Pray that God blesses you with abundance and with all your needs and wants in life bre, In Jesus name I pray Amen!!! I love you too!!

I have been having a hard time letting go of someone for a long time and it’s so hard for me to move on and I have been praying to find a way to detach myself from this person. And when I opened up KZread and saw this video popped up…I knew it was a sign from God that you would help me try to take these steps from now on. Thank you so much❤️🥺

@Firefly-ht9fp

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same. My heart still hurts and I am trying hard to let go, but, it has been hard...So hard, but it is time for me to let go

@DeemMeBeautiful

Жыл бұрын

Same for me it’s agonizing 😢

Just found the strength to finally leave a toxic relationship yesterday. I’m filled with doubts, what-ifs and a lot of pain. This video & all the comments below have brought me comfort and relief.

@sprinkles611

11 ай бұрын

Hugs and kisses🩷

I needed this because I got out of a bad relationship back in August 2022. I'm still depressed even though I know it was the best for me.

You'll find someone don't worry. Just keep your heart open, be judicious but not overly judgemental, and stay looking nice. Good job losing your weight.

Man's rejection is GODS PROTECTION

GOD REALLY SAID TIMING ON THIS ONE! i need to let go on a relationship that ive been trying to save. we decided to be friends and then ur notification popped up ❤ GOD IS GOOD

Really needed to hear this. Sometimes I just stay in bed all day just thinking about my relationship and I just find myself losing the will to do anything productive. I’ve lost family and friends through not being my own person but I’ve realised I need to get myself back. It’s been difficult even working when I start overthinking and worrying about the future. I will be trying to make that list in the afternoon and really just try to start focusing on ME ❤️

This video was definitely a sign from God. Thank you Lord for bringing me what I needed to hear at exactly the right moment. And thank you Breeny for being God’s vessel and sharing these words for us who really needed a sign to let go and move on. Will definitely be rewatching this when I need to hear this wisdom again 🥹💕

My boyfriend and I broke up nearly 2 years ago, mainly because we had different ideas about marriage. We still saw each other regularly, we didn’t tell our families we broke up so nothing changed. A few days ago we had an argument and there’s nothing to go back to now. We’re are very different people, some things I do offended him and he bottled it up and it all came out in the argument. I was upset by something he did, (not cheating) but still disrespectful of him. I know I need to move on, but after over 7 years of being with him and envisioning a future with him it was heartbreaking to think about taking those steps. I know I need to though, this video helped me massively! Thank you Breeny. I agree that there’s nothing like a breakup to bring you closer to God! Your prayers are great, can’t wait to continue using them

This video was one I needed to her. We often think that acceptance is the last step to healing, but there is still work that needs to be put in. I’m learning to not focus on the rejection. And understand that actually him letting me go even when I wasn’t ready of it is just God protecting me through him. May 2023 be a year of healing, and relearning to love self, and draw closer to God, while e wait for the one.

It’s a tough journey, I went through my heartbreak 3 years ago in my late teens and I’ve been doing all the work but honestly from the bottom of my heart this journey has torn me apart in the most unimaginable way. I've left with more pain/trauma than feeling like I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I don't think I will ever testify or live to say I'm finally free from this but I wish the absolute upmost healing, freedom and wholeness for anyone who is on this journey. Lots of love

@angelicalartista

Жыл бұрын

I went through the most devastating breakup of my life and I resonate when you said left with more pain/trauma than seeing a light. I felt the same way. And for the past year, until now, I'm trying to work on it every single day and practicing being gentle with myself. It feels less isolating to know someone else has felt the same way as me. I wish you all the best on your healing journey 🤍

@sarahhh-m

Жыл бұрын

@@angelicalartista I’m glad my message makes you feel less alone, this journey is not easy and knowing others relate can bring some ease. Wishing you all the best on this healing journey too 🤍

I have been talking to a man for almost two months now, but over time I have been able to realize that he is not considering anything serious so even before there is a separation I mentally prepare myself for this . We women are much stronger than them, know that! ❤️

I don’t usually comment. I watch your videos a lot and I just want to say thank you for choosing to come on here and give hope to us women even when you’re feeling down. You are amazing!!!

I needed this so much I broke up with my boyfriend three days ago when I found out he was cheating on me with another girl when he was abroad so that really broke me but this video was so helpful thank you for this!!!❤️

@kuro_mimi_

Жыл бұрын

Aww I’m so sorry to hear that! It has to be hard. I hope you’re taking care of yourself and feeling what you need to feel. Sending you strength 💗

@dianayeung7798

Жыл бұрын

I resonate with you! Hardest time for me was when I found out he cheated as well and it was during a time my dad was in the hospital and dying of cancer

@Heylooo-kr1qb

Жыл бұрын

@@kuro_mimi_ thank you!❤️❤️❤️

@Heylooo-kr1qb

Жыл бұрын

@@dianayeung7798 that’s horrible!! But thank you for your kind massage❤️❤️

Exactly the devil you know isn’t better than the Angel you don’t know. The devil you know is tormenting you.

It’s amazing how these videos drop exactly when I need them 😢❤

This video was like a hug. I needed this

You’ve definitely given me a better perspective. Grateful for you & grateful to have come across this video at this time. Bless you!

I connected with everything you said ❤ I’ve been practicing a lot of what you said already and you were the angel of confirmation for me. Thank you 🙏🏽

God is such a timely God. Thank you for this. 💜

Thank u Breeny! I’ve been following your channel since 2020 and I couldn’t be more grateful for everything you’ve done for me ❤

This has been one of ur rawest videos. I feel as tho you have said what most of us think of but can't say that aloud to ourselves. Bless you xx

Oh yes, I’ve definitely had many of those « go back to Jesus » moments this year 💕 Thanks for your words babe

I’ve watched you for years and it’s truly amazing to see how through everything, you’re still this genuinely strong woman that wants the best for others. You have a magnetic energy that not many people possess and it’s truly admirable. You look amazing and I hope 2023 brings you nothing but pure happiness, peace and love ❤️

THIS IS RIGHT ON TIME FOR ME

you posted this exactly when needed your a blessing to us all !

I honestly thank you for takin your time to make theses video to help many human’s including myself , you got me through the times where i thought i would never elevate !

I really appreciate you for making this video. So much emotion and having someone to speak from a place of a grounded place is sooo important thank you.

always coming back to your channel when i'm hurting and this time it will help again

Thaaaank you so much for this!!!! May you continue to be a light in this world! Stay Blessed ❤️

I needed this sm u are an absolute godsend ❤️❤️

you really posted this at the right time for me, thank you

The fact that this video came at the right time 😭 I really appreciate you for this video this was really needed ❤️😊

You’re beautiful inside and out ma’am. ❤❤❤ Thank you for your platform . You’re a gift to us.

This video was so comforting to me Breeny, thank you so much. I'm trying to get over a relationship I ended not long ago and I still feel the pain. This video came at just the right time, everything you said resonated with me and provided so much healing ❤️

Thanks for sharing. I love that you're sharing this very authentic experience of the impact that even having a crush or a new dating relationship not pan out as we might have hoped for can have. It can be incredibly painful, and at the same time seems not to get acknowledged in that way when it was a shorter relationship, or just a secret crush. Thank you for lifting everyone here up with gratitude and refocusing on what was learned.

I can not THANK YOU enough. I've emailed this to my preteen daughter for future reference. Needs to be shared. Thank you so much!

Beyond blessed to come across your video. Definitely a sign from God. I was hesitant on watching it, but it was exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been knowing I need to break a soul tie for about 2 years, and with your help I now am. Thank you so much for helping me and everybody who watched. I love you❤️

Sis you are truly God sent, these are the exact thoughts and emotions I’m going through right now😔 😭thank you for these words 🙏🏾 I needed to hear this and I’m truly grateful ❤️

Thanks for your support! I needed to hear all this. I’m ready to put the work in and become a better version of myself❤

😭 Thank you! ❤ I feel I need to listen to this message a few times a week.😭 God bless you Sis!

Thank you thank you thank you . This was right on time !!!!! You are God Sent Breeny seriously ❤❤❤❤ I pray God continues to guide you and show up and show out like no other for you . Sending love all the way from Ohio

This was wholesome.. You're literally God's sent to me rn.. thank you Bree Love you

Thank you for this message! I am so glad I ended the relationship. Man’s rejection is truly God’s protection🙌🏾

Continue to glow and grow sis. Sending you lots of love and know that no matter how imperfect we are, we’re still someone’s perfect partner and that person will come when the time is right.

Breeny thank you so much for share with us this amazing content! Your videos help me so much through my healing process! You are amazing inside and our side! Besos from Barcelona 🇪🇸

When I first saw this video pop up, I wasn't ready to receive it, now is the time for me to watch the whole way through and commit. Thank you Breeny ❤️

Your so right! Im in the 1st step. It hurts so much. Im hiding my crying so my family doesn't know. I'm praying to get past this part soon. Ill check back in when im close to the other side. Thank you I love you to for this video.

I definitely needed to hear this you’re such a beautiful blessing 🙏🙌❤️

You look absolutely amazinggg ma'am.❤

You can't imagine how I get inspired by you and fulfilled. Thank you.

Thank you for delivering God’s message to me today. I needed to communicate with him. This was that for me ❤️

Thank you Breeny for your generosity. It's very powerful when you say; "Don't focus on the rejection, focus on the protection." Sending you love and light from Canada 🇨🇦 ✨🤍

You're amazing! The gifts of love, wisdom and discernment that God has given you poura into us so deeply. YHANK YOU BREENY ❤🙏🏿

Thank You Girlie, I love you so much! God’s timing is truly something else!

Thank you for sharing this. Hopeful to know that we will be ok again. And we are not alone. Been replaying this numerous times as it has been helping, and will check back in a few for progression. 💞

Shalom from us. We love your content and positive perspectives.

U randomly pop up in my home page during this season I belive god brought me to this channel u are helping more people then u no Thankyou ❤gotta go through the pain to get any gain in life xx

This could not have come at a better time. Thank you for the support

Thank you for your video today it came to me at the right time and thank you for your kind words of support and affirmations for your sisters. I would wish that some men would stop taking women on these repeated cycles of toxicity. Some men would leave one woman high and dry and then jump to the next and continue the same same cycle over and over. Still never really learning anything during the whole journey. Those who do not learn from their own mistakes will continue to repeat it.

Been a fan since 2019.... Started this video crying and feel a little better toward the end. I am 3 weeks post and it was an awful betrayal but I hope to have a testimony and will come back to this video 1 July to hopefully share. Breeny your touching lives dont stop.

this helps me to move on from going no contact with my parents. I have so much more time on my hands and that's actually overwhelming! Your way of speaking is very calming.

Thank you for being authentic Breeny I felt that. Thank you to everyone in the comments section for sharing their stories one way or the other I draw strength from all of you. Sending everyone love ❤️ and trusting God for better days ahead.

I definitely needed to hear this!!!👏🏽💕 Thank you!