isnt it ironic we find videos that are safe and perfect many years after we tried SOOOO much to heal

i started crying omg, we didn't even date yet he hurt me so much and I don't want to let go, I don't feel ready, and when you said he'll feel farther away I panicked. I don't know what to do. I don't want him to forget me because I know we had something even though he's too immature to admit it.

@sheylamendoza8848

3 жыл бұрын

Sis I’m in a similar situation, too. I’m talking to this guy and we’ve been into each other for a while but none of us actually made a move until like three weeks ago. This week he’s been super distant and avoiding me, and basically ignores me. He doesn’t put in any effort and it feels like it’s just me in it at this point. Makes me feel like I did something wrong and it hurts me so much. I’m so confused but I guess that’s life, we don’t always get what we want :/

@dylankeller5932

3 жыл бұрын

You have to let go to grow, trust the universe that it will bring you someone highly compatible with you, going through something similar, actually it’s pretty horrible, I fucked up with this girl that I absolutely adore and she won’t hear me out, you just have to give it time

@BeautifulHal0

3 жыл бұрын

It's a thing y'all. People are going around destroying others. They are really nice to you until you serve their purpose to them then they start finding everything wrong with you & ghost you. But we are completely loving & sane. They are the ill ones to bring such ugliness into this beautiful world & our hearts. I know how each of you feel. My heart doesn't even feel like it fits in my chest anymore. It's been 8 months since he ghosted me. I'm trying to focus on the lesson & wisdom from this experience & not the pain & shame. Some days better than others. God PLEASE strengthen & heal us all. ❤💔❤ If no one's told you today, I LOVE YOU....

@mssunset8340

3 жыл бұрын

@@BeautifulHal0 same here

@stellacalderon9655

2 жыл бұрын

Hugs to you.

I got my learning from this relationship... Do not stop loving yourself in order to love someone else.

im letting him go even if its too hard for me. he just ignored me and devalued me, and took advantage of me. its time to let go and find someone better ❤

@MellisaDormoy

8 ай бұрын

In moments like these, we learn to value ourselves from the very beginning, so it never goes as far again as to hurt like this. Next time, we see the signs right away, and say NO. This one is not for me. Much love friend....

My husband passed away recently and my heart is in so much pain. I am glad he is not suffering anymore, but I miss him so much. I want to let go of the grief that surrounds me and just be happy for the 20+ years we had together.

@israelromero6534

3 жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of love and healing. ❤️‍🩹

@yolandam611

3 жыл бұрын

So very sorry for your loss

@russellconstant1202

3 жыл бұрын

My ex walked away from my life 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. She hasn't died but I know about how grief is sooo intense.. I don't know if I can get through this.

@MusicCoverSelena

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you love & healing

@MISSRUE32MCGEE

2 жыл бұрын

Praying for you. Sending you love and positive energy @Raquel Borden

Why am I seeing this no one ever truly loved me in my relationships. When you love someone you don't cheat, your not controlling, your the number one priority in there lives, and you respect there family. When there's no respect also that ain't love. People need to stop lying to themselves about what love truly is.

@queenofthemoon596

2 жыл бұрын

i feel the same why😵‍💫 just not fair at all always getting hurt but wen u move on here they come trying come back its a no for me im done done😒

@mommae295

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! ! I don't think I even knew what love means ?

@coyoteprophet9734

2 жыл бұрын

Love don’t love nobody!

@indy9girl99

2 күн бұрын

You don't have to respect their family. Some people are not worthy of respect.

I desperately need this. I was hurt so badly by someone I loved more than I ever knew I could love. I thought he was my best friend for our lifetime. In a split second I discovered it was all fake and he had another life. I can’t understand why anyone would want to hurt someone like that! Thank you.

@ShipShapeFitness

2 жыл бұрын

Me too Cheryl… if you need to talk, please let me know. I’m going through it too.

@TheFishinDad

2 жыл бұрын

Going through the same too. I'm glad we all came here and are searching for healing

@TheyBenefit

2 жыл бұрын

I understand this too. I loved her so much, then an abandonment insecurity mixed with ill-timed joking made her think I was trying to manipulate her. She turned into a different person and I've done everything I can to remove her from my mind/energetic connection. It feels like so much is leaking from my solar plexus/heart, but hopefully goes away with meditation. It was unfortunately a trauma bond, but there was genuine love there too.

@mariadln777

2 жыл бұрын

We never really know someone.

@Siliconegirl146

2 жыл бұрын

We certainly don’t!! I truly believed that I was with the love of my life for 14 years. We never took our eyes off each other. Man, was I a fool!! He knew how to play me!!

I love this meditation. It is helping me get over someone I never even met in real life that I had a limerence attachment to. I realized I spent so many years fantasizing about this person without have an actual relationship with them. So thank you for this meditation 💕

@Birdstalkerlady

Жыл бұрын

All of this!!!

This helped tremendously. I energetically sent him so much love and light. I hope to reunite with him later when the time is right but if not, I send him all the love and healing. He has healing to do also. 🧡With all the love in the universe….I set him free.

I'll have to come back to this video in a month or so, im still not ready to let go of him :(

This was so hard to do. As I was thinking and releasing him I start puking out of no where listening to this. I feel it purging him out. Praying his spirit leaves me immediately.

I’ve tried lots of these on here but I can honestly say this one actually worked and did what I wanted it to do. Woke up this morning a new man thank you no anxiety and no overthinking ❤

I am so grateful god has helped me move forward in my life and I learned so much what real love is I will no longer settle for anything that is true love🙏🏾🙌🏽❤️💎

I’m sad because I tried so hard to make things work in my marriage and my husband says he doesn’t want to try at all. We’ve been together for 20 years. I know things weren’t perfect but I love him and care about him and my daughters. I wanted him to grow professionally, mentally and spiritually together but I’m all alone in these. To make things worse we’re still living together but we will get the divorce pretty soon. My heart hurts to much because I know he doesn’t love me anymore. My mother says I need to let him go and start a new life. I hope the Lord lightens my path. I wish the same for all of you who are suffering of a broken heart. Blessings 💐

This is my story. A very very close girl friend of mine who was previously in love with me has moved on with someone else. While I was still dwelling in my past relationship and feeling emotionally uncertain & unavailable, she has always been there for me but I was too busy being stuck. Stuck with not being able to let go of the past situation and stuck with the fear towards committing to something in the future. In the end, the inability to give her what she wants at the time (a relationship) ultimately pushed her away, and I was devastated. It sucks so bad that I'd had to realize that I actually do love her only after it's too late... after she's seeing someone new. I have been living with so much regret and pain ever since that I've not been able to function and sleep well for the past 2 months. Every time I think of her, all the negative emotions: guilt, regret, sadness, anger towards myself, just overwhelm me and I'd be so depressed and demotivated to do anything. It's so hard for me to pull through because deep down inside I know it's my own fault that I'm in this current position. I feel so lost and unlike my usual self that it has affected my relationships with other people, eg. family and friends. And honestly, IDEK why I'm writing this here. I guess I'm just using this as an expressive outlet for what I'm feeling at this point. I do hope this guided meditation can help me find peace with my own mistakes and regrets.

@stacybelcourt6492

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way.

@fentonlover1

Жыл бұрын

Very true! This is exactly what happened to me. It’s your mind playing tricks on you. I thought the same thing when she started seeing someone, that maybe I loved her more than I thought. But realized it was a protective barrier to thinking maybe I could still have her as I’ve been having her. But I knew deep inside what the truth was and now I’m trying my hardest to detach from her. We were close as sisters for 3.5 years. It’s so hard!

@xtina1412

Жыл бұрын

Either decision you make comes with regrets. If you had a relationship with her, probably you would have regretted that you weren’t ready for it and took her for granted. Be at peace with your decision, accept and let go. Emotions are transient. Every time I ruminate obsessively, I take deep breaths and focus on my breathing to stop this habits. Turn regrets to gratefulness, be grateful for those times she was with you. Be the person you want to marry because when we like someone most likely it’s coming from lack. Hope this helps.❤

The reason this helps is because someone talking is validating your emotions from such and walking you through the acknowledgement and steps of letting the emotion go

lord help me detach from him faster. and focus of self love more. i deserve someone better. 🎉❤😢😢😢

@MellisaDormoy

8 ай бұрын

The greatest gift I gave myself in this same situation was not to look for someone else but to look within. There is so much love within our own hearts and we must learn to love ourselves and value ourselves first.. then others naturally do the same bc they see we accept nothing less.

This helps alot I hope you all can detach and find peace

@callmesupreme1533

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@juiccytrucking2081

2 жыл бұрын

@@callmesupreme1533 you're welcome hun

Teaches me if only my attachments were in christ not people or things of this world so let go of all worldly attachments time to shut off go within and release the weight

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

I COULD NOT agree with you anymore! ♥♥♥

@allenwayne676

2 жыл бұрын

I lost myself in this person and forgot who I was in Christ. So now I must renew my mind and return to my first love...Jesus. But I don't fool myself. I need Jesus and therapy and I'm soooo ok with that.

Thank you for this! For my current situation, I found actually cutting the light cord was much more helpful. Then I surround myself with pink & gold light and I wish them well. And forgive myself for letting someone’s energy effect me so much.

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! Well done! ♥

Even as I move forward I imagine her smile and miss the deep connection we had. I look back and see my previous loves and know I’m growing and healing from this relationship too. It’s bitter sweet and I wish nothing but the best for her. ❤

I tried this yesterday when the moon is in cancer. He let me go but I cannot set him free. It was such an amazing experience to be able to hear this. Honestly, I saw the cord illuminated even before you said to visualize the light on it. Thank you.

@naturallyworkinit

2 жыл бұрын

“He let me go but I cannot set him free." It’s hard to wonder why they would let a good woman go. I just seen his post about why men let the good/nice woman go, and keep the mean/boundary setting ones. It made me realize how they really see us.

I’ve tried many different cord cutting meditations, and this one is the absolute best. Thank you so much ❤️🌸😇 I will be doing this meditation everyday until I feel emotionally back to normal.

New subscriber! This worked for me. It was scary to trust and let my guard down to accept this, but at this point; I’ve tried everything. I loved very hard, so hard. Letting go is always hard, yet holding on of hard as well. Both options hurt. I feel so on control now. I physically felt an out of body experience. More than thanks for this new beginning. I will have this on repeat. Thank you

@cjf4683

Жыл бұрын

I feel this so much. How are you doing now?✨

this really helps me get through the day i play it every morning to remind myself these things! thank you

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

This is wonderful to hear. Blessings and much healing.

@sunnyrana4248

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you heal and feel better, I’m in the eye of the storm, I feel broken. Hopefully this can help me

@Siliconegirl146

2 жыл бұрын

I’m going to as well!

Thank you babe ❤️ I was screaming In silence at the pain. Letting go for your own happiness hurts but thank you for making this easier

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely... it does hurt to let go, but after some time, we truly can look back and see how the situation helps us grow and strengths us to say YES! to ourselves and NO to someone who causes us pain. Much love friend....You are healing.

thank u for this, it helped me understand and accept the fact that some people are not there to stay in my life. its amazing because i listen to this once a day before going to bed, and once i woke up in the morning. i forget about him and even all the memories we had. 😊 thats how powerful this is! im feeling stronger now

I cried and yawned so much. Released and redirected what I needed to. Thank you. 🖤🤞🏻

Phone starting ringing at the end of this mediation and I ignore the call for once. I felt so centered and healed on letting go of the connection. I will definitely come back to this as a tool to keep dissolving that energetic bond.

Thankyou for this one my space for my self is coming more and more everyday.

So beautiful and so profound! 🥺

@missclarice6701

3 жыл бұрын

The

Wonderful meditation! Just what I needed.

I just have to add to the chorus and say how excellent this meditation is. I've done a ton of them, and landed here trying to let go of the last pieces of someone when some emotions reared their head again after months. Did it last night and I feel remarkably better and more distant from the whole situation today. I think the soft, forgiving dissolving of the light versus cutting is the key for me. Pulling away tends to whiplash me back in; this was a far softer, gentler acceptance, forgiveness and release. Really appreciate the help, definitely subscribed

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

Thank you... that was my intention. The cutting always felt too harsh and frankly when we are in that start of having to let go but not really wanting to.. it's hard to CUT... but doing it in this way feels right and more loving... thank you for your kind words. I'm so happy you enjoyed it.

@bp51082

Жыл бұрын

@@MellisaDormoy 100%. And cutting feels especially harsh when you harbor no ill will toward that person. We didn't work out but I wish them the best... And had we continued, I would not be with the person I'm very happy with now. Soft and forgiving is completely congruent

I wish this brings me happiness and peace as time goes on, and I hope it does the same for him. Everyone deserves it but I'm struggling so hard bc of him lately, it's time to move on

This is a wonderful video. Thank you.

Gorgeous…..answered prayer for estrangement

Wish him to be happy, i have to let him go, cuz he is not for me

Sobbed the whole way through.

Thank you Mellisa, you just send out exactly what I need to listen to exactly at the right time! Bless you 🙏💚✨

@MellisaDormoy

3 жыл бұрын

This makes me so happy to hear. ❤️💖🙏 Blessings and love!

Your voice is truly heaven sent! 🙏 thank you for all that you do! This meditation has been life changing for me! I’m in the process of trying to heal from a break up and this is helping find me find that much needed closure I seek♥️

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I know the feeling and I am so very happy this is helpful to you! You ARE healing... every single day, even when there are set backs, and thoughts... you're healing. Much love ♥

I needed this, I started crying though

Wow this was incredible i suddenly felt lighter in my heart as u saw the light diminish thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏 you don't know how grateful I am to you 💯💯

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful and thank you so much!

Thank you so much

Thank you ❤

My ex walked away from my life a out 6 months ago and we have a daughter together. It's been killing me. Need meds to even get out of bed. Most horrible thing I gone through.

@MellisaDormoy

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry this happened to you. The pain we feel in our hearts when separated from someone we love can seem almost unbearable, especially when the wound is fresh. One of the most important things to remember is that this is also a choice point in your life. Just by listening to these videos though you are choosing to work through this and heal... however slow it feels and knowing there are days where just getting out of bed is the accomplishment of the day... be gentle to yourself, kind to yourself. Feel the emotions and know that you are still OKAY and you will BE OKAY... much love my friend.

@cathyboyd6865

3 жыл бұрын

Am so sorry love is devastating I done all I could for my partner ,but he didn't see it.From the being it's been cheating,lies after lies.I broke up finally and realized 3 yrs.wasnt worth it but I still loved him it's days that I would just cry in bed and even couldn't sleep,so listen to some off these meditations and ask guardian angle Michel to sheild your heart.Hope this helps ❤️

Beautiful voice. Thank you for this... I really needed it.

@MellisaDormoy

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much... I'm glad it helps... so important because it's not easy. much love..

Thank you

Thank you sooo much.excellent and wonderful.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

So nice of you!

I want this pain to end. I tried and tried all the laws to get this person back. Nothing worked and I was disregarded and treated like trash thinking faith and law of assumption and attraction could work. The more I loved this person the more he ran further and the more he got cold. I’m tired of hurting and feeling anything. I’m praying to become numb and hoping this meditation can help me. Thank you for this.

I've been looking for a video to try to let myself move on. I tried to make it through just the beginning It is just beyond painful. But I'm gonna keep trying, but it's not just about her and very traumatic I realize she was just trying to help me. People without our problems you're both hurt terribly bad when we were younger. I don't know why it's so hard to let it go. It's like an all paid of ever experienced who is from what I can remember. But if I've started the process, so grateful for that. I hope she's not going to the same.

Brilliant

Alex, Tuva and family I hope you are happy together. Much love and happiness.

Thank you very much for this! I was having an very painfull night and this gave me the deatachment that i needed! I'll listen this every night untill i feel totally free again!

@MellisaDormoy

10 ай бұрын

I am so happy to hear this gave you some peace my friend.

I am so looking forward to this...your voice is so relaxing.

@MellisaDormoy

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, thank you SO MUCH Helen! ♥♥♥ Many blessings and much love!

@YorkshireZen

3 жыл бұрын

@@MellisaDormoy Love from the UK

@joicelenedwyer4893

3 жыл бұрын

@@MellisaDormoy Aa

@joicelenedwyer4893

3 жыл бұрын

@@YorkshireZen à

This was so helpful. Thank you

Thank you so much for this beautiful ❤️ meditation ☺️ I'm forever grateful 🥲🥲🌸 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 I Did it'The first time and cried through the whole thing,then I repeated it again 💜 I do feel better and I know in Time The ache in my soul will dissipate. I never had such a deeper connection on a energetic level with anyone, I know what I felt they did the same but The chose another partner. I embrace the changes I need to make with unconditional universal love I let go of all that doesn't serve me ☺️. Thank you again for this beautiful meditation 💖 Blessing's to All 🤗🙏❤️

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

The connections we have and feel are very real, even if life changes and they make other choices... we still experienced things we were meant to for our own soul growth. My experience served to show me and teach me how to love myself in a way I didn't know how to before in life. I am forever grateful for the beauty of the relationship and the wonderful and fun experiences... in hindsight I also see where we were very different. ALSO, I kept all the GOOD THINGS and have incorporated them into my life now... I guess it was within me all along... :) I hope you find these same wonderful things!

Thankyou 💫🌛💫

Thank you Mellisa - your voice is comforting and energising at the same time

i had a great relationship with my ex boyfriend for over a year and things got really toxic, even though I wanted us to work so bad he fell out of love and agreed that he is incapable of handling our relationship anymore because his mental health is getting worsened. I had to accept breaking up with him even though i wanted to give more efforts and fix whatever was broken. But it was impossible from his side so i had to let it go and accept the reality. it's been 3 months and I've realized after the break up how much i needed myself, how much emotionally dependent i was on that person. i needed constant reassurances and validation from him, he was like my therapist and he handled all my mood swings and helped me go through my bad times. After our break up, i realized i never truly took care of myself emotionally and i was stuck in a loop of bad habits and him being in my life was an escape from reality. now I'm focusing on myself and trying to let him go even though i still love him. we don't talk anymore, there is so much in life i wanna talk about with him, but I've also accepted the reality that we were simply not meant to be together.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

It almost seems that you're finding yourself and falling in love with you again. It's like that needed to happen so you could get to a better place yourself. Much love friend!

Thank you for sharing this. My husband and I haven't gotten a long for a long time but I won't say anything more. This will help immensely!

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

Your situation is not easy. It's difficult when you love someone and it just doesn't seem to be working. I've been there. Sometimes the best thing we can do is simply pray they are surrounded in white, loving light and let them do their thing, the way they insist upon doing it. Relationships are complicated and complex living things, always changing... it's our job however to make sure we stay in a safe, calm place and get to know, love and trust our inner selves completely and allow God within to guide us each step of the way.

@rhondamartin3575

Жыл бұрын

@@MellisaDormoy Thank you very much! I appreciate your response! I'm not sure what we're doing yet but I have faith the Lord has it all in His control! Tahe care and I hope you have a great day!

Close one door and stop trying to figure out how to open it up so you can focus on the door that has opened.

The person that I want to break my bond with is someone whom I meet at office everyday. So it gets even more difficult to break the bond. But I'll try. I'm trying.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.. it's harder when you cannot break full contact. Sometimes it's helpful to see that person as your spiritual sister.. and not in the context of intimate relationship you just had.

@moenia2007

11 ай бұрын

Sorry mate! I know how you feel. I been there and still there.

11:11 😇🌈📿🕉✡️❤️♾️🫂🌎🧿🙏🏻 Gratitude Gratitude Gratitude, Namo Universe, Namo Budhhay 😇🌈📿🕉✡️❤️♾️🫂🌎🧿🙏🏻

Two weeks ago, during eclipse season, my ex broke up with me. I haven't been well since, but I know this is for the best. Before the breakup, I prayed to God to remove him from my life if he wasn't good for me, and God answered my prayer. It's astonishing to think that, even though he didn't treat me well, I still grieve the relationship. I mourn the person he could have been and the future we once promised each other. There's a lingering feeling of unease about how he ended things, despite everything I did for him and the behaviors I tolerated. But I guess it's time for me to learn to let go of all grudges and fully release him, so I can continue and move on with my life. I wish myself and him well.

@emmaslinkov9566

3 ай бұрын

The eclipse season took mine as well :( I miss him lots but he said he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. I’m ready to let go as well you’re not alone in this ❤️ it hurts to let go but holding onto hope that he will come back hurts more than

I feel so lost right now it’s been since August and he has moved on like nothing happened. I’m trying to release him but it’s hard …. It’s so difficult 😞😢

@juiccytrucking2081

2 жыл бұрын

The guy I was attached to has your last name and he hurt me in August too I finally found the strength to let him go I hope you find peace as well

@asmrwithfay5229

2 жыл бұрын

We should talk to get threw it 😩😭

@susanpimentel2441

2 жыл бұрын

Did you ever find out the truth about him

@erikalarsson

Жыл бұрын

Keep on trying 💗🙏

Thank You VERY Much. 😊

@MellisaDormoy

3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!! I hope you love it! ❤️❤️

Moving way too fast... could not get into deep relaxation

Tonight I detach forever, it can't hurt me anymore, this is a dream and I dream it alone, my heart can never b broken by some man again. Never will I cry over a man., because my love is a gift and if it is not taken or given back it doesn't hurt or disturb me. I am free. I love you all who are sad and need to detach. ❤ we run our dream , nobody can hurt us anymore.

@mariacastrovidela

Ай бұрын

Your comment made me tear up "we run our dream, nobody can hurt us anymore" makes it feel like a fantasy where we are in control like a videogame that is peaceful, ❤️ sending love your way

@julietastes181

Ай бұрын

@@mariacastrovidela dearest Maria, muchas muchas gracias para tes palabras. They really touched me aswell. I wrote this comment after I realised that the man I waited for 2,5 years and planned to marry, played and fooled me since day 1 and doesn't even like me and is after many girls. I was in despair and tears while I wrote it. I felt that I couldn't survive this lonely trap of onesided love and found this meditation. I listened to it while sleeping and didn't have nightmares since months, of losing him, I slept and woke up in peace. And found that I was detached from him. I accepted his 100th breakup for the 1st time. And let him go. My dear Maria, listen to it, I will aswell tonight. Yes life is indeed like a game, a dream, reality is were we came from and were we will go after this realm called life. We are in peace, we come from peace, nothing can harm us. Protect your energy, dear hermanita. Mucho amor de europa austria, Viena. 🤍🪆🙏🪄🛸🤍🇦🇹

Soooo did it work ?

I have gone through a long unrequited love for 6 years. I’ve tried everything to stop liking them, I started dating this girl and now I want nothing more than to stop the love I have for them. I love this girl and want a future with her. I just really hope this works because I’m so confused, I love the girl so much and want to marry her but the other person is still in my heart and I hate myself for that. I know they were the first person I loved in my life and that’s a big thing for people but why can’t I get over it. It’s stupid. I just want to be happy

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry you're going through this Willow. I know it's rough... but remember that feelings are never stupid.. they are what they are and they just want to be felt. I think sometimes we move on too quickly and get emotionally involved with a new person when our hearts are not really even ready for it because we haven't had full closure with the first. And closure is a personal thing.. doesn't have to be mutual... just in your own heart. The best advice I was ever given was to learn to love myself deeply and never try to fill it with another person... all people will fail because we are only human. If we learn to love ourselves unconditionally then other people just ADD to our happiness but we are not dependent on them. Heartache is the worst... but as I got older, I also sometimes realized that when I got into situations with unrequited love, it was because the Universe was kinna showing me "hey... I'm giving you a mirror... I'm magnifying what you need to work on..." and then I stopped dating all together and just focused on myself. I took classes, learned lots of new stuff, meditated and prayed everyday, did fun stuff with my sons... and eventually you learn that while it's FUN and AWESOME to have a partner, you can also be fully happy no matter what!... So that's my encouragement to you today my friend... Listen to some affirmations and KNOW deep down that you can DO/BE anything you desire... focus on THAT... and let your heart heal and feel love FROM YOU... you can do it.

Painted Lady - Gayathri 🦋

I do not except half love

Beaufuil

letting go

I cried so hard but I had to let go of him as he is happy with his lady I loved him for 3 years but it wasn't to be might have to do this daily for a while

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

You deserve someone who will love you and only you. It's so hard to let go of someone we love bu I always tell myself when things don't work out, it's bc God is pointing me in another direction. It feels so hard right now... but after you heal, good things are in store. BETTER more loving things... and it's all worth it. We are learning and growing all of us, and pain is unfortunately part of our growth so we can get to where we need to be. Much love friend...

Dear haters, The way you hate me gives me motivation. I get motivation from the way you hate my confidence. I love the way you know me better than I know my self. You give me motivation when you call me ugly because your still watching even though I’m apparently not your type. Your still there no matter what. You give me motivation when I try to get ready and you hate and mess up my make up. I love the way you wait until get my clothes you hate then too. I love it when you try to make me broke. I love the way you make me want to look trampy all the time. I love it when you make me aloner it helps me think better. I love the way you inferior with my family. It’s like you have no family to be watching my family day and night. I just love you Thank you 🙏 Keep watching me I love to entertain you daily

@ladyrubyonpoint

2 жыл бұрын

I felt this made me feel like better what I'm feeling now thanks

@natashachiware4882

2 жыл бұрын

@@ladyrubyonpoint thanks 🙏

You have a most compassionate voice. I guess I am too angry yet.to send blessings his way! He promised to help.me with my rent and now says he cant! He is a.liar . I have.given him my love but he just.never appreciated He has hurt and deceived other women as well. We have been in and out with eash.other.for 18 years. I want.to move on I want to be with someone who really wants.to have a healthy living wage relationship This cord with him has to be CUT!

Thank you 🙏❤️ My wife left me 20 years married 😔,, 18 year old daughter. 💜🙏✨ Thanks for your video 🙏.

@Alikhan-nb2ui

2 жыл бұрын

@@ThesearchforBeautifulsouls 🌹

I had to let her go. She was the love of my life. We dated in 2022 she broke up with me and dated three or more narcissistic tools. Yet I bought her everything she wanted. Now no contact from her and I need to find someone who makes me a priority as I do them. Goodbye Lisa. I gave you my heart and you continued to break it.

And that is you.

Says 1 hr?

I messed up a lot in the relationship, showed a lot of my imperfections, at the end she left me at my lowest, she did help and care for me for a lot of it, and I ended up hurting her the most at the end of the day, after she left and blocked me on everything, she started posting stuff about me and it turned out she wasn’t all I thought she was, she even found herself a new person to fufill the needs I didn’t give, it was a lot, but now I j need to let go.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

We ALL mess up a lot in relationships... and it's normal to show imperfections in relationships because we are being REAL and AUTHENTIC... We are all imperfect just trying to grow and become better. When you get with someone who is ready to learn and grow with you, then you'll be with the right person... relationships are ALL ABOUT GROWTH and being able to be vulnerable with that person.. to share your WHOLE HEART.. and if you can't, then babe you're with the wrong person!

I is go through the same thing yearly it’s like a recycle ♻️ honestly given up on dating or meeting anyone just gonna accept my fait I’m one of those people who’s gonna be single forever .. so I’ll just be single successful and happy that’s all I can so tired of being hurt people leave me over the smallest things I’ve even had family walk out on me

@MellisaDormoy

2 жыл бұрын

Time to live your life to the fullest and focus on YOU. When you get into that state of being the very best version of yourself, you will attract the PERFECT person! I swear that is how these things work.

@callmesupreme1533

2 жыл бұрын

@@MellisaDormoy I really hope you’re right ‼️‼️

@coyoteprophet9734

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like New Age BS to me. 🙄🙄

@callmesupreme1533

2 жыл бұрын

@@coyoteprophet9734 maybe to you

I do not want to send a blessing to that abusive SOB

The fact that i realised he might have been married and was just using me for entertainment hurts looking back at all the signs i missed, constant phonecalls he would ignore, unavailability on weekends..it hurts because he pretended to want to be with me only to get physical n once he got that he dumped me n blamed it on me that i was "too emotional too early" n this was because i was simply laying boundaries, it hurts but i know I'll be okay

@MellisaDormoy

8 ай бұрын

My Dear, that's a hurtful lesson and I am sorry it happened to you. You are wiser now thought for it. Next time, you'll demand better, ask WHY and put yourself and your ideals first. It hurts our hearts when someone uses us but that's their lack of integrity and values... I pity those types of people in a way because they are lying to themselves and the ppl in their lives too. They are stuck spiritually not moving forward but moving in a self-serving cycle. You on the other hand, are wiser and you know what to look for now and can be diligent. Set your boundaries Queen. Make them clear. If someone doesn't like them, they are not for you.

@rosegolden780

8 ай бұрын

@MellisaDormoy Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot !

🙏🏼❤️

Yes I need help cutting this cord from the toxic relationship of 20 years...sad but its time #confused

I was forced to get married on a visit back home i divorced her and i am the bad guy the daily fighting screaming since she was bipolor. I am bad because i demanded peace.

What is the purpose of so much music after the meditation?

@christlove4961

Ай бұрын

Yeah, its true, what is the proposed of this music to let go someone.. Isn't it's all up to you, your own mind & decision like enough is enough?

My son - I need to detach from my so. 😭😭😭😭😭

@cras19721

3 ай бұрын

😢

I’m not ready to do this. I won’t let go. She’s my twin flame. We are all ready together.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

When I was in this situation... I kept reminding myself that we had been together before and we may again... but they are there as teachers to us, and students as well.... Their path is not our path, at least not RIGHT NOW.... that was very comforting to me and helped me through the roughest of times. I hope it helps you too.

She cut me out her life after 12 years but she did it in such a bad way imo then moved on in 2 weeks

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

That's so rough... I'm sorry.

I thought we was twin flame. Ever since ive met him ive been fighting for his attion. Sad part is i deeply on a soul leavel desired him, wanted him so bad. Strong pull towards him... But he looked for ways to hurt me. The worst hurtful situation he could do to deepl cut at my heart. Not one singnel time has he ever Felt bad or ashamed of how he misled me then purposly hurt me.never showing any care or symptoms of the pain he influcked on me.. i never let any person treat me this way.. i dont know why i let him keep hurting me let him come back so he could hurt me worst then befoer. He has always replaced me woth leaving with another person. Laughing at the hurt in my face. Never cared . Convining others i had caused the ending. why i dont know why i couldnotlet go??? Any one know???

@nunyabeezwacs7820

5 ай бұрын

it sounds like a classic case of narcissist read up about narcissism

I cried 😢 so much he hurt me so bad

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry for that... I was there

💔

I gave all my heart but didn't see any effort from the other side it pained me. It was better letting her go.

@MellisaDormoy

8 ай бұрын

Unfortunately sometimes that is the way it goes. But love is never lost. You can never reproach yourself for giving your all... remember that every closed door is only leading you to THE RIGHT DESTINATION.... it hurts at times because we get attached... but remember it's a journey we all have to live. Much love friend....

i really like this dude but i feel like its not thr right time. i just needa focus on myself.

@MellisaDormoy

Жыл бұрын

It's ALWAYS a good time to focus on ourselves and become the best version of us that we can...

Kc

I’m not even lying 🤥 neither mom you should know you’re child

I see my trauma bond as darkness