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@kimhughes41

29 күн бұрын

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When I flirt with someone I look at them a few times smile and then wait for a reaction from them, for instant to see if they flirt back.

@Leeohlin89

10 ай бұрын

Bingo move! Simplistic yet impacting. 😊

That's a great saying, "Pain weighs ounces, regret weighs tons," and "every action is success." Authenticity is always key. Thanks Mat! "Hi, my name is..." love your channel!

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

I agree with you and you speak like a very responsible woman, Hi, my name is bartosz and I'd like to be friends.

Look deep into their eyes, speak with a smile on your face that doesn't quit, treat EVERY person like they are the most important person in the world, take off the mental pressure by viewing the flirtation as a learning experience about yourself as well as the other person, and ultimately, remember that no one else will see you better than you see yourself. So flirt with confidence, knowing you are worth the attention. Eventually, reach a place where you're flirtatious personality is something they expect from you, and anticipate or seek out.

I can't flirt with the guy I like.. But I can flirt easily with the whole world when I know I don't like them romantically.. Please help 😢

@954crystal

8 ай бұрын

Same 😂 that’s why I’m trying to learn off the video

@btssarangtaetae8046

8 ай бұрын

Cause you are afraid of rejection from the person you like and not with others you don’t. but just do it ;) you will lose nothing

@marthatowler3057

Ай бұрын

Sis same 😩

@VirginiaJimenez-gs3px

Ай бұрын

Welcome to the club. I actually couldn't even make eye contact with this guy. But I let go of my fear and I actually went and said hi to him. He's even more dreamy up close 😍🤣 But like Mat said, regret weighs a ton. I better try and know for sure than not try at all. Hope this helps.

Im 59, and a widow. I cant seem to attract anyone, outside of it being professionally. I really appreciated this video this morning. I'll try this! Thank you very much for making this.

Wow! I am 73 and I learned something new here. Thanks for your clarity & simple, straightforward ideas❣️

@txu_fannnnn

8 ай бұрын

Bro, just kiss your grandkids goodnight, or somethin lol

@chaseygentile2894

7 ай бұрын

@@txu_fannnnndon’t be hating she just tryna get some like the rest of us. Go kiss your cat

@txu_fannnnn

7 ай бұрын

@@chaseygentile2894 she died yesterday

@peggythomas4346

Ай бұрын

Exactly! Who are you to judge? People can date at any age and they do

It actually applies to friendship the same, to me flirting is really being playful, and showing that we would like to connect with someone... I am married and making new friendships is so much more challenging now, but this video helps to reset, thank you so much. You're doing great job! x

I have done this without knowing, in the past month and it actually works I was just being my self and yes the attraction was received and the conversations was good and still continues. There is no race to do anything just lots of smiles and happy to be chatting.

@MonicaContreras-xs6sr

8 ай бұрын

Our only race is Sisterhood!...& I agree, I think guys really enjoy good, honest conversation...GLuck on your discovery, Dear☘️

Putting myself into their atmosphere and being open-minded while introducing myself to them and communicating on a general topic.

That’s so helpful, Mat! Thank you!

You always talk so much sense Matt - i love listening to your wisdom - thank you 🌹

Thank you for that info. I did exactly like you said and went up and introduce myself to the person. That helps.

I find when I give a person my name it lets down their guard. They feel I am being sincere and not trying to pull something over on them. I look forward to learning new techniques and trying them out. Thank you for your videos.

Interesting. I never really put much that much thought into flirting. I just used to be very open, friendly, and approachable. I used to enjoy meeting new people. I think that I may have even been accused of being a natural flirt, even when flirting wasn't my intention at all. However, when there was a man who I found really attractive, had intense chemistry with, and wanted to get to know better, sometimes I'd clam up after being open and friendly. IDK if it was fear of my feelings or a bit of shyness to my outgoing personality when it came to romance, if that makes any sense. I agree that being authentic, during all phases of a relationship...from flirting to commitment is paramount and non-negotiable.

@user-zo9pi3gj1x

10 ай бұрын

I also believe the reason I clam up after being really open and friendly with a man I am interested in is the potential power he could eventually have over me. I'm a control freak and feel unnerved at the prospect of a man having too much control over me...especially emotionally because that is when he has the power to really hurt, if not destroy me, if his heart is not in the right place. I saw it happen to my mom and other women in my life during my childhood. You can say, that left a mark on my psyche.

Matt I especially love how you reframe the idea of success and failure. Definitely sharing this! ❤

Wow! Mat! These are great advices. And thanks for mentioning those blocks. I didn't even realize it's so common. With the man I currently like the most and actually want to build a relationship I get frozen and can't flirt at all, scared he would think I am a kind of too available. And I am 39, divorced. It's painful. Now I will reassess my approach to flirting 😃😉 This video is a lifechanger. 🙂☘ Thanks!

I love authenticity you talk about Matt.

Wonderful the way you teach on this subject...love the insight.

Pain weighs ounces. Regret weighs tons. GREAT OBSERVATION. I totally agree. THANK YOU!!!

This is a 👍👍 sweet, motivating and empowering video. THANK YOU ♥️🔹️🌈🟦🎼🔶️🏵

It's the unbeknownst practice to me. I do strike up conversation with a group of people in a "whatever" setting. This practice helps me open myself to the flirt with any individual. Who knew? 😊

This is amazing. Thank you

Nice one ❤

Thank you so much matt you help me so much to solve my problem and you make me feel a lot better in, and I think it’s gonna turn out alright

Thanks Mat for this awesome video! Very empowering and now I can do it.

@matboggs

10 ай бұрын

Fantastic! Love that you feel more empowered.

Thankyou for that!! I usually freeze and shut off when I see an attractive man because it's so rare to me 😂. I really need to practice the 'green light'. Ugh

@samirahosseini9298

10 ай бұрын

Exactly like me😬

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

Lol, so are you going to freeze when you see this attractive man here? 😁

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

​@@samirahosseini9298lol

Thanks Matt ❤️😊

I have flirted or just made friends with a new person I don’t know by saying something to them about a situation we’re both in, experiencing or observing. Could be in a classroom or a coffee shop or waiting in line at the DMV or at a wedding reception. Anywhere. Usually a humorous observation, because flirting is playing while making a connection. Self deprecating humor is good too, as long as it’s not putting yourself down. If there’s a crowd around and you say something to that person, singling them out it can create an immediate sense of connection and open the door for a conversation. If you think there’s a mutual spark but you are interrupted by whatever’s going on give them a private smile before turning to something else so they feel special, singled out. Then look at them later “from across the room” so to speak and give them a smile. Letting them know they’re special, you didn’t just move on and forget them, and hopefully they’ll want to seek you out for more flirting/getting to know you. No expectations, just connect and let things happen or not. I have found this comes pretty naturally to me and I’m a shy introvert. Probably because it creates an immediate, if brief, one on one situation and I’m always more comfortable one on one. I also love humor, seeing the humor in a situation, and sharing that. Playfulness is important to flirting. I can also get into serious one on one conversations or reach out to help someone easily and that’s great too but it’s not flirting unless you add a little humor and playfulness.

What has worked for me is: -Just me being myself - Starting a conversation with a guy. Starting a conversation isn't hard for me. - Throwing out true compliments towards a guy. - I'll throw out cute & funny flirt lines to make em laugh. And describe what I like about them.

I started by talking to everyone. Not just a guy I was interested in. It makes it somewhat easier to talk to a guy I'm interested in. Really though at the end of the day even if he isn't interested he probably takes it as a compliment someone was interested. I know I do. Even if I'm not interested in a guy I take the flirt as a compliment.

Best thing to do…be you. What’s meant for you will like YOU. 💓

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

Nice say.. what's truly meant for you will like you. Hi, I'm bartosz and I like your comments , I'd like to be friends 😊

I need this I know i deserve someone ❤

So good

Am in that moment right now 🤣🤣

Okay I'm going to strike conversation with him today. I was thinking about it since months. Often he asks me random questions but I wanna have a full fledged conversation. I'm gonna ask him questions tonight. Wish me luck. 😭

excellent

Hello Mat, I found your relationship advice videos useful, women need to unleash their sexy side in order to attract their dream guy. 😊

I've been told I'm a huge flirt. I can't tell you what I do. BUT flirting with all the guys I've met some pretty amazing humans. Some I've been completely surprised by in a really good way.

oh mighty how tables has turned...:D back in the ole days of victorians women just had to do is wait for man to come to her, today in sociaty you gone wait till the day you die before one will come to you :D ladies gotta do work to meet someone. my flirting skills are so rusty and bad that they just think im nuts :D

@katrinac6632

10 ай бұрын

Victorian women didn't wait. They presented themselves by dropping their hankie. If a man was watching and interested, they would pick it up and start a conversation. She presented and he pursued.

I usually will compliment something about them, like "I love ur truck", or "your eyes are beautiful and I'm a sucker for beautiful eyes"...or I just say "I'm sorry but I just had to say that u are frickin gorgeous/hott" ..and it's a good conversation starter

I smile and say hello or good day.

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

You've got such a charming grin that indeed God gives you each chance to smile.

I like that part Disqualify them 😅😅

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I would be interested to know if you are going to do a video on how not to act if you don't want people to think you are interested. You see, my problem is that i cannot be my self. Like, cheerful, outgoing and nice to people i meet, because they automatically think i am interested in them and i don't think of them that way. I just have to be serious, not talk much, not smile, but that's not me. Why can't I be my self?? Are there something wrong with people or me? 🙏❤️😇

@aj6688

10 ай бұрын

i hear you. every time i think I can let my guard down, someone crosses a boundary and I'm blindsided. i can't find the balance.

@JanuariJones-cj8bb

8 ай бұрын

@@aj6688 maybe people have too bigger egos. 💚💙

How do you flirt in a classy way when there's kids around. Because I see men who don't have rings on at my kids school or sporting events or at places where I'm usually with my kids lol and then I'm nervous about my kids seeing me flirt

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

You've got such a charming grin that indeed God gives you each chance to smile.

None of that has anything at all to do with HOW to flirt - what to say, what to do, what not to say, what not to do.

I’m getting ready to date after yrs of monogamy...But I’d say a nice flirtation is to whisper somethg in their ear upon arrival, like “hi, im here”...Any whisper in the ear done spontaneously I think is sexy

Someone I just met instantly flirted with me for a solid hour and said I looked so beautiful. After they said that, they blushed and apologized and started acting scared. Is there a red flag to being called beautiful in the first meeting?

@a.b.creator

9 ай бұрын

No, it means they found you beautiful.

@melled8422

8 ай бұрын

@@a.b.creator turns out it was a red flag. They wanted money from me right after I gave them my number

how should we as women ask a man for more affection. is there a reason men give only a certain amount.

Wen I see someone I'm attracted to I flirt with my eyes... I make the eye contact, then look away and look back at them... Most of the tym I stumble over my words. Wen they come in for a conversation...

I actually think flirting is an Art-form...And lack of it is why most relationships lose that “Spark”...I’m thinkg Jason Aldean & his “hot wife” Brittney...I’ve seen them together in interviews...& pics...& his woman keeps that flirting alive!...She works out...Wears sexy clothes...Does her self up to the 9’s for -him- & it’s sooo obvious Jason L❤️VES-it! But what man wouldn’t...For better or worse being a sexy mama is (usu) required to keep your man interested in that way esp w/all the cheap temptation out there, nowadays...But if he’s a KEEPER, he’ll LOVE your even more for your sexy-creativity & stick w/ya’

And if he doesn't reciprocate or rejects me, it's because he doesn't deserve me!😁😜

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

You've got such a charming grin that indeed God gives you each chance to smile.

❤❤❤

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

Outstanding characteristic excellence with parts of enormous charm and wonderful gorgeousness.

Being authentic does not work. I completely understand the philosophy. I understand what everyone is trying to say, but I have zero friends and have built no new relationships once I started being authentic. It’s not that I’m being rude or not following social rules, or anything of the kind, but consistently the feedback that I get from other people is that they’re very sorry, but I’m just too different from them. I’ve come out of an abusive relationship and I just view the world differently. Other people can’t relate to my way of seeing things, and when I express my views on anything from a car to clothes to child rearing, I am told that I’m wrong and that I have a really bizarre way of looking at things. So I think authenticity may work for “normal people“ but for some of us, it sure does not.

@rezotydnic

10 ай бұрын

So. Authenticity didn't work because 'people' find you 'different' aka not compatible. I'd say Authenticity worked perfectly! It scared off the WRONG ones. You don't really want to be a 'fake version' of yourself to get involved with one of those people do you? You know it wouldn't have worked out and would've just caused pain and stress you don't need. You have not found the right one yet! Keep on being you. Remember. Scare away the wrong guy to make room for the right guy.

@HappyHomeschoolTX

10 ай бұрын

@@rezotydnicI am not expressing myself well. What I mean is that I no longer think the same as other people. I have zero relationships outside of my family who are loving and kind, but often have to explain to me why my responses or reactions are at odds with others and make them uncomfortable. Real example - Woman tells me that she wishes her husband had bought her Y car instead of X. I am confused. She keeps talking. I respond with "I'm not sure what you mean. Your husband loves you and cares for you and bought you a car, but you sound like there's a problem. What is it?" She got really offended and told me, "There's no need to rebuke me for being ungrateful while acting like you're a clueless idiot." and walked, never speaking to me again. I still don't know what she was upset about. I know nothing about cars and didn't know what the cars were when she used their names. I was honestly trying to figure out the problem, after ruling out that she was not actually mad at her husband because she clearly thought he was wonderful. I have no idea what I did wrong.

@PamelaSofia444

10 ай бұрын

I can relate to what you are saying and there will be people out there that you can relate to but you probably won’t find them in the ‘normal’ way. Do you have any interests where you could potentially join groups

@karusish

10 ай бұрын

Hi, I'm very sorry you had an abusive relationship. If I could give you an advice- I think you would feel much better once you get some theraphy. The psychiatrist can work with you your trauma and you might be suprised how much your past influenced on your current actions. Don't be shy and try to find professional help. I wish you good luck and all the best!

@HappyHomeschoolTX

10 ай бұрын

@@PamelaSofia444 I just joined one with the same experience, but everyone was polite. I now am back to my hobby of writing novels for fun, do things alone, or go to things like school activities and be totally non-committal / ask questions with only answers like “That’s wonderful!” or “Good for you!”

How do I replicate this with my husband? Just stay authentic?

@MariamSabaArt

10 ай бұрын

I wonder if you focused on what you find attractive in him, if that would spark something for you? Like if you took a mental inventory of what attracts you to him today, for the seven days, a week of doing that might inspire some flirtatious thoughts and comments? Curious on your thoughts. 💜

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I agree with all of your points but unfortunately I get the opposite message from men. Even just by giving an innocent smile, I've been told all too many times that they interpret that as a come on for sex. So unfortunately I've learned to hold back and always behave strictly platonic and neutral, and show no indication that I like them. I hear the line, "A pretty girl like you must be getting a lot of sex, so you're not for me." Well, just the opposite, I haven't slept with anyone in years because cheap sex isn't what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a relationship.

Hey Matt, I do have a guy who I've been intimate with, I really really fancy. He put the brakes on, and I'm now in Friend Zone. But, I do notice his eyes checking me out all the time, he is obviously attracted to me. My hope is that we will end up together in the end

@medinaseaborn2227

10 ай бұрын

I guess my way if flirting is being totally present in their space and mind set

@cathyleenair

10 ай бұрын

​@@medinaseaborn2227 live your best life, I'm also talking to myself as I really cared about someone and they started ignoring me. I'm living by their example. Keep it moving!

@hazellaldee6564

10 ай бұрын

Hi, we're in the same boat. We've both been thru 2 divorces and want to live separate but have an intimate relationship and that's working great for us. We respect each other and enjoy each other's company ,good conversation and lots of laughter. After 6 months I think we're getting spoilt with each other ❤

@BartsozMarek

9 ай бұрын

What is meant for you will like YOU

Just too much work

*Flirting is conveying romantic interest. Make friends with flirting. Reframe failure. Be authentic. *hi my name is ......*

Yeah, we know what we're thinking but what is the man thinking when a woman takes the initiative to flirt with a man...... and isn't that the woman taking the masculine role, per your other video...I'm just sayin.

Touch his p p

@warriormanmaxx8991

10 ай бұрын

Hey @bronadonvanlieshout7303 - 1. no one is asking you for sexual advice. 2. does your own advice work in the strange world you live in??

@dashiajames1882

9 ай бұрын

@@warriormanmaxx8991: 🤣🤣🤣 Ikr what kinda advice is that..!!