How to Fix a Broken Heart | Guy Winch

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Guy Winch asks us to take our emotional health as seriously as we take our physical health -- and explores how to heal from common heartaches. Watch his full TED Talk: • How to fix a broken he...

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  • @georgiabessie
    @georgiabessie3 ай бұрын

    Perfectly released on Valentines Day. Best Ted talk ever done. Thank you Guy.

  • @xdgs567z
    @xdgs567z3 ай бұрын

    I’ve been heartbroken many times and each time I’ve learned to just let go and move on…when the breakup is at the point of no return, don’t let the false hope eat at you mentally and waste your time

  • @ws521

    @ws521

    3 ай бұрын

    u r so clever

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise3 ай бұрын

    Looks like an excellent TED Talk!

  • @robyn7287
    @robyn72873 ай бұрын

    Hits right to the heart 💓

  • @a24396
    @a243963 ай бұрын

    The "breakups" aren't the problem... I've got an unbroken track record of those. For me, the problem is still always going to be the one that slowly withdrew to try and make me the one to end things. I'd ask if anything was wrong and get told everything was fine - I was reacting poorly for some reason, seeing things that weren't there, etc... And then, after months of that, of my believing what was so clearly in retrospect nothing but lies, I got a "my life is better without you" as an explanation for why "we needed some time apart." After being reassured that entire time it left me unwilling to trust my instincts, unwilling to risk myself... Every memory I have now feels like a fraud; I thought we were happy when we visited London, or Paris, or Barcelona... Spent holidays together, spending time with family... But at some point the lies and pretending started... I still don't know but how did I miss it? It's hard to "fix" a problem if I can't even identify what it was. Pathetic to feel both betrayed and responsible at the same time... Even worse is the shame I feel to have let that destroy me so thoroughly. All for someone that I'm quite sure hasn't spared a moment's thought on me since. I'm quite sure none of it ever mattered... Except to me...

  • @ws521

    @ws521

    3 ай бұрын

    do not think about it.let it go.Its over. past is past.Look forward.U r painful because your brain but not your soul.

  • @erdiaz13

    @erdiaz13

    3 ай бұрын

    So well-put, this sounds devastating. Sorry you had to go through that. 😔

  • @belaytriks
    @belaytriks3 ай бұрын

    For the classic greeks Hope was an evil, that is why it was in Pandora' box. Hope stoped men to acept their reality and work to change it.

  • @cactustree505
    @cactustree5053 ай бұрын

    accept and let go of hope to really let it all go

  • @TheFineLine920
    @TheFineLine9203 ай бұрын

    Love this! 🎉

  • @Rian80s
    @Rian80s3 ай бұрын

    Gonna leave a comment here for remainder

  • @Vegesaurus7
    @Vegesaurus73 ай бұрын

    Only Jesus can fill your heart ✝️ = ❤️

  • @KennyPurpleRain
    @KennyPurpleRain3 ай бұрын

    It is dopamine withdrawal

  • @dejab3589
    @dejab35893 ай бұрын

    Hope will disappoint you every time

  • @sbshnkv
    @sbshnkv3 ай бұрын

    Я на секунду подумал, что Соловьев выступает

  • @user-oe8jx8nx7c

    @user-oe8jx8nx7c

    3 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @onnensr2190
    @onnensr21903 ай бұрын

    bookmark

  • @potapotapotapotapotapota
    @potapotapotapotapotapota3 ай бұрын

    codependence is 💀💀

  • @j.5908
    @j.59083 ай бұрын

    Fucking mood killer

  • @muzzybeat
    @muzzybeat3 ай бұрын

    Drama queen.

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