How to deal with loneliness | Buddhism In English

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  • @saiprabath2788
    @saiprabath278828 күн бұрын

    Buddhism is very helpful to those people who are unhappy and having emotional turbulence even though I am Hindu I follow Buddhism and practice meditation namo buddhay ❤

  • @peerguy

    @peerguy

    28 күн бұрын

    Happy that Buddhist principles are helping you. Urge you to remember Buddhist teachings when you’re not feeling lonely as well. It doesn’t have to be limited to when you feel lonely

  • @saiprabath2788

    @saiprabath2788

    28 күн бұрын

    @@peerguy yes its not limited or reserved to some people it's a vast religion and teaches how to lead happy life

  • @Unknownlll123

    @Unknownlll123

    28 күн бұрын

    ​I am looking more into Buddhism and it is really helping me, I don't class Buddhism as a religion but as common sense, the amount of times I have said to people there is more to life than money I believe in my own way it is true because the two things in my eyes that cause the most arguments are money and religion. Like Buddhism and karma they both make perfect sense, the best things in life are free and everything is impermanent, every day i believe this to be true, be nice to each other and you will be rewarded by your actions. Nammo Buddhya. 🙏.

  • @Hs5687

    @Hs5687

    28 күн бұрын

    Not be Naive to seek Spiritual when You know source of Your Problems… Digital Feudalism allows even Governments to Weaponise isolation , loneliness, especially against Political Threats … ie. Key Witnesses, Whistleblowers etc

  • @wilsDav3

    @wilsDav3

    28 күн бұрын

    I agree with you I was not good person but my life change when I got married to Thai person and speaking to monks my heart change to warm be very good this Monk change me to

  • @Sunjae32136
    @Sunjae3213628 күн бұрын

    My biggest dream is to meet you in person sir..Your voice & words are so calming. Whenever I feel alone or sad I just watch your videos it makes me feel so good..Thank you so much for all your wonderful words ..May you live a long life with a good health Sir ❤

  • @JulietDsouza-om3sg

    @JulietDsouza-om3sg

    18 күн бұрын

    You are such a lovely person I wish you live long with good health and happiness

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @chhavigoel8029
    @chhavigoel802915 күн бұрын

    All I understand is loneliness is not always a suffering. It can be a blessing as you get time for yourself to develop your personality and to self care about yourself.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @sandunithakshila72
    @sandunithakshila7226 күн бұрын

    Buddhism have all the solutions for our questions. This is a much needed topic for me nowadays. Beginning from now, I'm gonna focus on myself more than others and definitely I'm gonna correct my faults and hope to get a better version of me. Namo Buddhaya 🙏💐 Thank you for everyone who behind this video ❤❤

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    The highest school of Buddhism is Falun Dafa.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @flyme2009
    @flyme200928 күн бұрын

    i am lonely since i cam out an atheist in 2001. i lost all of my muslim fake friends, family, siblings and my fake sri lankan muslim community in canada. i never look back and i am very happy the way i am. i have canadians non muslims friends and i cant have muslims friends even from other countries bc of my life style. it is better to be lonely than fake people around you. namo budhayaa

  • @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu

    @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu

    28 күн бұрын

    Alone does not mean lonely❤

  • @johncarter1150

    @johncarter1150

    28 күн бұрын

    What is fake or false to you is real to them. Lots of atheist or more open-minded people who would be your friend! Don't stay lonely too long.

  • @metalheadtaz

    @metalheadtaz

    23 күн бұрын

    Muslims are very conservative. They will never mingle with an ex Muslim

  • @shannonpmitchell
    @shannonpmitchell28 күн бұрын

    I never get lonely. I love being alone, but I did become extremely sad when my grandchildren moved away from me.

  • @RaviRai-tp5fk

    @RaviRai-tp5fk

    27 күн бұрын

    Your grandchildren moved away from you and i myself away from my gandapa and grandma to do studies.. 😢😢

  • @enukapasan

    @enukapasan

    26 күн бұрын

    U were attached to them. Bless u with health and wellbeing

  • @RaviRai-tp5fk

    @RaviRai-tp5fk

    26 күн бұрын

    @@enukapasan 😔🙏🏻🙏🏻 Namaste...

  • @shannonpmitchell

    @shannonpmitchell

    19 күн бұрын

    @@RaviRai-tp5fk 🙏

  • @shannonpmitchell

    @shannonpmitchell

    19 күн бұрын

    @@enukapasan thank you!

  • @mistyguha
    @mistyguha28 күн бұрын

    Buddhism is really great ❤

  • @user-xg8tv3fl5x

    @user-xg8tv3fl5x

    10 күн бұрын

    I am 78 yrs old. I am widowed and live alone. Thank you for your wise words and also thank you for the calm way in which you narrate. You are good.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @Maximus-mh1ov
    @Maximus-mh1ov28 күн бұрын

    Namo Buddhaya. After getting to know about anatta and that everyone is interdependent never feel loneliness again.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @shona4252
    @shona425228 күн бұрын

    Having Lord Gautam Buddha, his Buddhism & My Dearest Venerable Mahindasiri Thero Bhanteji in my life is really a blessing for me 😊❤️😌🙏Thank you so much to all of you for everything 😊❤️😌🙏Namo Buddhay 😊❤️😌🙏

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    Falun Gong has the King of the Buddhas for a master.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @katiadetlinger4753
    @katiadetlinger47538 күн бұрын

    Now I begin the loneliness like a positive energy! Gratitude!

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry646627 күн бұрын

    Beautiful..i agree with Sir..i am alone most of the time..but not lonely..i have learned to know myself and i have changed a lot..i am always happy

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    You were not put on this earth to be happy..........................Falun Gong

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha943528 күн бұрын

    Thank you❤❤❤❤ Take care and stay safe❤😊 Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @helenestyles6561
    @helenestyles65616 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your words of wisdom. I feel better just hearing your calm voice.

  • @rajavepuri8007
    @rajavepuri800728 күн бұрын

    Please do a video, meditation or breathing exercise before sleep to get good sleep

  • @bibhu939

    @bibhu939

    28 күн бұрын

    Try hatha yoga sleeping meditation

  • @bibhu939

    @bibhu939

    28 күн бұрын

    Try hatha yoga

  • @rajavepuri8007

    @rajavepuri8007

    28 күн бұрын

    @@bibhu939 okay

  • @PyoneThu73
    @PyoneThu7323 күн бұрын

    Buddha's teachings and paths taught me to accept the good and bad experiences I encounter in life.❤

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @Hope1111-c8g
    @Hope1111-c8g16 күн бұрын

    Bhanthe please make a video about what pride is and how to let go of it, how to be competent but still be humble and how to be capable and not be arrogant without being proud of it and bragging is it worth to completely stop pride or is there a middle way of having pride or how should it be handled, please educate about lord Buddhas teachings on how to be humble and what humbleness can do to you and help with our success. Thank you very much. නමෝ බුද්ධාය

  • @user-dg9ve6lj4o
    @user-dg9ve6lj4o27 күн бұрын

    Thank you because this time I am alone and most of the time I feel lonely but After listening you now I try to undesrstand my self and make this loneliness into a blessing

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    To remove loneliness one must feel lonely, suffering brings wisdom, nothing else...........................Falun Gong

  • @JustinTimeTo
    @JustinTimeTo28 күн бұрын

    It’s so dangerous, keep telling myself that it will get better.

  • @johncarter1150

    @johncarter1150

    28 күн бұрын

    You're not the only one. Keep trying good or bad, Life is for the living! Reality seems fake when you live with an isolated inner/seff directed attitude.

  • @4uveggieclub

    @4uveggieclub

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @4uveggieclub

    @4uveggieclub

    23 күн бұрын

    ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    Fear is a good thing because it allows us to be courageous, what is so dangerous?

  • @JustinTimeTo

    @JustinTimeTo

    12 күн бұрын

    @@jeff_forsythe it can go either way depending on perspective at the time of fear or loneliness. I agree harnessing it can be extremely beneficial.

  • @rachnatawasthi44
    @rachnatawasthi443 күн бұрын

    Alone living is a valuable asset for me to grow up and be able to live with in!

  • @quin923
    @quin92327 күн бұрын

    Yes, it's true that loneliness is also a blessing.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Blessing ... I agree with U...

  • @bobo2.1
    @bobo2.126 күн бұрын

    That's absolutely true what u said. All of us should understand about this, I also understand what make me loneliness and thank you so much for feel comfortable us in our lives. I'm Buddhism and I am always trying to change my life with following Load Buddha's way, and it's gets me a better life. Namo Buddhaya !!

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @bithikasaha377
    @bithikasaha3775 күн бұрын

    I would like to pay my deep reverence to you Sir. I hv' been going through a very tough phase in my life where suddenly I found myself completely abandoned by my near & dear ones mentally though surrounded by them physically. Not knowing what to do I was completely shuttered and then oneday I suddenly came across a valuable speech of you in this youtube channel which is a turning point in my life. You with your valuable words have enlightened my path Sir. Many many thanks to you Sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @melissahouse1296
    @melissahouse129628 күн бұрын

    You are such a blessing this channel is helping me so much & i am so grateful. Thank you so very much 💝💖🙏☺

  • @a.s.w.9619
    @a.s.w.961923 күн бұрын

    This video came exactly at the correct time I need it..❤

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Bless u with health and wellbeing

  • @paulll6512
    @paulll651213 күн бұрын

    I am interested in the teachings of the Buddha. The teachings fascinate me because I am taught that in is not a religion, nor a philosophy, but a way of life.

  • @carly-beatz-DJ
    @carly-beatz-DJ26 күн бұрын

    I thank loneliness daily for the time it affords me to reflect inwards. This video is fantastic, and for me, a fundamental in my practice.

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    Falun Gong has much greater wisdom, if that is you wish

  • @user-ke4re1ed4n
    @user-ke4re1ed4n8 күн бұрын

    I am so happy to have heard ur voice again! It is so fascinating and educational

  • @cutelittlethings__
    @cutelittlethings__21 күн бұрын

    You are not lonely. Nobody has you❤

  • @kpopsweetie8106
    @kpopsweetie810628 күн бұрын

    Really needed this... Thank you so much... Namo Nuddhaya...!!!🙏🌼✨

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @michellemachet-philip2801
    @michellemachet-philip2801Күн бұрын

    You are really a very calming person. Thank you so much for your video

  • @JustinTimeTo
    @JustinTimeTo27 күн бұрын

    This couldn’t have came at a better time. Thank you 🙏 been listening to this over and over today.

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @nikitasharma6796
    @nikitasharma679627 күн бұрын

    Hi sir you are very true. Loneliness also gives one ample me time...

  • @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu
    @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu28 күн бұрын

    I like to be with people and i also like to be on my own as i learned about Bhoudism since i was young❤

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    Your comment is very superficial, Buddhism teaches that suffering is the key to enlightenment.............................Falun Gong.

  • @thanushree9027
    @thanushree902728 күн бұрын

    Namo buddhaya. I had the same feeling till now. I felt lonely even I am with my family. But now I will try to give time for myself and understand the reality and myself. Thank you so much .

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    You need a great teacher.......................Falun Gong.

  • @WMkaveeshaSathsarani
    @WMkaveeshaSathsarani24 күн бұрын

    This is the words of LORD BUDDA...These advices was very helpful to me...

  • @phatphapai

    @phatphapai

    4 күн бұрын

    Bless u with health and wellbeing

  • @josephwong7103
    @josephwong710327 күн бұрын

    Thank you. Learnt so much from this video. 🙏🏼

  • @Muskan-ci2np
    @Muskan-ci2np28 күн бұрын

    This was needed. Thanks

  • @Sneha_soren_11
    @Sneha_soren_1128 күн бұрын

    Loneliness is a kind of blessing ✨

  • @wilsDav3
    @wilsDav328 күн бұрын

    I love you comments and video helping me myself I I'm a Christian 🙏 thank you

  • @Susan-kt5yc
    @Susan-kt5yc28 күн бұрын

    Beautifully said. Thank you❤

  • @phatphapai
    @phatphapai18 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much! 🙏Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @tankhareshbhai3595
    @tankhareshbhai359523 күн бұрын

    Your video is amazing, please make how to deal with toxic siblings 😔, please 🙏

  • @user-nx8pe4mn8v
    @user-nx8pe4mn8v28 күн бұрын

    Thank you "Buddha's teaching..❤🙏

  • @maheshwaribalamurugan4004
    @maheshwaribalamurugan400428 күн бұрын

    Namo Bhuddhaya 🙏🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @user-gx6rr8gf4l
    @user-gx6rr8gf4l27 күн бұрын

    Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @saugatnagila8648
    @saugatnagila864823 күн бұрын

    Thank you sir for this helpful lecture and also wanna thank the person who put a very soothing background music❤

  • @sithiravishvajith7773
    @sithiravishvajith777328 күн бұрын

    Namo budhdhaya 🙏

  • @rahulsinger3262
    @rahulsinger326228 күн бұрын

    Om Namo Buddhaya ❤❤❤

  • @nam-sel4149
    @nam-sel414928 күн бұрын

    Grateful to you . Really helpful to live

  • @ayechanmoe4738
    @ayechanmoe473824 күн бұрын

    Thanks.This is amazing!

  • @user-bu7jh3dk6g
    @user-bu7jh3dk6g17 күн бұрын

    Namo Buddha, sir lisening to this video abt loneliness and what you're saying make tears run down my eyes, always lisening to you Namo Buddha

  • @deepshikarathore6724
    @deepshikarathore672417 күн бұрын

    He is life changer for me 🙏🏻♥️ Namo buddhaya❤

  • @NIKHIL_IITR
    @NIKHIL_IITR20 күн бұрын

    Namo buddhaye !!

  • @asuznjoozhamattom
    @asuznjoozhamattom28 күн бұрын

    Thankyou,for the wisdom

  • @VirginiaSado
    @VirginiaSado8 күн бұрын

    ❤ For every tear that drifts from our eyes could be a victory ❤ Thank you ❤ Smiles. Amen❤

  • @sasirusankhajaya1795
    @sasirusankhajaya179527 күн бұрын

    Truly appreciate!

  • @wendymacklin3225
    @wendymacklin322527 күн бұрын

    My pranams to you, your words are true wisdom.

  • @Jhalak42
    @Jhalak4228 күн бұрын

    thank you so much , namo buddhay🥰

  • @davecameron5355
    @davecameron535516 күн бұрын

    Another really interesting and helpful teaching. Thank you so much for the time you give up helping us to understand how to cope with life.

  • @MonicaHeraghty
    @MonicaHeraghty16 күн бұрын

    I would listen to you forever you make me look àt life in a different way you are a wonderful person. ❤

  • @Siddeswaraedu71
    @Siddeswaraedu7127 күн бұрын

    Namo buddhaya💐💐

  • @whoinlok7664
    @whoinlok766428 күн бұрын

    ❤❤Thanks for your teaching Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @DisnaRanaweera-xn6tb
    @DisnaRanaweera-xn6tb27 күн бұрын

    Great vedio. Thank for sharing this with us.

  • @kelvinth30
    @kelvinth3028 күн бұрын

    I totally get this as I'm an introvert

  • @KalpaGirihagama
    @KalpaGirihagama28 күн бұрын

    thank you💓

  • @prophetofthemightysquirrel5434
    @prophetofthemightysquirrel543428 күн бұрын

    May all be truly loved and happy!

  • @SunitaDevi-vf9bs
    @SunitaDevi-vf9bs27 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much.

  • @dangubappo4163
    @dangubappo416328 күн бұрын

    I really love your advice ❤

  • @bernardsangma89
    @bernardsangma8928 күн бұрын

    Full support Sir 👍❤️❤️🙏

  • @ginimajo5964
    @ginimajo596428 күн бұрын

    One of my bucket lists is to meet you

  • @samuelrodrigues2939
    @samuelrodrigues293925 күн бұрын

    What he says about our expectation of other people acting as we wisg is so true and that unmet expectation is what creates suffering.. it is obvious, but something that is easy to be unconcious about and go back to the circle of suffering

  • @Sapnagoyalmotivation
    @Sapnagoyalmotivation9 күн бұрын

    I m hindu. But I like your videos very much. I m inspired. To u.

  • @brys.3131
    @brys.313128 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much, this has helped me.

  • @MuralitharanDakshinamoorthy
    @MuralitharanDakshinamoorthy28 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the video. I would like to understand the difference between self love and selfishness according to buddhism.

  • @Shonda-y7c
    @Shonda-y7c3 күн бұрын

    Excellent teaching! 🌱

  • @hsmint
    @hsmint3 күн бұрын

    Use the time alone to understand yourself, what are your values, what matters to you

  • @katriendesmetdesantiago6413
    @katriendesmetdesantiago641328 күн бұрын

    Thank you dear Monk , you help me so much, I try to live more like you told us but it is not easy with all these bad habits I have

  • @liyanageperera9290
    @liyanageperera929026 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much🙏

  • @user-dq2ok6nk2q
    @user-dq2ok6nk2q27 күн бұрын

    In my loneliness I am interested, why am I here, this is very incredible, because in loneliness I understand myself better, it is easier to let go of my pain and be healthy, I am 💙 Myself

  • @jeff_forsythe

    @jeff_forsythe

    15 күн бұрын

    Falun Dafa can answer all your questions concerning creation.

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani925618 күн бұрын

    Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .

  • @maryamfincher1851
    @maryamfincher18514 күн бұрын

    Great teach. For first time I understood loneliness. I thank you so very much 💙💜💚❤🤍

  • @PhassangAnu
    @PhassangAnu28 күн бұрын

    Namo bhuddhaya❤

  • @Arjun3mg
    @Arjun3mg27 күн бұрын

    Very true it lies within our source we should change

  • @user-tg8zr9mr4q
    @user-tg8zr9mr4q23 күн бұрын

    Just trying to take care of myself 😊😊

  • @dumeshiellawidana9486
    @dumeshiellawidana948617 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much..!!

  • @meeranandagopalan
    @meeranandagopalan22 күн бұрын

    Thank you❤

  • @aravindadharsh
    @aravindadharsh27 күн бұрын

    Namo Buddhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lisadao3593
    @lisadao3593Күн бұрын

    That is amazing !

  • @orrphase77
    @orrphase7728 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much dear😊 💗

  • @manishmandhotra5888
    @manishmandhotra588823 күн бұрын

    Namo buddhaya.Kindly make video on how to be disciplined with daily targets and how to be consistent in efforts.

  • @NatasaJanser
    @NatasaJanser24 күн бұрын

    Great advice - thanks ❤

  • @shubhamkumer-he5vf
    @shubhamkumer-he5vf13 күн бұрын

    thank u monk for this beautiful guidance namo budhay🥰

  • @tuna5287
    @tuna528727 күн бұрын

    Thank you very much! I would prefer your teaching without the background music. That way I can create a deep thinking inside of me.

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller298018 күн бұрын

    I had an insight in a meditation Sure there were friends I've needed to let go. They were time and energy vampires, not friends. But there have also been decent people I've pushed away out of resistance to change, or fear of more negative experiences and I regret that. Maybe time with my little family, two cats and meditation group at the temple are all I need at this time.

  • @sourishsourish1019
    @sourishsourish101927 күн бұрын

    This is the most useful video for Introverts like me

  • @johncarter1150
    @johncarter115027 күн бұрын

    Be brave, reconnect with your friends, or meet new friends. Don't wait for loneliness to go away!

  • @mphophori1043
    @mphophori104318 күн бұрын

    Opportunity to build better love ❤

  • @sanjanam8220
    @sanjanam822018 күн бұрын

    Thank you sir❤very helpful video

  • @kristincabanaw6747
    @kristincabanaw674717 күн бұрын

    Thank you.❤

  • @andrewwater5836
    @andrewwater583628 күн бұрын

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏

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