I compare myself with my classmates all the time and self hate....thanks for the video

@strikerx3810

9 ай бұрын

Me too and i can't getting rid of this problem😢😢

@SonOhJom

8 ай бұрын

Me too 😐 I always hope that they are doing the same as i do and i often think they are negative by doing that which is wrong 🫥

@SonOhJom

8 ай бұрын

Now i know what to do because of this channel. It enlightened me so much that i can became more happy and practice kindness and patience is better than comparing ourselves to others. 🙂🙏

@arpitbalia6447

7 ай бұрын

Same 😢

@saraswathikalpana1875

7 ай бұрын

Don't go to school

I’ve always achieved success in life through comparison. Had a successful running career in college because there were people faster than me “I need to be faster than that guy, I’m going to outwork that guy to win” after graduating I got a job in sales. It was a really competitive environment. I brought the same mindset and became a top performer because I knew it was possible. Now I’m in a place in life where the comparison is only causing me tremendous stress. Friends making more money than me. Wife left me and now she’s making more money than me, her life seems it’s taking better direction than when we were together. It makes me feel absolutely horrible. But the truth is, I absolutely love my job, it’s so much fun and I’m making enough money to support myself. I love my friends and I love my life. But the comparison always works together with my competitiveness to torture me. I’ve just started this journey of gratitude and letting go of trying to be “better than” others in order to feel accomplished. Wish me luck

True .. I left Instagram and Facebook.... I now listen to good KZread.

Jesus says love yourself like you love others! I am reminded of this when I listen to you and I as a Christian see no problem taking your advice. It is the right and true advice!

@okso6369

Жыл бұрын

As Walpola Rahula wrote, "Truth needs no label: it is neither Buddhist, Christian, Hindu, nor Moslem. It is not the monopoly of anyone."

@clarencefernando3968

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. 100% correct.Good luck and all the best.

@diwasH3DD

Жыл бұрын

Love have'nt social status

@Jay-ft3xh

7 ай бұрын

Please keep your bigoted, hate filled dogma inside your home. Less you be a hypocrite.

@Jay-ft3xh

7 ай бұрын

Besides the deep irony of you comparing your belief system with the philosophy of non religious people.

I have really been struggling with feeling shitty after comparing myself to others better than me

This is the best preching I have ever heared which makes my mind blowing and very sensible at the moment I heard it. Applicability of the concepts compared with Supreme Buddha's preeching gives it a content validity.

@smithasusan4864

2 жыл бұрын

True

@sleepinggiant575

Жыл бұрын

This was good and I'm Christian. I'm headed to a buddah temple soon.

@xaviergregory7876

Жыл бұрын

Good messages. I am a senior citizen. I listen almost every day. Good presentation and accent. But if you can spare some time to avoid certain mistakes, incorrect usages (grammatical) it would be great🙏

@millionyohannes1036

Жыл бұрын

Tank You For Message

@swarupam1667

11 ай бұрын

​@@smithasusan4864you

Amazing advice from the great Human Being!!!

Be yourself, love yourself, Knowing yourself 🧘🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

LIFE IS A CIRCLE OF HAPPINESS, SADNESS, HARD TIMES, AND GOOD TIMES. IF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A HARD TIME, KNOW THAT GOOD TIMES ARE ON THE WAY.

I came upon this simply by chance. But from the moment I saw the first one I could not stop myself from watching others also. Each of them is so interesting and teaches us the simple rules of living a happy and contented life.

@dec66.18

2 жыл бұрын

Yes,came upon these by chance also,on a weekend that wasn't going well (nothing serious but annoying).I watched the video ,and now I watch daily,very helpful.

Hello 🙂 This is such a great video full of wisdom. We as humans at one time or the other get fustdrated in.many areas of life for not having our dreams fulfilled and compare ourselves with others especially with others. From this video we have to learn to run in our own tracks and stop comparing to others. So very true. Thank you very much for your words of Wisdom.🙏

Sadu I am a Christian but I listen to your preaching and I say you are a great preacher. God bless you.

This is one of the best videos about comparison and jealousy that I've seen so far. I have tendencies to get frustrated over other people's lives, especially if they have what I've dreamt of having. I don't know if it'll be easy to just wish them happiness, while I, myself struggle to get that same thing, when they are served with it for free. That's the part that I struggle with. He's so right about social media fuelling such toxic feelings, but still you can't get rid of that feeling of jealousy and comparison when you try so hard to get it for all these years and someone out there just got it for free. If anyone has a similar experience and knows how to fix it, please let me know.

@memenchance1747

Жыл бұрын

I used to be jealous all the time and I'm not really sure how I managed to remove it from me. I think for me it's the idea of impermanence helped a lot. At the end of the day everything will go away so I don't really think much of what I have. I also think that envy is just an emotion that motivates you to do better, so whenever I feel it I know that it's just me desiring something and I immediately try to remove it from my thoughts because it feels bad and it don't really help me accomplish things. Desire is the root of suffering according to Buddhism and I completely agree but I can't help myself sometimes but still its possible to remove envy even though you still have desires, I think you just have to be aware of it. I'm sorry if this answer is confusing I'm not that good at sharing my thoughts. 😁😁 This may not be the solution for you but I know by experience it's possible to free yourself from envy. I can't believe that I've done it either, one day and it was just gone. Sometimes it comes back but I just have to remind myself that it don't matter in the end. So don't worry you'll find your way soon! 😁😁

@poojamhatre4290

Жыл бұрын

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@luisaespedilla4600

Жыл бұрын

My advice to you is just live a simple life .. don't dreamed the things that impossible for you to achieved....the saying is life is so unfair....

@tubadurantdoda

Жыл бұрын

@@memenchance1747 I know, it's not easy to remove it completely, but it's best to just reduce it I guess and it only happens by staying away from social media as far as I observed.

@stefaniakonstantinidou981

Жыл бұрын

You are unique. Nobody is like you. And material things don t matter. Only the kindness of your heart and your values are important. What s important is given for free to everybody. What s not important requires money to buy

Being calm and cool By hearing this video it's an amazing experience to me that ever I have listened

I always look forward on hearing and taking notes of Buddhist lessons and advices.🙏🙏🙏 thank you very much.

I feel so happy to follow this simple explanation you are giving us every time on different topics. Thank you so much Hamuduruvane. Budusaranai !

Namo Buddhaya 🙏 Great preaching of Gautama Buddha.🙏 This is valuable for day to day life for every one. Swaminwahansa may you more good health and success 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you and I appreciate your KZread videos. Your an excellent teacher and have great wisdom and knowledge. I learn so much from you. Thank you so much for your understanding, guidance, wisdom and knowledge.

Hello Buddha 👋! Every topic of yours are very interesting and inspiring ✨ 😊 ☺ I cannot thank you enough 😊 ☺ 🙏🙌👋

I am so happy tp hear this words. Namo budhaya

O LEARNED ONE YOU are such a good soul from where do you bring so much of peacefulness and compassion in you Thankyou just love to hear you God Bless you

Thank you. If we stop comparing us to others it will eradicate jealousy as well.

Ayubowewa.... AWESOMELY well said👊 Namo Buddhaya 💟😘👌

Very true..i use social media very less nowadays.

Namo Buddhaya Bhante. Thank you for alleviating my fears. 🙏🏻

I feel so comfort n peaceful sir. Thank you 😊

Swaminwahansa, can you do a preaching about people’s anger. The way people behaved during the last few days burning houses etc

Every word you said it is useful and perfect 🙏🏻❤️

This is the perfect advice & suggestion to control our jealous, envious & depression. The lord Buddha always shaw us how to lead a happy & prosperous life so that the earth become co-existent with peacefully. In the present world we want to be more wealthy in order enjoying life. But the process of acquiring assets are not unique somebody make proper way somebody are not then we involve in evil competition as a result we create discrimination, bad precedent & anti- social activities. In this regard neither do i but in order to dominate my foul mindset early in the morning after doing exercise always listen your holliness verse.Namo Buddha.. may all beings in the world be happy & successful. Sadhu 3

Such a greatest life advice 🥺🙏really needed this

Thank you so much you filled me with happiness ❤❤❤!!!

Be grateful for what God has blessed you with and appreciate it with all your heart...hope I can remember your advice uncle

So inspiring & realization of life's essence...Thanks to your videos.🙏

I love listening to all your wonderful advice. Thankyou so much 💕

Thank you so much...for very informative and reality advice..God bless us all...

I always compare myself to those because of my insecurities . It sucks because I never used to be like this . Thank you for this video 😊

May my birth be there to the nations that attain Nirvana,wherever the friends of Sathpurusha Kalyana are!!!🥺🙏💫🌻

Bondhona vante🙏when I listen your speech it seems to me that Lord Buddha used to deliberate speech like that for the betterment of mankind🙏Best wishes 🙏

thanks for this sharing ❤️.. it's too important for students..🤞

Your service to society is Highly valuable & appreciated.BUDDHA's Thoughts and suggestion to life is extremely practical and can be applicable in any time in life.

Your seriously changing so many people life 🙏🏿 thanks for great words

Best preaching in a very simple and lucid manner. Even a lay man can understand.

You can be the better version of yourself...❤️

One of the best dhamma preaching i listening. So true for most. Who keep winging about others houses,vehicles what other eat and all sort of things. Namo Buddhaya obawahanseta 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Namo Buddhaya! Thanks 🙏 for your videos it help us to change our life! Your beautiful calming voice with Buddish philosophy it is amazing! Namo Buddhaya!

praise God for you.you are blessed

Yes, exactly true.... We shouldn't compare self with other like personally then we get lose in own life in addition if we do compare to other as professionally so we need to focus at work and need more hard work then it will be good for our life....

සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I love your teachings. It brings an inner peace while listening to you❤

Everyday, i gain new knowledge from you, Thank you ! "Namo buddhaya".

This channel made my day even more better😇🙏.....nd I'm seeing positive changes inside me, ...

Thank you so much for the invaluable throughs. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Beautiful wisdom ! 🙏

This video helps me a lot...🥺 namo budhdhaya🙏🙏🙏

I love every people,religion and also leaders of every cast.i love all good speeches.

You are amazing . You are my piece of mind

Reverent sir excellent preachings . Everyone can learn buddhism through this channal very simple way.the one who create this video channel is a great person . buddhism is reality of the world.He also gets lot of merits through this.

Namo Buddhaye.Thank you sir for your excellent advices.

Priceless gift

Sadu sadu anumodame. This is teaching us a lot🙏🙏

Very very thankful for giving such a wonderful advice🙏🙏🙏

Great lesson for everyone and especially for my self thanks

I'm also worrying and comparing my life with my friends in foreign

@ALC0A021

2 жыл бұрын

He he don't do that

Reverend sir, during your great dhamma preaching, it gives more enery by remo ving my weaknesses. That mean I think it is real experience. May the triple gem bless you

Nice video..I always look forward on hearing and taking notes of Buddhist lessons and advices.🙏🙏🙏 thank you very much.

So lovely!! 🤗🤗🌸🌺💐💐💐🌻✨✨✨ may all the beings in this world be successful!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🫶🫶🫶💛🌟✨ peace, health, and happiness for all, the world over and over and always forever 🌌♾️

Smileing to speaking very nice and very kaind 👏🏿👏🏿🙏🙏👌👌all people very lucky because you in the world 👌👌👌shiring good things 👍others❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Very remarkable ,useful and inspiring speeches of bhante ji. Vandami bhante ji, Namo buddhay!

Thank you so much....🙏🙏🙏

I am very happy to see the great video. Amazing voice and thought and thank ❤you to give me good advice 🙏🙏 नमो बुद्धाय

Best channel I have ever found

great lesson for us.Inner happyness is most important .Thank you very much Rev.sir.

This is best technique. Thank you

Great advice pinwath swameenwahansa.. Theruvansranai Namobuddhaya

Now i know what to do because of this channel. It enlightened me so much that i can became more happy and practice kindness and patience is better than comparing ourselves to others. 🙂🙏

I feel so interesting to follow your great thoughts and teachings on different topics. They help us to change our life. Thank you so much...🌹🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

Wonderful.....nice to listen.

Beautiful tip ....tq ....

Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

I am soo much thankfull you thero🙏...namo buddhaya

Nice videos... Thanks a lot😊

Thank you Buddha for answering this question🙏🙏😇😇☺️☺️

Thank you brother learning

Thank you Maha Bhante, i really felt Mudita for Maha Bhante because you always sharing and spreading Supreme Buddha Right Teaching thru out the Whole World🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻May you be well and happy Sukhi Hontu 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Thank u for great teaching

Metta ✨Thank you for sharing the dharma with us. Currently looking for a sangha or online platform to connect with others to dive more into the dharma. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻🌻

Your advice is really great sir 👍🏻

Once again I feel relieved from depression after watching this episode.Thankyou NamoBuddhaya.

Many many thanks.there is no words to say its vallue.

Namo bhudaye gratitude 🙏🥰💫✨🙏

A good lesson 👌.

Good information. Given sir Thank you Definetly i will follow your suggestions

Thru this channel I tried to start to forgive and to realized the positive side in life it's real. But I do good for convenience of others hope forgiveness is the key.

Ur smile gave me possitive vibe..😊

Yes..correct Teacher of Buddah...know you so loved and valued by 'zillions' of people, Holy God, and me. I value you. A Teacher...USA

නමෝ බුද්ධාය . Venerable Thero, May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation. තෙරුවන් සරණයි!

Omg.you are a shrine of piece and information

thank you very much❤ this practice helps me a lot！

Great video, words and thoughts. There are 3 ingredients that most humans never truly master: Know, Love and Respect yourself. The reason there is so much turmoil in the world is because humans lack 1 to 3 of these critical ingredients to master their own life...

Oba wahanseta deergaau wewa ! Namo buddhaya theruwan saranai !