How to deal with Gossip, Backbiting & Slander - Mufti Menk

Gossiping can easily lead to backbiting and slander. How can we stop it?
----
Official Mufti Menk Channel:
Study Hadith with Mufti Menk at Eman Academy
Get your first month FREE with code 'MUFTIMENK'
► bit.ly/EAcadMM1 ◄

Subscribe at the click of a button for more motivational videos!
► bit.ly/MMenkYT ◄

For Audio only visit:
► muslimcentral.com/audio/mufti...
#MuftiMenk #GossipInIslam #SlanderInIslam #StopGossiping

Пікірлер: 576

  • @ameerahmaryamsyeda477
    @ameerahmaryamsyeda4773 жыл бұрын

    I am 13 years old and watch mufti menk everyday he has helped me so much on life, I would get bullied because of my weight and shouted at and I get rude comments by my parents when I get bad grades I would be very disrespectful and bad but mufti Menk is helping me to try and stop. I remember seeing him at a mosque where he signed his book for me and we shared our salams. It was right after school I go to an islam school where I am trying to gain knowledge on Quran and all other types of knowledge of the deen. Pls make dua for me so I can pass every exam and gain more and more knowledge as I go and that I be respectful to everyone and treat my parents with love and respect . I aspire to be like the prophet and all khalifas and mufti menk is helping me get there without even knowing.

  • @OmogeVblogTV

    @OmogeVblogTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/o6ST0sZme8fKlZfH.htmlhevkthis out

  • @script7049

    @script7049

    3 жыл бұрын

    same here brother

  • @codemadefun8461

    @codemadefun8461

    3 жыл бұрын

    Masha allah.. Good to hear you are now able to come up from your hard time.. indeed mufti menk helping me too grow. I dont miss single day to listen to him .. alhamdulillah my life also changing ..

  • @___a.x__

    @___a.x__

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah SWT help u ease ur troubles❤️Mashallah that's wonderful news to know u have learnt from Mufti👑 may Allah SWT protect all of us---Ameen 💞

  • @mr.t.1237

    @mr.t.1237

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah I'm 15 and you're what I aspire to be

  • @fifo7450
    @fifo74503 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes..Mufti not only teaches me how to get through things or more about Islam..He sometimes teaches me English. 😂😅

  • @Naludaking819

    @Naludaking819

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @naush2964

    @naush2964

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you 😂😂

  • @kinzaali4762

    @kinzaali4762

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ri8 I'm also very bad in English

  • @afrojaakhi1503

    @afrojaakhi1503

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I think it's the best way to improve our listening skill.

  • @qaswidangitu5302

    @qaswidangitu5302

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even me 😂😂

  • @nk-mb6rl
    @nk-mb6rl3 жыл бұрын

    We’ve run out of things to talk about so nowadays people form friendships and bond over backbiting and gossiping. This is why I don’t hang out with a lot of people anymore, 90% of people’s conversations is gossip. Better off being a loner than indulging in sin. My body and soul rejects this kind of negative behaviour towards each other. Backbiting and gossip literally hurts your mind and soul

  • @sm3675

    @sm3675

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its very sad. But still, having fun and talking to people is never a sin, you do what is best for you

  • @randomperson1714

    @randomperson1714

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sm3675 having fun and talking to people isn’t a sin,but if it’s having fun is done by sinning then it is a sin.

  • @newcityenzo

    @newcityenzo

    3 жыл бұрын

    I feel u brother InshaAllah for us to be around a better environment

  • @hellothere-jz4ny

    @hellothere-jz4ny

    Жыл бұрын

    @@samidica 😱😱😱

  • @say-subhanAllah-alhamdhulillah

    @say-subhanAllah-alhamdhulillah

    Жыл бұрын

    in sha Allah, i know this was two years ago but i pray you have found good friends ❤️

  • @rayyan-razaasjada5358
    @rayyan-razaasjada53583 жыл бұрын

    That's why I prepared to be alone than to have companion. I hate backfighting and gossiping others..

  • @Maysoon3121

    @Maysoon3121

    3 жыл бұрын

    This has nothing to do with being with someone , we need to learn how to keep our mouth closed.

  • @saniyaansari2728

    @saniyaansari2728

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Maysoon3121 we will In Sha Allah won't do it but what about listening

  • @happyhuman111

    @happyhuman111

    3 жыл бұрын

    yep same to me. I used to hangout with my friends before but they always talk badly about people and I dont wanna hear it so I barely join their company and now they started gossiping me and talk badly about me 🤷. I couldnt accept it before and I end up dont want to be friends with them anymore but now I have learned from it. Thats how Allah saves you from people that isnt good for you. Alhamdulillah

  • @rayyan-razaasjada5358

    @rayyan-razaasjada5358

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@happyhuman111 I feel you so much.😭

  • @diyanahabdullah6535

    @diyanahabdullah6535

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@happyhuman111 indeed

  • @abcdef12345678910ify
    @abcdef12345678910ify3 жыл бұрын

    Backbiting: Talking truth behind someone unless its a praise Slander: speaking lie about someone behind them

  • @saadusman4403

    @saadusman4403

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah forgive us .Ameen

  • @farhiyomohamed6730
    @farhiyomohamed6730 Жыл бұрын

    Replace gossip with prayer Replace your most of the bad habits with prayer ameen inshallah

  • @NarkarBros
    @NarkarBros3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah safeguard us all.

  • @shook9702

    @shook9702

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams

    @MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

  • @nadiyahokello9899

    @nadiyahokello9899

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @r.mahmood4494

    @r.mahmood4494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @arifalmalaibari4021

    @arifalmalaibari4021

    3 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/oqGBys9soaXcYbg.html

  • @deepanshunayar6823
    @deepanshunayar68232 жыл бұрын

    I just pray to Allah that anyone who spies on me or slanders me or oppresses me in any way have my sins taken upon their shoulders and their good deeds and blessings come to me Ameen

  • @comedowntopapa1184

    @comedowntopapa1184

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let them they will have fun now and even be prepared to be killed. Don't worry smile when alone, cry alone, remind yourself that even at death you might be alone and no one might care. But I guarantee you the angels will be at your funeral when no one is there.

  • @karugabashuiman930
    @karugabashuiman9303 жыл бұрын

    Your preeching lead's me to convert in lslam

  • @ahmedrashid5774

    @ahmedrashid5774

    3 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to Islam brother🤝

  • @husinambintmuusakivumbi3613

    @husinambintmuusakivumbi3613

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you beneficial knowledge of Deeni Ameen thumma Ameen Ya Rabb 💞

  • @maryamkhaleed4051

    @maryamkhaleed4051

    3 жыл бұрын

    Welcome to islam

  • @jspens2561
    @jspens25612 жыл бұрын

    I am a white Italian-American Catholic man and I am absolutely enjoying and learning from these videos. Thank you brothers and sisters .

  • @yakky6052

    @yakky6052

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you. Wisdom can come in many forms. Truth from any direction

  • @seikclavmckiez5542
    @seikclavmckiez55423 жыл бұрын

    *M* = Most *U* = Underated *F* = Famous *T* = Teacher *I* = In the world

  • @aisham2623

    @aisham2623

    3 жыл бұрын

    M.a

  • @ammun4378

    @ammun4378

    3 жыл бұрын

    Before commenting on someone. Kindly know about them

  • @hauwamari133

    @hauwamari133

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Maniac soul is true he is not underrated.

  • @madihahnn

    @madihahnn

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is not underrated

  • @user-zw8th2hg9u

    @user-zw8th2hg9u

    2 жыл бұрын

    @seikclav mckiez he's not underrated know what are you writing

  • @Goodvibesz222
    @Goodvibesz2223 жыл бұрын

    It's really difficult to forgive the people that have tried and succeeded to tarnish my name behind my back. I still hope Allah swt lets me see justice in this situation. I want everyone who bandwagoned against me, along with the instigator; a jealous female 'friend' who exposed all my insecurities and secrets when I was already very weak and depressed, to get theirs. I want all of their friendships based on hating another person to turn against each other the way they did to me. If my niece didnt step in and showed me the way to Islam I wouldnt even have been here today. I'm glad I got through it, but I am still hurt and traumatized.

  • @HealandThrivelBeyondNarcAbuse
    @HealandThrivelBeyondNarcAbuse3 жыл бұрын

    I'm not a Muslim but this guy is full of wisdom

  • @MOHDISLAM-ox9rc

    @MOHDISLAM-ox9rc

    Жыл бұрын

    We should learn more about the Islam

  • @halamalchannel7959
    @halamalchannel79593 жыл бұрын

    Bahr bin Marrar narrated that his grandfather Abu Bakrah said: "The Messenger of Allah passed by two graves, and he said: 'They are being punished but they are not being punished for anything major. One of them is being punished because of urine, and the other is being punished because of backbiting.'"

  • @saadusman4403

    @saadusman4403

    3 жыл бұрын

    scaaaaaary. MayAllah forgive us man. Ameen. letssss stooooppp

  • @abdever2140
    @abdever21403 жыл бұрын

    May Allah keep us away from gossiping, backbiting and slander. Ameen

  • @naimamohsin8354

    @naimamohsin8354

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @Quasimoto.

    @Quasimoto.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @maponnjiemoun9956
    @maponnjiemoun99563 жыл бұрын

    Definitely 15 minutes rule will start applying it...my Allah SWT protect our mouth all that

  • @agoreric1598
    @agoreric15983 жыл бұрын

    Please can you teach about how to handle those who gossip and slander around you. and how to control your emotions . thanks

  • @nizcomorian1650
    @nizcomorian16503 жыл бұрын

    It is duty of our friends to clear our name on our behalf in our absence

  • @rm3105
    @rm31053 жыл бұрын

    YAH ALLAH control our tongues from slandering backbiting all that is harm that we regret later AMEEN

  • @abeerkhan3090
    @abeerkhan30903 жыл бұрын

    It's 2 a.m in India ..But when I see mufti menk ..I click😄

  • @warsamemohamed7244

    @warsamemohamed7244

    3 жыл бұрын

    Abeer Khan How u handling India brother don’t let the pro modi goons get to u

  • @warsamemohamed7244

    @warsamemohamed7244

    3 жыл бұрын

    Muhammad Sopi Khan Oh yeah 😂😂😂😂😂 no wonder why they’re angry they know Islam is on the rise

  • @Moonylovegood
    @Moonylovegood2 жыл бұрын

    I have a friend group of four (including me) and we are very close, but one of my "friends" always backbites and gossips about me to my other friends and this video is rlly informative, may Allah give you all a place in jannah

  • @S-xs4yb

    @S-xs4yb

    8 ай бұрын

    i am in your exact situation and wallahi it’s so difficult. I want to leave them but then I don’t know who I will be friends with if I am not friends with them. May Allah make it easy for us

  • @tani.q

    @tani.q

    2 ай бұрын

    I was the same and I left the friend group. They are still bothering me and backbiting.

  • @itsuraiya
    @itsuraiya3 жыл бұрын

    Al-Hujurat 49:12 "O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful." May Allah protect us from this.

  • @yaseenjaan2396

    @yaseenjaan2396

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @aishabeentyussuf5340

    @aishabeentyussuf5340

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mynameisa2823
    @mynameisa28233 жыл бұрын

    Inshallah I will try not to stay with my friend'house more than 15 minute Thanks mufti menk It will really help me from backbiting

  • @Maysoon3121
    @Maysoon31213 жыл бұрын

    May Allah SWT protect us from being a mounafiq ameen I used to get into arguments now I m walking away.

  • @saadusman4403

    @saadusman4403

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen. munafiq nooooo that word sounds so ugh just no. May Allah reward u for ur efforts

  • @khaledhd2055
    @khaledhd20553 жыл бұрын

    I dont know why people are hitting dislike before watching the video 🙄

  • @sabs4491

    @sabs4491

    3 жыл бұрын

    Those are nothing but back bitting people themselves.

  • @vongammylouisetg4007
    @vongammylouisetg4007 Жыл бұрын

    I truly appreciate Mufti because eventhough I'm a catholic I get to learn and understand Islam and made me a better person. Thank you so much

  • @samiyousuf9456
    @samiyousuf94563 жыл бұрын

    I always talk about the people who are troubling me with others and don't know how to get rid of this,tried have patience but some time it's working and some time not

  • @imthiyaz87
    @imthiyaz873 жыл бұрын

    This very very common thing among the people I am trying to stop inshallah

  • @jamilahkagoya4081
    @jamilahkagoya40813 жыл бұрын

    May Allah protect us yarabi

  • @minarokadia3605
    @minarokadia36053 жыл бұрын

    Mufti it is 2 am in India very ockward it is a little difficult but still can't miss your lecture

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller34912 жыл бұрын

    Evil is stored up in the heart and speak to destroy. Be careful of these wicked spirits.

  • @obasogieokundia2815
    @obasogieokundia28153 жыл бұрын

    Ya Allah guide us to the right path of life Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋

  • @ElifNurMuhammad
    @ElifNurMuhammad3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah guide us all and keep us all steadfast on his deen.

  • @siyamff8681
    @siyamff8681 Жыл бұрын

    Islam is a Beautiful

  • @fatmaosman8439
    @fatmaosman84393 жыл бұрын

    Mash Allah may Allah forgive us all

  • @aaronwarner1949
    @aaronwarner19493 жыл бұрын

    May allah grant jannah to whom ever watches this video ameen

  • @norules7805
    @norules78053 жыл бұрын

    This is really keeping me from making dawa, as I am very afraid of getting judge

  • @Aspen_1256
    @Aspen_125610 ай бұрын

    My own family is gossiping about their extended family and their children including me ( pure backbiting )This really helped

  • @abu9teen96
    @abu9teen96 Жыл бұрын

    When I was in college I just found out my friend gossip bad things behind my back and laughed. Not sure what happened we were good to each other and then she hated me for no reason.

  • @faryalkhan6918
    @faryalkhan69183 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah I live in a working hostel,and there all the time we keep talking all that is prohibited, I will try my best from now on to save myself from this sin. May Allah help us all in saving from these sins which look trifle but actually are taking us away from jannah💔

  • @marigold6542
    @marigold65423 жыл бұрын

    May allah protect us all Ameen

  • @aminexx0146
    @aminexx01463 жыл бұрын

    Can you do a video about how to get away from back biting especially when I am with my parents it's very hard to say to them this is back biting(namima) and walk away

  • @eppsislike

    @eppsislike

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just walk away bruv.

  • @ousmansonko7776
    @ousmansonko77763 жыл бұрын

    Ma shaa Allah.. jazakal’allahu khairan

  • @sulaymanmuftibarrow8650
    @sulaymanmuftibarrow86503 жыл бұрын

    The absolute truth!

  • @norazhair
    @norazhair3 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllahu khairan

  • @hidayatrehimi9177
    @hidayatrehimi91773 жыл бұрын

    Mufti Salam alykom and every1

  • @iskandertime747
    @iskandertime7472 жыл бұрын

    Much wisdom here.

  • @nuranichoudhury9226
    @nuranichoudhury92263 жыл бұрын

    Thank u for clarifying this alhumdulilla ❤❤❤

  • @salmamohammed3267
    @salmamohammed32673 жыл бұрын

    Allahu Akbar, nice topic. May Allah prevent from this acts and may He forgives us,May He guide us to the right path. Ameen

  • @saiwoonyinn
    @saiwoonyinn12 күн бұрын

    ‏جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @jo-mi.action
    @jo-mi.action4 күн бұрын

    Great vids

  • @darual-salixinlinashrial-d1697
    @darual-salixinlinashrial-d16973 жыл бұрын

    Maanshaallah sheikh thanks

  • @henahamid4159
    @henahamid41593 жыл бұрын

    Always love your bayaan Mashallah, Alhamdulillah

  • @madzharhashim4774
    @madzharhashim47743 жыл бұрын

    Thank u mufti menk now everything make it clear to me.

  • @hanaharis6161
    @hanaharis61613 жыл бұрын

    Masha allah it was really helpful

  • @juanvillamdg4576
    @juanvillamdg4576 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the advice

  • @marjanakonica3542
    @marjanakonica35423 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Mufti.... I wish people around me understand this. 😌

  • @joannparker1977
    @joannparker1977 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I’m so glad I came upon your channel! You provided a lot of insight to my situation. People can be so mean, so awful and spiteful. For zero apparent reason. Life is short; let us all go about our way in life and do the very best we can and be kind and decent to one another.

  • @britneychester6176
    @britneychester6176 Жыл бұрын

    Praise to MuftiMenk ❤❤

  • @mohammedyasinmn
    @mohammedyasinmn3 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah... How Simple is our Deen💗

  • @sahramuxumed2772
    @sahramuxumed27723 жыл бұрын

    Ustadh mufti menk may Allah increase your knowledge and keep you happy

  • @sabihaaltaf6742
    @sabihaaltaf67422 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad he has explained it well. This rumour Has confused ppl, now they can see it in its true light.

  • @hulksuperman3326
    @hulksuperman33262 жыл бұрын

    My ALLAH Protected us all from evil. Amen.

  • @lnewlf6453
    @lnewlf64533 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @SlaveOfAllahHD
    @SlaveOfAllahHD3 жыл бұрын

    Jazak'Allah Khair For The Continuous And Beautiful Reminders ❤️🙏🏻

  • @drx983
    @drx9833 жыл бұрын

    You r a true man..

  • @sumayakinawa1375
    @sumayakinawa13753 жыл бұрын

    Barakallah fiqm wajazaaka Allah hairah, May Allah protect us all from such deeds

  • @farzhameed8621
    @farzhameed86213 жыл бұрын

    Superb Masha Allah👍

  • @yofamdonknow8464
    @yofamdonknow84643 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou this information is so relevant because this happens alot backbiting

  • @rajalakshmiravinuthala2887
    @rajalakshmiravinuthala28873 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah amazing lecture thank you so much brother for your guidance thank you so much brother

  • @samariqbal76760
    @samariqbal767603 жыл бұрын

    Very good information

  • @landingkujabi7500
    @landingkujabi75003 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah a must topic To be discussed

  • @shawnsmith1865
    @shawnsmith1865 Жыл бұрын

    This was recorded a year ago, but I need it today for a trialni am placed in. Allah has perfect timing.

  • @AishaRosalie
    @AishaRosalie3 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)

  • @ladyinred512
    @ladyinred5123 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah...Allah Bless you♥️

  • @asadnation5097
    @asadnation50973 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah may almighty Allah guide and protect us🙏🙏🙏

  • @mishruna74
    @mishruna743 жыл бұрын

    Subhaanallah you have answered a very important question for me. Jazaakallah May Allah protect us and guide us. Ameen

  • @schoudhury7311
    @schoudhury73113 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you abundantly Mufti Inshallah

  • @mariumrajah
    @mariumrajah3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you We love you mufti Love from uk

  • @alhamdulilah5721
    @alhamdulilah57213 жыл бұрын

    MashaaAllah...you are a blessing

  • @hitlerio26
    @hitlerio263 жыл бұрын

    Mashalla mufti big respect for you me and my friends learn a lot from you inshallah Allah help you allways respect for you man from Albania Kosovo

  • @nakayuza.remmie8924
    @nakayuza.remmie89243 жыл бұрын

    Asalam aleikum warahamatullahi wabarakatuh_thank you so much

  • @ladyj5156
    @ladyj51563 жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant us understanding

  • @najmussehernaju8913
    @najmussehernaju89133 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah khair mufti menk for guiding us... May allah accept your hardwork n bless u wid his mercy.... Aameen

  • @trishananyonjo7890
    @trishananyonjo78903 жыл бұрын

    Jazzakallahu khaira

  • @faithimportance3667
    @faithimportance36673 жыл бұрын

    Oh it definitely helped mufti Menk! Jazakallah khairan. This is exactly what I have been explaining to my friends. You clarified it towards the end of your lecture. Awesome subhanallah. Alhumdullilah rabil ala meen

  • @nelsonnyaga1979
    @nelsonnyaga19793 жыл бұрын

    May Allah blesss us all...whoever has that habits

  • @melodiebln5216
    @melodiebln52163 жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you paradise brother.. I am so thankful to God having sent you to us!

  • @sukaipenn8810
    @sukaipenn88103 жыл бұрын

    Peace and Blessings🤲🏻🤲🏻

  • @motivai1539
    @motivai15393 жыл бұрын

    Maa shaa Allah...really beautiful speech...Jazak Allahu khairan hazrat

  • @ronistar2430
    @ronistar24303 жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum mufti menk this story of 16 minutes is something ai Lear today thank you

  • @jeasondaniel9334
    @jeasondaniel93343 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah so beautiful lecture. Thank you so much. May Allah bless you.

  • @fatehabegum5463
    @fatehabegum54633 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah love the idea about 15 mintues.

  • @ummasabiha7526
    @ummasabiha75263 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum.I like your logical speech.Subhan Allah.

  • @SaddamHossain-et3re
    @SaddamHossain-et3re3 жыл бұрын

    Heartiest love and respect to you sir from India

  • @muhtasimmonjur
    @muhtasimmonjur Жыл бұрын

    what an eye-opener!

  • @Sham-tq7nl
    @Sham-tq7nl3 жыл бұрын

    Mufti Menk, how should one deal with someone who has falsely taken an oath of the kalima to prove they are right? And due to that false oath has caused a rift between families? Apart from believing in the justice of Allah swt, what else can one do? How can one achieve justice in this life and the next? How long should one do sabr for? With each passing year, the rift caused by the person/s who falsely took an oath, the rift gets bigger and bigger between the families, all for that one lie?

  • @gunduzubairzubairahmed3127
    @gunduzubairzubairahmed31273 жыл бұрын

    Thanks❤🌹 Assalamualaikum❤🌹 mufti Sahib

  • @ahmadsadiyah2048
    @ahmadsadiyah20483 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah ☝️🙏

  • @peacec47
    @peacec47 Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdolayla Allah hears and sees everything 🙏 ☝☝☝☝☝☝most high most protector and provider