How to deal with Gossip, Backbiting & Slander - Mufti Menk
Gossiping can easily lead to backbiting and slander. How can we stop it?
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I am 13 years old and watch mufti menk everyday he has helped me so much on life, I would get bullied because of my weight and shouted at and I get rude comments by my parents when I get bad grades I would be very disrespectful and bad but mufti Menk is helping me to try and stop. I remember seeing him at a mosque where he signed his book for me and we shared our salams. It was right after school I go to an islam school where I am trying to gain knowledge on Quran and all other types of knowledge of the deen. Pls make dua for me so I can pass every exam and gain more and more knowledge as I go and that I be respectful to everyone and treat my parents with love and respect . I aspire to be like the prophet and all khalifas and mufti menk is helping me get there without even knowing.
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3 жыл бұрын
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@script7049
3 жыл бұрын
same here brother
@codemadefun8461
3 жыл бұрын
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@___a.x__
3 жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT help u ease ur troubles❤️Mashallah that's wonderful news to know u have learnt from Mufti👑 may Allah SWT protect all of us---Ameen 💞
@mr.t.1237
3 жыл бұрын
Mashallah I'm 15 and you're what I aspire to be
Sometimes..Mufti not only teaches me how to get through things or more about Islam..He sometimes teaches me English. 😂😅
@Naludaking819
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@naush2964
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 😂😂
@kinzaali4762
3 жыл бұрын
Ri8 I'm also very bad in English
@afrojaakhi1503
3 жыл бұрын
And I think it's the best way to improve our listening skill.
@qaswidangitu5302
3 жыл бұрын
Even me 😂😂
We’ve run out of things to talk about so nowadays people form friendships and bond over backbiting and gossiping. This is why I don’t hang out with a lot of people anymore, 90% of people’s conversations is gossip. Better off being a loner than indulging in sin. My body and soul rejects this kind of negative behaviour towards each other. Backbiting and gossip literally hurts your mind and soul
@sm3675
3 жыл бұрын
Its very sad. But still, having fun and talking to people is never a sin, you do what is best for you
@randomperson1714
3 жыл бұрын
@@sm3675 having fun and talking to people isn’t a sin,but if it’s having fun is done by sinning then it is a sin.
@newcityenzo
3 жыл бұрын
I feel u brother InshaAllah for us to be around a better environment
@hellothere-jz4ny
Жыл бұрын
@@samidica 😱😱😱
@say-subhanAllah-alhamdhulillah
Жыл бұрын
in sha Allah, i know this was two years ago but i pray you have found good friends ❤️
That's why I prepared to be alone than to have companion. I hate backfighting and gossiping others..
@Maysoon3121
3 жыл бұрын
This has nothing to do with being with someone , we need to learn how to keep our mouth closed.
@saniyaansari2728
3 жыл бұрын
@@Maysoon3121 we will In Sha Allah won't do it but what about listening
@happyhuman111
3 жыл бұрын
yep same to me. I used to hangout with my friends before but they always talk badly about people and I dont wanna hear it so I barely join their company and now they started gossiping me and talk badly about me 🤷. I couldnt accept it before and I end up dont want to be friends with them anymore but now I have learned from it. Thats how Allah saves you from people that isnt good for you. Alhamdulillah
@rayyan-razaasjada5358
3 жыл бұрын
@@happyhuman111 I feel you so much.😭
@diyanahabdullah6535
3 жыл бұрын
@@happyhuman111 indeed
Backbiting: Talking truth behind someone unless its a praise Slander: speaking lie about someone behind them
@saadusman4403
3 жыл бұрын
May Allah forgive us .Ameen
Replace gossip with prayer Replace your most of the bad habits with prayer ameen inshallah
May Allah safeguard us all.
@shook9702
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams
3 жыл бұрын
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@nadiyahokello9899
3 жыл бұрын
Aameen
@r.mahmood4494
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@arifalmalaibari4021
3 жыл бұрын
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I just pray to Allah that anyone who spies on me or slanders me or oppresses me in any way have my sins taken upon their shoulders and their good deeds and blessings come to me Ameen
@comedowntopapa1184
2 жыл бұрын
Let them they will have fun now and even be prepared to be killed. Don't worry smile when alone, cry alone, remind yourself that even at death you might be alone and no one might care. But I guarantee you the angels will be at your funeral when no one is there.
Your preeching lead's me to convert in lslam
@ahmedrashid5774
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to Islam brother🤝
@husinambintmuusakivumbi3613
3 жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you beneficial knowledge of Deeni Ameen thumma Ameen Ya Rabb 💞
@maryamkhaleed4051
3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to islam
I am a white Italian-American Catholic man and I am absolutely enjoying and learning from these videos. Thank you brothers and sisters .
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Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you. Wisdom can come in many forms. Truth from any direction
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
He is not underrated
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2 жыл бұрын
@seikclav mckiez he's not underrated know what are you writing
It's really difficult to forgive the people that have tried and succeeded to tarnish my name behind my back. I still hope Allah swt lets me see justice in this situation. I want everyone who bandwagoned against me, along with the instigator; a jealous female 'friend' who exposed all my insecurities and secrets when I was already very weak and depressed, to get theirs. I want all of their friendships based on hating another person to turn against each other the way they did to me. If my niece didnt step in and showed me the way to Islam I wouldnt even have been here today. I'm glad I got through it, but I am still hurt and traumatized.
I'm not a Muslim but this guy is full of wisdom
@MOHDISLAM-ox9rc
Жыл бұрын
We should learn more about the Islam
Bahr bin Marrar narrated that his grandfather Abu Bakrah said: "The Messenger of Allah passed by two graves, and he said: 'They are being punished but they are not being punished for anything major. One of them is being punished because of urine, and the other is being punished because of backbiting.'"
@saadusman4403
3 жыл бұрын
scaaaaaary. MayAllah forgive us man. Ameen. letssss stooooppp
May Allah keep us away from gossiping, backbiting and slander. Ameen
@naimamohsin8354
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@Quasimoto.
2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
Definitely 15 minutes rule will start applying it...my Allah SWT protect our mouth all that
Please can you teach about how to handle those who gossip and slander around you. and how to control your emotions . thanks
It is duty of our friends to clear our name on our behalf in our absence
YAH ALLAH control our tongues from slandering backbiting all that is harm that we regret later AMEEN
It's 2 a.m in India ..But when I see mufti menk ..I click😄
@warsamemohamed7244
3 жыл бұрын
Abeer Khan How u handling India brother don’t let the pro modi goons get to u
@warsamemohamed7244
3 жыл бұрын
Muhammad Sopi Khan Oh yeah 😂😂😂😂😂 no wonder why they’re angry they know Islam is on the rise
I have a friend group of four (including me) and we are very close, but one of my "friends" always backbites and gossips about me to my other friends and this video is rlly informative, may Allah give you all a place in jannah
@S-xs4yb
8 ай бұрын
i am in your exact situation and wallahi it’s so difficult. I want to leave them but then I don’t know who I will be friends with if I am not friends with them. May Allah make it easy for us
@tani.q
2 ай бұрын
I was the same and I left the friend group. They are still bothering me and backbiting.
Al-Hujurat 49:12 "O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful." May Allah protect us from this.
@yaseenjaan2396
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@aishabeentyussuf5340
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen
Inshallah I will try not to stay with my friend'house more than 15 minute Thanks mufti menk It will really help me from backbiting
May Allah SWT protect us from being a mounafiq ameen I used to get into arguments now I m walking away.
@saadusman4403
3 жыл бұрын
Ameen. munafiq nooooo that word sounds so ugh just no. May Allah reward u for ur efforts
I dont know why people are hitting dislike before watching the video 🙄
@sabs4491
3 жыл бұрын
Those are nothing but back bitting people themselves.
I truly appreciate Mufti because eventhough I'm a catholic I get to learn and understand Islam and made me a better person. Thank you so much
I always talk about the people who are troubling me with others and don't know how to get rid of this,tried have patience but some time it's working and some time not
This very very common thing among the people I am trying to stop inshallah
May Allah protect us yarabi
Mufti it is 2 am in India very ockward it is a little difficult but still can't miss your lecture
Evil is stored up in the heart and speak to destroy. Be careful of these wicked spirits.
Ya Allah guide us to the right path of life Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋
May Allah guide us all and keep us all steadfast on his deen.
Islam is a Beautiful
Mash Allah may Allah forgive us all
May allah grant jannah to whom ever watches this video ameen
This is really keeping me from making dawa, as I am very afraid of getting judge
My own family is gossiping about their extended family and their children including me ( pure backbiting )This really helped
When I was in college I just found out my friend gossip bad things behind my back and laughed. Not sure what happened we were good to each other and then she hated me for no reason.
JazakAllah I live in a working hostel,and there all the time we keep talking all that is prohibited, I will try my best from now on to save myself from this sin. May Allah help us all in saving from these sins which look trifle but actually are taking us away from jannah💔
May allah protect us all Ameen
Can you do a video about how to get away from back biting especially when I am with my parents it's very hard to say to them this is back biting(namima) and walk away
@eppsislike
2 жыл бұрын
Just walk away bruv.
Ma shaa Allah.. jazakal’allahu khairan
The absolute truth!
JazakAllahu khairan
Mufti Salam alykom and every1
Much wisdom here.
Thank u for clarifying this alhumdulilla ❤❤❤
Allahu Akbar, nice topic. May Allah prevent from this acts and may He forgives us,May He guide us to the right path. Ameen
جزاكم الله خيرا
Great vids
Maanshaallah sheikh thanks
Always love your bayaan Mashallah, Alhamdulillah
Thank u mufti menk now everything make it clear to me.
Masha allah it was really helpful
Thank you for the advice
Thanks, Mufti.... I wish people around me understand this. 😌
Thank you. I’m so glad I came upon your channel! You provided a lot of insight to my situation. People can be so mean, so awful and spiteful. For zero apparent reason. Life is short; let us all go about our way in life and do the very best we can and be kind and decent to one another.
Praise to MuftiMenk ❤❤
Masha Allah... How Simple is our Deen💗
Ustadh mufti menk may Allah increase your knowledge and keep you happy
I’m so glad he has explained it well. This rumour Has confused ppl, now they can see it in its true light.
My ALLAH Protected us all from evil. Amen.
Thank you sir
Jazak'Allah Khair For The Continuous And Beautiful Reminders ❤️🙏🏻
You r a true man..
Barakallah fiqm wajazaaka Allah hairah, May Allah protect us all from such deeds
Superb Masha Allah👍
Thankyou this information is so relevant because this happens alot backbiting
Mashallah amazing lecture thank you so much brother for your guidance thank you so much brother
Very good information
Mashallah a must topic To be discussed
This was recorded a year ago, but I need it today for a trialni am placed in. Allah has perfect timing.
Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)
MashaAllah...Allah Bless you♥️
Masha Allah may almighty Allah guide and protect us🙏🙏🙏
Subhaanallah you have answered a very important question for me. Jazaakallah May Allah protect us and guide us. Ameen
May Allah bless you abundantly Mufti Inshallah
Thank you We love you mufti Love from uk
MashaaAllah...you are a blessing
Mashalla mufti big respect for you me and my friends learn a lot from you inshallah Allah help you allways respect for you man from Albania Kosovo
Asalam aleikum warahamatullahi wabarakatuh_thank you so much
May Allah grant us understanding
Jazakallah khair mufti menk for guiding us... May allah accept your hardwork n bless u wid his mercy.... Aameen
Jazzakallahu khaira
Oh it definitely helped mufti Menk! Jazakallah khairan. This is exactly what I have been explaining to my friends. You clarified it towards the end of your lecture. Awesome subhanallah. Alhumdullilah rabil ala meen
May Allah blesss us all...whoever has that habits
May Allah grant you paradise brother.. I am so thankful to God having sent you to us!
Peace and Blessings🤲🏻🤲🏻
Maa shaa Allah...really beautiful speech...Jazak Allahu khairan hazrat
Assalamualaikum mufti menk this story of 16 minutes is something ai Lear today thank you
MashaAllah so beautiful lecture. Thank you so much. May Allah bless you.
MashaAllah love the idea about 15 mintues.
Assalamu alaikum.I like your logical speech.Subhan Allah.
Heartiest love and respect to you sir from India
what an eye-opener!
Mufti Menk, how should one deal with someone who has falsely taken an oath of the kalima to prove they are right? And due to that false oath has caused a rift between families? Apart from believing in the justice of Allah swt, what else can one do? How can one achieve justice in this life and the next? How long should one do sabr for? With each passing year, the rift caused by the person/s who falsely took an oath, the rift gets bigger and bigger between the families, all for that one lie?
Thanks❤🌹 Assalamualaikum❤🌹 mufti Sahib
Masha Allah ☝️🙏
Alhamdolayla Allah hears and sees everything 🙏 ☝☝☝☝☝☝most high most protector and provider