Caught your spouse cheating? What to do? - Mufti Menk

Brilliant advice to those facing this issue.
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  • @zacc8766
    @zacc8766 Жыл бұрын

    It still baffles me how people can cheat and then go home to look their partner in the eyes and tell them they love them. That's next level evil

  • @nairobi1519

    @nairobi1519

    Жыл бұрын

    it is hypocrisy

  • @tesss1696

    @tesss1696

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah that’s better than watching some men cheat and still come home and treat their wives like shit, never telling them they love them and caring for them

  • @zacc8766

    @zacc8766

    Жыл бұрын

    @tesss1696 honestly from what I've seen, women can be just as bad

  • @imraanismail2074

    @imraanismail2074

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sitting in the exact situation mufti is talking about its hard to forgive and forget but who am I in front of the almighty to not forgive

  • @tesss1696

    @tesss1696

    Жыл бұрын

    @@imraanismail2074 forgiving is not the problem, it’s that they’re going to do it again regardless

  • @abdulhakimabdulwahhab5360
    @abdulhakimabdulwahhab53603 жыл бұрын

    Mufti menk has a reaaaaaaally hard job 😂 talking about all these topics that most sheiks would avoid. May Allah make it easy for him ameen

  • @monicamonamodir5949

    @monicamonamodir5949

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amin ya Rab Cheating is too hard to melt for most people ... Really, may Allah swt guide Mr Ismael Mufti Menk to make hurt spouses to understand and to deal with their cheating spouses, cause THIS is the most devastating challenge spouses can deal with in their lifes... Wallah al azim! So hard! But Allah swt has the power to heal, guide and benefit us all back to right track again! Allah swt is the most forgiving and merciful and loving... So may we learn to let Allah swt humble our hearts to forgive anything that we will challenge in this short life! Allahu akbar Allah love us all more or less... no matter what! May Allah swt help us and guide us all! Amin! Jazaak Allah khairan!! Barak Allah fekum! Salemitkum sisters and brothers! Amin thumma amin

  • @sarahbouraima3892

    @sarahbouraima3892

    3 жыл бұрын

    ALLAHOUMA AMEEEN YAH RAHBI ALLAHMIN

  • @avoydtm5739

    @avoydtm5739

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @queenbiiiy

    @queenbiiiy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen.true talk

  • @mohamedabdulsesay474

    @mohamedabdulsesay474

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @awaismir2398
    @awaismir2398 Жыл бұрын

    If your spouse is really close to Allah, they will not cheat. May Allah protect us from this.

  • @sirzembla4512

    @sirzembla4512

    Жыл бұрын

    The closer you are the bigger the temptation is ....She must be happy an satisfied , sexually satisfied too of course .....

  • @abdullahamir351

    @abdullahamir351

    Жыл бұрын

    That's not true

  • @di7867

    @di7867

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @marii6551

    @marii6551

    Жыл бұрын

    @@abdullahamir351 it is.

  • @abdullahamir351

    @abdullahamir351

    Жыл бұрын

    @@marii6551 no it is not. For me my father is a living example of that. And then they give reference that islam allows 4 marriages.

  • @aameeish
    @aameeish2 ай бұрын

    I feel sorry for everyone watching this video after being cheated 😢may Allah Almighty heal you ❤

  • @bulkufamily2181
    @bulkufamily21813 жыл бұрын

    Respect for those who never cheated with their wife

  • @laylajackson99

    @laylajackson99

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s the bare minimum

  • @MuftiIsmailSatia

    @MuftiIsmailSatia

    3 жыл бұрын

    Women also cheat

  • @humzanafees9348

    @humzanafees9348

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ummmm women also cheat

  • @MustStopSecratnikahMarriages

    @MustStopSecratnikahMarriages

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love men who don't cheat on wife!

  • @Chandtaraschapter

    @Chandtaraschapter

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah so rare☹

  • @hussaingulaa8913
    @hussaingulaa89133 жыл бұрын

    Being a husband I never interested in other women because I really love my wife though it was arrange marriage i have a daughter, I will become the best and responsible husband for her may Allah SWT guide us ameen

  • @nasimakhtar7938

    @nasimakhtar7938

    3 жыл бұрын

    Allah bless you and wife

  • @wejakena6389

    @wejakena6389

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @daarrivals

    @daarrivals

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s allah’s mercy on you and your family. Nothing is in our hand

  • @JesusSaves77799

    @JesusSaves77799

    3 жыл бұрын

    God Bless You! You sound like a wonderful person!! 🙏

  • @hussaingulaa8913

    @hussaingulaa8913

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JesusSaves77799 thanks to all of you

  • @ramyabyatham6277
    @ramyabyatham6277 Жыл бұрын

    I got cheated by my husband after 13 years of relationship.. and also I accepted islam after marriage but the result he cheated on me .. I am feeling anxious everyday my emotions I'm not able to control but After watching this video I feel little bit good.. But trust me after I got cheated I am getting closer to allah day by day In the end it's just allah and its you♥️

  • @mosdiy8096

    @mosdiy8096

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you take him back?

  • @ramyabyatham6277

    @ramyabyatham6277

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mosdiy8096 I'm still fighting to get him back inshaallah I know he will come back to me he will realise one day Inshaallah

  • @virgilscruggs8743

    @virgilscruggs8743

    Жыл бұрын

    Alhamduillah

  • @nafizhoque9315

    @nafizhoque9315

    Жыл бұрын

    Hang on there sister. May Allah give you the strength to persevere through these tough times.

  • @virgilscruggs8743

    @virgilscruggs8743

    Жыл бұрын

    Everything happens for a ask Allah for whatever you want and need and as long as you are most faithful to Him it will be granted mashallah

  • @jamarkusnoname3324
    @jamarkusnoname3324 Жыл бұрын

    I'm not even Muslim but I love listening to mufti👍👍👍

  • @DubaiLifestyleVlog

    @DubaiLifestyleVlog

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @drseven1275

    @drseven1275

    Жыл бұрын

    You should become Muslim. Life will start make sense❤

  • @XxTakexXxCarexX

    @XxTakexXxCarexX

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re not Muslim …yet! Lol

  • @Fatou3830

    @Fatou3830

    Жыл бұрын

    Brother go to listen the Quran in audio arabic and read it in English

  • @cxg101

    @cxg101

    Жыл бұрын

    We are all born Muslim

  • @aliden7692
    @aliden76923 жыл бұрын

    I just realized i don't pray i'm so far from islam, i'm trying to go back to islam May allah forgive me and all muslims

  • @doulayebangoura8318

    @doulayebangoura8318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @khalidkd8133

    @khalidkd8133

    3 жыл бұрын

    no one is perfect brother i have been there too but made some significant life changes and alhamdulilah i don't miss salah now. May Allah give you jannah.

  • @aliden7692

    @aliden7692

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@khalidkd8133 ameen

  • @belqeesshuaib6560

    @belqeesshuaib6560

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen yaa Arhama Rahimeen 🤲, may Allah guide us onto the straight path Aameen 🤲

  • @samiahmed7658

    @samiahmed7658

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t tell your sins to the public. Advice not a judgment.

  • @gamescan34
    @gamescan343 жыл бұрын

    For those who are suffering in silence know this : Allah's help is near

  • @dontseemypicture8620

    @dontseemypicture8620

    3 жыл бұрын

    *The Man Who Loved You 1400 Years Ago | Heart Touching Reminder 💔* Youtu.be/9MJxjXWPehw 👆👆👆

  • @strongsoul6106

    @strongsoul6106

    3 жыл бұрын

    This put a smile on my face. Jazaakallah kher

  • @gamescan34

    @gamescan34

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@strongsoul6106 Don't loose faith in the mercy of Allah brother. Verily, after hardship comes ease

  • @maryams8062

    @maryams8062

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😥

  • @gamescan34

    @gamescan34

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maryams8062 dear brother Do not despair wallahi Allah's mercy is far greater than anybody's sin

  • @TheCrimsonOne508
    @TheCrimsonOne508 Жыл бұрын

    I may be Christian but I recognize a man of God when I see one. This is the wisest, most level-headed advice on this difficult situation I have ever seen

  • @user-vk4pf9di2j

    @user-vk4pf9di2j

    6 ай бұрын

    This man is a traitor.

  • @Muwahid999

    @Muwahid999

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@user-vk4pf9di2jtraitor to what?

  • @Muwahid999

    @Muwahid999

    4 ай бұрын

    Buddy , i would suggest you look at content pf Muhammad Ali ' Muslim Lantern ' , he's one of nice guys there

  • @NoName-oh5ll

    @NoName-oh5ll

    3 ай бұрын

    @@user-vk4pf9di2jbrother what

  • @wengbc4923
    @wengbc4923 Жыл бұрын

    Im a Christian but I really appreciate your words! MashaAllah! Alhamdullilah!

  • @zain4915

    @zain4915

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless you with his love!

  • @mandarina5199

    @mandarina5199

    Жыл бұрын

    who asked?

  • @gala7186

    @gala7186

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mandarina5199 are you 12 years old?

  • @zeustherott

    @zeustherott

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mandarina5199 do you have any hobby‘s ?

  • @MuhammadHussain-ry9vh

    @MuhammadHussain-ry9vh

    Жыл бұрын

    become muslim

  • @ambrinaanjum5466
    @ambrinaanjum54663 жыл бұрын

    This is the most bitter pain to experience. May Allah Almighty bless us with a spouse who never cheats on us amen ♥️

  • @hadizaabdul4902

    @hadizaabdul4902

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amin Ya Rabbi

  • @mycatatejiminsjams5358

    @mycatatejiminsjams5358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't say amen, instead say ameen

  • @aneesaamin9975

    @aneesaamin9975

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ik😢😢😢😢😢

  • @princeali1786

    @princeali1786

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aneesaamin9975 Yes, I also was on that boat.

  • @tinaali3686

    @tinaali3686

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen…

  • @imidazoli
    @imidazoli3 жыл бұрын

    Cheating is not a mistake, its a choice and some cheaters keep making the same choices.

  • @TheBeastMan-nt4mv

    @TheBeastMan-nt4mv

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true, and today's technology makes it even easier for people who cheat.

  • @veganinthecity3749

    @veganinthecity3749

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes your right! Oops I fell on top of her!

  • @ahiracollazoflores1

    @ahiracollazoflores1

    3 жыл бұрын

    You right

  • @basiisab3169

    @basiisab3169

    3 жыл бұрын

    👏

  • @windasafriend

    @windasafriend

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good people do make mistakes. It happens. Nobody is perfect.

  • @reyyanaslh2488
    @reyyanaslh2488 Жыл бұрын

    This is a really tough topic Mufti Menk. Trust is important in a relationship and once broken, it’s very difficult to go back to normal.

  • @KILL3RAKH4N

    @KILL3RAKH4N

    Жыл бұрын

    100%, there is no back to normal after cheating, even in the small term, that's why never rush Into marriage, and live with your potential partner prior to being married, I know this is hard for many muslims, but you will only see the benefit later, as marrying somebody without living with them prior will never let you know their character, plus a man cheating is still based on the women who let him, but forgiving is never an option, leave and find better, had I not left the women I had, wall I would never had met the unbelievable women I am with today.

  • @reyyanaslh2488

    @reyyanaslh2488

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KILL3RAKH4N I’m glad that you found happiness and thank you for your kind advices, but as Muslims, there’s things that we don’t do. Not for society but for our Creator. Living in a haram relationship is a great sin and there’s not even any other guarantee that the person you are living with will not hurt you. Our faith gives us the freedom to get a divorce if our partner is unjust towards us. Men and women have the right to get a divorce if they can’t live with each other. I’ll choose this option if such a thing ever happens to me. The advice of the Sheikh is wise, but we are humans and forgiveness is a great virtue and we should forgive! But the Almighty never told us to remain with the person who hurt us.

  • @KINGOFTHEJUNGLE22

    @KINGOFTHEJUNGLE22

    Жыл бұрын

    i agree with reyyan, if she cheated once, the bond will never be the same, You can forgive here, But it will never be the same, you will always have doubt about here, fight with here for no reason , If you really love some one, you would never cheat, Like i love my wife, I see so many girls blinking at me , wanting attention but my love for here is too strong so i just walk away,

  • @fazalmohammad6049

    @fazalmohammad6049

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree my 4 yrs of relation was ended because she said i didn't give her enough attention and love haha i was truly devastated at first and the healing period has been very rough for me and i am still struggling to ever open up to someone honesty and love deserving.

  • @inderjeet8659

    @inderjeet8659

    Жыл бұрын

    It doesn't go back to normal

  • @juliashashimu2798
    @juliashashimu27982 жыл бұрын

    I was converted to Islam back 2014 being Muslim is the best thing I ever done even when my family wasn’t happy for me being Muslim may Allah make it easy on us

  • @fuseinirashida3480

    @fuseinirashida3480

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @pardes1635

    @pardes1635

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @enigma533

    @enigma533

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah give u power of jihad blaster😝

  • @allaboutmeandmylifelucia2308

    @allaboutmeandmylifelucia2308

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im also revert from 2012 and i love mufti menk so much he is very respectable man and knowledgeable mashalllah and handsome to xxx

  • @vanessabeckett5614

    @vanessabeckett5614

    2 жыл бұрын

    Converted in 2018 - was the best decision in my life !

  • @razer0072073
    @razer00720733 жыл бұрын

    I can never cheat on my wife she is enough for me 😊

  • @yooheyy9934

    @yooheyy9934

    3 жыл бұрын

    how old are you brother

  • @xylophone3764

    @xylophone3764

    3 жыл бұрын

    *Alhamdulilah

  • @MS-Hussain

    @MS-Hussain

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's good but never ask personal questions on social media.hope understand

  • @taznimpat4583

    @taznimpat4583

    3 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah

  • @user-dq7mb8gl2r

    @user-dq7mb8gl2r

    3 жыл бұрын

    Allah bless you

  • @asfandmajeed9891
    @asfandmajeed9891 Жыл бұрын

    Respect to the brothers and sisters that have never cheated.....

  • @Jake-he1si
    @Jake-he1si Жыл бұрын

    Mufti has helped me in so many ways, words cannot describe my gratitude. May Allah protect you and and your closest ones, Ameen.

  • @yenes3236

    @yenes3236

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen my brother

  • @joywangarik8224
    @joywangarik82243 жыл бұрын

    Am not a Muslim,I always follow this great man he has great teaching,

  • @nene9261

    @nene9261

    2 жыл бұрын

    His teaching is the teaching of islam so...

  • @vks4360

    @vks4360

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@nene9261 are you guys supposed to stone the adulterer?

  • @elb.elhadi850

    @elb.elhadi850

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vks4360 hello hope ur having a nice day for ur question yes but that not the full story if she is married and caught by (4 WITNESSES) who saw the act (INTERCORSE PENETRATION) and then they have to go to the caurt and are intorigated by a judge and they have to tell the judge the sence and if even one of them had a contradiction the 4 people are lashed instead. So it like less than 0.000000000001 chance of happening bec 1 what is the chance of 4 people wetnising the intercourse, 2 people are afraid that they mess up and get lashed instead. Hope this and ur question

  • @a.Bader97

    @a.Bader97

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vks4360 No, there are many conditions and layers to it. conditions so thorough it would be virtually impossible to be fulfilled unless the individual goes out of their way to admit they were an adulterer/adulteress and exposed themselves rather than seeking forgiveness from God privately.

  • @overcatter7647

    @overcatter7647

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@a.Bader97 if god will forgive, why do humans have to resort to punishing one another?

  • @shohratiqbal4395
    @shohratiqbal43953 жыл бұрын

    A person who follows deen wouldn’t cheat. Simple

  • @RJ-cg8bx

    @RJ-cg8bx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly !

  • @0famz

    @0famz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Shaitaan can make even the most pious people do things they wouldnt do. That's why we need to read our protection duas.

  • @dazaiosamu7316

    @dazaiosamu7316

    3 жыл бұрын

    A person who's morally enriched and follows basic etiquettes and moral values and respects self dignity .... won't cheat...regardless of his/her religion

  • @BD-hm3fb

    @BD-hm3fb

    3 жыл бұрын

    You don’t even need to follow the Deen to know it’s wrong Anyone with basic common sense should know

  • @dazaiosamu7316

    @dazaiosamu7316

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BD-hm3fb indeed

  • @Sezfluffy
    @Sezfluffy Жыл бұрын

    This man is an incredible human being.. Hes not just a preacher but he's a psychologist too who can combine both to guide you to God and through your emotions

  • @just.nobody

    @just.nobody

    Жыл бұрын

    This man just spouts nonsense.

  • @Krishnahgg

    @Krishnahgg

    Жыл бұрын

    Muslim will do such thing.. look at this mans face... tooo much lst on him... never loved anyone.. only lst... he must have 19 wife too... Jai Sri Ram.

  • @ASIRI11

    @ASIRI11

    Жыл бұрын

    @@just.nobody maby its nonsense for you but its not for me

  • @Tonystark-ri9bz

    @Tonystark-ri9bz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Krishnahgg why you cow worshipper hindus hating ony everything,,,i mean hindu is the worst religion,, i'm convinced by seeing behavior of you people on the internet,, I REPORTED YOU ON HATE SPEECH,, POOR HINDUS ALWAYS HATING

  • @Tonystark-ri9bz

    @Tonystark-ri9bz

    Жыл бұрын

    Yess mam, you're absolutely correct btw,,don't care about the haters,,,haters gonna dislike you no matter how much truth you tell,,,thank you mam for your kind words & being open minded,,,

  • @BLEUBERYZ
    @BLEUBERYZ Жыл бұрын

    No one else can touch upon very delicate issues like this in a very logic and compassionate manner. MasyaAllah what a way of thinking and approach. This is the kind of issues tht happens quite commonly these days. And many would not know how to deal with it. Mufti you are a genius❤

  • @kayc.8283
    @kayc.82833 жыл бұрын

    4:00 the one who can move on easily is usually the brother who cheated. There is always another sister available for men to move on easily and quickly. Women who get cheated on usually have to Consider whether to stay or not even if there are no children in the marriage. They have so many things to consider if they were to leave the marriage that men don't need to, the label of being a divorcee, they're increasing age, family members hounding you to just forgive it. Its sad how women get pressured into staying because they might end up being alone if they dont.

  • @finnyraupach792

    @finnyraupach792

    3 жыл бұрын

    Blueend End I don’t think God is prefering men more or women more it’s just this dunya make us this pain and let us forget that the afterlife is waiting for us & also that God swt is the one who gonna judge us in the end of the day. If someone is cheating okay my dear sister gonna have some terrible tough times and she‘ll going trough missable things but in the end of the day if she don’t commited sins and believe in the almighty there is never ever gonna be someone who stop her to go to akhira. Inshallah to all my sister and brother who going through a cheating from spouses but never forget Allah Inshallah the gonna get the Akhira. Believe me or not but through hardships and hardtimes there is Allah who understanding you and protect you alone and not someone else! Ameen!

  • @kayc.8283

    @kayc.8283

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Blueend End I know what you mean. I feel the same way sometimes. The men even have an option to marry more than one woman but some cheat so they don't have to pay for the other women's expenses. It's easier for them to lie and cheat and then repent to an All forgiving Lord. The men have so much advantage in marriage and just relationships in general. All women want is a decent guy to settle down with and even then the options are limited or you can opt for polygamy which no woman chooses unless she needs the financial support. All men need to do Islamically is to pay the bills but they get 2 rewards for it. once in the dunya for being paid to work then on the scales the highest deeds for them is to provide for their family. Women don't get benefit in the dunya to be mothers or wives. Everything for us is all in the akhirah. The dunya is a prison for the believing man but for a believing woman its a cramped cage. The men always win, we just have to deal with it. Women have all the same obligations, but more restrictions, more obedience, less leniency, less freedom and less rewards at the end of it all. The men even know what they are working towards, while us women dont even know. And if we ask, the scholars say "you get jannah, the pleasure of Allah" but the men get all this also and they were still told their rewards. And lets be real for a second, If Allah didnt reveal their rewards, NO MAN ON THIS EARTH WOULD STRIVE FOR THE NEXT LIFE. They all think about number 1. Its either they dont want to burn in hell or they want to enjoy paradise. Ive never heard or seen one of them do the right thing when it mattered when they had to sacrifice something solely because it was the right thing to do or because Allah would be happy with them.

  • @realandrare1338

    @realandrare1338

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true..and . Men think they're entitled to cheat and keep fifty affairs outside marriage and if someone even touches their wife they give divorce! Such a shame. hypocrites.

  • @realandrare1338

    @realandrare1338

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@FutureFendiFsnista dont justify acts of sin by saying that's how Allah has designed men..... Mufti is a real man who has self control and who doesn't feel Entitled to cheat n sin just coz hes a man... Men just justify their sinning by sayin Allah has made us like that. Astagfirullah.... Allah hasn't made perverted evil despo men. Men themselves are the the culprits!

  • @finnyraupach792

    @finnyraupach792

    3 жыл бұрын

    MJ thank you my dear sister, may Allah give you Jannah for your kind and wisdom words inshallah! ameen! ❤️ that what I wanted to say too. Allah is perfect but don’t changes his words into negative sentences! We have to be careful what we say! I thing men or women who cheating will get his/her punishment in this dunya or the afterlife! Allah knows better! Allahu Akbar! There is nothing that you can hide from the Almighty! I knows alot of women who also cheated too and nowdays there is no different behind the sex of humans... it‘s just the human who makes the difference! 👌🏼

  • @aromaseawater1492
    @aromaseawater14922 жыл бұрын

    Wise words, and great advice. My husband was on dating websites for years without my knowledge, I was under the impression we were happy together, I noticed changes in his behaviour, he became violent. After forgiving him many times for the sake of our son, I was terrified of the physical violence and divorced him. He never prayed and always critiqued Islam, Glad I did the right thing.

  • @hadhkamusa740

    @hadhkamusa740

    2 жыл бұрын

    Insha allaa you will meet a good man. May Allah guide us all to the right path. Aameen

  • @paulinemartel3057

    @paulinemartel3057

    2 жыл бұрын

    I reacently cought my husand on these dating sites he say he was only looking but i feel so hurt i a trying to forget it and trying to move past it i would never do this to him

  • @JannahOrJahannam.....

    @JannahOrJahannam.....

    2 жыл бұрын

    These narcissist cheat

  • @vanessabeckett5614

    @vanessabeckett5614

    2 жыл бұрын

    Violence seems to be the way they take out their own shame on others

  • @shaileshpatel4332

    @shaileshpatel4332

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can understand you should join our group we are all single parents

  • @tahina1473
    @tahina1473 Жыл бұрын

    There’s only one thing when it comes to cheating, divorce. Cheating is a choice. A person was never good in the first place if they cheated, it’s as simple as that, divorce for sure!

  • @privatejr2702

    @privatejr2702

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 I don’t know how you can continue being married to someone especially if by cheating he means they had sex with someone else

  • @blackpythondranzer

    @blackpythondranzer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Krishnahgg Piss off troll

  • @Muhammad92828

    @Muhammad92828

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Krishnahgg like u have 190000 gods

  • @jaboubaa928

    @jaboubaa928

    Жыл бұрын

    100 cheater is just a cheater leave that person and move on

  • @jaboubaa928

    @jaboubaa928

    Жыл бұрын

    If you cheat I’m out of the relationship!!!! The person who chose to cheat broke that relationship

  • @foodkitchenandcraftvlogsby9046
    @foodkitchenandcraftvlogsby9046 Жыл бұрын

    Mashallah great piece of advice .. may Allah grant us a peaceful and trustworthy life with our spouses Insha Allah Ameen

  • @meddyfurniture
    @meddyfurniture2 жыл бұрын

    Cheaters don’t cheat by mistake! Imagine undressing & letting yourself to someone else you can’t tell me all that time you never thought about your spouse. Cheaters are murderers because they kill love & care in other people’s hearts i wish all cheaters thought & knew the damages because cheating doesn’t just destroy a couple but everyone around them! It’s sad may Allah protect us all

  • @adeelmansoor5278

    @adeelmansoor5278

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed

  • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

    @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙄 Cheaters and murderers are two completely different things. What a drama Queen comment.

  • @noneofyourbuizness

    @noneofyourbuizness

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cheating is a CHOICE

  • @balbaks

    @balbaks

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's not about them not thinking about their spouse. It's about not thinking that Allah is watching.

  • @mohammadsszai3019

    @mohammadsszai3019

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Thats for real.

  • @MrRafolin1
    @MrRafolin13 жыл бұрын

    I'm not even Muslim but I like to hear what your "thoughts/advices" are. I like the way you combine your rational thinking with your beliefs.

  • @MuzzaHukka

    @MuzzaHukka

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where are you from?

  • @soph1986

    @soph1986

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless ur heart with Emaan n Deen dear and u felt that noor of Shahadah in ur heart very soon InshAllah Ameen

  • @sameelmd62

    @sameelmd62

    3 жыл бұрын

    Islam is simple jst walking on th right path, may alla bless u

  • @marziaislam4398

    @marziaislam4398

    3 жыл бұрын

    MashAllah. May Allah bless your heart with Iman 😊

  • @KH4L13D

    @KH4L13D

    3 жыл бұрын

    MuzzaHukka hmmm why does it seem your question comes from thirst? 🧐

  • @Brandjess11
    @Brandjess11 Жыл бұрын

    As an amazing social media recovery agent, it's a amazing to see how much value and different updates provides in a 30min getting started. The research, the coding, the script programming and his experience to deliver all this smoothly with less take is truly amazing... I dream of the day I can hire a team to do those accessing for me as they focus on the script and delivery..

  • @EagleSpy

    @EagleSpy

    Жыл бұрын

    Talent means nothing, while experience, acquired in humility and with hard work, means everything. Thank you for your excellent work! Many people wait for opportunities to come and knock on their door. Only a few people like you step out to look for them. No wonder you are a winner. Well done and heartfelt thanks to you for getting me access into the target's devices...

  • @SummerJ200
    @SummerJ2003 жыл бұрын

    Don’t cheat, do the hard but courageous thing and inform/leave the person. Give them their full rights, let them go. Don’t torture them, break their heart, deceive them because you don’t want to deal with your own difficult emotions.

  • @MBfromToronto

    @MBfromToronto

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Cheating is so cowardly

  • @LIVERZ

    @LIVERZ

    3 жыл бұрын

    If only people understood this

  • @LIVERZ

    @LIVERZ

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Dawid Piwnick original post is talking about those that go out their way to cheat even when there's nothing really wrong in the relationship

  • @SummerJ200

    @SummerJ200

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Dawid Piwnick I agree, but there’s always the opportunity available to bow out gracefully. Divorce is halal. It’s really just a conversation and a process, in which we uphold the integrity of ourselves and the other, it’s also important... because the way in which we treat the other person also dictates our own future. Things have a funny way of coming back around, it’s important to do things in a clean and honest way, that is pleasing to Allah swt The ex may not like your choice but will respect your honesty and transparency so that they know where they stand at least.

  • @mrsali2294

    @mrsali2294

    2 жыл бұрын

    even sexually he have strong feeling outside not with wife

  • @rabiyaalameen9631
    @rabiyaalameen96312 жыл бұрын

    This video was Posted 10 months ago , But I found it on my feed the day I am really going through it. Allah's guidance the best.

  • @ramatukamara2345

    @ramatukamara2345

    2 жыл бұрын

    May d Almighty Allah heal ur hat 🙏. Bt it's really had wen ur spouse cheat on u🥲

  • @maarianaaz2275

    @maarianaaz2275

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @ahmedsilhuhukwa197

    @ahmedsilhuhukwa197

    2 жыл бұрын

    For sure it pain when you find same one you love most is cheating on you may allah give us strength

  • @fairoozmusthafa

    @fairoozmusthafa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @falakzaiba7244

    @falakzaiba7244

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Right now I am going through it. The worst pain may be. But what if he does not accept it. What if he has been cheating all along and has never been guilty about.

  • @rumanadesai6507
    @rumanadesai6507 Жыл бұрын

    What a complete understanding of the situation and what a mature solution we need such ullamas. When contemporary education combined with Deen we got such masterpieces. Alhamdulillah for their presence.

  • @aishahahmeddy9288
    @aishahahmeddy9288 Жыл бұрын

    sheikh mufti is such a bite of sweet thoughts and a motivater in life not only to his fellow Muslims but his words captures the heart of people all over the globe

  • @princevegeta9149
    @princevegeta91493 жыл бұрын

    Why am I watching this I don’t even have a significant other 😂

  • @ahlamali6167

    @ahlamali6167

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too but for future reference in shaa Allah it will not get to that😭 or if it happens to someone close to us and they want advice

  • @mohdalvi184

    @mohdalvi184

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are vegeta and vegeta just destroys. Galleck gun!!!!!!!!😱😱😱

  • @sandracerilo5336

    @sandracerilo5336

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @simoneleven338

    @simoneleven338

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh what about Bulma?

  • @andreeaboloca4440

    @andreeaboloca4440

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well...I guess is good for the future whether ad the cheated,the cheater or the one cheated with :|

  • @saheedlawal9008
    @saheedlawal90082 жыл бұрын

    Cheating dont just start a day. It begins with texting, calling, chatting. It is a planned work. Not everybody's hearts ll forgive.....Life ll never be dsame again after cheating. Better off go separate ways

  • @bushrashaikh2276

    @bushrashaikh2276

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very well said

  • @iman6195

    @iman6195

    2 жыл бұрын

    The best advice here

  • @Ranisha-Marakkar

    @Ranisha-Marakkar

    Жыл бұрын

    Ya well said…i am crying right now when I saw this comment…

  • @meral5920

    @meral5920

    Жыл бұрын

    @saheed. I agree 100%. Better to go their separate ways. I would always look at the cheater in disgust

  • @aashiq-e-mustafa7
    @aashiq-e-mustafa710 ай бұрын

    I love mufti menk, may Allah reward him more Barakah in his age...

  • @ambengfan
    @ambengfan Жыл бұрын

    Best thing I've heard with regards to this topic! Alhamdulillah Sheikh

  • @Krishnahgg

    @Krishnahgg

    Жыл бұрын

    Muslim will do such thing.. look at this mans face... tooo much lst on him... never loved anyone.. only lst... he must have 19 wife too... Jai Sri Ram.

  • @alinoora1994
    @alinoora19943 жыл бұрын

    I went through this for 7 years and kept promising me he will “change” and I kept hoping he would but guess what? He never changed I just kept losing my self little by little until I fell to depression and sickness. I FINALLY found the courage to leave and it is so painful because I had so much hope it would get better, eventually I really had to pick between my health and sanity or this person that doesn’t care or love me? And I picked my self. I know that my heart was in the right place and I had the utmost intention for a good future, but I guess he’s not the right man for the job. May Allah guide us all and give us the patience and strength to endure anything that comes our way!

  • @khadijahtanju6863

    @khadijahtanju6863

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nora A you are very strong MashaAllah and you will find ease and healing and happiness you did the right thing

  • @alinoora1994

    @alinoora1994

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seven 0 thank you!

  • @alinoora1994

    @alinoora1994

    3 жыл бұрын

    Khadijah Tanju thank you! I know allah knows my intention and it brings me ease everyday 💛

  • @ismaeelmoosa1025

    @ismaeelmoosa1025

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah reward you the best from him. I hope the next time you choose someone, you choose him for his relationship with his Creator and other, as to how the prophet Muhammed PBUH teach us all. It was narrated from Abu Hurairah: that the Messenger of Allah said: "If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then marry (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him, for if you do not do that there will be Fitnah in the land and widespread corruption.'" and believe me, you aren't responsible for other choices but you are responsible for yours, and I don't agree with what the Mufti said here about forgiveness, or why the forgiveness must lead the victim to stay with the cheater? why they didn't punish for their sins? what if they didn't regret their sins? the victim who will pay the bill, no one else.

  • @hibagulraiz2577

    @hibagulraiz2577

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah ease your pain and make your paths easy for you. Ameen

  • @ebtisamali359
    @ebtisamali3593 жыл бұрын

    If I end up getting married I will not tolerate cheating at all ! Like specially as a Muslim girl I waited for so long to be cheated on hell no 😑

  • @elcody6109

    @elcody6109

    3 жыл бұрын

    True I can't say i don't understand especially that we need to work hard to make a house to find a job to get money to live in a family a good life we need to the hole time until we die for that so we deserve happiness isn't it ? Its so true however sister as a brother i want to give an advice its for u for me and for everyone ... Divorcing most of the time is a bad decision for a women especially so i prefer to not see a women who have children suffers from that cuz it can happen to my sister mother daughter in the future so at least try to help ur husband to fix his mistakes but don't force ur self just do what u can and count on allah if nothing changed so u can say that u he is not خير

  • @elcody6109

    @elcody6109

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Moo Miller well its ur opinion i didn't say that a cheater is guarantee changing however to forgive is harder and more worthy for a muslim و الله لا يضيع اجر المحسنين in the to choose to forgive is for yourself not for the others and if someone can't forgive he is free of course cuz he wasn't as strong to forgive so forcing him is just gonna hurt him and allah will give the power to forgive only for those who deserve it and who are ready to take it cuz no one said its ez and no said everyone must do it but its like something that comes only from the best and from the people that allah wants to help them

  • @ebtisamali359

    @ebtisamali359

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@elcody6109 even if you forgive your spouses trust me nothing will go back like it was there will be trust issues in the marriage and what's the point in staying in a marriage where the trust is lost !

  • @elcody6109

    @elcody6109

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ebtisamali359 plz understand me , everything can back even the trust but i have said so many times that if u can't forgive and forget no one can blame u however i just gaves u an advise cuz imagine getting married for 20 year and getting cheated on u can't just throw everything without even trying to fix it .. ur kids needs both of u even if there will be trust issues after u forgive him those are from satan not from u cuz someone if he decided to forgive he needs to forgive even if he didn't forget about it thats why it is hard and thats why its a really beautiful thing to do and cuz u r doing it for yourself to go to heaven to save ur family from tearing apart allah will give way more better things im not saying u need to forgive but to forgive will make ur life better cuz that means u can live without getting effected by the others cuz allah with u and will gives u way better things in the future but when u divorce that means u still don't have the strength to do something like that and u will basically live the rest of ur life alone most of the time or u will raise ur kids alone and it is a really really hard work to save ur kids from the corruption in this community without their dad and if u don't have a job this is worst and worst so sometimes u need to choose the hard choice to make a beautiful future i wish u understand my point of view and of course to understand that im not trying to blame u or something its not like i have the strength to choose that too however the truth need to be said even if we don't do it ... لهذا الطلاق ابغض الحلال احيانا يعود بالسوء على صاحبه و لكن مع هذا لا انا و لا غيري يرغمك على عدم الطلاق فالطلاق لسبب قدد حلل من فوق سبع سموات من العليم الحكيم و لكنه ابغضه

  • @3AMGtv

    @3AMGtv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! 😒 may allah save us from such things happning at all.

  • @djvelocity
    @djvelocity Жыл бұрын

    *This is truly an Islamic scholar who has spent a lifetime learning and understanding science, history, religion etc.* It’s abundantly clear in the way that he conducts himself and speaks. Great video with great advice! 😊🙌🤲

  • @djvelocity

    @djvelocity

    Жыл бұрын

    @Kese Ho Yarr haha weird comment 😅

  • @dhilshadhassan1808
    @dhilshadhassan1808 Жыл бұрын

    Very good advice. Please keep sharing often I’m sure this is going to help a lot of couples

  • @raiyanahmed9211
    @raiyanahmed92113 жыл бұрын

    Forgiveness is still possible, but believing that the person has genuinely changed from within is the difficult part.

  • @lmorgan3741
    @lmorgan37413 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your teachings and the positive representation of Islam. There are too many who push those seeking wisdom away. Thank you.

  • @manzoorathar11

    @manzoorathar11

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately, the western culture has made perverted sexual behaviour such a common thing that even scholars are treating zina to be the second nature.

  • @angelmichael7638

    @angelmichael7638

    3 жыл бұрын

    ManOfTruth piadoso Since the beginning of universe We see more because we have tv how many children they used to make per family 10,11 Comon u think the once who don’t show it on tv do more than the once on tv lol human nature

  • @manzoorathar11

    @manzoorathar11

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angelmichael7638 having 10/11 yet people were loyal to their spouse. Perverted sexual behaviour was not normalised, unlike today and most people had a family for the lifetime. What's ur point?

  • @angelmichael7638

    @angelmichael7638

    3 жыл бұрын

    ManOfTruth piadoso ooh yes show me statistics

  • @angelmichael7638

    @angelmichael7638

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you closer to any truth

  • @MWA1407
    @MWA14075 ай бұрын

    This man makes so much sense. This is the best advice I've ever heard. Thank you Muslim friend ❤

  • @liah401
    @liah401 Жыл бұрын

    He is truly a wise person. He’s very understanding and practical in many ways

  • @abdullazizxd5755
    @abdullazizxd57553 жыл бұрын

    I've seen my mom and my grandmother go through pain from their cheating husbands. I am married and have a good husband. But my previous experience with my family sometimes rub on me. I get scared that sometime in our life, I'll get cheated on. So maybe, that's why I am watching this. I am always praying to Allah swt for guidance. Whatever happens, I will accept that it is Allah's qadr.

  • @ezclean7022

    @ezclean7022

    2 жыл бұрын

    Instead of dwelling on the past why don't you revel in the present and look to the future 😊 make sure he knows he is appreciated and make sure to be the best you can be. Inspire him to be the best he can be as well. Dress up for him, cook for him, encourage him to share household chores. All these things you will be rewarded for. Salam.

  • @nageennageen4424
    @nageennageen44242 жыл бұрын

    I never cheated on my husband i love him with core of my heart so iam possessive about him sometimes he got bothered and become suffocated of my love but he is love of my life May Allah keep deep love in between us and all couples. Aameen

  • @justtalesomania

    @justtalesomania

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes same situation even I face.

  • @MrCake-ui8uo

    @MrCake-ui8uo

    Жыл бұрын

    Wish I will find a wife.. Who will be possessive about me..

  • @aadtie5633

    @aadtie5633

    Жыл бұрын

    If your possessiveness is suffocating for him then you're wrong. You're toxic. Dont frustrate him. You should learn how to behave. That's ridiculous and immature. Nothing loving about your behaviour.

  • @hurairah93

    @hurairah93

    Жыл бұрын

    In sha Allah I have this love one day

  • @laibanasir3498

    @laibanasir3498

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@aadtie5633stop this crap. Halftellectuals will tell everyone this is toxic that is toxic,in the end stay alone

  • @arehan5888
    @arehan5888 Жыл бұрын

    mistakes can be forgotten but blunders and repeated acts can never be ignored. You cannot trust your partner in your whole life. even if they leave the relationship.

  • @kumo8223

    @kumo8223

    5 ай бұрын

    Are we talking about chess Here? 😂

  • @mohdayan6875
    @mohdayan6875 Жыл бұрын

    mashallah Mufti menk this topic as change my married life with happiness may Allah reach you in jannah

  • @opalproductions.
    @opalproductions.3 жыл бұрын

    "Don't Make decisions when your angry"👀

  • @manzoorathar11

    @manzoorathar11

    3 жыл бұрын

    If by this, the Mufti meant to avoid angry reaction that could make you end up in jail then it's fine, but if he meant to not leave and give a second chance then I strongly disagree. Zina is not a mistake, rapists always say it's a mistake, I couldn't control myself in heat of the moment. Unless you are drunk or mentally unstable, you have made a conscious decision. You will never be happy with a person who cheated on you even once. Your inner self will make hate em. Unfortunately, western culture has made perverted sexual behaviour such a common thing that even scholars are treating Zina to be the second nature.

  • @GrandGamesReviews

    @GrandGamesReviews

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@manzoorathar11 and they talk bad about Islam when they commit Zina. How sad. 😂😂😂

  • @donnadavis2664
    @donnadavis26642 жыл бұрын

    I'm a Christian & my husband is Muslim. Our beliefs are similar yet different. I continue to educate myself regarding Islam. I love this Iman, he is full of wisdom, strength, integrity & respect for all. Thank you for the educational lessons. Please continue this journey Allah has blessed you with, Inshalla 🙏

  • @estheramira6605

    @estheramira6605

    Жыл бұрын

    @Kese Ho Yarr bruv what r u saying

  • @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    Жыл бұрын

    Testify none has right or be worshipped except Allah and Muahmad is his messenger

  • @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    Жыл бұрын

    Testify none has right or be worshipped except Allah and Muahmad is his messenger

  • @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    @muhammadhamzabakhtkhan7357

    Жыл бұрын

    Testify none has right or be worshipped except Allah and Muahmad is his messenger

  • @annoynymous9707
    @annoynymous9707 Жыл бұрын

    If your partner cheating on you and go beyond the limit means he/she has done sex or selling their dignity to the others, better just breakup because from there you can judge that person will destroy your lineage.

  • @danks04111986
    @danks04111986 Жыл бұрын

    "Good people do make mistakes" - unfortunately it's impossible to live with the memory of someone cheating on you for the rest of your life. Cheating is a very hard decision... the person literally considered the relationship ending before they did it. So that's what they deserve it to end. There is no family left at that point unfortunately.

  • @Krishnahgg

    @Krishnahgg

    Жыл бұрын

    Muslim will do such thing.. look at this mans face... tooo much lst on him... never loved anyone.. only lst... he must have 19 wife too... Jai Sri Ram.

  • @noneofyourbuizness

    @noneofyourbuizness

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Krishnahgg why are hindus always hating ?

  • @Tonystark-ri9bz

    @Tonystark-ri9bz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Krishnahgg hindu cow worshipper spotted,,, literally the worst religion,, hindus just spitting venom on every video against muslims,,,

  • @honeybee588

    @honeybee588

    Жыл бұрын

    She cheated once forgave her the first time gave her second chance but she cheated again and again now having two kids deciding to leave her once and for good!

  • @danks04111986

    @danks04111986

    Жыл бұрын

    @@honeybee588 that's not good brother. I hope there's an amazing and faithful person to come into your life to bind up the wounds that she caused on you. Seek a true woman of God and don't get confused with a woman that claims to love God, her way of living and treating others and praying and singing and dressing has to be compatible with her report

  • @manzoorathar11
    @manzoorathar113 жыл бұрын

    Simple answer, leave a person who cheats on you. Period and never have a relation with such a despicable person who cannot even control their desire despite having a spouse.

  • @samia6888

    @samia6888

    Жыл бұрын

    You can get an STD that can haunt you forever due to a cheating spouse. Please leave and protect your body.

  • @avinzarekani4826
    @avinzarekani48263 жыл бұрын

    my father constantly cheated on my beautiful, loving, amazing mother since the beginning of their marriage. she’s not muslim but i am coming back to islam. this really helped. thank you. allah is watching me. i know he’s with me.

  • @NHT_

    @NHT_

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good dear may Allah give you more good

  • @ranaakhaled7236

    @ranaakhaled7236

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am going through the same situation as you except it's my mother cheating. It was se*ual a few years ago it isn't anymore like they only talk and stuff not do things anymore. My mother still cares deeply for my father and cares about his health and gets worried about him, but she should stop talking to that man. May Allah Give Us The Strength To Overcome This And May Allah Show Our parents The Right path! Ameen suma ameen

  • @Ryan-pg1tw

    @Ryan-pg1tw

    2 жыл бұрын

    you should express yourself more respectful about your father I think

  • @aarvin1

    @aarvin1

    2 жыл бұрын

    People cheat cause they miss something in their actual partner or they can't be themselves, that's why you should partner with people with whom you can be 100 percent yourself!!

  • @staygold471

    @staygold471

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aarvin1 People cheat because of their own internal issues. They're either insecure or just a loser. It has nothing to do with their partner. You can be the best partner ever and still get cheated on. You should always be yourself with everyone in your life. If you can't be yourself with your spouse, thats YOUR problem not your spouses'.

  • @zuhair1990
    @zuhair1990 Жыл бұрын

    Mufti menk is a brilliant speaker. May Allah bless him

  • @edwardlopez2561
    @edwardlopez2561 Жыл бұрын

    Mufti Sir, I listen to your podcast and listen to your advice in all ways possible. am a Christian but I only take your advice. It is authentic and powerful. I wish I will be a Muslim one day.

  • @faizanzubair3860

    @faizanzubair3860

    Жыл бұрын

    Embrace Islam, brother . study quran and take shahadah before its too late.

  • @Elitev101

    @Elitev101

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah guide you to the right path, brother, the path of those whom He loves, and not the path of those whom He has forsaken. Ameen

  • @inamulislam161

    @inamulislam161

    Жыл бұрын

    Why not today brother? Tomorrow is not promised 😢

  • @RapistRamaurKrishna

    @RapistRamaurKrishna

    5 ай бұрын

    Don't marry unless partner follows Sharia Law strictly. Every Christian deserves to be cheated on, which is a wake-up call to follow Sharia and Islam. Only Sharia law can prevent partners from cheating and immorality.

  • @Muwahid999

    @Muwahid999

    4 ай бұрын

    My friend , you'll vet your questions answered by Muhammad Ali

  • @eddelmar2868
    @eddelmar28682 жыл бұрын

    If I'm a good provider and a very loving husband and still my wife leaves me for another man then it's her loss not mine and I'm going to let her go without hesitation. I'll get married again with a God fearing woman who can appreciate and deserves my sencirity and loyalty.

  • @farhanishrak8001

    @farhanishrak8001

    2 жыл бұрын

    There are tons of booty out there brother

  • @faisamkhan8827

    @faisamkhan8827

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!

  • @asadpatel9181

    @asadpatel9181

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@farhanishrak8001 😂😂😂

  • @Anonymt8

    @Anonymt8

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said brother👍

  • @linnen_elm

    @linnen_elm

    6 ай бұрын

    PREACH BROTHER! i got cheated too. Gave her all- protected her honor, i don't even dare to touch her before marriage. Turns out she was smashing with her boss behind my back, she got exposed by her peers, wow- I forgive her since we aren't married yet. but still.. holy shjt-

  • @Keepdreamingbro11
    @Keepdreamingbro113 жыл бұрын

    Please pray for me I’m going through a difficult time with my husband pls pls pls pray for me brothers and sisters😔😔😔

  • @Keepdreamingbro11

    @Keepdreamingbro11

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dont be a secret wife!!! Thank you!!

  • @fathimagulamo9087

    @fathimagulamo9087

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah help u and ease your pain.make u strong and save your marriage

  • @rajuhaq3252

    @rajuhaq3252

    3 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make this easy for you and give you strength

  • @goworldly233

    @goworldly233

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sister please stay calm ..... Pray as much as possible

  • @sainjalinder7510

    @sainjalinder7510

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm going thru difficult time please please remember me in ur duas my wife to be has left me.. M.ARSHID

  • @randall793
    @randall793 Жыл бұрын

    Masyaallah. I wish this was available when I needed it, many years ago. Jazakallah.

  • @aslyhernandez6737
    @aslyhernandez6737 Жыл бұрын

    Man I never feel more calmer than when this man is talking 😭 top G

  • @mehmmetali4936
    @mehmmetali49369 ай бұрын

    Can we all appreciate this guys for taking the time to help all of us and making our lives happy, cause these dudes never fail to put a smile on our faces, guys they deserve the best in life we'll all support them no matter what we all love you and I wanna Thank You So Much for being amazing! *JohnsonSpy*

  • @adamali1774
    @adamali17743 жыл бұрын

    If your husband/wife cheats on you then leave them forever. No second chances.

  • @syedmujahedali9685

    @syedmujahedali9685

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah🙄

  • @mariamteki7423

    @mariamteki7423

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree!

  • @syedmujahedali9685

    @syedmujahedali9685

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Dawid Piwnick 🙄ur mistake

  • @bossssss

    @bossssss

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree. Forgive them but leave them. Forgive them for Allah and leave them so that you can find a new person and find new love.

  • @Samsamchicc

    @Samsamchicc

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Mahjabin Oyshi amen 😂

  • @sabeensadaf1795
    @sabeensadaf17953 жыл бұрын

    Forgiving the cheater once only gives them a chance to cheat again, cheating is a choice and if they made it once before, they will make it again.

  • @alinajenningswhite

    @alinajenningswhite

    3 жыл бұрын

    No body know about other People would be they do.. Allah always teach US for husnudzon allah always give forgive US why we not give each other,, pray and guide him to islam and forgive is best action of life

  • @JayJay-nj2pf

    @JayJay-nj2pf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ina Tabina So is having Self respect!

  • @afm398

    @afm398

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alinajenningswhite I will not forgive someone who made the choice to disrespect me on another level ever, almost every cheater does it again I have never heard of someone who cheated then never did it after being forgiven. We are humans not allah don't compare allahs forgiveness to humans

  • @babysiham3657

    @babysiham3657

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fact

  • @babarawan2834

    @babarawan2834

    3 жыл бұрын

    Allah swt give me the strength to do what right for me rather than people playing snakes and ladder with people lives truly Allah swt forgive but he won’t forgive nobody to play with one as there a icon on a chess board... it not nice

  • @Hanzoai77
    @Hanzoai77 Жыл бұрын

    I wish this word reaches the person I love much sooner... thank you for getting it out there. Whatever mistake that said person made, insya-Allah I'll never do it.

  • @sakuraqueen1734
    @sakuraqueen1734 Жыл бұрын

    Once a cheater, always a cheater, once someone gets a taste of Zina it's extremely hard for a person to stop. That's why it's always said to avoid Zina with all your might, and stay away from even getting near a situation that will make a person falter. Also, cheating is not a mistake, it's a decision. They lack self control, character, and respect for their marriage and spouse. Mistakes are when a person doesn't know better and is ignorant - That's not the case for cheating, that's a decision.

  • @badidneem

    @badidneem

    Жыл бұрын

    damn you are not forgiving

  • @justicejoycetv

    @justicejoycetv

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@badidneem But are they wrong?

  • @lilylow8767

    @lilylow8767

    10 ай бұрын

    @@badidneem​​⁠ Forgiveness does not mean allowing the same person to continuously hurt you. It means moving on and leaving a situation that does not serve you well, for the sake of your peace, self respect and dignity. Unless you think cheating means “I accidentally unzipped my pants and it fell into her, opps!” 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @RapistRamaurKrishna

    @RapistRamaurKrishna

    5 ай бұрын

    Don't marry unless partner follows Sharia Law strictly. Every Christian deserves to be cheated on, which is a wake-up call to follow Sharia and Islam. Only Sharia law can prevent partners from cheating and immorality.

  • @maxprimemalick7972
    @maxprimemalick79723 жыл бұрын

    thumbs up if The Sheykh Mufti Menk is your favorite youtuber Thank you my teacher MashAllah . May Allah reward you with Jannah for your hardwork and effort in spreading the Quran and Sunnah in such a beautiful way. You bring us all closer to our maker and and the teachings of our beloved Propher Muhammad SAW 🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️💯

  • @dontseemypicture8620

    @dontseemypicture8620

    3 жыл бұрын

    *The Man Who Loved You 1400 Years Ago | Heart Touching Reminder 💔* Youtu.be/9MJxjXWPehw 👆👆👆

  • @Myview246

    @Myview246

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes mashallah hes knowledgeable, wise, funny and teaches you without screaming or using arrogance or judgement. If only all men could be like him, the world would be a better place.

  • @nb973
    @nb9733 жыл бұрын

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. Fact.

  • @ABC-gq2dk

    @ABC-gq2dk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362

    @hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have you never fallen into this category that Allah hasn't exposed? Cheating can be emotional too. You valuing someone else's opinion over your partner's can be a form of cheating especially if it's done with such intention that u chose to value another person's opinion because u wanted to score points in their books. Every human being at some point experiences some sort of cheating and the good ones nip it in the bud early on whereas the greedy ones keep going wanting more and not caring about how haram their actions are.

  • @hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362

    @hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JahannamHellfire I know of a woman who married an already married man. 1. It's illegal in the West 2. The first wife has no clue and if she did, don't you think she'll class it as cheating, and call the "secret wife" a home wrecker, etc? People make mistakes. When you point that finger, your own hand is pointing three fingers back at you. Cheating is evil if done intentionally with no regard for others. If fallen into it out of weakness, u have a Lord that's most merciful. Repent, Refresh and Reset.

  • @abdulsamadabdulaziz197

    @abdulsamadabdulaziz197

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @MS-Hussain

    @MS-Hussain

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily but most probably. So repentance and apology necessary for forgiveness

  • @Zzzf647
    @Zzzf647 Жыл бұрын

    i must say mufti menk has a way with his words and no matter the situation Allah pak has given him the blessings of putting smile on peoples face .May Allah elevates his eman Ameen

  • @skessahnas3699
    @skessahnas3699 Жыл бұрын

    Great advice ! Just love the message your telling on this video

  • @Krishnahgg

    @Krishnahgg

    Жыл бұрын

    Muslim will do such thing.. look at this mans face... tooo much lst on him... never loved anyone.. only lst... he must have 19 wife too... Jai Sri Ram.

  • @senaas5158
    @senaas51582 жыл бұрын

    Men who is afraid of Allah and who fears afterlife will never cheat wife nor anyone 👍

  • @lilsuzy1037
    @lilsuzy10373 жыл бұрын

    We love you MUFTI.

  • @dontseemypicture8620

    @dontseemypicture8620

    3 жыл бұрын

    *The Man Who Loved You 1400 Years Ago | Heart Touching Reminder 💔* Youtu.be/9MJxjXWPehw 👆👆👆

  • @AX33MJJ
    @AX33MJJ Жыл бұрын

    She will never respect you for taking her back after. Cut your losses bro. She is emotionally checked out.

  • @huzaifahamid479
    @huzaifahamid479 Жыл бұрын

    Once a cheater always a cheater

  • @Foralluhaterz
    @Foralluhaterz3 жыл бұрын

    He is the only sheikh talking about real day to day issues which many bottle and are too afraid to talk about, not Mufti Menk Alhamdulillah

  • @shecielos4443
    @shecielos44432 жыл бұрын

    Im not a Muslim but I love his teaching may Allah always give you wisdom to share for everyone ♥🤲

  • @ozzylink

    @ozzylink

    Жыл бұрын

    His teachings are Islam 100%. You too can learn too. Muslims follow the teachings of the Quran

  • @elvinashabanova3446
    @elvinashabanova3446 Жыл бұрын

    As-salamu alaykum jazak allahu khayran you always explain and talk about topics in such a way that gives me goosebumps. You make everyone feel heard and understood I love watching your videos may Allah guide us all.

  • @rifatalmahmud7110
    @rifatalmahmud7110 Жыл бұрын

    Its really helpful ....i follow your waz from long ... its really very resourceful for day todays life and understanding..... Allah send his rahma to you always... Assalamualaikum

  • @fatemahabeeb2177
    @fatemahabeeb21773 жыл бұрын

    Caught your spouse cheating? Leave immediately with the self respect you have. Cheaters will always cheat.

  • @sarahmasood2000
    @sarahmasood20003 жыл бұрын

    I walked away without even talking to my x. I never got angry, I just got disappointed. You can't change people unless they decide to change.

  • @farhanishrak8001

    @farhanishrak8001

    2 жыл бұрын

    Looks like u need some comforting baby

  • @dropsmic3224

    @dropsmic3224

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@farhanishrak8001 leave her alone man

  • @dreamseller82

    @dreamseller82

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@farhanishrak8001 what a shameless person you are. Just look at whose lecture it is and the level of your comment

  • @ZaxorVonSkyler

    @ZaxorVonSkyler

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@dreamseller82 What are you talking about she said nothing wrong?

  • @daudakamara728
    @daudakamara728 Жыл бұрын

    Sheik Mufti may ALLAH bless you and bless us all. I TRULY like the way you present and articulate your messages You spiritually and PSYCHOLOGICALLY take your message home I love it

  • @hearty1240
    @hearty1240 Жыл бұрын

    One thing I've learned, trust can only be broken once. Once you betrayed the trust of a loyal person, you might never come across another one again in your life.

  • @aqsakhanartist
    @aqsakhanartist3 жыл бұрын

    I have been asking Allah a question & He gave me the answer thru ur video! Subhan’ Allah ❤️

  • @OT-tn7ci
    @OT-tn7ci3 жыл бұрын

    I WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON MY WIIIFFEEEEE, SHE IS TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL !!!! MAASHA ALLAH, ALHAMDHULILLAH

  • @OT-tn7ci

    @OT-tn7ci

    3 жыл бұрын

    i hope this comment makes her heart flutter ;)

  • @ij470

    @ij470

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mdmohitulhaque8648 ummmmm no

  • @sheekadaDahab

    @sheekadaDahab

    3 жыл бұрын

    The only reason you'll never cheat on her is because she is TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL?? haha wtf. What if she gets old and her beauty changes?? 😳😳😳

  • @OT-tn7ci

    @OT-tn7ci

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sheekadaDahab beauty takes two forms Inside and outside, I think for me she will be the prettiest both inside and outside, always. if anything changes, I think she will grow up and grow old even more beautiful In shaa allah

  • @sheekadaDahab

    @sheekadaDahab

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@OT-tn7ci Insha Allah. May Allah bless your marriage

  • @toyinslifestyle6522
    @toyinslifestyle6522 Жыл бұрын

    I respect you so much sir May God continue to give you knowledge to educate us more

  • @nafrazahir
    @nafrazahir Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, jazkallah for wonderful advice sheik.

  • @FazalAhmedcryptoflife92
    @FazalAhmedcryptoflife923 жыл бұрын

    Although I am not married yet. But a sensitive matter as this has been explained so well. People say that Islam is a very strict religion but those who understand well, they know that Islam has infact been sent to make our lives easy and to give us guidance. Jazakallah khair ya Shaikh to touch this matter and make the grey more clear to us so we can be in a better position to make an informed decision. May Allah guide us all!

  • @osobabdirahman2119
    @osobabdirahman21193 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah, I really appreciate Muft Menk he knows how to put words together and find an easy way to teach us, May Allah Bless him more and more. May Allah Reward Jannatul Firdouws for all of us.

  • @starsembroidery8102
    @starsembroidery8102 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mufti Menk 🌹🌹👍you are very close to my heart as a muslim we are brothers and sisters 💫🥀🥀🥀I love your lacturs so much sometime in Ramadan I watchedthe whole night till sehry and most of your lacture i listen more then 3 to 4 times . Allah grant you best health ,long life and burkha🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦a lots of love from Canada.

  • @catherinensereko9040
    @catherinensereko9040 Жыл бұрын

    Good and well rounded advice. Thank you.!

  • @roselaineaquino7401
    @roselaineaquino74013 жыл бұрын

    Mufti menk, i almost gave up of my marriage but when i listen to this hadith, my heart is softening, but it is difficult to restore the trust again. 😔😔😔

  • @fazeel1239
    @fazeel12393 жыл бұрын

    I don't have that level of strength to forgive a cheater.

  • @pooler57

    @pooler57

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never give up on pursuing your strength to forgive. God wills it

  • @fatimahyakub6445

    @fatimahyakub6445

    2 жыл бұрын

    May Allah ease our affairs

  • @redarbz6545

    @redarbz6545

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed.. Not everyone is deserving of forgiveness

  • @pooler57

    @pooler57

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@redarbz6545 You are going against the law of God

  • @redarbz6545

    @redarbz6545

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pooler57 I am not God, only he is the most merciful

  • @m.haslam8495
    @m.haslam8495 Жыл бұрын

    When a married partner cheats, every situation and circumstances is different. It's hard, sometimes very hard to make the right decision. Yes, you have to calm down and be in a situation where you are calm and less stressful to make the right decision for yourself. It happened to me and I never thought about getting married again. Alhamdolillah, I'm blessed. Found a new wife who is simply amazing. Even how we met is another story. We have been married for twenty years now. She's very special. May Allah (swt) guide everyone to happiness and fulfillment.

  • @ambaliyusuf5420

    @ambaliyusuf5420

    4 ай бұрын

    You are strong

  • @salfarazibrahim6996

    @salfarazibrahim6996

    Ай бұрын

    Agree , you are strong . Im trying not to catch a case . Everyday is war in my head . Im thinking immigration is best option .

  • @rawanhomsi5336
    @rawanhomsi53368 ай бұрын

    Cheating is never a mistake. It's always done intentionally.

  • @syedasyeda9390
    @syedasyeda93903 жыл бұрын

    Cheating isnt by accident.. Its by choice and planned.. a person knows very well when he/she is crossing the limits of interacton with a 3rd person.. its always step by step.. so there is no justification of such thing.. To my all dear sisters/brothers.. My advice to you is.. If you are emotionally committed or engaged to any person whose loyality is questionable.. or if you have caught them cheating.. Please leave them immediately.. There is no strong relationship without loyality ... yeah Its hard to leave them.. And we think they might be sorry for their behaviour.. so we keep on forgiving them.. But it mostly doesnt happen in that way.. because loyality as well as cheating is a character trait.. not a habbit.. so once a cheater is always a cheater.. sooner or later that relationship is gonna end.. so end it soon so that you might get a chance to heal and be able to give ur pure feelings to someone who is worth it.. And keep praying that one day you get what you deserved.. ALLAH does not make those losers who are good at intensions.. Keep faith.. An advice from my personal experience..

  • @SaidMetiche-qy9hb

    @SaidMetiche-qy9hb

    3 жыл бұрын

    True sister, thanks for this

  • @sophiesumleen7872

    @sophiesumleen7872

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes, cheating is not an accident but choice. We can understand when we catch feeelings regarding others

  • @kamaareddy5632

    @kamaareddy5632

    Жыл бұрын

    A man can have 4 wives, but a woman is designed to be close to her husband only. Different genders, different roles. Don't get it twisted.

  • @daniellatan9016
    @daniellatan90163 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, so well said! This is coming from a victim; may Allah continue to guide all of us victims of cheating spouses down the straight path, never to swerve!

  • @__._1
    @__._1 Жыл бұрын

    Infact on the contrary, them getting caught is a mercy to YOU! You just got saved from further heartache everytime you catch them cheating! Once the trust is broken, it can NEVER be repaired! Your mental peace is gone forever, cz now their every word and every move is questionable. No cheating spouse is worth losing ur peace of mind for! Divorce and move on!!!

  • @madkhaliqfarhan

    @madkhaliqfarhan

    8 ай бұрын

    Divorce her and tell her to marry that guy!

  • @islamandquran3440
    @islamandquran3440 Жыл бұрын

    A very important video on a very serious issue, May Almighty bless you

  • @bayaan0003
    @bayaan00033 жыл бұрын

    This really opened my eyes mashaAllah May Allah protect t us all and grant us all any type goodness ameen.