the best quote I've heard so far. "The farthest person you feel the most from, is the person you lie to the most"
@Aliicemomo7 ай бұрын
My husband wants me to be more open,and tell him when I'm upset about something or if he upset me. And I have started to do so...but of course it comes off as me complaining or me blaming him. And his response is always this tense agitated passively aggressive mood. It makes me not want to be open with him about what upsets me.because I get scared of how he will react.
@discardmine5191
3 ай бұрын
so call it out, put this into words for him (make sure he doesn't cut you off so he doesn't come to conclusions), then be prepared to discuss more about how to be more open. this is communication. Relationships need it. because guess what? 60% of relationships end due to mis-commuication. There's also probably a motive behind him wanting you to be more open. I don't know too much about your situation (I suspect there is fighting and feelings that are not spoken that are not seen which eventually leads to resentment because these feelings that aren't dealt with are bottled up. and bad feelings only get stronger with time) So basically talk to him, be honest, but be empathetic at the same time, let go of past resentment. Time moves forward, so you should too.
@queentabitha2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Well said.
@retard_activated Жыл бұрын
Dropping a comment for the Algo 💖 Thanks for the wise words, Coach!
@AM23. Жыл бұрын
There was a sign at my artists shop that said something like every time you complain about pain it's a 20$ fee. It was a joke, but it did remind me to tip, and I did
@niunia272727279 ай бұрын
Learning this now the hard way. The problem is, I don't want them to abandon me, so I will lie to them so that they don't leave. Many emotions I have come from misinterpretation of what I see (I s*ck at recognising emotions, especially through text), and since I'm reactive af (can't change this part - after 13 years of trying I'm pretty sure about this), it leads to me being upset and others being upset/angry with me. So yeah, nice to be able to have a relationship in which everything can be out there, but very unrealistic in my opinion 😢
@discardmine5191
3 ай бұрын
It's hard to discern emotion from text, man
@PJ-cf3bz
Ай бұрын
@@discardmine5191NO!!!! IT'S NOT!!! see what I did there? 😉
@syedmquadri828 ай бұрын
Shiny morning workout ❤
@syedmquadri828 ай бұрын
Good one ☝️
@suvanie3425 Жыл бұрын
Wonderfully said. Thabks a lot!
@studio22podcast
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support!!
@msk8533
10 ай бұрын
Is there a link to the rest of this episode??
@joshuataylor3550
7 ай бұрын
@@studio22podcastin to me see? Come on this must be parody.
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the best quote I've heard so far. "The farthest person you feel the most from, is the person you lie to the most"
My husband wants me to be more open,and tell him when I'm upset about something or if he upset me. And I have started to do so...but of course it comes off as me complaining or me blaming him. And his response is always this tense agitated passively aggressive mood. It makes me not want to be open with him about what upsets me.because I get scared of how he will react.
@discardmine5191
3 ай бұрын
so call it out, put this into words for him (make sure he doesn't cut you off so he doesn't come to conclusions), then be prepared to discuss more about how to be more open. this is communication. Relationships need it. because guess what? 60% of relationships end due to mis-commuication. There's also probably a motive behind him wanting you to be more open. I don't know too much about your situation (I suspect there is fighting and feelings that are not spoken that are not seen which eventually leads to resentment because these feelings that aren't dealt with are bottled up. and bad feelings only get stronger with time) So basically talk to him, be honest, but be empathetic at the same time, let go of past resentment. Time moves forward, so you should too.
Wow. Well said.
Dropping a comment for the Algo 💖 Thanks for the wise words, Coach!
There was a sign at my artists shop that said something like every time you complain about pain it's a 20$ fee. It was a joke, but it did remind me to tip, and I did
Learning this now the hard way. The problem is, I don't want them to abandon me, so I will lie to them so that they don't leave. Many emotions I have come from misinterpretation of what I see (I s*ck at recognising emotions, especially through text), and since I'm reactive af (can't change this part - after 13 years of trying I'm pretty sure about this), it leads to me being upset and others being upset/angry with me. So yeah, nice to be able to have a relationship in which everything can be out there, but very unrealistic in my opinion 😢
@discardmine5191
3 ай бұрын
It's hard to discern emotion from text, man
@PJ-cf3bz
Ай бұрын
@@discardmine5191NO!!!! IT'S NOT!!! see what I did there? 😉
Shiny morning workout ❤
Good one ☝️
Wonderfully said. Thabks a lot!
@studio22podcast
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support!!
@msk8533
10 ай бұрын
Is there a link to the rest of this episode??
@joshuataylor3550
7 ай бұрын
@@studio22podcastin to me see? Come on this must be parody.
Masters can answer that question
Who is this guy
@studio22podcast
9 ай бұрын
Coach Lee, check out his KZread channel!