the acronym 'flaws' fits! food, love, air, water, shelter. love it.

You have helped me so much!!! My daughter is being so good! She doesn’t call me meany anymore lol

Thank you so much for this..... my boys are 3 and 5 we are in stage one still .... thank you for this video.... yes asking the children their ideas is stellar !!! I’m praying for us all to be our best self in the moment we are in . Together we can keep getting stronger in our parenting 😊

It’s sad there’s only 14 comments on here and this posted a day ago!

My daughter was discovered self harming (cutting) about 3 months ago. This helped me so much. I'm sharing on my self harm FB groups. We all need help!!! Thank you so much for sharing you knowledge with us.

Love your practical straight forward approach to parenting (grand parenting) children from toddlers to adults! Thank you so much.

Awesome like always! Making parenting less stressful and more fun along with helping us raise respectful children!

Yeyyyyy, been waiting for this. Love it. Thanks Dr Paul. You are a legend

Thank you! My beautiful boy is 7.5 and this really helped understand ❤

Thank you so much Dr.Paul for you’re great great

Yaaaay this video came at the perfect time!!! Thank you 🙌💪😁

Thanks again!!! Im making my list now. My shorty is stage 1 and honest I have been too much on trying to have cooperation which is needless to say not working. Thank you for that in perspective for me. Will sit down with the hubby and getvthis list done!

I learn on every video . We will never be perfect parents but we can be good parents

This video is extremely empowering. Thank you soooooo much

Thank you. My adult daughter from a marriage is at stage 1. This was so helpful in seeing where she is.

Thank you so much for alll of your incredible insight!!

This video is great! Has so many ideas that never occurred to me. I have more power than I realized and feel better equipped and more empowered to influence behavior change in my teen. Thank you for sharing this! I would've liked to have a few more examples for each list, or just more detail on some of the examples given. But there's enough to go on, and my mind is exploring how to play these will out. This is a big help.

more ideas on those consequences that do require cooperation, please... awesome as always

OMG where have you been ? My husband and I will be watching these together. We are a blended family of 9 children. It has been a struggle so the videos have been very sound and very helpful. Thank you so much

Thank you!👍😊