That moment when you've already mastered how to feel sad.

@anassrhammar9126

7 жыл бұрын

Watching the vid like " I'm step forward bitch" .

@xlro8f853

7 жыл бұрын

Some people get a lot of practice X3

@kissangel471

7 жыл бұрын

Star Fire ah yes :(

@distortedbyhackers45

7 жыл бұрын

Star Fire in 666th liker

@derekanderson706

7 жыл бұрын

One can never master how to feel sad.

it's like free internet therapy

@lovetrustandpixiedust

7 жыл бұрын

you said it.

@user-uf3ee2jk7z

3 жыл бұрын

@James Charles Try this app. It's free, but realistic sounds. I conquered insomnia. I swear!! + It has No ads. On Android Playstore, search "Cozy sleep Sounds" full name is : " Cozy sleep Sounds -relax with nature stress relief "

@vuedanto8576

2 жыл бұрын

I'm watching this because my grandpa is on his deathbed and I'm not feeling sad because how sounds he makes.

hey it's my daily dosage of depression

@BlackInMind5

7 жыл бұрын

Z Hey, it's my daily dosage oh optimism.

@Alwalou

7 жыл бұрын

your name is so big

@Chrisymcmb

4 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo

That last metaphor with the tears and the flowers is marvelous.

@onimiste6446

7 жыл бұрын

flowers need tears to grow

@prestigiouscrown6876

7 жыл бұрын

Dark Champi no they need h2o or just atoms I guess since that's what everything is supposedly made of 🤷🏻‍♂️

@madao7865

7 жыл бұрын

If they'd showed the whole picture we would have seen them shrivel and fade. Tears are salty after all.

@ddcrowley

6 жыл бұрын

I agree. :)

Dont hug me I'm scared clock?

@somnolentverve2183

7 жыл бұрын

Is Antigone your real name or are you just a fan of the book?

@tiggy430

7 жыл бұрын

moriarty knows real name :)

@somnolentverve2183

7 жыл бұрын

It's a lovely name! also the name of a great book that is named after its main character. I might be blabbering but you should read it. It's written by Jean Anouillh, it deals with the subject of sadness in the first few acts which I think is really appropriate.

@tiggy430

7 жыл бұрын

moriarty knows thanks i will

@SO01j20

7 жыл бұрын

Antigone Lovering dude i was so shook thinking they made a new video :/

* How to Be Sad * Q: What is your secret? Me: I am always sad.

@utsavshah5459

7 жыл бұрын

Kim Thanks pal! But these tangible things can't affect me. I am dead inside. I don't feel anything.

@aichaf3070

7 жыл бұрын

you are such a little ray of sunshine, thank you Kim.

@otherpill7008

7 жыл бұрын

Kim Are you sad that you try to cheer people and hide your sadness?

@runeyugi

7 жыл бұрын

Other Pill Are you sad that you try Ask Kim if she's sad when she tries to cheer people up? ;

@ethancastro2753

7 жыл бұрын

Aron are you sad?? you cared enough to ask other pill

go to school and try to make friends... *sadness intensifies*

@noorazamzain2661

7 жыл бұрын

Dr.StickFigure loneliness experience increases exponentially, feelings triggered

@AmraKiKori

7 жыл бұрын

Dr.StickFigure get older and still no friend, sadness peaks

@prestigiouscrown6876

7 жыл бұрын

Dr.StickFigure your in your death bed, sadness don't speak no more

@AmraKiKori

7 жыл бұрын

prestigious CROWN looks around, no friends or family, sadness final form.

@empathylessons2267

7 жыл бұрын

I went to KZread for that. Intensifies was an understatement.

i just look at my bank balance.

@Clifton100

7 жыл бұрын

You have a positive bank balance, not one in the negative? :)

@marcvandesandt4959

7 жыл бұрын

At least you have a bank account ....

@StatesMusic

5 жыл бұрын

Marc Van De Sandt bank accounts are free.

@learning5907

3 жыл бұрын

ozzy I meant poor

@gg-qz2tb

3 жыл бұрын

I dont have a Ban acount

I feel that sadness encapsulates more than an emotional response or experience. It's acknowledging frustration with the world and the inevitability of our mortal existence.

@BlueTS777

7 жыл бұрын

chipette zu

@H0HLBR0T

7 жыл бұрын

i love how intelligent people always think they are unhappy because they are so "smart" they "see the world as it really is" unhappyness has nothing to do with intelligence. It is a mental attitude. Stop lying to yourself

@H0HLBR0T

7 жыл бұрын

Youre right. But i think its mostly intelligent people falling for this illusion. at the end of the day intelligence has nothing to to with happiness. I know very smart people very unhappy and unable to see the ways in which they are lying to themselfes. on the other hand i know very "dumb" people very selfreflective and happy. Its what you make out of it :)

That's all I wanted. Some space for myself where I could reconcile with my feelings. But stupid relatives never left me alone. I shall never be like them.

@prestigiouscrown6876

7 жыл бұрын

Abhilash S beyond sadness is death...

@AyeshaKhan-uh2gz

7 жыл бұрын

Abhilash S right? like I want to be LEFT alone and cry and calm myself down. but that happens rarely.

@DarkMoonDroid

5 жыл бұрын

Yep.

@KayAhern

5 жыл бұрын

I’m a mum and I feel so sad when my teenagers are sad I interfere and ty too hard to fix it ....maybe they need just a hug

School of Life always knows how to make me feel better about myself and my human failings

Why am I watching this? I'm always sad. I'm practically dead inside

@dbsk06

7 жыл бұрын

Loli Hunter です lol sorry but this is humorous

@cunnyman

7 жыл бұрын

dbsk06 lol I'm practically an undead at this point so whatever

@michaelwilliamson2255

6 жыл бұрын

Dead inside.

@priyeeshofonie9615

3 жыл бұрын

God loves you.

@sadiaislam800

3 жыл бұрын

My mom don't like me

Never take sadness for granted. Learn to recognise and respect it, within yourself and others. Not just to be happy in life, but to move forward in life.

I dislike people like Freya, because they seemingly choose to ignore/refuse to accept that life is shitty sometimes and it's ok to be pissed or sad about that. I find behaviour like that naive. Like a small child closing its ears and yelling "LALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU LALALA" Edit: I didn't mean to insult people, who were like Freya due to beeing risen that way by their parents and other reasons. I refered to people, who think that things like sadness (or depression, anxieties for that matter) were not real or a sign of weakness. If you can't help beeing "fakingly jolly" like Freya, I understand. Sorry for that misconception.

@mephistophelesthesilentchi3446

7 жыл бұрын

I pity people like Freya. Because I can only imagine what misery could have turned them so blind, to that of others and themselves.

@nth.aurora

7 жыл бұрын

to be honest, I have been manically jolly before, but not as annoying as Freya. Sometime I just accept that life is shitty, that sometime it's just simply that no one really wants to be my friend and that I have to try to be happy with what I have right now

@flowerpower7813

7 жыл бұрын

ragnell18 I hate people like Ben being all my life sucks fuck life stfu and b thankful for the simple things u take for granted in everyday life people are living worse life's than u

@ragnell18

7 жыл бұрын

What you just said falls under the "fallacy of relative privation". Just because there are people who have worse problems than me, doesn't mean my problems are meaningless. This doesn't mean you are wrong, but I still have the right to be sad sometimes. I don't go out that much anyway, so I won't "suck" out other peoples joy.

@anaju3595

7 жыл бұрын

I see your point, and I was just like that before I first got into depression. After that, I changed a lot and I know what a bubbly person like Freya thinks. "What should I do?" "I'm gonna try to tell them stuff I know they like." "I can't let them think about what made them sad or else they WILL be sad." Now, I'm more into Ben's side. It's ok to be sad, it's something we have to go through. "Someone who doesn't suffer will never know how to fight". The best thing to do if someone is sad is show them they can trust you, ask them what's wrong and, if they don't want to say, just stay by their side. You don't even have to be close friends, just giving them a shoulder to cry on is enough.

Reminds me of Inside Out. This is basically its plot. :)

@raadtaha9405

2 жыл бұрын

omg i littirly got out of a inside out clip amd came to this video lol

To experience the highs in life you have to be able to endure the lows.

i am sad all the time. it is a constant feeling for me, it never goes away. i think happiness is an illusion

THIS IS SO IMPORTANT AND REAL

actually I started losing my feelings lately.. and I missed these feelings.. happiness.. love or even sadness..

This is exactly the video I needed. Family and Friends are always telling me that I only experience joy and happiness and cannot imagine being sad - but they never think of the possibility that I'm hiding other emotions in fear of getting hurt.

Amazing art, music, narrative... style! I must say it makes my soul tingle with sad and happy vibrations. Love it. Thank you!

'Some of you say, "Joy is greater thar sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater." But I say unto you, they are inseparable. Together they come, and when one sits, alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.' Kahlil Gibran - On Joy and Sorrow

@tiffanypersaud3518

6 жыл бұрын

This is quite beautiful and I feel quite accurate. We can enjoy and learn much from each of the two emotions.

One of School of Life's best videos I think. The realisation with the imagery and the comical acting is just genius! Love the bit with the calendar and post-it notes especially.

Well, I've been following you guys for a year + now. This one takes the cake. Thank you so, so much.

well, I don't need anyone to teach me about the area that I was born to be an expert on.

@salmonsticks4484

3 жыл бұрын

Then can you teach me how to be sad?

you open door only to realize it's floodgate.. usually right before going to sleep.

@tiffanypersaud3518

6 жыл бұрын

That happens a lot when I'm tired and rundown, which can really sap your hope. So sleep earlier, see if it helps. It did for me on a daily basis.

I really think I needed this. I'm a master of pushing away negative emotions and acting as though they don't exist. This technique worked for years, but I think it's time for me to grow up and except the negatives and the positives and learn to accepts all parts of being human.

You just helped me so much by explaining that tiny bit why pushing problems aside is bad.

Tears in my eyes, addicted to coffee, faking my happiness around family members and, oh yea, procrastinating my philosophy homework...Dying would be cool.

@armaanrounak5427

3 жыл бұрын

Yes same! But now 3 years passed you must be ok

when I started to feel sad this video came out, the timing is always perfect of these videos.

I needed this ty very much Mr de Button and everyone involved. The school of life is a treasure. TY

I like being sad. It inspires me. Unfortunately, I am mostly anxious these days...

Holy shit thankyou just thething i need, im crying of joynow thankyouu

in my experience apathy is sadness rationed for an expected infinite period at the tiniest proportion possible

This video really came to me at the right time and is very helpful. My grandfather unexpectedly passed away a couple of days ago and despite this I was forced to continue attending school. I had to pretend as if I was happy and I pushed all my feelings of sadness aside, only to have them ball up and make it much harder to accept what had happened. But after venting my emotions and letting myself cry, though I still feel a lot of pain, I am movingn towards feeling truly better

I always comment your videos the same thing but these short films rock! Whenever I share your videos on social media I feel extremely proud. Keep going mates!

I'm so happy about this video!

How can I be "Sad" when I've already been sad.

I started crying uncontrollably after watching this. I never realized it but it explains so much

People who are used to being distracted from their sadness need to perform the service on others. Most touching moment in this video for me is the "what did I do wrong?" moment. Poor girl!

I think I've gotten *too good* at this

happy 17. of may

Honestly i just gave up on happiness, its hard for me to feel, so I just decided to ignore it, say I'm bad and horrible for every mistake I've made. And that's my life now.

This hit me too hard... and made me kinda sad, but happy at the same time. It has given me some clairvoyance over myself... Thanks

Kinda remind me of Pixar's Inside Out

@DJSbros

7 жыл бұрын

Fight me you little bitch.

@herp_derpingson

7 жыл бұрын

4 hours too late

@jayfawn8478

7 жыл бұрын

Right. both joy and sad are annoying

@miiirky1904

7 жыл бұрын

Nathan Nathan It's Inside Out in a nutshell

@davidvoigt4575

7 жыл бұрын

Yup. I was looking for your comment.

Well great, but how to not be sad?

@ironwhy

7 жыл бұрын

sadness is created by unfulfilled expectations - so try to eliminate as many 'unecessary' expectations as possible and make others understand that they have 'no right' to expect anything from you. this is a very hard route, since almost everyone in our 'modern' society believes that one must be better, stronger, faster, richer and prettier but actually they are all just behaving like donkeys trying to reach the carrot on the stick... so - if you really want the sadness to fade, you will find a way to do it!

@Yayakoshii1990

7 жыл бұрын

Kryolyz Watch Kpop...More specifically watch VIXX's MV "Shangri La"...Totally worth your time.

@simeon54

7 жыл бұрын

I respectfully disagree. People have a right to expect to be realistically treated with kindness, care and respect, especially by those with whom we are in intimate relationships. That is part and parcel of being a mammal in a social setting. Whilst we can't force or control people to get these basic needs met, we can and should expect them, and if these needs are not met by specific people, we should go and find others who are willing to engage in a real relationship, where all people present are attempting to meet these most basic of needs: kindness, care and respect.

@tclarke910tc

7 жыл бұрын

Alcohol and drug abuse is the best way :)

@ironwhy

7 жыл бұрын

@Simeon I absolutely see your point and I do agree, that you should move on or away from anyone, who is not treating you respectfully - those people sadly do make one sick at heart... but asking anyone to treat you with 'kindness' or even 'care' is way too much to ask for - except of a few very special people in your life and even those might be the ones who might hurt you the most one day! it's not 'realistic' to expect. it's more 'realistic' to accept life like it is - full of people who care about no one but themself in the long run... try to see it this way: as long as you expect things, you are still believing in (fairy) tales told to you when you were a child. accepting the harsh reality is not fun but teaches you how to 'hold your ground' in bad times and might give you the opportunity to help some other people the way out of sadness (and worse things) some day...

Great video! So simple and yet so deep. Thank you for this, School of Life!

The art from this film is majestic.

My recommended: how to be sad Me: you fool, I have mastered this skill.

Wish I didn't know how to be sad

This is my new favorite video for sure. Thank you.

The graphics, the music and the integration of a short clip works very well together. I would say this was a very successful attempt at trying a new style of video. Needless to say, the content is spot on, as always.

the guy "sadness" & the girl "joy" this is so inside out lol

FRIDAY FRIDAY ....GOTTA GET DOWN ON FRIDAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!1111(one)

@dolantwinobssed4795

6 жыл бұрын

Horea T. 😑

I CANNOT get enough of his beautiful voice

these videos are so well made I love watching them so much

How to be sad: watch Titanic for the first time

@User-to7nb

7 жыл бұрын

Melissa Dobrea I'm 18 and I still didnt watch it

@Y2Kvids

7 жыл бұрын

Spoiler! Rose throws away a multi-million dollar diamond to waste.

@monika1885

7 жыл бұрын

Brain Storm yes, Hachi is one of the saddest movies I've seen, I bawl every time I watch it

@GenerationX1984

7 жыл бұрын

That's NOT the saddest movie. The saddest movie is the movie of the kid who dies of AIDS in the 1980's. Based on true events.

@BalkanPizza

7 жыл бұрын

the film that made me cry the most is "la vita è bella", about a dad trying to make the life of his son a game so he doesn't understand how sad it is to be in a ww2 concentration camp, but Titanic is more famous so.. Could you tell me the name of that film?

This is very true. Although it’s so hard to get over the numbness and emptiness and actually *feel* the sadness....

this resonated within me. it's time to make a change in my life for the better. thank you.

This was my absolute favourite video so far. The visuals were great, the content and the explenation of the topic. Kepp It up !

This is one of the greatest videos from you guys I have watched.

I resonate so well to this disallowance of pain tears are coming down my face as I try to smile.

Such a nice mix of techniques for the visual part! Beautiful.

i needed that... thank you

really love the visuals in this video, great job !!!

Thank you for this video, it will help me explain this to others.

I can't believe it, every time I think your videos can't get any better, they do :D keep up the great work, I have learned a lot from you

Thank you..

thankyou for this Video I really needed this ☺ you are amazing at this and so are your videos which truly give a true insight towards everything❤❤✌

Thank you so much for your channel. It really helps a lot. Also if anyone is thinking about buying anything from the shop, do it! I just got my order and the quality is amazing, shipping is quick and trackable, I'd recommend it 100%!

This really was open mindful, thank you

Perfect timing.

Never thought I'd have to look up this video topic. Needed it!

beautiful, beautiful. Thank You!

Hugs. Thank you

That moment when you have been so sad all day and School Of Life upload this video... thanks ♥

I never wanted this video to end. I liked it too much I found it relatable.

Thank You

This made me cry, for the right reasons

thank you so much for these vids

Thank you

I really like the visuals in this one. Good job!

Great video, lots of accurate information and insight

Worth coming back to often, great video!

I often come across people with attitudes similar to Freya's, especially on social websites. I don't talk to people who ignore facts, but I accept the way they think. It is however very rude and condescending to tell someone that they can't be sad, especially when they didn't talk to you in the first place. Also, good video! It helped me understand some things!

What a beautifully considered insight into all of us!

I need exactly this

loved the style of this video

There is time to laugh and time to cry. As simple and deep as it is and will always be.

I love the illustrations on this one

This was exactly what I needed right now

Loved this!

The theme of the videos always come at the perfect time in my life.

I love this video, you're so creative!

thank you

Amazing reflection!

Anyone remember the movie "inside out"? Where Joy always try to stop sadness from getting too close on the controller, yet sadness is as much as an important emotion to build a person as described in climax, where Riley returned home to her parents and started crying and feeling sorry because she just was sad of the situation on them moving from a different state.

One can dissect sadness to its truthful root and deal with it from a logical and pragmatic point of view!

you are right happiness and sadness are complementary to each other

I love her ring!