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How to be More Confident | 5 Ways to Increase Self-Confidence

Oh hey guys. Just a video about how to be the more confident version of yourself. Can do a more specific video about confidence, just lemme know in the comments.
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  • @mustafahatem9614
    @mustafahatem96145 жыл бұрын

    1- Have Values and stick to them 2- choose the few people whom you care about their opinion 3- affirm yourself 4- have a purpose 5- act confident even of you are nervous

  • @Synth2000

    @Synth2000

    5 жыл бұрын

    thx mustafa

  • @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385

    @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385

    4 жыл бұрын

    This r solid advices noice.

  • @gewurztramina

    @gewurztramina

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @DankDimensionMemes

    @DankDimensionMemes

    4 жыл бұрын

    666th like, oh man

  • @user-hz5rx1nw6t

    @user-hz5rx1nw6t

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh, thanks

  • @wronglayerbutok
    @wronglayerbutok5 жыл бұрын

    Never heard someone say " I love myself" so casually before. Refreshing

  • @stefanpupaleski4090

    @stefanpupaleski4090

    4 жыл бұрын

    ikr i had a bigger grin at that moment then when i saw boobs for the first time

  • @10BlackApple

    @10BlackApple

    4 жыл бұрын

    This one. It never hurts to tell someone that they are beautiful :)

  • @ShubhamKumar-sq2pg

    @ShubhamKumar-sq2pg

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@stefanpupaleski4090 lol 🤞

  • @lynnly2406

    @lynnly2406

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stefan Pupaleski 💀💀

  • @angelogerricoredona1220

    @angelogerricoredona1220

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, because whenever someone hears you say that, they will say you're few steps to narcissism or selfish, That's why we live in a society where people would rather hear negative things than face positivity, because they "feel" that negativity is more realistic to them and positivity is "fake" and "plastic". This is common in majority of the Philippines. Rather than be optimistic and resilient enough when adversity happens and adress them, they'd rather avoid it until it snowballs enough to affect the surroundings. Take our government for example.

  • @raflamar4146
    @raflamar41463 жыл бұрын

    "You're a secondary character in everyone else's lives." Hearing that cured my anxiety. Not immediately, obviously. But given time I've certainly become a whole lot more self-assured.

  • @PavelBarber
    @PavelBarber3 жыл бұрын

    I come to these videos with a notebook now. Keep up the great work and thanks for all the thoughtful info. Practical stuff everyone of us can apply.

  • @BananaManPlaysMC

    @BananaManPlaysMC

    3 жыл бұрын

    Funny seeing you here LOL

  • @Imaniseeu

    @Imaniseeu

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same lol

  • @jasondh4777
    @jasondh47775 жыл бұрын

    I've been suffering with really bad confidence and anxiety recently. I feel like I can really improve. Thank you for this video and your great advise keep up the great work! Thank you again

  • @particleconfig.8935

    @particleconfig.8935

    4 жыл бұрын

    exercise, frequently.

  • @Lazlo.

    @Lazlo.

    4 жыл бұрын

    if you watch porn, quit immediately. also avoid social media use at all costs.

  • @groundzero1041

    @groundzero1041

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep us updated man

  • @saidshikhizada332

    @saidshikhizada332

    3 жыл бұрын

    good luck!

  • @ilysaportax33

    @ilysaportax33

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@KENNETHTXMMA Because the label of what is "attractive" is detached from how you feel about yourself. And having sex and money and being hot aren't bad, but his point is that those things don't make anyone particularly fulfilled or happy in the long term. All backed by science: Human relationships make people happy, sex is just temporary pleasure. Being useful and contributing to ones community makes people happy, money is just temporary happiness and eventually your satisfaction will go away at every income level you achieve past $70k/year.

  • @azadjadav9731
    @azadjadav97315 жыл бұрын

    1) create and inculcate good values and stick to it 2) only take feedback from the ones who care about you 3) repeat affirmations at regular intervals 4) physiology influence psychology so make good posture and workout and act confident even when u r nervous 5) Have a purpose in life

  • @GrowthMindsetChannel
    @GrowthMindsetChannel5 жыл бұрын

    Wasn't expecting that badass intro haha, very nice

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wasn’t expecting that badass comment haha, very nice

  • @ceazargarcia4046

    @ceazargarcia4046

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@betterideas lol

  • @3therspark63

    @3therspark63

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@betterideas The song is pretty cool, did you composed it or know who did? I'd love to hear more of that! Love your vids BTW man! Helped me a lot !

  • @VeraliekeBusman
    @VeraliekeBusman4 жыл бұрын

    "Your opinion of yourself is the cornerstone of confidence." Good one. Also, love your humor :)

  • @LucyHunt

    @LucyHunt

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same! He's great!

  • @YukiKunikida

    @YukiKunikida

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's why always feel like sht. I think I'm a failure sice I haven't done the things I'm supposed to do at my age according to society.

  • @mimipipi120
    @mimipipi1204 жыл бұрын

    you're genuine and actually a kind person which is really refreshing on youtube

  • @estherschmid93
    @estherschmid933 жыл бұрын

    "Sacrifice what you want now for what you want most." Damn, that's my new motto! This video is so much more than about confidence, it's a real eye opener!

  • @brookelarsen7892
    @brookelarsen78924 жыл бұрын

    "You're going to produce the chemicals that make you feel like a beta male" Me as a female watching this: Oh no!

  • @shamrezarif3492

    @shamrezarif3492

    4 жыл бұрын

    Brooke Larsen loooool

  • @ngonz89

    @ngonz89

    4 жыл бұрын

    yep, I've been feeling like a beta male my whole life.

  • @saksham9170

    @saksham9170

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @BenignGamer7

    @BenignGamer7

    3 жыл бұрын

    I personally like that I'm a beta meta, don't try to change yourself just because society devalues some of your attributes.

  • @themostdiabolicalhater5986

    @themostdiabolicalhater5986

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jamie R somebody doesn’t know the alphabet lol

  • @richardw3347
    @richardw33474 жыл бұрын

    I learned of one the fastest ways to grow is being non-judgemental with yourself and be compassionate with yourself even if u mess up. still acknowledge what ever feelings come up if Angry etc. but then be more compassionate. u go back to focusing on a given task quicker which will make u more effective/productive and ultimately Accomplished.

  • @tacos6977
    @tacos69774 жыл бұрын

    Has anyone ever felt like ur scared of being confident? Like Everytime I try to stand confidently I'm scared of what I might have to go through being confident, I really don know how to explain it.

  • @randyra88

    @randyra88

    4 жыл бұрын

    First, it's about habit. Excellence is a habit, so get used to feeling confident. Secondly, if things happens to the confident version of yourself, so be it. Having things happened, good or bad, is better than having nothing happen to you, because anything at all will only serves you to grow as a person, so that ultimately someday you can grow into someone who is genuinely confident

  • @2a3ylin

    @2a3ylin

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's because you're not actually confident

  • @ExpertBustice

    @ExpertBustice

    4 жыл бұрын

    I get you, I think. I feel like if I put myself out there, I'm going to get in over my head and end up worse off.

  • @jdubs2113

    @jdubs2113

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well first, life isn’t about attraction and honestly life doesn’t have a definitive meaning-we as humans give it one. If you believe your meaning of life is attraction, then that’s you and you do you. Each person is different and have different meanings based on culture, religion, societal standards, etc. Sure telling the truth, sticking up for somebody, and being confident are attractive but most people don’t necessary do those things for the sole purpose of attraction-I guess attraction just comes with it if that makes any sense.

  • @jdubs2113

    @jdubs2113

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@KENNETHTXMMA Idk what you mean by that or where you got that from. Again, telling the truth, sticking up for somebody, being confident (examples you said) are all attractive but people don't do those things with the intent to be attractive. Another example would be taking care of my health/physical features. Doing these things might make me more attractive but I don't do those things to solely become attractive--it's just a side effect. Showering, exercising, having a good looking body, etc can make me physically attractive but I don't boast or brag about doing these things because that is when it becomes unattractive.

  • @rusty315
    @rusty3154 жыл бұрын

    Because of you I started inline skating again when I saw your “get out of your comfort zone” video. Skating has always been my fav thing to do but I have been down in the dumps for the past year. The repercussions of that skate day have been nothing but positive. Thank you so much for your amazingness 🌸🌸

  • @mash9104
    @mash91042 жыл бұрын

    Something that helped me with my confidence is not hiding who I am, because when you hide who you are you’re basically saying you’re ashamed of the basic truths about yourself. That’s why I started telling people about my aspergers, and admitting when I don’t know what something is. And pretty much whenever I’m embarrassed about something I try to admit it so it doesn’t weigh me down.

  • @alexcreamer7790
    @alexcreamer77904 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad I found your channel. I'm pursuing a music career, and it's so hard to develop healthy habits both physically and mentally and to have confidence (stable confidence that's not shaken by outside factors) when you're taking it day-by-day. But these have really helped me a lot. Keep it up!

  • @abhishekshukla9208
    @abhishekshukla92085 жыл бұрын

    content you gather is quintessence and the way you pass it on is also spectacular

  • @miloslavyavashev1034
    @miloslavyavashev10344 жыл бұрын

    honestly man. thank you for you. its really inspiring to see you talk in this stable, focused way. you make me feel calm and at home. i understand what you say on a spiritual level. its nice. sorry for my scrambled words. but really, thank you for being who you are, it helps me be me as well. keep on rocking brother!

  • @Malik-xg1hy
    @Malik-xg1hy4 жыл бұрын

    These videos have great content! ''you are the product of people you surround yourself with" - i agree

  • @ungnome9405
    @ungnome94055 жыл бұрын

    The power pose is so true with raising confidence, i know from experience

  • @brandonfarley5297
    @brandonfarley52974 жыл бұрын

    So I've come to realize why (in my opinion) you are the best KZreadr in this "Space". You go against the grain with "self-help" KZreadrs. Your not saying, "do x,y,z." Or pushing a product/service. Your simply documenting your process and sharing it. And that is Honorable. Thank you. You've helped me a lot. I started journaling as of last night and currently reading Carnegie's "how to win friends and influence people".

  • @graciem6562
    @graciem65624 жыл бұрын

    😂 The comedic relief moments are hilarious! Your dry humor lightened my mood. You just earned a new subscriber!

  • @ItsAsparageese
    @ItsAsparageese4 жыл бұрын

    Loving your sense of humor more and more with every video. I really like how much improv you keep in. It reminds me of me at my most socially successful -- this is the kind of humor and candor I try to go for. Really enjoying your content. :)

  • @Flybel
    @Flybel5 жыл бұрын

    I think the hardest part is not caring about opinions. I am devoloping confidence out of a depression i had and a few things you said really helped me befor. People like to think about them self as important to random people. When i'm sitting in the train no one cares about my close, no one cares about the way i sit. They all just think about themself, or what they are about to do. Another thing that helped really much, that you missed in youre Video is this. It is important not to compare youreself to often to others and if you do, dont just see the things youre bad in. I allways was looking at people, thinking about what they can and how useless i am compared to them, but i never watched the other way around. I'm maybe bad at the things i'm doing, but so many people, don't do anything at all, using there free time to watch Tv, compared to them i'm working at developing something. Building my own abilities.

  • @amanim.1815
    @amanim.18155 жыл бұрын

    I'm wondering why don't you have more subs ! You deserve WAY more ! Great content 👏😍

  • @xXPedoPanda42Xx

    @xXPedoPanda42Xx

    5 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agree!

  • @daysandwords

    @daysandwords

    5 жыл бұрын

    And voila, he has it. Make good content first, keep at it... and the subs will come.

  • @wem3121

    @wem3121

    3 жыл бұрын

    He's got 1M now and he so deserves it 😍

  • @joyfulsoul5094
    @joyfulsoul50944 жыл бұрын

    I like that you put decent beats as background, im also appreciate that usually u get straight to the topic and explain things pretty fast. Keep up

  • @NITNIT-nb
    @NITNIT-nb3 жыл бұрын

    What I do is I just do it. Like once I was nervous talking to a girl but I did it anyways and the next day I wasn’t nervous because I knew what was going to happen so just doing it can also be a good way to become confident

  • @Arubaansar
    @Arubaansar3 жыл бұрын

    Working on intrinsic qualities first can make us a potent person rather than just focusing on imitating powerful postures! Great video👍

  • @Dondlo46
    @Dondlo462 жыл бұрын

    Another way to boost your confidence is to take risks in social situations, if you're shy to talk to someone, just go and talk to them, even if it feels really awkward. You'll feel way more confident if you do that often.

  • @rodrigodemarchi1184
    @rodrigodemarchi11845 жыл бұрын

    glad u are back! all of them are valuable tips! Especially the first one, being authentic and acting according to your values is key to be more confident. Because after any decision is taken you get the feeling that u did it right! ps: the introduction was fire, crazy good! As a guy who is getting into filmmaking can I ask what was your process to learn about shooting and editing? Did u take a course or only youtube university?

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hey Rodrigo, glad you enjoyed the video. I’ve been making videos all my life, so I’ve definitely picked up a few things along the way. Yes I’ve taken some courses but the majority of what I’ve learned has been trial, error, and FilmRiot.

  • @rodrigodemarchi1184

    @rodrigodemarchi1184

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@betterideas Thanks man! I'm gonna check FilmRiot! Keep going and love ur channel!

  • @yevgeniyzaslavskiy5623
    @yevgeniyzaslavskiy56235 жыл бұрын

    You are actually the first person, where I have enabled notifications throughout all of my subscriptions. Thats because you are real, show your flaws and giving the life meaningful advice. Keep up the good work, your are helping me as well as other people.

  • @hoangminhtoan5833
    @hoangminhtoan58333 жыл бұрын

    This is the best video I have ever watched on youtube. It is a milestone for me when I start to influence others from what I have learnt in this video. Thank you Joey very much !

  • @rudyv.7406
    @rudyv.74063 жыл бұрын

    I think a video on how to combat different 'styles' of negative self thought would be very useful. Like, if you have no problem telling yourself in the morning in your mind that you love yourself, but when you mess up you play a memory montage of every time you've ever messed up in your entire life, or have like a conversation with your employer in your mind about getting fired every morning, it's not as easy to correct, since it comes from an 'authoritative' source in your mind

  • @s.o.k.1393
    @s.o.k.13934 жыл бұрын

    IMO: You gotta recognize your strengths, your achievements even if nobody else does. You need to be proud of your victories, even if they are small in the grand scheme of things.

  • @Theoatrix
    @Theoatrix4 жыл бұрын

    Grats on 250k!!

  • @Proposal12
    @Proposal123 жыл бұрын

    One thing that helped me was exposure therapy , and blending out the "noise" in public , meaning not being indifferent , but not caring and knowing that majority of people really are in their own "worlds" and not focused on you as much as your mind plays tricks on you. Also another thing is to approach people randomly for whatever reason, I was at the gym one day and the guy next to me in the locker room , I thought was an "ass" because of his "demeanor" , I then spoke to him and asked him if it would bother him if I took a selfie as it might include him, he laughed and said no go ahead , I then asked him if he would mind taking the pics and he asked if it was for keeping "Progress", I told him yeah it is , he then took several shots and we left on a "good vibe note" , Had I not done that, my thoughts about him wouldn´t of changed and I would´ve never known otherwise. The mind is a terrible place , if you let it, and by not letting it , you simply do the opposite even if it´s just to prove it wrong, if it does happen that it was right well then it´s not "i told you this would be the case" considering how could you have possibly known.... With that said, do I lack confidence? What defines confidence, is their a scale of measurement for it? These are more the questions I ask myself...

  • @BeOutstanding
    @BeOutstanding5 жыл бұрын

    create strong values and live according to them, choose whose opinions you care about, affirm yourself, have a purpose, act confidence even if you are nervous: power posing.

  • @vasylmalyshka4346
    @vasylmalyshka43465 жыл бұрын

    Thanks bro! I enjoy your work as you provide valuable ideas and try to live as you say. This video was great and useful for me as I’m working on living more balanced life right now. Keep it up!

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the comment! Glad you dig

  • @matthewmolinar
    @matthewmolinar4 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are helping a lot. I recently just transferred into a top Engineering school from community college .. and a lot of the things I thought about myself and my ways of doing things were shattered. I am really looking at everything and seeing where I can become my best self.

  • @haririshaheen
    @haririshaheen4 жыл бұрын

    Honestly they should have classes in school like this with you teaching it. I needed this

  • @zakh3108
    @zakh31083 жыл бұрын

    I have something to say about the "no-one's thinking about you" part. I'm the type of person who kinda picks up on everything in an interaction. I guess you could say I'm observant. I notice every mistake, action, pronunciation, facial expression etc and it slightly influences how I see that person. I don't do it on purpose, I don't make it obvious and I never mention it but it's something that I naturally do. So it's kinda hard for me to think nobody else picks up on stuff like that. That's 1 reason why I'm not confident in interactions; I become extremely self-conscious. Also, I ruminate over what I observed and my on actions, words and expressions long after the interaction. Not intentionally. I guess those are things I'm gonna need to learn to get over.

  • @jasinta5390

    @jasinta5390

    3 жыл бұрын

    i completely see you. i have that exact same problem, i think to myself that nobody picks up on that sort of stuff but i personally do and thats why i'm scared others will pick up on my mistakes. at the same time i really dont care about those mistakes. they calm me down in a way because obviously i'm not the only one who makes these "mistakes" we'll get there though haha :))

  • @jonathancastillo4269
    @jonathancastillo42694 жыл бұрын

    Everytime I watch your videos it’s just reminds me how glad I am to have stumbled upon your channel one day and chose to actually listen as opposed to just scheming through videos on KZread and not actually watching or listening ,I was always looking for that instant gratification dopamine hit from a video. But with your content.... Just by the way you introduce everything and discuss/breakdown is perfect. You’ve been helping me a lot through these troubling times, and I’m now allowing myself to reach my true potential when I thought I was getting close to what I “wanted” in life. Just really been opening my eyes a lot. For that I thank you. For real dude I genuinely mean that cause I don’t really comment shit like this on KZread. But I always give thanks to someone who has helped me to a great extent.

  • @SOGBarak
    @SOGBarak4 жыл бұрын

    9:26 Anyone else instantly start sitting up straighter?

  • @colonelrubix

    @colonelrubix

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mr_seady

    @mr_seady

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@KENNETHTXMMA There is no meaning to life: you choose the meaning you give it. I can't prove you wrong on the subjective meaning you gave your life. People don't need to be attractive to have money or have sex. Those traits you've mentioned are attractive to you. I don't think I'd have sex with any physician who has money, is learning a language, and is delaying gratification. I've heard other people say the meaning of life is happiness, and I could reframe what you said by saying that learning a language, working out to keep in shape, being more confident, and anything else that puts me more in line with my values makes me happy

  • @mr_seady

    @mr_seady

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@KENNETHTXMMA I didn't expect these thought provoking replies, thanks for that. I believe in what you're saying to an extent, I just don't believe we have the same definition of "attractive" or the same definition of "happiness," and both of these might be closer than we think. I just watched a really long video about Happiness by Will Schoder, and there are multiple theories on happiness. It seems you're thinking of the hedonistic definition, where happiness is pleasure, and a happy person is a person who has the most pleasure. To be happy, someone should then strive to have dopamine boosts like playing video games, having sex, etc., but these rarely bring long term happiness, and what you describe as being attractive might be what brings you long term happiness. Now, I wasn't even saying in my previous comment that I think the meaning of life is happiness, I just thought it was subjective, and that for some, it was happiness. For others, it could be making the world a better place, even if you live an unhappy life, or an unattractive one. For others, it could be a nihilistic meaning to life, where there's no meaning, and you can do whatever you want, because it won't matter anyway. Thanks for your replies, I'm glad you took the time to write this out, and I hope you have a good week!

  • @antonyperez7486
    @antonyperez74863 жыл бұрын

    I've been straggeling with shyness, but I'm working on overcoming it. I know for sure I'll soon say: I did it.

  • @eki5333

    @eki5333

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing now? Have you made it? You still on some progress?

  • @nella10123

    @nella10123

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are things now

  • @ScrubsTheNewcomers
    @ScrubsTheNewcomers5 жыл бұрын

    You produce amazing videos, I was very surprised when I saw this had only 2k views. I would love to see a little summary and/or conclusion at the end of the video, other than that, great quality content!

  • @LucyHunt
    @LucyHunt3 жыл бұрын

    "have a purpose" something you do for you is an instant confidence booster, wonderful advice! Thank you :)

  • @Mohammed_alee
    @Mohammed_alee3 жыл бұрын

    It effects a little bit yes when you are around people who never learn something or go to the gym or do their needs in life .. but at the end what I discovered is that I do all everything and all my friends don’t do it at all , so that’s mean we are stronger than the society around us . Thank you

  • @VTM9126
    @VTM91264 жыл бұрын

    That intro was insanely satisfying. Lol

  • @abdelhafidchanane7131
    @abdelhafidchanane71314 жыл бұрын

    I like when he harshly reminds us that we are not special 😢😂😂

  • @beneveritt2720
    @beneveritt27204 жыл бұрын

    I like how you unwind and sometimes mess around in your actual videos. Its nice to see youtubers who are actually casual and not taking things too seriously

  • @EpochEmerge
    @EpochEmerge3 жыл бұрын

    May be someone mentioned it already - Steven Covey in his book also addresses that having HIGH values is the most important thing you can do. That`s your compass and you have to stick to it over and over in every situation. There is an example in the book like you are going to have an evening to spend with your family - theater, cinema, dinner etc. And here your boss calls you and asks if you could get to your work now and work some extra hours. And what is going next - you either except it or not. BUT the same decision can be both effective and uneffective at the same time. It`s all about your values. If you value your family over career, but you afraid to make your boss unhappy - you go to work and that`s bad decision. But if you value your family and see opportunity in this extra work or if you want to earn more for them - then going to work is good decision. It`s an obvious example and in the book there are much deeper understanding given but you know it

  • @samiko6091
    @samiko60914 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! So fed up of "be happy by not caring what others think" it's a cop out where as this was perfectly worded!

  • @hanselmora1
    @hanselmora14 жыл бұрын

    Beyond acting confidently when nervous, not wanting to run away from the nervousness and taking action even when you’re in fear, can build a lot of confidence too. You can’t be brave if you are not afraid.

  • @AkS143joyful
    @AkS143joyful7 ай бұрын

    He is so wise and It is amazing to me. I am 42 and he is much younger and just so wise. Really beautiful

  • @snugglebug5274
    @snugglebug52744 жыл бұрын

    You’re a light bro ❤️

  • @cannpl10
    @cannpl103 жыл бұрын

    Best thing to happen to me (so far) this year has been finding out this channel, and the fact that the fella is Canadian too is even more awesome 😂

  • @vincentm99
    @vincentm995 жыл бұрын

    7:32 Yes, you do And everyone is different. It's a hard philosophical question, but not a hard questions at all for just yourself. Search for what brings you happiness and long term pleasure

  • @jefgibbons
    @jefgibbons5 жыл бұрын

    Sweet video, love the intro! Some great truths in here.

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jef! Great to see you in the comments.

  • @ashrafnagy4886

    @ashrafnagy4886

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is the song name in that intro ❤

  • @joseulissescastro4883
    @joseulissescastro48835 жыл бұрын

    The awesome part is that he gives all that advice and in a really grounded and regular way.

  • @marcella3030
    @marcella30303 жыл бұрын

    Those videos have been like short sessions of therapy and English practicing, I'm loving it

  • @gavrailstefanov23
    @gavrailstefanov235 жыл бұрын

    Man, I just found about you and I'm completely addicted to your videos. You are definitely on your way to becoming real big real soon.

  • @jaelee4244
    @jaelee42445 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are wayyy too good!⭐️ this vid is like the sixth one ive watched in a row. Thank u for the amazing content😄

  • @maddyG7414
    @maddyG74142 жыл бұрын

    Definitely thought I was watching an ad for coffee at first. ✨

  • @maskedmotion1199
    @maskedmotion11994 жыл бұрын

    The posture thing is so true: stronger in body, stronger in mind

  • @FluffyFractalshard
    @FluffyFractalshard5 жыл бұрын

    dude, your insights are so awesome and straight to the point! also: whats the track ID of the intro song? its such a cool tune! :)

  • @SilentPaaw

    @SilentPaaw

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's "Cody High - Another Night". Instantly fell in love with it, as I started the video. Having Shazam on the Phone helps alot :)

  • @FluffyFractalshard

    @FluffyFractalshard

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SilentPaaw hey thanks! didnt think of shazam although i hav it too xD

  • @VladPodlevskyi
    @VladPodlevskyi Жыл бұрын

    4 years ago, and still amazing tips. Tnx.

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    It works. I used to have these. I lost most of them recently and now I hate myself. The standing straight thing really works tho. I don’t shy away from confrontations and I will fight someone if they attack me. I make eye contact with everyone I pass by. I still hate myself tho. I lost my reason to live, some mentors, and a close friend all at once. Damn this video made me sad lol

  • @jayqsamo
    @jayqsamo4 жыл бұрын

    That b-roll footage of you making Chrystal Meth in the beginning was dope.

  • @clara_s.s.
    @clara_s.s. Жыл бұрын

    I love your sense of humor!!!

  • @duruerturul1914
    @duruerturul19144 жыл бұрын

    okay i think i can get over bpd and anxiety with your videos cuz these are making me care about myself and makes me more motivated

  • @brokenbutterfly3178

    @brokenbutterfly3178

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's just a feeling. It will go away and you'll be back to the way you were

  • @brycebehan3707
    @brycebehan37075 жыл бұрын

    and we back.

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah dawg

  • @sultanmikaili8054
    @sultanmikaili80542 жыл бұрын

    On self affirm,i use Fight Club trick,if you know you know,So when you start talking positively to yourself whether your is messed up or not,whatever your situation is,and you feel like you interviewing yourself and that's kinda boring (for me) so i use FIGHT CLUB TRICK,seriously guys,you don't have to think that you have another person live in yourself so you have 2 person in one body,NO!.Just think that you have a friend,that friend is actually you but better,but best.All you do is just to talk positive to yourself,be like this be like that blabalblabla,and sometimes imagine he/she is screaming to you to energize yourself.Believe it or not it works.100% works.

  • @Srieire
    @Srieire4 жыл бұрын

    Great video, would say that 1 and 4 are the big ones. Most people don't even decide what what would be best for them, and to really go for it.

  • @BrandonBRich
    @BrandonBRich4 жыл бұрын

    Hey I just wanted to say thank you for being so amazing and sharing your knowledge it really helps. Also I love the camera zooms, the black and white filter, and the echo edits keep them up I’m literally crying 😂

  • @luffytaro5951
    @luffytaro59512 жыл бұрын

    1) Have values/Rules and stick to them 2) Choose wisely who you hang out with 3) Affirm yourself 4) Have a Goal/purpose 5) Act confident even when you are not walk with good Posture

  • @leonkullig5852
    @leonkullig58523 жыл бұрын

    I already use most of these "tips" in my everyday life (espacially the 1st and 3rd one, they really great) and its awesome. I never thought that these are some kind of tips and that there are videos bout this stuff, pretty dope

  • @vexingblackswan3866
    @vexingblackswan38664 жыл бұрын

    One of your videos every morning makes me have a kick ass day , thank you sir

  • @tagaway6173
    @tagaway61735 жыл бұрын

    Finished the video! ♡ first video I've seen from you! Great tips! Now... I would start working on these tips but for starters, I don't have a purpose or reason to get going. So until then, I can't show confidence fully, lol. But seriously, good tips.

  • @tonderlane4868
    @tonderlane48683 жыл бұрын

    Your videos are ADORABLE. Thank you for being so authentic!!!

  • @ThatGuy-yc9yc
    @ThatGuy-yc9yc4 жыл бұрын

    The word your looking for is not happy but joyful, happy is what you get when you receive your dose of pleasure, but it doesn't last long, but joy is something you can have even if your going through a tough time. So being joyful will make you happy but happiness wont (always) give you joy. the reason people make this mistake is because words and their meaning have been abused a lot in this day and age...

  • @TheMidnightModder
    @TheMidnightModder3 жыл бұрын

    Good values aren't subjective. That isn't how life works. There's isn't "my truth" it's "the truth" God created the values and we're here to follow them.

  • @tomasmiranda1174
    @tomasmiranda11745 жыл бұрын

    1) Create strong values and live according to them 2)Choose whose opinion you care about 3)Affirm Yourself(be sympathetic with yourself) 4)Have a Purpose 5) Act confident even if you're nervous Personal comment: Love Yourself. You are the greatest person alive and your mission as a human being is to give love to everyone and everything around you, and it's impossible to do this if you don't know what love really is, which can only be learn by experiencing it with yourself first. What you give, you get. Everything begins from you. Pure love to everyone (specially to the ones who dedicate their time to make other people's life better, like Mr. Better Ideas) ❤

  • @dylanford9929
    @dylanford99293 жыл бұрын

    Wow, when he was talking about choosing the friends who benefit your goals and are striving for greatness themselves I had to laugh. My entire life including everyone I knew of in secondary and college, were categorically not that. I’m not sure if I’m in as weird place but I’ve found this with people I’ve met outside of that. I had a singular friend I knew was of this description but we sadly moved apart because of uni. Coming to uni, I expected a certain type of person, not all of course but I expected people to be able to think objectively and be genuine, shouldn’t be too hard? I spoke to every person in my class, one person. I really fear for the future of the world and even now at 18 worry for my children and how/what and who they will grow up around.

  • @AkS143joyful
    @AkS143joyful7 ай бұрын

    Your on your own side - powerful

  • @DavidLibermann
    @DavidLibermann5 жыл бұрын

    I love you man , i know I gonna meet you one day and this is gonna be conversation of the year buddy lol . Thank you for doing what you like , that helps me, a lot 🙏

  • @jellypeanutbutter666
    @jellypeanutbutter6665 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for all the b-roll and discussion of coffee in the beginning!

  • @bohdanbilous9
    @bohdanbilous94 жыл бұрын

    Music really made me more confident around 15%. Now I just need watch it again and start to listen :D But seriously it is super important stuff. I constantly trying to improve my confidence. Also i found important to try new stuff and make more mistakes it is make you more power to move on next time. Whenever your life change, you will stay strong lately.

  • @derpferdeflusterer3460
    @derpferdeflusterer34605 жыл бұрын

    5:34 so, if the mentor's also think this way, why would they surround themselves with you?

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hard to surround yourself with one person, unless that person is stretchy

  • @blueshanks1

    @blueshanks1

    5 жыл бұрын

    I've always thought of that.

  • @jauxro

    @jauxro

    4 жыл бұрын

    kinky

  • @maisonlatte5415

    @maisonlatte5415

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe they will see potential in you and get you were you are meant to be

  • @alexanderj.6701

    @alexanderj.6701

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think there's a distinction between your peers and those you mentor. When you mentor someone, in your mind you know you've already become what that someone's only trying to become, and thus knowing they're not yet at your level you don't tend to learn from them, they learn from you. You learn from those who're on the same level with you or higher, inadvertently or otherwise.

  • @bigboicloud
    @bigboicloud4 жыл бұрын

    This is one and only video that realy works for me. Tnx

  • @chaitanyasonavane3871
    @chaitanyasonavane38715 жыл бұрын

    Great Video !! But I have a suggestion that it would be better if you would mention the book names in description(In videos you mention them). Loved your video.

  • 4 жыл бұрын

    If a person doesn't care about what the others think, he doesn't care what you think!

  • @RobertsonDarkoh
    @RobertsonDarkoh5 жыл бұрын

    Great advice, thanks bro!

  • @betterideas

    @betterideas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Robertson!

  • @HernanHH95
    @HernanHH953 жыл бұрын

    I’ve not made good financial decisions and that puts me in a spot that I have confidence but my financial situation pulls me back....

  • @tejasj8740
    @tejasj87404 жыл бұрын

    day#2 I loved the video and the way you proclaimed the context Keep up the good work man!

  • @plompennilsson2427
    @plompennilsson24275 жыл бұрын

    Omg this video was so fkn fire. These are genuine and true tips from your own experience that you’ve cooked up just to share with us. Love it. The first one was actually a bit of a mind blower for me. Also, some feedback: mabye the video is a bit overedited with the zoom ins/outs all the time. Just my opinion.

  • @mikastsodikov1396
    @mikastsodikov13963 жыл бұрын

    Holy crap you should write a book. I hate reading, but for this I would totally do it

  • @noah10432
    @noah104324 жыл бұрын

    Really Enjoy your content! it's very helpful and i hope you continue cause it's helps a lot. Thank you so much!!

  • @miramilaia
    @miramilaia5 жыл бұрын

    I just found your channel and I'm loving your editing and videos in general! You've earned a new subscriber!

  • @unknown_chillhuman
    @unknown_chillhuman3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot.. dude this is the exact video I need to be more confident in school or whenever else. I am hesitating on making new friends in school who are older than me.. to be surounded by other people and not only the same ones I hangout in class. Don't get me wrong I do appreciate them but I want to get to know more people. Yeah also working on my confidence to participate in class more. Thanks a lot bro

  • @tafadzwamunezvenyu7623
    @tafadzwamunezvenyu76235 жыл бұрын

    This is brilliant and so practical. Thank you!