How Social-Emotional Learning Benefits Everyone | Caige Jambor | TEDxBemidji

We breathe without even thinking about it. However, when we do start to think about each breath, something changes. Likewise, when we pause to consider what is really going on with the people around us, some things become remarkably clear. Childhood trauma can affect a person’s entire life, but changing how we respond to others makes a big difference to individuals and our whole society. Caige Jambor explains how social-emotional learning (SEL) changes the conversation from “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?” and how everyone can begin to use SEL tools. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @MrDawnRise
    @MrDawnRise2 жыл бұрын

    This Sourh Park episode writes itself

  • @gc2696

    @gc2696

    2 жыл бұрын

    I stuck with it for 2mins 30 secs.... who died at the end ?

  • @paolaferrer6013
    @paolaferrer60134 жыл бұрын

    I only watched this due to an activity for my English class

  • @DalwinderS

    @DalwinderS

    3 жыл бұрын

    lmao me too

  • @gord2508

    @gord2508

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @RealNezy

    @RealNezy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gord2508 U from info tech?

  • @RealNezy

    @RealNezy

    3 жыл бұрын

    kosagar yo thats cool g, what grade r u

  • @RealNezy

    @RealNezy

    3 жыл бұрын

    kosagar ooff, i’m a freshman ;((

  • @sync_mxlly5610
    @sync_mxlly56103 жыл бұрын

    I had to watch this for my pe class.

  • @bizcutss8642

    @bizcutss8642

    3 жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @sidneyali2560

    @sidneyali2560

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bizcutss8642 me too

  • @nitrox3852

    @nitrox3852

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bizcutss8642 Same

  • @Cools911

    @Cools911

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Soul-xi1qr

    @Soul-xi1qr

    3 жыл бұрын

    same in highschool pe class

  • @ginamcewen8167
    @ginamcewen81674 жыл бұрын

    Really makes you think about what students go through daily.

  • @williamcribb1044
    @williamcribb10443 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @gnamissibarockkiansi7781
    @gnamissibarockkiansi7781 Жыл бұрын

    That makes total sense

  • @joellowe5373
    @joellowe5373 Жыл бұрын

    thank you.... Amazing

  • @KOSMICole
    @KOSMICole4 жыл бұрын

    Mindfulness is an ongoing practice. To let go of expectations and deal with the moment at hand. This a is a good reminder to slow down, reflect and then act.

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh Жыл бұрын

    thanks for the video

  • @DembysPlayfulParables
    @DembysPlayfulParables4 жыл бұрын

    Investing in teaching S.E.L. a little everyday will help create a self-corrected classroom in the long run! This is very important.

  • @kellymerrill5294

    @kellymerrill5294

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm finding it doesn't work. Our school implemented SEL two years ago and I'm seeing twice the amount of behavior issues. Perhaps it's being implemented poorly and I want it to work, yet kids know the consequences are kindness and compassion rather than... consequences. When they want a brain break or a snack they just misbehave and bingo SEL to the rescue.

  • @gial8862

    @gial8862

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kellymerrill5294 , there is a lot of info online explaining that SEL sets up children for communal thinking and socialized solutions rather than independent thoughts and success going their own way. I dont have a lot of experience with it yet, but im learning about it with skepticism

  • @funnyguyinlondon

    @funnyguyinlondon

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kellymerrill5294 emotional support chocolate?

  • @FerristotheBueller

    @FerristotheBueller

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@funnyguyinlondonSEL is why the kids who are pushed out the door are unable to read and write at the 12th grade level.

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey85182 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! The comments section are full of people who sound scared of emotions!

  • @boilingindahoodbyladytamel9304
    @boilingindahoodbyladytamel93042 жыл бұрын

    Amazing absolutely amazing thanks for the eye opener.

  • @johnnyphive8197

    @johnnyphive8197

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sarcasm? I hope so.

  • @toms8393
    @toms8393 Жыл бұрын

    This is how you create a hive-mind.

  • @funnyguyinlondon

    @funnyguyinlondon

    Жыл бұрын

    An indistinguishable bee. Scary thought

  • @JaneMarksHastig
    @JaneMarksHastig5 жыл бұрын

    Well done Caige! I want to live in a world where everyone practices SEL skills. Thank you!

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    That's because you are a weak person

  • @jackiej.4387
    @jackiej.43872 жыл бұрын

    Well done Mr. Caige! Loved it.

  • @BridgettSmith-ke2fh
    @BridgettSmith-ke2fh Жыл бұрын

    this was cool

  • @GabrielleSolange
    @GabrielleSolange4 жыл бұрын

    thank youuuuuu i love it

  • @jacquelineburgan6787
    @jacquelineburgan67874 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!!! I could relate to this video. We have to be very careful to really listen to what people are saying or not saying. We must practice SEL skills. Great Job!!!!

  • @judyhoward5719
    @judyhoward57194 жыл бұрын

    I can relate this video to my on life being abused as a child. it has helped in my teaching using these strategies that i wish had been used n me when i went through my difficult times

  • @buggyboo25

    @buggyboo25

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same. I hope you are doing well these days ❤️️

  • @gymvision1905

    @gymvision1905

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro I'm going throw it now when it end

  • @redcedar8292
    @redcedar8292 Жыл бұрын

    They have done a Bait and Switch. It's no longer SEL, it is now Transformative SEL. Big difference

  • @drujones8883
    @drujones88832 жыл бұрын

    yessir thats my old teacher bro

  • @ArmerKhanachang
    @ArmerKhanachang3 жыл бұрын

    thanks for sharing good details about SEL

  • @johnnyphive8197

    @johnnyphive8197

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really?

  • @creativemind8406
    @creativemind84064 жыл бұрын

    I'm interested in learning and becoming a trainer/teacher.

  • @whitemagus2000

    @whitemagus2000

    2 жыл бұрын

    Top psychologists are calling this dangerously manipulative of young children.

  • @gc2696

    @gc2696

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@whitemagus2000 oooops.....they called it out ? sayonara practice license 🙏🏻👋🏻

  • @tigergirrl
    @tigergirrl3 жыл бұрын

    Who is here because of PE class?

  • @aim8174
    @aim81744 жыл бұрын

    People and parents should really think how what they do can impact there children or young family members

  • @gymvision1905

    @gymvision1905

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    Or maybe kids shouldn't be being made progressively weaker by the removal of any and all adversity by people who have no business having any involvement at all

  • @mh.m4653
    @mh.m46534 жыл бұрын

    SEL

  • @tallyho1506
    @tallyho15062 жыл бұрын

    This is what alcoholism is for, it’s worked since the dawn of time.

  • @Voornoek
    @Voornoek Жыл бұрын

    HAHAHA YES YEEES! KEEP DOING THIS! in every school, in every community, this should be implemented! REMEMBER: weak men make hard times, hard times make strong men. the cycle continues... ACCELERATE THIS SH*T

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    You clearly don't understand that this is designed to create weak men

  • @FerristotheBueller
    @FerristotheBueller9 ай бұрын

    And this right here is exactly why 18 yr olds who are pushed out the door, are years behind in math and reading comprehension.

  • @1browngirl29
    @1browngirl292 жыл бұрын

    The comment section is full of people who could have used SEL as a child and could still use it now Watch them run and scream from SEL in ignorance

  • @johnnycassell4338
    @johnnycassell4338 Жыл бұрын

    SEL: Helping build children, one thundercuck at a time.

  • @paolaferrer6013
    @paolaferrer60134 жыл бұрын

    Hiiii

  • @gymvision1905
    @gymvision19052 жыл бұрын

    Does it ends plz give me answer

  • @adamdrouin2295
    @adamdrouin2295 Жыл бұрын

    This all sounds so nice and sugar coated but the reality is that it enables teachers and aides to essentially practice psychology on children in public schools without a license and without the parents knowledge or consent. It is the state, through the public school system, pushing values on your kids that an administrator decides. An administrator who is almost guaranteed to be a progressive liberal whose ideas will permeate every aspect of the curriculum Funny how he mentions the WEF and "Stakeholders". Equally terrifying is his use of a chime at the beginning and end if his little talk. I suppose we are to react as Pavlov's dogs did. It's actually sickening

  • @mrswags73

    @mrswags73

    Жыл бұрын

    I couldn’t agree more. Notice the SEL diagram shows the schools in the center of the ring. Then community, and at the very last outer ring is parents/families. It should be the opposite, the family should be the nucleus of a child’s life, then community, then schools.

  • @redcedar8292

    @redcedar8292

    Жыл бұрын

    Look up James Lindsey, and what he has to say about this. Not for the easily distracted, but he digs and lays out the real foundation and goal of SEL.

  • @MrChampionchimp

    @MrChampionchimp

    Жыл бұрын

    Because this is forced on the school as a school teacher...noh?

  • @gSWG3R

    @gSWG3R

    9 ай бұрын

    Oh please, at the end of the day, the word "liberalism" triggers you and prevents you from actually being critical and engaged with this concept. Tin foil hat down, clown.

  • @Pawltron

    @Pawltron

    7 ай бұрын

    Ditto. Read “Race Marxism” by James Lindsey. Transformative SEL is how school children are prepped to accept socialism, Marxism and communism.

  • @bowler3329
    @bowler33292 жыл бұрын

    SEL is a shipwreck.

  • @abhilasha9608
    @abhilasha96082 жыл бұрын

    Comment section did not pass the vibe check

  • @SF-og3fq
    @SF-og3fq2 жыл бұрын

    Invokes WEF

  • @scrappydoo7887
    @scrappydoo7887 Жыл бұрын

    Trust TED to put a supporting view of this on. Teachers should teach. Beyond that they should have no involvement with the kids at all.

  • @MrChampionchimp

    @MrChampionchimp

    Жыл бұрын

    ....teach what?

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrChampionchimp is that supposed to be a good question? They should stick to the things that kids need to know in order to be more intelligent and capable in basic skills. What they shouldn't do or be able to do is shape a child's mind in the way they see fit

  • @FerristotheBueller

    @FerristotheBueller

    9 ай бұрын

    ​​@@MrChampionchimp Math, Eglish, History, and Science. Teachers are not supposed to be teaching anything "social".

  • @shadymccoy7

    @shadymccoy7

    3 ай бұрын

    Only teach academics and not teach social/emotional skills and see how chaotic the students act. This is not being taught at home, so where are they gonna learn it???? 🤔 They spend most of their waking hours per week at school...🤔🤔🤔

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    3 ай бұрын

    @@shadymccoy7 no. There should be a better culture of parenting and less culture of consumerism and selfish behaviour. Parents managed just fine without the interference of the state in the family. They can again provided there's some actual reality based expectations

  • @ambrosewilliam33
    @ambrosewilliam332 жыл бұрын

    S.E.L. and C.R.T. should not be utilized in the classroom nor used as a basis for a curriculum that is taught to kids of any age level. There are several hundreds of schools across this country where the kids can't complete Math, Science, or other subjects at their own grade level because the schools would rather focus on BS. Just my 2 cents.

  • @littlebabyhoho6750

    @littlebabyhoho6750

    2 жыл бұрын

    Summary... be kind and considerate. Don't be rash. Think. Be honest.

  • @gc2696

    @gc2696

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mao said : Indoctrination must begin with toddlers.

  • @1browngirl29

    @1browngirl29

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your ignorance is screaming in your message

  • @waitwhat6059
    @waitwhat60592 жыл бұрын

    I think I lost it at the bell. So we're not supposed to say "what is wrong with Josh," but rather "what happened to Josh" -- which essentially positions Josh as a victim and devoid of his own agency. Perfect conditions for Josh to learn to trust the nurturing school and hate his bickering, insensitive parents! See how this works?

  • @abbeybattaini99

    @abbeybattaini99

    2 жыл бұрын

    Missed the point 🎯

  • @abhilasha9608

    @abhilasha9608

    2 жыл бұрын

    Josh *is* the victim, he's a CHILD. The adults should know better. Josh being a child he's still developing and environment plays a big factor on what he learns and how he learns it. In my perspective, the adults failed Josh by not modelling on how to manage and work with their emotions, but using him as a safer option to take out the stress of their emotions on.

  • @thejuiceking2219

    @thejuiceking2219

    Жыл бұрын

    so you think it's wrong to ask why someone is the way that they are?

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    You are spot on. It a move towards seeing other figures than your parents as those who care about you. Meanwhile the parents have to deal with how the kid actually is in the real world

  • @FreedomIsntOffensive1776
    @FreedomIsntOffensive17762 ай бұрын

    So if I understand Josh's home life he lives in a two-parent household and one parent stays at home which means one of them actually makes a lot of money but one of them doesn't make breakfast for the children because they're too busy being a one parent household while the other parents at work and essentially this program will allow Josh to be okay with his irresponsibility identified as victimhood?do they pass out tampons at the beginning or the end of the class? if I understand what he's talking about correctly this is a program to get children to be okay with being victims with the adults as oppressors in the oppressed oppressed dynamic and I I do notice the fact that he said caregiver and not parents

  • @stephenkneller6435
    @stephenkneller64352 жыл бұрын

    “What’s happened to you” doesn’t explain or justify Josh’s outburst. Josh doesn’t need to be coddled, he needs to learn resilience. He still has to function in the world despite the bad things going on in life. In real life, most people don’t care one bit about Josh’s problems because they have their own. In the real world, we are expected to do our jobs and do so professionally. Coddling Josh will only make him a failure in real life. And this is far worse than what he is suffering through now. Resilience is the answer, not SEL.

  • @jaashuab

    @jaashuab

    2 жыл бұрын

    SEL would turn Josh into the kind of guy who needs a chime to get through a nine minute presentation that provides zero actual details about the topic and relies on a fictional story as its basis.

  • @billsimms2511

    @billsimms2511

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know, our society is literally doing the exact opposite of what they should be doing- instead of making kids more resilient, they are giving into their tantrums.

  • @SchnellTim

    @SchnellTim

    Жыл бұрын

    So is child abuse ok? Spankings? Forms of psychological or physical trauma/torture? Wouldn’t these build resilience?

  • @MrBonney1990

    @MrBonney1990

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SchnellTim Do you know what a positive affirmation is? The fact is that your unconscious, mammalian brain doesn’t understand the difference between actually experiencing trauma, and talking about experiencing trauma. The intentions these people have may be good, but SEL is child abuse. Period

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SchnellTim yes they do breed resilience and In some cases what you call child abuse is just a fitting punishment that got labelled by hand wringers

  • @travissharon1536
    @travissharon1536 Жыл бұрын

    He made it 8 whole minutes before I noticed a critical Marxist buzzword.

  • @funnyguyinlondon
    @funnyguyinlondon Жыл бұрын

    Rubbish. It's parents jobs to teach their children ethics and how to regulate their emotions, while learning to trust their intuition - not the state that gaslights natural defensive disagreeable behaviours. SEL often teaches kids to dull themselves with niceness and divorced from their own intuition. SEL elevates group harmony over individual at peace with himself or herself

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    Communism in other words

  • @funnyguyinlondon

    @funnyguyinlondon

    Жыл бұрын

    @@scrappydoo7887 Exactly. Or Calvinism and possibly Lutheranism. Not a surprise that Hegel the grand-daddy of a philosophy giving rise to fascism, socialism, Marxism, Communism etc was a Lutheran mystic

  • @mckenzieg

    @mckenzieg

    5 ай бұрын

    What about the child who does not have that kind of support at home?

  • @gaozhi2007
    @gaozhi2007 Жыл бұрын

    Sponsored by the World Economic Forum.

  • @jeremyponcy7311
    @jeremyponcy7311 Жыл бұрын

    The reason why Social Emotional Learning seems so innocuous is that what it effectively is is parenting. The reason that it is not at all innocuous is that what it's proponents are proposing is that parenting ought to be outsourced to global elites and major share holders within the global banking system (i.e. the World Economic Forum). This should be terrifying.

  • @TheTangofrog

    @TheTangofrog

    9 ай бұрын

    Agreed.

  • @adampurcellrrt

    @adampurcellrrt

    9 ай бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @cathydanielson9995

    @cathydanielson9995

    7 ай бұрын

    How's that tinfoil hat fitting?

  • @cutecannibalpuppy
    @cutecannibalpuppy4 жыл бұрын

    Æ

  • @DDM-tp2dn

    @DDM-tp2dn

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ä

  • @webchez69
    @webchez692 жыл бұрын

    Ok, I got the "feel good" part of this video, now.... What does this all mean? It is a no brainer to say that our children need to learn social and emotional skills. But I want to see what these people actually do to make all this goodness happen. This sounds very creepy to me. Sorry to burst this guy's bubble, if a child in class has a tantrum and throws his backpack across the room when the teacher asks him for his homework, he has a behavioral problem... And hand holding is not the answer.

  • @abhilasha9608

    @abhilasha9608

    2 жыл бұрын

    You have a behavioral problem if you think a child will not throw a tantrum having experienced stressors like that.

  • @ggooch97

    @ggooch97

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@abhilasha9608 I didn't throw a tantrum after that. It can be done and it ought to be taught. It's not bottling emotions it's controlling your actions.

  • @abhilasha9608

    @abhilasha9608

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ggooch97 when was the last time you cried?

  • @jenniferdavis8912

    @jenniferdavis8912

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ggooch97 Exactly. You were taught how to handle emotions and what to do.

  • @FerristotheBueller

    @FerristotheBueller

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@abhilasha9608lol teachers are not sociologists. This has absolutely no place in public schools.

  • @SuccessdiarySD
    @SuccessdiarySD3 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @Voornoek
    @Voornoek Жыл бұрын

    the coddling of the american mind

  • @scrappydoo7887

    @scrappydoo7887

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup. Creating weak useless people

  • @Mr-rager08
    @Mr-rager083 жыл бұрын

    Oof

  • @will5026
    @will5026 Жыл бұрын

    Marxism

  • @NathansHVAC
    @NathansHVAC2 жыл бұрын

    Fluf

  • @Individual_Lives_Matter
    @Individual_Lives_Matter2 жыл бұрын

    Teachers are not psychologists and moralizing or teaching a moral belief system has no place in the public school classroom. Not every parent agrees with the “wisdom” you’re teaching and many disagree. This is not the domain of the public school teacher. You are not the parents. Until this is gone, my kids will be homeschooled. Everyone has bad days, be kind. Don’t give kids surveys about their psychological state or provide convenient excuses for bad behavior. Standards are standards. They must be neutral or they are useless.

  • @Individual_Lives_Matter

    @Individual_Lives_Matter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Watch people exposing SEL and its connection to woke ideology (Intersectionality, CRT, “anti-racism”, critical social justice, grievance studies, etc). It’s not good. It’s turning schools into woke seminaries.

  • @gial8862

    @gial8862

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im finding several SEL teachers are woke CRT plants. They toss out a bunch of generalities and broad goals, but the day to day just means the teachers can be lazy, remove the American flag, ignore the pledge of allegiance, and stiff hand parents that want to be involved and have transparency.

  • @user-zq5eb2hj9o

    @user-zq5eb2hj9o

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This has no place in the schools. Kids are being used as a means to further educators political goals. I would argue that teen suicide rates will skyrocket under this mind poison after they become so fragile they won’t be able to deal with every day inconveniences

  • @the-based-jew6872

    @the-based-jew6872

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gial8862 they are rebranding crt as this. Watch out and let people know. I've seen this comment a lot. And it seems likely. If I was a tyrant I would rename something that got a bad wrap.

  • @gial8862

    @gial8862

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@the-based-jew6872 i have a kindergarten teacher right now that is doing this sel junk

  • @xtremity2361
    @xtremity23612 жыл бұрын

    SEL is CRTs trojan horse...

  • @gc2696
    @gc26962 жыл бұрын

    3rd graders give TED talks now ?

  • @nicoleadiaz1
    @nicoleadiaz1 Жыл бұрын

    That ring was annoying

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