How I got out of the FRIENDZONE... |

I GOT REJECTED BY PAT :'(
...but I MADE IT OUT hehehe
Sub to us leh pls LOVE YALL
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Pat - / patrinathy
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  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire70639 ай бұрын

    You both make me believe that love still exists, I really enjoy both of your chemistry and how you both are really open and honest with one another. I been following your love story ever since Jon posted on his youtube channel, and seeing how far y'all both come really makes me happy for you both, y'all deserve each other. Please hold marriage counselling course, i confirm will sign up 🤣🤣🤣

  • @richardkanna5093

    @richardkanna5093

    9 ай бұрын

    lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options... no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact.... if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Awwww you’re so sweet! But we don’t post when we fight la. 😂 Maybe with this channel we will. Haha

  • @nevets1209
    @nevets12099 ай бұрын

    i have always liked John's POV in TDK and now that you started vlogging with your wife, i am always looking forward to watch your stories. you two are so cool even after 15 years of togetherness. i feel giddy about your love story. 🥰🥰🥰💌💌💌

  • @thestaringenclave
    @thestaringenclave9 ай бұрын

    Oh wow. John is such a romantic. Great advice at the end "Move on and live your best life... If there is a chance to get out of the friendzone, she's probably still stay in your life."

  • @RaphJonathanTan
    @RaphJonathanTan9 ай бұрын

    such a couple goals. friend turned boyfriend turned husband. so much to learn from your journey and relationship advices. was just wondering how u guys met when i watched your previous 2 videos, not sure if your story's been shared before. then your third video cured my curiosity. been following john since real talk and other similar cameos. keep it up, great content like this ones! God bless both of you

  • @richardkanna5093

    @richardkanna5093

    9 ай бұрын

    lol, more like the girl just trying to settle for her last options... no wonder singlish girls are sluts...this is a fact.... if any singlish girls reading this, yes it is you, youre a slut. this is a fact

  • @chickennutpie
    @chickennutpie9 ай бұрын

    This was such a fun watch! Really like how this was shot in the car, like a friend giving you life updates) :') And your openness to share so much is what really sets y'all apart from other couples who are sharing their lives on this online space. Keep up the great work y'all!!

  • @straypenne
    @straypenne9 ай бұрын

    pat’s expression when john was recounting his life story is so funny y’all damn cute

  • @hhspore
    @hhspore9 ай бұрын

    You two are just so cute. And the giggling as you recall your secondary/poly days is just adorable. Your synergy is so unique and special. So lucky to find your soul mate in each other. Signing off aunty H ( I think I shd b around your mum's age. ) Why am I watching your videos? ....because I watch the daily ketchup too.

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm2329 ай бұрын

    Your videos are so entertaining to watch! It's great to see Pat ❤

  • @Zoids-bf6op
    @Zoids-bf6op6 ай бұрын

    i actually watch the whole thing. it was really entertaining to listen to both perspective with the same energy. Can especially relate to Johnathan on this one!

  • @marcang4403
    @marcang44039 ай бұрын

    So sweeet genuine!!! So rare to hear other girl’s view!! Enjoy ur vlog… also I like the Singaporean English.. sooo 真

  • @JoanneMelissa
    @JoanneMelissa9 ай бұрын

    You guys are so sincere and down to earth!! I watched from start till the end 😊thanks for taking the time to film/ edit !! God bless you both!

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Aww thank you! ♥️

  • @arjunsasangan9342
    @arjunsasangan93429 ай бұрын

    Great videoooo it sounded like an episode of a drama and thats amazing that yall are so wholesome

  • @kyrakamiel1794
    @kyrakamiel17947 ай бұрын

    What a wonderful story❤️ Thought the rose petals strewn pathway was such a romantic touch.💕💕

  • @8777RL
    @8777RL4 ай бұрын

    Very sweet couple you two...I'm 52 and your vid brings me back to my younger days and i am glad true love still happens! Wish you both everlasting bliss! ❤🎉

  • @tansiwei2344
    @tansiwei23449 ай бұрын

    HOW CAN WE NOT LIKE IT!!!! Smiling throughout the video because you guys are too cute❤ love yall

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    And this comment made us smile too! ♥️

  • @thecheekies
    @thecheekies9 ай бұрын

    Mr. & I watched this grinning from start to end. Made us reminisce loads.. 😊

  • @hello13456
    @hello134569 ай бұрын

    i love this couple so much, such wholesome vibes and a real good role model couple for many. keep the videos coming please❤❤

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    We love you back!

  • @ValarieTay
    @ValarieTay9 ай бұрын

    Hahahaha congrats to the both of you! It's not easy maintaining a relationship but you both make it look fun! I love your relationship vibes! Here's to many many many more anniversaries and milestones together!

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @shufangina
    @shufangina9 ай бұрын

    Couple goals! Your stories are super cute 😍😍😍

  • @lordndrew
    @lordndrew7 ай бұрын

    First time watching this channel and this couple. Very interesting and real. It’s a good watch. Subscribed.

  • @junotan5912
    @junotan59129 ай бұрын

    i enjoyed so much listening to the love story of yall!So cute and entertaining!

  • @shaohwa4948
    @shaohwa49489 ай бұрын

    Love your stories 😀, continue to slayy

  • @kiwanaboy
    @kiwanaboy9 ай бұрын

    The 2008 flashback sweet sia ❤❤

  • @emailant
    @emailant9 ай бұрын

    heartwarming story. really nice to watch and so happy for you and chris and friends too. most of all, great advice. 👍

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Aww thanks for the lovely comment. next episode drops on Sunday!

  • @joshua01
    @joshua019 ай бұрын

    Love the content! 🫶 yall r so cute sia

  • @MrRazorteeth
    @MrRazorteeth9 ай бұрын

    Can make this into a movie liao... so touching

  • @Rollingdonutss
    @Rollingdonutss9 ай бұрын

    loved your vid!! 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @ginayaplaiyoong
    @ginayaplaiyoong9 ай бұрын

    So cute lah, your love story!

  • @winniehuang3923
    @winniehuang39239 ай бұрын

    Wow brought me back to my youth dating days… I made my hubby watch this with me… we were also best friends back then…

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Aww! We bless you with love!

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli54419 ай бұрын

    Wah the 2 of you are soooo cuteeee together. Love uuuu. This is my first time watching your videos. John is very good in tdk anyways, have subscribed!

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Awww! Yay! Thank you so much!

  • @stevenycs79
    @stevenycs799 ай бұрын

    very sweet and genuine contents guyz~ luving it .. keep it up

  • @_cherylkim
    @_cherylkim9 ай бұрын

    Omg love your videos!!!!!

  • @sonnykhoo7236
    @sonnykhoo72369 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 I just chanced upon your channel and I laughed my head off🫢 Excellent content. Real and fun👍😁 By the way I’m 60 over years old a Malaysian in PJ. My eldest is probably your age😁

  • @MrTakoyaki1992
    @MrTakoyaki19929 ай бұрын

    You all must Sing" We'll Caaarry On"!!!

  • @ImMochiAlyyyyy
    @ImMochiAlyyyyy9 ай бұрын

    Officially my fav couple lehhhhh ❤❤❤

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    No, you!

  • @PEPramudita
    @PEPramudita9 ай бұрын

    OMG.. both of you are so sweet leh. I’m shipping the both of you now 👍🏻

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Aww thank you!

  • @helahola
    @helahola9 ай бұрын

    great story. if comparing their advice, i personally like john's advice more. it just sounds more practical. pat's advice about "be there for the girl/guy" will turn that guy in her friendzone into a convenient tool man and she will never realize his value at all. pat's hk trip leaving john is the key so i'll agree on john's advice more.

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Hello! I also don’t know which kind of advice I gave. Hahahahah! But John stuck around worked for me. He caught my heart 😂 but yes, please follow his instead. Hahahaha! - Pat

  • @angelicasubil-fitnessNwellness
    @angelicasubil-fitnessNwellness9 ай бұрын

    Ayooo so sweet la u both🤭🤭😍

  • @Ahsonloh1213
    @Ahsonloh12139 ай бұрын

    Really enjoyed the storytelling of your relationship journey! Made me feel like I'm part of it as well hahaha

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    YOU ARE

  • @a.alaynaa
    @a.alaynaa8 ай бұрын

    this is so cute 😭😭

  • @pandulani
    @pandulani9 ай бұрын

    So cute, all the best for a happy long wedded life!

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! ❤

  • @jaytan7201
    @jaytan72017 ай бұрын

    Village bicycle... 😂😂😂

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac889 ай бұрын

    I just dropped by your channel, I watched your video on the daily ketchup podcast about your fertility journey. 😊 Happy 15 years aninversary. 💜

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you! 🥲

  • @MsLilac88

    @MsLilac88

    9 ай бұрын

    @@JOHNPATCROSS You are welcome. 😊

  • @lynnlee76
    @lynnlee769 ай бұрын

    That is so sweet

  • @trishuang8377
    @trishuang83779 ай бұрын

    Lol! My first date with my hub was also at Esplanade! I too thought of it as a normal dinner with a poly friend but he considered it as a date 😏 Those memories of courtship... Cheers to our 15years anni - u n John together since 17/18yo, me n my hub together as a wedded couple 💗 🥂

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Oh wow! Congratulations to you!

  • @trishuang8377

    @trishuang8377

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank U too! 💗

  • @darrenyeoh126
    @darrenyeoh1269 ай бұрын

    chris is the steve 😂

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Hahahahahahahhahahahhahahha - John

  • @coreylow620
    @coreylow6208 ай бұрын

    i swear john really look great being meatier

  • @joeylim261
    @joeylim2619 ай бұрын

    so cute la🥰

  • @harriertan1595
    @harriertan15959 ай бұрын

    Hahahaha funny how you guys got together on my 2nd birthday (18oct) 17:27

  • @sltan7235
    @sltan72359 ай бұрын

    Sticky rose petals the best bit

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    I also thought so. 😂 - Pat

  • @EIJIHS
    @EIJIHS9 ай бұрын

    WOO!! MCR ROCKS !!! Eh John, wtf the GF stage so grand then proposal how !! Kns damn spoil market AHHAHAHAH !

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Thats why I was very stressed for the proposal! That story is coming up soon!

  • @Jonascookingjapan
    @Jonascookingjapan9 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @LumpyLoveElla
    @LumpyLoveElla9 ай бұрын

    My hubby and I also did the supermarket sushi when we were in poly. 😂

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Bobian. It was the only move if you couldn't afford to eat the the restaurant. - John

  • @princessnuchu
    @princessnuchu9 ай бұрын

    Awwww

  • @yeannetung
    @yeannetung9 ай бұрын

    MORE

  • @benwong2061
    @benwong20619 ай бұрын

    Algoooooooooooooooooo

  • @fannyzen
    @fannyzen9 ай бұрын

    Really sweet

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    You so sweet!

  • @yeetusbelitus6709
    @yeetusbelitus67099 ай бұрын

    eh jon dam spoil market sia wl leh

  • @learninvestearnsave
    @learninvestearnsave9 ай бұрын

    bro's 17 year old hairstyle is like chao ah beng LOL. Nice video though. Thanks for sharing

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Really liked it back then Sia. 😂

  • @marcoyeo9387
    @marcoyeo93874 ай бұрын

    too cute

  • @brt525
    @brt5259 ай бұрын

    👍👍👍👍

  • @jessical7083
    @jessical70838 ай бұрын

    Wah. I didnt know Pat is also a playa. She looks so innocent 😅. I know in another show John said he had sex with 1-2 girls before Pat and initial sex with Pat was like meant to be a one night stand or sonething 😮. So i knew John was promiscuous back then. But thought Pat wasnt for some reason haha😅, maybe she looks so angelic😂.

  • @leeli5441
    @leeli54419 ай бұрын

    Pat is soo adorable! Thank you for sharing with us and letting us into your lives Btw what lip color is pat using

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    It's one of the nude shades from Fenty. I'm sorry the lipstick doesn't say. - Pat

  • @whyh
    @whyh9 ай бұрын

    If you are in the friend zone, move on. She's just being selfish, but you don't have to sick around to be used. You don't have to hate her either. Just move on.

  • @20pointer
    @20pointer9 ай бұрын

    will you ever share about the fall out with dew and co?

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    No Co bro. I'm good friends with the rest. Maybe one day. I haven't out of respect for some of the people involved. But i hope you understand. But maybe one day.

  • @20pointer

    @20pointer

    9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for being honest@@JOHNPATCROSS

  • @starshine9836
    @starshine98369 ай бұрын

    Got 夫妻像. You guys look alike at certain angles!

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Hello! I think so too eh! 🤭 - Pat

  • @twogtheworldofgangnam9917
    @twogtheworldofgangnam99179 ай бұрын

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

  • @Purmeiwansuay
    @Purmeiwansuay9 ай бұрын

    knn this siao eh romantic sia

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    有没有🤭 - Pat

  • @dango1705
    @dango17059 ай бұрын

    "u bitch" was very personal😂😂😂

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Upset la bro 😂 - John

  • @derektan6561
    @derektan65619 ай бұрын

    it is actually quite dangerous to shoot this while driving. it only take secs to lose focus.

  • @EricK-mj7kr

    @EricK-mj7kr

    9 ай бұрын

    Not really. Some can handle both pretty well. I like to chit chat while driving or sometimes we'll play movies for the kids, on long drives to malaysia and it keeps me awake and alert. I do have friends who can't hold a dialogue without getting nervous while driving though.

  • @ckloh3378
    @ckloh33789 ай бұрын

    She's a playa but doesn't know it 😂

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    Agree hahahah

  • @dillonazariahfoo7363
    @dillonazariahfoo73639 ай бұрын

    Walao cute asf ah

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    You then~

  • @n.laughpuff6653
    @n.laughpuff66539 ай бұрын

    Get piercings, go gym, earn money. Simple

  • @misspepper07
    @misspepper079 ай бұрын

    7:49 *cue Awwwwwwwww* ♥️ 11:43 18:53

  • @yuxiang2806
    @yuxiang28069 ай бұрын

    And this is how I met your mother

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @dragon5064
    @dragon50649 ай бұрын

    .

  • @elilo5867
    @elilo58679 ай бұрын

    Why does it take so much effort to please a woman ? I would have just left once she said ,"no".

  • @50left42
    @50left429 ай бұрын

    17:21 - "It's all worth it". This got me tearing a bit 🥲

  • @JOHNPATCROSS

    @JOHNPATCROSS

    9 ай бұрын

    ♥️

  • @eeto_plays
    @eeto_plays9 ай бұрын