Hello Friends!!
Welcome to our most shameless endeavour yet! After 15 years together and completely skipping a couple IG page, we are coming straight to KZread! (jeng jeng jeng)
This channel is a commitment to each other to put in the time and effort to continously create more core memories together, to document our milestones and to share our experiences and learnings from surviving (and loving) each other for so long.
We hope you join us on our journey to bring more love into the internet.
Sub leh pls. WE LOVE YOU!
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Love this new style! Both of you are relationship veterans so I always felt that you guys have a lot to share even if I'm not that much younger than you guys. Have a balance of both styles of video! I think the risk of having all your content being like this is that you'll run out of things to reflect on, or you'll come off as toxic introspective (if that makes sense), and of course this probably takes much more planning than something that is more casual on the couch.
Isn't this the couple that almost broke up because she thinks her partner not good enough then end up realize she is the one that has nothing to provide and is mentally unstable that's why stick together. The laughs from her all like fake one sia
Bro is a yapper holy shit. One yapper the other emotionally unstable one keep saying on divorce. This one confirm the girl end up cheating one
Been watching most of your videos but subscribed (finally) because of this video! Haha love the reflection, doesn’t have to resonate w everyone but it resonated w me. I used to be calculative too but I feel like my husband grounds me. (He is Malay, coincidentally like your story that you shared which I also somewhat agree that they are able to laugh at themselves) More of such content pls!
i love it！！！！！！！
I love this style so much! When i first started watching john on othrt channels was becos i tot he was funny but i am so glad to see the the side of him that is so nurturing,thoughtful and wise and this whole video i kept asking myself who do i want to be like and i realise i would want to adopt traits of anf John and Pat thank you for being the internet parents ❤❤
great episode, very insightful!!
really really like this style! reflective vibes
i thought i’ll never like the content of this video. but john and pat, it’s amazing..
Wah I don't know where to start. I dig this whole reflective type video and appreciate that you summarized this whole theory into "egg shell theory". Makes it easier to understand and remember
This was such a nice video/vlog •ᴗ• really just felt like I was sitting down with my older sis/bro for a nice chat
Been loving all the other episodes but this particular one feels a little naggy. Feels like I was attending a cell group 😮💨
I don't like the way the man talks. Like a Ah Beng Ah Seng. Won't be a good husband
Love the content of this video! Its refreshing and also make us think deeper
This is so Singaporean. Reflections also must use powerpoint :)
Great insights, thanks for sharing!
You guys are literally my second "parents" who teach me the treasure of relationships ❤❤❤ Even though I am in a happy relationship, I will always try to treasure my partner just like how you guys treasure each other ❤
loving this new format! ❤
Hey guys, this video came at the right time for me. Thank you for sharing your egg shell theory! I’m changing a new career path now and I am so looking forward to it. Thank you & I’ll be the rock hahah!!! Love ya ❤
Hi damaiana juniors! Not sure if patrina still rmbs me.. oh how much i miss damai sec sch
Love the insights that you have given, its really the little things in life that matter!
So cheem. Hahaha. But good video.
Make more videos like this!! It's good!
can john also do a series solely on business? would love to hear your many many raw and unfiltered thoughts on building a local creative business
loving the new format and hearing your many thoughts, sounds like smth i will talk to my partner/close friends about :-)
Great sharing, love you two!!
Super love this episode. Very inspiring lah u guys..thank u for being vulnerable to share with ur viewers❤
love this content! made me decide to subscribe
@@SHMONDE awwww thank you!! - Pat
I like it.
Oh. I don't know why the KZread algorithm led me to this video, but at first glance I thought it would be about a long married couple reminiscing about where they first met, etc. Instead it was about that Daily Ketchup bloke who has been married for only about 6 years. Chey. Wait till you are married for at least 30 or 40 years. This is early days my friend. God forbid but anything can happen. When so many 'celebrity' couples get divorced, I am just jaded in regard to these sort of stories. My generation is making a mockery of marriage if you ask me.
Maybe. Or maybe we stay in love and marriage until we die. And 30 years from now we get to look back at these videos of our “young” love and be glad we have something to look back on when one of us is no longer around. Maybe a young person watches this and it reminds them that there is love and hope in this world. Maybe we’ll update the video in 30 years then hopefully we won’t offend you. Until then, we wish you well. May you find joy wherever you go. - john and pat
@@JOHNPATCROSSgood positive thinking ❤ stay in the present and appreciate what you have. No point looking at others and being afraid of what may or may not happen. Also could u do a story on how pat and your friends “bullied” u? 😂
Having watched the video, I think the title quite clearly states what it is about - changing for better - and since they have been together since those days, it's inevitable to mention their relationship. For me, I think it's helpful, in navigating life and stuff. Don't think the couple is claiming to be an authority in this aspect either, and it's not fair to pin said disappointment from increased prolific divorces on everyone else talking about their journey. For what it's worth, John seems quite mature from the things he says and the way he says it on TDK - quite consistently - so while nobody can guarantee anything, I think he is quite different from those that might fall in the category mentioned.
I absolutely love this reflective type of videos as it shows your thought processes. Most importantly the lessons shared in this video are valuable. Looking forward to more of such videos. Thanks for remembering the purpose of this channel.
More to share! Thanks for watching. 🙏🏼 - Pat
Loved this!! Thank you for taking the time to form your thoughts on this and share this. This new format is great too!
Yay thank you! 🙏🏼 - Pat
I think this might be my fav vlog from you guys! It’s really well articulated leh, especially on being the amalgamation of other people’s traits & money talk :)
Awwww 🥹 Thank you for your support. ❤ - Pat
Thank you for sharing your reflective moments, good to remember what TRULY matters in our lives, live purposefully.
And happily! Thank you for watching! :) - Pat
go for it!! love these kind of reflection vids❤
We go!! Thank you! 🙏🏼 - Pat
Thanks both for really sharing your insights, as a young working adult myself i could really relate to everything said. 🥹 Besides, the ‘egg shell’ theory is pretty similar to a book i recently read - Atomic Habits. Do give it a read and i’m sure you’ll be able to relate to the whole concept of filling the shoes of who you wish to be! :)
This actually is super useful. Thanks man. I gonna start implementing your theory! <3
Please do more of this type. I think alof of the comments also agree lolllllllllllllllllll 🤑🤭🤗🥰🥰😝🤔🤔
Very candid reflections! Do more of such sharings :-) BE in the moment! Thank you ^-^
Yay thank you! - Pat
It’s hard to to forget these memories. School days were the best days. How buddies and besties were formed. Times when have to have tea with the Principal… detentions, supportive teachers and friends… if can turn back time, would love to relive it again and make a better me.
wa.. loving the new format.
Thank you!!
I love my gf charlotte
To be honest, a bit lecturer-ry and boring.. 😅 but still interesting.. maybe too much talking🤪 Waiting for your next video! 👍🏻
Thanks Jon & Pat, I've also had issues spending money, be it being territorial with money and all. Hearing what you said about "Saving that 1/2 dollars won't make you rich" truly puts it into perspective. Please do more of these! <3
It took me very long to finally let loose of my purse. Hahah. At everyone’s own pace. ❤️ - Pat
If a person wayang everyday for the rest of his life. Is he really wayang?
Excellent video and a wonderful new format! I didn't click on anything else for the whole 16mins. Please stick to this!
Yay thank you! We will do our best!! - Pat
Loved the format, and use of the old photos and fonts adding to the nostalgic tone. For a p5-p6 student, John already so introspective, and the ability to recall is impressive. Haha the open door for girls part brings back flashbacks, just a seemingly minor act of decency could result in you gettin ka chao by others. Then you start second-guessing and becoming hyper-aware of what might come across as something that might attract unwanted attention, when you were just simply being decent to begin with. The "being part of the boys" part also important, how you navigate between how you are are with the boys and how you are with the women in your life, whilst trying to walk the line and keep hypocrisy to a minimum is a road that I think most guys will undertake in their lifetime. Esp. when you're young and want that acceptance (often time because of the consequences of not being accepted) ,but feel like sometimes you have to cross lines to obtain it. Then when it comes time for you to put your best foot forward, those compromises can come back to haunt you. Although I do think to a certain degree, those with religious upbringing tend to have more of a disposition to care about the perceived lack of hypocrisy be it from others and more importantly yourself. Lol I'm a bit like Pat 比较计较 about money, but over the years, have learnt to be less calculative. Nice to see the variety in format, always enjoy seeing whatever you guys upload.
Thank you for your support. No joy having all that money but no one to share it with. Really 看开了. But only to people who deserves you sharing with also luh. - Pat
For a moment I thought, "what DHL theory?"
Can write book liao 😂 Thanks for sharing ur experiences
I think when John’s 50, I’ll push him to write 😂 - Pat
My life motto: Fake it till you make it 😂 Really love you guys! more videos please!
We love you too! Thanks for watching! - Pat