Happy Thursday, jems! In this video, I sit down and have a chat about confidence. If you'd like to share any tips or life lessons on how YOU became more confident, please write it in the comments! 😊

@MsNinahhh

7 жыл бұрын

You know what consumes me? The fact that I'm turning 30. I don't know why I find it so scary, but I do.

@ssilva901

7 жыл бұрын

This tips are really helpful ! I always struggle with being confident and I'm still learning. Thank you :)

@shannongreen3754

7 жыл бұрын

LittleMissSunshine you should watch 13 going on 30, make 'thirty, flirty and thriving' your mantra 💃🏻

@RICHELLESHAIRA

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video :) I learned a lot from i. I hopefully be confident to do vlogs, videos :) Thanks again. xoxo

@LelaLondon

7 жыл бұрын

Such a brave and lovely video, Jenn!

Her soul is so beautiful

This goes off of what Jenn said but I think what has helped me immensely is realizing that everyone is concerned with themselves-- barely anyone actually cares about what you're doing, or how you look. And for the few that do, that's their problem. What they think shouldn't affect you!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

SOOOOO TRUE!

@carliechang

7 жыл бұрын

MusicalBunny1 thank you! That was a helpful reminder

Another thing that helps to build confidence is to compliment other people, and lifting each other up. Not only does it give a boost of confidence to that person but also makes you feel good about yourself for doing so. And I so agree on what you said about not talking smack. One time, two girls asked me if I could talk crap about someone. I stayed silent, asking myself why in the world was I hanging out with such negative people. Surround yourself with people who are positive and open minded!!! Also I think it is important that whenever you look at yourself in the mirror, focus on the things you actually like about yourself or something you're the least insecure about instead of focusing on your "flaws."

@jojowo9767

6 жыл бұрын

tnxole as

@maix139

6 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@wendycho8544

5 жыл бұрын

tnxole kidsKids

totally agree with the eye contact thing. I trained myself not to look people in the face in probably.... middle school? it helped me a lot walking through the halls at school because I had crazy walking anxiety (if that's a thing lol)

@FallinxStarz

7 жыл бұрын

Do you really never make eye contact? Of course it depends on the situation but I find that such a weird thing.. If you pass by someone (who is not approaching you in a negative way) you can at least acknowledge they're there by looking at them or saying hi? Maybe it's a difference in culture but I find that a bit rude..

@mneedham05

7 жыл бұрын

Tessa vo I'm from the US so eye contact is so important, but of course I acknowledge people sometimes. I work at a school and of course I smile and nod at my coworkers. But in crowded places I usually don't make eye contact because it makes me nervous. I guess I'm rude, but it's something that allows me to go out and do stuff, rather than making excuses because I'm scared of getting that anxiety.

@FallinxStarz

7 жыл бұрын

That does make more sense to me now though, thanks for the explanation!

I never realised that up until a few years ago I walked around looking at the floor and hardly ever looked up because I hated the idea of people looking at me - I thought I would be invisible to people if I stared at the ground. Now that I am older I look around while I walk, put on badass music, and I appreciate nature - focus on the beauty of your surroundings, not other people!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

I love this tip!!

@victoriamilloc2474

7 жыл бұрын

Shannon Green +clothesencounters totally!! I used to be so worried about other people that one day I realized I didn't enjoy anything else, now I focus on my surroundings and I like to see how everything changes a little bit everyday, just try to get out of my mind and enjoy the present

THIS is quality content (like all your other videos). You use your influence to try to help others empower themselves, you are a gift to KZread and to us. Thank you Jenn, keep on rocking! You'll always have my support :)

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much for this comment! Really made me smile. n_n

@creativecomplexity4

7 жыл бұрын

R0CK0Nbaby I totally agree!! 💕😁

@khinemcgowan3489

7 жыл бұрын

My husband would never watch any beauty youtubers' videos with me except yours!! :) You are the best!!

@Tokkiis

7 жыл бұрын

It's refreshing to see a video about motivation and improving self-confidence without it being sponsored, but I even like Jenn's sponsored videos, too... xD

@sandbysea

7 жыл бұрын

I completely agree!

Thank you Jenn. I think it's important also to make 'mini' challenges like talking to a stranger, doing something you've never done before. Humans can be very cruel, offensive, and that for free. Yesterday I took the bus to go take care of my pony. On the way back, teenagers began to say that the horse odor was "unbearable" while they even live in the countryside. They strated caughing, laughing nervously, saying they will eat horse meat. I was really uncomfortable, even ignoring them. They abused of the fact that I was the only 'stranger', all alone, and they were in a group. Next time I will sympathize with the driver of the bus. It's the only person they can't "control" and in that kind of cases it is important to make allied friends. So my advise is: ignore negative people, and go talk to the other people: 1. Do not isolate yourself 2. to share you're not alone and 3. don't be affraid to talk to people and eventually make some new friends. And don't forget to be positive, always. This will help to gain more confidence in difficult moments. It took me the hole night to figure out what to do next time lol. I was so relieved and happy, I was realy good about myself, when suddenly it happened to me. It can happen to everybody.

@jomanasoa3948

7 жыл бұрын

Great advice ! thank you soo much 😊

I Think that another very important tip is to STOP comparing yourself to other people, because i feel like that's the biggest thing that bring a lot of people down, myself included. Even knowing it's really hard to do we've to.

I started feeling confident when I dropped this boy outta my life, changed my hairstyle to what I wanted and worked out at the gym. Lets go Ladieeees!!! 💪💪💪💪

@WhateverIsTrue01

7 жыл бұрын

yes girl I support you 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼

I turned 21 last year and I've just begun to love myself. Time really does make you grow and appreciate yourself a little more 👌💙

@maryhotmailde

7 жыл бұрын

MissMcCafferty That gave me hope :)

I don't understand why you are not gaining more subscribers you create such great content and you are so positive. Also, thank you for this video, this really helped me

@user-rh8sq7up3j

7 жыл бұрын

Diana Luckman Ikr! She deserves more subscribers!

@maybelleCorpuz808

6 жыл бұрын

Diana Luckman I agree❤️

@juliakrystal19

5 жыл бұрын

she already has over 2 million, that's a lot!

@sammier.6125

5 жыл бұрын

Julia S. She deserves more lol 💜

@bataa200002

4 жыл бұрын

hello. Can we be friends? I am a Mongolian.

Great tips, Jen! Dunno how weird this sounds, but it's so aesthetically pleasing to listen to you talk. You're just so eloquent.

Along with not judging others, actually complimenting others has increased my confidence. 💖

@Kayla-ep5gm

7 жыл бұрын

For me as well! It showed me how to appreciate even the little details of someone, be it their personality or looks, and made me notice the little things about myself that I can love.

@LovedHappy

7 жыл бұрын

Kaya Rist yes Kaya! Exactly! 😊❤ it takes confidence to notice the good in others but I definitely believe by making that effort even when it feels less natural can be a beautiful confidence-builder as well.❤❤ also, I love your name, it's beautiful 😊

Hi Jenn! I'm a 18years old deaf girl studying English in UK from Japan, I was so encouraged by your messages all, thankyou for always adding subs(cuz i'm deaf, subtitles make me understand what u'r saying completely!) i Really really really love you and your channel!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I got so emotional watching this video, I don't know why but probably cause I can relate so much to it. Every tips that you said are exactly what I've been trying to apply to my life and they just sort of lived in my head cause I thought it's my own way of coping with things but they actually work on other people too. Just finished college and basically in that place where I don't know where life would take me but you delivered such strong messages and that truly inspire me. Not a lot of people can make inspiring and motivating videos with straightforward messages cause sometimes they're overshadowed by useless talks that's just circling around the topic but you've done it brilliantly. I hope you can continue doing this because you truly are a remarkable person and you may not realise it but many of your videos have helped many people, including myself.

The part about music is SO TRUE! It helped me so much. BTS song Not Today is definitely my new badass song! :)

@damnjoon2808

7 жыл бұрын

YES

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

It's crazy how one song can change your entire mood!

@YumiOnline

7 жыл бұрын

I was thinking of the same song! ♥

@alayssaalayssa

7 жыл бұрын

Lunasmoonlight Army's everywhere man. I love it!

@lovelyy.rai_xx

7 жыл бұрын

i love that song, feel you on that!

This video couldnt have come in a more convenient time. I was just starting to feel like shit and i needed that self esteem boost, so thank you Jenn! Your positivity can rlly influence other ppl ❤😊

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Aww, I'm glad this video could help. I hope your day picks up, love!

we're definitely on the same psychological level, Jenn! I used to be so paranoid of people looking at when as well, and avoiding eye contact and faking it until you make it is literally the best advice I took and would give about being more confident.

I feel super confident when I'm walking and I smile at someone and they smile back. :)

@user-rh8sq7up3j

7 жыл бұрын

FilthyHappyFaith That's so sweet of you :)

Wow this video is amazing, Jenn. It is definitely and standout that I will definitely re-watch. Ok, personal story time: When I was in middle school, a couple of friends and I were mugged while walking from school to the subway. It was very scary and the guy made an example out of me by slashing my face with his knife. I'm telling this story because this incident left a huge scar on face. Although I later learned how to use makeup to make it less obvious, it would always show and it is always the first thing people notice about me. Needless to say, my confidence took a hit. I know that most of the subscribers here will have insecurities relating to their appearance as opposed to anything else. In high school, I took a philosophy class where I learned about Shcopenhauer's "Will to live." I won't really go into it but the general idea is that matter, or our physical selves is not what the world is made of. It is 'will' that is the key to life. This always stuck with me because it meant that for humans/people, our hopes, desires, needs, and goals are what make up who we are and encourage us to keep living. This was all just a long-winded way of saying that it's what's on the inside that really counts, lol. I'm sorry this was so long but I guess I felt inspired to write this. P.S. My favorite songs to listen to when I'm down are "September" and "Boogie Wonderland" by Earth, Wind & Fire

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you for sharing that. I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you especially at such a young age. It's so inspiring to hear how you learned that the key to life is "will." I agree! Thank you for teaching me something new. Also I LOVE SEPTEMBER By Earth, Wind & Fire. Such a tune especially for a Virgo like me. (:

@user-uu5dc6wr6h

7 жыл бұрын

Was the philosophy class you took IB TOK?

@vortexofweird

7 жыл бұрын

Nah it was called Metaphysics, Ethics, and Death. It was a private high school so they could teach whatever they wanted.

Thank you for talking about driving. I get anxiety and i really hate driving but sometimes it's not an option but a necessity. I don't think any youtuber has really talked about driving and driving tips but I would love it if you talked about your driving experiences an so on.

@maureene7138

7 жыл бұрын

Jasmin Dekker I used to be so anxious about driving but because i was forced to drive a far distance for work im more comfortable on the road.

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Just like Maureen, I was forced to get over my fear by driving really long distances for a period of time. Just know that with each drive you do, you are a step closer to feeling more secure on the road.

@jasmindekker6781

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for using your precious time to answer us, Jenn! I'm going to keep take a screen shot of this and save it for ever. I can't believe Jen answered back, I'm extremely happy now!! :D

@DollyShi

7 жыл бұрын

I used to be very afraid of driving, now I'm a lot more comfortable and drive everyday. But I still haven't driven on the highway or driven a far distance or road trip, any tips?

@maureene7138

7 жыл бұрын

Túktā Stay on the right lane for highways if you aren't comfortable. Once you get used to it, you can go to the middle lane. (I still tend to stick to the right lane unless i have to take an exit that is on the left.) Also, as my mom always tells me, don't drive for other. Drive only for yourself. Don't be pressured to go a certain mile just because of other drivers. They can always pass you.

Such a relief to hear someone else had felt like they so desperately wanted to be themselves but didn't know who they were. That's what I am feeling right now. This video was great, thank you, Jenn !

OoooOOooh, yes jenn! That confidence playlist is 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

@jiggphany

7 жыл бұрын

krist & yu I watch your videos and they are all so awesome! Didn't know you were subscribed to Jenn as well... 😊

@thebeautifulgirl4759

6 жыл бұрын

u are heeeeeeerree

#1 is so important! Super guilty of it as an insecure teen. I'm 24 now and disassociating from that kind of talk has made such a positive impact on my life. Thanks for a great video jen 💕

its funny because since last year I've been struggling with this "be myself" thing more and its gotten a whole lot better. I gave myself my much desired bangs and just this weekend cut about 4 inches off my hair and I've been buying more of the kind of wardrobe that i want which is very retro and hipsterish influenced, so definitely all the things that Jenn talks about I've already been applying to my life for the past year and they work and have made me feel more at home with myself.

Jenn you are such a beautiful person, inside and out. I've been a follower of yours since your thrifting days and it's been really cool getting to see you grow into the wonderful being you are today. I hope to one day radiate confidence like you do. 😊 much love x 💕

I love this, Jen! You're so right, being confident really does start with being comfortable and happy with yourself :) It doesn't happen overnight and it's helped me to realize that we're all insecure about some things, but accepting that we are who we are and accepting others for their quirks and uniqueness makes life a lot more positive

Any BTS song makes me feel amazing

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Which song is your favorite?!

@ChristineJillian

7 жыл бұрын

bTS - Butterfly is my favorite!

@aislingwong6686

7 жыл бұрын

The Cypher series (especially Pt. 3 and 4) are amazing songs to play when you're powerwalking down the street!

@damnjoon2808

7 жыл бұрын

OK this is literally so extra but ANYYYY bts song, in terms of being confident and that tho: - Cypher (part 3 & 4) - 21st Century Girls - Joke (by one of the members Rap Monster) - Agust D (by one of the other members) - 1Verse (by J-Hope, another member lol) - Baepsae/silver spoon - Dope - Ma City - Save Me

@lunasmoonlight714

7 жыл бұрын

Oh my god. Once Cypher part 3 is on there is no holding back! I jump and dab around like V. :D

am i the only one who was reminded of sailor moon by her hairstyle?? 💞💕💓 ITS SO CUTEEE

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Yesss! Total Sailormoon vibes.

@priivee8256

7 жыл бұрын

I LOVE IT!!! you've inspired me to binge watch episodes when i get home 😊

@priivee8256

7 жыл бұрын

I LOVE IT!!! you've inspired me to binge watch episodes when i get home 😊

Thank you for this. I've been in such a horrible rut and this is what I really needed to hear. Thank you for not just talking the talk, but walking the walk as well. Your confidence radiates out of you in every video. Love you!

I always love watching Jenn's videos because of her positive vibe she gives out. You're amazing Jenn, and your positivity constantly rubs off on me and makes me feel so much better on shitty days ❤

For me I'm just learning that it is ok to be 20 and single, and that I am not perfect. And that Jesus is my best friend .❤

@ukurikiakas

7 жыл бұрын

D'ya Francois I've been scrolling through the comments to find one like yours. Thanks! Wish more people would realize the true source of confidence, that is Jesus. When you put your confidence, faith in Jesus, all your anxieties go away. He is my rock.

@FierceEars

7 жыл бұрын

This resenates with me so much but also hurts reading. I lost my connection to Christ not too long ago and can't seem to get back to Him. I remember when I devoted everything to Him, I was the happiest I had ever been. I don't know what's wrong with me right now.

@BrokenWishesx3

7 жыл бұрын

This was me too! I felt disconnected from Him for actually a year or so, but I never forgot how happy I had been, and I used that as a drive to help me get back to Him. I can happily say that I've been on the right track for a few months now, and I just hope that I can get back to where I was before, surpass that, and continue to grow in Him! Don't lose sight and you will come back to Him. x

@babelove45

7 жыл бұрын

FierceEars God is always waiting with open arms never for get that. Just continue to pray and seek him and he will reveal himself to you. I was also like that, but like everything you have to wait and have patience. I will be praying for you. ❤😇👏

@babelove45

7 жыл бұрын

Ellen Truong You will God is faithful to do it.Just keep trusting in him and he will get you where you need to be.❤

You've grown so much over the years Jenn, it has been beautiful to watch you, thanks for letting us be a part of your life and journey. 💖 These are all excellent tips.

honestly this is such a fantastic idea for a video Jenn! I have always noticed what a confident person you are, or at least seem. It's beautiful ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

I love to go back to this video whenever I am in need of a confidence boost, I don't think you'll see this in the sea of comments that you get, but your outlook on life is beautiful and one that I inspire to have. Thank you for your platform and for using it to uplift others. You are truly my inspiration

Wow I really needed this ❣️ I just started a youtube channel and am afraid to do my thing. It's hard not to care about views and the opinions of others

@between1912

7 жыл бұрын

I keep trying to remind myself that in the end, I'm not going to lose anything because some old acquaintance thinks I'm lame and that I won't achieve happiness by letting others dictate how I live my life :D

@VaneesBabySteps

7 жыл бұрын

Same here! And started my youtube channel too lol!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly! You keep doing you! Also your vintage lookbook is filmed and edited SO well!

@between1912

7 жыл бұрын

clothesencounters omg that means the world to me! thank you so so much ❣️

@Thewoodlandnest

7 жыл бұрын

me too :)

love your hair style 💖💖 can you make a tutorial?

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Definitely!

@jamiebyunah

7 жыл бұрын

clothesencounters i wanna know ur hair colorrrrrr

@99Zoombaful

7 жыл бұрын

she said in other favourites videos that there's not specific name for her hair colour since her friend does her hair

@jamiebyunah

7 жыл бұрын

99Zoombaful oohhhhh got it thank uuu

Videos like this are the reason I've stuck around so much. You have will always be my favorite youtuber due to the fact that you're always trying to empower us and make us feel special and confident. Please keep it up and thank you so much! 💗

Honestly this type of video is so helpful! Don't worry about being preachy! I've watched so many confidence videos and yours is the only one that really seems to have hit home with me! You have ideas that nobody might be able to offer! Much love

Omg K-POP helps me feel confident all the beautiful voices like BTS or EXO or GOT7 😃😃😃

@sadaharu7967

7 жыл бұрын

Skincare Junkie lol

@sadidabushra3355

7 жыл бұрын

Skincare Junkie i love Twice

@imnassa

7 жыл бұрын

I was literally about to say BTS too. When I listen to "Not Today" and all the Cypher songs, I feel pretty damn badass LOLOL

@Alexa-bi9bp

7 жыл бұрын

SAMEEEEE

@musingsofajay387

7 жыл бұрын

its okay if you dont like it. I dont.

Hey Jenn, This is the first time I comment one of your videos, although I've been following your channel almost since the beginning. I just wanted to tell you that one of your quotes rules my life and is the one that gave me confidence over the year, and it is: "To gain confidence, you need to try risky things, get out of your confort zone. It will be uncomfortable at first, but you will unconsciously earn confidence. That's truly the only solution." To this day, I apply it and I tell my friends about it, because without it I don't know if I would have had enough mental energy to survive. So thank you Jenn 💕

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

I absolutely LOVE that quote. Thank you for sharing!

@amyli7077

7 жыл бұрын

Nana A I needed that today, thank you!

@nanaa1764

7 жыл бұрын

It's a pleasure to see that it helps everyone ^^

You have the sweetest heart Jenn, I have gained so much confidence just from watching your videos and embracing what makes me happy. You're right, judging others only makes people feel more insecure, so I love that your comment sections are filled with positivity and encouragement :3 Please make more videos like this!

aww thanks for sharing this, jenn! definitely agree with all your points! i'm 26 and i feel like i recently just became more comfortable in my skin. i feel a big part of it is the OG youtubers who i've followed for years who have reminded me that we're all beautiful, imperfections and all, to fill your heart with love instead of hate, and whatever you do to just OWN it, fuck what others will think! (: watching this in the morning definitely brightened up my friday 💗

So beautifully worded Jenn! It's so encouraging and really shows that it takes time and process for someone to get to where he/she is at and that everyone gets through that point if they wanna grow to be a better person! Love you jean xxx

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! n_n

Everytime nowdays when I have difficulties about something I think: "God gave me this challenge. He wants to see if I can make it or not. Everyone has their own challenges, but if you can make it or not that's more important." "If you really want to succeed sometimes you have to fail first." "Don't be jealous about someone. They have fought their way. If not, that's their gift and you have your own. Everyone has their gift. Embrace yours."

don't look at other girls and make yourself down, because they have a beautiful body or sth. maybe she looks at you and thinks i want your beautiful hair. you can't see in others peoples head

@ImBoiledPotatoes

7 жыл бұрын

needed this thank you

@petitefleur.0112

7 жыл бұрын

alinab15 agree ☺☺

@xTenshiAi

6 жыл бұрын

i love this

@tiffanywang7218

5 жыл бұрын

love your sentences, cuz I'm this kind of person, hope I can change, thx in advance.

@megan4609

5 жыл бұрын

i love ur idea so much.. thank u ❤️ it made me feel happy

UGH JENN thank you so much for this! I feel like you're so self reflective and the power of knowing yourself goes a long way. Thank you for another great video

Could you make a hair tutorial of this hair do? I love it 😍

You're so beautiful inside out Jenn! Thanks for reminding other people that there's so much more that adds to life other than just dressing up and putting on that lipstick😌😌😚😘👍🏼

This video has been five years. Still feel inspired after watching it. Thank you, Jenn. Also, a great video to practice my English. Luv u!

The way you say it radiates in the number of your subscribers who know and FEEL the sincerity in ALL of your words. it just shows that you are applying these steps because it just shows in you, your success, and your life! You deserve what you have now. It makes you even more beautiful Jenn. I will get this started just like you did. thank you :)

thank you, I really needed this :) I just love your mindset and overall outlook in life, and that mindset is one of the reasons why I look up to you so much. stay great, mom

Thank you for talking about these really important things.I always feel inferiority because of my body stature and my wearing style,my classmates are all looks goegeous,they sometimes judge about me to my face,even they are just joking but i still feel uncomfortable. I want to be myself! Your video always encourage me to do what I want to do,thanks a lot!

thank you so much for this, jenn. You're such a beautiful person and these words of encouragement and confidence are what i needed desperately. I constantly go back and fourth between how my life will end up and i started my youtube channel recently and i just needed that thank you sm ily

Loved when you said "We're just bits and pieces of everything we've ever experienced"!! So true!

I can listen to Jenn talk all day! Jenn you're probably not going to see this, but I just wanna let you know that I feel like a better person watching your videos, you inspire me to be you one day. I hope to meet you in person soon I love you so much keep doing whats you're doing girl.

Am I the only one who observe Jenn's subscribers count? can't wait for you to hit 2M!! 😍 Love this video, Jenn!

thank you for existing jenn! im just so ugh i dont know u inspire me and im just grateful for that

Thank you for filming this video Jenn! 💖 I'm super happy to hear your own thoughts on personal growth. Please continue to make more videos like this! Not only is it super helpful but I love the way you talk and explain things. It's calming and relatable.

this is so great! its amazing seeing big youtubers create content that can help their viewers be comfortable in their own skin...YOU ROCK💞💕💓

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Aww, you guys have had such an impact on me. I wanna share everything I've learned with you guys to help in anyway.

your character is sooo admirable!!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nicole!

You're honestly so inspirational Jenn, I look up to you so much and I will definitely be taking your advice and expand my capabilities. Love you!

thanks jenn, this was seriously so uplifting and even though it was something as simple as a youtube video, your passion and the advice that you gave really are some things that make me want to consider the things i do!!! so much love for you and your videos. keep on doing what you're doing xx

My highschool quote was "the limit does not exist" - Cady Heron hahahah

dude I am 23 an have no license because I am terrified of driving but this really helped and is pushing me a little more, THAK YOU!!! I wish you could teach me how to drive lol... ughhhh!!!

@julialasobras1092

7 жыл бұрын

Kassy Ca I was the same as you a year ago now I drive everywhere! give it a go and you will see how you can do it and get more and more confident :)

@stacey6835

7 жыл бұрын

So happy to see somebody the same age worried about driving lol! Good luck to you!

@alexiasalas9087

7 жыл бұрын

Kassy Ca omg I'm 22 and still no license cause I hate driving too! I always worry about the smallest things like traffic and how am I gonna get into the next lane lol I feel so lame for it but I'm so happy I'm not the only one!

@LeylaHey

7 жыл бұрын

You can do it!

@nancycastanon2845

7 жыл бұрын

I'm 22 and still refuse to go on freeways because it's scary lol I thought it was only me😭 all my friends got their lisence straight out of high school if not I'm high school

I just hit this empowerment video now, and it’s absolutely worthy for me. As a person going through the process to know myself, your every word cheer me up a lot x

Five years later and this advice is still relevant and solid! Thank you so much, I needed this. ❤❤

Haha same, i try not to look at people passing by, but sometimes they're ppl i know, and they end up thinking i ignore them 😂

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Hahah! If they're friends you know, they'll wave and stop you. (:

"We are little bits and pieces of everything we've experienced" ❤❤❤

Thanks Jenn! Lately I've been feeling so down and lost of confidence because I feel helpless. I've started playing the sports I used to play and I'm no longer used as I was; playing with more experience players gave such a heavy pressure on me to do well but it made me lost my confidence. Thanks for letting me know again that I'm doing things I want to do because I want to enjoy and it's fun. Love you lots xxx

Everytime I watch your videos I get so pumped up. You're so warm and intelligent!!! Definitely the best person on KZread 💓💓💓💓💓

You speak english so clearly. And you sound like a native english speaker♥️. Maybe your first languange is english, so lucky

@sophiango4427

4 жыл бұрын

yeah she was born in america lmao

this has nothing to do with confidence but omg jenn your hair looks so cute😍😍

Thank you so much Jenn, to know that others struggle with the same thoughts as me is soothing and your words help me build my way up to the level of confidence I want!

I think the first advise you gave is the best one. Years ago I had so low self esteem and when I stopped judging other I started to be more positive about myself and also FREE TO DO EVERYTHING I LOVE AND ENJOY without worrying what anyone would think :) great video btw!

Ok also I looked at your playlist and it's BASICALLY all my favourite songs... all the ones from Majestic Casual in particular!! You have some badass music taste gf 😍 😍 😍

Current confidence song is Not Today by BTS. That song would instantly make me want to get out of bed in the early mornings and just kick ass. Love this vid Jenn 💜 You never disappoint 💕

@maecyjoynavarro7286

7 жыл бұрын

sun-rise Yaaass. The message of that song is really great. BTS army here~

@maecyjoynavarro7286

7 жыл бұрын

sun-rise Yaaass. The message of that song is really great. BTS army here~

@chau8719

7 жыл бұрын

sun-rise Also 21st century girs and Cypher part 3&4😆😄😁

Jenn you freakkin rock! Everything you said in this video was so wholesome and true and WELL SAID as always! You're an incredible role model to everyone here

you are so freaking humble and genuine Jenn! keep killing the game

I'm so scared of driving I've been putting off getting my license for awhile bc driving gives me anxiety and I don't want anything bad to happen. Gonna try and work on it Thanks for the vid!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Yes, definitely work on it! Thank you for watching!

@farrah3941

7 жыл бұрын

clothesencounters 😊💗✨

i love you jenn!!!

@imjennim

7 жыл бұрын

Love you too!

@nicolekim1031

7 жыл бұрын

ahhhhh! i remember a few years ago you replied to my tweets 3 times hahahah thanks for making my day

thank you so so much for opening up and sharing these life lessons and words of advice! especially that part about having to stretch if you want to grow and absorbing and experiences things is so important to me.. i'm always in this bubble in my head and know that i should do something about moving forward... music is so so important to me as well, i love to listen to songs that remind me of my favourite artists who make me feel safe, or dreamy songs that make everything seem like a movie :3

you are seriously the most genuine & lively person i know. you are great, Jenn!

Ok. I really need to learn how to do that hairstyle. 😍❤

I remember having the FIRST song that makes me so confident whenever I listen to it and I was so amazed because it was a first for me haha. I think it was Don't Leave Me from BTS.

I love Jenn's talking videos. I always find myself listening to her college one and I feel like this one is going to be new fav.

Thank you thank you thank you thank you Jennnnn💕💖 your saying Dont Hold Back has so much power in it. Cant still believe you used to be insecure as well cuz i to me you've always been perfect. Thank you for getting honest with us and giving great tips. Really hope your life gets even better💕💖

two songs i listen to that make me feel badass are "My Song 5" by HAIM and "PRBLMS" by 6lack :)

@user-tu2uo9db8e

7 жыл бұрын

also im obsessing over your hair in this. looooved this video, perfect timing.

"The more you do something, the easier it becomes"

Jen I'm legit crying thank you so much for this playlist. Please recommend moreeeeeeeee.

Jen, watching you grow in your videos, trying new looks and new ideas has been a wonderful experience. You go girl!

Loved what you said about not judging others! I used to gossip and think bad thought of others in high school just to bring myself up but knew it felt wrong. It wasn't until college when I figured through Jesus that that shouldn't be life. Now I'm confident in who I am through Christ and God. I might not have it altogether but it really doesn't matter what other's personal opinion of me is only God's. Having that mindset I make sure to respect others for sure but I'm not fixated on this phenomena of what do others think of me :). I'm not sure if you believe in God or not but that's the only true freedom and confidence I could have truly established in my life and would encourage anyone to do so :)

I'm watching this video because I have an impromptu speech next week and I'm literally shitting myself lol 😭😭😂

@f4iry.3m

7 жыл бұрын

Practise as much as you can and I hope you do well! ( I know how you feel I just did a prez yesterday xD)

@alisonlim3300

7 жыл бұрын

Emily Infiresmaann aweee thank you!

I love you, Jenn! Such an amazing video, beautiful lessons, especially the one about absorbing the world, that is sooo true! Being open to new experiences, new people, new information is key to growth!

Sunday Candy is definitely my go-to song when I'm not feeling myself. It instantly boosts my mood and makes me feel all warm n happy inside! Love you Jenn, thank you for such an uplifting and heartfelt advice video

Badmouthing and having an opinion are two different things. Just a reminder.

@caracarabonitaa

7 жыл бұрын

either ways, if its negative, you should just shut up.. lol cuz ur point is still not relevant in Jenn's case.

@Isabella-bb3wu

7 жыл бұрын

If your opinion is hurtful to others and doesn't affect you in anyway it is irrelevant and not worth uttering. It just turns you into a prejudiced person, and ultimately affects your own person negatively.

go to gym and keep fit will definitely help improve confidence !! One can be confident in a shaped figure !!

Oh Jenn! You just made me cry, I needed that big sister´s advice. im 20 years old and Im in that moment of my life in which I have sooo many doubts, and fears about the future. I want to thank you for being such an inspirational woman.

Hi Jenn. I always watch your advice videos when I'm feeling lost or unhappy with myself. I feel like you understand what Im going through and you always seem to have the right words. :) You are such an inspiration and I wish to be as happy as you one day!