How Habits of Honesty and Transparency Can Transform Your Life | Jennah Dohms | TEDxWhiteRock
What if there was a habit that could help people break out of unhealthy patterns and into their dreams and goals? Jennah Dohms shares the need for true transparency and accountability with others. She experiences the benefit of this by using an accountability trio which regularly goes through a list of ten life questions together. She emphasizes that hard truths can come from a place of love and not judgement. To learn more about the list of questions visit jennahdohms.com.
Jennah Dohms is a motivated young woman who loves problem solving, empowering others and being a life-long learner. Some learning experiences include working on Parliament Hill, teaching English in the Middle East and China, directing events for different industries and working with Executive leadership teams. She is inspired to use her variety of international and professional experience to contribute to human development and dignity. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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Honesty. Such a simple policy that if we follow it truly, we can be happy and guilt free. Despite knowing that, sometimes we unfortunately fail to do even that
@himadrisonai8291
9 ай бұрын
people seems to be dishonest because of fear or greediness....if due to fear then it is acceptable..or if the reason is greediness then karma hits back
Receive criticism and not be defensive about your failures - that spoke to me
Honesty needs courage
@awanfarrell2880
2 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts
@fierce5273
Жыл бұрын
I also think you need to be able to trust someone to be honest with them. Some people react abusively to the truth unfortunately. I wish that weren't true... :(
@offthewallart08
5 ай бұрын
Love this
@northernplaytime
17 күн бұрын
Honesty is dangerous
Being honest requires courage to take the pain you get from being truthful with yourself. If you start being an enjoyer of pain. You will not be deceptive, ever. And you will be truthful with yourself.
The most honest people sleep well at night
@mikedrink3127
2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@habibaroyees
Жыл бұрын
♥️
@HDM-III
Жыл бұрын
Bs most lier lack empathy they care for no one but themselves.
@himadrisonai8291
9 ай бұрын
@@HDM-IIImay be
It can be really hard to look at yourself with complete honesty
@himadrisonai8291
9 ай бұрын
tes...sooooooo tough
@wesgh9579
3 ай бұрын
Yes, but well worth the journey, and more worth the freedom of becoming the true you!!
@dominikak2100
2 күн бұрын
@@wesgh9579yes, you feel good being you, real you!
Beautiful amazing soul . So true habits of being honest let u live in peace. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
I agree. Better to be known fully then to believed for a false version of yourself.
I have learned that honesty gets me in trouble, gets a negative reaction, hurts others.
@nyriekathrynhadnot2015
Жыл бұрын
I am trying to be less afraid
@lillithjones3787
Жыл бұрын
Its the approach maybe, being honest doesn't necessarily be to be hurtful, people do understand with few words sometimes...
Truth hurts...but speaking out truth improves your memory power...oru kallam parayan ayiram kallam parayendi varrumennu parayarille.. angane..lie has a beauty only for a short period of time...but the beauty of truth is everlasting
Honesty is the best policy.
Good video about truth and honesty. Now I have more truth and honesty instruments to exercise. Thanks!
Great talk!! I will start the process (writing the rules and the reason) for this today. Maybe I will invite strangers to be part of my circle..
I love the fact that being honest is a good attitude. But sometimes you don't need honesty. You may have a bad attitude that you are aware of it. You just have to work on it and start to leave it. Honesty is good but we don't have to mistakenly consider being haughty with being honest. And after that we need to be honest with ourselves. Because if we don't we cannot be honest to anyone.
@stampingwithtori
8 ай бұрын
I don't understand your comment. Who was talking about being haughty?
I call out my OWN shortcomings .
The current situations and conditions require endurance and patience .
This was an amazing talk
Thank you for the great video
mutual accountability within a cohort is the most transparent growth builder. Kind collaboration creates an explosion of possiblities. I was so fortunate to virtually meet Ms. Dohms, eventhough it was a short twenty minute group interview, I felt honored to pick her brain.
I needed this tonight
Thank you :)
amazingly helpful
she’s very beautiful and great, deep words!
Hey thank you!
I call out my OWN transgressions and short comings .
Amazing talk!
Her voice is soft ,so deep of honest and respectful. I will be honest one day.😂
She had I business being this relatable
@lyra9988
2 жыл бұрын
What?
@neighbor9672
2 жыл бұрын
@@lyra9988 they meant to type "She had no business being this relatable."
amazing
Authentic Honesty Is The Way
It's always love ............🙏✊👊👍👋🌞🌛🌱💧
❤️ the smile
I'm trying to do my life beautiful, and beauty is honest
Let's hope this is instilled in childhood
What are the other 6 questions? Please do share
"...and the Truth will set you free." -Jesus Sounds a lot like sponsorship as it's done in 12-step groups. I had never been ok with myself before AA.
@abonyfidow9659
2 жыл бұрын
So AA helped and not God.
@panes840
2 жыл бұрын
@@abonyfidow9659 no AA incorporates stuff and even if it doesn't incorporate it a variety of things can help and work in synergy.
i see.. like it says in the bible: where two or more gather, there I am. so they dont even need to be trusted friends. others reflect us to ourselves in our interactions. if you are paying attention then you can reflect on this. it seems to speak on the dangers of self isolation, physical or otherwise. in this case, self expression.
The honesty really bothers other people. They are use to being dishonest. It’s funny in a way.
Listen at .25x faster
@kingbain5383
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@eaa900
4 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly she talks normally at .25x faster 😂
@pazleoogbemillar1009
3 жыл бұрын
check
@siaracastic2515
3 жыл бұрын
Yesss
The sad part of this is that if you have been told that YOUR honesty is dangerous you honestly believe that YOU are dangerous.
Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤
there there is no worse addiction than the addiction to narcissistic supply people will risk their very lives every single day all day just to get it I've never seen any other addiction including drugs or alcohol but a person will literally die for
And yet , I don't condemn anyone .
You should always be honest. So tell everyone that you are dishonest. 😁
@jesselaaldea3456
4 жыл бұрын
What are the benefits on being dishonest?
@zed9616
Жыл бұрын
@@jesselaaldea3456 to prevent yourself hurting others especially those who close to you
What is the meaning of mutual accountability?
@MatthewVo
3 жыл бұрын
When both parties take full responsibility in their actions with each other.
@Traces13
5 ай бұрын
@@MatthewVoMutual Accountability: if you can be honest and still live, I can be honest and know I'm not going to die.
honestly अभी मैं chanting कर रहा हूँ ओर you tube देख रहा हूँ🙏🙏!!
Ok, but how do I start?
@caseyhenriette5772
Жыл бұрын
I suggest start reflecting on who you are and what you do in a daily bases. Now try to say your answers to a person who you are close with. Do they agree? Are you telling the truth? -hope this was helpful
something is off about her smile
@christopherleatherwood1670
3 жыл бұрын
@In a Universe where Deception halts Progress yeah your right
@add852
3 жыл бұрын
Kinda ironic because she's talking about honesty but her smile looks fake
achingly beautiful
I have no friends. Can two chill people adopt me?
@xmanuelx_1005
3 жыл бұрын
wanna be friends?
Diplomacy or honesty
I was so be honest in school they dropped me
We do anything is not suppose because they are not really on earth, the world is all wrong like majority. It is necessary to do it all wrong to reflect on wrong mindset.
@himadrisonai8291
9 ай бұрын
wow...damm true....
What about govt transparency? NIH did a grant study on dental white fillings. Guess what study was referring to? Increasing estrogen in body from these white fillings. Shouldn't MALES have a choice before these dental white fillings are used? This study determined whether placement of composite (white) dental restorations (fillings) & increasing the concentrations of bisphenol A (BPA) had estrogenic-like properties that raised concerns about safety abiut . amounts of the chemicals leached out of dental sealants and detected in saliva soon after the sealants were applied. Dental composites also contained some of these compounds? Why wasn't the public made aware of this and shouldn't it had been transparent?
@panes840
2 жыл бұрын
So what is a person to do? Mercury fillings are worse. Also I'd like to see the science that says such levels are detrimental to health. How much worse is concentration of BPA in a composite filling than a plastic water bottle? How much worse is the BPA in comparison to over types of xenoestrogens that are in the environment? Just saying.
🙏💯💯💖💖💙💙💙💙
I like car. I really do like car. Baby steps.
Just hard to find a sincere man with much love ❤️💖💖 my opinion🤔
@Randy2244Fit
2 жыл бұрын
We are in this world. We are🙏🏻
Well, never know the meaning of trust and misuse the word, total no awareness about word.
Take a look if you got 1 minute.
The beginning of this video really didn’t get me, I was hoping for something a bit more upfront instead of a backstory…. I definitely don’t want to come off as hateful, this just wasn’t what I needed at the moment
Honesty needs courage lmao
You know what dishonest You Tube Thumbnails:)
👣🌏🕵🏻♂️☯️
Lost four friends so far.
q pro
Provided weve been sucessor fvk
I’m sure she’s a believer in Christ!
🚔💅💜💀💀💀💀💙🥶🚔
Really?...
@chriszablocki2460
2 жыл бұрын
You're not actually looking for honesty. My honesty goes unrequited. And you're simply not worth the compromise (honesty).
@chriszablocki2460
Жыл бұрын
Honesty is ruthless. Did you notice the positive effects of flattery? For example: "that was a really great speech. It transformed my life positively. ☺"
Says the dishonest people
Ahem, ahem, I know you are reading this.
I couldn’t watch this because of her breathing
Don’t believe in your tense smile. It seems like she tries to convince herself. It looks like a bad playing a role. Especially on 3:10