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  • @SwagDealer9
    @SwagDealer9 Жыл бұрын

    Lol sadly no one’s ever had a crush on me 😂

  • @blade7506

    @blade7506

    Жыл бұрын

    real

  • @MrNoName7474

    @MrNoName7474

    Жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry, 14:08, that guy’s been crushed on enough to make up for all of us

  • @Person-mo7yz

    @Person-mo7yz

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't worry my friend just be nice, respectful, dress well, and I'm sure it'll happen one day.

  • @BlueFire98

    @BlueFire98

    11 ай бұрын

    Same here bro same here. The important thing is to move on and enjoy your life and things and opportunities around you

  • @BlueFire98

    @BlueFire98

    11 ай бұрын

    @@MrNoName7474😂😂😂 That explains a lot

  • @christhiantrevisan8084
    @christhiantrevisan8084 Жыл бұрын

    "We're together for X years now" always warms my heart saddens me every time

  • @GabrielHenrique-pq5bo
    @GabrielHenrique-pq5bo Жыл бұрын

    My friend said "dude my sister likes you, i think you should try dating her" she was so beautiful and i was so shy that a month later after i gathered enough courage to ask her out they were moving to another state and i never saw she or my friend ever again, none of us haad phones or computers to talk, its been 8-9 years

  • @VNCstudios

    @VNCstudios

    Жыл бұрын

    People like to say they would get mad if their friends dated their sister but the way I see it if you wouldn't trust your friends dating a relative then you need better friends.

  • @BenT800

    @BenT800

    6 ай бұрын

    My sister asked if a certain friend of hers in my class ever texted me and told me she liked me a year later when I changed schools 🤦‍♂️

  • @elliottadams2090

    @elliottadams2090

    Ай бұрын

    @@VNCstudios yeah, I’ve never understood why some people get so defensive/upset that their friend is dating their sibling. In some cases I can see why. But for the most part, it doesn’t make sense to get upset over it.

  • @michaelnilio6746
    @michaelnilio6746 Жыл бұрын

    Back in 2018, I was living at a friend's house and one night my friend, her boyfriend and her kids wanted to go see a movie and asked me if I could stay home and babysit some of their youngest kids because one of my other friends girlfriend was drunk and couldn't watch the toddlers by herself.(I hope what I'm saying makes sense). Anyway, I agreed and they went on their way. A few hours later, my drunk friend walks towards me and drunkly says "I like you a lot and you're really cute. You're good at taking care of children and you're so much better and nicer than my boyfriend". She said that while her boyfriend, my other friends and everyone else walked into the house. I was completely dumbfounded because I didn't know how to respond.

  • @FastnOut

    @FastnOut

    Жыл бұрын

    She was drunk tho

  • @Nzzertral

    @Nzzertral

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FastnOutdrunk words tend to be sober thoughts

  • @fredschwarts6201

    @fredschwarts6201

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @RuneScapeShadoma
    @RuneScapeShadoma Жыл бұрын

    Never did, because no one ever did have a crush on me. Like any sane person.

  • @tubois2025

    @tubois2025

    Жыл бұрын

    You are just too dense to notice them! Get some self esteem or it may just stay like that

  • @AverageGuitarHero42

    @AverageGuitarHero42

    Ай бұрын

    Must have a lot of sane people at my school

  • @jakeedwards4454
    @jakeedwards4454 Жыл бұрын

    The sweetest thing is when they follow you around “like a lost puppy”

  • @jeffclarke929
    @jeffclarke929 Жыл бұрын

    the girl that worked at my old gym and i had sort of a thing, people would joke that i was her work husband, in between rounds we would talk, had a lot in common. BUT she had a boyfriend so because im not looking to make a giant drama explosion where i worked out at the time, that was a no go. anyway fast forward to my birthday, ive never been to a strip club in vegas and im single so im talking about plans for partying this evening because he and i hang out and i bring up going to a strip club, and it was like someone got shot, she yells out “NO!!!!!” which kinda made everything go silent, and she realized what she said, and i think the thought of “oh yeah, thats not MY boyfriend” occurred to her, anyway, she starts stumbling on her words like “well yeah i guess its alright,” and accidentally lets slip “its not like youre going home with any of them since its a strip club” and i was like “well, we arent dating, but i DO like the attitude” she was as gorgeous as she was fun to be around. we dont talk enough these days since she moved jobs and i moved gyms and well life has been hectic lately. hope shes doin well tho

  • @AliothAncalagon
    @AliothAncalagon Жыл бұрын

    When I was 14 years old a girl I knew started asking me about a friend of hers. What I would think of her and all of that stuff. My answers were nothing burgers for the most part since I never spoke a word to her. A while later said girl put an arm around me when we happened to sit next to each other by coincidence. I was just looking at her like the confused teenager I was. She excused herself and never interacted with me ever again. It took me until I was 22 or something that I understood, she was into me 😂

  • @bibbobella
    @bibbobella Жыл бұрын

    They told me.... She made it clear she was interested in me through her actions, I grew some balls and asked if she wanted to go out. She said yes. We went on a date. She outright told me she was interested in me. We went on several more dates. We are still dating today. I know. Riveting story.

  • @slitheringserpent4433
    @slitheringserpent4433 Жыл бұрын

    Back in 2021, it was the end of high school and during graduation I sat next to a girl who I thought was pretty cute. I had actually known her since sophomore year of high school when she started coming to one of my best buds holiday parties. I had liked her for some time but she always had a boyfriend whenever I saw her, so i figured she didn’t want to be with me. One day, however, during sophomore year, we were both walking out of our math class and she immediately greeted her boyfriend who was waiting for her, but the second as I was passing by them they looked like they were going through something serious, I kept on walking. junior year, after school I joined a Salsa team and every time she saw me after school I was always hanging out with this other girl which she was just a student teacher for Salsa. Now during graduation as we finished up and started to head back to the gym to actually get our diplomas I thought to myself, just screw and say it. “ Hey, I see you quite often and wanted to say I thought you were pretty cute and wanna take you out on a date but you always had a boyfriend” something like that. She said that they broke up early in the year of sophomore year. She then replies that she had a crush on me but because I was always practicing with this salsa teacher during junior year of high school she thought I was dating her and never approached me. We both laugh, and I said “Really!? Oh come on what is that luck” she laughed again and just said it probably for a reason and I agreed with her.

  • @OccasionalThespian
    @OccasionalThespian17 күн бұрын

    dear girls/guys, if someone whenever y'all hang out with the gang wants to be constantly near you, doesn't stop looking while smiling sometimes at you, and if you play any sports want to be in the same team with you/runs first towards you to mark you if opponents, yet NEVER talks to you, is it because they like you or am I just going crazy

  • @mweathers79
    @mweathers79 Жыл бұрын

    I was in 10th-11th grade. Her name was Brenda, she was a Brazilian exchange student. I was told after her program was over that she crushed on me hard for the entire time. I was devastated. She was easily one of the most beautiful and kind girls I ever met.

  • @BenT800

    @BenT800

    6 ай бұрын

    Bro 🤦‍♂️

  • @music_and_other_random_thi1330
    @music_and_other_random_thi133011 ай бұрын

    I found out some time ago that not one, but two different guys had a crush on me. Apparently one guy (call him A) told another guy (call him C) that he had a crush on me. Turns out C had a crush on me too. A confessed, it took a bit to reject him; I had to think about the fact that someone actually liked me (am I emotionally damaged? Probably). While I was thinking that over, C confessed over text. I dated C for about a week before he said it wasn't working out. It was an interesting time to say the least.

  • @Wolfslayer_CTI100
    @Wolfslayer_CTI10011 ай бұрын

    So the way I found out that my current girlfriend had a crush on me is actually fairly odd, so I met her through my best friend of 7 years and at first I thought me and her were just gonna be friends until she gradually started making very flirty jokes towards me and it was made very obvious to our whole friend group that she had a crush on me and just a few weeks after we had met we started dating and we’ve since been together for going on 3 months at the end of this month and I couldn’t be happier

  • @anderstermansen130

    @anderstermansen130

    9 ай бұрын

    aww thats cute. When did she dump you though?

  • @Wolfslayer_CTI100

    @Wolfslayer_CTI100

    9 ай бұрын

    @@anderstermansen130 for your information, she hasn’t so piss off😒

  • @joshcruz9794

    @joshcruz9794

    27 күн бұрын

    @@Wolfslayer_CTI100 I think he misunderstood your statement at the end lmao.

  • @Wolfslayer_CTI100

    @Wolfslayer_CTI100

    27 күн бұрын

    @@joshcruz9794 yeah, probably just one of those people on KZread that can’t read all the way through something tbh

  • @joshcruz9794

    @joshcruz9794

    26 күн бұрын

    @@Wolfslayer_CTI100 fr

  • @sammyboy658
    @sammyboy6584 ай бұрын

    I'm on the other side: I have a coworker who's a good friend, we have a bit in common, even hung out outside of work once (a group thing). I tried hinting to her, but she never seemed to pick up. So this past weekend as we were leaving work, I thought, 'F it!' and got her attention, asking her point blank if she'd like to go on a date with me. She turned me down (she's not presently looking for a relationship) but praised my courage. I outright told her that many times I'd ask female friends I had crushes on out to something like the movies, and they'd always assume it was a "friend thing" so I knew I needed to be FORWARD this time. Bummed that she said no, but proud of myself for actually having the guts to go for it. You miss 100% of the chances you don't take.

  • @laplaceZ3ro
    @laplaceZ3roАй бұрын

    someone did have a crush on me, and i reciprocated. but fellas, it's ok if you're not ready for relationships. Take it slow, and you'll find yourself more happy

  • @kavonmchellon4651
    @kavonmchellon4651 Жыл бұрын

    So me and this girl had been friends for a while and i had came to really like her over that time. Then kinda suddenly on April fools a while back she sent one of those like "would you date me" type questionnaires. I was caught so off guard but i kinda knew what she was up to with sending it on April fools. That prompted me to confess and we were together for a bit and i loved every moment, but I'm sure thanks my lack of communication towards the end and some things she was going thru, she cut it off. It hurt but i understood I wasn't doing much but hurting her more at that time. I hope she's been doing better without me

  • @-geefius-5353
    @-geefius-53535 күн бұрын

    🎶sweet dreams are made of theeeese🎶

  • @Rosie-hi2kj
    @Rosie-hi2kj11 ай бұрын

    My classmate who i was friends with told me they liked someone in our class and told me to guess who it was. So i eventually named everyone except myself to which I got the answer of no each time. My dumbass did not realise that they laughed a bit too hard at all my jokes and went red in the face everytime i talked to them. After a few days they just confessed. Unfortunately i didnt like them that way and we remained friends. (I feel so bad i didnt answer them and basically ignored the confession). A few years later i introduced them to a girl and they started dating so i guess it went fine

  • @kristopgaute242
    @kristopgaute242 Жыл бұрын

    How I knew was that after taking a dare to kiss me, we confessed our feelings to each other, we have been together one month now.

  • @-jesusjimenez-7282
    @-jesusjimenez-7282 Жыл бұрын

    Those who were never someone else crush.

  • @mickyboyakari1502
    @mickyboyakari150217 күн бұрын

    4:23 This one is heartbreaking. 😢

  • @BlueFire98
    @BlueFire9811 ай бұрын

    No girl ever had a real crush on me after a quarter century. I’m just going to embrace MGTOW and enjoy my life and my plans for happiness

  • @TDestro9

    @TDestro9

    11 ай бұрын

    You took my pfp tsk

  • @lordnarasimha2500
    @lordnarasimha2500 Жыл бұрын

    taking a coworker home after work. She said “don’t crash” then throated me while I was driving. I got the hint.

  • @wilburwilliams36

    @wilburwilliams36

    Жыл бұрын

    Driving Dick-shift

  • @anthonyburke5656
    @anthonyburke5656 Жыл бұрын

    I was asked to be “The Best Man” when a close friend married. The wedding was in the home town of the Bride some 2,000 miles away. I flew over and attended the Wedding, it was a great night, I was partnered with one of the brides girlfriends. I stayed in the town for 2 weeks and went places with the girl, beach, night club, National Park and to a party. I then flew home. Fast forward about 5 years I had dinner with my friend and his Wife and his Wife told me the girl had been “carrying a torch” for me for the last 5 years. Fast forward another few years, I visited my friend (they lived in another state) to be told the girl was still carrying a torch for me. I was continually puzzled, the girl was so far out of my league. My friends wife kept “updating” me about her and apparently she kept updating the girl about me, remember we lived in towns 2,000 miles apart. A bit over 8 years after the Wedding I visited the girls home town on business, it never occurred to me to think of the girl, she turned up at my hotel, my friends wife had “updated” her about my visit and where I was staying. The girl was even more spectacular than I remembered, we had a drink and chatted, we had dinner and arranged to meet the next evening after I completed my business. The girl took me to a pub, at the pub were many of her friends and their partners, I was surprised, they knew my name, had a basic biography of me and referred to me as “the secret lover”. It eventuated the girl had remained single over the 8 years since the wedding, apparently celibate, fending off all advances by saying she had a boyfriend! Later the girls brother turned up at the pub, by this time I was truly creeped out and just waiting out the evening to leave. The brother got in my ear about the girl, virtually pleaded with me to give her a “chance” and “try” a relationship, he said words to the effect of “if you don’t at least give her a chance I’m afraid that will mean she will be single the rest of her life”. I extended my stay by a week, asked her to take a week off work, we did everything that could be done in that town, went everywhere, travelled up and down the coast. At the end of the week I asked her if she would consider moving across the country and she told me she could never “leave her family”. I returned home and by chance a few weeks later was “head hunted” by a company and moved overseas. My friend and his wife visited me overseas, the wife updated me again, the girl was still single, apparently still celibate and still carrying the torch, the wife had been updating her regularly about me. The next year I visited the girls home town on business and called her, we met for drinks and had a meal, if anything she was more spectacular, she updated me about her career, which was thriving (she was a very well known media person in her home town). I told her what I was doing, described my life, described the home I’d bought and what I thought I would do in the next few years. She asked if I’d consider a long distance relationship, if she visited me twice a year and I visited her twice a year (both minimums). Me, being the cautious type, asked if she would agree to put it in writing, surprisingly she agreed. I went home, engaged lawyers to draw up an agreement valid in both countries, she got lawyers, we each signed the agreement. Neither of us contemplated the obvious, she got pregnant with twins the first time she visited me!

  • @dhunta

    @dhunta

    Жыл бұрын

    W - patience W - devotion W - dedication W overall ❤💯

  • @icecream4you161

    @icecream4you161

    Жыл бұрын

    I was trying to wrap my head around where this would go but once I got to the end and nothing bad happened. Congrats on becoming a dad!

  • @MRSOMEAWE1
    @MRSOMEAWE18 күн бұрын

    We were playing destiny and we had this weird conversation completely unrelated to destiny. We were on video call just for details Her: “That was awesome! Should we go for another one?” Me: “Hell yeah!” There’s like a 30 second break as I take a drink. Her: “Can I ask you something?” Me: “Yeah what’s up?” Her: “Do you have a crush on anyone at your school? Or does anyone have a crush on you?” Me: “Seeing as how I don’t talk much at school, I don’t really have any opportunities to get a crush. As for someone having a crush on me, probably no one. Who would like a gloomy quiet kid?” Her: “Yeah, who would ever like someone like that?” She started twirling her hair with her finger and getting fidgety. I had known her long enough to know her tells. Me: “That’s a bit of a sudden thing to bring up, can I ask why?” Her: “Just curious, no one at all? Like, you don’t think anyone’s pretty even?” Me: “Not particularly.” Her: *whispering* “Is that so?” Me: “What?” Her: “Oh nothing.” She was smiling and really upbeat for the rest of that call. Ended up dating 2 days after. Sorry for anyone who read this far 😅

  • @ZombieAndrew13
    @ZombieAndrew13 Жыл бұрын

    I found out nearly thirty years later. she and I were friends via my flat mate at the time...she was seeing someone for awhile, then broke it off before leaving country for 5 years. She came back, we had lost touch, then years later we ran into each other on social media. she was married with a son, I was married and had 3 kids....we had the chance to meet up for a dinner when she and her son moved cross country for work. That evening over several glasses of wine she admitted she had had a crush in me, but didn't act on it back in the day due to her then very abusive partner and didn't know if she would be safe if she tried to break up with him. we now have the knowledge that we both really liked each other, and while we are both now happily married (her to a new guy, me to a new girl) of anything happens where we're both alone at the same time, we WILL finally get together. Our spouses are both aware and both have jokenly used this fact during mild arguments in the case like "Well, you can ALWAYS get with XXX"

  • @joekev27
    @joekev276 ай бұрын

    I remember in grade school I had a crush on this one girl but I was also so intimidated cuz she was kinda popular and hung out with lots of people from other schools so I never shot my shot and when we were graduating she was like you know I use to have a crush on you back in the day but now im with so and so and I was like omg why lol. Only time I've ever been told someone has a crush on me and I totally missed my shot. You live and learn sometimes.

  • @cornellmburke49
    @cornellmburke4919 күн бұрын

    Ahh yes, finally, some wholesome stories

  • @forgottenmma3694
    @forgottenmma3694 Жыл бұрын

    In Highschool, I was in a Algebra class that was mixed between 10th,11th and 12th grade students. There was this hot 12th grade girl who also happened to be in the varsity cross-country team. I was in the JV Cross-country team, I always tried to chat her up when I could after class and at some meets. And Im positive she got the memo because she then approached me in front of the boys running team with her friend and they were asking about me. Me and her started moving stuff back to the bus. Safe to say I was good at initiating conversation and a tall / attractive enough 10th grader to make her reciprocate. But I had Zero game and too introverted to make her my girlfriend. After the Fall semester, she passed the Algebra 1 class and Cross Country season ended. She was the hot silent type so I never got to ask her on a date. I never explicitly told her I had a crush on her, but I’m positive she knew, I just never made the move 🤦

  • @theredeyes10489
    @theredeyes1048911 ай бұрын

    Bold of you to assume anyone in the history of ever has ever had a crush on me (no one has)

  • @echocrashcraft
    @echocrashcraftАй бұрын

    If I don't see myself attractive either personality or looks (I could care less how I look since I can't help what I look like but don't want to get any plastic surgery just to change) there is no way someone has a crush on me

  • @regalsamyt1849
    @regalsamyt184910 ай бұрын

    As someone who didn't, I see this as an absolute win!

  • @DE4D_SH1T
    @DE4D_SH1T12 күн бұрын

    "This is me....but I always wake.up after" is crazy 💀

  • @astrocity7181
    @astrocity718110 ай бұрын

    The end of story 2 had me rolling

  • @RosiaNikkoley
    @RosiaNikkoley10 ай бұрын

    I needed to go home-schooling because of the virus, throughout all of the year I almost never talked to any of my classmates. When I came back to the next year, some of my classmates told me a certain boy has been asking my friends where am I, how long will I be homeschooled and when will I come back. When someone trash-talked about me to the teacher when I was gone he defended me, and it appeared he secretly asked one of the teachers to make him sit with me. He was enthusiastic about me returning to the school, and he always tried getting my attention. I left the school after finishing that year, and had a crush on another person, but he was nicer than most people I have been classmates with.

  • @fastlife__95_14
    @fastlife__95_14 Жыл бұрын

    Damn… some beautiful girl back in high school had a crush on me and I had a crush on her never knew she liked me though until a friend told me after she moved to Arizona damn

  • @FastnOut

    @FastnOut

    Жыл бұрын

    I live in Arizona and it's boring. There's nothing here

  • @lilyng1097
    @lilyng1097Ай бұрын

    Story 32: Same, I had a friend who tried her hardest to set me and her best friend, it did NOT happen

  • @JahamezSkate3
    @JahamezSkate39 ай бұрын

    So she started to like me and then we started to talk. I developed a crush on her but wasn’t sure she had one on me, despite being repeatedly told she did. We are now almost dating.

  • @leohoutarou9980

    @leohoutarou9980

    9 ай бұрын

    go for it my dawg

  • @onyxwolfreaper21
    @onyxwolfreaper2112 күн бұрын

    The first story is oddly wholesome XD

  • @juanorozco1971
    @juanorozco1971 Жыл бұрын

    I do have a few stories related to this topic however b4 I tell my stories I wanna say that some ppl are toxic & when you're single they pay you no mind as soon as you have a S.O all of a sudden they want you. Its happened to me a few times that I'm single & im getting no attention from other females but as soon as they find out I gotta gf they come outta nowhere telling me that they always thought I was cute but where to shy to hmu or that they had a bf at the time or thought I had a gf now the saying we should hang out or if it's some1 I know & they got my # theyll start texting me 1 time I had 1 girl send me a booty thong pic then claimed it was by accident & meant for some1 else. Even tho I thought she was lying I'll play along & say oh don't worry about it happens since I figured she expected a different reaction. Not long after I got a message saying that the guy she meant to send it to got the pic & said she had a flat butt 😢. I said that's messed up because I knew she wanted me to say she had a nice butt. Few minutes later she text saying well since you saw it already do you think its flat. I wasn't gonna take the bait & told her I didn't really get a look at it because I erased it rt away outta respect for my gf. She just said oh shes a very lucky girl to have a bf as hot & sweet as you. I ended the convo by saying my gf was calling so I had to go.

  • @grimhydrangeac.cskies1175
    @grimhydrangeac.cskies1175 Жыл бұрын

    I actually would stream on vr game and i meet him there we were both dense to each others crushing on each other but our friends knew didn't say anything but after a few days he had a girlfriend I was single again but afterwards he told that the broke up with her it was because she pull a mean park on April fools day I comfort him and he confessed to me afterwards I was happy and I told him that I liked him back we are still together till this Day 😊

  • @k.m6879
    @k.m6879 Жыл бұрын

    the mini comments are awesome

  • @sonic6714
    @sonic671429 күн бұрын

    Now we need the mystery video. I was in high-school on valentines day, they had a donation thing where you could pay a dollar to get a rose sent to someone. I was the outcast of the school, never really clicked and just didn't care about what others thought of me, yet I was kind and helped those i could. So I'm expecting no flower when all of a sudden I get a white rose. This was out there as white wasn't even an offer to be donated. So I asked my small group of friends, they didn't know. Then asked the teacher who delivered and said she didn't know either. To this day that single white rose takes up a corner of my mind and I wonder from time to time who got it for me and why?

  • @chaddfrancis2179
    @chaddfrancis217910 ай бұрын

    She said i was messing with my friend's sister,she was jealous.

  • @cand1d979
    @cand1d979Ай бұрын

    I knew he had a crush on me when he waited 8 hours outside of my best friends house to see if I‘m still there and stalked me pretty much for 3 months. He finally stopped after he moved away due to college.

  • @magoo1717
    @magoo1717Ай бұрын

    My first crush tore me apart. She said that she wanted to wait a year to date. She knew I had a crush on her and she ended up with her now husband. She told me that she used me and I heard they have a kid together. Not interesting in her anymore and took me a year to get over her

  • @josh1234525
    @josh123452510 ай бұрын

    I found out by one of my friends coming over during computer science. He said "Hey blank likes you, why don't you go out with her?" I then hear said girl from all the way across the room say "I wish" very loud. It was one of the most awkward moments I have ever been in. I just look over, got up, and left the computer portion off the room. Btw I "used" to be best friends with this girl and 3 of her friends. She more or less became an aquitance as school dragged on. We never had the same classes anymore until the year she said that. It caught me off guard. TLDR: she shouted across the room "I wish you would date me!"

  • @angrycapsicum6027
    @angrycapsicum6027Ай бұрын

    5:12 i hope he thought that was a joke and laughed it off lol

  • @Onio_362
    @Onio_362 Жыл бұрын

    I usually find out when people tell me

  • @sphezik9690
    @sphezik96906 ай бұрын

    The way I found out was my friend straight up telling me that a girl from my class used to have a crush on me, and he asked me if I felt the same, and at the time I didn't know how I felt because I was 11.

  • @Wepix1
    @Wepix1 Жыл бұрын

    In fifth grade, there was this girl on the bus with me who had a crush on me. Back then, I talked to lots of girls because the thought that girls were different from me didn't pop up in my brain at that point. Instead of telling me herself, she got her friend to do it, which was very awkward. At recess, all the kids were looking at us and asking if we were dating. I told her to put it off till middle school because I thought we were too young for that kind of stuff. So we started dating in 6th grade. In short, she ruined my confidence with women, and shortly after the start of 6th grade, I had to move.

  • @LUNARXERIA
    @LUNARXERIAАй бұрын

    For some reason I always can tell if someone I don’t like has a crush on me but whoever I like gives me mixed signals bro 💀

  • @UchihaAlira
    @UchihaAliraАй бұрын

    When I was thirteen, a close friend of mine grabbed my hand randomly and said he cared about me. Flustered and not prepared for it. I screamed "You're being weird!" and ran for the classroom door. After a lot of teenage drama, mixed messages, a LOT of angst and jealousy. We finally became a couple. Been together ten years now and happily engaged. And yes, he teases me all the time about the above incident.

  • @basdejong1598
    @basdejong1598 Жыл бұрын

    My lonely ass sitting here trying to learn more on how to spot someone who has a crush on me or approach whoever is my crush correctly. Never had any, but just so that I'm prepared in case cupid does not agree on how I want to spend the rest of my life in peace (alone in my forge).

  • @DrDestructoBlade
    @DrDestructoBlade11 ай бұрын

    Someone liked me i told her i liked her. well she liked the text and uhh well to put it lightly i was emotionally played. that was the day i stopped giving a shit about what others thought of me and started turning my life around. yeah i've always been single and still am but i feel amazing because i just dgaf

  • @Meh_thefifth-nm5zu
    @Meh_thefifth-nm5zu11 ай бұрын

    Third grade. Kid asked me to go to the dance with him. Did not know there was a dance. Laughed. Kid ran away crying and left school the next day.

  • @theclown2257
    @theclown225710 ай бұрын

    Oh that's easy. They don't

  • @m2ik2y05
    @m2ik2y0522 күн бұрын

    Colleague and me started talking. I was looking for new friends. I've just accepted no one finds me attractive. But i an fun to be around. Anyways. She was friendly but 9yrs younger than me. (33m, 24-25f) Talking to my brother about it. He asked if i could see myself with her. I said maybe. But then i got to know her more and she was far too immature for my choice in partner. But she was an ok friend. Well i didn't know that she asked my brother if i liked her but i never told him that i decided against it. So he told her i did. Well she started to tease me about it and i ended up telling her that i don't see her like that. And she said good cuz i don't either. Then proceeded to tell me about the coworker she had been dating.... in a round of 12 to 1 text messages. I was the 1..... she was mad at me but idk why but never talked it out bc my grandfather died three next month and then i got hospitalized so she stopped talking to be for a year. She finally quit her childish behaviors (Sorry looks, rude attitude, ect.) After another female coworker notice and told her to stop bc it was obvious she was being rude for no reason. Some suggest that this all happened bc she liked me. Well we hung out a few times. Just a friend's. Once she came to the gym with me after work. I sent her home in an uber as i can't drive (vision). I checked the uber to make sure she was home and notice the car was stopped. Then uber sent a message a the car was stopped for awhile. (1.5hrs) i tried calling her to make sure she was OK. Then the trip ended no weird from either. Used the emergency button on uber to summon police (she has epalepsy and has been left due to a seizure before) I got an angry call from her saying they weere just talking well the cops called me too... they werent talking.... good for her, but not on ky dime. Petty perhaps, but i did notify uber and they let me know he had been let go.... She thenndecided to tell everyone that i was starting rumors about her sleeping with the uber. I hadnt said a word. I couldve cared less but i was being charged bc the uber was waiting. So basically she outted herself. So yeah shes still mad at me.

  • @mrdabee9982
    @mrdabee998210 ай бұрын

    2:59: true but like she doesn’t talk or interact with me anymore and we used to be great friends 😢

  • @expeng
    @expengАй бұрын

    So, quite recently actually, there was this girl who is my little sister's friend and about a year younger than me. She would come over to mine and my wife's (my then-fianceé, soon to be ex-wife) place fairly often. There was one time she wore a dress that really showed off her figure, gave a twirl and asked me what I thought. I did not pick up on the hint, but I thought she looked good so I told her (also, I don't think my wife was home, otherwise there would have been some issues there lol). We also just sort of hung out and danced to some music while cleaning my place and she also elbow dropped me a few times. Looking back, it was so obvious, but I had never even considered it an option, partially because I'm oblivious, but also because I was engaged. At the wedding, my side was lacking significantly due to several last-minute changes to the wedding, including a venue change that significantly increased travel time for everyone on my side. But there she was, the girl who was still crushing on me. I got a little tip from my sister that she would be willing to stand on my side with me if I asked her. So I asked, and, lo and behold, she happily agreed. But her dress didn't match with the people on my side, so there she was in a dress she had fashioned herself in like 10 minutes from some other clothes she happened to find in her car, just in time for the ceremony. Fast forward about half a year, and I discover my wife was cheating on me. It wasn't until after I found that out and planned to divorce her that I also learned from my sister that her friend had been crushing on me for over a year... but is now seeing someone else...

  • @mikecustoms
    @mikecustoms Жыл бұрын

    my girl best friend told me, "ask (....) out, she just told all of our friend group that she has a crush on you", I didn't cause you can never be sure with women, after months of her trying every trick on the book to spend more time with me, she just told me and kissed me, I had a massive crush on her too, it was perfect, we dated for a few years

  • @paulallensdemise2533
    @paulallensdemise253311 ай бұрын

    Anyone else watching this just to get a hint of what it’s like to be desired?

  • @mastercoolguy2809
    @mastercoolguy280911 ай бұрын

    After i moved away and got a letter from her mom thanking me for being a good friend….. I followed up a couple years later and got friendzoned by the girl. Good times, good times

  • @ELisa-qf2mw
    @ELisa-qf2mw2 ай бұрын

    I had a crush on him, he friendzoned me. We were still good friends, and if I weren't Olympic champion at gaslighting myself, I would have catched plenty of all kinds of signs that something was off. Fast forward a long time, another lady I knew has a crush on him, confesses and he rejects her. I am messaging with her, discussing her feelings for our mutual friend, and out of the blue she writes that years earlier he was actually into me. As adamant as I was about me being a rejection magnet I just replied "no he didn't". She then proceeded to tell me how he had confessed the whole story to her and admitted to having friendzoned me for... reasons, but it had costed him a lot. By that time I had absolutely gotten over him, but very few times in my life have I felt that bewildered and vulnerable. Why did he tell about us to another girl? Why was she telling me that he had been into me, years later? Thinking of her still creeps me out.

  • @chumbleham1566
    @chumbleham1566 Жыл бұрын

    THATS THE NEAT PART, YOU DONT

  • @murraysaucedo897
    @murraysaucedo8977 сағат бұрын

    By the time I found out it was way too late lol. There’s this girl in HS and she was always mean to me so I took it at face value. Fast forward to 10 years HS reunion, she is all nice and smiles but she’s married. Sometime during the festivities while her husband was gone she stopped by my table to catch up and halfway conversation says “you know I used to have the biggest crush on you “ I guess you need to spell it out with me lol

  • @neochaositizen7490
    @neochaositizen749010 ай бұрын

    My school classmate just texted me randomly one day and we started talking almost everyday. He used to flirt a bit and I just brushed it off thinking he was just being friendly. When I told this to my bff she demanded that she see the msgs coz they used to be good friends and she was lowkey upset that he didn't catch up with her like he did with me (she was not jealous but just sad). So when she saw the msgs and she went like "He definitely likes you dude". I didn't know how she came the conclusion but she explained "He texted you at 10 am with a typo, later at 12 pm he texted you again correcting the typo. Which means he has been anticipating your text back and he was checking your chat constantly." I didn't spot that and I was like "That makes a lot of sense yeah". We still talk a lot, we've haven't hung out yet but I hope we do soon lol.

  • @kingumbra5440
    @kingumbra544017 күн бұрын

    Was literally stupid and dense that i didnt know for a whole year. Found out when she confessed during a christmas part(highschool christmas party), here we are 5 years l8r

  • @derpman116
    @derpman116Ай бұрын

    Not sure if anyone did have one but even if they did, my parents would seriously best the crap put of me to near death if they knew. I know it's abuse, can't do Much and move out since houses are super expensive, even apartments

  • @OstrichHell
    @OstrichHell7 ай бұрын

    Story five just went off instantly

  • @cherrycamaro3577
    @cherrycamaro3577Ай бұрын

    Randomly hit me up and said she had a dream about me, mind you this a about 1 year after having a on n off sorta toxic friendship with her, she then lied about what happened in the dream and told me later that we made out in it. We were flirting now and she told me that i was fine when i first met her and how she avoided talking to boys while i was around. I liked her a little back then but assumed she was playing games when she flirted but kept us platonic.

  • @dark_angel7162
    @dark_angel716229 күн бұрын

    HA I girl would have to hold me at gunpoint for me to believe she actually liked me 😢

  • @RazerHolic
    @RazerHolicАй бұрын

    1:47 She really said, "Where my hug at🤓🤓🤓🤓"

  • @gamingqueen7539
    @gamingqueen753912 күн бұрын

    A few people I hate might have a crush on me AND THEY ARE NOT GOOD AT HIDING IT OK 😭

  • @theunknown3661
    @theunknown36616 күн бұрын

    I was helping a friend study and she just starts to cling to my arm and she told me. Since then we're dating now😅

  • @strawboi1
    @strawboi110 ай бұрын

    This one girl I knew back in elementary that I wasn't nice to had a crushed on me in 7th grade which she ended up telling me 2 years ago and it caught me off guard that she had a crush on me since I was the worst person that treated her like crap back then and I did apologized to her for the way I treated her too before she even told me about it, and I know she would used to text me out of the blue and I feel like she did that just to see if anything would spark and she ended up saying that she doesn't have a crush on me anymore which I'm going to be honest it was pretty clear that she wanted to get close to me but don't know how

  • @greenhydra10
    @greenhydra10 Жыл бұрын

    I have been the other person in story 9.

  • @TerryJSwk4wj
    @TerryJSwk4wj6 ай бұрын

    2 stories: In senior year in high school, I was involved in theater. One of the popular girls (conversely, I was nerdy and overweight) never paid me any mind (And I don't remember her name). But a friend of mine once came up to me very randomly--when everyone else was onstage practicing lines, not paying any attention--and he asked me if I thought I would ever go out with her. I scoffed so loud that everyone heard me, but because they hadn't heard what he initially said, they had no clue what he we were talking about. I was like, "Ha! Yeah right!" Immediately, he looked down, saying, "Ahh," like he was disappointed, and he walked off. Of course, she probably heard me say that, and there's a small chance that she might have asked him to get my opinion of her. And IF that is true (and I hope it isn't) then I came across as a complete ass. And I am so sorry. (But it was so so random, people. Not just from him, but it was about HER, as if I was in her league.) But if she liked me and if she had asked me out in person, we could have avoided all that. I would have immediately said yes. Let that be a lesson to us all. Be direct. Or at least get your mutual friend to ask a better question. - - - - - - - - - - - - Second story: I was working at a restaurant while going to college, and I was the go-to trainer for a certain position. I was just minding my own business when a barbie doll walked in. Not really, but that's literally what I thought when the manager brought her over, telling me to train her for that shift (or whatever he said, I wasn't paying attention). A 5'3" blonde barbie come to life. (I was still overweight at this point, but less nerdy) But she (Ana) was out of my league, and she never seemed to hint that she had feelings for me. But as fate would have it, we became fast friends because she would steal other servers' tables (because they would take ten minutes to introduce themselves to the customers) and so very few people liked her. So when the both of us would show up early for work and eat and the employee table, we talked a lot. During work, that eventually turned to innocent flirting, including some very risque jokes from the both us (which should have been my first clue, but she just seemed like that type of person, so you know, Whoosh!). And one day, Ana and a mutual friend of ours--a girl--were eating before work, and we were flirting innocently, or I was, and then Ana got up to start work early and our friend turned to me and was like, "Dude, are you blind?" Well, apparently. Ana later got my phone number, and on my next day off work while I was lounging around watching Game of Thrones, she started texting me. An hour into the conversation, she said she thought she was in In Love With Me! WTFl?! We hadn't even been on a date. Crazy! After the Christmas party, I drove her home, and we talked in the car for an hour and a half before she talked me into kissing her. Huge mistake. I did, then she left and I never heard from her again. By the way, this whole time, she was married. (She got fired right after that, so I shared maybe two sentences with her after that incident, but that was it. No other contact.)

  • @jesusxfreak2
    @jesusxfreak2 Жыл бұрын

    There was a friend that was in mine and my brothers friend group that we had known since we were teenagers. He went off and got married but then had some issues because of miscarriage and they divorced and he moved back to our city. Unfortunately he became alcoholic for a while because of the depression from everything but one night he was messaging with me over Facebook and asked me out. I freaked out feeling so terrible that I was going to have to reject him because not only did he have way too much stuff he was going through but he also shared my brother's name and so I wasn't interested. He got married again about a year or so later but none of us like his wife and he doesn't come see us.

  • @Unknown_runner
    @Unknown_runner10 ай бұрын

    Once in 1st or 2nd grade a girl would chase me and get her possy to chase me as well when we were in class she would pull out a tiny camera and take photos of me and the one time she caught me she held a fake marriage I just now realized she had a crush on me.

  • @GuillermoSmyser
    @GuillermoSmyser18 күн бұрын

    Highschool, a girl I worked closely with in the theater production told me about two other girls that had crushes on me. She said there was a third girl but wouldn't tell me who... I asked "Is it you?" and she wouldn't say lol. I wasn't interested in her but I dated one of the two girls she told me about. A year later the same wingman girl hooked me up with her hot sister.

  • @PixelaGames2000
    @PixelaGames200011 ай бұрын

    I never had a crush on anyone before Like sure I can find people attractive but not in the crush sorta way more in the (they look pretty) sorta way There have been times we’re a couple of people crushed on me but that’s online never IRL I mean I do remember this one time when I was a child we’re this other kid ask me to marry him but I think that was just a pretend thing or something idk I just hope someday I can find the right guy for me

  • @Lynxy197
    @Lynxy19710 ай бұрын

    (5th grade) I had no idea this girl existed until one of my friends said one of his friends had a crush on her and from that point on i noticed her a lot more, coincidentally the teacher sat us next to eachother and talked and we eventually got more comfortable with each other but weren’t really friends nor strangers (Skip to 6th grade) It wasn’t until 6th grade when I realised how cute she was and now instead of trying to get her to like some other guy I found myself being jealous and always talking to her or teasing her jokingly. I noticed that both of us would sit as close as we could to eachother and it wasn’t until she was playing with her hair and tidying her collar and then walking up and talking to me that I realised she actually liked me back.... sadly year 7 came and we went to different schools whats even more annoying is that her older brother goes to my school but she didn’t because which I found pretty stupid since I wouldn’t get to see her anymore. What’s even worse is that they have a younger brother that goes to primary, the crush that goes to another school and then the older brother that goes to my school, so now they have to pick three different kids up from three different schools 🤦🏼 If only my luck weren’t so bad.....😢

  • @robertrochette2904
    @robertrochette290411 ай бұрын

    someone having a crush on me would be a little bit like the Montréal Expos winning the Stanley Cup ( yes, i know Expos are gone and they were not playing hockey.. lol ) Just curious, what's the game in background ? looks fun !

  • @SamPearce8
    @SamPearce84 ай бұрын

    Worked at a bar for a few months. This really pretty 23 year old (I was 29 at the time) used to go "out of her way" to talk to me. I don't normally go for that big of an age gap (only dated younger than me once). I had a girlfriend at the time, she had a boyfriend. She complained to me about her man one day, I said "idk how I'd feel if my girl--" and she cut me off and was like "oh. You're still with her? That sucks." In the most lifeless voice possible. I really just try to do my job at my job I'm sorry

  • @baconater562
    @baconater562 Жыл бұрын

    her sister came up to me and said that her sister had a crush on me this was on the last day so i never found out who this was since i had moved schools after that sometimes i wonder what could have been this was in the 6th grade

  • @Tman868
    @Tman86811 ай бұрын

    Found out my crush got a crush on me on instagram🗿

  • @xZylter
    @xZylter10 ай бұрын

    This would be great if a girl actually wanted me

  • @haroldboi7
    @haroldboi711 ай бұрын

    Got told by one of my mates (this was primary school so it probably wasn't a proper crush) she was at the same table as he said it and she looked embarrassed and denied it. I didnt know how to respond and even though i had a crush on her, i replied "Ew". 🤦‍♂️

  • @anafqofa
    @anafqofa5 ай бұрын

    how does bro look like that so many of them had crush on him?😂[story 45]

  • @Territrixy
    @Territrixy11 ай бұрын

    Dude. I haven’t gotten the “other people like you” update.

  • @crimeworkers130
    @crimeworkers13011 ай бұрын

    Okay like almost all of these guys could be anime protagonist

  • @P1RSA
    @P1RSA Жыл бұрын

    Fun fact, I actually know a swiss chalet on yonge street, not too far from me

  • @boof994
    @boof994 Жыл бұрын

    Me still waiting to find out

  • @fredschwarts6201
    @fredschwarts6201 Жыл бұрын

    When I was in 6th grade my first crush asked an 8 ball if I had a crush on her (she did the same with all her other friends) and I was the only one it said yes on.

  • @personcalledalexis
    @personcalledalexis Жыл бұрын

    some guy tried to kiss me (AFAB, FTM). note we were both 9 at the time. i elbowed him in the stomach. never got in trouble. because i’m autistic, it never crossed my mind to tell someone until this year. told my mum and my current teacher, he got talked to, and i’ve yelled st him multiple times for invading my personal space.

  • @user-nw1sk5fe3m
    @user-nw1sk5fe3m Жыл бұрын

    someone told me they had a crush on me over roblox😭

  • @ihave7greasestains

    @ihave7greasestains

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @Arthur-m1c
    @Arthur-m1c6 күн бұрын

    I have a “friend” I know and we went camping at ledgendary lodge and I meet her friends a short red haired girl had the same humor as me and when I was waiting to be picked up we talked she gave me her email and I hope to see her again she could be friends with anyone her name was Camryan and I assume she was Irish she had pail skin freckles red hair but she some times acted like a crack head but I didn’t mind it

  • @Arthur-m1c

    @Arthur-m1c

    6 күн бұрын

    Camryan is a fake name

  • @Jakjas221
    @Jakjas2214 күн бұрын

    She confess 😊 we broke up tho