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@harikumar3038

Жыл бұрын

please share the report / article referred to in the video

@didamnesia3575

Жыл бұрын

Good provider = money. When a woman says "good provider" on a date to me I know she's a gold digger or at least only values money and won't be around for any tough times or honestly, just normal times

@TheTarutau

Жыл бұрын

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@vaeldsable

Жыл бұрын

@@Barbarian___ Dungeon and Dragons? Incel hobby number one :)

@bobbobert1964

Жыл бұрын

@mrytully right none of these were skills. Art, musician, woodworking, making something, producing something…. Watching sports?

The most attractive hobby for a man is not choosing your hobbies based on what is attractive.

@dkkogmaw1311

Жыл бұрын

ok mommy

@JuancoPRoFlow

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@JBrooksNYS

Жыл бұрын

It won’t make me change my hobbies but it will prioritize which of my hobbies I will present to a woman… that is if she even cares enough to stop talking about herself and ask about me.

@ATLBraves1992

Жыл бұрын

This. For every hobby you will find someone that’s passion driven. Never chose a hobby to make yourself more attractive if you don’t like it.

@Anemone3690

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂❤

For any dude out there watching this, dont gauge your hobbies based off of external validation. Find hobbies that are personally fulfilling to you. Theres nothing wrong with trying to increase your attractiveness but at the end of the day you should be investing in yourself and what makes you happy. There's someone out there that will like you for who you are, and building yourself to represent what others tell you will make you "more attractive" is a hollow path not worth walking. Chin up brothas

@artemioolivas5689

Жыл бұрын

On point.

@x-man5056

Жыл бұрын

It's a good point and well said. But...picking up a hobby, outside your normal maybe, perhaps one a women could enjoy with you is still a worthwhile endeavor. Romance is a 'WE' thing. Example: I'd never let her put a wrench on my bike. But lots of women, at least in Nevada, like to shoot. And a list as long as my leg more also. None of my hobbies bring me "validation" outside or inside. They are just fun ways to pass spare time, be creative. A hobby WITH HER, still feels like a fun way to pass time. For any Dude reading this, be open to it. One "WE thing" could lead to another. You need to be able to do things together, beyond horizontal bop. It's kinda what the whole LTR thing is about.

@overbank56

Жыл бұрын

Makes sense

@eryko2338

Жыл бұрын

exactly!!

@x-man5056

Жыл бұрын

@@utube72 How about a video on hobbies that appeal to both men and women? Most of us here want to succeed with women, not avoid them or trash them. Don't need coaching for that.

Cooking is a good hobby. When I was dating, I was flat broke and could not afford restaurants for dates. When I told the women I was dating, that I could cook for them at my apartment, they all dropped me like a hot stone when I explained my finances. I had one girl who took me up on my offer. We had a very nice chicken dinner with wine, soft music and good conversation. We celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary next year. BTW...my finances have greatly improved since then. I also play piano. I don't know a women out there who does not like a man who plays piano.

@emptysoul2757

Жыл бұрын

Those other women are absolute airheads. Bullets were dodged

@jjberg83

Жыл бұрын

I love it. I was/kind of still am in that situation. I never explained my finances but when they saw my vintage 1 bedroom apartment they all took off. I did some solo VERY high end travel when I hit an unexpected windfall and many of them tried to come back lol

@davidbowman2035

Жыл бұрын

I'm getting back to learning the piano and your comment gives me motivation.

@dgwaters

11 ай бұрын

You are so lucky dude. I would love to meet a girl, get married, and celebrate 25 years of marriage.

@mk0759

2 ай бұрын

That's actually a great filtering technique, because what all those women who dropped you were telling you is thst they are first and foremost looking for a man to foot the bills for a lifestyle they can't afford. And you found that out before wasting any more time and money on them for a first date. Congratulations on your long marriage. It's a shame that the dating market is an even more caustic, degenerate wasteland than it was 25 years ago thanks to the negative impacts of social media, loss of family values and foolish political and legal policies in most western countries.

How the hell did musical talent not make it onto the list!?!? I played basketball for 10 years, never drew me interest from a girl. I’ve been into singing for only 10 months, and it’s been a different story

@ufodubz2699

Жыл бұрын

It’s because most women see basketball players as douchebags

@glenchapman3899

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely. And the number of famous musicians who say "Getting girls" was one of their motivations for getting into music in first place.

@NeonClone66

Жыл бұрын

@@glenchapman3899 right. True for many musicians. Lemme be clear tho… getting women was not the motivating factor for me haha doin it to better myself. Courtney always preaches just that💯

@funkysoulman3861

Жыл бұрын

I was waiting for "plays an instrument" to be one. I guess that one takes too much time. I guess a woman would get jealous i'd have my hands on the guitar more than her.

@NeonClone66

Жыл бұрын

@@funkysoulman3861 💀😭

Hobbies and interests do make a man more attractive and diverse. If you do get into a relationship don't let the woman take your hobbies from you. So many men have had their hopes, dreams, and opportunities taken away by a relationship. Make sure the relationship compliments your life and is not your life. Also shopping and spending money isn't a hobby ladies.

@thes.t.a.gprince9952

Жыл бұрын

@@isaura-22 I agree , I have things that I know women won't find attractive like video games. But I also love literature like stories of any kind and I really get deep into those things. Me being into Aristotle or St Benedict. Does that make me attractive I don't know I really don't care. And if some girls are attracted to that ,that's fine and vice versa

@ArmaGuyz

Жыл бұрын

FACTS

@ARTDEVGRU247

Жыл бұрын

@Cracked Walnut Nut smh 🤦

@ruleaus7664

Жыл бұрын

@Cracked Walnut Nut What kind of distorted thinking is that? Do you realize 20-40% of divorces are because of infidelity?

@josephcolton2614

Жыл бұрын

A friend of mine told his wife: "I've had this hobby before you and I'll still have it after you..."

Lack of hobbies has never been a problem for me. The fact her hobby, her only one, is shopping, however, is.

@DimaGuitar

Жыл бұрын

Shopping is not a hobby lol

@notanumberafreeman6903

Жыл бұрын

@@DimaGuitar To them it is. Go ask 10 women what their hobbies are. I guarantee you "shopping" will be the number one answer for 5 of them, in the top 10 for at least 9 of them.

@dobermanownerforlife3902

Жыл бұрын

@@notanumberafreeman6903 most women's hobbies include spending money, like travel. Second is things that derive attention, like dancing. Nothing useful or productive.

@animalgarden825

Жыл бұрын

@@notanumberafreeman6903 Many women list shopping as an interest or hobby in their Tinder-profiles. Very alarming and a big red flag!

@MonsterTomten

Жыл бұрын

Last year I went to a date and asked her about her interests. She said she really liked to walk outside. I tried in vain to ask about any other hobbies. I didn't go on a second date because I couldn't see a future with her. As someone who has alot of interests. Excersise, music, painting, engines etc

00:00 Intro 00:45 Skillshare Ad 01:40 eHarmony Article Top 10 Hobbies 05:14 Top exercises to list 05:42 Speak another language 06:25 More stats 07:00 Article Conclusion 09:07 Courtney's Conclusion

@AkinlabiStClair

Жыл бұрын

Here have this king 👑

@elijahtorres9111

Жыл бұрын

God Bless

@philcliffe6909

Жыл бұрын

So you've listed everything except what the video was about, 10 Hobbies.... marvellous.

@StonedNoob

Жыл бұрын

@@philcliffe6909 well isn’t that on the video provider?

@philcliffe6909

Жыл бұрын

@@StonedNoob Since when has 'Intro' been a hobby. Since when has 'Skillshare Ad ' been a hobby. Since when has 'eHarmony Article Top 10 Hobbies ' been a hobby.... Do I need to go on or has the penny dropped yet.

You're absolutely right about people with no hobbies being unbelievably boring. For some reason finding women with a hobby that doesn't involve screens seems incredibly difficult.

@theNightrage

2 ай бұрын

I find the opposite to be much harder tbh

@ronaldgmaster5782

2 ай бұрын

If she is cute you won’t care if she has hobbies.

@cur244

2 ай бұрын

@@ronaldgmaster5782 If she has no hobbies she's not cute. No hobbies means sitting on the couch staring at a screen all day.

@cur244

2 ай бұрын

@@theNightrage You'd rather have a woman that sits on the couch and stares at a screen all day? To me that's incredibly boring.

@theNightrage

2 ай бұрын

@@cur244Well... As a nerd myself I kinda disagree really hard here.... But that´s what society made people think for years now, I guess.

Here's my two cents: I do believe that people are drawn to the feeling they get when they're in the presence of a passionate personality. I think it has less to do with the actual hobby itself, and more to do with how passionate or even obsessive the other person is about a certain topic. So don't go out there and get a random hobby just to attract people. Because unless you're REALLY passionate it won't count. No? Am I romanticizing it?? I might be...

@thementalityman6993

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree! I wouldnt want a partner without hobbys simply because I have my own ones and dont want to give them up

@MikeyP109

Жыл бұрын

Even the video game topic. As it turns out, women play them too.

@Aumaan924

Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you but I can't think of it so straight forward or simple... because I've been in situations where one of my particular hobbies would be the reason the woman was disinterested, mostly because they weren't interested in it themselves, so hobbies sometimes kinda need to align between partners

@MikeyP109

Жыл бұрын

@@Aumaan924 which puts less value on the hobby and more on common interests.

@foxdevilsadvocate8567

Жыл бұрын

Passion. Having passion outside of a relationship is AWESOME for both men and women. It shows that when they are focused, dedicated, and absolutely involved in something that they love to do/talk about, it *could* show up in the relationship towards the person they are dating. Plus, it's less pressure on the other person to provide "entertainment". The person is growing, learning, educating themselves, etc. It's just so much of a hot thing. Though of course, there is that balance. If ALL you do is talk about that one thing, then it can get pretty mundane quick. However if it branches out to skills the other person can see (mechanical, electrical, artistry, etc.), then there is that link that can connect to a wider variation of experiences.

-Being rich -Having money -Working out/have a 6 pack -Traveling to bouji places and uploading to social media

@tr607

Жыл бұрын

Truth. The article is bs. They DGAF about actual hobbies. These are all hobbies that they gain something from. Traveling is a "hobby"? 😂 Pets? My dog is not a hobby.

@MrDigztheswagking

Жыл бұрын

Be rich 🤑 chicks give zero fucks about about a man's hobby 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@prasedomaci9264

Жыл бұрын

@@tr607 I would argue having 20+ tarantulas can be considered a hobby... and I have yet to meet a woman, that finds me more attractive, because of it.

@tr607

Жыл бұрын

@@prasedomaci9264 😂👍

@NAPAuniversalJoints

Жыл бұрын

truth

I’ve had this issue where people tell me I’m doing too much. I’m super outdoorsy and love keeping my body in motion. Some of my hobbies include Jiu Jitsu, rock climbing, mountain biking, snowboarding, hunting and fishing. I also have a fulfilling career and side hustles that bring me happiness. When I’m not working, I’m either at the gym or spending time doing my hobbies. I don’t really do bars or nightlife so finding women that understand my lifestyle is hard. I live in a city so my lifestyle seems too active but when I’m out in my scene, I’m too much of a yuppy lol. It’s a weird spot that I’m in. I have learned to enjoy being by myself. I believe you’re only young once and your body is capable of so much. I don’t want to look back and say I wish I would’ve done this when I was young and strong. We live in a day and age where information and opportunity is all around us; Take advantage of that to learn and absorb as much as you can. I’ll save the book reading (I listen to audiobooks) and “Netflix and chill” for when I’m no longer able to move like I used to when I was 20. I don’t necessarily want a girl to enjoy the things I enjoy but understand that this is what keeps me sane and happy. Heck, maybe she can come tag along and enjoy things I enjoy doing and vice versa. Also, it probably doesn’t help that I’m 5’ 6” lol. But I check everything else I believe. And I would also say I’m a bit shallow when it comes to looks.

I really enjoy your channel! I don't use it for dating advice. Most of your advice are great ideas for self improvement and I apply that. I'm very empathetic, so I enjoy learning from others and what their perceptions are. Your advice really helps me understand what I need to work on for myself.

But the most important thing is, that your hobby brings you joy and not how attractive it makes you

If old age,medical and physical problems ever become attractive,I will finally meet someone👍🏻

As a guy I find a girl who is busy working and bettering herself to be the most attractive. Bonuses are if she can cook and clean. But 100% a girl that isn’t caught up in the modern day to day bull crap and media and staying home and being on the internet is HUGE deal for me

I’m sooo happy I found your channel ❤ I really need this guidance on how to be more attractive and dress better and all round bettering myself. You’re very good at this.

Most women I meet in person did not really care about my hobbies. They were more interested in telling me their hobbies.

@CliveRosefield

Жыл бұрын

precisely. People want you to be interested in them.

@RAILWAY_FILMS

Жыл бұрын

number 1 on the mens list in actuality is this : 1. LISTENING, if that's your hobby, you're off to a good start. but you have to be able to at least carry a conversation with some short answers that keep it moving. I think they said traveling was number 1 but its actually listening because believe me, if you go traveling with a women and aren't listening to her during your trip, your trip is going to come up shorter than planned

@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO

Жыл бұрын

Women don't have hobbies; they have utterly crap interests like: Fashion, Makeup, Selfies, Dancing, Pop-Music, Celebrities, Instagram, and Only Fans

I wish women realized how attractive it is for women to have interesting hobbies. Based on dating profiles I've come across, travel, drinking, and brunch seem to be the only things women are interested in.

My top 3 as a guy (i like doing them): 1 Photography (not for the socialis, but for the creative aspect of it). 2 Cardio: Running/walking in the nature, expecially in the countryside. 3 Learning about... everything? I use many tools for that, KZread, books, or internet in general.

As a 49yo man I believe the list of what a women requires or wants continues to grow over the years while the opposite is true for men. As long as your nurturing, polite, look to be on my level looks wise ,"average" and I trust you is my requirements 😂 As for hobbies I had lots as a younger guy but as I get older I lose interest in many of my past hobbies. I do enjoy investing and exercise but travel is a no. However if I had a girl I would have no problem with taking her anywhere I just don't care to travel alone as a "hobby".

@emptysoul2757

Жыл бұрын

I agree on the traveling alone part. Sounds like a great way to piss money away

As long as u have a hobby, that alone is considered attractive. It does not have to be smth that a woman MUST LIKE in order for her to view it as attractive.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@SuperZippyzippy

Жыл бұрын

Unless your hobby is video gaming

@DimaGuitar

Жыл бұрын

@@SuperZippyzippy Because most of the gamers completely overuse that. Unfortunately

@johnq4520

Жыл бұрын

I have all kinds of hobbies and still don't get the kind of women that I want to be attracted to me.

@SuperZippyzippy

Жыл бұрын

@John Q45 same.. I'm a gamer women just suck 😆

As a man I care whether or not a woman has hobbies, interests and passions. It doesn't matter a whole lot to me what they are as long as she has some. For me, music is the love of my life. I love a woman who also shares a love and knowledge for music.

@tigerbear3038

Жыл бұрын

I don’t know a single person who doesn’t like music. Just listening to music is not a hobby imo

@dylanswrld

Жыл бұрын

@@tigerbear3038 he probably plays it too, and if not, listening to it is a hobby if you know what you’re listening for. theres a lot to listen to if you know music theory, which im guessing you don’t based off your comment

@robb4394

Жыл бұрын

​@@tigerbear3038 I wouldn't say that I dislike music, but I honestly have no love for it. If I have headphones in there's a 100% chance that I'm listening to an audio book or podcast.

@slick8086

Жыл бұрын

I agree I find it really strange that music doesn't show up on that list at all. I grew up in a family that played music and sang together. And even at family reunions distant family did the same. Mostly folk song and none of us were ever "professional musicians." I would have guessed that music would be on that list before "watching sports" at least.

@megasoid

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

I’m surprised that something involving music wasn’t on the list. Either singing or playing an instrument gives a huge boost to a man. My father was a professionally trained opera singer and there were women throwing it at him right in front of my mother. When I was in high school, I had girls call my house and ask if I was home just to hear my dad’s voice. His accent didn’t hurt any too. They knew I was at football practice but they still called anyway.

@rustykoenig3566

2 ай бұрын

LOL! Thats epic! Your girlfriend calls and you answer: DAMNIT! Im gonna call BACK... so DON'T answer the damn PHONE! 'click'

Courtney I was once a full time musician and i did attract many women. My frustration with it was though it was my job, they saw me as a muse or novelty. It was great being able to pull some babes & really helped me figure out looks are looks and nothing more.

@gilian2587

Жыл бұрын

That's not nothing.

@jambajoby32

Жыл бұрын

@@gilian2587 wut 🤔

@gilian2587

Жыл бұрын

@@jambajoby32 Figuring out that looks are looks and nothing more. That's not nothing.

@jambajoby32

Жыл бұрын

@@gilian2587 oh.. it is something! But it’s nothing more than just looks.

@Rikalonius

8 ай бұрын

Women are attracted to musicians, until they date them, then suddenly their commitment to music becomes an impediment.

I share several of that list of hobbies you mentioned Courtney (travelling, exercising, dancing, cooking, politics, pets, photography and sports), but I also have quite a few geeky hobbies that have been heavily criticized by people over the years, like video games, comics and anime. I never gave a damn about others opinions regarding that. At some point I launched a website to publish news and opinion pieces about those geeky hobbies also including music, cinema, literature, etc. Later a girlfriend of mine told me I was wasting my time... She's no longer my partner, obviously, and that website not only made some money, it served as a portfolio for my last two jobs, both related to the entertainment industry (organizing comic book conventions and writing for an anime streaming service). I also have a wife that shares most of my geeky hobbies. Never let anyone go after you because of your hobbies.

@flashnimi

Жыл бұрын

Thats awesome! You accepted yourself and embraced who you are, turning it into a major strength and finding a partner who celebrates you! Major respect

@mysticstarhf9265

Жыл бұрын

I have to tell you, I have met some amazing and incredibly attractive women over the years that from outward appearance you'd never know they were interested in Marvel, comics, anime and ComiCon. Few and far between but they are out there. Being married myself, it's easier to carry on a conversation with them as they know you aren't trying to date them; I've met them all through my job. I've hooked some of those ladies up with some guys I know that enjoy those same things and they've ended up married with kids and doing well. I think if the geeky ladies let more of that side show instead of suppressing it publicly, more of the geeky guys they are looking for would take a chance to ask them out.

@SenseiAgot

Жыл бұрын

@@mysticstarhf9265 yeah, I know there's quite a lot of ladies like that. Specially nowadays, that geeks are the mainstream. But when I was a teen? Damn. I was ridiculed on a daily basis for my hobbies. But I didn't care AT ALL. I was a tough kid hahaha

@SenseiAgot

Жыл бұрын

@@flashnimi yeah, I was always very assertive in that regard. I valued my individuality way too much to buckle under people's idea of what's acceptable as cool. Even though I did have many normie interests as well, and still have.

@ewoman3584

Жыл бұрын

She doesnt realize the money that can be made with some hobby things! LOL

Writing is a big hobby of mine. It's a way for me to be creative and tell the kind of stories I'd want to read but can't find other places. My other big hobby is whisky collecting. It's something I enjoy in moderation, but the whole process of distilling and how a whisky is shaped by the area it comes from is fascinating to me.

@WilliamsWorlds

Жыл бұрын

I'll second the writing. One of the big things that impressed my current GF was some of my short stories.

@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395

Жыл бұрын

I write but I would never show someone lmao ain’t no girl want to read poetic stories

@CommentorX

Жыл бұрын

So you're an alcoholic Hemingway wannabe? How's that working for you?

@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395

Жыл бұрын

@@CommentorX *someone likes alcohol* Church soccer moms: “yOuRe An AlChoLhIc”

@grapeboi9256

Жыл бұрын

That's great! I personally like to write music and short stories myself

I tell my Nephew (since he was about 10yrs old now, 18).... Nicholas, learn to dance, learn to cook, learn to Dress sharp, be a Gentleman, and above all never stop learning or being curious. He is presently in a top Engineering school, dabbles in cooking, works-out and I'm immensely Proud of Him!!

I'm a huge car guy, well automotive I should say, anything having to do with cars, trucks motorcycles and racing in general, and that definitely helps within the community itself, but starting to venture out and incorporating that with other hobbies like traveling, making videos documenting such and I make money from doing so as well so thank you for putting it out there that having something that you enjoy that also makes you money is just as good as the ones listed

@Robert-xs2mv

4 ай бұрын

Cars move the body, motorbikes move the soul!

@jamestravis1147

Ай бұрын

@@Robert-xs2mv Yes, until the car moves the motorcycle, and the soul leaves the body. Love both, but people tend to be self-absorbed and will run over you on a bike these days more than ever.

@Robert-xs2mv

Ай бұрын

@@jamestravis1147 why as a biker one is so much more aware of their surroundings, their lives literally depend on it. On the other hand we can accelerate into gaps cars simply can’t. And as a truck driver, I can say a car hit by one of use also make the soul leave the body. Why I don’t like cars

I started ballroom and swing dancing over the past year and a half. I have always liked dancing, but was always a bit shy about it when I was younger. Part of that is because people my age at the time really only knew how to club dance and that wasn't my jam. Now I am either training with my coaches or social dancing 3 to 4 times a week. I am meeting tons of people and I really hope to meet a nice girl who shares this passion with me.

@nosferatualucard2613

Жыл бұрын

Speaking from my own experience, ballroom dancing is a lot of fun indeed. If you continue to get better at it, it will not take long until you are pretty much in the top 10% best dancers at a regular dancing party (where the theme is ballroom dancing, or swing) or even better. And you will meet plenty of women who would like to dance with you regularly. So people (women) will naturally "accumulate", just as a side effect of you being a good dancer and regularly going to dancing parties. At least that what happened with me, and i am definetely not the extroverted or "player" type really. Also, at most events i go to, there are usually more women than men (not everytime of course. but most of the time). Secondly, i feel like most women i dance with really find great joy in that hobby (maybe even more than I do), so it buffles me a bit, that you have not found a women yet, that "shares that passion with you", but as I said, it will definitely not take long for you to find something like that.

@robertholtz769

Жыл бұрын

@@nosferatualucard2613 For context, I am 30 and I am looking for a girl in her early to mid twenties who wants to be a mom primarily. Also, my preferred ballroom coach has taken some time off and I have moved more into the West Coast Swing world. I have been told it is a much younger community. It isn't that I haven't found ladies who share this passion. It is more that the community is a bit older than I initially estimated. The college girls that frequent the socials that I have gone to are often very reserved and are hard to get to open up in conversation. All in all, regardless of the style, I am having a ton of fun meeting people in general and practicing my social dance and conversation skills. I went to my first convention style event for WCS two weekends ago and I had a ton of fun. I look forward to more events like that and I am certain that I will cross paths with girls I am looking for sometime soon.

I think your channel will reach 500k subscribers by the end of this year because you have such great content. Other KZreadrs are complaining they are losing viewers because the KZread algorithm changed this year and hard to get viewers now. I don't think that algorithm is true because your channel is going fast and proves it wrong. Good job, Courtney.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I didn’t know other people were experiencing that, luckily I’m not! Lol

@TheMovieTeaser

Жыл бұрын

Hopefully not there’s enough poison in the world

Great video. I’m 55 and I think I understand women more since I have been subscribed to this channel than I ever have been ‼️. Thank you for the information ‼️🙏💯

Courtney I just want to say, you’re videos have helped me so much to grow as a person and understand women better. Thank you so much for making videos like these ❤❤

Oh trust me, even just cooking for a girl as a first date is a lot of fun. I've been with some girls that couldn't cook nearly as good as me and I've dated some girls that liked to cook beside me and it sure is a skill in which I'm thankful to my mother and grandmother for getting me started at the age of 7

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

3:49 110,000%

@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395

Жыл бұрын

Can you cook me mr jones?

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 when is your nap time 🤣🤣💀

@jdally9872

Жыл бұрын

how do you even pitch the idea of coming to your house and cooking for her as a first date idea? wouldn't most women be completely uncomfortable with that, wanna meet in a public place first etc

@johnshukeireh5804

Жыл бұрын

@@jdally9872 I’ve wondered the same

“It’s like talking to a doorknob”...!!! 😂😂😂. You always make the most ridiculous analogies, and I love them 🙌🏽🤗

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

That saying has been around for more than a century, but it’s cool that she uses it.

My life has been endless hobbies, anything hands on and Im all over it, molding casting/mixed media highly detailed sculpture, fine woodworking, artistic metal work, interior design and construction, stone masonry, a full time tattoo artist. Its always been very meditative and therapeutic I switch off and create, researching, visualizing, planning, problem solving, improvising, nit picking down to the finest details that only I would notice, I live for it. If my hands or eyes were taken away Id likely throw myself off a high bridge in short order....my wife would understand 😅. Hobbies cleanse the mind and free the soul.

I love drawing, and now that I know how to do it it helps me cope. It helps me feel better and not stress.

@timcast9

Жыл бұрын

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2nd date with my wife in college- I cooked dinner for us and it was TERRIBLE. Got much better over the years but I’m sure it scored me points back then 😂😂😂

@infinitexp420

Жыл бұрын

You tried, that's all that matters 😎👌🏽

@TheEsperKing1

Жыл бұрын

Way to go man!

I feel like dating apps limiting the amount of hobbies you can select is really a hinderance. I do a lot and limiting to 5 sometimes means I have to choose between what hobbies will make me seem attractive and what hobbies will attract the kind of people I’m looking for. I’m an athletic guy but I’m looking for someone more on the nerdy side and striking that balance without feeling superficial seems impossible.

@Condor-gb1xp

Жыл бұрын

@Raven Carlton I appreciate the help. I moved to a new area by myself recently so your advice helps in a lot of ways

The main problem why dating is messed up is because of social media. Cause before social media, both men and women had a realistic approach towards each other. Where as today, there are some extremely good looking guys on tiktok or Instagram which is not the main problem, the main problem is that those “good looking” guys are only like 2-3% out of 100% and 90-95% women are aiming for top 2-3% men (even the unattractive ones) which is an absolute nightmare for 5/10 or below looks guys. And over 80% of us are ignored

@Gustavog74

Жыл бұрын

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

I love your channel, Goddess. I am so glad to have found it. Always good to hear the inside scoop. 💎

I Paint miniatures as one of my hobbies, and i get always a positive response from a girl. I believe it is because its a creative hobby, and challenging because they are really small.

@gilian2587

Жыл бұрын

Branch out to clocks? Make bank?

I've always kept my hobbies close to me because they are a part of who I am and how I view myself. I'm always learning new skills to better myself and always looking for new interests because I might grow old of my current hobbies and want to explore new ones in the future. Not shocked that #1 and #2 are exercise and traveling because women are attracted to physically fit men who are well rounded with the world.

@charlesselrachski34

Жыл бұрын

i thought you said well walleted, because last time i travelled it wasnt cheap

@Robert-xs2mv

4 ай бұрын

@@charlesselrachski34depends on how one travels, and what is considered “ not cheap”? $10; $100; $1000; more, per day?

For me - A woman interested in exercise and good nutrition is an indicator that she has a positive self image (or at least working towards it), is less likely to suffer from depression, less prone to disease of all types, and can go on fun outings/travel in the world without becoming easily fatigued. It demonstrates she has done her research about health & fitness which typically indicates a higher average intelligence. It shows an understanding of delayed gratification, and not afraid of tackling hardship in a constructive and methodical manner.

@Sergio_Loureiro

5 ай бұрын

I agree with you IF and this is a BIG IF, the reason she doe it is that one you are saying. If she makes exercise to put photos of her ass on Tik Tok and Instagram, she is just a very superficial person whose self-esteem comes, almost all from her appearance.

@kaironconqueror5817

5 ай бұрын

@@Sergio_Loureiro Any hint of excessive vanity is a deal breaker for me. Those types become bitter AF the second they hit "the wall" and it only gets worse over time.

Courtney, I have a few random thoughts WRT this video. One, I think you're right about Eharmony having an older demographic; I think that they're also more serious about finding a serious relationship and marriage. Two, outdoor interests could cover a LOT of territory! Boating, fishing, camping, motorcycling, bicycling, and kayaking could all be considered outdoor interests. Three, I've been in to motorcycles for ages; I've loved them ever since I could remember. I not only ride my bike; I work on it too. As a retired guy, doing most of the maintenance work myself is the only way I can afford to keep a bike and stay retired. Besides, if I do the work, then I know it was done right... :)

@Jpsears1342

Жыл бұрын

*Thanks for watching send a direct message on the telegram handle above, I will love to hear your thoughts on it and for more enlightenment☝️❤️*

Always excited to see a notification from Courtney! 🎉

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Aw thanks for being here! 🥰

Dive into a hobby that let's you express your creativity over time, like playing an instrument, mastering a skill like making furniture, it works like a magnet. Great video btw ;)

@makattak88

Жыл бұрын

Sailing is mine. Absolutely love it. Technical, takes physical and mental effort, foresight, rigging and can be dangerous. But also, sailboats have cabins where you can invite someone in to have a little fun.

I love skillshare! just discovered it! You are a sharp and brilliant coach!

I like going to cultural events like theatres, films and concerts. I used to be a reasonably good cook (haven't cooked much lately, lol). I'm knowledgeable about politics. I had a phase where I wrote about 100 poems. I've recited some of those on stage. I like watching sport, and visiting sporting events. I have travelled quite a bit in the past. This has helped me in my dating life, because my broad range of interests has resulted in me being able to propose interesting dates. I lived in dublin, Ireland for thirteen years. I spent a fair bit of time getting to know the city by going by myself to plays, movies, restaurants, sporting venues, bars (especially those with live music), concert halls, and sporting venues. As a result, when I asked women out on dates, I always had a wide range of entertainment options I could suggest for dates. This definately made women more interested in spending time with me. I also cooked some Indian food for a french woman I was seeing for about one and a half years, on, I think, our third or fourth date. I made sure it was mild enough for her liking. She ended up really appreciating it.

I have two strange hobbies: collecting Vinyl records and being a movie buff. Those probably rank pretty low, but it’s what i enjoy. Great video Courtney!!!

@johnkeith2450

Жыл бұрын

Two good ones

@chrisorr3919

Жыл бұрын

You've got to enjoy it, so that's all that's Important.

@ApesAmongUs

Жыл бұрын

I'd bet any amount of money that those "strange" hobbies are both vastly larger than "traveling" in terms of the number of people who take part in them.

@AVFtube

Жыл бұрын

Myself and almost all of my friends also have these hobbies.

@Shah-of-the-Shinebox

Жыл бұрын

@@AVFtube it’s great to have that kind of circle of friends.

37 years old . I play piano, guitar, ride bmx, skateboard, snowboard, disc golf and other lil things. When im single i love having time to do these things. When im in a relationship i enjoy being with someone but also don't have the time to enjoy my hobbies.

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

Agreed your time gets taken. They also get jealous of time you spend not with them.

Courtney, Definition of Hobby as someone below rightly pointed out is investing your leisure time(after fulfilling basic needs or if you remain idle) in what makes you Happy... ❤

Happy Wednesday, Courtney! Great video today and keep up the good work

Here are mine: 1. Pilates twice a week 2. Miata Car Club- twice monthly 3. Record collector - I make a trip twice a month or whenever I’m near a shop. I love music, played saxophone for 20 years. 4. Film buff 5. Theatre and Musicals/Concerts 6. Motorcycle rides- on a hiatus for now, but I lived on a motorcycle daily for 20+ years 7. Cooking- I cook at least once a day. 8. Mountain Biking- once a week or more often- trails next to my house 9. Was big into dancing in clubs, but now that I’m older, I don’t enjoy the younger crowds. BTW younger people in general have no moves. I stopped a few years ago, but I’d happily go back with girlfriends.

@Vlad_Portnov

Жыл бұрын

Nice, which miata do you have?

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

@THE ADAM FRIEDLAND SHOW I’m 6’1” and I’m over 100k. That’s not enough for them, either. You need the car, the clothes, the looks.

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

@@Vlad_Portnov got a 2019 ND2 RF. We just went out last weekend and did some canyon runs.

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

@THE ADAM FRIEDLAND SHOW good for you. I’m 50, divorced with kids on my weekends, so that could have something to do with it. Had no problems with girls when I was younger. I get looks, but the quality of women I interact with near my age is down and I’m not interested in younger women really. I’ve been finding interested girls in their 20s, but it’s not my interest to waste time with them when I have kids that are only 8 years younger. No women near my age that I find attractive seem to be around at all or have huge flaws when I do find them. A lot of them have some kind of damage or are making as much as me and are looking for a very rich guy. Also, I’m in great shape. I’m probably just ugly like you said or not a big enough asshole. I’m not really trying either.

I am current in the process of getting my pilots license and when I mention that to women that I meet they are fairly intrigued. Problem is that flying is an expensive hobby so it’s not accessible to everyone. My opinion is men should have multiple hobbies, especially those you listed in the video. Hobbies for both genders can signify the kind of person they are. A man who travels a lot, plays rugby and has a dog can signify to a woman that this man is a risk taker who’s athletic but is also family oriented. As a man, what I do find to be attractive in women is a woman who can cook, likes to read and wants to take care of herself in the form of exercise. Instagram is a good background check for men to use because it can show what most women’s hobbies are. What is most certainly unattractive for a man to see is a girl who’s interest is to be in the clubs all the time and posting thirst traps on her social media.

@joshua.merrill

Жыл бұрын

I’m working on my helicopter PPL, and it’s so expensive, but it does have a certain appeal. My problem is I don’t do anything that girls tend to do too, so I’ve got a hard time meeting girls.

@imjusteyex

Жыл бұрын

Same here lol but I find that either women think I just have money or they view it as something I will never achieve so stop talking to me as a whole.

You left out something important. A good way to get a message or start a conversation is to pick out a hobby or interest that the girl has, that you do not have or are willing/eager to learn and share together. This type of thing can precipitate the start of the conversation and possibly, a fun and different idea for one of the first several dates. Just my 2 cents..

I have never lacked hobbies. I've turned some of my hobbies into business opportunities. I enjoy reading, photography, computer programming, exercising, hiking, skating, sports, building things, playing music, singing, cooking, etc. When I ask someone if they have any hobbies and they don't; that seems very foreign to me. I don't know what or where I would be without them. Bored outta my mind that's for sure lol!

I have a full range of hobbies, but my main ones are art, design, martial arts as well as video games. I've honestly never had any woman have an issue with the fact that I like to play video games, and I think it's because I like to do other things and not just that. Any woman who does take issue is likely basing it off a previous relationship where they had no balance in their life. but otherwise most women don't mind it at all.

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Interesting topic. Definitely agree with some of the comments - there are certainly hobbies/interests that women find more attractive in men than others, BUT do not lose your love and enjoyment for something you are passionate about just because it's not on this list or "less" attractive potentially to women. If it's obviously something that's a major issue - then reassess maybe a bit. But, I'm talking interests that are somewhat dangerous or different such as BMX biking, car racing, surfing, flying planes, riding jet ski, whatever floats your boat. You still should enjoy what makes you come alive and the things you feel passionate about, but like anything balance your time and your life. Women pick up on the fact that you are passionate about something, and that's a win for both parties involved. Also, being able to cook for a girl is definitely a great tip :) and you can be healthier for yourself/save money/feel more accomplished as well in doing so...

Random clicked on this, quite surprised how thorough and research based it is, not as click bait-y as it sounds, kudos!

Hobbies in general are very attractive to me, although I can’t find myself in this particular list. I’m very proud of the hobbies I do. The only thing I could find myself in in this list is working out. Furthermore I really love to restore and repair old farm and construction equipment. I just love the way they work and it gives me good skills to fix mechanical stuff. I’ve learned to rebuild engines and transmissions. I also love to fabricate stuff from metal for my home ore garden. I would absolutely love to learn how to blacksmith. I really don’t care if my hobbies make me attractive ore not. I really just love what I do

@didamnesia3575

Жыл бұрын

Working out isn't a hobby.

@Graveyard_Hiker

Жыл бұрын

@@didamnesia3575 tomatoes/tomatoes

If D & D isn’t on this list I’m screwed.

@MikeyP109

Жыл бұрын

Women play D&D too. Sadly, nerdy type hobbies are often looked down upon. I really have no idea why, as they are just as valid. Me being a nerd will testify.

@michaelrespicio5683

Жыл бұрын

@@MikeyP109 Same with video games. There are so many gamer girls on KZread and Twitch so I don't know why it's looked down upon even if people are responsible with it, myself included. I've even seen women work at game companies and they spend lots of time producing the games in the first place

@MikeyP109

Жыл бұрын

@@michaelrespicio5683 I've met great people in gaming, women and men alike.

@Geaxuce

2 ай бұрын

BOYS NIGHT! 😎

Cooking isn't a hobby, it's a survival skill. I've found building model ships and planes teaches patience, attention to detail and a light touch.

I'm stunned that "playing a musical instrument" isn't on there

@Jpsears1342

Жыл бұрын

*Thanks for watching send a direct message on the telegram handle above, I will love to hear your thoughts on it and for more enlightenment☝️❤️*

May God sweep me off the surface of this earth if I ever choose my hobbies based on whether they make me interesting to others.

Definitely strength sports. Lots of girls love that I train strongman both conventional and old school, and even just the hobby of being able to fix things and build things, which includes cars and houses because they are useful. I even had an ex that was turned on by my tailoring skills when I fixed an old nightgown of hers and made it fit her better. The more capable you are, and the more useful you are the more attractive you are, and, you can even say: the more confident you become

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

I definitely do get a good bundle of random new followers as well as direct messages on Instagram just because of displaying both strength and skills

@watamutha

Жыл бұрын

So they basically want you to be Batman.

@Aaron-kj8dv

Жыл бұрын

tailoring would be an awesome skill to learn. Where did you learn that?

Cooking is one of my favourite bonding experiences with a partner. You can't beat having a glass of wine together while making a nice dinner discussing your day! ❤

Back in 2012, I took up Argentine Tango and, in my humble opinion, became a pretty good dancer. At the time, I was going through a divorce and that helped me get through the stress and sadness. Typically, women out number men three or four to one. I like that ratio! Women dig a guy that can dance or at least put forth the effort to give it a try.

No hobby will make you more attractive than fitness. It develops not just the physical but characterological attributes women are looking for. Reading is another good one so when you meet a girl you actually have something to say!

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏼 both are great ones!

@simonschneider5913

Жыл бұрын

physical exercise, of course....reading is fine, too...BUT: i consider most of the stuff people read these days to be as destructive as TV or social media, which lead me to drop "reading books" as an indication of intellect or education.

@te9591

Жыл бұрын

Fitness can help train courage.

@cameronf3343

Жыл бұрын

Fitness shouldn’t be considered a hobby though. Different types of fitness for subsets like football or weightlifting or hiking, yeah, sure, but the act of just getting up and moving - intentionally - isn’t a hobby. It’s a basic need. Every human being on earth benefits from getting at least a combined hour of exertion in each day. Our ancestors did it for millions of years and thousands of generations. It’s a base.

@r3alphasigma

Жыл бұрын

Brains 🧠 over Brauns 💪 Bro.

Nothing reminds me that I'm going to die alone quite like one of Courtney's videos...

@aaronnathananderson4230

Жыл бұрын

Thats funny even though its not! Nate

@daveboise9868

Жыл бұрын

Hilarious. You and I will be dying alone together.

@machupikachu1085

Жыл бұрын

We all die alone. Unless you drive off a cliff with her in it.

This cracks me up. All women have to do is look good and be feminine. So many can’t.

Its all about being passionate. A man with a strong passion towards something makes him more attractive.

Theatre is probably listed because it indicates the man has more disposable income. Theatre tickets are not cheap, so making it a hobby indirectly says you have money.

Similarly i do think women that have hobbies are more attractive. When I say hobbies, I am referring to active hobbies like doing sports (playing sports or become coaches), fitness, martial arts, arts (dancing, stage play, painting, etc), community service, volunteering in the community, gardening, etc. Not passive hobbies like watching sports as spectators in the venue or TV, binge watching on the couch, food hunting, shopping, afternoon tea with friends, etc. IMO active hobbies increase one's value; passive hobbies decrease one's worth.

@wyleecoyotee4252

Жыл бұрын

Passive men don't like women with active hobbies.

@emptysoul2757

Жыл бұрын

@@wyleecoyotee4252 I mean, yeah, a lazy dude would also want a lazy chick. What’s your point ?

@wanr5701

Жыл бұрын

@@wyleecoyotee4252 totally agree. In my observations, most passive men will not date nor prefer women with active hobbies. Perhaps because the latter are too active and fulfilled for their liking.

@ronaldgmaster5782

2 ай бұрын

Why do you want a woman with active hobbies? Whats wrong with netflix and chill?

@wanr5701

2 ай бұрын

@@ronaldgmaster5782 netflix and chilling is OK when need to wind down from active hours on the day. Making it a habit regularly everyday and on weekends are not. Most men like to watch sports on the TV and o live at the venue, yet very few of those that watched actually actively participate be it as players, coaches, and/or officials. That makes them stand out, that makes them special among any other sports fans. Those that didn't participate and only content being spectators are no different than the lazy bums of Netflix and chill, eating and shopping. The same goes with women. Even when she is doing hard labour for living, she still can actively pursue something more leisurely hobbies like painting, community service, knitting, musical instruments, or even tailoring. That makes her stands out among her peers and added more value as a person. In short, I choose women with active hobbies because they are not lazy bums. When she can't even do something to stand out from the rest than why we need to settle on her?

Thanks for the great video Courtney! I have always appreciated your sense of humor too, take care!

My hobbies are cooking, baking, drawing, painting, learning languages, swimming and workouts

Wow! As a 61 year old divorced man living in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico as a retired Expat, I can vouch for this list. Women from 20 to 70 love all the aforementioned hobbies and interests that they find attractive, but alas, complain about so few expat men compared to the large expat female community. Those few of us that are single and active can expect lots of female attention.

@expatwealthasia8702

Жыл бұрын

Happy days, brother. Enjoy! 💃🏻🇲🇽

Aside from attraction, if you (yes you Americans) can speak multiple languages you also increase your dating pool options. Even basic understanding of another language is a good ice breaker. *this is especially true if you are in a larger city or in a border state.

@chunsze635

Жыл бұрын

Probably only native english speaker would find billingual impressive. The other day I talked to a English lady who has 2 childrens and she said she regretted she didn't ask her husband who is an Argentian to teach them Spanish. I mean there're no diffcult languages in this world if you start speaking and listening to it at a very young age and if her children could literally speak both that'be great, but i don't think it's that impressive at all compared to people from Europe mainland, Asia or anywhere in the planet. She added: if my kids could speak Spanish then that's billingual, which is so great, isn't it!? lol

@thossi09

Жыл бұрын

@@chunsze635 Exactly, the only people who'd be properly impressed by someone being bilingual are monolingual people. Although with the spread of English as a "dominant" language, it hardly counts towards bilingualism these days. On the other hand, a fair amount of people I know are at least trilingual - they speak their native language, they speak English, and they speak Norwegian. Some might even count as "quadlingual" - their native language, the official language of their country, English, and Norwegian. Now, that's impressive ;) (I'm not one of them, unfortunately.)

@ruleaus7664

Жыл бұрын

Not really any point to learning a language I won't use or hardly ever use. But because I'm in the U.S. it may be worth learning Spanish.

@thossi09

Жыл бұрын

@@MakeMoneyOnlineWithEmma Lol.

Top tip. Be an interesting human being with hobbies that you are passionate about - competence is interesting - passion is interesting. Find a partner who is passionate about similar things, or at least understands what it's like to be a passionate person. The end. If you're simping enough to get a hobby because "Woman Like It", then you've already lost, and you'll end up with somebody who doesn't appreciate the real you. Do yourself and especially them a favor and don't do that.

In my experience for a period of three years I did Salsa and dancing is very good for psychical and mental health. During that same period I was heavily involved in White Collar Boxing. The two go together very well for developing agility. I was the fittest I've ever been and I had the lower body fat percentage. The point of my comment is these have practical uses and not just for dating. They can improve your life.

Haven’t even started the video but mixed martial arts or really any martial art is probably the best. I had no game at all when I was younger but always got away with it because girls loved my favorite hobby. Plus it’s an extremely effective form of exercise so I always had low body fat % which is a big help when it comes to attractiveness, especially since my genetics are average at best

@malokai1491

Жыл бұрын

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger six pack and low body fat comes with the territory, historically, but I’ve had a completely different experience than that which you’re suggesting, as have my training partners, albeit anecdotally. Perhaps it’s locationally specific or I just got lucky, but there were a lot of women who were interested in coming to watch workouts or sparring sessions, asking questions about every aspect of training, competing, associated lifestyle, and asking me to show them techniques. When I was in school, women took no interest in me if they didn’t know. I have some semblance of game now so I don’t rely it anymore, but it is definitely still a huge positive in my dating life. If for no other reason than associated confidence boost and well maintained fitness level.

My hobby is martial arts. I always thought of it being an excellent hobby because of the self improvement and self empowerment aspects of it. It eventually becomes a way of life.

@gilian2587

Жыл бұрын

Which ones have you worked with?

1. TRAVELING 2. SECOND LANGUAGE (or more) 3. MUSICAL INTERESTS (the broader, the better) 4. BEING ACTIVE (but not overly focused on sports) 5. BEING HANDY (big turn on when a woman shows interest and can actually work WITH me on projects)

@franciscocolin2008

10 ай бұрын

This list is more accurate! I can relate to all of them. Politics can be such a turn-off

Thank You for this Courtney! ❤ ps, love your red coat/jacket

4:12 I met a woman this summer who was obviously swooning over me, until I told her I was Pro-Life. I watched the attraction literally drain from her face 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have principles

@Brian6587

Жыл бұрын

Good for you sir! I am pro-life myself! Probably was great to see her reaction just fade😂 You dodged a bullet my friend. Good riddance is the way I see it. You’re going to see that type more then less. It’s a screwed up generation we are in

@Wise101

Жыл бұрын

Save that for after sealing the deal. That’s a rookie mistake lol

@hughganis3084

Жыл бұрын

Weed them out quick

@ruleaus7664

Жыл бұрын

No loss for you. A real man doesn't compromise on his values, nor does he hide them for fear of someone else's disapproval. That's not to mention that you're in the right on that issue.

@ShmoofWB

Жыл бұрын

Good on you man. A quick internet search shows that less than 1% of abortions are done out of medical necessity and less than 5% are done because of incest and rape.

I think the Thetre thing is just about the fact that lots of women have a fantasy about dating a sensitive, emotional, romantic artist type. Someone who lists Thetre, Poetry, Painting, etc. is tapping into this belief that this man will be more romantic.

I think I’m doing well haha. I love to work, travel, play music, work on cars, invest, fitness and other hobbies too.

I would never rate myself from 1-10 because it would be a biased judgement, but one of the reasons why I loved this video so much is because I finished it feeling like perhaps I should be confident about being a 10! (selfish reasons, I know. 😂) Jokes aside, I must say the video was great and very informative. Also, it certainly was reassuring about myself and my choices as a man. I happen to cultivate almost all the listed hobbies in this video. Being Scot-Irish/Portuguese genetically, but growing up in Latin America definitely gave me a very broad perspective in life along with a true unique accent on top of allowing me to speak basically 4 languages. Yep, pure luck there, mate! Now, what really surprised me is the fact that playing an instrument or having musical abilities never popped up as a sexy hobby. It was also interesting to see that how cooking was rated in terms of it being a sexy hobby in the US. Back in my country, if a man offers to cook for a lady and he does it well, it is something big whereas in the US, girls seemingly don’t care so much about it. Strangely, when it comes to matters of politics though, here in the US I always seem to attract ladies who think completely different than how I think politically. I guess being a foreigner softens the intensity of an argumentative situation, but 9 out of 10 American ladies I’ve dated happened to think different than how I think politically. I’ve always been respectful regarding their opinions, but at the same time I do not hold myself back. I respectfully, yet vehemently, disagree with their ideas about their political ideology. Now as a personal opinion, I find intelligence to be an irresistible trait in women. As my grandpa used to say: “Books with beautiful covers don’t always make you feel like going into the second page.” Great video as always, Courtney! Thank you!

@onolicious9147

Жыл бұрын

As far as the outdoor hobby…I’m outdoors guy but I’ve learned (in my university days), the hard way, you can’t take girls into harsher conditions. I’ll never take a woman camping or backpacking (via Nordic skiing) in winter again. Nightmare city! They too easily get cold and afraid thinking we are lost or going to become bear or wolf food. And once they get cold, they can’t get warm again. It took me three women for this to sink in that is women in general. Don’t believe them when they tell you how rugged they are.

Have a fun hobby and have her involved with you.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Yes! ❤️

I don't see exercise as a hobby. It's something you do for health, strength, and maybe aesthetics. My hobbies include things like knife collecting, archery, axe throwing, shooting (don't do this as often as I would like), and sewing. Knife collecting is hit and miss as far as if it is attractive to women, some like it and it scares some away. The sewing gets mixed reviews as well. The rest are definitely more favorable to most women.

@innocentrage1

Жыл бұрын

I work out 2-3 hours a day, yeah its overkill but I want abs damn it! That being said its pretty much my hobby and fun time because its all I have time for

@jatbatman

Жыл бұрын

@@innocentrage1 abs are obtained by getting fat off the abdominal region. Lol I assume you are aware of that and doing a good amount of cardio if you are doing 2-3 hours a day though. I don't care about abs, my genetics don't really work to my advantage there. I can easily be built, but even when I was a "healthy" weight when I was younger I never really had defined abs. 🤷‍♂️ I have a ton of core strength, but I would have to be underweight to accomplish abs. My torso and abdomen are where I store almost all of my fat.

Wow - Still putting out amazing content! So happy I found this channel

@Jpsears1342

Жыл бұрын

*Thanks for watching send a direct message on the telegram handle above, I will love to hear your thoughts on it and for more enlightenment☝️👋*

I'm 6'1 and weigh 205 lbs and fight Professionally as a part time job and I also give lessons and I am still single Courtney ?

@Gustavog74

Жыл бұрын

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

You always make interesting videos and I congratulate you on your honesty, about how women perceive men physically. As this is something that a lot of men don't really understand properly. I'm 55 and divorced and took a good look at myself in the mirror after I got back in the dating game. As, I had honestly let myself go from my mid 30's after being active and playing rugby since I was young. So, i went on a mission to better myself, lost weight and started to dress better and look after myself on all levels. And everything changed for me in all aspects of my life. One thing that does happen when you age. Is, your perception of women and what you are looking for in them changes. As the girl with the killer body isn't at the top of the list anymore. As, it becomes more of an emotional & intellectual connection than ones physical appearance. Its not settling for less. Its actually the total opposite, as attractiveness is now being found on different levels. thanks for posting the video.

@kunumercy1798

Жыл бұрын

You don't mind me asking are you single and searching

@paulwindler3040

Жыл бұрын

@@kunumercy1798 No :))

@kunumercy1798

Жыл бұрын

@@paulwindler3040 okay

@Filthy_Larry

Жыл бұрын

Just make sure you get yourself a young hottie and not some same age old hag of a woman. You earned it brother.

Hey Courtney, I'm a 60+ man, who has spent enormous amounts of time on dating sites. Here are my instant turn offs. Especially if several of these items show up in a cluster: travel abroad, fine dining, wineries, theater, living in an expensive part of town, season tickets to sports team games, weekends in BnBs. All these are very expensive activities. Almost as bad is a woman who lists: needlepoint, quilting, baking dessert, antiquing, shopping, horses, motorcycles, domestic travel to expensive sites. What is most attractive is a woman who has a mixture of things like domestic travel, family events, camping, day trips, DIYs, normal pets, gardening, cards, dancing, watching both new and old movies, politics, museums, and countless other similar interests. The WORST bio is a woman that wants to go to expensive destinations, see Broadway shows, fine dining, box tickets at a sports event, with off track betting. What I am saying is that many women make unrealistic profiles and are not wanting a mix of interests, at various price points. Many women follow their profiles about if you voted this way or that way, or you support a Supreme Court decision, or have some other perceived character flaw don't respond. I think the world has all gone crazy. All I want is a normal woman.

@cebedojames

Жыл бұрын

those hobbies are all fine as long as they are rich and they pay for it.

@Rppiano

Жыл бұрын

@@cebedojames which doesn't happen

@edwardmylnychuk5774

Жыл бұрын

100000000000000000000000% dead on brother, i go onto dating sites now just to laugh at these ?????????????? that are out to lunch, i had one contact me years ago and ask me what i thought about the site and when i said most women are out to lunch she never called back, bleeeeeeeeeeep

@sjdtmv

Жыл бұрын

I am also a 60* guy and you are on the money, ( with your money ) you can't put an old head on young shoulders, older you get the wiser you should become, if you don't, you can have nothing and be penny less in your 60s, I know a few...

@mnkwazi

Жыл бұрын

@@sjdtmv True, life will be hard for those who don't plan.

Hi Courtney: Thanks for your tips and insights; as an older male, I like women who exercise, dance, travel, enjoy different genre's of music, like the outdoors, walks om the beach, and cuddling.

I'm good at No9, photography, and I photograph folks who do Nos 1-8! Most people I know have 1 significant hobby. They do other stuff, but don't list it, just know they can do that other stuff at a push, and some are *really* good at it. I quite like people who have hobbies or interests I've never heard of, or have little knowledge. I have tried a few new things via that route.

I do martial arts (which keeps me fit) and im also a car enthusiast and mechanic (my job as well as hobby). I had the second passion before, but I barely attracted girls. When i started doing the first, I met more women in one year than the prior 10, lol.

@ronaldgmaster5782

2 ай бұрын

Cool what martial art do you do? Have not seen many women at my mma studio.

as a musician, I feel left out ☹️ guess I’ll go write a song about it now

@evanrosario

Жыл бұрын

Music is a language. You are bilingual

@bumpygumpson

Жыл бұрын

Tell them you can play wonderwall and they'll be all over you

I would think. 1. Travel - For Me I would rather give my money to less fortunate individuals than travel more important to me. 2. Exercise - I do exercises but I need to not keep getting sore but to eventually get a chiseled body all around and six pack abs. 3. Theatre - I don’t get as much still but I have other things going on like my Independence & trying to do music, and film, and modeling eventually. 4. Theatre Arts Of Dancing - I had learned Hairspray dance moves almost for each scene but I did learn to do normal dancing even back then my friends would ask me how did I learn to create my own style of dancing I just did still do to this day from age 12-25. 5. Cooking - I like to cook food on an oven more than making food in a microwave. 6. Outdoor Activities - I love to find new places and time photographs of the place especially when it’s in nature more or hiking trails or oceans love oceans. or if I like a place a lot then I’ll use it as a filmmaking spot or to be put in a film. 7. Politics - I will never agree w/ Politics unless if people that are in it will change if not then that’s a problem I cannot fix because if I don’t agree with it then that means I don’t have to be involved because most of it not all it but now it is bullshit in chef salad I got that from a movie don’t ask me where I found that line from what movie if anyone know then great and if not that’s okay too but I honest opinion about Politics it could be different but the issue is playing fire with fire. So what’s the point if you’re re gas lighting more of fire from another side and your adding onto t and nothing frets done it’s like trying to win a war with guns against guns it’s basically coming down to others that would kill other people because our views on Politics that’s why for my reason I don’t have any view on it because it turns people against others that’s not right it human society it’s exactly that way it’s destructive and and violent I don’t care for those things I just want for their to peace, care for one another, equal rights for everyone out there, and have it be a better place than it being the way it is now. 8. Animals- Love Animals Cats and Dogs both used to work w/ animals volunteered for 7/and a half years when I did. 9. Photography - I certainly do Photography when I feel like when I see a new place for the first time or if I see a beautiful moon, or sunset I will try to capture it by my camera and then it’s taken then I edit it and finish it, post it if I want to on my Instagram. 10. Sports - Not anymore I used to but I have damaged my feet enough times to know to not do them because their is sometimes loosing balance and re-straining my feet again or my ankles more so yeah have to be careful. 11. Like Languages and accents - I know a little bit of Spanish but I’d like to learn more. 12. Filmmaking - It’s a great one and I know can be a job. 13. Artwork - I think it should be on the list or as a job. 14. Music - Should that be on the list I do it all the time like all the time.