When we're lonely, It's our fault. When they're lonely, It's also our fault.

@pebcak

Жыл бұрын

You just summed up my previous marriage.

@FilipGiera

Жыл бұрын

I mean... everything IS our fault. We allowed it. We created the fundamentals for this to happen. Women just took the opportunity, and they took it too far. Because we allowed it...

@brandon9638

Жыл бұрын

@@FilipGiera Got rejected? It’s your fault she’s not attracted to you, you should’ve made sure you were born attractive. She cheated? Sorry Bro, that’s your fault too, her happiness is your responsibility…

@blindmonkey4131

Жыл бұрын

LOL fk if that ain't true

@andresfeliperodriguezriano4032

Жыл бұрын

Well they are the final picker so if anything goes well or bad it's because we did or didn't meet their expectations.

Blonde girl: “I deserve to keep my options open” Also blonde girl: “I hate when men are looking around on dates with me, it’s like they’re still keeping their options open” Ladies and gentlemen, modern dating

@ianlister6554

Жыл бұрын

Monkeybranching. All women do it.

@bogumiljanowskiweb

Жыл бұрын

Almost schizophrenic

@joesmiley5726

Жыл бұрын

This video…🤦

@joesmiley5726

Жыл бұрын

They should do the reverse of this video with guys…would be hilarious

@JeremiahKlarman

Жыл бұрын

Haha

went to the bridge club and there were dozens of 70 year old ladies so happy that afternoon to play bridge with a "handsome young man" (they meant me lol, i'm completely invisible to any woman under 65). they invited me to participate in their upcoming tournament. they were sad when i told them i wasnt going to be there. when i said it was because i was going out of town to visit my mom, they swooned like i was some sort of saint. never had so much validation, appreciation, admiration and praise from women i wasnt related to and i didnt have to hit the gym or level up or get a side job or start a business. a life of celibacy doesnt sound so bad. gonna miss these ladies in 15-20 years. their hearts are uncorrupted by modern toxicity.

@peterrychel3640

8 ай бұрын

That's because you reminded them of the husbands that they were once married to. I'm sure that most of these ladies are widowed, so when you step into the room, you bring them back to that time.

@chrisandsneaky2453

7 ай бұрын

@@peterrychel3640 That's the point. They WANTED good men; loved good men; were attracted to good men. Women of my generation (I'm 48 years old) loathe the kind of men those old grandma's loved. Women of my son's generation (he is 26) are even worse.

@aminjeanbredimus7157

7 ай бұрын

I grieve with you, brother.

@0biwan7

7 ай бұрын

@@chrisandsneaky2453 i was happy to spend the afternoon playing bridge with those old grandmas. i was happy to fold up and put away the difficult tables (some were easy and some were hard, they left the hard ones alone) after we were all done. they responded with such grace and gratitude as if what i had done was some sort of big deal. if the reason i'm invisible to women of my generation is because i'm the type of guy those old grandmas actually loved and wanted, then i dont feel like a piece of trash anymore.

@Nithinithinith

7 ай бұрын

@@chrisandsneaky2453 you and your son are not the same men that those women loved. Modern men blame modern women without taking responsibility and accountability. Modern men aren’t the same men who died in war and took care of their families. Start there.

Not a single woman mentioned how this is sad, and that men's mental health is important. But hey guys, the problem is us cause we have trouble opening up. This is why lol

@abaddon3735

4 ай бұрын

If you tell women how you really feel they'll either undermine it or leave you lol. Poured my heart out to a girl that I thought cared about my emotional well being and she swiftly leeft

@davescashflows

3 ай бұрын

​@@abaddon3735They don't care how you feel, they want the winners not the losers.

@dominiquez5643

3 ай бұрын

Beautifully put man!!!!

@snowfalleon7629

2 ай бұрын

It's easier to swallow that men are inadquatw for personal reasons rather than systemic reasons like increasing inequality.

@tomc4226

2 ай бұрын

28:13 she literally said it’s sad

A+ for Courtney once again exposing how women literally have zero clue as to what is actually going on

@AlexanderSkinnerVids

Жыл бұрын

Really wish she went harder with the questioning. She’s doing a disservice by not digging into and picking apart the responses more.

@BillClinton228

Жыл бұрын

They scared to meet some guy sitting next to them... but they will go to a strangers house at 10pm just because he looked good on Tinder. That happens all the time so the whole "being afraid of strangers" argument doesn't hold water.

@Rothbardy

Жыл бұрын

Truly clueless, never looking within. Many are looking for the elusive alpha male that is also a tamable beta, they also need the 6’+ 6 figure income. They end up hooking up with the alphas and “settling” for a beta, which ends with resentment, dissatisfaction and divorce. Funny and sad

@Diego-Designs

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexanderSkinnerVids I honestly don't think she goes harder on the questions because they're friends. Someone else should be asking them.

@tdgchan

Жыл бұрын

So well spoken... 10/10

The prospect of living my life alone and dying alone, isn't as depressing as being constantly reminded that I'll never be good enough.

@priscillapie

Жыл бұрын

Damn… your ex sounds horrible. Choose better!

@tommypitera4817

Жыл бұрын

@@priscillapie she wasn't horrible. I developed a borderline personality when I was a kid, so, it was probably my fault.

@nickolasrobert7340

Жыл бұрын

I think it's time we really accepted that some will die alone without ever knowing what love is. Sometimes there doesn't even have to be anything wrong with you, sometimes it's just bad luck.

@nickolasrobert7340

Жыл бұрын

I am only afraid because we only live once, and it scares me to think that I can leave this life without ever experiencing such a unique part of human existence. And all this because I wasn't "good enough". Yes, this is something that causes strong existential fears.

@ceoelektronika8604

Жыл бұрын

Men ain't the ones God created to bear offspring. Whose failure is it if femalekind is too hypertoxic to consider impregnating or marrying?

This video can be summed up in a few words: 'It's society's fault and men's fault... but mainly men's fault'

@crazinaticbigb693

8 ай бұрын

Oof 😅

@willythemailboy2

4 ай бұрын

A better summation: Men are sad and lonely, women most affected.

These girls don’t give a crap about men’s issues. Real good friends.

Girl literally said in one clip “I like to keep my options open” then said “when guys turn their head it makes me feel like they’re looking for options” and feels disrespected 😂😂😂😂

@Boss-ot1iy

Жыл бұрын

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger Woah. Stella is bad, but let's not act like Mansi and Monique don't exist. Those 2 are by far the worst.

@valdonjohnson251

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one that caught that one. 🤣 I love Courtney's channel. She generally has some really valuable content.

@NationViolation

Жыл бұрын

its fucking mindblowing.

@jeffreyvonstetten5852

Жыл бұрын

Right? So dumb

@NittyGritty420

Жыл бұрын

Caught her in 4k

There are a lot of AVERAGE women out there, who think they are too good for an average man.

@joeskeptical4762

Жыл бұрын

*A lot? ALMOST ALL WOMEN*

@steakBurner81

Жыл бұрын

I was feeling generous Lol

@italkgory99

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, their ego is through the roof and they can’t see an inch past their bs to understand men

@Saint_Darius

Жыл бұрын

Correct

@theworldisimmense

Жыл бұрын

@@italkgory99 that’s thanks to simps. It’s incredible how every time I check the comments on a picture of a girl on Instagram, there’s always guys of all ages simping like if that’s gonna get you 🐱.

I tried. I looked. I made it to 40 without marriage and hung it up. Cancelled all my date pages. No hate. No regrets. Like someone who went to a restaurant and didn't receive good service, I moved on, not to "punish" anyone, but to exercise my right of choose.

@nickcunningham6344

6 ай бұрын

I've already given up at 22 and have felt a lot happier since. If the right woman enters into my life I'll give her a chance but I'm not gonna hold my breath or wait for her. I've accepted and have come to peace with the idea of dying alone, and I've been a lot better off ever since.

@neongecko3065

5 ай бұрын

Marriage isn’t for everyone… if you’re living a great life I agree, no regrets!

@Wu-gj2py

5 ай бұрын

Travel often brother. Look overseas, feminism hasn’t destroyed women in Europe and Asia.

@KStew9010

4 ай бұрын

My phone is on permanent NO DISTURB mode for them now.

@chekky47

3 ай бұрын

Well done Sir. Make sure you travel and go out and see the world!

When we are told we are not needed, why in the world would we go out of our way to try and make any woman feel special????

@TerryProthero

3 ай бұрын

They're "special". Just not in a good way.

@troysims2753

29 күн бұрын

Better to focus on ourselves than to babysit and spend cash on an airhead!

@supercruise-6814

17 күн бұрын

WHOA ! NAILED IT DUDE!

@tyronewalker5764

10 күн бұрын

Good point.😮

That was 30 minutes of women rationalizing why they should get what they want without having to make any sacrifices.

@Hoffmanpack

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, the day will come when women have to pay extra taxes beacuse law enforcement collapses and a single woman becomes constantly in danger. These women are victim of the comfort provided by men. Remove that comfort and bam a wild change will happen where women seek men again asap to avoid being the lonely single. I can't wait to laugh at the pierced tatted fatted shaved head argumentative grumpy non smiling non feminine feminists.

@dragojevdic994

Жыл бұрын

Lol you nailed it buddy..

@mr.bidnessman2469

Жыл бұрын

You cannot expect a woman who isn’t your mother or grandmother to care for you at all. I say that knowing the only woman who has ever loved me unconditionally has been my grandmother’s even when I didn’t deserve it they still loved me. Every man is only loved so far as he can provide something in the moment for majority of women and I mean 90% of women.

@thepowerofthegodhand7003

Жыл бұрын

The literally put us all in one box. But get mad when we do the same thing.

@Ozzie_Mandias

Жыл бұрын

This is why I advocate for surrogacy and artificial wombs... I feel like when these become mainstream... school shootings will be mostly extinct... men will willingly accept sexlessness and be good single parents whom their kids find very relatable... men will look forward to a new future and new fate instead of going on and on about the "glories" of the past... Progressiveness will be more accepted and church attendance (or most likely neopaganism) may even skyrocket... no one of any gender will be pushovers who get used and abused, but will also be more open minded, easy going and even more sociable... Of course some women and a lotta predatory men will not be happy with this happier world order.

I love the part where they say "women aren't dating douche bags and guys who put in minimal effort"......I work at a college apartment complex, 380+ units and 90% of the women there are dating that exact person lol.

@bidensbikepedal8799

Жыл бұрын

90% of women literally everywhere are dating that exact person

@dc80919

Жыл бұрын

I was going to comment the exact same thing but you beat me too it😂 so many girls out there dating total tools

@rehsa-zc6zq

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, I'd ask her how/ why does she even have so much experience with douche bags?

@Randy_Butternubs

Жыл бұрын

Dido!😅

@huntstyle

Жыл бұрын

After they rejected 100 good guys. And then they'll say, "all men are douchebags!"

We’re terrified of being called creepy. We’re terrified of getting the cops called on us.

@ayylmao2190

6 ай бұрын

cope, just admit you have a fear of rejection.

@edwinsingha7398

6 ай бұрын

@@ayylmao2190 So you mean men should risk going to jail and having his whole family and career ruined in order to get a relationship or are you denying the fact that this actually happens

@ayylmao2190

6 ай бұрын

if you wanna believe that, thats on you. Millions of guys ask women out with no problems. @@edwinsingha7398

@R3ktCunnyz69

6 ай бұрын

@@ayylmao2190 Ok rapist

@rileyfletch

5 ай бұрын

getting arrested for asking a girl out? that happens to nearly nobody @@edwinsingha7398

We don't care about your job or any of that stuff. We want to feel loved, respected, and appreciated.

"What dating advise would you give men?" "Improve your looks and get a higher paying job." "What dating advise would you give women?" "Have higher standards and stop dating broke men."

@robertmoore294

Жыл бұрын

Women will get mad if you tell them that in this generation

@billr5842

Жыл бұрын

Why wouldn't women have higher standards? They have many simps drooling waiting in line lol... The vast majority of men in these comments wouldn't hesitate to sacrifice whatever they are doing if they could get with these women, that's the problem. Stop being a spineless cuck and stop simping

@coreymay918

Жыл бұрын

@@billr5842 can't imagine what warranted this comment on my comment

@Crmpies

Жыл бұрын

so women have to do nothing . this is why guys walk away and nothing else . A real guys knows his worth. A real guy will not put up with shit or is worried about dating some smelly pussy whore . Real men know women are a liability and if they have nothing to offer we will not bother

@juggalo9097

Жыл бұрын

Women are heartless gold digging shallow monsters.

When Mansi said women have lower standards I couldn’t help but laugh out loud

@stinkypinkie9029

Жыл бұрын

She explained it was because nowadays women don’t expect the man to pay for everything since women are more independent. But those educated women usually look down on men that earn less than them so their standards have only gotten higher. They’ve been brainwashed by social media as well but don’t do enough self-reflection to realize it.

@bros4654

Жыл бұрын

The thing is, she's both right and wrong at the same time. Women have lowered the standards for themselves and men in regard to casual partners. But they've inflated the standards in regard to committed partners. It's all goofy and complicated.

@TheZeusWolf

Жыл бұрын

I laughed like a super villain, it was hilarious

@suprovo5117

Жыл бұрын

And she is the one who was asking for 400k from a partner

@haaxeu6501

Жыл бұрын

@@suprovo5117 That's the craiest part. She seems like a very stupid person and lacks a lot of self awareness, there's no way, in the same interview, you would say so casually that you expect 400k a year from your partner, and then go on to claim that women have lowered their standards.

You know what cuts the hardest. Woman want equality of income but not of expenses...

I didn't hear them say that men want to be loved and respected.

I would LOVE to see a version of this where you ask the same questions to women in their early 30s, early 40s, and early 50s. Just to see how perspectives might change.

@vinaydhiwar8604

9 ай бұрын

Simps still be there for them

@dippin1523

9 ай бұрын

it probably gets worse

@BtwinUnW

8 ай бұрын

I am in my mid 30s and single. I can tell you why I'm single. i saw how my parents fight, i know that it's hard to find someone trustworthy, I was my best when i was single, it's too much drama, attachment hurts, too much responsibility and hunting for money with kids, it increases, i value love over sex, im philosophical . It goes on ... i guess..

@PepeCoinMania

8 ай бұрын

😂

@shepberryhill4912

7 ай бұрын

@@vinaydhiwar8604 You must be looking in the mirror.

Women are so out of touch with reality it’s sad bro. Like it’s not even pathetic anymore it’s beyond that and just sad.

@brianwaller7383

Жыл бұрын

None of these women even came close to the actual reason why average men are sexless.

@pimpster125

Жыл бұрын

Got that right

@HarryJohnson69

Жыл бұрын

Exactly how I feel

@kevinb8881

Жыл бұрын

Sad, sad, and sad, and it gets worse, worse, and worse, they're all living in candyland, LOL!!!😂😂😂

@TomFox1

Жыл бұрын

plays small violin

"with social media you can compare what other couples are doing". That is funny on so many levels..... We all know how accurate people's social media presentation is as compared to their real lives :)

These women have no clue they’re just dying to talk about themselves

"It's always better to be alone, than to be with people who make you feel alone." -Robin Williams

@CommanderJaneShepard2154

Жыл бұрын

Dont take advice from someone who hanged himself

@Ominous89

Жыл бұрын

@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 it's not an advice. It's an observation.

@cassu6

Жыл бұрын

@@CommanderJaneShepard2154 XD good point honestly. But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow.

@MrBigcuts36

11 ай бұрын

@@cassu6 "But maybe it's advice he just himself didn't follow." Thats WHY he hanged himself.

@gatoreptiliano8785

11 ай бұрын

"No" -Me

Thank you Courtney for making me feel grateful again being single.

@moosevision8113

Жыл бұрын

yep, feel bad for courtney because she seems pretty switched on but gets some of the flak for the women in these videos who make me lose brain cells. IMO it would be much better to talk to people who are qualified in the subject matter who have studied the data and research instead of asking people who give vauge answers based on anecdotal experience. id much prefer a scientific study to "umm yea but whatever no umm maybe to each their own idk"

@ForTheDivineWill

Жыл бұрын

@@moosevision8113The problem is the scientific data for these matters have existed for decades but most people don't research anything at all. The few that do look for the research don't go past the abstract of most papers and the rest of the world like you only ask for the research but when it is presented to you, you don't even look at it at all... The main problem is we need the average person to understand the results of the research. But to get the average person to do the due diligence of going through the research is an impossible task! The only way out of this is to live through it, which is what we are doing right now. However, the hope is that at some point a few generations down the line when the average person finally gets the hint, we are not too fucked to recover from this sort of thing. Groups like Feminism and MGTOW need to criminalized and destroyed for the solution to flourish though!

@davidk6504

Жыл бұрын

Right?

@Machi74005

Жыл бұрын

@@moosevision8113 Excellent

@Machi74005

Жыл бұрын

@@ForTheDivineWill What future generations? The gist of this interview predicts a dwindling human race........think about it.

My opinion of not being totally incel, but having less than optimal sex life during my youth was that women didn't seem to be interested in relationship. It felt like the women I met wanted only casual sex and nothing more serious. And I always felt like being rated, how do I measure against the other men they are seeing etc. For me the sex always felt like being a dildo for the woman to enjoy a while. If I could give younger me an advice, it would be to stay away from ladies whom don't seem to have genuine interest in me. But I was naive and thought that no real man refuses sex. I hope the younger guys are wiser than me.

@Haggis1983

6 ай бұрын

That’s how these women rack up body counts, they just see men as dildos, and treat them as such.

@Hiraghm

4 ай бұрын

no, that's the problem... "stay away from ladies" No. Women aren't ladies anymore. Stay away from modern women and try to find actual, real ladies.

@purestress2597

2 ай бұрын

I mean how about someone never having interest in sex with the guy? Like not existing at all.

@charlesrichards1240

2 ай бұрын

Read my commentat the top of the page-after what you just said,you will see why I made it.

@vladonutueu

25 күн бұрын

Exactly what I’m confronting with. At some point I’ll decide if I wanna be the chad and fuck them all and that’s it (no search for relationships anymore) or just renounce dating altogether and deal with myself on my own terms. It’s a sad lonely world out there and you get to a point when you stop caring or hoping for authentic relationships..

I’m single but not lonely. I have a great group of friends, social clubs, an amazing family, and my church. I’m 36 years old now, in great shape, successful, and I have no issues attracting women. The truth is, I just don’t want to be in a relationship or have a wife or kids. I’m not even currently dating, no dating apps, no asking women out, nothing. I couldn’t be happier. The Bible even says that being single is a GIFT from God. it’s also the one gift everyone tries to reject. Once you embrace it, being single is amazing. I travelled to 23 countries just last year, I’ve lived abroad, and the money I earn is mine. No one treats me like a human wallet and I don’t have to deal with the problems that come with marriage and kids.

@Mcgee833

Ай бұрын

“Being single” is amazing for you because you don’t want to be in a relationship, and you know you could have one easily if you wanted too.

38 year old average man here. been single almost my entire life. Tried everything and finally gave up. It's impossible. Have a good day everyone.

@wilkizz

10 ай бұрын

Courage! One day the sun will rise with women like me to care for men!

@Huia87

10 ай бұрын

The West is not the whole world. Trust me, emigrate or travel. It's not you, our societies are just broken beyond repair. I am from New Zealand, been living in Ecuador for over 3 years now, trust me, totally different. Not hard to find a good, loving, smart, attractive woman here

@leerollins7555

10 ай бұрын

Sorry man. Good luck out there.

@comdrive3865

10 ай бұрын

Yo try doing the opposite of what you normally do. You might find a flank strat

@matejjjjjjjjjjjjjjj

10 ай бұрын

Have you been looking for a partner? Scullery maids, cleaners, whim pleasing cookers washhing clothing of their master should not be so easy to find nowadays

This is incredible. None of these women have ANY idea what young men are going through today

@marksmith4892

Жыл бұрын

Honestly at this point even if they were to fully repent I wouldn't want to marry any of them because what is to be done with the massive volume of their crimes against men across several decades? That doesn't just go away. They made their decisions, they took it all, they bathed themselves in evil and our hands are clean. Well not the Chads who screwed every woman in sight but the rest of us tried our best and did what we could to improve ourselves.

@piotrhajzral3862

Жыл бұрын

and thay dont care:)

@perry6712

Жыл бұрын

@@marksmith4892 exactly r.i.p norah vincent

@BudoDave76

Жыл бұрын

They don’t need to. Like most semi attractive or even average women, getting dates is far easier than the average man. Which leaves them clueless to the 70-80% or more of the invisible men out there.

@exothermal.sprocket

Жыл бұрын

If there is no purpose, no idealism, no personage higher than one's self to align one's life, then isn't that the very basis of the definition of selfishness? Pride? Ego?

NO, A LOT OF MEN AREN'T SINGLE BY CHOICE.

"a lot of times girls make the first move..." ha ha ha right

@Mcgee833

Ай бұрын

They’re so delusional they think that making eye contact for one second is a first move.

A society that puts women on a pedestal is a society that looks down on men.

@cyber6sapien

Жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!! I LOVE this comment!!!

@exothermal.sprocket

Жыл бұрын

Question: why did society go these directions? These directions are not the root, they are symptoms.

@Saint_Darius

Жыл бұрын

Correct

@Saint_Darius

Жыл бұрын

@@exothermal.sprocket cause white women complained for a long time about whatever they complain about and tricked other women into joining in

@Actualchristianity

Жыл бұрын

@@exothermal.sprocket godlessness.

A lonely woman complains to her friends about how lonely she is. A lonely man talks to his reflection in the mirror and the reflection walks away saying "Sorry bud you're on your own."

@emanuelmota7217

Жыл бұрын

Trufe.

@sachinmistry1

Жыл бұрын

"You need to man up" -what society says to a lonely man

@JB-kx9bx

Жыл бұрын

😂

@JB-kx9bx

Жыл бұрын

Thats funny af

@alphatransguy5474

Жыл бұрын

Lol, not even men want to deal with men, so why should women?

Tinder and dating apps are destroying it for everybody . Im old school and still like to phone and talk to women

What I want from a woman: be sweet and don't add chaos to my life. Thats it!!

@davidsebastianelli1326

4 ай бұрын

"To dream the impossible dream"

@TerryProthero

3 ай бұрын

LOL. You have completely unrealistic expectations. That will never happen in a million years.

This girl literally said: 9:33 “An independent, hard working woman like myself keeps her options open” 13:28 “A guy turning his head while we’re walking together makes me feel like he’s looking for options” Rule number 1: don’t get girl advice from girls because they have no clue. That’s just one example of a double standard you may run into.

@eveliinahannele

Жыл бұрын

Lol that's not double standard. :D You can keep your options open without disrespecting your date and making it obvious with actions. It's called being considerate and polite

@eveliinahannele

Жыл бұрын

@@Dino-kr7nd dishonest and fraudulent? About what?

@kidkaden5139

Жыл бұрын

@@eveliinahannele Keeping ypur options open shouldn't be a fucking choice if ur dating someone put all your effort into it the fuck why half ass it just because your craving more than 1 dick. Keeping your options open is probably one of the biggest gateways to cheating and being in unhappy relationships because you keep trying to go for the next 💀💀

@crimsonJerom

Жыл бұрын

@9:28 same woman (paraphrased) "a woman ... like myself... who keeps her options open" 🤣

@twiff3rino28

Жыл бұрын

@@eveliinahannele 🤨

I just watched this terrifying video. As a male in his 40, I think women have built this image of the male partner to be someone who looks like Aquaman, drives a big truck, and has dollars out his ass. These unrealistic images are what drive men to be single, lonely and sexless. There are too many barriers to simply ask a women out.

@michaelrodriguez3329

Жыл бұрын

Aquaman 😄 ....🚤 🐳 🐋

@ReinoldFZ

Жыл бұрын

I would like that dollars-out-of-the-ass power.

@sloppyjonuts9162

Жыл бұрын

The girl I like posted if he is tall & smells good I want him. Then few days later honestly I don’t care about looks. Few days later. Me refusing to date and just waiting for the love of my life to fall in my arms lol

@raavila95

Жыл бұрын

There are women who are willing to be led, just become a christian and God will provide the right women.

@ImJiom

Жыл бұрын

drives a big truck isnt part of what they want its part of what you want to overcompensate for not being everything else

Most of the time these women don't even seem to understand the majority of the questions being asked. This opens up the possibility that women's remaining connection to the reality of their own surroundings may be in the process of diminishing even further in the future than it is already the case. I'm really curious to see how this plays out for society in the long run.

"The lack of Christian morals is the root of ALL issues in this age."

The reason it’s hard to get a relationship is that everyone thinks they deserve better and expect to get it.😂

@MeidoInHebun

Жыл бұрын

Plain and simple.

@EldritchPursuit

Жыл бұрын

Don't forget the tens of millions like me who just said fck it and choose not to deal with this bullshit 😎

@stephanemorelli1

Жыл бұрын

you re right, there is too much choice today

@alvmusic4402

Жыл бұрын

the reason it's hard to get a relationship is you're low quality, thats all there is to it

@saintbryan

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a good thing. Everyone does deserve better.

Stella is the kind of person that would decline a physically and emotionally 10/10 guy, based on their Zodiac sign. Monique is the type of person that would say ''If you're homeless, just buy a house''

@Moesmakendehakker658

Жыл бұрын

Haahahha so true

@nahword5604

Жыл бұрын

"Why are people lonely and sexless?" "Because of incels"

@BillClinton228

Жыл бұрын

These factory issued average females are lying to everyone including themselves and its abundantly obvious. Also, none of them look like they have their life together, I'm 36 with a great job but I wouldnt date any of them because they all have "PROBLEMS" written all over their smug faces.

@heyant7753

Жыл бұрын

Lmfao 😂 bruuuh

@Lonewolfalchemist

Жыл бұрын

She comes off very entitled

I feel this, hear other guys saying "what's changed?" I think it's harder to get dates for guys because we're becoming poorer and the whole society is in denial about that. I'm not trying to say women are after money but I'm guessing they're unwilling to adjust their expectations and say to themselves "okay people are becoming poorer so it's alright to have a lot less than my parents did." I make about 55k a year and I can't afford a car realistically, even just going on vacation somewhere to have fun or going to concerts and festivals... when life is becoming a struggle. Expectations are going up right alongside inflation. I make more than most people in this country too. It's common for men to get treated with a lot of prejudice, treated with undue suspicion. Seen it plenty that women say "men are trash." my fiancee's sister said it's normal for men to get together and discuss strategies for [trigger word] women. It's a lot of factors. it's a crappy time to be a man.

@cassu6

4 ай бұрын

What the fuck are you spending your money on??? 55k is quite a lot especially to not be able to afford a car. I figure you're from the states where car taxes, gasoline and insurance (maybe not this one) are cheaper than where I live.

@solarjudgement4575

4 ай бұрын

After groceries, rent/mortgage, gas, and student loans (if you go to college) we dont hardly have anything. Then you look at how expensive everything is. I make around 50-60k and im struggling ​@cassu6

@scotttaylor9133

2 ай бұрын

Yeah, it's not that you can't make it, you just have to be VERY careful and not allow yourself to make mistakes. That's not a super low income, but it's low enough that you need to be very cautious. Lower income means you have less room to overcome mistakes like buying fun stuff instead of investing, having lots of high interest debt, stuff like that. You can recover with a higher income, you have to be MUCH smarter with your money the lower you are on the income ladder. But at most levels you can do well, and at all levels you can get better; at the lower rungs its just PAINFULLY slow and requires not allowing yourself any mistakes.

@snowfalleon7629

2 ай бұрын

@@cassu6 well usually I like to spend money on getting out to the woods to avoid losers like you.

@arkangel7209

Ай бұрын

@@cassu6 When was the last time you were in the states? Inflation has become ludicrous. It isn't easy to get a good wage anymore...women's standards are unrealistic in a rapidly changing society. When you get older, even your standards will shift. Mine did. Not married anymore but very happy with my partner, as she is with me. Society changes, and people change with it. I have hope things will get better, but only if standards average out a bit from both sides. Effort helps, but the motivation is hard to come by in this day and age. No one likes to be rejected. If men can manage to live through that hardship, it is a good thing socially. How you adjust to the "nos" will make the "yesses" that much more exciting when they come. Good luck and chin up!

I'm a gay man. I'm not even attracted to women or want to date them, but man! This video was so frustrating to watch, because there was, once again, so much "man-blaming". It's exhausting! What a relief I'm attracted to just men. Also for the first time, I actually think it's easier dating men.

This is EXACTLY why men can’t take relationship advice from wmn. Who they sleep with is entirely different from who they describe. And the advice is ENTIRELY based on emotion

@deloentertains3370

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for all the men who genuinely listen to women.... These poor saps.....

@mongoose6685

11 ай бұрын

You really think men just sleep with the women they love???

@hatientacetlen4246

10 ай бұрын

If you think that statement is exclusive to women you're out of your mind. Men make just as stupid relationship decisions as women.

@afcansf5996

10 ай бұрын

@@mongoose6685 No, but unike women men in general arent hypocrits and/or pretend to be saints.

Peace and intimacy. That’s it. That’s all we want. We don’t want a “boss lady” I actually cringe when I hear women call themselves “boss lady”

@valdonjohnson251

Жыл бұрын

I don't know why women think men want a "boss lady" either. I too cringe! I think far too many women listen to other women tell them what men want instead of listening to the men. Also, these women are all pretty young, so they may only be exposed to young men who haven't really learned what makes a woman high-value. It is most definitely NOT her money and independence.

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

@@valdonjohnson251 It's funny how ignorant you both are. They know EXACTLY what we want. They thing is that they don't care about you unless you are a CHAD.

@hahahaaha7208

Жыл бұрын

Every 2 weeks in Great Britain a woman gets chocked to death. The men often get sentences of 2-4 years for manslaughter cause they say it was a sex game. And you wonder why women are afraid to get intimate nowadays.

@australianpatriot

Жыл бұрын

no man wants a fucking boss lady lmao

@curlyqween34

Жыл бұрын

You want to pump and dump

I would love to see these same women interviewed 10 years later. That would be a show!

Surprisingly chill interviews. Seems like you gathered a good spread in terms of ethnicity, looks, morals etc. Would be interesting to see different ages as well. A few topics did stand out: 1) I love their pro advice on how to get a girl, like the classics: "I don't know", "change career", "stop going to bars", "I don't know", "don't look for relationships", "have confidence", "I don't know", "embrace being single" and "move on/walk away". Stellar stuff :) 2) On a more serious note: In the second-to-last part they talk about what they want in a man. Several comments here have called out how obviously disingenuous these are but I actually don't think the girls are actively lying here in several cases. I just think that they have a baseline (e.g. 6ft and 6pack) that's so ingrained that they don't even think about mentioning it. 3) The last part about what they think a man wants in a woman is the only truly clueless part - but that is probably to be expected.

@cassu6

4 ай бұрын

Yeah those pro advices are like exactly the antithesis of how to get women XD Apart from maybe "have confidence", but that's such a shit tip because it actually doesn't mean much

@binglebonglebellybarrelbla9071

Ай бұрын

Lmao this shit is hilarious

Courtney, please gather some men from like 23-35 and ask them similar questions. We need women to understand that their perception of the current situation is way off.

@sevensolaris

Жыл бұрын

And then play those videos of the men for the women and ask them what they think of the men's answers.

@TheDefaultClass

Жыл бұрын

@@sevensolaris yes to both please

I think these women are mostly clueless, especially about how women have contributed to this. Not that it's entirely their fault, but there's very little self-reflection going on here. Any suggestions are either so vague as to be meaningless ("be yourself") or contradictory.

@SquallSZ

Жыл бұрын

It's mainly their fault now. And partially the 10/10 men that make them think that they can have them. All this creates more simps behaviour (and more channels like courtney that take the opportunity to gain money from men loneliness. She knows they are a majority now. She knows the subject is triggering. Therefore > views > 💰💸💰💸💰💸💰💵💵💵)

@joeschlotthauer840

Жыл бұрын

Delusional, putting the blame on men.

@NoName-kq9kl

Жыл бұрын

The dudes they are talking about, are completely invisible to these females, so why would they know anything about this?

@Niek1001

Жыл бұрын

Women and accountability.. Lol. Also why would they feel sorry for men they aren't attracted to in the first place? Most men don't make the cut. It's just how it is.

@steakBurner81

Жыл бұрын

Either Courtney is smart enough to know these girls are clueless and she is having them contradict themselves on purpose... Or she's as clueless and tone-deaf as her friends are.

@CourtneyRyan As an older gentleman, early 50s, looking for a partner, how does the younger outlook on dating and looking for a partner compare to the views of women around my age? Would you be willing to create a video with older women sharing their pov or suggest another channel for me to access?

I stopped after the last gal dropped a vague "hint", then got her azz on her shoulders when I didn't give her the chance to reject me if my conversation was even slightly awkward or imperfect.

I was walking alone to my hotel room minding my own business and there were two women in front of me who thought I was trying to talk/hit on them, they stopped and not only ridiculed me for not being attractive enough for them but proceeded to follow me and continue harassing me. I didn’t say a single word…

@jaxonwoods8181

Жыл бұрын

And water is wet, and the sky is blue.

@samgod

Жыл бұрын

I gave up with clubs and bars because I got sick of getting the finger, or a hand in my face, or "nope", or "goodbye" by women that happen to be sitting at a bar as I'm minding my own business trying to get the overworked bar tender's attention. Hello? I didn't even notice you until you flipped me the bird.

@MikeNEVILLE-xf4bc

Жыл бұрын

​@@samgod dude ! Ur going to meet only one type of girl in a bar, get a hooker probably cheaper.

@quincymiller782

Жыл бұрын

@@samgod they get their validation from turning guys down

@samgod

Жыл бұрын

@@quincymiller782 unfortunately, wish I could disagree. I just got sick of so many fucking dirty looks from women at clubs. Ended up emotionally exhausted and drained. Take my word for it, associating beautiful women with stink faces doesn't feel good. Read all the dating tips and coaching you want. Your confidence, humor, playfulness, not putting them on a pedestal are irrelevant as women walk away. Ugh.

It’s crazy how when women give advice on how men can be better, they basically say what men say to each other already: “Get better, improve yourself…” etc. But when women are talking to themselves on how to get a guy when they’re struggling, they’re like “No, sweetheart, you’re perfect the way you are. Don’t change for him, let him change for you”. Like, what 🫤?

@cazimim3375

10 ай бұрын

Typical hypocritical 99% NPCs

@leerollins7555

10 ай бұрын

Dude. This. A thousand times. Preach.

@DhaoistAzazel

10 ай бұрын

Women tear each other down especially older towards younger women because they are bitter and lonely so they want the younger women to be like them…miserable

@Whatever_man

9 ай бұрын

Female social hierarchy is a completely different beast to tackle. They say "you're perfect and beautiful" while being happy the other woman is as fat as a walrus (women are VERY susceptible to social hierachies, which is why gossiping is seen as a classical female thing to do). It's just sad this has become the mindset of their own aswell but without the (self)hate. No need for selfimprovement without some healthy self hate. Instead it's a mental disorder for women and increasingly in men (less rigorous diagnosis boundaries for being depressed, anxiety disorder etc.). So we now have a whole generation of women who keep tearing other down under the veil of female empowerment and every negative emotional feeling is a mental disorder, this means no self-improvement to fit in a larger society and improving negative personal characteristics/traits. Now add in the extreme individualism and consumerism from social media (and remember, women are susceptible to social hierarchy and this is easily measured in social media by followers and likes) and we have a highly dysfunctional generation of individuals who are hyperfocused on personal and mostly materialistic achievement. Of course this is a generalization but we definitely see macro-sociological gender changes in Western societies in the past couple of decades(gender is used binary here: the different experiences between men and women, which is how the concept is used in the vast majority of social research). Now, there is also a lot to say about men in the modern age. However, the female experience has been a lot more instable since the 1960s in the West (sexual revolution and feminism). Source: Just a simple, biased, opinion from someone with a master's degree in interdisciplinary social sciences.

@scotthearts9634

7 ай бұрын

Dang! This shit so true 😅😂😂

Some great interviews with these ladies. Many were very articulate with great insight. The bottom line with relationships is that they aren't perfect and they require work. You need honesty, respect, compromise, caring, communication and love/intimacy with your partner. Hopefully we get what we give, especially if you are doing all of the aforementioned. You literally need to wake up every day and choose to be with your partner because it's too easy to jump ship but then all you are doing is starting over elsewhere, over and over again. If you have a partner who cherishes you and is a "keeper," I hope you're treating them like a most precious gem and not yesterday's trash. Advice from a man on the backside of life. Do with it what you will.

@vladonutueu

25 күн бұрын

Very few of them thinks like this and they usually get hooked up by chads.

Most of us men just want a good looking woman that can get along with us. That's it... Its not that complicated like what women want in men...

What women want: Don't be ugly Don't be short Don't be poor

@mistercool3859

Жыл бұрын

Also: Don't be boring Don't be too clingy

@deficator750

Жыл бұрын

What women offer in return: Being pretty

@mistercool3859

Жыл бұрын

@@deficator750 Not even that

@brandon9638

Жыл бұрын

A man can check every box and they still consider themselves the prize

@amrenmiller6053

Жыл бұрын

​@@brandon9638 I think that mentality comes from men in general groveling to women far too much. You can see it everywhere. Anytime a woman appears even mildly pretty, they slobber all over themselves and over-validate them on social media. If you want women to stop thinking of themselves as the prize, I do believe that it is a society-wide problem that needs to be addressed, unfortunately. You would have to get the behavior of millions of thirsty men to change.

After watching this video, I have concluded that relationships are just not for me.

@EJ257IHI

Жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with that, I would just suggest trying the dating scene to see if it's for you, unless you already gave it a shot.

@justcausee

Жыл бұрын

Don't listen to ^ stick with your initial reaction and never date. You'll be far better off and then someday if enough men leave the dating pool, maybe then women will the the error in their ways.

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

@@EJ257IHI ............................................................................😶😐

@asparrow9876

Жыл бұрын

@@justcausee Amen. I swore off dating at 21, got red pilled at 19. Now I'm about to turn 30, never been in a relationship and I got tattoos of vows & promises to never: date, marry, cohabitate or get them pregnant. If I want a family in my late forties, I'm hiring all surrogates and buying/employing everything I need at fertility clinics.

@justcausee

Жыл бұрын

@@asparrow9876 fk modern western women. We really just need to develop the artificial womb and render them wholly and completely obsolete. Enabling the creation of a female free society and giving men, for the first time, any sort of reproductive rights.

Colorful shirt girl is a good person. And she’s pretty too. She’s smart and looks for the right things, and she’ll make someone very happy.

Can I get in contact with Mansi ? For research purposes . 😊

I don’t think most women really understand how difficult it is to form a connection with a woman even if the man is attractive. I won’t blame women entirely for that, there’s plenty of societal reasons, and things men need to improve, but it’s really crazy to see these women are genuinely clueless when it comes to the male experience…

@davidclayton.1511

Жыл бұрын

Who's gonna tell them or educate them if the father is absent? I get attacked all the time on reddit for repeating such lines

@charakism

Жыл бұрын

true man i find rlly frustrating when women all the time want that the men does all the first steps maybe more women understand if she is the one who must do anything to the beginning

@austinzizzi1142

Жыл бұрын

They have clearly never looked at anything outside of their own perspective for even a second nor do they care to

@Rothbardy

Жыл бұрын

@@davidclayton.1511 you heard the blonde, they don’t need no man 😂

@davidclayton.1511

Жыл бұрын

@@Rothbardy tbh, I didn't even watch the video. Went straight to the comments. These videos are too mind numbing.

I love how they say they want a guy to do a hobby, yet it is the first thing she complains about you spending time doing instead of giving all your attention to them.

@theprettydead1577

Жыл бұрын

THIS!! everyone i've ever been with, men have hobbies, women have men as their hobby

@mattirealm

Жыл бұрын

@@theprettydead1577 Or their hobby is like....reality TV shows or some shit. I can write a novel about how many hobbies I absolutely adore. The double-standard is awful. Showing interest=too clingy. Not showing enough interest=boring. I mean FFS, how can we win? I just don't see it.

@scotts7907

Жыл бұрын

These are women talking about what they want in a guy to allow the guy through the door. They probably have no clue what they want 5+ years down the road with the same man. They're young and haven't been drug through the coals yet. Everyone, man and woman, get drug through the coals and values change. It's life.

@RANDassociatesinc

Жыл бұрын

The hobby would be the second thing. The guy wanting to hang out with his friends is the first complaint. Once she gets rid of all his friends...THEN his hobbies go under the knife!

@davidbarr49

Жыл бұрын

It is also the first thing she will complain about you spending money on.

Is it true that the older you get the less options you have? I’m 33 and have never been in a relationship. An older man gave me this advise he is not so much older than I am but he is married and has kids.

I would also add this thought: my grandparents, both born in the early 1900's, saw a lot of changes in their lives, one of them being the advent of air travel, and also the changing of society, in general, in the 1960's. During my lifetime, I've seen a lot of changes also, but one of the biggest and most dramatic changes in society is due to internet, and smart phones. I think, and this is because I've seen society from before and after, that internet, smart phones, social media, these things have had a negative impact. Everything is about instant gratification due to what I've just mentioned. To people that grew up with these things in their daily lives, the ones that were 'born into it' so to speak, you will not understand the impact these things have had. I don't do social media, and I never have. The only thing I really like is the ability to watch music videos from the old days, that I really did not have much access to back then. I watch those right here on utube. I don't particularly like utube, because of their censorship of too many things, but nonetheless.....

I love how she asked what they think men want and they just regurgitated what they want. 😂

@davidbolha

Жыл бұрын

Solipsism 😎

@greatpower6063

Жыл бұрын

Well to be honest what men want is basically sex cause they don't care about women's feelings. You and most men would do better to listen to what women want and actually try to understand another person for reasons other than getting your dick sucked. IF you want a quickie and you have a shit personality as a dude; just go buy a ten minute session with a prostitute or something.

@BoydSmash

Жыл бұрын

Hint: many of them think they know what they want but then want something else when they get it. Those people want one thing: More.

@mrx-od3ji

Жыл бұрын

@@BoydSmash singel life is the best i dont need a woman to be happy im 43 years old i never dated and i dont want kids.

@mikehawkins4752

Жыл бұрын

What men want is irrelevant to them.

Older guy here. Single, alone, and 98% drama free. I’d be really hard pressed to give up my peace for some mediocre woman.

@Mr-S.C.

Жыл бұрын

Same here.. just stay strong and single.

@Puzzoozoo

Жыл бұрын

Ditto, 6 weeks from retirement on Sunday, and I live a quiet and comfortable single life.

@peoplethesedaysberetarded

Жыл бұрын

Yep.

@mitchellcole832

Жыл бұрын

Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women. The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.

@mementomori5374

Жыл бұрын

Same, protect your peace at all time

Just shows how little women understand men. For example, near the end they were asked about what they thought men were looking for in a woman and all of them brought up something along the lines of a woman being successful in their career and having their own money. These are things that men do not care about when looking for a partner, that is a woman's focus of what they want in a partner.

totally agree with the social media "romanticizing fighting", good point

Courtney really needs to get a group of guys on and have them react to this garbage and then have these same girls react to that 😂

@eddieruiz6826

Жыл бұрын

It would be all out war LMAO not a good idea.

@gizmogearloose3391

Жыл бұрын

Agreed...but she won't. I like what she's trying to accomplish...dating advice, opinions, grooming, etc., but it's all VERY one-sided. You can't ask a diverse group of women about how men and women interact...unless you also ask men about the same subject...SIMULTANEOUSLY! But she won't do that.

@arthurmorgan2906

Жыл бұрын

thats what I thought too

@550xxx23

Жыл бұрын

@@eddieruiz6826 all out war... GREAT IDEA

@eddieruiz6826

Жыл бұрын

@@550xxx23 naw a waste of energy.

I’ve been single/sexless for about 5 years now. I consider myself an old fashioned guy so hooking up and having sex with random people is not my thing. When I got dumped by my gf It had made me feel lonely a lot of the time for sure but it really helps you reevaluate everything in your life and make you work on yourself which I wouldn’t change for anything. Looking back now, it was a blessing in disguise. Nobody wants to be alone but the people that choose to be alone are the strongest willed people because they know what they are worth and what they can give and they just won’t give it to everybody.

@yomangfoo1

Жыл бұрын

7 years here also an "old fashioned guy". When my loneliness finally evolved to peace and relaxation, passion and drive took over. Since then I became a co owner of an LLC I helped build, I own investment property in a different country as well property in the states, I own foreign cars and vintage motorcycles. Lately I've impressed myself with the amount of suffering and hard work i can take without cracking. Im hungry for more. All at the prime age of 32. LIFES GOOD! Keep learning, bleeding (metaphorically) and keep grinding kings! itll be all worth it at the end!

@johnwalsh518

Жыл бұрын

Well said my friend. Women should always be an afterthought not you main focus. Work on yourself completely ignore women and they will come in the right time or if they don't then you are fine alone.

@krisowy79

Жыл бұрын

5 years here - same thing - not interested in quick hook ups, I never was. But I'm also not interested in bending over backwards to reach someone's standards of what they think I suppose to be, or in being with someone for the sake of being with them. And breakups do really suck, both ways - they can take ages to recover from and are not worth it really. It takes times to tune into being alone, but once you've there for a while, it's very comforting a peaceful feeling to know that you don't really need anyone - it's very freeing not to be obsessed with something that most of the society is obsessed with.

@artofmybody2882

Жыл бұрын

@@yomangfoo1 smart 👌 👏 when u do this.. and meet a good woman naturally.. y will know.. you'll b successful and won't have to deal with all the bullsh

@artofmybody2882

Жыл бұрын

@@johnwalsh518 I agree.. although not quite an afterthought but a compliment to an already good life. I think some guys look to women as a savior of sorts and this is bound to backfire

I do love women, but I am selective on who is worth receiving it.

This is interesting. Something that would have been interesting would be after all of this asking them what they look for and what they want...when they think about their recent hookups or relationships, did those guys have the qualities they said they want or look for? i.e. are these things aspirational or are they the reality of who they date/hook up with?

“If height is a total deal breaker then you know you’re not going to be comfortable with someone shorter than you then you shouldn’t go after that.” LMFAOOOOO imagine if I said having a flat ass is a total deal breaker and I’m not going after that how many female friends would I lose 😂😂😂 What y’all trippin about 👀

@Slitspop

Жыл бұрын

Difference is that flat ass girls won’t be a deal breaker to most guys where as height will be to most girls.

@jperryhal

Жыл бұрын

you don't need those flat @ss 304s anyway! 😂

@EldritchPursuit

Жыл бұрын

Having female friends is a bad idea.

@juliusernst

Жыл бұрын

@@EldritchPursuit why?

@ilikepancakes2368

Жыл бұрын

@@Slitspop So? Who cares if you lose female friends for saying you want a woman with a nice booty? You like what you like. We need to stop shaming people for just expressing their genuine desires. It just causes everyone to lie and mislead everyone else.

I actually feel bad for men in their twenties and thirties in this modern time. I’m in my mid forties, and I lived through what I call the golden age of dating in my twenties and thirties. Back then you could actually approach a woman and flirt. Women back then didn’t think it was weird. If we wanted to meet women, we went to a bar, approached a woman we liked, bought her a drink, talked to her, made her laugh, enjoyed each other’s company. The internet and social media ruined all that.

@KoenBlom

Жыл бұрын

It's definitely still effective if not more effective to approach women now. Because very little man do it these days.

@gregwilliams4242

Жыл бұрын

Look at these women’s responses.? Would you wanna approach women like this ?HELL NO most of these answers are lile

@hoedemakerbart

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I grew up in the 90s. Once phones and internet came ... The more technology the worse it got

@heyant7753

Жыл бұрын

I work in labor force with a lot of older men, I’m 27 and it gets insanely annoying when all these dudes ever talk about is the 80s. “Back in my day, everybody was smashing left and right!” “Even the ugly fatties were smashing with other ugly fatties” “man I remember being stationed up in Germany, and I met this girl, we ended up smashing in Heidelberg castle.” Non stop stories of the good ol days. Metaphorically speaking , for younger men in 2022, it’s like taking a puppy and you have treats but you constantly tease it and don’t let it take a bite. Then it ends up ignoring the treats or bites the person teasing it. It’s torture 😂 Its literally night and day. Constant rejections and embarrassment and what many 20 year old men experience including myself. Was thinking if I save up enough I can get out of the west.

@andrek6920

Жыл бұрын

@@gregwilliams4242 Id approach them. Not for what any of them are talking about though. All these women talking about how men should get into relationships when none of them are worthy of a relationship. Nah, Id approach them for sex. No way theyd get anything more from me though.

“I have a whole document” is a scary saying.

Going thru a harsh break and this video helped a lot in term of understanding. I made a couple of mistake misassuming boundary and was never given an opportunity. I thought I could salvage it but and was reaffirmed by my friends and the comment made in the video that the woman has already made up her mind that she is no longer interested.

My son had a girlfriend who would get busy with stuff and not have time for him but would expect him to loiter around and still be interested and attentive to her no matter what. But he got busy for only 2 weeks over the summer and didn’t talk to her as much and she gave him an ultimatum to shape up or she’d break up with him. I was proud that he told her to piss off for having a double standard. She wasn’t that wonderful, either, so I didn’t really see where she got off acting like that. Now my son feels like women are more trouble than they’re worth. Can’t say I blame him. These days a lot of women feel like the world needs to revolve around them when they don’t add a lot to the relationship other than complaining a lot about what they think they deserve. Good luck, ladies. Relationships take two people.

@ryanlee2091

Жыл бұрын

I truly feel sorry for this generation…not that I had an easy time in dating but at least it was not this bad…

@charr007

Жыл бұрын

This is another one, are using double standards

@thierryfaquet7405

Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's 100% social media change. Women can have all the attention by just posting a photo on Instagram. They will have their little thirsty follower army (the hotter they are the bigger the army) validating them every single time. They are truly the center of their world, always. And for quit a lot of girls nowadays it's just hard to grasp that their SO aren't as available as the infinite amount of simps on the internet.

@mafp22w

Жыл бұрын

@@ryanlee2091 Me too. I’m 63 and married almost 30 of them. My sons are 26 (CPA) and 23 (Electrical Engineer). They don’t date. And I don’t blame them. Why should they? What do women have to offer? I’m glad I had children and they mean a lot to me, but today, who in their right mind would want children growing up in this environment? If you don’t want to have children and raise a family, what do these women have to offer?

@leob4543

Жыл бұрын

Well said, thanks for saying it just as it is.

The dating scene has drastically changed in the last 10-15 years and has short circuited relations between the genders. Add social media nonsense and wide smart phone use into that as well. I'm 45 and remember how different it was in my 20's. The paradox of choice has really killed modern dating.

@incurableromantic4006

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely. Dating apps have been an absolute disaster.

@dedkat7

9 ай бұрын

It has, women are Chad-only now today. I'm not even saying it's a bad thing necessarily, it's the way it is, it's maybe even more natural

@TheTseipii

8 ай бұрын

Could you tell us what was it like in your 20's.

@pauliesk.7102

8 ай бұрын

For sure. People approach 'dating' now like they're buying something online from Amazon.

@AmandaMG6

8 ай бұрын

@@TheTseipii we only had to choose from maybe a 25-30 person group and all IRL so bonding happened faster I think, more organically

"What are you looking for in a man." "I have a whole document." 😂🤣😂

Good God. Listening to these girls solves precisely nothing aside from reaffirming wanting to be alone lol.

@lauraseidel9053

Жыл бұрын

I am a newly single woman and l've recently been on dating apps because l noticed that people weren't meeting in person as much...and after being on the aps for a while...l noticed something happening with alot of people on the app and even to myself...the longer l was on the app; l would breeze through all the profiles so quickly and yes...try to chat with some people...and even go on a few dates...but l noticed that the longer l did this...the less special the whole thing became...and everyone on the app...as well as I became very distracted...and kinda stuck in "roaming" mode...always looking for the next "best thing" l think thats what social media and these apps are doing to our brains...and l am a product of the 80's...and was never like this before. I think the romance and "specialness" has been taken out of the equation because of our fast- food dating practices...l hope people realize that we need to put down our phones and interact with eachother...simultaneously as l write this comment, ignoring the text messages that a potential soul- mate has just sent me!!!🤣

@samuelzuleger5134

Жыл бұрын

I probably wouldn't try dating any of these girls after watching this video. What they need to realize is that a lot of us men are choosing to be alone because we think it is better than the alternative (myself included). A time will come when *they* will have no choice but to be alone because they won't get looks at clubs or swipes on apps. Also...we aren't "lonely." We can still have friends, family, and pets.

@rutgerhauser2377

Жыл бұрын

@@lauraseidel9053 Dating apps have no intention of working. As working is antithetical to their business model. If they actually worked then they wouldn't have a market. They don't sell dates they sell hope. It's all about gamifying dating, making it less special, and having you spend as much time on the app as possible so they can shove more ads in your face.

@thedeifiedjulius2310

Жыл бұрын

Haha !

@InvestMyBuck

Жыл бұрын

yea the majority are really dumb whoa! Not a clue about the opposite sex.

We aren't "afraid" Ashley, we just genuinely have ZERO interest in modern western women. Besides, as the brilliant Stella said, yall "don't need no man". You got this girl! Your strong and independent! We wish you women luck, your gonna need it.

@pokemonboy4699

Жыл бұрын

well said

@Brandwein42

Жыл бұрын

There is no shame in being actually afraid of many of them, though. They are that dangerous to your mental wellbeing that you should rather avoid them. Notice that men having legitimate fears is bend to being something thats on the men, not on the thing they are afraid of.

@D_Jilla

Жыл бұрын

"Modern western woman" Dear Umbasa I hope you're not American cause this sounds very cringe.

@SystematicMechanic

Жыл бұрын

@@Brandwein42 they try and shame men by calling into question their / his masculinity. Feminist programing.

@BillClinton228

Жыл бұрын

Why must I approach females when I have a 80% chance of getting rejected and a 100% chance of having to take her on a date and pay for something that Chad got for free?

Take it from an affluent, confident, and self-reliant individual. The level of peace that one experiences when not having to deal with elements that are constantly trying to realign their motivations is priceless. I personally chose to stop having sex because it creates a false sense of closeness that's not genuinely matured through learning who one another is. Only indulging in a person physically takes away from the true satisfaction found in discovering one another. Both sides tend to want the other side to professioanlly remedy each other's shortcomings as well. Society has made both sides far too sensitive to endure the growing pains necessary to develop a healthy relationship. Note: A woman working and being "able" to take care of themselves is only a valid argument for those only wanting to use a man for what they can provide. The example of male and female unions are seen from flowers to humans. IT'S AS NATURAL AS BREATHING.

Very interesting, well done interviews. Thank you.

"Never ask a fish how to catch a fish." This was an interesting examination on what women _believe_ are the causes of this condition. The one area where I believe most of the women were completely unaware is what a man is looking for in a woman. Stella and Mansi, I believe, were the most clueless in this area. Men don't choose "independent, hard-working" women _because_ they have those qualities. Almost every woman identified those qualities as attractive when they were choosing men. The reason men don't value those qualities in women is because we don't directly benefit when our women have those qualities. If we, as men, are independent and hard-working, why would we choose someone who is going to be just as stressed out and tired as we are on a daily basis? If we don't have those qualities, why we choose someone who is going to view us as deficient in an area which determines how attractive they find us? Social media is a huge reason for this rise. Why? Dating has become an economy of scale. There was a time when you dated the people who were close: neighbors, workplace, church, group activities. Even if there was no one local, you had friends keeping their eyes out and facilitating introductions to people outside your immediate circle of contacts. Today, all you have to do is post a picture, fill out a short questionnaire, and you are--literally--on the market. All a woman has to do is swipe right and within 10 minutes, a date can be had. For men, it's not that simple. Even if you survive the swipe test, you still have to pass the gauntlet of mystery requirements she has. Don't forget about the ghosting risk: Men and women are both guilty of this, but women started it. *Bottom line:* A lot of men have realized the juice just isn't worth the squeeze, especially if they've been through a divorce. This video spent over 33 minutes talking about men and what women look for in men, but almost no time discussing what they expect to bring to a relationship or what makes them think they are ready not to be single. All of the things women tell men to do to make themselves more attractive to women are the things men probably should be doing for themselves, anyway. The pandemic and subsequent lockdown provided a practical example to a lot of men how to live their lives without pursuing women. On the whole, there's less drama, it's far cheaper, and more freedom to live their lives the way they want to live them. There is a difference between "lonely" and "alone". Give a man enough time and enough negative experiences with women, and that difference becomes crystal clear very quickly.

@paulweeldreyer7457

Жыл бұрын

Correct, men (generally speaking) don't give a shit about a woman's career success. It's fine but not something we're really looking for. It doesn't make women more attractive to us (it might even make them less attractive).

@robertmunger43

Жыл бұрын

Fucking well said. Women resist to look inward and admit their wrong and take that accountability. Their list of expectations will in the end keep them miserable and single.

@faeantiks

Жыл бұрын

Top comment indeed.

@gandalf3453

Жыл бұрын

someone needs to pin this comment... courtney!

@WoodyPerfect

Жыл бұрын

well said but bro White Salesman: "accidentally" calls his Black neighbor the N-word *video on my channel*

If you ever wanted to know why more people are single, this video is why lol.

@mitchellcole832

Жыл бұрын

Us men are very logical, women are not. Our minds default to- The more I invest in something, the more I’ll get out of it. That is true for 99.9% of things…..except women. The opposite is true for women. Women like guys that don’t give af about them and those that invest little succeed, like Chad texting her at 2 A.M. just to bone. On the other hand, that guy that buys her chocolates and flowers...ain’t getting no play. Which is exactly why, women deserve less.

@lukebruce5234

Жыл бұрын

​@@mitchellcole832 How is it not logical that women want good looking men? If men could choose they too would pick the pretty girl over the less pretty one.

@mateaukalua4426

Жыл бұрын

@@lukebruce5234 Luke as a guy whose 29 more things than looks matter. Maybe a 18 year old boy would but at this point in life that's childish. Looks and the whole package is rare. Just find someone who will treat you like a human being is already an 8/10 in itself in today's world. That's how bad things really are. And this is coming from a moderately handsome guy.

@scottmescudi3423

Жыл бұрын

Ah ah good one.

@michaelarojas

Жыл бұрын

​@@lukebruce5234they don't know what they want

I'm a guy... What bothers me is when women say a guy has to have a lot of ambition. But what if you live in a beautiful apartment, full of quiet/good neighbors, and you are happy where you live. But, if you move to a big pretty house you have awful neighbors, mold, bugs, and everything is far away and you are miserable? Why can't women be happy with men that just have enough to make a living without having that closet gold digger mentality in mind?

I think the problem is the expectation is striving for perfection between men and women. Many years ago I used to work at a checkout and I used to speak to a lot of women when they would buy their items. I wasn't hitting on anyone just a general chat, in the end, I refused to speak to younger women because they would always give me a dirty look or completely ignore me. The only women I would speak to afterwards would be the older women and we would just have a nice chat like two human beings.

Ashley is probably one out of a million women who claims she would be “flattered” if a man approached her in person. I’m average looking at best but I’ve followed Courtney’s advice down to every last detail about how to dress, look, talk to and approach women. 9/10 times they give me this look of disgust like “why are you talking to me?” This has led to many men (including myself) to simply stop trying. After enough rejections it’s like why even bother? In contrast, women sit around and complain that they can’t meet anyone and have no clue as to why men aren’t approaching.

@aidanschram9652

Жыл бұрын

We need to stop trying anyways so women can realize that they are doing this to themselves. Obviously something needs to change with dating and I think it starts with men stop giving a fuck and going about their life instead of chasing women.

@billybanter9573

Жыл бұрын

Wow Really?. The thing that gets me as a 6'6 male with average looks it's fine for me to say hi to a group of girls but anybody shorter elicits a colder response.

@music-jj2pl

Жыл бұрын

When a women says men the translation is the top men. They think its obvious so they don't add the top part.

@johnwalsh518

Жыл бұрын

Come on brother have you not watch the men sites the 33 secrets and such. Never take advice from a fish on how to catch a fish not here in the west anyway.

@mfc0511

Жыл бұрын

This is so pathetic on so many levels

New title for this video: 33 minutes of women being oblivious to the situation they created.

@Clementkouroukis

Жыл бұрын

3rd wave Feminism and corrupt Hollywood created this problem.

@randomhuman2595

Жыл бұрын

If you're not attractive it is your fault, that is what Jordan Peterson said

@benjamintafari7047

Жыл бұрын

Acting oblivious

@bad_writer

Жыл бұрын

“Situation they created” Lol keep blaming your problems on others, see if that fixes your problems

@commandershepard9601

Жыл бұрын

@@bad_writer every fall of every great civilization began with giving women too much say in political matters. They destroy countries with their emotions and lack of logic, lack of foresight.

Public comment. I am happy every one of you explain and express your thoughts and feelings and emotions relating to relationship. No games. No red flags. No negative. Know that you want in life. Values each other time and effort ❤. Show love and respect to each other. Unity and togetherness. ❤ honesty is loyalty . The key to great relationships is understanding and love and caring and respectful ❤ it shows you are mature. Great video ms Courtney ❤.

I’m 25 and I’ve accepted that I will probably be alone for the rest of my life

“Men will always want to be a woman's first love while women would want to be men's last romance.” - Oscar Wilde.

@saptaccrvima3563

Жыл бұрын

I guess this guy was smart enough to see this sooner and just turn towards men

@andi8489

Жыл бұрын

...until they get bored being the last romance

@miepmiep3017

Жыл бұрын

Strange, because that's not what men say in most comment sections I've checked. Most men say they can't be monogamous due to biology and will always desire other women. I've been told men want sex more than anything, with as many women as possible. BY MEN. Why starting to love when that's the case?

@andi8489

Жыл бұрын

@@miepmiep3017 Of all the other guys i met in life, there were indeed some like that but i think those were about 10% of all, at most. Usually, those were the ones that looked the best and had the lowest morals.

@noahm6782

Жыл бұрын

@@miepmiep3017 i think monogamy is the morally correct path, however by a woman's first love, he meant that the woman hasn't been with any other men. Men value purity whereas women don't tend to mind a guys past so long as she is his "final romance."

I had a female coworker tell me that she wishes she was a guy. She felt her life would be easier Lol. I told her its quite the opposite you truly have no idea the pressure guys have to endure in this world. I always think of the story of the woman that became a man and ended up taking her life pretty much tells you all you need to know what our reality is like.

@pjabber5679

Жыл бұрын

Yep, there's a reason why there's hundreds of male-to-female transgender people for female-to-male one, everything in the legal system and society is tipped in vvomen's favour, why wouldn't they want some of that female privilege.

@tjlnintendo

Жыл бұрын

Nora Vincent

@insomniacresurrected1000

Жыл бұрын

Everything a man complains about is always his fault. And he should man up, and do whatever. Women never get this type of treatment.

@MsAJChase

Жыл бұрын

@@pjabber5679 that’s not why Paul. Lol Men transitioning to women have a sexual fetish called autogynephilia. Not all - but many.

@taasch2505

Жыл бұрын

@Pepe Pupu many have tried and killed themselves from the pressure and loneliness

All these perspectives are quite interesting and I think they’re a huge shift from when I grew up. Nevertheless, some of these points are timeless. Thank you!

Its always our fault as a guy when women's standards gone up and reject nice guys! Most Women find most guys unattractive 😑😐

Stella's 1st answer had me facepalming IRL because it sounds so tone-deaf. I cannot fathom somebody thinking that the reason why 1/3 of dudes aren't getting laid is because "women no longer deal with douchebags". The douchebags are the ones that were hitting your line to smash a couple years ago with no intention of giving you more. That just shows a complete lack of awareness - if I had to guess, a supermajority of that 1/3 would never even approach you. And I've lived that first hand: When I was near 300 pounds, I wasn't approaching you. When I didn't have my shit together financially, I wasn't approaching you. And I sure wasn't approaching you when I ran lobbies on Call of Duty or when I played Runescape with my e-friends. Douchebags can and will still get laid - whether it be through nagging or them exerting some type of "abnormal confidence" or them being actual F-boys.

@wisetree5322

Жыл бұрын

Agree

@meds888ful

Жыл бұрын

Was definitely a low IQ response by that girl. I don't think she listened to the question.

@funkfarmer7125

Жыл бұрын

Modern Women: "We no longer deal w douchebags" Also Modern Women: " My triple digit body count is made up of mostly douchebags"

@sam.shock924

Жыл бұрын

this ^^^

@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121

Жыл бұрын

"Women no longer deal with douchebags" Yeah, and religion has been abolished in the middle east 😂

I googled "out of touch with reality" and this was the first link that popped up

@charlesrichards1240

2 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Love the format, slow contemplation of young women. Personally did relate to that one with bright colored blouse, wish her meet someone to resonate with her, turn on her qualities, which open with the emotional relationship, providing that full meaning of life, we can experience with the mature partnership. Thanks, and good sail to all the participants.

"Men idealize women" Literally has an ultra specific and detailed checklist the length of a CVS receipt.

My jaw is on the floor with this one. 😳 I’m even in a committed relationship, and am aghast at how those interviewed talk about cultural trends towards female celibacy, “not needing a man for anything” and “keeping options open” while blaming men for all the problems. Wow. I honestly think we might be doomed. And by the way, I don’t see women as the problem, I see the takeover of social and romantic interactions by for-profit tech companies as spoiling everything.

@jeffreyvonstetten5852

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@xcryosonx

Жыл бұрын

Female celibacy is a bit of a farce. There is a little bit of it going on, but let's not get it twisted women are the ones having far more sex than men on average who are the actual incels.

@eveliinahannele

Жыл бұрын

@Dan T what is socially responsible behaviour? Suicide rate is indeed high for men but I see no real efforts from men to solve this problem. All I see is men like you complaining about women and why don't they care about these lonely men's peepees

@eveliinahannele

Жыл бұрын

@Dan T so what is the problem here? That narcissist are better ar manipulating other people? What is your point?

@Misaamanenoir

Жыл бұрын

@Dan T it's because women were oppressed.. Women literally weren't allowed any control over their own lives and still we struggle with equality today, especially black women. Also most men still see women as objects. Yall talk about us like objects, and compare us to objects, and try and treat us like objects and women just aren't taking it anymore. Why would we want to be with a man who only wants us for our body or who thinks that we need to not speak because yall don't value a woman's mind and soul. That's why it's so easy for men to transition to porn and sex robots in place of living women, because yall already see us as things. And also men are becoming more violent against women and psychologists are linking it to porn and sex dolls and the objectification of women.