Her Husband Left Her, Now She Lives Like This... | Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners

This week, Hayley travels to help out 39 year old Shereen, who last cleaned her flat a year ago. Due to her lack of cleaning, her mum no longer visits her due to her flat being so messy! Meanwhile Penny is going to spend four days helping clean and de-clutter the two bed home of Paul and Elaine. Paul is a self-confessed shopaholic causing Elaine to have a constant fear of tripping or falling over all the clutter that he buys! When their grown up children come to stay, they have to sleep in the caravan on the drive because there is no room in the house!
Half a million of Brits change our bed linen just three times a year. Yet there is a group of Britons who wage a constant war on dirt and order. This brand new series follows Brits who - by their own admission - are so obsessed with cleaning they can't relax if there is a spot on a tap or a rain mark on the windows!
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  • @sashavann92
    @sashavann928 ай бұрын

    "Hayley has learnt to manage her condition" and "she cleans for 19 hours a day" are such contradictory statements 😂

  • @angelikalaser7778

    @angelikalaser7778

    4 ай бұрын

    9:23 she bleaches her toilet while the wall is dirty and the pipes have a to of dirt on them 😂 Hailey fakes it for the camera for years as far as I'm concerned.

  • @angelikalaser7778

    @angelikalaser7778

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Hermaeusmora5042 I understand, at the same time the show producers create an overexarrated characted and make things up. It goes to show it is not about cleanliness, because Hayle's home is not clean. The pipes look like the ones i hoarders homes.

  • @ultraboombean

    @ultraboombean

    3 ай бұрын

    @@angelikalaser7778 maybe they are just worn? everything else looks scrubbed spotless

  • @OLDCHEMIST1

    @OLDCHEMIST1

    3 ай бұрын

    Absolutely agree with you! To clean for 19 hours a day does not mean she is managing her condition.

  • @Ez_beanz

    @Ez_beanz

    3 ай бұрын

    Better than 35 which is what they said in the beginning lol

  • @Theninetalesxx
    @Theninetalesxx3 ай бұрын

    penny is an absolute angel, she did all that with no thanks from paul

  • @viaankaur9043

    @viaankaur9043

    3 ай бұрын

    Sounds like me . I love cleaning

  • @Elysian777

    @Elysian777

    3 ай бұрын

    A lot of empathic women who are married to high functioning autists, hoarders, narcissists and other types with control issues end up with auto-immune disorders. Doctors are starting to recognize that as a 'side effect' of being high empathy, living with a person who is low or no empathy.

  • @catepilarr

    @catepilarr

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Elysian777 I am not surprised. Thanks for pointing that out!

  • @lunity1111

    @lunity1111

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Elysian777I have auto Immune disease and have a high empathy and father with low empathy, that’s interesting i am v spiritual and already connected the link of probably self hate/ attacking oneself and leaky gut . I actually pretty much cured mine but this is an interesting angle to dig deeper on thanks

  • @x-starlight-x

    @x-starlight-x

    2 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@Elysian777that's really interesting

  • @ZNMelowLeloNeka
    @ZNMelowLeloNeka3 ай бұрын

    I hate how Paul was hiding behind being an environmentalist when he is a darn HOARDER!!! does he not know that consumerism and environmentalism doesn't mix

  • @strawberrysoymilkshake

    @strawberrysoymilkshake

    3 ай бұрын

    THIS!!!!!!

  • @wheezy.does.it.

    @wheezy.does.it.

    2 ай бұрын

    He probably hoards and doesn't throw anything out to avoid buying things later on.

  • @spaceunicorn6000
    @spaceunicorn60003 ай бұрын

    I loved the part with Hayley and Shereen; two women who appear to be polar opposites, both kind and understanding, getting to know each other, and genuinely befriending and helping one another. It's beautiful.

  • @madisonthornton3144

    @madisonthornton3144

    3 ай бұрын

    yes!! I loved them! they were so sweet I hope they stay friends

  • @catepilarr

    @catepilarr

    3 ай бұрын

    I thought that too.

  • @Kubulek17
    @Kubulek17 Жыл бұрын

    Hayley cleaning in 6 inch platform pumps is always funny to me

  • @jasminejohnstone1803

    @jasminejohnstone1803

    Жыл бұрын

    She's a classy legend that's why ❤❤😊😊😊

  • @SLRModShop

    @SLRModShop

    8 ай бұрын

    @@jasminejohnstone1803 I discovered this show last weekend, I don't skip a single bit of Hailey, I'm totally in love 😍 My wife already knows, now the next step is to let Hailey know that I'm going to marry her! Wish me luck

  • @angelikalaser7778

    @angelikalaser7778

    4 ай бұрын

    Hayley fakes it for the camera. She is a staple for the show. At 9:23 you can see how dirty the pipes are in the bathroom. For someone cleaning the toilet daily not to see the dirt on walls is strange. The grouts in her kitchen are black 😅 I doubt that she cleans when the camera if off tbh.

  • @giovannavanwesterhoven6846

    @giovannavanwesterhoven6846

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@angelikalaser7778 I was wondering the same thing.... Also, she wears the shoes she just wore outside inside her home??? That's like the number 1 no no rule!

  • @Gemsha20

    @Gemsha20

    3 ай бұрын

    @@angelikalaser7778but it still makes good entertainment haha.. Haley has a mad addiction to the smell of bleach, she will be on the next rehab show haha

  • @JB-hb7fd
    @JB-hb7fd Жыл бұрын

    Paul needs a clip around the ears, what a selfish man child. His poor wife has a serious health condition and he's more worried keeping his stuff......🙄😒

  • @leylano6423

    @leylano6423

    4 ай бұрын

    He‘s ill as well and would have needed professional help for his hoarding problem.

  • @JB-hb7fd

    @JB-hb7fd

    4 ай бұрын

    @@leylano6423 This is true.

  • @Mariamsadventure

    @Mariamsadventure

    4 ай бұрын

    oh come of it… his illness has more to do with his laziness… I feel pity on the woman who has to clean after him like a maid.

  • @bunz637

    @bunz637

    3 ай бұрын

    If you weren’t thinking with your emotions then you’d realise that he clearly has an illness too.

  • @abbyz13

    @abbyz13

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Mariamsadventurehe’s 50/50 mentally ill and just wasn’t raised right. a grown man should never be making that many excuses, but his OCD is only making it harder.

  • @mskazz642
    @mskazz6428 ай бұрын

    Paul’s a slapped arse. His wife is struggling to shift his crap. Felt sorry for her she deserves better. Where were her kids to help her? I hope she’s ok.

  • @gillianbrookwell1678

    @gillianbrookwell1678

    8 ай бұрын

    You would think they could afford a vase to put the fresh cut flowers in rather than having them in a half cut plastic Coca Cola bottle; Window shelf in kitchen.

  • @littlelizzi3135

    @littlelizzi3135

    8 ай бұрын

    He's a selfish overgrown child, can't believe his wife took him a cuppa, I'd have thrown it at him!

  • @leylano6423

    @leylano6423

    4 ай бұрын

    Paul‘s a hoarder. He needs professional help while cleaning, not a random women with OCD.

  • @noname-qw9td

    @noname-qw9td

    3 ай бұрын

    @@gillianbrookwell1678 the issue is that he's spending all of their money on his 'collectibles', and therefore a 'vase isn't part of his viewpoint

  • @zillpatel201

    @zillpatel201

    3 ай бұрын

    Paul has his own mental condition he is struggling with possibly tied to trauma even. He needs professional mental help to start healing more. His continuing to get rid of more stuff after penny left already is a good step in the right direction. however to prevent resurfacing of symptoms and internal struggles he should consider consulting a mental health professional. there seems to be good hope for paul and penny.

  • @monikavarro2020
    @monikavarro20203 ай бұрын

    "The cat is sitting on the surfaces with its bum hole." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hayley is so funny!

  • @stephaniepierce6545

    @stephaniepierce6545

    3 ай бұрын

    I think about this too! Really bothers me when I see cats on food prep areas when I am over at someone’s house for dinner 😂

  • @lilneopuppy

    @lilneopuppy

    3 ай бұрын

    Dont remember who, but someone did a test to see if thier cats bumhole actually touches surfaces by putting lipstick on it. And surprisingly it doesnt since the fur around it keeps it elevated 🤣 Id more worry abt their paws tracking poo and pee from the litterbox but the amounts are so small its negligible. My sister and I call our cat poopy paws sometimes when he leaves the box though.

  • @jklfds85

    @jklfds85

    3 ай бұрын

    This grosses me out too, it's disgusting. I'm sure they are cute and cuddly animals, but I can't stand this fact about their bum touching surfaces, AND the fact they lick their own bum and then lick you! 🤢

  • @dewilew2137

    @dewilew2137

    3 ай бұрын

    That cat is cleaner than she is.

  • @rosealynn

    @rosealynn

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@jklfds85 don't act like dogs don't do the same 😂

  • @jennymeadham4348
    @jennymeadham4348 Жыл бұрын

    She worrying me , half a bottle of bleach with disinfectent so wrong to mix chemicals she can have a bad chemicals reaction. Bleach shouldnt be used to clean the house. Toilet only . She needs to be careful. We also have a immune system to kill germs .

  • @LumiSisuSusi

    @LumiSisuSusi

    Жыл бұрын

    I loathe bleach.. I've not used a single bottle of it in the 5 years I've lived in my apartment. My apartment is clean and I use a steam cleaner and other environmentally friendly products. I simply can't stand the smell of bleach 😅

  • @1974794

    @1974794

    11 ай бұрын

    And using Bleach in the fridge! It's absolutely dangerous because it is in contact with the food....

  • @elbasset7214

    @elbasset7214

    9 ай бұрын

    And it ruins your clothes

  • @littlelizzi3135

    @littlelizzi3135

    8 ай бұрын

    It's a disease though, it's not going to be rational unfortunately. Her compulsión makes using a lethal combination of chemicals seem like a great idea. 🙄💜

  • @lindaresearches

    @lindaresearches

    5 ай бұрын

    Professional cleaners like Aurikatariina will tell you to never mix bleach with hot water, it's so dangerous.

  • @thekibbler
    @thekibbler3 ай бұрын

    So sad, they should have brought a registered therapist for Paul and Shareen. Living conditions like this always stem from mental health issues. I hope they were able to maintain their living conditions after the film crew left!

  • @ellie3365

    @ellie3365

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah I actually went from being annoyed at Paul to very concerned indeed

  • @bruna7534

    @bruna7534

    3 ай бұрын

    Every single person in this show should get professional help. That high heels woman is inhaling bleach and detergent boiled fumes all day. Just because her illness is more productive that doesn't means it's better. OCD impacts one's life quality and the relationships around them too.

  • @maryfields1382
    @maryfields13823 ай бұрын

    Rumor has it that Paul is still pouting in his bedroom, pretending to be unwell, while using the excuse of saving the environment, to emotionally neglect his wife who is dealing with MS. She deserves better.

  • @ShatteredRippleBooks

    @ShatteredRippleBooks

    3 ай бұрын

    @maryfields1382 I understand that you are concerned about his wife. But please study hoarding disorder as this is also a medical condition. Paul was given no support for this medical condition.

  • @sherlockholmes8329

    @sherlockholmes8329

    2 ай бұрын

    Have studied. Also have personal experience. Its a disorder that makes you selfish and incredible careless. Took years to heal my father when he refused therapy.

  • @CravingSolitude

    @CravingSolitude

    14 күн бұрын

    He’s ill. Educate yourself on the matter.

  • @brightphoebus
    @brightphoebus3 ай бұрын

    That's great! What Hayley did for Shereen brought tears to my eyes. I know very well how she must have felt when she first entered the flat. I've felt that way too. Panic attack, germs entering your psyche and the urge to run.

  • @Saranghaezz
    @Saranghaezz4 ай бұрын

    I haven't watched the entire thing yet, but I think the main problem with Paul is that he needs the support of a professional hoarding team. You can't really expect random people who like cleaning to be able to change everything in a household just by chucking things out. I know that's the premise of the series, but as a person who gets professional help with cleaning my surroundings, I realize how important it is to actually understand where it's coming from. It's so much more complicated than throwing things away. Yes, his behavior is shitty. That's why he needs a professional to work this through.

  • @e-cigarette2050

    @e-cigarette2050

    3 ай бұрын

    I was thinking the exact same thing. Penny did the best she could have in that situation, I think the yard sale was a great idea and I intend to try it on my own mother hah.😅 He definitely does need a whole team of professionals to teach him how to maintain this new lifestyle, environment, and also really tackle the psychological element of it all. Otherwise the pattern sadly continues. I stayed to watch the end because I was curious of the outcome and I’m quite surprised. So far, ‘their living room is clutter free and they plan to sell more of Paul’s stuff’. Hope the best for them honestly, especially Elaine. I know hoarding is a subset of ocd and I have ocd myself but I find hoarding to be quite selfish, which I’m saying from lived experience with a serious hoarder.

  • @wendygillard2133
    @wendygillard213311 ай бұрын

    I feel really annoyed watching Paul. He is an incredibly selfish and inconsiderate man. He has probably worn down his poor wife!

  • @gillianbrookwell1678

    @gillianbrookwell1678

    11 ай бұрын

    He's seems like a control freak, having his wife exactly where he wants her. She has my deepest sympathy.

  • @PumaLyn

    @PumaLyn

    8 ай бұрын

    Paul should move in with the first woman. She can clean up all his junk for him.

  • @combatduckie

    @combatduckie

    7 ай бұрын

    she hasn t got mine, she could leave anytime, she choses staying, some people prefer lifelong misery in an unhealthy relationship to the unknown and being self-relient.....@@gillianbrookwell1678

  • @jennamont6618

    @jennamont6618

    3 ай бұрын

    He’s definitely mentally Ill. No doubt.

  • @TermiteVideo

    @TermiteVideo

    2 ай бұрын

    Who knows what has occurred in Paul’s past to contribute to his hoarding. Something will have because all hoarding disorders are routed in trauma.

  • @sparksparkle
    @sparksparkle3 ай бұрын

    Penny is so nice haha. She's so respectful and understanding even when she's very visibly grossed out lol.

  • @nervousbabbs2769
    @nervousbabbs27693 ай бұрын

    That man doesn't care about the environment. This strange woman he doesn't know is making him get rid of what he sees as valuable, prized possessions so he is destroying the tapes so no-one else can have them or ever hear them.. This man seems dangerously malicious.

  • @mixrable1212
    @mixrable1212Ай бұрын

    Penny should start a cleaning company and monetize her "illness". They call it "illness", I call it talent. She's damn talented, look at that house, so clean.

  • @halcyon3116
    @halcyon31163 ай бұрын

    my heart is breaking with shireen, i hope shes found her strength. i get it, its a tragedy that led her to this dwelling, its not seen as a home, and to go through her possessions just is futile and brings more hurt from the relationship/home she just left. im glad thus far in vid hayley was as polite as she could muster. shireen needs love and hope restored

  • @thatguysstuff15
    @thatguysstuff153 ай бұрын

    Paul can still shop at sales ,but he can shop for kids with no toys or clothes ! Hed be a hero if he changes his mind shift , And donated to kids !!!!

  • @sherlockholmes8329

    @sherlockholmes8329

    2 ай бұрын

    Of course he would but its about the high of owning trash, not “helping the environment” as he claims

  • @sparklycucumber9027
    @sparklycucumber90273 ай бұрын

    Got to hand it to these people willing to 1. Publicize their conditions and 2. Willing to help one another. Also seeing a bunch of young adults volunteer to improve THEIR space, speaks volumes of each individual in my opinion.

  • @manilkasheran2934
    @manilkasheran29343 ай бұрын

    When Paul basically said that he doesn't care about his wife's health...!

  • @littlemontanalady
    @littlemontanalady3 ай бұрын

    What Paul is doing to his wife is straight abuse, knowing that she has MS and how much stress can effect a person with MS, causing lesions to form on their brain smh. I hope that man gets some much needed help otherwise I'm very doubtful their situation will improve. My heart goes out to Shireen. I'm glad Penny went there and helped her.

  • @cg9616
    @cg96163 ай бұрын

    Paul’s a hoarder and blocks every effort to help his wife. Sad man 😢

  • @beanmachine917
    @beanmachine9173 ай бұрын

    1:24 the dogs reaction genuinely surprised me you could tell even he’s had it 😭 but really dogs usually freak out when you vacuum them like that he was so well behaved

  • @DucktorQuackers
    @DucktorQuackers3 ай бұрын

    BRO IS VACUUMING THE WHOLE ASS BED LMAO he is introducing more germs than actually cleaning

  • @DanaGoldbergMD

    @DanaGoldbergMD

    26 күн бұрын

    Yes. That was gross

  • @annsmith9698
    @annsmith96983 ай бұрын

    Hayley cleans the toilet 4 times a day but the wall pipes right beside it have layers of dust and dirt on them. Also, I wonder when she has time to be present with her children. But I know it’s not her fault due to her OCD. Wishing her the very best

  • @Mariamsadventure
    @Mariamsadventure4 ай бұрын

    As a Muslim woman, I hope Shireen will get stronger with her faith and d now allow that divorce to destroy her life. I know it’s very hard, sometimes it can feel like you are all alone. Please stay strong and have balance. All the best to those who want to improve their lives for better. 🥺

  • @beth4928

    @beth4928

    3 ай бұрын

    I really felt for her. I hope she and her cat are having a great life.

  • @lizkim1546

    @lizkim1546

    9 күн бұрын

    I hope she is much better

  • @sailorVenus225
    @sailorVenus2254 ай бұрын

    Shereen and Hayley are funny together

  • @felixkimani5375
    @felixkimani5375 Жыл бұрын

    Is Hailey cleaning while wearing Louboutin shoes? Really Hailey! Really 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @goskaes5468

    @goskaes5468

    9 ай бұрын

    of course,not...only for her image on camera.

  • @noname-qw9td

    @noname-qw9td

    3 ай бұрын

    Amusingly, it was only for that one clip whereby she was outside. If you look at the rest of the clips, the shoes are the same style, but they're not Loubs

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell1678 Жыл бұрын

    My ex husband is a collector; he has over a thousand gardening magazines dating back from the 1950's. I've lived on my own for 9 years and enjoy living in a neat clean clutter free home. I also love cleaning, and like using a lot of bleach which is cheap and efficient.

  • @getitdonewithsiobhan
    @getitdonewithsiobhan3 ай бұрын

    I’m very disappointment in Paul. He’s very selfish. His wife has an ailment and their kids have to live in a motor home outside of their home because of his hoard. They don’t want to deal with his “collections” after he passes. I feel like that’s super heartless of him to leave them with the burden of all that stuff to deal with while they’re trying to heal from the passing of their father. 😒😒

  • @andhe3739
    @andhe37392 ай бұрын

    penny and elaine selling whatever they want while paul is "sick" is such a power move

  • @Elysian777
    @Elysian7773 ай бұрын

    I know a lady who visited her out of state grandaughter in the flat the grandaughter shares with two others. The OCD gran re-arranged the whole kitchen to her liking and when the poor flatmates got up in the morning to go to work they didn't know where their coffee, tea, utensils, lunch-packing materials, anything was. Ran them late for work. The house was nice and clean. The grandmother just can't go anywhere without compulsively 'fixing things up' the way she likes them- even things that aren't hers.

  • @macleunin
    @macleunin7 ай бұрын

    While Paul is recycling little screws in cassete cases, Hailey is tossing several plastic bottles and rubber gloves each day 😩

  • @alienblackgoo_gle

    @alienblackgoo_gle

    5 ай бұрын

    Very true ☹️

  • @aliya6158

    @aliya6158

    4 ай бұрын

    And she is talking care about her family, and he doesn't give a f about his ill wife. So who is real bad guy here?

  • @bethsparks3566

    @bethsparks3566

    3 ай бұрын

    ​​@@aliya6158so aggressive,I 100% agree but calm down

  • @Sakira198
    @Sakira1983 ай бұрын

    21:25 my man literally pulled out the "The needs of the many..." card. Absolutely stone cold savage. Feel sorry for his wife to just be brushed off that easily by the man she spent the better part of her life with, christ.

  • @KombuchaBuzzed
    @KombuchaBuzzed3 ай бұрын

    I feel bad for Paul’s wife. It’s frustrating to help people who refuse it but need it.

  • @user-ss5th7gq9e
    @user-ss5th7gq9e3 ай бұрын

    What many people don’t realize is that acts of hoarding and uncleanliness can also be major symptoms of OCD as well. While to some people these behaviors are silly or harmful, it must be noted that these stressors can be very real to those who struggle with them. My heart goes out to all of these people. ❤️

  • @lilneopuppy
    @lilneopuppy3 ай бұрын

    I feel bad for Shareen in the beginning. It takes a lot of bravery to ask for help to begin with, and Hayleys unmanaged ocd is making this task even more embarrassing then it had to be. Shes being judged for her house, her cat, and even possibly being poisoned by Hayley mixing chemicals. Her house isnt that horrible and wouldnt be that hard of a task for most cleaners (a big job, but not impossible or something to complain about.) I hope Shareen talking to Hayley and giving her her perspectives helped Hayley realize her ocd really isnt managed well at all. Its ok to have joy in cleaning, but extreme germphobia can be debilitating and feeding the ocd in this way is unsustainable. However if she does keep help cleaning peoples homes in can be therapeutic in a positive way since she will have to be exposed to things that are dirtier then her home will ever get. Pauls situation is also not being handled correctly, hoarding needs to be addressed with a therapist and the way Penny is attempting to deal with it is likely to make him just fill the house right back up again. No dig on penny though, she is sweet, just this is not the best way to handle this and it shows with him shutting down and running away.

  • @kellylupton6136
    @kellylupton613611 ай бұрын

    Paul is a very selfish person he only cares about what he wants honestly he has no respect at all for his wife or anyone else seriously his wife needs to leave him in his mess an save her sanity and take care of herself

  • @gillianbrookwell1678

    @gillianbrookwell1678

    11 ай бұрын

    People like Paul never change; I left my husband because of his selfishness and uncaring attitude.

  • @kellylupton6136

    @kellylupton6136

    10 ай бұрын

    @@gillianbrookwell1678 I'm sorry you had to go through that ❤️

  • @gillianbrookwell1678

    @gillianbrookwell1678

    8 ай бұрын

    @@kellylupton6136 It was difficult at first but I've lived on my own for nine years and I love it, being able to do what I want without being told what to do.

  • @kellylupton6136

    @kellylupton6136

    8 ай бұрын

    @@gillianbrookwell1678 that is absolutely awesome I'm really happy for you you deserve to have a happy peaceful life 💓

  • @Mariamsadventure

    @Mariamsadventure

    4 ай бұрын

    He is manipulating with his tactics to say he wants to leave things for his “children”… legacy my foot. His kids are alive and does he care about their feelings? He does not even consider them or his wife.

  • @jordanredwine1058
    @jordanredwine10583 ай бұрын

    Lawd I know this man is not serious about toys being an insurance plan

  • @bambitopaz

    @bambitopaz

    3 ай бұрын

    I'd think that they would be stored better, to keep them in good condition.

  • @mercedesontanon5337
    @mercedesontanon53377 ай бұрын

    Cleaning with heels 👠 = my idol!

  • @TheSilveryew
    @TheSilveryew7 ай бұрын

    I feel so bad for Elaine, what a waste of space Paul is >:(

  • @sadiaali5273
    @sadiaali52732 ай бұрын

    I would like to say to Shireen that life is beautiful. Dont let your past experiences dictate your present. You deserve to look after yourself and the your environment is very important. May Allah grant you ease. Ameen.

  • @mmendi1114
    @mmendi111411 ай бұрын

    Wish you the best Shereen....

  • @bindushrestha1775
    @bindushrestha17759 ай бұрын

    Hayley cleaning the toilets 5 times a day….completely misses the dirty pipes …. “I have OCD” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @gillianbrookwell1678

    @gillianbrookwell1678

    8 ай бұрын

    I think I do too; When I go anywhere, I'm always looking for dust on the blinds, skirting boards and dirty ceiling fans to see how clean they are. If a cafe doesn't look clean enough, I won't eat in it.

  • @tashaax1993xanimalloverx

    @tashaax1993xanimalloverx

    8 ай бұрын

    Ocd isn't about cleanliness....do ur research its the obsessiveness of it

  • @sashavann92

    @sashavann92

    8 ай бұрын

    Because it's about routines and rituals more than it is cleanliness 🙄🤡

  • @littlelizzi3135

    @littlelizzi3135

    8 ай бұрын

    OCD is the inability to resist compulsions to do certain behaviours or actions, often in strict order. There's often fear that something bad will happen if you don't., Doesn't have to be cleaning although that's common

  • @Redpill1962

    @Redpill1962

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah I noticed that ! Bizarre

  • @multiplesclerosissux
    @multiplesclerosissuxАй бұрын

    I used to clean every single second of my waking day. I now have MS and can't clean as much as I once did. The MS may have been a small blessing.

  • @izzatihassan1475
    @izzatihassan14753 ай бұрын

    as a muslim, I respect Hayley for refusing to come into shireen's prayer room. And to be fair even Shireen should not be praying there. the first important step of praying is finding someplace clean to do it on. Glad Hayley help cleaned it out but I hope Shireen also uses a praying rug from now on. Easily washable.

  • @guylanctot4395
    @guylanctot43952 ай бұрын

    "That cat, his bumhole will be on the surfaces. 100%" OMG, I can't stop laughing 😂

  • @HiepTLe
    @HiepTLe2 ай бұрын

    I love people that loves to clean. So neat and tidy. Wish I had that skill.

  • @uncool777girl3
    @uncool777girl38 ай бұрын

    It doesn't bring me any joy to watch hoarders...I have a close family member that struggles with it and it is absolutely impossible to help if they aren't truly ready to change. It's super frustrating to deal with such people.

  • @richardsanchez5444
    @richardsanchez54443 ай бұрын

    The dog seems to enjoy the vacuuming. Usually dogs are scared vacuume cleaners. .

  • @WhoaMykey
    @WhoaMykey3 ай бұрын

    Hayley worries me but damn she’s making cleaning look beautiful will looking bomb at the same time! 😂❤

  • @A222Z
    @A222Z3 ай бұрын

    I think it is great how they did the garden sale, bc her partner cared more about the environment (an excuse to keep stuff) than he cared about her. She should have left him, bc her health was more important than that toxic relationship.

  • @carolalexander270
    @carolalexander2704 ай бұрын

    Its been years since rhis aired and Paul's wife's condition has surely worsened. Since he is a selfish narcissist, wonder how she is doing

  • @tom1998rules
    @tom1998rules2 ай бұрын

    Omg I love penny, she's the most charismatic lady.

  • @Mariamsadventure
    @Mariamsadventure4 ай бұрын

    Penny given example from the movie “Sleeping with the enemy” is weird to say the least… That man did not just have OCD, but he was abusive and a very controlling psychopath.

  • @damenwalker5260

    @damenwalker5260

    3 ай бұрын

    Was a rather odd comment 😐

  • @KombuchaBuzzed

    @KombuchaBuzzed

    3 ай бұрын

    Probably an abusive narcissist being that his wife screams codependency. My dad is a hoarder and also named Paul 😂

  • @ginacable5376
    @ginacable53769 ай бұрын

    I love Haley she's magnificent.

  • @Kaylergh
    @Kaylergh8 ай бұрын

    This girl freaking out about the cats bumhole touching things 😂😂 it literally doesn't hahahah

  • @foodpuff8582

    @foodpuff8582

    7 ай бұрын

    I would think it does when it’s sitting down. I can tell when my dog’s is touching things but don’t care tbh as I clean the floor regularly

  • @Kaylergh

    @Kaylergh

    7 ай бұрын

    i remember seeing a post on fb where a kid did a whole presentation about it for school, and did all sorts of "tests" it was great haha. I think if the cats got medium to long hair, the fur covers it when they sit, hairless cat or short hair would be a different story though! @@foodpuff8582

  • @BrokenBabydoll

    @BrokenBabydoll

    3 ай бұрын

    It does. I remember seeing brown bum hole prints on my window sill from my cat 😖

  • @icecreambodyrolls

    @icecreambodyrolls

    3 ай бұрын

    It does though 😂

  • @AlexShiro

    @AlexShiro

    3 ай бұрын

    It does. Animals belong outside.

  • @vestagirl8484
    @vestagirl84843 ай бұрын

    I wish I had a friend like Penny!!!

  • @BaDazai
    @BaDazai3 ай бұрын

    14:31 😅😂😂😂😂, this partade me laugh out loud! Cats and their bumholes 😂😂

  • @rl7090
    @rl70907 ай бұрын

    I sympathise with elaine i have ms too that paul is a waste of space 😠

  • @momof2momof2
    @momof2momof22 ай бұрын

    Hayley has come so far over the past few years. She is doing great. She has her own YT channel, and is on FB

  • @gaymichaelis7581
    @gaymichaelis75813 ай бұрын

    Yes, the young woman who is so obsessive about cleaning products and wears a lot of make up in those high heels(I don’t see how you can work in those things?), you need to research cleaning products, dear!!! You inhale those fumes, and they are very toxic!!! and you can burn your lungs, etc. I am 75 years old and I have COPD… You can look that up on the Internet… It has to do with the lungs and breathing… my ex-husband, I remember was cleaning a wall in a large store with muriatic acid, and he burned his lungs!!! And we have to breathe the air in around us with all these vehicles, etc.. I think you may catch my drift here, yes?! This was a really good video, all of you!!! I am a bit of a hoarder from years past, but I have really come along way!! Thank you very much to any and all here!!!! ❤

  • @krazorspoon
    @krazorspoon2 ай бұрын

    My mom's coworker would obsessively clean their workplace (not what she was hired for) and it interfered with her actual work productivity and her job security to the point where it didn't make sense to have her work there in the first place--and I mean to emphasize that the place was already clean by regulatory standards. It turned out that she had some kind of medical condition with her thyroid that caused the such erratic behavior. Medical intervention pretty much stopped her peculiar (seemingly) OCD with cleaning. I'm sharing this story, not to say that's what is going on in the lives of the people shown in this episode, but because in some cases these kinds of behaviors can damage some peoples' lives, or the lives of their loved ones, subsequently. In some cases, medical intervention may help people to find a new kind of control over their own lives, rather than feeling controlled by the drive to clean obsessively. For any people out there struggling with this kind of thing, you may be able to work with medical professionals to pinpoint and manage these behaviors if you feel they're negatvely affecting your life.

  • @kittyk.klandasions7008
    @kittyk.klandasions70083 ай бұрын

    Cleaning things that are Already Clean isn't really Cleaning.

  • @goobtube69
    @goobtube696 ай бұрын

    I need her as my friend so my house can get clean 😂

  • @aliya6158

    @aliya6158

    4 ай бұрын

    Was thinking the same😅

  • @damenwalker5260

    @damenwalker5260

    3 ай бұрын

    Same 😂😂

  • @cremepuffle
    @cremepuffle3 ай бұрын

    Hayley and Shereen are so funny to watch lol i think they were vibing a little.

  • @xXx___xXx
    @xXx___xXx3 ай бұрын

    Penny is so sweet!

  • @xXx___xXx

    @xXx___xXx

    3 ай бұрын

    Hayley too! And I'm so impressed by her heels

  • @BigDaddyKai620
    @BigDaddyKai6203 ай бұрын

    😅 Penny is always welcome to come over friend.

  • @user-ot9cg1nx7n
    @user-ot9cg1nx7n9 ай бұрын

    Hayley missed to clean the water pipes 9:30, there are lots of dust 😂

  • @sandrafinbar

    @sandrafinbar

    8 ай бұрын

    Went back and took a look. Yes, those pipes looked dusty.

  • @Kaylergh

    @Kaylergh

    8 ай бұрын

    Right they look nasty

  • @reallygoodatfolding
    @reallygoodatfolding3 ай бұрын

    I would watch Shereen and Hayley in a buddy comedy

  • @foodpuff8582
    @foodpuff85827 ай бұрын

    How do these people have 19 hours per day to clean though?

  • @kishajoanne9381

    @kishajoanne9381

    4 ай бұрын

    I doubt she's acrually cleaning for 19 hrs 😂

  • @mabb9205
    @mabb920521 күн бұрын

    Sad there’s not a balance here but I would rather be clean than a messy hoarder. And good for Penny for cleaning others homes!

  • @sdeee3842
    @sdeee38424 ай бұрын

    9:49 but she walks around the house in shoes outside inside! And she mixes bleach and disinfectant dear gosh! She gonna get serious ill!😮

  • @CraigsOverijse
    @CraigsOverijse4 ай бұрын

    Penny should wuit her job and become a full time cleaner, I feel so sorry for Elaine with MS having to live with Pauls Hoarding.

  • @tammychapman3150
    @tammychapman31507 сағат бұрын

    I'm amazed at how people can be so cleanliness minded in their homes and yet wear their shoes inside. Just think of all the ick your shoes touch each day, and that touches your floors and carpets.

  • @hartz9921
    @hartz99212 ай бұрын

    My uncle was VERY similar to Hayley. One day a friend of my grandad came to the house and saw his habits, he mentioned this habits were whispers from devils, let’s just say he was normal from that day

  • @ddnz7
    @ddnz74 ай бұрын

    love this show , these people are so nice ❤

  • @muffinsmcgee9248
    @muffinsmcgee92488 ай бұрын

    Hayley needs to clean those filthy pipes by her toilet. I can’t believe she’s obsessing over some things and just leaves the pipes caked in dust and bodily fluids.

  • @Bringmeariii

    @Bringmeariii

    6 ай бұрын

    Omg I saw that too!!

  • @YoGemmy
    @YoGemmyАй бұрын

    I want a whole series of Hayley and Shereen doing things together!

  • @Lazyeverydayy
    @Lazyeverydayy3 ай бұрын

    Michael using a vacuum on the bed is wild 💀

  • @lipsticksnlattesx3504
    @lipsticksnlattesx3504Ай бұрын

    Listen, if penny wants to clean my house who am I to object ? It’s helping her.

  • @charlottebreton6796
    @charlottebreton67962 ай бұрын

    I like collecting old cameras, but i keep them neatly displayed on glass shelves. Keeping them on the floor or everywhere is just chaotic.😊

  • @shanehall98
    @shanehall987 ай бұрын

    The first house even though it was very cluttered it didn’t look dirty and extremely ugly, which is a surprise because you mostly see extreme vile houses on here.

  • @Mariamsadventure

    @Mariamsadventure

    4 ай бұрын

    That’s why he said he is a “collector” not a hoarder… the only reason it looks like that, is because of the poor wife… she tries her best to not let it get filthy like other homes

  • @thebrazentruth
    @thebrazentruth3 ай бұрын

    I need to invite her over for coffee. 😂

  • @goddesslove5489
    @goddesslove54898 күн бұрын

    She’s a sweet soul

  • @kyleighhope961
    @kyleighhope9613 ай бұрын

    "he hasn't got the balls" absolutely correct

  • @skyesummers2106
    @skyesummers21062 ай бұрын

    the dust thing in the light is so relatable

  • @leopoo6553
    @leopoo65532 күн бұрын

    i do always wish there was more understanding for the home owners regarding their mental health, especially shereen. i understand the whole "wow how did it get like this!" bit i do wish there was more of an acknowledgment about WHY it gets like that

  • @tandty321
    @tandty3213 ай бұрын

    Watching this while im big cleaning my room

  • @AlexShiro

    @AlexShiro

    3 ай бұрын

    👍🏽 kicking goals

  • @rpineanew
    @rpineanew3 ай бұрын

    Their children are forced to live in a camper, and this selfish hoarder is smiling like Smaug over his illness-hoard? Hoarders will choose their loot over their own children, sick spouse, and well being. I don't find this entertaining. I call this ABSOLUTELY CRIMINAL. 💯

  • @Judy.LoveandLightAlways
    @Judy.LoveandLightAlways4 ай бұрын

    Penny and Hayley are my KZread heroes minus the bleach Hayley as I also suffer OCD cleaning and organizing. Paul is selfish considering his wife Elaine is sick. Shame on you Paul! = Narcarcisstic Human. Shereen so glad your flat is Nice and clean. What a great video. Kindest thoughts from Australia x

  • @JC-sm4mp
    @JC-sm4mp3 ай бұрын

    Heyleys OCD is relatable to me, but luckily I'm not too too freaked out by germs... I have exposed myself too and can handle touching them, but knowing pets have sat on certain surfaces definitely irks me 😂😂

  • @itsacarolbthing5221
    @itsacarolbthing52218 ай бұрын

    I love Haley, but it always amuses I seeing the pipes at the side of the loo covered in grime.

  • @dracovenit9549
    @dracovenit95493 ай бұрын

    Bless OCD people and their journey towards balance.

  • @jadelynn1703
    @jadelynn17033 ай бұрын

    Paul seems like a narcissist ... cares more about strangers wellbeing than his own wife who has MS.

  • @Panabellet
    @Panabellet Жыл бұрын

    I think I just realized I'm a hoarder too lol

  • @elipotter369

    @elipotter369

    4 ай бұрын

    And I'm an obsessive cleaner, lol!

  • @cademancaden
    @cademancaden3 ай бұрын

    9:26. Obsessive cleaners would see how filthy the walls and baseboards are.

  • @dewilew2137
    @dewilew21373 ай бұрын

    Penny and Haley might be obsessed with cleaning, and it might be somewhat compulsive, but it isn’t Obsessive-Compulsive in the pathological sense. In order to be considered a disorder, it has to cause distress to the person suffering with it. That’s part of the diagnostic criteria. They do not seem distressed. People who have contamination OCD are miserable while cleaning. It ruins their life.

  • @bambitopaz

    @bambitopaz

    3 ай бұрын

    Maybe it's distressing because the compulsive need to clean is overriding the need to spend time with their family and friends? Idk, I'm just thinking out loud, lol. Must feel good for them to know that their ocd is providing an opportunity to help others live a happier and healthier life.

  • @cynthiagenone3436
    @cynthiagenone34363 ай бұрын

    The younger lady who is at the Muslim lady's house, I don't like how she has treated her. Shaming her for her mental health is horrible. She needs help, that's why she reached out.

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