Healing the Unthinkable💔 How to Heal Ancestral Karma- After the Dr. Phil Show..

Due to my rather challenging and interesting childhood trauma transmutation, I have gotten to experience first hand the importance of healing family relationships and the connection it extends throughout ancestral lineages, and how to even do so.
Here's a piece of my story, 7 years after Dr. Phil, and how I have managed to heal family relationships and dynamics to an extent in which was thought to be literally impossible.
And as mentioned, no matter your situation or family dynamic, sending you so much love, healing and divine alignment throughout all your relationships and situations.
I am so grateful to walk this path with you family!
What's your relationship with your family and how has the journey been for you?
Share in the comments, you never know who you may help to remember, that they are not alone💕
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  • @cartooneyed
    @cartooneyed2 жыл бұрын

    Heather, in the Dr. Phil episode he said that your mother ruined your future. You stated: „I still have a good future.“ you said it like you knew it and you did. Yes you made it 🌺🌱

  • @mckennamaxwell9835

    @mckennamaxwell9835

    2 жыл бұрын

    what episode number is it? Would like to watch the whole story. Thank you

  • @fAbigailC3

    @fAbigailC3

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes truly she did!!

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😍😍 thank you for that perspective and reminder babe! Love you, we are rising together 🔥

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s called “news reporter to drunken mom” if you search KZread you can find it

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @lily-uu2pr
    @lily-uu2pr2 жыл бұрын

    It's called no contact during the healing of narcissistic childhood abuse, rise queen✨🌷

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    YES BABE- thanks for the perfect summary 😍♥️

  • @lily-uu2pr

    @lily-uu2pr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@activationvibration currently I'm going thru the no contact phase with my abusive dad. And so yeah, I feel like he's facing his own karma, he even got physically sick so yeah. I do not have hate in my heart for him or anyone, I wish everyone to face their shit no matter how bad or good it may sound like🌸🤍

  • @ladyoy

    @ladyoy

    2 жыл бұрын

    My whole family is toxic so I have to cut chords with everyone no exceptions. Now they are getting hit financially and physically and mentally. Karma is here. It’s only been 8 months since I cut the contact. Will see how they will progress. I don’t want my dad to die but clearly with that toxic environment and no one to enlighten him he is deteriorating.

  • @lily-uu2pr

    @lily-uu2pr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ladyoy I mean, of course shit will happen to them, it's called karma, it may manifests physically as a sickness or destruction. Before, they were feeding off of ur energy, cuz they're empty, now they're facing their shame and reality all alone.

  • @_gabrielle_w

    @_gabrielle_w

    2 жыл бұрын

    She said what she said, 👏🏼

  • @luzmilaluceyh9286
    @luzmilaluceyh92862 жыл бұрын

    Since I moved out my relationship with my parents is better and stronger. I did hoponopono, meditation and shadow work. The space apart made a huge difference.

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes love those too are my practices 🙏😘

  • @nsane992002
    @nsane9920022 жыл бұрын

    My therapist says that sometimes we have to divorce our family and find healthier relationships ❤️

  • @Katzykeens

    @Katzykeens

    2 жыл бұрын

    your therapist is absolutely right

  • @nsane992002

    @nsane992002

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Katzykeens 💯 absolutely!!!

  • @Layla-fr7mf

    @Layla-fr7mf

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is so true

  • @nsane992002

    @nsane992002

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Layla-fr7mf I have found it to be absolutely true!

  • @MarSirian

    @MarSirian

    2 жыл бұрын

    4444

  • @Ihopeitsshittyattheblackdog
    @Ihopeitsshittyattheblackdog2 жыл бұрын

    It's the heroes journey...all the greatest healers have gone through their dark night of the soul and been through tons of trauma. Namaste

  • @11nica5
    @11nica52 жыл бұрын

    I divorced my mother. I always knew our relationship was toxic but just recently at 42 years young I realized I was a victim of a narcissistic mother. Woah 🤯 As a mother of two lil girls I’m changing the dynamic and healing all the generational trauma.

  • @soulnickole6051
    @soulnickole60512 жыл бұрын

    I admire Heathers strength, lightness, and forgiveness after everything she has been through. When I watch the Dr Phil episode, I can see the pain in her eyes and the heaviness… it’s almost like watching a totally different person compared to where she is now on her journey… her spiritual evolution is truly inspiring and beautiful. This video was divinely delivered 🤍 I loved hearing your guidance through ancestral healing. I believe it is one of the hardest to dig up from our subconscious, and one of the toughest wounds to heal. Beautiful video Heather ❤️

  • @kingdraco4813
    @kingdraco48132 жыл бұрын

    Feel so sorry for you. I'm glad you are doing better today. I had my first Kundalini Awakening in 2010. Then they hospitalized me for mental illness. They drugged me down and broke me so even I thought I was ill. My life fell apart after that. But then in 2014 I had my second Kundalini Awakening & I knew I wasn't Crazy. I came to this Earth to be myself, not who society told me I should be. I also got into contact with people with the same experiences and Guru's that could help me understand what I was going through. I have spent years of my time researching what's scientifically is going on & the truth is that this is more common then what people think. In the East (None modernized at least) its celebrated but in the West it's seen as a Disease or Demonized. Had my 3rd Kundalini Awakening in the 7th November 2021 & I truly feel like myself. My friends & Family is accepting me for who I'm & most of my colleagues. the other's at least respect me & treat me well. I have been trough a lot of hardship in my life. But as long you keep living and apricate what positive and good in your life, Life will get better. Remember it's always Darkest before the Dawn!!! 🌅❣️😇

  • @ryanedwards6840
    @ryanedwards68402 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this Heather! My family is in a cult (JW) and have shunned me for leaving it for 20 years. My mom kicked me out of our house when I was 17 because it wasn't my truth anymore. I've been on an epic healing journey since then! I wish we could fully reconnect but everytime i try the cult stuff gets slapped in my face and it's just too toxic. I know someday, on some etheric plane we'll reconnect and laugh about the silliness of it all😊 But for now I just allow her space to experience her choices. I sometimes experience grief for the loss of that relationship but it gets easier with time. 💛💛💛🙏🙏🙏🤙

  • @87Breeezy

    @87Breeezy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you light and love. One of my childhood friends is a JW and has been all her life. It is so sad the way they shun and basically disown anyone that does not follow their agenda. I am very familiar with their practices because of her and I feel for you. I am her only "Wordly" friend and her family loves and accepts me and they are a bit more open minded but we have had issues before with other people not being as accepting!

  • @avila.j

    @avila.j

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏼 wishing you peace of mind

  • @ryanedwards6840

    @ryanedwards6840

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@avila.j thank you friend! 💙💛

  • @ryanedwards6840

    @ryanedwards6840

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Golden Hawk Oracle similar path here! I've tried to be open with my mom about my beliefs when she asks me and she says the devil has ahold of me😄 couldn't be more opposite obviously, but that's all they can see. Oh well! I'm proud of you for following such a wonderful healing path after starting life as a JW! You are loved Sister! 💛🙏✌

  • @ryanedwards6840

    @ryanedwards6840

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@87Breeezy thank you friend! 💛💛💛🙏

  • @silversharky100
    @silversharky1002 жыл бұрын

    just had a fight with my fam today. this video pops up at the evening of the same day with 1111 likes 🦋

  • @NefetariEnchanted
    @NefetariEnchanted2 жыл бұрын

    I’m shocked to hear you went through this… I never would have thought. I’ve had my fair share of childhood trauma and yes, I’ve had to cut off family members in order to heal and become the most authentic version of myself.

  • @MadameApolantTV

    @MadameApolantTV

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel I desire to cut connection with my mother for a while, particularly cause she has a friendship with my toxic Ex partner and his toxic family. I seperated from him 4 years ago, never married never lived together, I have a child with him him that I raise. And I have never presented my mother to his parents though he did and my mother does not see or hear my desire of being as free as possible from them. Anyway I feel challenged to cut the cord to her totally, specially cause he uses her as a triangle and when he takes on the phone to his daughter keeps on asking wether she has seen my mother. As if it was his decision when and if I see My mother including my daughter. Encouragement welcome Soul family.

  • @RymVri108
    @RymVri1083 ай бұрын

    For some of us, that no contact will and should be the rest of this incarnation, and if that's the case, it doesn't mean you failed. If you are healing yourself, but the other person makes no steps toward their own healing, than they leave no room for that miracle. You can continue on with your own path and healing without them. Your healing can affect them on a quantum level, but you may never see it and that's ok. Sometimes it's enough to know that you showed up and were open and you healed yourself.

  • @VivBeyer1111

    @VivBeyer1111

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @BeeGroovy
    @BeeGroovy4 күн бұрын

    I've lived with my grandmother for ten years and she's rapidly declining in health. She could go at any time. There is so much family conflict going on right now and I really needed this. 💕

  • @peacevibes444
    @peacevibes4442 жыл бұрын

    Wow this was so insightful, our healing helps to heal our family members, and the collective as a whole, it’s amazing to see. You see yourself and family members from the past, unaware and experiencing toxic moments, to years later(now) and see them and yourself grow and blossom back into their beautiful selves, reconnect with their souls. I love this, thank you for sharing soul family🌈🦋💕 Blessings to you✨

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes love you so get it! We connect and positively influence all realms and realities when we heal one♥️ we start with us and it helps all

  • @courtneycolquhoun1184
    @courtneycolquhoun11844 ай бұрын

    Heather! I grew up in Rohnert park and my mother passed from mental/addiction when I was 13yrs old..... we are SO much alike mystic mama. Stay strong and healed!

  • @jenibennett3319
    @jenibennett33192 жыл бұрын

    I heard that when we heal ourselves we heal our family and ancestors and I’ve been doing so much healing and plant medicine myself but my family is still suffering and set in there ways. I hope they can heal soon. Hearing Heather’s story gives me hope and this post resonates with me because my mom has been having mental health issues and is currently MIA for a few weeks now.

  • @magicale940

    @magicale940

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can do it 💙🌌

  • @LexiTheLeo
    @LexiTheLeo2 жыл бұрын

    Having to alchemise a toxic past and heal ancestral karma, when I saw you had walked a similar path to mine & I could see your light and wisdom alchemise your pain, you were one of the main people that kept me going through years of transmutation. Thank you for all you do. I’m so proud of you. I love you 🫂💛

  • @dianeaishamonday9125

    @dianeaishamonday9125

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Lexi, beautiful soul. Fancy seeing you here 😁🤍🤍

  • @artofbeingalissa
    @artofbeingalissa2 жыл бұрын

    I needed this! I have been healing a whole lot and have been feeling hopeless with my mom changing. Thank you Heather! ✨💛✨

  • @SusanPowell-mt2ly

    @SusanPowell-mt2ly

    7 ай бұрын

    My mom never changed and it was totally okay! I've been married for decades and have amazing grown children. I'm sober today for several decades. She died drunk and angry. It was okay that she didn't change. That was her path. I hope she is at peace now. We were always in touch but I moved to another country. got far far far away

  • @Oliviamsoleil777
    @Oliviamsoleil7776 ай бұрын

    This resonates a thousand percent. Alchemizing and transmuting toxicity in relationships is part of our purpose. Cutting physical ties is often a part of the self love process. I, this incarnation, signed up for some batshit craycrayness. What in the actual bleep was I thinking ?!!!😂 I get though. Thank you Heather for sharing your journey and more important for shining your light. My mother was unusually and brutally abusive. She never consciously worked on integrating her shadow aspects. Then she completely revised our history 😂 What in the world actual cluck!!! I am the only daughter who stepped forward to care for her in her golden years. Thanks to her I am practicing, detachment, acceptance, self-love, self-compassion, compassion for others, and being a bigger container for unconditional love. Many a times I wanted my physical existence to end. Any attempts were thwarted by Divine intervention. Deeply and infinitely grateful to Source. To you, reader, may all of your relationships be fruitful. And may you master, forgiveness, acceptance, compassion, and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Peace and Blessings of pure love to you. ⭐️✨🌟✨💚✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💎✨🌟✨⭐️✨🌟✨💜✨🌟✨⭐️

  • @shainafiala7008
    @shainafiala70082 жыл бұрын

    I have left my family. I've gone completely no contact, because the dynamic between everyone is so toxic and no one seemed to see it but me and one other sister. I've been doing some deep healing work on my childhood trauma and today I came to the realization that I need to own and embody my decision to leave. I felt such a shift within me. Then I saw this video pop up with perfect timing. I love that you and your mom have been able to reconnect in a way that is loving and healthy. That gives me hope for my situation as well, but for now I'm focusing on just me. Thank you for your video!

  • @ratigress163

    @ratigress163

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! Same here! Right now I’m focusing on myself it’s just easier as I’m healing the trauma. I also believe the same connections we want from them can definitely happen outside of our family! Hope All our connections Gets Better✨

  • @Collectionofparadoxes
    @Collectionofparadoxes2 жыл бұрын

    Good timing, currently at each other’s throats right now My dad is completely blind to his narcissistic mother and how much she has damaged him He always defends his mother over any of his children or his wife A lot of people are set in there ways and I believe there’s nothing you can do but love from a distance

  • @meganclosner
    @meganclosner2 жыл бұрын

    LOVE you sooooo much, Heather. Our stories are so connected, as are we. Blessings to you, beautiful.

  • @lunefae61435
    @lunefae614352 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Heather, I deeply resonate with your activations of healing. Everything is working out best case scenario! Let's keep rising!

  • @karaf.2539
    @karaf.25392 жыл бұрын

    I took space from my parents and 2 of my older siblings 6 months ago, 2 months to the day before my baby was born. I have been going through this period of becoming aware of my past, looking at it through a new perspective of what actually happened. It's been extremely painful and freeing. I hope to heal from all of the trauma and to have my true self come through. I don't want to be trapped anymore.

  • @TheSpiritualWitch1111
    @TheSpiritualWitch11112 жыл бұрын

    I see your strength, beauty! I also had a hugely traumatic childhood/young adult life! Phew…the things we sign up for 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thanks for sharing 🌸

  • @ElisavetaSK
    @ElisavetaSK2 жыл бұрын

    The synchronicity! 💕 I broke the walls and talked about the same topic yesterday with some friends on social media. Going through something similar at the moment and you uploaded a video on this!! So much healing is needed indeed, I'm doing the inner work already.. Thank you so much siStar 🌹💗

  • @tysenburgess-creager715
    @tysenburgess-creager7152 жыл бұрын

    WOW. I totally needed this message. I don’t resonate with current energies in my family, and you reminded me that it’s important to heal so I can guide those relationships to be all they are meant to be. Blessed be, goddess. You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing! 🧡

  • @Saturn691
    @Saturn6912 жыл бұрын

    I can’t express how happy I am for you. I’m crying watching this video out of happiness for you. I hope you can feel my love for you and your family, even if I can’t explain my feelings in words. Love you, Heather. You’re such an inspiration and so helpful to me on my healing journey. Thank you.

  • @daunv1965
    @daunv19652 жыл бұрын

    my heart hears it...my mind just isnt ready yet. i had to not just cut those cords, i had to shred and burn them for my mental and spiritual health. The hypocrisy towards me did not help. i love you too. your videos are so healing for me. i am thankful i found part of my soul family here.

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are not alone, we love you. May all heal♥️

  • @flowwithmichelle
    @flowwithmichelle2 жыл бұрын

    Heather, I was just talking to my mom about this. Her and I didn’t have a great relationship growing up and after taking space away from each other, we now are so close! I agree it is a miracle and space can be healthy. Thank you for your words and sharing your experience.

  • @victoria7463
    @victoria74632 жыл бұрын

    I needed this Heather, thank you so much. I am crying right now..you gave me the hope I needed. I love you and I am truly so grateful that you are you❤

  • @nickbmmj
    @nickbmmj2 жыл бұрын

    The glow up real Heather. I see you 💖

  • @christinemarques28
    @christinemarques282 жыл бұрын

    Heather, you are so beautiful! You freed your inner child and family lineage by curing/transmuting your energy. I have gone through the same and love you soul sister for sharing your story! 💗🌷

  • @lucidaandromeda
    @lucidaandromeda2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story with us Heather! It is so beautiful to hear about how your relationship with your mother has evolved and healed. I've been thinking of family, ancestors and lineage a lot these few weeks. I believe that the healing we do vibrates out through past and future generations within our family, and I feel it's one of my multiple missions here while on Earth. Always feeling your vibe and grateful for being here with you and all these other magical souls. 🙏🏽❤🌷🌟🌌💝👑

  • @ramblingsofamadmystic3050
    @ramblingsofamadmystic30502 жыл бұрын

    There are soooo many parallels in your story and mine, I see my mother in your mother. Also a single family home I am the oldest of 2 girls too. It's been 6 years since I have talked to my mother, I'm happy you are able to work things out. I still feel a sense of responsibility toward my mother and wonder how she is especially during these times, but I don't regret walking away, it was and still is for the best.

  • @justinedelfino8276
    @justinedelfino82762 жыл бұрын

    I just watched it. Thank you for sharing, it puts such a richer and clearer perspective on who you are. So crazy. There is and has been so much crazy and trauma in the world, previous generations and oh my god what has been with all the insanity around child sexual abuse, etc. We need serious spiritual warriors like you with medicine. May you continue to heal and strengthen and persevere in life. May you be infinitely and abundantly blessed to assist in the global awakening and healing of our planet and all of life and for us to move into peace and joy to co-create a life and reality that is truly beautiful and heavenly. You are wonderful.

  • @kiaracastellanos3653
    @kiaracastellanos36532 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the hugs and love you sent. I truly love and appreciate that and your wonderful wisdom. It has found me at a very important time in my life. I am currently having a hard time with my blood relatives and my soul family. It feels like everything is falling apart and your message has given me the much needed hope I needed. So thank you with all my heart for sharing this video! 🌟❤🌈❤🌟

  • @MsMusicalBeans
    @MsMusicalBeans2 жыл бұрын

    It's an understatement to say I've been waiting for this video since the day I subscribed! I have a mother wound as well, so I've found you so relatable from a distance, and your soul work truly inspires me at times I feel my trauma is too impossible.

  • @Amanda-wi8kc
    @Amanda-wi8kc2 жыл бұрын

    Awwww! When you said you are part of the soul family and you love us, my heart welled up. I love you too Heather!!!

  • @authenticallyspeaking6529
    @authenticallyspeaking65292 жыл бұрын

    My introduction to you was the interview you did with Aaron less than a year ago. I really appreciate how you opened up about your upbringing. Very few people have been able to understand where I'm coming from and think because we had money I was spoiled. Though there was plenty of financial lubrication, there was a massive lack of nurturing and stability due to my mother's substance abuse. Nurturing and stability is more truly wealth than a bank balance or shiny possessions. Mercedes and jewelry dont warm the heart, hugs and parental concern do. I'm glad you found people who showed you that warmth. Luckily my dad's family were always very nurturing and their love went a long way to influencing me positively.

  • @artandrea5348
    @artandrea53482 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully spoken Heather ♡ I resonate with this on so many levels and hearing this message was divine timing. Thank you for your transparency. We appreciate the light and hope you awaken in us all!

  • @MiaRedmond
    @MiaRedmond2 жыл бұрын

    I remember you asking how everyone would feel if u went on dr Phil again on Instagram and i remember commenting an idea of sharing the healing you did and now embody after his show, (even if u didn’t see my comment) seeing u share your story here, after dr Phil and how it is a beautiful plot twist makes me sooooo happy, heather ♥️🥰

  • @alisiademi
    @alisiademi2 жыл бұрын

    I had no idea you were on Dr. Phil! Thank you for sharing this success story of reconnecting with a family member, it gives hope to those of us still in separation

  • @marydlf
    @marydlf2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Heather for sharing ❤️🙏🏼 I had a very distorted relationship with my mother and it’s greatly improved because of the years of family constellation work I’ve done.. we still have our challenges occasionally but things have changed a great deal since the past ❤️ I definitely agree that other people around you change once you go through the healing yourself ❤️‍🩹 Connecting with your own divine mother,your own divine father and inner child are key to this process 🙏🏼 I would love to hear you share the methods you’ve used throughout this journey. 🤗 Much love and blessings ❤️✨ 🙌🏼

  • @CherylMuir
    @CherylMuir2 жыл бұрын

    I didn't realise this was your journey... thank you so much for sharing it with us. You've come so far 💖💖💖💖

  • @starseed484
    @starseed4842 жыл бұрын

    Wow Heather this is so beautiful ⭐️✨🌟 My mom rejected me all my life but even more when I moved away from Christianity. We didn’t speak for 3 years and had a unhealthy relationship for many years. I did my inner work and my mom came from another state to meet me asking me for forgiveness. We hug and cried so much and our relationship is so beautiful now. This has touched my heart ❤️ thank you for such beautiful video and message ☀️🌟⭐️

  • @Ale55andra11
    @Ale55andra112 жыл бұрын

    Heather, I watched the Dr. Phil episode tonight and I send every one of you love for all the hardships you have endured. I relate and I think It's so beautiful how these events can bring people even closer together. I hope I'm not out of line by saying that I was bothered by the way Dr. Phil treated your mom on stage. I even left a nice comment on the video, opps. Please let her know that I am so proud of her and I saw her strength, will, love and determination from the minute she spoke on stage 💖 Bless you all and keep on shining 🌞

  • @sarazink2237
    @sarazink22372 жыл бұрын

    Omg! It so nice to see you! I remember watching your Dr. Phil episode, so I am happy you’ve done so much healing work and are in a peaceful place. I hope your sister is doin well. I’m still coming to terms wit the idea that my family is toxic. I see the connections you are talking about however, I am the scapegoat in my family. I am the only one that takes accountability for any of the issues and everyone else is perfectly fine letting me take all the blame. I am still tryin to learn to have a voice and assert boundaries without feeling the need to apologize. I honestly do not see how any of my own healing work will ever change my family because from their viewpoint I am 100% the only one that has ever needed to heal..I am the only one that has ever had a problem. It’s sad but I know I am far more awakened because of the work I’ve done on myself. Hopefully, leading by example is the key in my situation.🙏🏻

  • @moniquenicole834
    @moniquenicole8342 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely message, Heather. I am so glad you and your mom have healed

  • @Heyitssam777
    @Heyitssam7772 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate this video sm, thank you for being so open and honest about your family trauma. Many of us go through similar situations and it’s so beautiful to hear your perspective and personal journey. Letting go has definitely been the vibe❤️🦋 love is always the answer

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes love thank you for getting it, and being here♥️ love you😘

  • @anid2729
    @anid27292 жыл бұрын

    I cried during the end of this video. Thank you for unlocking the healing codes within others

  • @_gabrielle_w

    @_gabrielle_w

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are loved, you are loved💟✨

  • @SheilaTalySalsabila
    @SheilaTalySalsabila Жыл бұрын

    Omg. This is exactly what I need. Sending so much love ❤️

  • @4DutchiesinMexico
    @4DutchiesinMexico Жыл бұрын

    I remember this Dr. Phil episode and I rarely watched his show. So there must be a good reason why I did. It's amazing how far you've come since. I can see there was a lot of weight and pain resting on you in that time, and it seems to all have lifted. You look so much more radiant and beautiful now even though it's 7 years later (and you were beautiful then too but I think you know what I mean). Great work. I love the transformation.

  • @Blablablarandomguy
    @Blablablarandomguy2 жыл бұрын

    You are such a divine light. I have an extremely dysfunctional and traumatic relationship with my parents as well so your light is most helpful. I am at the stage where I want nothing to do with them because I need to break free of their toxic overbearing energy! But I am good

  • @flybabyskybaby
    @flybabyskybaby2 жыл бұрын

    Divine timing. Had a Fallout with Mom and My sister 6 months Ago. My mom is coming this weekend to see My kids, and I was nervous until now. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending love to your experiences!😍

  • @konstantmusic6128
    @konstantmusic61282 жыл бұрын

    The fact that I'm seeing this now...in this moment...trying so deeply so transmute my toxic karmic ancestral ties..everything that I am shown from the universe when it comes to you is coming to me literally from god. Because you've acted as a confirmation through every step of the untangling. You have activated me in every way and I am so grateful. I still have so much to learn. But if you can do it. I can.

  • @lovelylotus717
    @lovelylotus7172 жыл бұрын

    I have felt truly and oddly connected with you since since my healing journey started....I found you and it was like an instant familiarity.. I remember watching this year's ago when it aired, sitting on the couch with my mom. My mom was shit talking the whole time to the mom....but I just sat there staring at her wondering how she didn't see herself...the hair was the same, eyebrows the same, facial expressions and body language the same, responses THE SAME...I felt like I was looking into a doppelganger of her and I. Only I had never told her I hated her, I was terrified to....her and my father were so abusive and neglectful. My childhood was filled with fear and horror. As a mother now I am having such a hard time reparenting myself while seeing my reflection in my daughter. I finally after years got the strength to close the door on her due to some life altering truths about the past came out. I needed to close it but I felt like I was mourning a death. It's been almost 2 years since I've cut my abusive step father off & then my mother and sister followed and it's been a year since those ties have been restricted and cut. I needed this Heather and I hope this finds you bc your mother was exactly like my step father + lots of physical abuse, my mother didn't care and acted like everything was our fault and we deserved it. I don't know how to put into words how much you have helped me along my path of healing. How you've guided me to fully love and express myself as I truly am, weirdness and full of love for everyone around me. I needed to hear every bit of this,I thank you so much for your guidance Heather. ❤🙏🤝🙌

  • @conscioushomestead
    @conscioushomestead2 жыл бұрын

    I have a very similar mother to yours and I was giggling a lot when you were explaining how we chose this, "that sounds entertaining! Let's do it!" HAHA! I see after stepping away from her, that what she gave me was what my soul needed and my time with her was enough. I am grateful for her lessons. On how to be a better human. A better mother, a better wife, a better human. One striving towards ascension. I have a long way to go. But your guidance has been so valuable in this.

  • @andycampano
    @andycampano2 жыл бұрын

    Great video, my mother is sooo difficult and toxic, it's nice to know there is hope things will turn around 💛✨

  • @lauraridge6498
    @lauraridge64982 жыл бұрын

    I love that you are proud of who you are I have been misunderstood by family friends that cut everyone out. I didn’t get to help my mom or mend that with her which was hard till I forgave her and understood she died the way she lived and it was so hard but even though now I feel she knows wherever she is that she is an angel around me and I now understand that we were so much like each other and I have chose to try and show her that if I ever get to see her again that she can be proud of me as I have tried so hard to change the karmic debt for my daughters to know all the good things she was! I now want to make her proud! And I see that in my girls who never got to meet her but I know she has been around to see me now as I am just like her and she taught me to never give up as that is mine and my daughters motto, “Never give up, no matter what!” Thank you for teaching us so many things !

  • @TheGoddessRises
    @TheGoddessRises2 жыл бұрын

    Woah I always thought you looked so FAMILAR!!! SO FAMILIAR and I could NEVER place it. Heather, BIG HUGS& ALL THE LOVE. It takes so much healing to be able to speak on these matters. Heather so so much love. I had seen this Dr Phillips segment, you are UNRECOGNIZABLE TODAY. The healing you have done and inner work shows, so much ! You are a powerful inspiration!!

  • @ahnaseby2065
    @ahnaseby20652 жыл бұрын

    Heather ❤️ Thank you. I deeply get this and know this walk. I am so grateful for your sharing.

  • @annrae
    @annrae2 жыл бұрын

    I am so grateful I found you! I'm so grateful for your story as you resonate so much with me. Thank you! May your soul continue to be blessed 💕

  • @zzzd4765
    @zzzd47652 жыл бұрын

    Wow Heather I really needed to hear this right now. I just found out about the soul contract and that we chose our lives my father is so similar and so is my mother both extreme trauma drinking my dad threatening to kill me and himself bad language name calling it awakened me at a very young age. I went back and forth from my mom and dad every week I never had escape and now I'm left with having to mother and father myself. We chose this life to awaken to REMEMBER who we are to reach ascension in this life so we can EVOLVE and explore new and high dimensions in the next.THIS MADE ME FEEL SO CONNECTED and made me feel somewhat grateful I'm able to be awake and really connect with my true family my spirit guides. ❤ thank you so much for this I've been following you for a year and had no idea what you went through and it just all makes sense. Youre such a beautiful strong amazing woman and I can't wait to one day meet you 💗 💛 💓 you're saving lives 💖

  • @DanielladeMaria
    @DanielladeMaria Жыл бұрын

    I have so much respect for you! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ and being so geniune and real! Your energy is so influencing 😊! Much light!

  • @elizabethmartinez3368
    @elizabethmartinez3368 Жыл бұрын

    This sounds so FAMILIAR! my earliest childhood memories are toxic and violent, followed by more crazy. I need to find a way to truly heal my young traumatic experiences and so much more so I can truly become my best self. For me and for my family. I've been watching you since I started this journey a year ago. Thank you! You have taught me so much, and seeing this makes me feel like I now know why I was drawn to you. Get better and get rest darling. So glad your ok, and thank you for sharing the beauty in even situations like the one your going through now! By the way you still look puurrdddyy even all scraped up! Light and love darling 🙏

  • @existenjillcrisis2841
    @existenjillcrisis28412 жыл бұрын

    I stopped talking to my dad when I was 12, restraining orders and foster care. It’s been almost a year since I’ve spoken to my mom due to her narcissism. It was because ‘I can’t heal the wounds that she keeps tearing open’. Maybe one day.

  • @thinkmefirst1111
    @thinkmefirst11112 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! Thank you for the insight on healing our lineage. That hit home in a positive way for me. Thank you! 💕

  • @msheline
    @msheline2 жыл бұрын

    I had a toxic childhood as well. My mother was 17 yrs. old when I was born. To make a long story short, I have become closer with her as she has become a bit better in her older age. She still has her moments, but, I'm trying to heal karma and wounds as well as well as a trauma from an uncle who passed away from covid. I still see a therapist and my health is not well, but I will keep healing. Thank you for this video and all of them. Love you Soul Sister!

  • @StevePaulSounds
    @StevePaulSounds2 жыл бұрын

    I really felt the soul family hug. Right back at you Heather 🤗

  • @DrSebiAlkalineLiving
    @DrSebiAlkalineLiving2 жыл бұрын

    The second i saw you, i already knew you are a powerwoman!! 🥰

  • @MysticPickle333
    @MysticPickle3338 ай бұрын

    That is so inspiring and beautiful how much your relationship with her has healed. It gives me a lot of hope for my relationship with my own mother.

  • @fifiwill1111
    @fifiwill11112 жыл бұрын

    My god I love you! Grateful to have stumbled across your DIVINE energetic essence. Sending you love Queen 👸🏼✨💕

  • @Therhythmofme
    @Therhythmofme2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my goddess, what a beautiful transmission 🔮😇🦋 Thank you Heather, truly divine 💖💖

  • @baniflavor
    @baniflavor2 жыл бұрын

    Just watched the dr Phil episode and wow you definitely took the positive path of self discovery, congratulation! We are here to truly break the toxic generational patterns! 🙌🏻♥️🔥

  • @marciaturley2850
    @marciaturley28502 жыл бұрын

    Oh You’re such a better soul!!!! Love your energy!!!! Incredible 🧡💚❤️

  • @koriannarosa6696
    @koriannarosa66962 жыл бұрын

    I have been going through my healing process as well, a lot of child trauma, domestic violence, death if my son, and the list could go on for years. But my family has been the most toxic in my life. So I had to distance myself from them and love them at a distance so that I can love and heal myself and grow more. You are such an amazing person 💗

  • @Simplyv888
    @Simplyv8882 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful said ✨✨ thank you for sharing this message, sometimes it needs time in distance and to hold the space ✨✨

  • @samirakassem92
    @samirakassem922 жыл бұрын

    Much Gratitude Goddess sending so much Love 🤲🏾💗

  • @syd_santon
    @syd_santon2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I feel this so much❤️❤️Definitely chose to heal soooooo much maternal and sexual trauma in this life. Becoming a mother actually helped me heal this the most! Leading me to transform my own dna❤️

  • @louisehogan8192

    @louisehogan8192

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @mike3play
    @mike3play2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story about the challenges of your relationship with your mom & taking the call to action for your healing.

  • @juliebrammer
    @juliebrammer Жыл бұрын

    Babe! ❤ You’re AMAZING 😭🥹🫶🏼 Thank you for being here 🦋

  • @Obsidiansarah
    @Obsidiansarah2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you so much love and light Heather ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Magnificent111
    @Magnificent1112 жыл бұрын

    I can relate on so many levels! Hi 👋🏼 Wow Heather, this has brought so much comfort to me at this very moment,I have been having problems with my family bc of my beliefs for years and as I speak! Now to know I can leave my toxic, dysfunctional family OPENS UP MY EYES to a new reality! Realizing that I can detach from them right now and if the universe wants to bring us together again then so be it. I now know I need to take my space from my family. It’s too toxic and I need to leave but I’ve always been too scared… but to see how you have grown into your true embodiment. Makes me want to move and disconnect from them for my mental and spiritual health. Thank you Heather so very much! I feel all the Love! Love & Light my Divine SiStar 💫✨🙏🏼💖👽💫 Btw I Love your community they have pored more love into my heart then my family 🙏🏼👼🏼💖- M

  • @jain.kjames7747

    @jain.kjames7747

    2 жыл бұрын

    True, We LOve You Dear Soul ! 🤗🎉 🎊💓💓💓🎊

  • @nusagrace
    @nusagrace2 жыл бұрын

    You are definitely my soul family. I just feel it and know it.☺️ Much love from a starseed healer youtuber that came here to guide the humanity to New Earth✨🙏💫

  • @leejenkins9651
    @leejenkins96512 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say that your energy is wonderful. Great job doing the work!

  • @cococoyle6760
    @cococoyle67602 жыл бұрын

    Insanely Encouraging....thank you Thank you Goddess Heather 🌬

  • @Jennnnnnnnnnah
    @Jennnnnnnnnnah2 жыл бұрын

    "Casually Major" love it! You add so much value to my life Heather NBD just casually major. Love you!

  • @nataliastefancova5664
    @nataliastefancova5664 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so proud of you❤ What a beautiful soul🥺😍

  • @amberwhite4391
    @amberwhite43912 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing these memories for others to heal 💖💖

  • @Cristinashubin
    @Cristinashubin2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Heather for helping me to see the truth of my own family and thank you for sharing with me your own story. Sending you much love.

  • @reallygoodgirl
    @reallygoodgirl2 жыл бұрын

    Heather! this is beautiful. thank you for sharing not only this but all your gorgeous and meaningful content. so much love!

  • @dolceesoap2966
    @dolceesoap29662 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this ❤️ my childhood was rough as well. As I grew older I grew wiser I now am in the process of healing 🙏

  • @FeliFELIxx
    @FeliFELIxx2 жыл бұрын

    That is so inspiring, as I have a very similar toxic relationship with my mon and dad and I disconnected to them and at the moment we have contact by phone from time to time and as I grow and heal, I dont have nightmares anymore and dont feel angry or hate, still this is possible with the distance- a relationship is really a miracle! Oh and yes definitely my family gave me the BEST healing modalities- as I had all kind of stuff- and I healed myself, so I learned A LOT!

  • @elevateyourmind3358
    @elevateyourmind33582 жыл бұрын

    With much gratitude, Thanks soul sister. 🙏

  • @UniversalLanguage1
    @UniversalLanguage12 жыл бұрын

    You are soul family. And i love you too. So many humble thanks 💫💫💫

  • @paigebynature
    @paigebynature2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing Heather, i watched the episode and resonate with your story so much. This shows that they is light at the end of the tunnel and healing is possible thank you 💜✨

  • @SamanthaFule
    @SamanthaFule2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. Definitely part of the collective healing that mother wound. Been guided to not look back, my mother is still with the man who sexually abused me as a teen. I have hope she'll break free one day, but it will have to be without me and my wonderful family.

  • @dreadedmermaid5406
    @dreadedmermaid54062 жыл бұрын

    You, Vic, Aaron, and Pat are definitely my soul family

  • @activationvibration

    @activationvibration

    2 жыл бұрын

    😍😍😍 love you sis

  • @dreadedmermaid5406

    @dreadedmermaid5406

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@activationvibration The Goddess in me recognizes and honors the Goddess in you. I love you too sister. 💓

  • @bellaeastwood4235
    @bellaeastwood4235 Жыл бұрын

    girl i feel you on all levels, im doing the same thing but with every area of my life!