A man who truly likes you could never just have you as a friend

@BeautyQueen2023X

4 ай бұрын

Goes for women as well

@rachelthedogmum

11 күн бұрын

​@@BeautyQueen2023X True but women are more shy and conservative. She might just get jealous and walk away.

Doesn’t want a relationship but still wants to be friends? You’re not the only one, get rid. He wants you to chase him because modern men are losers that need women to chase and validate. Get rid.

@johannalittleman7495

2 жыл бұрын

It's best to just move on. No time to waste. You are just wasting your time.

@mosesruperto7128

2 жыл бұрын

With public freedom of speech comes public responses so I'm not saying this to be disrespectful in any way. Chances are the guy you want is the same guy hundreds of other women want. You would never give the guy who wants a relationship a chance. So since you all want guys from a small percentage of men those guys have all of you going crazy chasing them. Remember, most men won't give a crap about relationships or marriage if they can get many women. The guys who don't have those options want a "girlfriend" or "wife." And these guys don't need validation. Stop thinking men are wired like women.

@lemagloria

Жыл бұрын

@@mosesruperto7128 LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL just cause your'e easy man do not means that all guys are like you.

@lemagloria

Жыл бұрын

@@mosesruperto7128 also that the small percent that we want and don't care about men like yourself 5hank you,move along and keep being toxic for those who care.

@Crystalbarquinha

10 ай бұрын

This comment woke me up. Thank you ❤

I’m sick of being taken for granted and used by men .. I’m better off staying single .. trying to find love is a joke !!

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

Got another one like that...just wants the milk for free...I told him I like him but I am looking for a husband and commitment and I already have enough friends...plus I don't want a bunch of male friends to make my future husband insecure...I don't have time to settle for anything less than what I want in life. Thank you. The time and energy I would be wasting on entertaining such a "friend" could be the time I could be investing into finding someone who is ready for a commitment. Gotta keep stepping over these jokers who just want to play around.

@oliviatwins4078

2 жыл бұрын

Thx beautiful 😘i like your reasoning capacity. Keep up

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

I have a similar situation. Currently, without hesitation, I told him if he wants to be with me he must initiate the date, pick me up, and if we decide on sex, I walk away with $$$ and prizes In my pocket or it ain't happening!!! Kitty Kat ain't free if you don't want to give me what I want. I feel I have ALL THE POWER NOW ...

@daliyamuala4203

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@salhaike754

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

A guy wanted to friend zone me, but I told him I wanted us to stop meeting or talking completely. After a week we went back stronger than ever, however, this time I gave him a taste of his own medicine and dumped him after 2 dates after we went back.... A lesson that girls are not toys

@mrnmrn1628

11 ай бұрын

Well done! So proud of you.

@camoqueenie

11 ай бұрын

Girl 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️good for u!!!!!

@beestreet9996

7 ай бұрын

Love it !!! Go Girl

@mercybeaie5214

6 ай бұрын

Sisterhood is proud of you girlllll!!

@thanu-go1ts

6 ай бұрын

Woaaahhhh

He's rejecting you. Get rid of him.

@tiredorange6666

11 ай бұрын

I agree

After months of dating, he said that he doesn't want a relationship because he just sees me as a friend. And he has so much to do at work and just isn't mature enough for a relationship. (He is 30) I told him that i have feelings and that's why I don't want to meet anymore. I don't why but he almost cried when I told him that. I didn't want to see him cry that's why I said to him: " I want to make this easy for you." So I kissed him as a goodye and said; " Thanks for everything. I had a really good time. I will miss you. Bye." After this, I went home and just left him there.

@lumaste

11 ай бұрын

What happened after that ? Did he reach out ? I’m litterally in the same situation..

@Muslimvegan2010

8 ай бұрын

You did the right thing and I’m proud of you 👏

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

I told him no-go!! No 'friends'! Boy did he get MAD!😮

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any update s

Love is not about control. If there's no love, walk away to find love.

Today I will become a challenge and I will never make this guy feel confident to tell me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. It's not his choice it's my choice.... Thank you Alex for all the love, support and advice.

@samboriboun2213

2 жыл бұрын

Thats rright we choose

@favourmonday5515

Ай бұрын

Me too sis. And it hurts so bad to see someone you truly like treats you like piece of garbage 🥺. He takes many hours or days to respond to my message. He reach out to me the next day like nothing happened. He is really so proud I am chasing after him but yes no more after seeing I am not the only one in this condition. I will write him tonight and then block him forever.

Keeping you on the side is only a stepping stone for his self -confidence. No!! NOT acceptable.

You can't convince someone to be with you. They either want to or don't. Be wise enough to know the difference.

@SandraGarcia-lj3bd

Жыл бұрын

Muy bien dicho.

@BeautyQueen2023X

4 ай бұрын

And they also arent bad people for not wanting to be with you

This is a wake up call. Thank you for this video, my time is too valuable now, no more wasting times. A girl doesn't need anyone who doesn't need her.

Thank you! After he told me that , I dropped him like a bad habit. I have ignored his messages and texts. I’m not doing that, I deserve better.

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

My mindset is that I'm a Ferrari and if a man isn't able to maintain me like a Ferrari then they aren't up to my standards. I have learned that all men want a Ferrari but want to take car of it like a 1967 Honda Civic. We all know if you start putting the cheap gas in a Ferrari then the car will break down and soon wont run at all. Ladies always think of yourself as a Ferrari and never settle to be treated as less.

I'm tired of difficult relationships.. sometimes peace is just letting things be what they are, be yourself and give the love that you feel .. we think challenging the other one but we're only challenging our feelings..

@angelauwaoma1356

8 ай бұрын

I told him I want a relationship but he never said anything, he knows I love him

And even when he wants to be friends it's still on a downhill trajectory , he doesn't want to be loved 🥰

I see. This is true. He told me that he is not ready to commit but still wants to see me. Some days later he said he knows that I want to get married to him. I didn't even say that, but I guess this was what he understood from me because I loved him so much. I felt stupid when he said that, like an orphan child who is waiting for a parent to choose him. I always tried to show him that I am independent but he obviously understood that it was just a Fassade. Finally I met someone else who is the opposite, he wants a commitment. But I am definitely a challenge to him because I am not that attracted to him as I was to my ex. So I distanced myself from both of them them. 😆 And I am happy that now I am dating a guy who is attractive AND caring, and I listen to your advices to not screw it up again

We’re not even sleeping together! He doesn’t get any bf privileges and he still wants to just stay friends! Like what do you WANT from me!? Leave me alone then!

@spinclovellcampbell8575

Жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯

@Hilary44Hilary

Жыл бұрын

Maybe you have money or maybe you boost his self confidence 😏

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any update s

I continued with him after he said he could not commit because he was healing. He's been giving attitude when I've been getting at 11. Time to stop. He's not meeting my emotional needs. He's taking me for granted.

*Communication and understanding play a key role in any relationship, even in friendships. Let's create a space where both parties feel comfortable and respected.*

My ex wanted to be just friends. I refused. I don't call, text nothing. This is what he does to all his ex's....yeah not me. They become FWB and he "thought" I was like those other desperate women. I'll be a friend from a far. Bye 🙋‍♀️

@Lukas-dp8ls

2 жыл бұрын

👏🙌🏻

@sauyanakitto3971

2 жыл бұрын

👌

@rose25094

2 жыл бұрын

Old saying goes....staying friends with your ex is like keeping in touch with your Kidnappers!!!!

@bitchpuhleese

Ай бұрын

Wow- this sounds like the dude I’m dealing with except he took the sex part away from me- smh..

He told me he did not want to fall in love. After many months I walked away.

But by still being in contact is still being friends!

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

Not all cases are the same at all. I’ve dated with the end motivation to have a relationship but the guy I’m dating hasn’t qualified in my mind as the one I want a relationship with yet. Before I had made my mind up about him he decides to tell me he doesn’t want a relationship which it fine as I was never 100% sure about him anyway and he has just confirmed what I already half knew. 3 weeks later he wants to meet for coffee. I have zero interest in being his girl now but have zero problems meeting him for coffee. It will be a pleasure show up looking great with happy vibration and wish him well. He lost out here, not me and the regret on his face will be rewarding. I don’t give second chances ñ, life is too short and we are too old for this game.

Hello ladies out there. I will tell you my story and i hope it will empower you all. It was not easy but i did it and now feel super precious. I was seeing a guy and we even slept several times. He asked me date him 7-8 times but i was not sure. Then weeks later i said ok im ready boy, lets be exclusive. Then he started making excuses and asked me to be friends for now. Then i said no. This is so childish, you dont know what you want and i dont like this gray zone. I stopped talking to him. He did not write since then either. But it shows that he was obviously not really into me while i was wasting my time and energy with him. Deleted his number and moved on. I feel great!! Do the same ladies, they should beg for you!!

He was my friend for 10 years- I loved him and confessed and did lot of things to make it happen and he always said that we are friends. Now wen am married and moved on happily, he confessed his love on me! Now he is constantly blaming me for changing after wedding!!

Thank you Alex for being so positive!

Perfect for me! Thank you.

Guys nowadays mostly just want open relationships… This has caused social disruption. Clearly they are immature, soulless and no integrity. I have pity towards this generation. The more you have sex with other people for the pleasure of it, there will be no joy and inner peace in your life. As we devalued ourself and confusing our memories, body and soul.

@tercsi1

2 жыл бұрын

@Darl H I agree 100% And they do not get any better when they get older. My fiance is 53..he gave me a ring this past Christmas, and broke up with me April 1. I was afraid of moving in together and because I did not think we were ready . We had to resolve alot of issues. It's been 3 months but I have been doing all of the no no things the ex back experts said you should not do pleading , texting and going to his place...I decided to go to no contact 4 days ago. Hope it works🤷🏽‍♀️

@koolkat2867

2 жыл бұрын

Yup my ex kissed me , told me he would see me the next day and left that night to be paid for side boy in an unattractive open marriage, drink etc no commitment needed there. He even rejected an open relationship with me wth. I'm over it doing NC day 4 thanks to these vids....he can go have his fun I am going to focus on my goals and "glow up" lol while he remains the same and acts like he did in his 20s.

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any update s

I stayed “friends” with men I broke up with, with no sexual stuff, and if I lived those decisions all over again, I wouldn’t keep sharing my good fun interesting self and personality with people I broke up with. I couldn’t figure out the problem as I didn’t want to date them. But this is not a good practice in life, either.

Wow!! Such a good and straightforward video.

(chatbox) i asked him "what are we?" He said we are friends. Ok we are friends i said...then he asked me if he upsets me. He knows deep inside that it will make me upset but no.. it broke my heart into pieces. Then i told him... I think you need to find a new friend. Said bye and unfriend him.

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

This is great advice. I just started listening to your videos these last few days

I have been loving the last couple of videos! I appreciate you, and your head coach. 🥰

Absolutely! I love what I’m becoming. I’ve done so much work on myself this last year to get here. A high value feminine woman with a badass attitude… Thank you Alex for your motivation… exactly the reminders I need on a daily basis to remind me that I am a goddess on a pedestal.💗🥂

@MelissaKellyHerStunts

11 ай бұрын

❤

Loving your contents Alex...luv from Nigeria.

Wow wow love this video!

Alex thank you for this video. It makes me feel Good like i matter

This is SPOT ON!!!!!

Your awesome I love listening to you love from Baytown Texas

Great video

Thank you Frenchie

You’re the best Alex… so grateful for you I’ve been watching and learning from you for years now and happy to see you growing, you deserve all the success in the world! ♥️

Hi Coach Alex. Thank you for your Great advice!! I'm listening to from El Paso Texas.

merci d'être merveilleux 👏🏽

You are correct, thank you.

TRE BIEN! MERCI!! 😍💖💋

Thank you from Norway

I find the advice from Alex very good

Thank you. I felt this but i didn't know how to put it in words.

I just recommended this video to my friend with similar situation. Thanks for sharing

This video has made me emotional. Thank you for making me reach my moment of epiphany ♡

Thank you Alex just what I needed to hear 🙏🙏 merci

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

2 жыл бұрын

Always happy to help!

Thx for this, I am becoming a challenge! 🥰

Thank you so much for this beautiful. You are such a beautiful soul. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Great advice!!! From. phillippines 🇨🇿

Thank you for this video. I have seen many of your videos and all are helpful. I must say that you are the best coach for me as not only the content you are delivering but the tone you are using has a persuasive impact on me that I cannot but follow your instructions. Regards from Serbia♥️

Thank you for this

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

2 жыл бұрын

You're always welcome Priya!

I’m a challenge thank you so much Alex

Great love guruuuuu

Well this is so helpful, thanks Alex

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching Rebecca!

Perfect guidance 👍

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Thank you very much Alex, this is deep.

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching, Lydia!

Alex u just talked my story. I just ended such a connection and told him I dont do casual sex anymore. I felt guilty after it all the time and thought maybe if I gave him time he would commit to me....but now I know that it wasnt me...I was right. Thank you🥲🥲

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

Watching from Holland,you are the best

I should watch this video during the next month twice daily 😅 The right video at the right time , thank you 🙏

Brilliant videos and advice. Thank you Alex! 😁

Good video, helpful!!! Thank you.

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate this!

You are awesome 😎

Alex sir thank you so much for sharing such wonderful great msg❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

From America (USA). Thank you for this video

Thank you Alex from Japan! this is such a good video....I always love your content

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

Good morning Alex

Thank you so much. Excellent advice. Your English is pretty good and your French accent is charming but clear. I am Irish living in France. It is wonderful that you do your videos in French and English which I both watch. Merci beaucoup et bonne continuation.

I was in that situation, giving him a power to manipulate me, but couple days ago I told him we are done, I need to find my own path

Watching your video at this time, I regret that I did not discover you a year ago. I feel frustrated because I lost my partner being too confident that he will accept and understand my deep feelings that unfortunately made me look "needy" in his eyes. But first we make mistakes and then we realize and learn. It's very true. The man must really feel that he wants to be with us .... Otherwise we will always lose points in front of him. Thank you Alex for the objective advice and for waking us all to reality!💯👍

For some reason..and ive seen so many videos but this snapped me out a little bit

Am i seeing this right?? 1.6k views less than 200 likes?!? i know y’all listen to this guy he’s amazing deserves at least a like🙏🏽🧿💙🔪🔌💅🏽

Hello sir Alex good morning! I'm first watching your video... I'm inspired all your videos... I'm your biggest fan from Philippines 😊

Am from Sierra Leone West Africa Your vedio has helped me a lot.

You are so right

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

I know you are my best friend 😍😍 thank you . I love what you said 😁😁😁

I’d love that video please !

Need to be a challenge and be different, try to control the storm? I am the storm. Anything is possible. ❤

I'm here for that french accent 👋 💛

Here at the right moment

I like that your advice is giving the freedom to do exactly what we want for ourselves despite any man we like or are attracted to.

Omg first one to comment!!! I needed this so bad today…Alex you are a Saint and a hero to me, you help me do much thank you for being so amazing ♥️♥️♥️

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

*Just in time ✊🏼✊🏼💯*

Hi Alex, thank you so much for this. I am Pika from Indonesia. I just had this kinda guy, he don't wanna be committed but still wants to have the luxury of a relationship, the worst of all we met online, we never met and it's long distance. I finally blocked him lol...

Im this situation.. I will lestine to this ❤

Thank you

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

I am from Kenya and I liked you are advice

I am from India Karnataka Mysore😊I will watch all your videos it will be very useful👍☺️

Watching from Manitou Springs, Colorado

Thank you. It's great advice. back in the day, id fix this a different way. Id say "just friends? That's cool. I have my eye on someone else, and now i don't have to worry about hurting your feelings" and tomorrow id go on a date with his best friend, or his brother. Be a total lady, no hanky panky.... and watch his head spin in circles. When he approaches (and he will with the quickness) be kind of non comittal. Be like, oh you didn't want me? But now you do because I'm going out with so and so? Laugh and look at him like he has lost his mind. Don't be mean. Just act like maybe he really has lost his mind. And you aren't really interested anymore.

@JJ-vp3bd

5 ай бұрын

any updates

This is so great, thank you! I wish I’d known this several years ago; it would’ve saved me a lot of time and heartache… And honestly, it’s messed up that men sometimes string women along like this; where is their conscience? I would never string along someone I’m not interested in. What baloney!

Every woman is her own beautiful!!

Thank you very much sir Chantal from Ghana

@FrenchRelationshipExpert

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support,Chantal!