Kristin is wrong. Even if something is going on in their lives. A whole month went by without even checking in on him.

Comments are trash. But you ppl are hurt, so... Honestly, not an overreaction. The worst part about surgery is the healing after process. Greater chance for complications, due to infections etc. The point is, these dudes probably were in the group chat talking bs and other silly. So not too busy to text. They just didn't care to check in on him.

@JiroProject

14 күн бұрын

Yea the friends are in the wrong. But you can't just cut them off. Be adults and talk to them, ask them why and what happened

What a baby! Grow up. Everyone has a story where people they thought would be there for them when it’s “expected” were not. Don’t expect anything from anyone.

@jenellenelson4447

14 күн бұрын

What's the point in having friends if they're not there when you need them 🤦‍♀️

A month? Nope! That's not a friend

He is right. How do you not check on a friend who had surgery within a month.

I mean if some of my best friends didn't even say how are you doing after a surgery I'd be pretty pissed too. But he only has the right to be upset if he put in a lot of effort into the relationship. If he didn't do his part then he can't really be upset

That’s the most immature dude. You have unrealistic expectations of people. Get therapy to heal your childhood trauma.

Honestly this just seems a little bit manipulating. He is upset that they didn't contact him so he's cutting them off without explaining why. He says he's not mad at them but he's willing to end a 20-year friendship with someone even when he's not mad at them? This is not adding up. Yeah they could have sent him a text but a lot of people really want time and space into recover without having a lot of visitors. It was right when he said has this guy put in the time into these friendships because obviously if your spouse was in the hospital you would be checking on them if not being there physically in person. It just depends on how much she has invested into them

I disagree with Kristen. Regardless of me having a life and being in medical skl, I have friends across the country that check in on me and tons of them check on me when I recently had dental surgery. And altho I'm in class 1 day a week and clocking 30hrs a week working at different hospitals and outpatient clinics and have homework and essays do, any of my friends that have a procedure done, 4 sure gets a text from me checking up on them. It's not about if u reach out to check on ur friend when ur not busy, it's all about when u are busy, do u MAKE time to check on thrm when something is going on with them that ur aware of.

That's on him

I absolutely understand him. People nowadays are so selfish. If you go for surgery and your friend dont even check out on you, thats not a friend.

Friends of 20 years can't find time to text one time in a month?? I'm with the dude...those are not friends. They are acquaintances ... big difference. If he gives the attention he expects, then I understand and agree with him.

It' depends is this a life or death surgery and he has told them that. Or is it a normal procedure with minimal risk. And has he made them aware of that. Maybe some of them assume there is no risk. And like they said they have lives and they may have something going on in their lives. And it just slipped this one time. Maybe send a message saying I'm doing OK. And see how they respond to that

All you people have bad friends or are bad friends because how do you go 30 days without reaching out to a friend after they had surgery!? They obviously don’t really care about him or else they would have reached out. But he should have also acted like an adult and told everyone in the group chat he was okay. If he wants to cut them off then have the decency to tell them why as well.

Off topic here, why is it the law that whenever Mo's podcast is brought up, Bert has to mention he owns it? Just curious.

@MelS4141

14 күн бұрын

I would think it is because of conflict of interest. COI is a big deal. In my line of work, COI forms are signed if someone is speaking, presenting info, etc. Kickbacks are illegal, & COI is alleviated by being up front.