yessss curls changing is a real thing!! i've been noticing that on my hair specially when i flip through my old photos and it bothered me for quit a while now and i though i was doing somthing wrong with my hair .. seeing some one like you who always knows how to take care of their hair talking about the same issue we are handling is very reliefing .. thank u .. u look amaizing as usual

I always wondered why my curls get tighter or look “better” on a wash day after straightening my hair. This definitely proves that damaged curls are much tighter and fuller. I love that you talked about this, you’re the only person i’ve seen shine light on this. It’s def important to know 🤍

@youdonthavetoknowmyname343

Жыл бұрын

What? Damaged curls are tighter? Who told you?

@StormyDay

Жыл бұрын

Same here! Well think about it scientifically, unless your hair is so damaged it snaps, when you straighten for a while and then let it go curly, it’s going to be curlier!

@arabaricann

Жыл бұрын

@@youdonthavetoknowmyname343 literally like ???

@Rose-in7et

Жыл бұрын

I've seen Manes by Mell talk about her changing hair texture.

@_fai.

Жыл бұрын

Soooo, to get my tight curl back i gotta straighten them

I’m so glad someone finally touched on this topic. When I wasn’t cleansing my hair often enough and using way too many heavy oily products my curls were drier and kinkier. But now that I’ve finally found a consistent wash routine and used products that are compatible with my hair, my curls are not only healthier but so much looser to the point I thought I damaged it. Come to find out my hair is just healthy. Not many people in the curly/natural hair community talk about this enough and so we’re so quick to buy all of these treatments and deep conditioners to restore our hair that doesn’t quite need restoration. Your curls are also very pretty and look so soft btw 😍😍

As an almost 60yo curly girl, you have taught me so much over the past few years. Thank you. And keep being you. 😘🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

HIII JAYME YOU ARE LITERALLY GORGEOUS!! your features are so beautiful it’s unreal

@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988

Жыл бұрын

SAME

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Thankyou!🤍🥰

Mine has done the same exact thing over the past few years! Its really healthy and super long do the curls are pulled out by gravity. I'm looking g for a stylist to get it cut into layers to hopefully get more bounce and volume back. Thank you for sharing your journey over these years, you've been a great help and encouragement!

you look beautiful with both looser and tighter curls! my hair has done the same and it is a bit of a hard adjustment, especially with the curly hair police that gatekeep what texture “counts as curly” or if your hair is “just wavy” but it doesnt matter either way

Your hair is so beautiful. And you are a beautiful person - inside and out! I appreciate you talking about how your hair is changing so we can anticipate how our hair will change.

I thought I was the only one going through this but seeing Mell’s and your video has encouraged to keep going with switching up my hair routine to match my hair as it is now ❤

i appreciate these hair updates so much! when i first started watching hair care vids and trying to take care of my curls, i struggled a lot bc it would never look like the voluminous defined bouncy curls everyone i watched had. i didnt realize that it was just bc i never heat/color treated my hair and it was just healthier so i needed different techniques. it's definitely been a process learning what my hair can and can't do and that even though it's different, it's still gorgeous

I think slick hair styles (slick buns and ponytails) are the reason your curl pattern changed because the same thing happened to my hair until I stopped doing slick hair styles. However, your hair beautiful and bouncy🤍

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Thats so absolutely true as well!!!

@TracyD2

Жыл бұрын

My hair would break. Especially the sides. I would slick it back tight when wet so it would stay all day and night in the summer months. I learned as the hair dries it shrinks then snap!

i appreciate you so much i don’t know anyone with similar curls like me so i just watched a bunch of your vids from like 2-3 years ago but just needed you to know you’re appreciated 😭

I absolutely love this routine and it worked beautifully on you!! 💗Thank you for sharing and can’t wait to try this routine out because I’ve also noticed my curls not being as tight as they used to be!

I’ve been watching you since I started middle school and you basically just started your yt but you gave me the confidence to wear my natural hair and to embrace it and love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤

U r absolutely beautiful!! Thank u for being a part of and keeping the curly girl trend going and reaching so many people around the world!! We thank u💞🤗🥰

Fabulous girl! You are big inspiration for me and your curls are gorgeous ❤❤❤ all my life I’ve been insecure about my curls but because of you my confidence got bigger! 🎉❤

💓💓💓 your hair is beautiful ! Then and now 🙌🏽

Looks great! I love a fresh cut, my curls look so much bouncer with fresh layers. Love your hair videos ❤

It's very beautiful to see you embracing the change your hair has gone through! I'm actually currently dealing with the same thing right now. I used to straighten my hair all my child life until I was a freshman in high school and that's where I started my curly hair journey. I'm currently 24 years young so that's about almost 10 years now!! Oh man I kind of sound old when I put it that way, lol jk. When I first started my curly hair journey my hair was loving all the different loving it was getting from products + water. Then, it grew out pretty long like past my chest. I cut it after that and she was super short and springy! I absolutely loved that time. Then, most recently I've noticed my hair is getting much drier and doesn't seem to be growing. Once I receive this long awaited trim and layering I can only imagine how my curls are going to react 😍 Your content is very aesthetically pleasing and calming! Keep up the wonderful work Queen 👑

Haven’t seen you in quite a while! I remember when your hair was so short and full! You were so young. You’re looking beautiful! Thanks for the update! Good to see you again!

YES YES YES this is why I love you. I thought cutting my hair was going to solve my problems and my hair just didn't bounce like it used to and now im in an awkward stage where the shape is more of a square.

i love ur videos so much 🥹🥹🥹 plz always bless us w ur curly hair tip vids ! 💜💜

The results 🔥🔥 I can’t wait for my curly cut !

Ah didn't know we were the same age! You've always helped me with curly problems as we have the exact same curl pattern, thanks for this

Ah this helped me so much! I have been following you for years and we’re actually the same age. From age 16-19 my hair was SUPER SUPER curly. And the last couple of years it’s less curly all of a sudden and I am kinda sad about it and was wondering why that would be (besides of course puberty hormones ending). But my hair was a LOT dryer and damaged in those ages! So that explains a lot! 🙏🏼 Thank you for reminding me that every curl pattern is beautiful and that it’s a journey and that curls are not always the same 🩷

After watching Mels video and listening to you about how damaged hair can be more curly, clears my confusion on how my bleached hair, healthy with no fried ends, was sooo curly 3b-3c. Now 15 years later plus having 2 kids, my hair is 3a with 3c bangs 😢. I’m sooo tempted to dry up my hair bcz I really miss my big hair.

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Ahaha this actually tempts me as well but embrace this beautiful new curl pattern!

@TracyD2

Жыл бұрын

You could try some Amla powder hair pack. It can bring back some oomph to curls. It will be shiner for sure and helps the hair grow as well. If you’re blond there’s a chance of it slightly darkening the hair I have dark brown so I don’t see anything. Most people don’t but there is that chance. FYI

i love your fashion style or vlog-type videos also , I actually enjoy watching them. was waiting for you to upload all week jayme:)

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Oo thankyou!! Ill bring them back🤍🤍

I love you so much you saved my curls ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Jayme jo! You’ll always be my curly girl queen! I began my curly girl journey because of your videos ❤. I was exited for this particular video because I noticed that my hair had changed a lot in the past year. I think it’s mainly due to water! I moved to the uk last year and the water here is very hard and I’m from a soft water region in California and so I totally see the difference in my hair! I also got so much build up and flaky scalp due to the water. I am moving back to California in 3 months because I was just studying here for a year and I can’t wait for my hair to be cleansed with soft water again! I hope this is the reason? I’m not sure yet. Thanks for your videos! Will def check out the textured spray for my hair aswell thank you!

Your hair has always been so beautiful! ❤️ love your volume. Mine used to be the same way but after doing the CG method it ruined my curls so I went back to using silicones and the products I used before that honestly had always worked for my hair before I even heard of CG method. Just remember that not all curly girls are the same and not every product works for us all. At the end of the day we know our hair best since we were born with it after all lol. I’ve watched your videos for a long time and have always loved your honesty with your subscribers.

@Willowy13

Жыл бұрын

Gosh! I thought I was an unicorn. CG did the exact same thing to me to the point people were asking what was happening to my hair. I was going bald. My hair had thinned, was dry, opaqque and my 3a/3b pattern became 2b/2c/3a. Blood tests came back ok. My doc gave a diagnostic of androgenetic alopecia, which I didn't accept as this doesn't run in my family. Short story, I turned to my routine and realized my problems started with CG. I went back to sulfate and silicones. Nioxxin did woders for me. although it dried my hair. Minoxidil became part of my routine, while I couldn't use oils/butter in my hair. It was almost impossible to find products without these (Redken Extreme) was my savior. All in all, almost four years latter I am way better. The only thing that never came fully back was the curl pattern as I had curls from my roots.

Indeed indeed! If you would have existed I have no idea how more damaged and uncared my hair would have been!! ❤ So thank you for being one of the pioneers of curl awareness... ❣️🤞🏻 P.S:- I also love manes by mell!😁

You are gorgeous and love your videos, thank you 🙏🏻 ❤ my hair has gotten heavier and more moisturised as it’s gotten healthier too. Plus going into winter I don’t have as much frizz which means less volume. So weird how you get hate for that sort of stuff. Only love over here 😊

Still gorgeous curls and great content!

Curly hair Goddess 🙌🏼 love you Jayme xx

I loveeee your videos so much! You've helped me so much with my hair. I feel like lately I've been noticing my curl pattern changing and will defiantly be trying this! I defianlty thinks mines been changing due to overmoisturizing but also because of the seasons I think. During the winter time, its dryer where i live and so using leave in was good to not get frizz but now that's it summer, my hair is flat triangular shape (you know what I mean, if you know what I mean), Its less curly and FRIZZY, so I'm so excited to try this and thankyou so much for all your help!!! Also, what shampoo and conditioner do you reccomend? I really need to find a good one for this new hair texture.

My hair has been growing very much but I have DEFINITELY noticed a change in the curls. I loved my curly curly hair, but there’s lots of new growth that I can’t be mad!

I can’t believe anyone would give you hate. You are such a doll and I’ve always loved watching your curly hair videos. You are to the point, detailed, and wholesome. You are so relatable! My hair has changed too. Maybe from Covid? I’m not sure. I just know I suffered from a lot of hair loss last year and I was scared. People said Covid hair loss is a thing. It’s better now and I’m back to shedding the normal amount of strands each time I wash. My curl pattern used to be tighter and thicker too. I’m going to try styling with creams and gels, skipping the leave-in and see how that works. Thanks for being you!! 😊

my hair is different than it use to before it was full, thick, curly & I loved it. It gave me so much confidence. Now it’s weighed down & day 1 barley lasts! the front is curly & the back is wavy. I would say I have 3a/2b hair

@vafy7527

9 ай бұрын

Going through the same problem for past couple of months. ...i just want to take a break and straighten my hair in between

Mine definitely changed. I used to be a wavy almost straight hair….then I hit puberty and it became extremely curly. Now that I’m 44 it’s Shirley Temple curls. I has no idea I had those curls. LOL I still love them. ❤❤ Edited to add this. No matter how your hair looks, they’re always stunning ❤❤❤❤❤

SO gorgeous!

I’ve been going natural for a bit longer than a year and completely stopped heat styling for almost 4 months. Compared to last year I have definitely seen a change in my curl pattern and it’s been a bit less springy and more natural looking. It still have some very tight curls though but some are also just 3A hairs. I wasn’t like most people who have had curly hair since they were born, I actually had straight hair (not PIN straight but mostly straight with a few waves) up until I hit puberty. None of my family members but I have this much curly hair so I never knew how to take care of it and would always put it in a braid or bun when I didn’t straighten it. It was not until 10th grade last year when I stared going natural and it was thanks to me finding one of your videos! Your hair pattern is really similar to mine and I love watching your videos! ❤❤

Same thing for me! Ive been really looking after it and now it's super soft. Next wash I'm ditching the leave in and using two hold products like you!

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Yess!!!!

Your tips really help me

So beautiful!

jamie ! you should try AMIKA PLUS SIZE MOUSSE !! . It gives hold / texture and that damaged kind of bounce you want. Since you love mousse and that kind of look. I tested it and it gave me those results.

4:53 that's why medium length is my favorite on you 😊

I think it is beautiful!!

5:35 Your features are so beautiful. You have a specific beautiful face type, beautiful eyes and gorgeous hair. How beautiful you look in that outfit

Looks great 👍

Can you make a video on how you grew out your hair/hair growth tips.

this also happened to manes by mell, her hair is bit less curlier now that is healthier than when she had it bleached

Back when I would dye my hair, my curls were a lot more tighter and bouncier. It's been years since then and I have cut all the dyed hair off and for sure my curls are a lot more softer. I've been thinking about cutting a few inches off to see if that would help as well. I have also noticed that I can't use heavy products either like Shea butter or some coconut creams really weigh my hair a lot. Also, I must admit I've been wearing my hair in a slicked bun and I know that definitely isn't helping my curls either 😢 this was really interesting to listen to as I haven't really thought about all this myself so thank you ❤ do you have any recommendations for affordable light weight gel but that still have hold to it? My hair always needs a good hold gel but I want to try a lighter formula.

when you said you put your hair under wig and it changed your hair, I wear hijab (since about 1.5 yrs) and broo idk how to keep my hair inside, like i feel like my pattern is losing definition because of all the pulled hair in bun. There's very little info on how to keep curly hair inside hijab (I wear it like maybe 4 times a week). I'm thinking of switching to silk scarves more, (I don't have a problem with showing my hair. I wore it for traditional reasons). In this video, your hair looks EXACTLY like mine girl, I love your tighter big curls (my dreamm) but these look good too!

I had the opposite effect as my hair got healthier since last year I went from a mixture of 2c 3a 3b to 3c

I’ve seen a similar thing happen to manesbymel, still beautiful regardless 😍

Firsttt!!💕

@avadeleon668

Жыл бұрын

first!!!!!!!!!

When I was born I had not very curly hair and my hair starting getting curlier from when I was 8 years old but it was frizzy curls and I’m now 21 years old and I would say my hair started getting properly curly (not frizzy ) in 2018 when I was 16 years old Now at 21 years old my curls are big bouncy voluminous curls thanks to all the hair styling products I use to prevent Frizz

where are your earrings from? they’re so pretty!

My baby is 4 months old so all my hair is falling out. I just got a haircut and i am so disappointed in how short my curls are. My hair was so long in High school and i just dont know how im gonna get there again. But your videos give me hope. Thank you. You are gorgeous❤

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong on your post natal journey! You hair will start to grow back if you stay persistent and focus on scalp care

@michellecronin5014

Жыл бұрын

🔍 the 4 best treatments for postpartum hair loss 🕸️ Healthline

Hey Jayme! So, my hair is thick and obviously thick hair is heavy. But every youtube says that fine hair lacks volume and thick hair doesn't. The thing is, since my hair is thick and therefore heavy, I lack volume. Everyone says thick hair should use heavy products, but what should I do if I want volume on my thick hair?

Hi, great video just sharing my opinion and don’t mean this in a negative way, but it can also be a hormonal thing with age our hair texture and density may change over time but I don’t think that with heat damage your hair should’ve been curlier than it is now that it’s healthy. Greetings from nyc❤

what mascara are you using?? beautifullll

I’m showing my daughter your cut. She has hair to her back side. Some of her curls are waves now. Still beautiful. I have 2b c hair her father has 4 b so she’s in the middle. My hair was curly when damaged as well. Now nothing a 🌊 that’s it.

Did you let your hair air dry, or did you diffuse it?

What if your hair was actually really healthy when you had super tight curls, and it got damaged (at least curl pattern damaged and manipulated) when you did repeatedly pinned curls?? Maybe that's what affected your curl pattern 🤔 I mean, your hair was always easy to manipulate and you could make your curls ever tighter while using and denman brush or finger coiling...maybe pinned curls manipulated the curl and now it's wavier? Idk

You're all grown up girl

When I was 22 my hair became less and less curly so I decided to start to look closer at the ingredients of my curly products and it was soooo bad. So I started to use natural ingredients and product and since then my hair are curlier than ever ! I love following your content but since the beginning I noticed that you use some products that are not that good, I recommend you to find an app that can scan your products and tell you if they are OK or not :)

@solange4518

Жыл бұрын

I know that hair can also change with hormones and everything, but I think it's also necessary to pick the right products :)

@TheBakuganelite

Жыл бұрын

Hey what products did you end up using?

Gorgeous curls and beautiful! What are you using in your misting bottle? Thank you for sharing!! 💯❤️

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Just water! Thankyou🤍🫶🏽

I think puberty at its peak and now ending puberty is why you're seeing a change in your curls, skin (for some).

Hi Jayme🥰everything you said is true. Im going through the same thing. My hair was in between 3b and 3c and now i actually have a mix with 3b and 2c hair which makes is so so difficult to style my hair. I have no idea how to make the 2c parts tighter to be like the rest of my hair. At first I thought I was doing something wrong with my hair when I saw the changes. I do feel like my hair gets dry too fast if I dont use any leave in conditioner as first product. Do you have any advice for me?

@noraMD

Жыл бұрын

Use products with magnesium sulfate

@candacemackintosh6227

Жыл бұрын

@@noraMD ill check that out, thank yah

I have a question; how do you keep the gel and mouse from drying out your hair?

I have a question does using curly defining products and muse have made you loose your hair ? Because that’s what happened to me, 😢 so I wonder if the quality of product matters or normally curly hair styling have risk of damaging the hair ?

Going CG was the mistake that changed my hair texture to the point I was going bald and my friends started asking what was going on with my hair. It had thinned, was dry, opaque and my 3a/3b pattern became 2b/2c/3a. Blood tests came back ok. My doc gave a diagnostic of androgenetic alopecia, which I didn't accept as this doesn't run in my family. Short story, I turned to my routine and realized my problems started with CG. I went back to sulfate and silicones and spent some coin to improve it. Nioxin did wonders for me, although it dried my hair. Minoxidil became part of my routine. I also couldn't use oils/butter in my hair or it would fall out. It was almost impossible to find products without these substances. Redken Extreme was my savior. All in all, almost four years after ditching CG I am way better. The only thing that never came fully back was the curl pattern as I had curls from my roots. Now it is changing again as I am going through that pre-menopause period of our lives. It changes with age, care and hormones. My hair was the curliest whenI was on the pull some 20 years ago for example. You hair is beautifull now as it always was.

Where are your earrings from!? 😍

lip combo pls!!!

It's also happened to me! My hair looked more 4c/4b and now since reaching nipple length (dried), I see 4b/4a. I got informed and it's pretty simple, it is my correct detangling, drinking more water, the gravity and obviously my hair is more trained to clump.

How can I avoid knots? I get severe knots in my curls hair and it then makes me have too get in the shower and brush it with conditioner for ages

Amazon doesn’t have the first product. They don’t know if or when they’ll get it again.

Question...you are using a definer not a lotion leave in...would you please talk more about that? Do you wash out the definer?

@jaymejo

Жыл бұрын

Hi!! This is a curl definer so its abit stickier than a leave in. A leave in moisturised and hydrates the hair before styling, but a definer creates shape, hold and definition for the curls

Thanks, you are a beautiful lady.

Nice Hair

I did balayage and my curls went from 3a to 3b/c. And tbh, I'm struggling. Mostly because I am growing my hair out and now it seems even shorter. And also, I am so not used to this pattern...

Did you diffuse it at the end? Sorry Im a little slow

Hi what are your thoughts on keratin treatment for curly hair? Many hairdressers recommended for me but I’m scared it might damage my curls 😩

@carolynbellion

10 ай бұрын

My hairdresser has curly hair, he recommends the Virtue line for keratin so that's what I've been using the past year. My hair is definitely healthier than it was before using it.

You look a lot like Bella hadid!! ❤❤❤so pretty

@junyde

8 ай бұрын

IKRR

I have also noticed a change in my curl pattern over the past few years. Perhaps its due to a change in our hormones as we become more womanly with age.❤

Hi love are you no longer finger coiling? If so, what's the reason might I ask

I’m in my 30s now, and my hair started to change as I age. I have to switch up products. The only product working for me now is Indian Hair oil.

Who's your hairstylist? I don't see their handle in the description.

How do I know which level of curl I have

My hair always curls up more after clarifying

🌿🌺🧠🌺🌿👑🌿GOD BLESS🌿🕊🌿

it looks a tad less full do a full hormone panel and thyriod panel

What haircut did you ask for?

I thought we were the same age omw I'm feeling old even tho I'm 25

If you want to know how to achieve success at work, i share them without taboo..

My curl pattern is ruined from certain products

MBM 👍🏻

I dont think its less curly maybe u just need to try another styling technique

your hair changes every 7 years so that is most likely a reason