Mom should be forced to repay the money he was forced to pay. Should be illegal to force someone to pay when they can prove they aren't the father.

@raymondstewart5787

3 жыл бұрын

The mother herself confess, she willfully wrongfully put is name down. Which should be against the law. N here go the man going through hell. How about she goes to jail for lying on a document not only that let pay back every cent. This system is strictly made for these women to get away with murder.

@william629

3 жыл бұрын

Preach!

@onlythewise1

3 жыл бұрын

@@raymondstewart5787 correct been going on now for thirty years

@onlythewise1

3 жыл бұрын

@@william629 bitch !

@stevedarnell8444

3 жыл бұрын

Not only should she have to pay him, sense she wrote his name down to get welfare she should also have to pay all of that money back.

I will never understand why a DNA test is not required before they issue child support to anyone.

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

Agree, it makes no sense otherwise. Heck of a mistake to make when she had decades to put this right.

@UpWitsEnd

3 жыл бұрын

Well technically when the mother filled out that paperwork the father was supposed to come to court and prove whether he was or wasn’t the father but was in jail.But I’m not sure I think they do that also because some people know they are the father and will avoid courts so that there is no DNA testing on file because I have heard of men who think as long as it’s not proven DNA that there’s a father they don’t have to pay for a child that they know is their’s

@rhondakendrick2563

3 жыл бұрын

b curse they can get away with ti u can due FRAUD AND THEY DON`T CARE

@imshaunnurse

3 жыл бұрын

@@UpWitsEnd that's not the case in this situation that's why he was fighting this in court

@chevon1920

3 жыл бұрын

That would make sense. For men who refuse the dna test they would have to pay until they take it.

“Automatically set as the father” that’s the most fucked up part, this can happen to any man 🤧

@ChavoMysterio

7 ай бұрын

Even a gay man.

Imagine a woman forced to pay for a child that isn't hers.

@kuunami

3 жыл бұрын

That would never happen because in our feminist society women are the only ones considered human while men are looked at as walking toxic ATMs who only exist to subsidize the female lifestyle.

@scarlettsibis5351

3 жыл бұрын

@@kuunami probably will never happen because the child came directly from her???

@edwardgaines6561

3 жыл бұрын

@@kuunami Women only get away with what men allow. Men have allowed 3 waves of feminism, and 3 generations of single motherhood. Not to mention the 19th amendment.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

@gobot581

Жыл бұрын

@@scarlettsibis5351 nope doesn't matter with the marital laws if as a man you go sleep around you should be able to get child support from your wife or ex wife even if it isn't there's it's a one sided law because even with paternity proof they are still forcing some men

“Dad by default.” That is the most bizarre terminology I’ve ever heard.

@sueann9065

3 жыл бұрын

In most States, Married men are also dad by default to any child born from his wife during marriage even when the child isn't his.

@chrishansen9102

3 жыл бұрын

@@sueann9065 this feels like an absolute win to women who want to leech off of men

@sueann9065

3 жыл бұрын

@@chrishansen9102 It's sad to me. I couldn't in good conscience be apart of the bullcrap rather it benefits my gender. Hopefully those laws will be changed. Women who enjoy gender bias in the family court system don't think about how the gender bias will affect their sons and other male family members.

@DeathBringer769

3 жыл бұрын

@Deplorable_Brian "Certain period of time" always seems like BS though. If it's not your kid, it's never going to be your kid no matter how long you wait. A DNA test even 20 years later should still exonerate since it's still the truth. Sometimes statutes of limitations I understand, but other times they just seem stupid to me in other cases. Courts are there, as the point of their whole existence in the first place (at least in theory), to seek truth and justice, right? The truth doesn't change just because you "waited too long" and the system doesn't want to bother anymore.

@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki

3 жыл бұрын

@@DeathBringer769 An LA law professor told me decades ago "Society guards it's negative back doors". Look at Labour Law or Human Rights: you have DAYS to appeal when the case filed took months, or even years to build. You have ten days to appeal, to find out and PROVE with paperwork your Union set you up, cut a back door deal, just to protect their control. It had nothing to do with anything but control. Law? No. You have seven years to file a claim against banks the Trust companies. I didn't find out for twenty years until dad passed on, and I saw the paperwork. Who does that protect? the Banks. Mom is OUT a million US in cash twenty years ago. Too late, protect those who already have the power.

He should get back pay from that deadbeat judge.

@marc-andreservant201

3 жыл бұрын

Usually if your civil rights are violated by the court you sue the "State of ...", not the individual judge. Judges have immunity for their decisions, so your lawsuit against the judge will get thrown out.

@peterrivney552

3 жыл бұрын

At least from the state or since it is a state judge then the state can go after the mother why should he suffer any more becouse someone else lied they proved his inicent now the state should pay him back and the state job to get the money from the dead beat mother. Wash your hands clean man it's always the man's fault bull sh 💩 there are dead beat mother's out there as well this is a perfect example ...time for the goverment officeals to do what's right.

@nispelsm

3 жыл бұрын

@WhyAmIWearing ARedShirt As far as I am concerned, the mother committed Fraud when she knowingly and falsely claimed he was the father. She should be put in jail and lose custody of her child

@onlythewise1

3 жыл бұрын

@@marc-andreservant201 no judge should be removed . and maybe other things to

@onlythewise1

3 жыл бұрын

@@peterrivney552 bad courts are always doing bad things cause people do nothing , other lawyers know this and call them as- holes

Mom, judge, and all the people who were involved should pay TRIPLE for all the crap he had to go through.

@jonetyson

2 жыл бұрын

It is the judge that is really at fault here. Promiscuous women have trouble naming the correct fathers all the time, but the legal confusion should have ended the instant the DNA test came back.

Not only should the judge & the lying deadbeat “mother” have to pay every single dime back to that man but that cop that called him a deadbeat should be sued for defamation of character for calling him that!! Just because a person doesn’t have money doesn’t make them a “deadbeat”! That term deadbeat makes me sick to no end!!!

@irimac1806

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Deadbeat parents to me are those who dont care avout the child (bailing in certain cases), neglect the child to a dangerous extent or are abusing their or other children.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

26 years?! That "child" stopped being a child 8 years before and the mother should be investigated for potential fraud by claiming that he was the father.

@jamesfarina7247

3 жыл бұрын

I was wondering the same thing. How the hell do they keep taking money after the kid turns 18? Why wouldn't he have gone to the courts then instead of waiting 8 more years?

@adri9974

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesfarina7247 was more than likely back child support. If you don't pay it just piles up then you have to pay interest on top of it.

@beechrgrad88

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesfarina7247 Michigan charges interest on any child support in the arrears.

@Just_janee_

3 жыл бұрын

In most states if the child is special needs or go to college you are still responsible for the child cost

@ErikaLaGrande

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesfarina7247 what happens is that the mother went on welfare and listed him as the father. Then the state pays the welfare benefits and the D.A. goes after the “father” to get the money. Once there is an order in place, ALL the non payment of support can be taken even after the child turns 18. It stops accumulating at 18, but the back support still has to be paid. My mom had a friend that had to pay 18 years of child support for a kid he didn’t even know he had. He got some girl at a party pregnant when he was 18 and never knew. Somehow, he was found when he was in his 50s and was ordered to pay back all the money that the mother received in welfare benefits.

Arrest the mother for filing a false claim. She is the one responsible

@fredajordan5704

3 жыл бұрын

Kim Jones. Absolutely. And she needs to pay every single Dollar back to the man that she shamelessly lied to.

@VogtTD

3 жыл бұрын

@@fredajordan5704 The state is culpuble as well.

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

@@VogtTD Agreed, the state has all the resources to pursue the real father. Too harsh on the child tho' to imprison their mom. Besides, she can work to repay him.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

@@FurnitureFan they didn't have a problem locking him up the resources wouldn't be revantlent n this case if she wouldn't falsely accused him resources should be warrant wen it's legit not on lies I'm sure there are women would really need the resources legitimately as opposed to false accusations

@SanaSamaha

3 жыл бұрын

@@FurnitureFan After 26 years, that child is already an adult. Mom can serve jail time without affecting the "child" too badly.

Why was that judge not reprimanded? why is the women still not punished? WTF IS UP WITH THIS DISGUSTING LEGISLATURE!!!!!!!!

DNA testing should be mandatory for every child, for the child's sake. They have a right to know their true father.

@vanessaamesty6739

3 жыл бұрын

also, that would help to built a data base if the child goes missing...

@awestruck9075

3 жыл бұрын

@@vanessaamesty6739 ....or future health issues that they may develop.

Glad that lawyer stuck up for him. Not only to save his life but to set a precedence for the court

@nordicwarrior2176

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah if it wasn't for the tv news the lawyer would have not gotten envolved

@nothinspecial893

3 жыл бұрын

The judge is an idiot

@aengusog3415

3 жыл бұрын

@@andough9753 not the incels Chile-

@nicewholesomeandpure5165

3 жыл бұрын

@@aengusog3415 English?

@bobhoffman5581

3 жыл бұрын

Precedent...

In 2021, nobody should pay support for a kid until paternity is confirmed by DNA..

@akmd114379

3 жыл бұрын

How about this, no estranged father should pay more than the child's expenses per month including half baby sitter/ day care time. The mother also has to provide receipts for expenses and be subject to a DNA test.

@fex144

3 жыл бұрын

@ So you think equality and justice is a bad thing?

@mrnuna4793

3 жыл бұрын

@@akmd114379 yeah it would be lovely if they were check and balances for child support. I can't stand that the more a man makes the more the child support agency entitles them self to your money. That means you can never grow as a person and you can never do better. Even though your child is fine and has everything they need , there needs to be cap on child support because a child only cost so much the rest of it goes straight to Mommy's pocket.... it's like this if you get a raise at work or you just get a new job that pays a lot better then that bitter ass female can take you to court and get more money from you simply because you're not making more. So you might as well just stay at the job you're at until your kid is 18. That's ridiculous right? It's like this, if you get a new job does your mortgage payment go up? How about your cell phone bill? Or any other bills for that matter? No so why the fuck that does child support go up simply because you have done better and work harder in life? Men have killed themselves over this shit

@johndoee7836

3 жыл бұрын

@@fex144 if a woman can choose to abort a baby without the father's consent then a father should be able to opt out of child support if he chooses. In my opinion

@maribart4237

3 жыл бұрын

@ yep. As you can see he was called a “deadbeat “ to a damn kid that wasn’t even his.

Imagine if a man did this to a women. Doubt it would take 26 years for the courts to fix this 🤷.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

The amount of people trying to deflect guilt on that PoS who lied about him being the father is disgusting.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

The woman should be arrested for falsely naming him as the father.

@popcorn8153

3 жыл бұрын

you think that would actually happen? The law sucks

@nicewholesomeandpure5165

3 жыл бұрын

@@popcorn8153 They said "should be" not "will be".

@luciavaughn3793

3 жыл бұрын

Some serious time in prison for her would be lovely.

@bobhoffman5581

3 жыл бұрын

She was likely intimate with more than one man, and it was just a guess on her part...

@nicewholesomeandpure5165

3 жыл бұрын

@@bobhoffman5581 Yeah...?

So sick of women being able to say anything, ruin a man’s life, and get away with it with ZERO consequences

@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley

3 жыл бұрын

As I woman, I agree. Same for false rape allegations as it hurts the rest who have legitimate sexual assault cases but are dismissed. If there's proven evidence of lying, there needs to be a punishment to deter this.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately that's reality for a blk man

@fredajordan5704

3 жыл бұрын

@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley So very true.

@fredajordan5704

3 жыл бұрын

Monstercat 1181 I agree, this is a very shameful behaviour and it happens more than we can imagine...Men need to be careful who they jump into bed with, very careful.

@sharonott7513

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you and I AM a woman.

“He’s in court tomorrow to ask the judge to allow him to seek justice for his civil rights” lmfao

@CryptoDatabase

3 жыл бұрын

I ask no man permission for justice, I provide my own like a good American.

"Where have the good men gone?" This and many other reasons is why men are walking away.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

And this is why it should become mandatory to have mandatory DNA test results of the parents and child on the birth certificate.

@darkstorminc

3 жыл бұрын

Don't think that matters in Michigan.

@verstumfung43

3 жыл бұрын

@JustAGuy InBensalem a former Co-Worker of mine was a PI on the side and he had a saying "Mamma's baby, Daddies Maybe".

@fredajordan5704

3 жыл бұрын

So very true.

@ErikaLaGrande

3 жыл бұрын

In California, if your not married the father has to sign a paternity declaration for his name to go on the birth certificate. If you are married, it’s automatic. If the father won’t sign, the mother has to go to court to get a paternity declaration and a dna test is usually asked for by the father. The problem in this mans case is that he missed the hearing. He says he was in jail so he should have been easy to serve. He probably didn’t know what to do.

@IAT1964

3 жыл бұрын

@@ErikaLaGrande there are a lot of ifs and buts. A law mandating a DNA test solves all this BS. Even for married couples.

Any woman that claims a man is her baby daddy should be forced to do a paternity test, this will save alot of heartache for the man and child involved

@juliancain3872

3 жыл бұрын

And If not, there should be a charge for paternity fraud.

@TekkLuthor

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand how none of these courts do it. It's common sense

@MajeedBelle

3 жыл бұрын

It won't happen because truth would come out that the vast majority of these women don't even know who they let bust a nut inside them in the system don't want to make even more single mothers than it is now.

@purewezzin9341

3 жыл бұрын

Who would pay for it? Healthcare for all?

This would have never happened in the UK and I am saying this from experience. After separation, my ex attempted to claim child maintenance for a child we both knew was not mine. I appealed it and the CSA requested a paternity test and I readily provided my DNA sample. She on the other declined to provide DNA for herself and the child.......and that was the end of story. I was also told that the CSA went after her for a full refund of the cost of the test. I remember sending her a short text message saying....'Nice try..byeeee'

We are all just going to ignore the fact that his ex-girlfriend lied on a government form too?

@jonetyson

2 жыл бұрын

The form evidently wasn't long enough to list all the potential fathers. :P

So when does the mother who lied to the courts and cause very real legal injury to this man get to pay for her crime?

@SmallSpoonBrigade

3 жыл бұрын

She probably won't. We don't hold women accountable for much of anything in this country. Especially when it comes to kids. Judges and medical personnel will look the other way, even when they know ther kid couldn't possibly be his.

@fuggoff5277

3 жыл бұрын

You are a Mysogonist

@Jw-no7id

3 жыл бұрын

@@fuggoff5277 Such an eloquent and well presented argument.

@irimac1806

3 жыл бұрын

@@SmallSpoonBrigade Its even worse when the mother abuses the child/ren and the father or anyone else trys to get custody and actually could provide a better live. But CPS and the courts dont do that bc taking away the child from the mother would be to cruel o_O -.-

@jonetyson

2 жыл бұрын

The form probably wasn't long enough for her to name all the potential fathers.

You can’t just declare somebody a father because a woman says he is that is highly illegal.

@nordicwarrior2176

3 жыл бұрын

Tell that to the court systems. They seem to be alright with it.

@damonmachado2077

3 жыл бұрын

They do it all the time. I've had PTSD since I got back from the Gulf War in 1991. I was basically unemployed and homeless until I was finally diagnosed with PTSD in 2015. In 2007 my EX got a default judgment against me for child support. she gave them my paystubs from a job I'd had in 1998 for one summer. I didn't even know about it until my license got suspended and I found out I already owed about 30,000$ in arrears. I now owe 150000 in arrears and I can't get a license. I have 5 boys, I have to drive or my wife would never rest. I will likely never drive legally again.

@nordicwarrior2176

3 жыл бұрын

@@damonmachado2077 crazy but true

@Jw-no7id

3 жыл бұрын

The court is satisfied with sending correspondence to the last known address and proceeding with court cases if you don't show up. That's within the law. The biggest culprit here is the woman who said he's the father, not the court for believing her. Where the court starts being at fault is when he was able to show up in court to defend himself. Unfortunately it sounds like the timing of all of this is when DNA testing wasn't specific enough to definitively say if it was his or not. One big issue not covered in this story is the mother who lied to the court and caused this man significant legal injury in the process.

@myahill7475

3 жыл бұрын

Child abandonment by absentee fathers is a problem within society so the court system tried to find a way to handle this issue but of course they abused an innocent man in the mist of things. I wonder how many others were and are abused...

When you knowingly LIE and FORCE someone to pay for Child Support , YOU should be FORCED to pay the man back when he isn't the Father and you knew it.

This is just one more way the family court system abuses men.

Wait a minute... He has to get permission from a judge to sue??? That's some serious BS!

That speaks volumes about the American justice system, how can you be deemed a dad by default, absolute madness, you either are the father or you are not the father.....

Deadbeat father to a child that does not belong to him and he has only met once and didn't really talked to...? Wtf is this...

@CheekoLFreako

3 жыл бұрын

Democrats for you. (This is coming from one )

@WalkerOne

3 жыл бұрын

Social justice

@Danko_Sekulic

3 жыл бұрын

You cannot possibly be a deadbeat father , if you are NOT the father in the first place.

@lanceknightmare

3 жыл бұрын

@@CheekoLFreako I am a Democrat, you are an idiot who votes Democrat.

@markmeade2937

3 жыл бұрын

The reality of our current lunatic world

He should sue the state and get triple damages! They took a portion of his life and lively hood away, he deserves nothing less. The woman deserves jail time for fraud.

Everyone everywhere, start to list all Judges in your area as the father/mother of your child.

@simpsonservices6463

3 жыл бұрын

yep if the state wants to play that game do it and watch how fast they will fix the law

@-BuddyGuy

3 жыл бұрын

A simple, practical idea

@mrnuna4793

3 жыл бұрын

LOL that's kind of a good idea, but you'd get hit with fraud real quick.

@blakewright4786

3 жыл бұрын

Leave out the 'mother' bit. Only fathers get listed lol

sue to everything, the costs the amount paid and interest on the money and all the suffering

How is woman not charged with Fraud?!?

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

Here's the trick the fraud was committed against him and not them wat did the system loose nothing so that's why she want be charged

@sabin97

3 жыл бұрын

when the victim is male, it's generally not considered a crime.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

@@sabin97 u said it a male

Daddy by default?! Now that's some BS!

@KNByam

3 жыл бұрын

I've seen this story before years ago, I believe what happened was the baby mama needed a father's name in order to collect benefits so she just put his name down, she knew he was not the father but she just needed a name, but she didn't know this would happen to him.

@fitrianhidayat

3 жыл бұрын

@@KNByam did she collect his money nonetheless?

@KNByam

3 жыл бұрын

@@fitrianhidayat Yes but some states what happens is the government gives the money and the state collects child support as reimbursement. But she obviously never tried to rectify it.

@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki

3 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Powell sounds convenient for govt. on many levels: welfare, courts, and then make the guy unemployable, and then screw him again. Half a century to fix??? Even Canada "bought into" this game.

@mrnuna4793

3 жыл бұрын

@@KNByam brother that's all states. It's called title IV-D of the Social Security Act.

One man finally getting a fair shake in family court. One small victory, one giant step. Keep up the good fight, men! There can be victory at last.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

Thank God he got some help and I pray he wins this lawsuit as well. The woman involved definitely needs to be held accountable for wrecking this mans life! 26 years! Unbelievable!! Basically she was stealing from him. I hope her kid grows up with a bit more integrity than she has!

@nordicwarrior2176

3 жыл бұрын

Most definitely God Bless that lawyer INDEFINITELY!!!!! But also the TV News because if it wasn't for them the attorney would have never heard about the case.

@user-vm5ud4xw6n

3 жыл бұрын

@@nordicwarrior2176 you are so right about that. It was a terrible thing to hear but at the same time a good thing.

@MrBrachiatingApe

3 жыл бұрын

@mark tamayo It's still there because the billions of annual donations and tax dollars still flow in. All those gender studies degrees gotta earn a living to pay down their student debt somehow.

@user-vm5ud4xw6n

3 жыл бұрын

@mark tamayo try telling that to a woman who’s been raped, gets pregnant and then some judge awards her attacker visitation rights thereby forcing her to see this person on a regular basis and taking away any chance she might have for healing. It also forces that child to understand that his father once assaulted his mother and thats how they were conceived. Or maybe a woman is accused of consenting to the assault because she tells someone who is getting ready to assault her to put a condom on so she doesn’t get an STD. At one time even hospitals didn’t believe a woman if she said she was raped. Some police still don’t. Sure makes me feel protected. I might also add young girls in the foster system who are often repeatedly assaulted by so called “foster parents.” Women’s Rights are protected but there are still some disparities.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

She want look who's involved a blk man remember this is the same system who imprison blk men 4 crimes they don't commit

That deadbeat judge that ordered child support, should back pay this man out of her own pocket along with the mother and the father of the child

@CringeDealer69

3 жыл бұрын

*her own pocket.

@jamesteiwimate172

3 жыл бұрын

@@CringeDealer69 thank you for your correction👍

@klopcodez

3 жыл бұрын

I bet she made him pay because he had more money and dint want him around..while getting ran through by the actual dad and others that she really want..such sickness and evil cannot be forgiven..or go unpunished but sometimes God knows better perhaps protecting this Child, and who knows..as long as everyone is happy in the end and guy is paid money from the state..let’s even face it the states takes too much taxes from people anyways.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

The mother needs to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. She needs to be sued in civil court as well. The court that would not listen to reason needs to be held legally and financially accountable

The judge needs to be fired.

I would hurt people if I was this man over this crap. Good on him for being a bigger person.

I’m praying this man WIN that lawsuit! It’s asinine to demand anyone pay for something they are not responsible for. I’ll be praying for this man!

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

Sue the state, and repay him back for 26 years

I avoided all of this. I had my vasectomy at 27. Even after that I was told I got someone pregnant. The joke was on her. I'm nobody's meal ticket.

Innocent til proven guilty huh? What a pile of horseshit! Even after the DNA test proved he wasn't the father, the judge said, oh no, you still have to pay.

@davidcass4958

3 жыл бұрын

Judge should go to prison

Smh. Men are treated like crap in the family court system.

@SignOfTheTimes008

3 жыл бұрын

Its true. More women need to speak up about it, men can't change this.

@sueann9065

3 жыл бұрын

@@SignOfTheTimes008 I agree that more women should speak about gender bias in the family court system. I disagree that men are powerless to change anything. The majority of law makers (Senate and House) are men. I hope that feminist lawmakers don't block laws that change gender bias against men. Have you ever disputed a feminist? You can explain everything fully and they'll still disregard what you say because it's not beneficial to women.

@SignOfTheTimes008

3 жыл бұрын

@@sueann9065 There are guys out there fighting to change it and no one listens to them. And with woke sjws trying to shut them up its even harder. If those in power were brave and gave a shit, maybe it would be fixed

@sueann9065

3 жыл бұрын

@@SignOfTheTimes008 I agree and don't doubt that there are men fighting to change it. I also know that females like me are also fighting to change it. The majority of lawmakers are men and i don't understand why those men aren't doing anything about it when they have the majority vote. The majority vote is why im saying men aren't powerless to change this.

@SignOfTheTimes008

3 жыл бұрын

@@sueann9065 Probably too many traditionalists or something. Hard to say. I think in time it will start to change. Glad they're are females out there trying to change it.

There should be no such thing as "Dad by DEFAULT" --doesn't even make logical sense

Just a shame this happened to this man; I hope he wins a State and Federal lawsuit for forcing him to take care of a child that wasn't his child.

Lying mother should have to return all of the money they took from him. This started with her lie.

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

I seriously doubt she has money. Better to repay that man his money outright and then deal with her issues. Legally they pursued the wrong man, why should he suffer? I mean it was the court's mistake that they sought the wrong person.

@libertyordeath8338

3 жыл бұрын

@@FurnitureFan she sent them after him, they should be dealt with, but she is the source.

So, is he gonna be able to claim back all the money the mother got? And is she going to have any kind of punishment for fraudulantly taking his money?

@TheGuruStud

3 жыл бұрын

You're funny

@mariatheresavonhabsburg

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheGuruStud Why do you say that? It isn't called a justice system for nothing.

@aardvarkbiscuit2677

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariatheresavonhabsburg - He said it because every man here knows the only way that would happen is if he paid expensive lawyers and then the deadbeat mother would pay $5 a month coz she's so broke.

@wadestanton

2 жыл бұрын

The state takes the money where I live in the US

How could the judge get away with this?

That's a "GoFundMe" I can probably get behind. They didn't even give the man lube when they stuck it to him.

So actual deadbeat dads weave the system for years avoiding to pay, and this man was forced to pay for 26 years? How? And the judge knew there was no bio connected. How do they explain that?

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

Easy he's blk

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

I guess because he had a jailable offence once, he would be reluctant to speak up for his right to justice. Who wouldn't be wary after his experience? I hope he gets some justice here.

Hope the woman who said he was the dad gets a term in prison....or at tge least publicly named.

WTF. 26 YEARS OF child Support for a child that wasn't his????sue EVERY DAMN BODY!!! What about the female that lied and just put his name down as the father, knowing good and DAMN well that the child wasn't his??

So, what was the eventual outcome of this, seeing as how it was posted 4yrs ago..?!

The mom should face fraud charges.

@tonymetzger6769

3 жыл бұрын

She should but god knows that will never happen

@wadestanton

2 жыл бұрын

@@tonymetzger6769 That's why the state collects the money where I live in the US

so 4 years after this video was posted - how did it play out? Did the money hungry mom go to jail/pay him back? i feel for this man!

@CathyGoes

3 жыл бұрын

The suit against the state was dismissed. I don't know if he ever sued the woman.

@purewezzin9341

3 жыл бұрын

Just looked it up. He’s still owns the 30k even tho, he’s not the father. Based on the law written in 1950 something. That’s he was the supporter of the child for too long for anyone else to become the main supporters

@purewezzin9341

3 жыл бұрын

Said he’s the father in all but dna. And denied his appeal

Now is the time to re lawyer up and sue the system for malpractice. The law was used as their personal weapon to confiscate money from him. Re Lawyer up and file a civil suit against that judge.

Why didn’t the mother get jailed for forgery!!! She admits to signing his name as father just so she could claim benefits.

It’s supposed to be a justice system, apparently with no little to no justice.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

The symbol tells me all I need to no blind folded&unbalance scale

@adamofblastworks1517

3 жыл бұрын

Well, it's not just this, but it certainly doesn't help.

Needs significant financial compensation. I can only imagine how it must feel to have that wrongful debt hanging over you for that many years.

I had the same thing happen to me. The system protects lying women and vilify honest hard working men.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

They should refund every single cent. And what about all the emotional distress? And that horrible woman should be in jail for perjury and fraud.

Men need to understand their rights and how the law works. A lot of men do not realise that if you marry a woman that already has children and then divorce her you could find yourself paying for those kids until they are 18. Once you take on parental duties even for a short period you are stuck with them. A lot of guys are shocked when this happens.

@l.a.french3063

3 жыл бұрын

That wasn't the case here.

@AnyoneCanSee

3 жыл бұрын

@@l.a.french3063 - Yes, I'm aware of that I was simply giving a much more common example of how a man can find himself legally obligated to pay child support for a child that is not his. In this case, he didn't go to the original court hearing as he did not receive the summons and was made the father of the child by the court. My point was that men need to be more aware of how the system works. Most men do not think that if they live with a woman for a few years that has children he might become liable to pay child support after the relationship breaks down until her children are 18. Once you take on a parental role you may find yourself liable.

@l.a.french3063

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnyoneCanSee Gotcha. I agree. When it comes to custody, child support, visitation etc., everything is stacked against the man. It's always best to make yourself aware how things work. Until the laws are changed however, men will continue to be victimized.

@UpWitsEnd

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnyoneCanSee that is so true what I was thinking I feel sorry for this man but there’s a lot of men who don’t follow the rules and think because a child is not theirs that they can just ignore it and they’re stuck in the same situations not showing up to court because you’re like it’s not my child not my problem

@centze3550

3 жыл бұрын

@@UpWitsEnd there’s ALOT of men that do that but the MAJORITY don’t

so how did it play out?

Who’s gonna pay him back for this! Outrageous!

They need to repay every penny back to this man.

Any man stuck paying child support has lost the ability to make a life fpr themselves

@tonymetzger6769

3 жыл бұрын

If the child is his he should and if the child was with him the mother should pay him if they child is not his no way in hell sho6he be forced to pay

@imposter0shadow

3 жыл бұрын

@@tonymetzger6769 let me stop you with that bs right here. If you're being an active part of your kids life and supporting your kids on your time then cs is a scam. Men are only being allowed to see their kids 4 days a month and yet are responsible for 60% of child care. No. Its a scam against fathers and keeps them in a financial bind for years while the mother makes out like a bandit

@tonymetzger6769

3 жыл бұрын

@@imposter0shadow usually there not in a part of their lives hence is why they pay child support if ur actively providing food clothes yeah I count that as child support but if you don't see ur kid or send money for food yeah you should pay the other for the kids needs

@imposter0shadow

3 жыл бұрын

@@tonymetzger6769 you obviously have no idea how the courts work and i hope you never have to. I agree if you arent providing then you should pay, but you have fathers who are actively trying to get a fair chance to raise their kids and being denied by the courts just to have the courts then make them pay a ridiculous amount of child support to the mother.

@tonymetzger6769

3 жыл бұрын

@@imposter0shadow oh ok I get what you mean wemon ask for high amounts of child support and refuse to let the father see there kids even when there try to be part if life I understand that one if that is what you ment and yeah 99% of all courts will take the moms side men get fu**ed up in court which sucks sometimes the kids r better off with the father tbh

That's because judges don't care. The system has no accountability. It's a mess and they are to lazy to make changes

I think she should be in jail for lying

It's about time they have some justice for the man when it comes to child support.

The simply fact is courts will label ANY man a woman claims as the father because without that the state them becomes the father and will have to pay to raise that child... Better to force a guy to pay rather then the government..

Go down to the welfare office and give out the names of judges and politicians (especially female ones) to be listed as the father on welfare applications.

You can fix alot of these problems by requiring paternity test before signing birth certificate or declaring someone has to pay child suport.

Absolutely disgusting. This poor man should be given something for his suffering.

When are the women who make these deliberate and false declarations on official documents going to be prosecuted and held accountable for the damage distress and slander of these mens characters they always get to walk away without consequences if they were held accountable for their actions they would think twice about lying on this paperwork

Should be a law that you need a paternity test before paying child support

How was he still paying child support for a grown ass man though? 26 years and he just now stopped paying? That makes zero sense.

All courts should be forced to comply with the empirical standards required for criminal justice court.

Wow... whats the argument?! The state/ court ought to reimburse this man. 26 yrs!!!

He should be reimbursed with interest for the money he was forced to pay by the state.

Get every dollar back they had taken, plus interest

All I want to know is… Did he get ALL his MONEY BACK?!? And why isn’t that woman charged🤷🏽‍♀️with anything.

Every bureaucrat, lawyer, judge and official involved with this injustice should be jailed and sued.

The judge drug it out cause she did the same thing herself to 4 different men...😂🤣😂🤣

@MrBrachiatingApe

3 жыл бұрын

What, really?

@stephendriscoll7549

3 жыл бұрын

These corrupt female judges should a) be sacked. b) be prosecuted. c) be imprisoned.

It came as no shock to me when the court docquet said Michigan on it. I have heard a lot of this happening in Michigan in the recent months.

This guys owed money. The woman needs to do time for the years he's suffered.

They should throw the people who violated his civil rights into prison for the same amount of time.

And they say, America is the land of the free.

The mother needs to go to jail for fraud, she clearly taking advantage of the government, I heard this case.

@ojivey8273

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of women know how to use the racial dynamics of the family court system to get benefits that they are not entitled to. Also, the family court system, in Detroit, is characterized by a lot of corruption, deflection, administrative incompetence, and judges who will blame the victim, whenever it become convenient, or to avoid setting a precedent. It is like shooting a man, then blaming the guy for getting in the way of the bullets.

Thank you for supporting him. He should sue and get his back if that is even possible.

This is ABSOLUTELY SHAMEFUL!! Over 26 years!

It is absolutely stunning to me that a judge can steal your money like this. They'll do this to husband's who find out that the kids aren't theirs even after a divorce. They say that this is in the best interest of the child! WTF!?! It is my best interest that the government give me back all the taxes they've wasted throughout my lifetime - let me know when that is going to happen.

@jefferyhartwell9102

3 жыл бұрын

Yup the best interest is its convenient 2let someone else pay and not them

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

But still, it was the court's error to pursue an innocent man. They should fix that and then deal with the mother over repayments. It shouldn't be his problem rn.

@UpWitsEnd

3 жыл бұрын

They only take money from husbands who find out the kids aren’t theirs because by being married to that person you take the legal responsibility of the child so you have to go to court to get yourself taken off because it’s the same as someone marry someone and their step child can become their child now.

@UpWitsEnd

3 жыл бұрын

@Rose Roberson not defending, only thing I did was explain the rules that happen when it comes to rights to a child through marriage also nothing disgusting about a stepparent stepping up and taking responsibilities for a child that they married into I was just putting into context some details On a small aspect of family court. Reading comprehension would be good before writing a comment I was just adding this because a lot of people seem to be throwing all the blame on this woman without knowing how the Family Court systems operate

@dhamin8168

3 жыл бұрын

@@UpWitsEnd Was he even married to her? There was nothing stated in the video about his relationship with the mother

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@thelasttimeitried

3 жыл бұрын

Because they were locked in jail when you got knocked up?

That woman should be jailed fined and shamed. 26years. OMG

The fact that a woman can list anyone she wants as father is yet another example of how we live in a gynocentric world, NOT a patriarchy.

@offilawnoone9020

3 жыл бұрын

we live in a world of weak beta male cuckolds.

He definitely should sue the state and get all his money back and then some