Hmm, a person reading extremely fast during a presentation indicates that he/she is bored and simply wants to get through the mundane task.

@derekbanas

7 жыл бұрын

Back when I made this video KZread had a max length of 8 minutes for videos. That is why I was forced to talk so fast. Sorry if you didn't like it

@SebastianPappG

7 жыл бұрын

Even if is from 2010 and you are talking fast, I like the style, it's a good presentation, congrats !

@TzaRider

7 жыл бұрын

I think its perfect

@MarkovXtreme

5 жыл бұрын

Do 2 videos then

@0213mrdinero

5 жыл бұрын

Antlerbob it’s a lot of information for me if he went slow I would become uninterested. But speaking faster keeps me engaged in what he is saying.

USE ILLUSTRATIONS INSTEAD OF JUST EXT

You're very welcome :) Thanks for taking the time to say you liked it. I appreciate that

You are correct. People expose the soft parts of their body towards the people they prefer or feel safe towards..

Some visuals would've made it way easier. Hard to visualise with some of the descriptions you used.

This is the best body language tutorial I've seen yet! Good job Derek!

@derekbanas

8 жыл бұрын

+Justin Short Thank you :)

@Suntro

6 жыл бұрын

This is hardly a tutorial. It's incredibly basic and outdated. The majority of what's shown here as well as Vanessa Van Edward's content are irrelevant.

Thank you :) I do my best to cover original stuff. I'm glad you like it

Thank you :) I'm very happy that you enjoyed them

might be troublesome but I wish there was some photos to represent what movements are which, it can be quite confusing for me

I like it but can you use visual examples in the future please.

Thank you :) Im glad you liked it.

You're very welcome :) Thanks for the nice compliment

Nice to see someone talking my comfortable speed, hard to find people like you these days

@derekbanas

7 жыл бұрын

I do my best to not waste time

@SebSharma

7 жыл бұрын

Derek Banas Same

Simple and very informative, but pictures are needed!

You have no idea how much I appreciate the fact that people enjoy these videos. I remember the days when I made a video and only 10 people would watch it. It is very gratifying to have people that enjoy them :)

Most people aren't aware of the amount of manipulation that surrounds us including both psychological and physical. I use these techniques to avoid being manipulated, which it sounds like is exactly what you did. Good for you :)

after reading numerous books on body language and gestures I am not sure it pertains to everybody. one must factor in a persons culture and how they were raised. its very very subjective. I know whenever someone makes an observation about my mood or what I am feeling based on my body language, they are always wrong all of the time.

@dominichardy1845

7 жыл бұрын

agreed but nice to know how normal average people are and how they react to things

In the video it shows that "the knee points towards what you don't prefer", while he says "what you do prefer".

@derekbanas

10 жыл бұрын

The knee points towards what you don't prefer

@valeries9297

10 жыл бұрын

Derek Banas Oh, ok. Thank you!

@derekbanas

10 жыл бұрын

Valerie S No problem. Sorry about the mistake.

You're very welcome :) I'm glad you liked it

You're very kind to say so :) I very much enjoy making the videos and I'm amazed that people all over the world are watching them.

What the hell man, do you know everything? Nice video, congrats :)

Talk Slower please.

@4oeteemarco482

7 жыл бұрын

Hector Ortega on god i had to rewind so many times dude doesn't give us enough time to process what he's saying and jumps from subjet to subjet

@Gkbdhmpj

7 жыл бұрын

That's a bit like Vsauce as well

Thank you :) I'm glad it saved you time and you found it useful

I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for the kind words :)

Great video,Very interesting, and if you go a little slow it will be much better to understand

@derekbanas

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you :) Sorry about the speed

This finally gives me an excuse to look at legs.

@derekbanas

7 жыл бұрын

That's funny :)

@alfazbinezaz6950

7 жыл бұрын

All hoot girls are hereeee => twitter.com/ca08c2b4ff607b5e2/status/801992405775826944 Gestures aaaand Body Languagee Tutorial

Thank you :) I'm glad you liked it

Yes I agree. I have commented numerous times here that base lining is extremely important. I think it is very important to practice these techniques on people before any judgements are made.

Good but it would be better with pictures

@derekbanas

8 жыл бұрын

Thank you :) Here it is with pictures and video kzread.info/dash/bejne/la56pKOLeMrWZps.html

Might be interesting, but I couldn't get past the several grammatical errors on the screen. Several incorrect uses of apostrophes for words that are simply plural, not possessive.

Thank you :) I love being one of the few people making fast videos

You're very welcome :) I'm glad you found it useful.

Why are you talking so fast?

@derekbanas

10 жыл бұрын

When i made this video KZread videos had a time limit

@oldsoul247

10 жыл бұрын

Derek Banas I like the fast pace everything else out there is too slow

@derekbanas

10 жыл бұрын

oldsoul247 I do my best to make original videos. I'm glad you enjoy them.

Im now a junior Derren Brown lmao

I learned all this stuff while employed by a marketing company. We read and tested pretty much every book we could find.

Thank you :) I'm glad you enjoyed it

you are so fast although your presentation is wow

@derekbanas

9 жыл бұрын

wambua nichodemus Thank you :)

It's just purely words no actual demonstration.I would suggest an actual demonstration on this video so that learning would really occur.

Yes absolutely. We are measuring discomfort. The goal is to see if the discomfort level increases after they answer a question

That is a great position because you are both open and aggressive while at the same time completely protected

great presentation but you are soo fast...makes it boring to listen to end

@1MAN4LYF

9 жыл бұрын

fauziya zubairu I agree, the information was interesting for the first 2 minutes.. Then fastly got boring and I lost interest in the monotone clip.

THIS THIGN SHOULD BE REMOVED WHAT IF ONE DAY ROBOTS OR ALIENS USE THIS TO MIMIC HUMAN BEHAVIOUR THIS IS BAFD omg

@derekbanas

9 жыл бұрын

***** That's funny :) Maybe they already have?

@TheiLame

9 жыл бұрын

we will never know!! O_O

@DaisiMaiOui

9 жыл бұрын

cuz that's not already happening 😎

@TheiLame

9 жыл бұрын

^ says the robot.

@Chill-rx2ot

9 жыл бұрын

***** is a robot and he is just saying those things so that no one will expect him

Yes which is a form of honesty. I think I need to cover this topic in more depth. You are all making fabulous points.

I agree. It is always important to baseline and not immediately judge someone

Went through everything too fast, and did not explain gestures in detail

I'm glad you enjoyed it :) You're very welcome

Thank you :) check out gestures and body language 2. It has tons of pictures. I plan on making more videos like this

Thank you :) Yes it completely changes the way you see other people. It almost made me feel like I was awake in a new way. If you combine this with knowledge on NLP it will really open up new doors. I'm very happy that you like it.

I redid this tutorial with tons of pictures based on your requests. Look for Gestures and Body Language 2 on my KZread channel. I hope you like it better :)

This video is perfect! The faster narration kept me engaged and the information is incredibly helpful. I will use a great number of these tips. Thanks!

Yes I live in Pittsburgh :) youTube used to enforce short videos, but I've kind of adapted to always cover a bunch of data into each video. I'm glad you liked it

The amount of knowledge that is available is amazing! I'm working on a few new psychology videos now on hypnotic storytelling. Ill put them out soon

You're very welcome :) I'm very happy to have helped

That is why people shouldn't make judgements based on one sign. These signs need to be looked at as a group. I agree with you.

Thank you :) Yes I spent a great deal of time testing what you can accomplish with NLP. It definitely provides an excellent set of skills. I'm amazed more people don't know about it.

That is an important point. You should never make judgements on just one sign. Look for a combination of signs before making judgements

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I'll take a look at the books you listed. I want only to provide the best information. I however always had trouble with eye dilation, tonal changes, changing weight distribution, etc. because they can't be analyzed without equipment and a very good eye. I'm no expert, but I was able to work with experts in a very large study. I learned a great deal while teaching machines to do this work. I'll research everything further

Thank you :) I definitely move fast in my videos

You are correct that judgements shouldn't be made based on just one sign. They should be looked at as a group. Your points further reenforce that

This is excellent information. It's so rare to see a detailed *and* accurate tutorial like this on youtube.

Thank you :) I improved on this in Gestures and Body Language 2. It is nothing but pictures

Great presentation. If it’s too fast, stop take notes, rewind. That’s the beauty of a video!

@derekbanas

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much :)

I'm very happy that the video has helped you :) Thank you for telling me.

Thank you very much :) I use KeyNote for Mac for my presentations. It is similar to powerpoint

Thank you :) Because of requests I received, I made another video called Gestures and Body Language 2 that is slower and has more pictures.

Thank you very much for the kind message :) The negative ones don't bother me

Thank you :) I always notice that the best actors use the proper eye accessing clues. Acting was one thing I could never do. I wish you the best

You're very welcome :) Once you learn this stuff you'll be able to communicate on a whole new level

Yes that is called mirroring. People mirror others that they like all of the time. It is very common and it happens naturally

Sure feel free to do that

I love how I have always been doing these gestures since i was young! Glad to watch your video! It showed me that there are terms,ways to improve, and develop more techniques that help in the art of conversation and persuasion.

@derekbanas

9 жыл бұрын

meowmeowmeowmeowmism Thank you :) Yes it is a very fascinating topic!

Thank you :) People do what they do because of about 30 decision making principles. I talk about them in other videos. They are all based of of past experiences. People normally do bad things when they have a very limited number of actions to pick from. I'm planning another video on this topic. Thanks for the request

I can only tell you what I experienced. I worked for a company that crafted sales presentations for phone and in person sales. We were lucky enough to test this theory with regular office managers in hundreds of locations. The subjects were unaware that they were being tested at the time. Over 80% of the managers found they could tell when someone was lying based on eye movements. This fell in line with research that found 85% of people move their eyes in certain ways when making decisions

Excellent video, I can tell you've done your research. I've taken many training classes for my profession and all of this was shown and spoken about at some point.

That is why it is very important to baseline and establish good rapport before you analyze someone

Thank you :) It is just an overly animated type of body language. They tend to have high self esteem and are easily excited

I vastly improved on this tutorial in Gestures and Body Language 2 because of input I received on this video

Thank you :) Yes I should have stated in the video that to get good at this you'll have to practice. I'm working on some practice videos now to help people. They'll be free of course.

There is so much great information here I stopped after about 5 minutes in just cuz I felt like I learned enough in that one moment. I will re watch this again.

@derekbanas

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you :) I'm very happy you liked it

Just apply it to yourself to help your family and others. Great post. Please keep it going. 5 STARS, Derek.

@derekbanas

9 жыл бұрын

Maxx Le Thank you :)

I do my best :) If you want to control the types of videos I make send me requests. People often ask why I seem to only make programming tutorials. It's because that's what I get requests for. If you want more psych tutorials ask for them and I'll do my best to deliver. Thanks for subscribing :)

Yes you are correct

That may be so? I learned that this is a technique one can use to make it feel as if they are maintaining eye contact without being intimidated by looking directly into another persons eyes

You're very welcome :) I've corrected my apostrophe use since then. I have a new video called Gestures and Body Language 2 on my KZread channel that has nothing but pictures. I hope that helps

Basically everyone is different. Chances are very great that you are not maintaining uncomfortable eye contact because if you did people would tell you. Also you are correct that comfortable eye contact is considered to be a good thing. You also don't need to worry about most of what is in this video because less then 1% of people are even aware of body language on a conscious level. Sorry about any confusion I may have created :)

Thank you :) KZread used to limit the length of my videos. That is why it is so fast

Here is Gestures and Body Language 2 : kzread.info/dash/bejne/la56pKOLeMrWZps.html It is much better

Wow, this is so great! Thanks for the fast recap on this. As you know, we can understand 500 words a minute and most people pick it up better at that rate. Really insightful, thanks again.

Trust what is written in the presentation. We turn the soft part of our body towards that which we feel is safer, or that which we prefer

You're very welcome :) thank you

This is a pretty good book that has a ton of pictures and is laid out pretty well The Definitive Book of Body Language.

Very good video, I love how much information you fit into 8 minutes. I have made a habit of watching this video each day so that I will remember all non verbals.

@derekbanas

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you :) I'm happy you enjoyed it and that you watched it many times.

People often laugh when they are nervous and are trying to break the tension. I always liked this sign because normally only nice people do this

Thank you very much :)

Thank you :) I have another video called gestures and body language 2 that is all pictures that you may prefer

You're very welcome :) Thank you for watching

AWESOME i'll check it out. So i was reading the comments and i noticed i'm not the only one who is having the fast speaking problem. Great youtube channel mate!

Here is Gestures and Body Language 2 : kzread.info/dash/bejne/la56pKOLeMrWZg.html­8 It is much better

I run a bunch of shopping carts online. I also am contracted to write custom programs for people that normally revolve around investing of one sort or another. I've also worked on a bunch of Android apps as a consultant. I used to be a programmer for Apple and worked as a stock broker and wrote advertising

I completely understand as a person that is not that comfortable with my looks. I don't know many people that think they are perfect :)